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| 34 | Straight from the horse's mouth 🗣️Men will fuck a moldy chicken sandwich if it's the only thing they have around. Putting their dick in something warm feels better for them than using their hands, so of course they have no compunction to use a woman's body to masturbate into. They do not think like women do. Don't put up with men who treat you in a disrespectful manner. Don't even put up with men who treat you in a lukewarm manner. If a man is truly attracted to you, and in love with you, he will move mountains for you. Don't se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 05:12 PM |
| 228 | What would you do if your partner doesn’t like thirst traps when you send them?First, don’t send nudes or any lewds you wouldn’t be comfortable with being on the internet. And secondly, all men that follow Instagram models are low value. They should be appreciating your body, natural and with flaws, rather than conditioning themselves to prefer an Instagram model’s body that’s been photoshopped to hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 07:52 PM |
| 408 | Never EVER share financial information with a man. It starts with $20 now but can easily escalate to much more over the years. Come across the wrong one and they will absolutely destroy you financially.The age gap, the gaslighting, the stealing, it's all pointing to an old hobosexual who is looking for a naive woman to house him and pay for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 08:58 PM |
| 28 | The results of applying FDS to my dating since having moved.Unfortunately, while OLD does work for some women, it really exposes the NVM or ZVM who just want to have sex and will put up the veneer of wanting to be in a relationship to get sex. This was the case when I was in college and apps like Tinder were proliferating. Even before FDS, I made it clear that I wanted a nice date and that sex was not guaranteed. These men all ghosted me after the first date where I told them that I was not interested in having sex as an audition for a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 08:50 PM |
| 240 | How police officers cheat and vetting strategies to get the truth.The solution is to not date police officers. I don't want to run the 40%+ risk of being a DV victim, thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 05:07 PM |
| 72 | They use our Rape Kits as evidence against us: heads up!Prison and law reform puts women by the wayside. In college, I ran with a left-leaning crowd and learned about rehabilitative justice, which seems like the "right" and humane thing to do. I still think that non-violent offenders should be placed in rehabilitative programs (for example, drug addicts would benefit more from harm reduction and from treatment). However, once you start applying rehabilitative justice across the board, it gets hairy. Especially for women. You can't rehabilitate a rapi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 12:09 AM |
| 46 | What Do You Ladies Think Of The Following Films? | My boyfriend dislikes all of them, but I do find it a bit of a cOiNcIdEnCe that all of them ~happen to have~ female leadsI personally don't like those movies (my taste tends towards yours), but I don't like Star Wars, I don't like Marvel, I don't really like those kinds of films as a whole. The fact that he is zeroing in on female-led movies is honestly pretty sus. I get if he complained about Marvel movies as a whole, but focusing only on Captain Marvel is a red flag, since that film got a lot of flack from MRA/redpill types. In fact, what stands out to me about the list you presented is that they're all movies t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 11:49 PM |
| 9 | Learning the full story of how my aunt was burnt from head to toe.Ugh, ADHD is the go-to excuse for every LVM. If he truly has ADHD, then he needs to be medicated (I am diagnosed and take medication for it every day so I can be functioning to my full levels). I honestly think LVM just don’t give a shit and just throw up ADHD as an excuse so their partners get off their back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 07:44 PM |
| 25 | "Safe" Men to Date Part 2: Gino's Gaslighting and FaceI’ve been following 90 Day Fiancé for a couple of years now and Jasmine is the latest in a long line of women on the show edited to look “crazy.” I fully believe Gino was talking shit about his ex to Jasmine behind the scenes but was careful not to let anything slip in front of the cameras. Hence her saying “you always make me look crazy.” Of course the subs about the show are filled to the brim with misogynistic comments about pretty much any woman that’s dared to appear on the show (Natalie, L… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 08:04 PM |
| 8 | I’m speechless and his excuse is even more sickening.There are no apologies for what he did. When I'm stressed and overwhelmed, I don't rape people. I'm glad she won't let him come back from this, I hope she leaves him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 04:55 PM |
| 25 | Comments tell her to "commUNIcate", OF is Not BAd“CoMmUnIcAtIoN” only serves for the scrote to nod his head and then go back to whatever he was doing. He’s using this woman for a place to stay, he knows she’ll bail him out for rent because if she doesn’t they both get evicted. Classic case of a hobosexual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 04:57 PM |
| 61 | Ladies, I'm in desperate need for some advice. Please help!!!I’m very sorry for your loss. Your late husband sounded like a good man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 06:46 PM |
| 81 | Singles events and speed dating popping up around Valentines day?Honestly, if I were single I wouldn’t be trying to find someone at a singles or speed dating event. Like you said, they usually attract basement dwellers, awkward men, etc. Honestly, I’ve had the most success as an adult post-college finding partners IRL “organically.” Through mutual hobbies usually. Things like speed dating just pair two desperate people together and that’s not a recipe for a healthy or lasting relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 06:45 PM |
