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That's funny, I was just shooting the breeze with the lady at the Target service desk earlier while returning something, and she explicitly said women are the most rude and hard to deal with for no reason.
/r/MensRights04/06/26 03:28 AM
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You're right, and that's a problem. We've had to sterilize so many things in order to hold women to the standards they want to hold us to, personally I wouldn't care which genders genitals are being grabbed in a "comical" way as long as the overarching "joke" lands. I understand that I can't tolerate either currently while men are holding women to their own standards, but I look forward to being able to laugh at anything and not have attempts at comedy needing to be demonized and things can be f…
/r/MensRights18/05/26 04:24 AM
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Yes. Jim Carrey sticking his face in that woman's boobs was funny in liar liar. I understand that we are trying to push for the same outage and treatment that women have been using since metoo in order to try to make things equal, I'm on board. Comedians have inarguably way worse content in their acts and it's hilarious to most people, I wouldn't mind if all mediums of comedy were allowed the same understanding.
/r/MensRights18/05/26 04:19 AM
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I was married, and have three young boys, and live alone in the house I bought with my then wife, half of the time I get my kids and half I have my dog. I still have to work full time plus time to make up money, so my personal additional baggage aside Honestly yeah it's hard for me. I love my kids more than anyone and they are what keep me going, but having three boys who all crave my attention every second I have them, it's exhausting, so when I can I'm sleeping at 7pm, and doing what I can to …
/r/MensRights30/04/26 03:44 AM
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I've been alive long enough to see times where life was easier as a man and easier as a woman. Right not being a good man is hard, there doesn't seem to be much payoff for doing it, no one notices how hard it is, and everyone else gets benefits and privilege. These are the times we need good men, and men who are okay saying they wish it was easier or wish they were female, but keep trying to make things better. It isn't fair man, but use your knowledge of things being unfair and try to change th…
/r/MensRights30/04/26 03:34 AM
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Which autistic man hurt you today brother
/r/MensRights21/04/26 11:15 AM
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You both might be stuck together for life it sounds like!
/r/MensRights20/04/26 09:09 PM
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How does your wife feel about being a wife?
/r/MensRights20/04/26 03:46 AM
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Good advice for men without children truly. Trust me if I could never hear from my ex or her new husband again, I would immediately do so. I have little men I'm raising though, and me suffering for a decade or two is worth ensuring they grow up to be good men. It's unfair the burden to be Good example of a man includes your silence during the most painful parts, but I know my kids will know their mom is a cheating bitch someday, but I also know telling them that right now is not what's best for …
/r/MensRights19/04/26 09:06 AM
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Think of equal in terms of rock paper scissors, each choice has the same power over another as well as one weakness. They are all different, but equal in terms of opportunities and failures. Now is this what feminists think equal means? Who knows. But it's a good goal imo that protects our differences.
/r/MensRights15/04/26 01:59 AM
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They pulled her show before it even aired because of it, do you think other studies or producers think she's valuable enough to look past it? Domestic abuse stuff tends to be poison for far more famous celebs, let alone some dumbass influencer.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/26 03:57 PM
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I don't think women hate happy men, but they have been conditioned their entire lives that men should worship them, while now, women are strong and independent and don't need men. It's really sad because it's destroying healthy relationships but only an ignorant fool would blame men for backing out of the deal now. I was cheated on, then divorced, and now have financial responsibility for decisions I has no choice in. It's a scam, work hard, provide, love, but if you aren't perfect or if someone…
/r/MensRights14/03/26 11:48 PM
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Sure that's true, what are you adding to the conversation with that?
/r/MensRights15/02/26 05:36 PM
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Was never that for me. It was always "this crazy bitch, I want to be done" and knew that a report or anything would just be more work and engagement with them. I've never felt judged for anything like that by male friends, they might suggest I like dicks if I order a salad, but they aren't making fun of us for real stuff.
