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One week on one week off easy
/r/MensRights10/12/20 08:16 AM
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Your first paragraph describes my ex-wife and the corrupt, enabling family court system perfectly.
/r/MensRights21/08/19 06:21 AM
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Just don't ever get married. The costs outweigh the benefits tremendously for men. The law hasn't caught up to the fact that women work nowadays and that men are equally capable parents.
/r/MensRights03/07/19 04:20 PM
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Lol no it doesn't. The government has an anti-interest in actually putting the children first
/r/MensRights03/07/19 04:08 PM
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It's amazing that we recognize that there can be significant differences between cultures, and we accept that. And we acknowledge and accept that not all men are the same, similarly not all women. Yet some people absolutely lose their shit if you suggest men and women, which are two fundamentally different things in many ways, are... different. It's because they don't understand that there's a difference between "men and women are equal" and "men and women are the same." Frankly I think this sub…
/r/MensRights06/05/19 05:59 PM
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Ah, funny... On the Stuttgart public transit trains there are signs posted all over that if you need a taxi after 8:00 you can ask the train conductor to call one to the station for you ahead of your arrival. Oh and women get a special rate of €5 on that taxi, men pay full fare. Safety or something, they say. Germany is a fucking joke on gender equality.
/r/MensRights18/03/19 01:54 PM
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German family court and especially the Jugendamt is an outright disaster. Fathers are treated like shit.
/r/MensRights12/02/19 10:00 PM
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Oh now I get it. I wondered why this sub took a hyper-toxic turn recently. It had always been sporadically toxic, but more "pro men's rights," but recently it has been completely "DAE fucking women are bitches amirite?"
/r/MensRights18/10/18 05:11 AM
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Borderline personality disorder
/r/MensRights24/08/18 04:20 PM
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I mean, my xw kidnapped my kids and got away with it and I still have to pay her a fee to see my children so yeah
/r/MensRights17/07/18 03:42 PM
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Single mothers are bad for children of either gender. Single parenting is very clearly the worst outcome for children in terms of academics, health, emotional progression, everything. This is true in every country in which it has been studied, and it is true even in comparison to shared-parenting between high-conflict couples. Linda Nielsen has some excellent review articles on this subject.
/r/MensRights17/07/18 11:16 AM
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My ex wife was extremely abusive to me for a decade. However, the abuse was emotional and psychological. Even now, after she kidnapped our children and makes insane accusations like I want to kidnap the kids (projection mich???) everyone still gives her the benefit of the doubt and blames me for everything. Basically as a mother she is a sacred cow and I am a monster for wanting to repair the damage done to my children by their being kidnapped by a highly disordered woman and her disordered moth…
/r/MensRights30/07/17 03:22 PM
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Really this. It's not a fucking competition. Bad, deplorable shit is bad, deplorable shit. We don't need to bust out the foam fingers to rank it. That's the entire basis for those of us arguing that we just want equality for all, man, woman, robot. Whateva.
/r/MensRights26/06/17 07:16 PM
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I mean, people already flip their shit about the possibly intersexed track athlete from I think South Africa, so the acknowledgement is there. People just love being offended at something.
/r/MensRights26/06/17 07:13 PM
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It's true. The reality of Germany is that it's really conservative, especially in the south. I say that as an American in Germany who laughs at how they look down on the US. Germans like to act high and mighty, but the reality is that they're a bunch of whiney-ass titty babies who are afraid of any change and don't want to take any chances.
/r/MensRights10/06/17 07:59 PM
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Nice. Europe needs some of this. Fathers' Rights in Germany, I can personally attest, are fucking abysmal. A complete embarrassment for a self-perceived "progressive" country in 2017. Fact is, the current German situation would have been fucking embarrassing in 1990 or earlier.
/r/MensRights10/06/17 05:35 PM
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My ex wife kidnapped our children and got away with it. She has slandered me with every accusation under the sun. Then she accuses me of wanting to kidnap the children, and the courts gasp for air and treat me like a criminal, not just for a thought crime with no evidence, but for a thought crime that I'm not even thinking of. And she is having this all eaten up by the system. It is insane. No one in the courts cares about my kids having a real relationship with their father.
/r/MensRights22/05/17 02:21 PM
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Keeping abortion legal sadly is a fight that still must be fought. Paid maternity (better parental, though) leave. That's all that immediately comes to mind.
/r/MensRights21/05/17 06:48 PM
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Can someone sort of explain what this means? I sort of get it, but not really. What is the pragmatic effect compared to the existing status quo?