| 132 | Ladies, I'm in desperate need for some advice. Please help!!!You shouldn’t be questioning yourself for looking through his phone. All women should snoop. When I’ve snooped I found dealbreakers exes were deliberately hiding because they knew they were dealbreakers for me. The conversations he is having with his scrote friend shows you who he really is. HVM don’t feel the need to objectify and degrade women. I’m dating someone right now and it’s too early to label him a HVM, but when I’ve snooped his conversations with friends are about meeting up to hang o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 05:52 PM |
| 35 | The slow normalization of pedophiliaThe leftist movement in the United States and Western Europe is rotted to the core and anti-woman, and I say this as a leftist. It is leftist men who abused me when I was dating them, it is leftist men and women who screech about how sex work is real work, and it is leftist academics who are coming out with “minor attracted person” theory. It was a leftist professor who made that horrid presentation about how we can’t paint p*dos as bad. Leftist movements elsewhere, while not perfect, are not co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/22 05:08 PM |
| 65 | A Curated Selection from OLDNonmonogamy is a scam. Societies that practice multiple marriage (almost without exception man with multiple women) have extremely bad outcomes for women and children according to multiple studies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 04:54 PM |
| 5 | Ladies who have dated Desi or Muslim, how did the misogyny affect how you were treated in the relationship?I have such a similar experience. I’m from the balkans and I would love to have a partner or husband who speaks my same mother language and who would be willing to raise our children with knowledge of their heritage/cultural roots. Literally every one is a misogynist. Even the ones raised here in the US. They can party, screw around, rack up a huge body count (it’s also expected that they’ll cheat and their wives will look the other way), while women are held to an extremely rigid standard. They… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 03:26 PM |
| 33 | Why I’m against strip clubsStrip clubs, like brothels, are a place where men can openly give in to the urge to treat women as subhuman pieces of meat that are good only for sex. In Canada it’s even a game to hit strippers with coins on their breasts and genitalia to hurt them and to shame them, much to the amusement of men around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 03:23 PM |
| 310 | Proof that the main beneficiary of casual sex & relationships is men!!!!“Go on horrible dates.” That’s quite a thing to say, given that horrible dates can often end in assault, rape, or stalking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 11:21 PM |
| 3 | How to reconcile with the fact that my brother doesn't support the FDS strategies, although he is an HVM?Your mistake is thinking your brother is HV. You don’t know how he treats his gf in private, you only see the kind gestures he makes towards her in public. And 4 years with no engagement is a red flag to me anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 04:28 PM |
| 56 | Why is there so many "crazy" mother-in-laws? (Let's discuss from the perspective of FDS)I come from a conservative patriarchal culture. MILs are known for basically hazing their DILs. You’re right that it’s pickme behavior, but it’s also a toxic assertion of control in a culture that gives women no power/control except over younger women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/22 04:30 PM |
| 37 | Where do my FDS ladies like to shop?Zara and Uniqlo for staples, ModCloth and Anthropologie for cuter stuff. You can buy new with tags on eBay for cheaper than you would pay in store. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Dating 'travellers' and the VisaI grew up first generation American in an Eastern European immigrant community. I would say 75% of men from the home country were looking for a visa when dating first generation immigrant girls they met while the girls were visiting the home country. Men will run these visa scams and turn around after a couple months and start screwing around and/or asking for a divorce. Not worth the risk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 01:47 AM |
| 57 | Man who used woman for sex is mad that she used him for sex. There is no such thing as casual sex. They will always want to keep it casual but do not like it when you treat them the same way“She told me it was really good for her and that she came.” Sure, Jan. Anyway, this is a situation similar to what most women who engage in casual sex have gone through so my well of sympathy has run dry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 08:41 PM |
| 8 | A “predictable response” from a redditor. My concern about men preying on young girls is definitely just jealousy 🙄Yeah, I’m sure we’re all so jealous that we won’t get a chance with a greasy pedophile 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 06:49 PM |
| 359 | Porn critical ≠ sex criticalI’m so tired of being called a puritan for being anti porn and anti sex work. It really shows how a generation was brainwashed into finding the profoundly unerotic, staged spectacle of porn the pinnacle of sexiness. Real sex is sometimes messy and sometimes funny but it is so much more sexy than anything in a porn video. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 03:37 PM |
| 11 | They’re “not in a relationship” but “exclusive” after 6 months of dating 🚩🤡and it turns out he’s a creep and a liarSee how the poster is still worried about how she might come off, that she’s a “stalker” or a “creep.” The brainwashing is strong with this one. A 23 year old with a 31 year old is still a gross age gap. 39 with 23 exponentially more so. She should block and delete (and get tested, who knows what else he’s lying about). He deserves no explanation or confrontation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 04:29 PM |