/r/MensRights14/02/26 05:32 PM
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Most of us, unfortunately
/r/PussyPassDenied12/03/25 02:30 AM
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Most certainly. I'd consider that a failure on their part, and not mine, and while misrepresentations of my intent will always be hurtful on some level, I can't stop others from doing something malicious like that. I will sleep soundly knowing I extended abundant grace, and that's all I would like to receive, shitty people will behave shitly lol
/r/MensRights31/08/23 12:13 AM
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I agree. I'll still probably consider it "being critical of" rather than attack just, out of my personal preference. The end result I believe is the same though.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 11:51 PM
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This is true, words lose meaning when abused. What is also true, new words are simply manufactured when the need arises, and the cycle seems to just repeat.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 08:56 AM
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This breaks my heart. I don't hate feminists, I think they are wrong, but I could never hate someone for disagreeing. I do hate the way men are treated. It just, it makes me sad. Disappointed in people. Hurt. Even when we just want to be left alone and don't engage, we can't even get that. It just doesn't ever make sense.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 08:49 AM
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Oddly. Iirc , child abuse and murders are more likely to be committed by single mothers by a significant amount.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 07:26 AM
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All people have the capacity to be a shit head.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 07:12 AM
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This is a really healthy outlook. Men and women that have this mentality are vital to the future of both genders.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 03:48 AM
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Often they won't ever make the first move, and that's fine. If they have the expectation you have the responsibility and you don't feel comfortable, simply don't and excuse yourself from the potential relationship. I think it's a thin line here, and instead of focusing on the things that are unfair to men, we should still, in spite of the literal abuse many of us experience that gets dismissed, to think things like "if a person is interested in the other person, they ought to tell them". If you …
/r/MensRights30/08/23 03:44 AM
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First, I will never make an assumption about attempt because it's hurtful to both people. Second, you are very respectful and I LOVE heart felt discussions, so thank you. Personally, I don't invite someone into a conversation. Not anymore at least. If it's possible to be jaded and naive simultaneously, that's close. The last ten years have been especially strange in how I feel as a man, public opinion of men generally seems to sharply drop. Interactions with women or other men, had an public opi…
/r/MensRights30/08/23 02:52 AM
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I fully agree with you on that point and it really does make me sad.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 02:35 AM
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Oh I'm not passing judgement on you at all, just giving my opinion.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 11:48 PM
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No, it isn't comfortable to engage with any stranger, man or woman. I am very guarded personally, and I would see an attempt to start a conversation with another person without being invited, as a violation.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 11:01 PM
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I think there are always exceptions to the norm, and I can only speak from personal experience. My experience has been mostly like OP, other men don't tend to initiate a conversation even, but when it happens it's surface level to begin and incredibly respectful. Could be a calculated response or it could be a genuine thing, either way I feel respect and value. Now that I'm thinking about it, the instances of being DISRESPECTED at the start have decreased year over year for me. I'm not sure if i…
/r/MensRights29/08/23 10:53 PM
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I disagree on barking, or trying to get anything. I fully agree on being vocal and adamant. I don't want to "attack" and person or ideology, but I will stand my ground when attacked. The men's right movement is better than feminism for the fact we don't go on the offensive, if we start employing their tactics it would make me feel we are stooping. The right thing is never the easy thing.
/r/MensRights28/08/23 04:30 PM
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Bold of you to assume she isn't considered the "10" of the group.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/08/23 03:25 PM
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Beta energy.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 09:29 PM
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Underrated advice. Getting angry does nothing. Act in the correct way and let yourself be driven by that anger, but don't dwell on it. This movement won't succeed if we only react to injustice, we have to be proactive and attack ALL injustice. This is like comparing dick size to women comparing breast size. It shouldn't matter but it does. Fuckin kill me
/r/MensRights21/08/23 11:12 PM
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Yeah this is now accepted by the majority of society. I don't like the focus on how men are mistreated, I'd rather focus on what we can all do to achieve true equality.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 11:08 PM
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Lol. The hill. People being worried about something that isn't and hasn't happened is insane and I don't think about it.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 06:03 PM
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We've known all of these things... The problem isn't "surprising" findings, it's that the findings never result in actual attention or resources.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 01:19 AM
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Yeah weird it isnt encouraging anal by women but from heterosexual men instead.
/r/MensRights16/08/23 10:18 PM
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Scary that relatively large magazine company published this.