/r/MensRights11/05/17 01:48 PM
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I'm in the process of moving there and then fighting for more custody, but where I live fathers are not entitled to more than every other weekend unless I can "prove" it is best for my kids. It is insanity.
/r/MensRights04/05/17 07:09 PM
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My ex kidnapped our kids. The courts shrugged, said they simply couldn't make her move back. Had I done that I'd be behind bars for a long long time.
/r/MensRights04/05/17 03:59 PM
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This is the thing exactly - I really don't think there is a good solution to this at all. This is just, to me, one of those quirks of biology. There is no right answer here, so the best answer is: the child had absolutely zero say in this, while the father and mother both at least had some say, yes, even if that is "well, they had sex." What I don't get is how society gets super riled up about "deadbeat dads" who never want to be involved in their kids lives, yet here I am living in a country wh…
/r/MensRights04/05/17 11:38 AM
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This ruins the submission. Boy is this word stupid in general.
/r/MensRights24/04/17 07:32 AM
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If a business could simply hire women to do 100% same quality work as men for the same job at a 25% discount, men wouldn't have those jobs. This single sentence of rational thought is all that's needed to understand something else must be at work here.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/17 06:18 AM
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Equal Child Access Day is every other Saturday, silly. And I will never get more than that, I fear.
/r/MensRights25/03/17 09:03 PM
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I was daydreaming last night of my ex, and was thinking about how for me the absolute best part of sex was her orgasm, bar none. Not even close. To please the woman I loved in that way, shit I'm getting hard thinking about it. Me cumming was the third or fourth best thing about sex with her, at best.
/r/MensRights24/03/17 09:12 AM
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Please look into the work of Dr. Linda Nielsen at Wake Forest University and Dr. Richard Warshak at the University of Texas Southwest Medical Center Dallas. They have some incredibly important peer-reviewed articles on the benefits of shared custody. Dr. William Fabricius at Arizona State University also does good research work on this subject.
/r/MensRights21/03/17 11:25 AM
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No, this isn't men coming after children. This is putting the children last, this is not caring about what is really best for the children. This is just "get it off my docket" and forgetting about it.
/r/MensRights21/03/17 11:23 AM
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And then, even when we split up by her decision, I still had to earn money that she would go on to spend, not to mention that she gets the kids, whom I pay for, and the country of my residence says that my payment and her care result in us making equal contributions to their upbringing. Never mind that she and the courts are hurting my children in not allowing them to have a real relationship with their own father.
/r/MensRights08/03/17 12:08 PM
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This is so huge. I could cry. I am directly impacted by this right now, and I long to see my children, who were kidnapped away from me, more often and go back to being a part of their lives. It is awful how Germany has treated fathers for so long, and it is worse that the children were nothing more than collateral damage in this. I take serious issue, though, with the point here: As long as both parents have the right to care, there is no reason to deny equal care. The Senate, however, points ou…
/r/MensRights28/02/17 02:10 PM
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[Google translate version] So far it is rare that separation children live a week with Mama, a week with Papa. The so-called change model requires a large willingness to cooperate from separate parents - for the benefit of the child. Now the Federal Court of Justice (BGH) has strengthened this model. Mothers and fathers who want to look after the divorce after their separation to the same extent as the former partner may in the future also be able to enforce this wish against their will. Accordi…
/r/MensRights28/02/17 02:00 PM
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Big news today. See my edit. The judge said the law is still the baseline, and if parents can't get along then the baseline is "best" (which is backwards logic - it just tells women to be less cooperative in order to keep custody), but it is a step.
/r/MensRights27/02/17 11:14 PM
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Preventive: A prenup for one. Rock solid. Don't ever let your wife be a SAHM. Reactive: Get rid of the "free will of the mother" - it is unconstitutional and I expect if it were challenged in the courts it would go down in flames, if not in Germany than in the EU Court of Human Rights in Strasbourg Change the laws to make 50/50 custody the PRESUMPTION, both for married or unmarried fathers - and yes the child support tables may have to be adjusted Ensure that the courts are given the AUTHORITY t…
/r/MensRights27/02/17 03:49 PM
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Let me tell you how bad it is in Germany: If you look at the laws in Texas and in Germany, Texas (TEXAS!) is a million times more progressive. And don't even get me started on the alimony laws in Germany. If you're a man and you get divorced, if you could previously afford the luxury of a SAHM you fuck yourself over badly. I make nearly €100k a year, and after taxes, child support, and alimony I may be bringing home for myself €20k. Maybe. Where I live, I'll struggle to pay rent for a place that…
/r/MensRights27/02/17 03:28 PM
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Shared Parenting. It's already in place in Germany, and all studies show that it helps the kids. Best interests of the child, right? I can most definitely attest that this is NOT the case. Being a father in Germany is TERRIBLE, especially Southern Germany. The laws here still state that anything other than every other weekend and half of vacations is granted "to the father" (exclusively the father) ony at the "free will of the mother" (exclusively the mother). The law is designed "one parent pay…
/r/MensRights27/02/17 03:17 PM
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Fuck that this is a win for men's rights - this stuff is a win for CHILDREN'S rights, and they're the defenseless pawns in these games of custody. Now ask me if my family court will care about this added info. I mean, they didn't care that my stbxw kidnapped my kids, so why care what some egghead says.