| 339 | I believe the push for men to go to therapy will end up with the same results as the libfem idea that “feminism is for men too” therapy will not destroy the patriarchyLundy Bancroft wrote about this in “Why Does He Do That.” Male abusers will appropriate language used in therapy against their partners. I experienced it. He will say that the therapist says there’s nothing wrong with him, but that I’m the one that needs to change, etc., etc. This is why I think most couples’ therapy is ineffectual. You won’t change him and a therapist won’t change him because he’s set in his ways. He’ll only learn to manipulate better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 08:06 PM |
| 188 | Pretty Privilege is Real, But False and Fleeting.Beauty products are a racket. Women are brainwashed into tweezing, injecting, shaving, plucking, painting, squeezing themselves into tight clothing, high heels (which can lead to foot/ankle issues if worn too often) for two main reasons — it makes them shiny objects for men to consume and it lines the pockets of cosmetics, plastic surgery, and fashion companies, which are headed mostly by men. Beauty, as marketed to us today, is unattainable. Models are airbrushed and photoshopped into oblivion.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 07:51 PM |
| 97 | The "Happily Ever After" marriage fairytale sold to women is a lie. The truth is most marriages are miserable FOR WOMEN because most men are NV/LV. Society gaslights and (in some parts of the world) even forces women into settling.Women are brainwashed into marriage from childhood because patriarchy needs a servant class. You need a legion of mommy-bangmaids who keep the house in order and birth more generations while men can basically do what they want. In fact, this was the stark status quo in the west until the beginning of dating and marriage for love (which in the US really took off around the twenties). Women were told that they were there to keep house and have kids and if your husband was shit, too bad so sad. At … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 03:08 AM |
| 704 | Men's reactions to having their lies exposed“B-b-but you wouldn’t have given me a chance!” Damn right I wouldn’t, my vagina isn’t an equal opportunity employer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 10:55 PM |
| 77 | Be careful ladies and especially young womenThe BEST case scenario is that the man is emotionally immature and you’ll eventually outpace him in emotional development. You’ll realize he’s a manchild and leave. The worst is the scenario outlined above. These men have so much more societal power over you. They have more financial power. They will force you to rely on them and get to use you however they want because you are trapped. My rule of thumb is to not date anyone I wouldn’t have been in high school with in terms of age. I’m sorry tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 10:39 PM |
| 90 | Another post about Gold-digging/Sugar-babyingSugaring is sex work, full stop. And sex work is ALWAYS exploitative towards women. There are no ifs, ands, or buts. Edit: grammar | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 11:23 PM |
| 68 | [deleted by user]While I agree that men need to step up financially, I often wonder how happy these women really are. Many seem pampered on the surface but are exposed to indignities like having to put up with mistresses, being used for “kinky” sex, and the like. I think of Anna Nicole Smith and the legal wrangling she had to go through with her oil millionaire’s family once he died. I think she saw a fraction of his wealth after his death. And what happens if the rich guy finds a younger, more nubile woman? Oft… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:33 PM |
| 57 | Don't fall for the "I was planning to/going to do xyz...for Christmas"You’re completely right. While some LVM and NVM make a big show of how giving and altruistic they are by making lavish purchases, your garden variety LVM will just not give a shit. He either won’t give you a present, will give you a shitty, cheap gift, or tell you to pick what you want for Christmas instead of, idk, expending a moment’s thought on what you would like. I made my ex cake pops and bought him a nice art print. He got me a cheap children’s backpack (red with white dogs on it) that he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 04:11 PM |
| 76 | Can we hear your LVM break up stories?I left a LVM man after years of "communication" trying to get him to be more thoughtful, romantic, and caring. I suffer from anxiety and he would treat it as a burden, while he spent evenings glued to his computer playing video games and leaving his dirty plates, clothes, takeout containers, etc., all over the place. I had enough and left. He was suddenly so nice and sweet, even though I proposed NC. Once he heard I was casually dating 3-4 months down the line, I was suddenly an evil slut who ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 06:26 PM |
| 17 | (long) fascinating Buzzfeed story about stalking and harassmentI don't know a woman who doesn't have a story of stalking or harassment. It's so ingrained in our experience as women. When I was in college, there was an active rapist in our neighborhood. Girls would be attacked at bus stops and the guy would also break into apartments when women weren't home to steal their intimate items and to plan his next break in to assault them. Did the university say anything? Issue a warning to its female students? The neighborhood was adjacent to the university and I'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 10:38 PM |
| 201 | Let’s bring back shame! Society does not shame men enough!While the normalization of hookup culture and the rest is harmful to women and should be fought against, men have never had shame. Shame has been weaponized against women and is still being weaponized against women, it's just the goalposts have changed. Shame has been used as a tool of patriarchal power, from honor killings to shaming women who speak out against their male abusers. Men have always been able to skate by and not experience the intense shaming women have endured for centuries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 12:06 AM |
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