/r/MensRights15/08/23 01:49 AM
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Yes I noticed wherever my boys started crying or screaming I literally sprinted to them every time. Notice it now, my ex would usually yell first "what's wrong".
/r/MensRights15/08/23 01:30 AM
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Well said.
/r/MensRights14/08/23 11:27 PM
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This made me fucking laugh, North Korea, lol
/r/MensRights14/08/23 11:14 PM
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Damn I love to see self policing and aware comments, bravo!
/r/MensRights14/08/23 11:08 PM
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The "abused often become abusers" excuse was the straw for me. Complete ignorance to the abuse of boys and men. Boys getting raped by priests is still a joke to most of the world.
/r/MensRights11/08/23 03:40 AM
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Honestly. After divorce, sadly I believe most women enter a marriage with multiple exit strategies in mind.
/r/MensRights08/08/23 06:03 AM
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Kudos to you both. This sort of discussion is not just meaningful, but really enjoyable to see. Thanks for that!
/r/MensRights08/08/23 05:58 AM
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Look if those cucks want to do that, that's fine, their choice. But I'd expect the same respect for women who want to jump on trampolines on the man show. I care less about the action, and more about the difference in standards regarding those actions.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 04:20 PM
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Never have I ever thought or said someone's intelligence or success intimidated me. Now if someone only talks about their achievements, I might be tempted to lie and use that as an excuse to politely GTFO.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 07:54 PM
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Trust me, even for those of us with no dollars in their pocket. No motivation for the ex to do anything, gets low income housing, free healthcare for her and the kids, food stamps and EBT; they get punished if they work too much because they lose the benefits. It's so unbelievably broken.
/r/MensRights17/07/23 04:53 AM
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This has been my most frustrating experience. Court ordered direct deposit or delivery of funds. No accountability other than forcing me to provide the money. I asked my ex if I could give a grocery gift card because I decided to fill my prescriptions as a priority and got "no a grocery gift card would not be helpful". WTF? Groceries aren't helpful? No recourse other than a formal filing and if you are working you're fucked, if you're right, likely still fucked.
/r/MensRights17/07/23 04:48 AM
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This. My ex wife recently mentioned her debt to income ratio is affecting her credit (yeah the irony is overwhelming),I recommended... Working 40 hrs a week.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 10:07 PM
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Interestingly, I was asked to read men are waffles women are spaghetti many years ago to understand and appreciate our differences, now it's "how can we make waffles into spaghetti?"
/r/MensRights06/07/23 03:30 AM
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I'm envious of the energy. I'd have either complied, or left, and assumed a. I was in the wrong, and b. No one gives a shit about my feelings anyway learned to just not
/r/MensRights06/07/23 03:04 AM
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Hate to disagree, but I spent twelve months hoping my cheating ex wife would change her behavior or even feel bad. If they feel that are in the right, no amount of shaming or facts or anything will stand in their way.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 01:08 PM
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Same logic as "you're offended by being called racist or sexist, you must be guilty of it"
/r/MensRights31/05/23 12:56 PM
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Word industry twin bro! Didn't mean to offend, just amazed at the number of mammo specific centers. I get it and they are busy, and... Also usually higher paid than an mmt even. This industry is weird the last few years
/r/MensRights31/05/23 12:51 PM
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Women's imagining is a booming business. Entire specialty designed specifically to imagine breasts. Though I suppose the idea of getting my balls or prostate irradiated sounds less than ideal.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 12:41 PM
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I remember hearing an explanation "obviously we don't mean all men all trash we know good ones are out there, but if you're offended by this you're probably the one we mean"
/r/MensRights31/05/23 12:39 PM
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Hmmm. Seems like I may have to adjust my lifestyle, butt I'm seeing a lot of upsides..
/r/PussyPassDenied30/05/23 02:34 AM
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Well, over a certain age at least ;)
/r/MensRights29/05/23 05:21 AM
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I like his style. "Everyone else but me was streaming, it was bad" And why the fuck did they both bolt and shut their doors? Ngl I would be more focused on opening my kids door than shutting mine?