/r/MensRights25/02/17 10:23 PM
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It's what they do.
/r/MensRights25/02/17 05:36 PM
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A group of personality disorders (narcissistic, borderline, antisocial, histrionic) that are completely destructive to the people in relationships with the person with the PD. Instability and evil, entitlement and complete lack of empathy for others. They light aflame everything around them, and walk away as if they don't notice ( in a way, they don't.)
/r/MensRights25/02/17 04:28 PM
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I know. It's OK. It's a good demonstration of how most people would feel about men being abused emotionally and psychologically. If only more people knew about Cluster B personality disorders, my comment would be transparent.
/r/MensRights24/02/17 07:03 PM
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Or emotional abuse, which will never get any action from the courts. Emotional abuse is real, and it is extremely destructive. Men and women can both be emotional abusers, and both can be victims. I say this as a male survivor of an extremely emotionally abusive marriage to a female. Furthermore, my ex wife emotionally abuses our children, but the courts will never ever do anything about that.
/r/MensRights24/02/17 04:24 PM
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Anyone got the PDF of the paper? I could use this.
/r/MensRights23/02/17 07:45 PM
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Currently going through family court system in southern Germany. Is worse than in the US. Should have just divorced there.
/r/MensRights21/02/17 10:00 PM
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Honestly I have a hard time convincing my lawyer I was abused. She's been doing family law a long time, they're so jaded to the claims, and my abuse was never physical, "merely" psychological/emotional. I've accepted the courts will never give a shit, but it is sort of annoying that my divorce lawyer, who I like, doesn't buy-in fully. In her defense, I pay her to come up with strategies for court, so since I know court won't care ultimately it isn't of any relevance other than solely to my heali…
/r/MensRights16/02/17 06:25 AM
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My stbxw kidnapped my sons and abused me emotionally for years. I have sat around for the last few weeks dreaming up scenarios to convince her to want to reconcile with me, and convincing myself I can tolerate the abuse for another decade or so, so long as I get to see my three boys more than every-other-weekend. The courts failed my kids MISERABLY.
/r/MensRights31/01/17 01:21 PM
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What do children to whom these things are done grow up to think and feel? My stbxw kidnapped my children, too. Not 23hr away, but far enough that it is a trek just to see them. Where I live they said eh ok. I will fight and fight, but I fear for how this will impact my children emotionally when they are older.
/r/MensRights27/01/17 09:17 PM
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You may think it is meaningless to me, but your sympathy does matter. Every little bit of powder I can add to my arsenal keeps me fighting for my kids.
/r/MensRights31/12/16 04:37 PM
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I have found that German women truly believe they own the children like their own property. It's messed up, but when you see how the law is, you can understand how it is institutionalized. I have talked with many men from he generations before me, and they all either have been fucked over by an ex or have someone close who was. They all seem sadly resigned to it, and it has been suggested to me to "just accept that I have lost my children" and that there is "no hope" to have a relationship with …
/r/MensRights31/12/16 04:11 PM
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I'm not the only one this has happened to here. I would love to see the New York Times or so do a feature piece on the sad state of father/children rights here. It is insane that no-fault has been the only option here for 40 years, but they took until 2013 to do away with lifetime alimony and still have this free will of the mother bullshit on the books.
/r/MensRights30/12/16 10:54 PM
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I live in Germany, but I am an American with two dual national kids. My stbxw convinced me to take a job and move here, but little did I know she had a plan. She took the kids on a vacation, said I wasn't allowed to go (long story, in retrospect she was abusive for years so I went with it), then didn't come back. She moved them and notified me via email. I took her to court, but the judge said he had no power to compel her to move, and the kids were used to a sahm whereas I work full time, so I …
/r/MensRights30/12/16 09:27 PM
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