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This should be on the sidebar or pinned.
/r/seduction22/12/15 05:28 PM
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I have not heard this, I am interested to read up on it.
/r/seduction30/05/15 11:36 AM
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That's a good call. Most girls that I make eye contact with look away pretty instantly. How would making eye contact help at all?
/r/seduction29/05/15 07:23 PM
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That's very true. I still think that problems can lie from within about this sort of stuff after the fact by the definition of a "nice guy". Other comments here have seemed to cover the rest of it though!
/r/seduction07/05/15 07:51 PM
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That's true, I think that being a gentleman is a little too vague and could be misconstrued as "nice guy". I thought I was being gentleman but I realized that I'm more so just a nice guy.
/r/seduction07/05/15 07:49 PM
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Interesting. I think that I just need some more experience honestly. I have done this in daygame approach where I am totally direct and tell them they are beautiful, but I just never thought to continue on with it afterwards. So I guess when there is a clear attraction, saying something like "I'm going to kiss you" would be pretty appropriate it. I really just need to go out and practice/experience this stuff.
/r/seduction07/05/15 07:43 PM
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Yes! This sums it up perfectly. Could you elaborate a bit more on the last paragraph? I get that being upfront with her is a good thing, but did you mean that if you are in a relationship? Would you want to be that upfront if you are meeting a girl casually? It's just something I've never thought to do.
/r/seduction07/05/15 12:27 AM
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Because a "nice guy" uses being nice as a way to get what he wants. If someone is genuinely going to do something nice for someone to be nice, and not to expect anything in return, I would not consider them to have "nice guy" syndrome. Being nice needs to be unconditional, and the person being nice cannot expect something in return for it. There are traits of the "nice guy" which I was misconstruing as friendly, and wanted to be sure which was which because I want to stop being a "nice guy".
/r/seduction06/05/15 09:42 PM
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Good advice. Thanks!
/r/seduction06/05/15 08:00 PM
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Great point. And I suppose the nice guy relies on others too much for a lot of their own needs. Like getting approval. Which is why everyone needs to just worry about their own shit in the grand scheme of things.
/r/seduction06/05/15 07:25 PM
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That's a great idea. The book talks about putting yourself first and that seems like a perfect example. So you think if I find that balance of being friendly, putting my own needs first, and not being a pushover I can achieve genuine friendliness and hopefully get rid of my "nice guy"ness? Getting rid of the "nice guy" syndrome is my main goal right now.
/r/seduction06/05/15 05:49 PM
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Of course. But you can see a "Nice Guy" as friendly just like you can see a not "nice guy" as friendly. I'm just trying to distinguish the difference further. edit: grammar
/r/seduction06/05/15 05:42 PM
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Right now, I'm trying to break the habit with all people I am around, because I can definitely see myself being a nice guy with everyone. In your second list, I lack in "not being a pushover etc." " being masculine and tough" and "being dominant". Edit: But honestly, I do lack under all of them to some degree. It really depends on my mood sometimes.
/r/seduction06/05/15 05:32 PM
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For a subreddit dedicated to seduction, I was hoping for something a bit more descriptive than this.
/r/seduction14/04/15 03:05 PM
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