/r/MensRights28/05/23 04:00 AM
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If the result for the woman is the same if they felt or actually were threatened, it seems fair. I can't think of occurrences where a man said he felt threatened and there was any action taken.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 05:50 PM
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It's more like, if I said no to my wife more often she wouldn't have ended up in a hotel room having sex with other dudes and taking half of my stuff. I agree the opposite of shitty. Offered to try to work on it. To be understanding. She did it less than a week later again. So it's unfortunate that not being shitty results in punishments you can't control.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 03:57 PM
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I hate being punched in the mouth. I hate every time I have every thrown and hands in my life. Being punched in the mouth is lesson like the stove is hot. It comes from respect.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 10:42 PM
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Cheese and rice... I know there are a million examples worldwide of people treating each other like shit. I'm more aware than I feel capable of processing. Random and unrelated, does anyone know if there are statistics regarding bystander effect differences between or within groups? Off the top of my head I can admit if I saw a man getting beat up and a woman getting beat up, my instinct would be to help the woman. Once I have time to process logically I realize a "hey what the fuck is going on?…
/r/MensRights23/05/23 09:35 PM
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Agreed. I dislike talking ill of any person but I indeed feel like women can act like and any male reaction appropriate or not will be considered inappropriate. I recognize my perception is not impartial, I've been hurt by women and I interpret things differently, but my goodness... Without a man to protect her my ex wife threatened legal action anytime I said her requests were unreasonable and not in good faith. What the fuck kind of society gives a pass to being an asshole. It feels like a soc…
/r/MensRights23/05/23 08:46 PM
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I try to give only friendly waves and smiles at any time but instead I acted exasperated. I know how dang good it feels to get a smile and a wave in traffic, and how offensive kindness can be as well.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 08:39 PM
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Possibly. It's possible that men and women view what a suicide attempt actually is too, based on how they experience it. A woman might swallow a few sleeping pills and chug some wine and be intpret doing something dangerous while idealizing suicide, where as men tend to go for methods with a high success rate and it falls. I'm not even going to try to define or unpack the different scenarios or people or emotions at risk of diminishing anyone's experience. I'm also going to imagine men report at…
/r/MensRights23/05/23 03:41 PM
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Unrelated to the topic at hand, I really admire your use of "almost absolute certainty" and don't see it enough, because it doesn't exclude the possibly of outliers. Making logical points and leaving yourself space to be wrong is vital.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 03:17 PM
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Love this take. Very well said.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 02:26 PM
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Well, my experience is ranting is acceptable, but the minute someone says some bullshit the rest of the sub calls them the hell out.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 02:22 PM
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That's perfect. I appreciate anytime anyone doesn't vilify and actually attributes actions to ignorance instead of malice, and it helps that I agree.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 02:23 AM
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Thanks!
/r/MensRights21/05/23 03:30 PM
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With family coming out of the wood work to say "he wouldn't want to live like this pull the cord"
/r/MensRights21/05/23 02:54 PM
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Oh thanks for letting me know what's the proper phrase?
/r/MensRights21/05/23 02:52 PM
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I am an volcel by choice, after a woman convinced me of love and marriage and then had an affair and ruined my life. So because I know despite what the stove tells you it will burn you if you touch it, I get to receive all sorts of vicious attacks.
/r/MensRights21/05/23 12:42 PM
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I love how easily it's accepted that black males are simply more capable than white males in sports and have no issue affecting that majority, but if it comes to acknowledging any natural strengths men in general have especially white or Asian men, it's framed as a problem needing fixing.
/r/MensRights21/05/23 12:40 PM
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It amazes me that my friends used to piss on each other and throw dirt clods and made fun of each other growing up. Well never raped anyone, and I've had the ability to aggressively sob about life issues with them and be supported. Just raise your kids not to be dicks and if you focus on that you don't have to worry about all the little shit these people worry about, my kids get to be kids.
/r/MensRights21/05/23 12:31 PM
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This is the truth I'd take a step further, just watch who you are attracted to. Odds are if it's someone who personifies classic feminine sexuality, likes being pretty, etc , they are going to be attracted to you if you just own your masculinity. It's bullshit that women aren't supposed to say they want to be rescued or taken care of by a man, and men aren't supposed to be masculine.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 01:20 PM
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Well technically the men are dead so they aren't feeling the massive toll too. Poor women suffer alone
/r/MensRights30/03/23 03:06 PM
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Oh uh I know this one. Split custody, spousal support, and child support. But I can confirm if you aren't the one who cheats you at least don't get herpes.
