cloudpatterns Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Red Pill Men & Cluster B Ah understood. Thanks for responding.	/r/ExRedPill	20/02/26 02:48 AM
1	Red Pill Men & Cluster B My ex, a woman with BPD/NPD traits, fell into the red pill before she blew up our relationship. How did you find it helped you to get them to endlessly meet your needs? I was basically a slave by the end of the relationship, with her telling me and everyone else I wasn't doing enough for her, and so I deserved all the abuse and cheating. Kept using gender expectations to shame me into whatever she wanted me to do. Might help me to hear how it was useful in controlling people, to understand how I…	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/26 11:09 PM
1	I saw a video of a woman saying she wants a tall, handsome, rich boyfriend. It really touched me. Yeah, agreed. Nothing wrong with preferences. But saying, "I want a tall, handsome, rich boyfriend" reeks of immaturity to me. I think redheads are beautiful, but it would just seem odd and immature if I actually said, "I am looking for a partner with red hair." It's sort of fetishizing. I'm in really good shape, but if a potential partner said, "I want someone with arms like you have," I'd be turned off. Because then it's not about ME, it's about some trait that could go away anytime due to cir…	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/26 06:31 PM
1	I saw a video of a woman saying she wants a tall, handsome, rich boyfriend. It really touched me. It kinda shows where your priorities lie. I mean, I want a partner I'm attracted to, on the same page as me, etc. It's directional. It's not, "I would like blonde, big breasts, submissive personality." That's just incredibly specific, isn't it?	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/26 03:57 AM
8	I think I finally (as a woman) cracked red pill… I think the red pill's core / main fallacy is the belief that either party is "THE PRIZE." "The woman THINKS she's the prize, so we have to fight back! No WE'RE the prize!" Female red pill stuff is the same way, in the other direction. It sounds like 2 toddlers screaming "No I'M the prize!" at each other. The prize is love and connection. The prize is each other. Everybody's the prize. Nobody's the prize. Red pill men would put down any woman that is "above" them in any way, because in this wo…	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/26 03:54 AM
1	What got you into red pill? Simple but one of the kindest things anyone has said. Thank you.	/r/ExRedPill	17/02/26 06:26 PM
3	What got you into red pill? My ex-girlfriend got redpilled after Covid, suddenly decided that I was a terrible partner because I didn't have a protect and provide mindset or traditionally masculine, and I was keeping her out of her divine feminine, wanted to be with a "daddy." Had never expressed any desire for those things in 11 years together. Cheated a lot and blew up both of our lives. So it was kinda hard to get it out of my head after losing everything to it, while most social media screams at you that it's the tru…	/r/ExRedPill	13/02/26 03:30 AM
1	Help, I’ve been 100% redpilled as a woman Curious why i’m getting downvoted? Like yes, i’m aware that “red pill” content which is advertised as such is posted by men, but I never seek that out. I follow a ton of mental health and relationship stuff though, and the content I’m referring to appears there.	/r/ExRedPill	10/10/23 01:21 PM
-1	Help, I’ve been 100% redpilled as a woman The content i see is never labeled as red pill. it's also therapists (??) talking about dating a "weak, damaged, feminine man" etc. It comes up a lot in mental health/healing tags	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/23 04:21 AM
2	Help, I’ve been 100% redpilled as a woman This is really sad to say, but a lot of what I've seen are men who were dumped for not being abrasive enough or in their "divine masculinity," then they find this content and feel they need to change, because that's what women "want." You would be shocked at how much content is on Instagram, created by women, pushing "masculine-feminine polarity" and other concepts like how men need to be the sole earner, need to lead the woman and make decisions... every bit of that content I've seen was create…	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/23 02:45 AM
1	Help, I’ve been 100% redpilled as a woman There are men who think this way and women who think this way. The men who don't date the women who do, and vice versa. It would be really great if that wasn't the case. There should be a red/blue pill dating site. No judgements, just stay on this side of the line and we'll pair you up accordingly	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/23 02:26 AM
21	Help, I’ve been 100% redpilled as a woman Guy here, got screwed over by a female partner who was essentially red-pilled and demanded that I become something like a red pill man. My thoughts: Single mothers are garbageNah. Every situation is different. Babies are hard, but if the kid is at least a few years old and everybody gets along, far from a dealbreaker. Yes, you're going to scare away guys in their mid-20s. Oh well. The younger the woman, the more desirable No, past a certain gap, they start to look like kids. And that's not exact…	/r/ExRedPill	09/10/23 02:19 AM
8	Dated a red pill guy A couples therapist once told me that I had to train my partner. Behavior modification. I GUESS you could look at this as, "teach people the way you want to be treated," but still. It always felt gross to me.	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/23 10:50 PM
1	Has anyone's GIRLFRIEND been redpilled? BPD, unstable sense of identity. Sucks.	/r/ExRedPill	07/10/23 04:49 AM
5	Has anyone's GIRLFRIEND been redpilled? Thanks 🫂 lol great username	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/23 04:48 AM
13	Has anyone's GIRLFRIEND been redpilled? Yes. My former partner and best friend of 12 years decided that she wanted a "daddy," wanted me to "man up" and be more "traditionally masculine" like her high school boyfriend, and then cheated on me with multiple guys for 6 or 7 months. Started following Instagram accounts like how to get a rich man to throw money at you. Talked a lot about how she couldn't emotionally support me because I wasn't in my masculine enough, so she couldn't be in her feminine enough. All of this happened within mon…	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/23 02:42 AM
2	How can I (M22) ask her (F21) to shave down there? I also enjoy giving oral more if she’s shaved, but pubes don’t grow on her clit, so I never have to “lick pubes” even if my GF hasn’t shaved at all. Shaving just gives me more bonus area to lick. If you really like this girl, I would try to get excited about her pussy as-is. And go down on her as-is. Then you can say, “I love doing this with you. How do you feel about shaving? I think it would be so hot.” That way it’s all 100% positive. Your wording sounds a little judge-y... I understand it’s …	/r/seduction	21/08/22 05:26 PM