/r/AntiFeminists09/01/23 11:51 PM
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I mean, who wouldn't want that out of their partner? It's not realistic and not fair to expect it, but it's okay to want it.
/r/AntiFeminists03/12/22 02:47 AM
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I apparently wasn't enough of a sex pest, so she had an affair. There is literally no winning.
/r/MensRights14/09/22 02:30 PM
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Same. Ten years. She decided she didn't feel valued, had an affair. Now going through the divorce, with three kids, so she can finally "have freedom". Love of my life, thought it was amazing, occasional problems but now I'm like, I will never ever trust another woman again. It simply isn't worth the risk.
/r/MensRights25/08/22 03:05 AM
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*grammar
/r/AntiFeminists30/03/22 12:54 AM
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Human resources tends to be more female heavy, so you are correct. In fact other male peers of mine have admitted they will select more female candidates in an effort to not be accused of sexism. If a male hires a male, they are sexist against females. If a male hires a female, it's because he wants to sleep with her. No winning.
/r/MensRights19/02/22 05:07 AM
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That sub is crazy. I went in expecting it to be about people choosing not to have children and the benefits, etc., but it ended up being just complaining about people who do have children.
/r/AntiFeminists30/12/21 04:32 PM
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Not just pussy pass denied but also bring famous(formerly lol) denied
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/21 10:53 PM
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I do. I disagree personally with the practice of it, but I fully respect that it falls under the right of body autonomy, at least until viability of the fetus.
/r/MensRights02/12/21 09:46 PM
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Respectfully I disagree overall. I agree the two situations are very different and have very unique parts. However the right to control your own body is a hard stop, no compromise subject, and both of those situations share that. Once we start trying to break each into segments and how they are different in the end or what, we lose the main focus that is the government trying to tell a individual what to do with their body. That should be the end of that discussion. Where we go from there is ope…
/r/MensRights02/12/21 08:38 PM
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I'm not sure you're using the term patriarchy correctly here. The laws don't favor men, in many cases they hurt men, so what we have is a system full of inconsistent and unequal law and application. Referring to it as a patriarchy implies men have some great inherent benefit from the current system, which is simply not the case. Unequal positively in some areas, yes, unequal negatively in some areas, yes. I think you understand the system is broken against everyone and we all need to fight for e…
/r/MensRights02/12/21 08:33 PM
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As soon as they support a birth control mandate I'll support a vaccine mandate (just kidding both are terrible), because both affect the lives of others
/r/MensRights02/12/21 06:18 PM
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This is so frustrating. The pro choice crowd yells that they have a right to body autonomy as a 14A right. People against vaccine mandate say the same thing, and are attacked because "the vaccine mandate affects other people". Meanwhile men are forced to sacrifice their liberty to pay child support for a child maybe they didn't want. I'm still failing to see how any restriction on abortion is oppression on women, when men have literally no option in the case of unwanted pregnancy. Men have the f…
/r/MensRights02/12/21 06:15 PM
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I'm a husky boy.
/r/MensRights02/12/21 02:04 PM
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Sounds like Mike has been irritating him.
/r/AntiFeminists17/12/20 02:34 PM
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Literally the fact only fans exists. Try telling me how a male can make six figures taking pictures of his body at home. And how even if it was possible, why he would get ridiculed and not empowered
/r/AntiFeminists06/11/20 05:08 AM
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I can already see the reddit admins arming their social justice hammers to protect this injustice..
/r/AntiFeminists10/07/20 01:11 AM
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Don't fuck with me, not you. Don't do this to me man.
/r/MensRights07/06/20 02:53 AM
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Ironic, we do bring "insight" to the hate directed at us from them.
/r/MensRights06/06/20 03:28 AM
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I think you found the deep seeded cause. Height is 100% hereditary and deep down people are thinking about procreation, therefore, discriminate against genes rather than choices for their own selfishness.
/r/MensRights17/11/19 01:51 AM
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