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| 0 | Morality in MRPI think your wife’s missing out if you refuse to game her. | /r/askMRP | 29/07/26 06:15 AM |
| 1 | She said she’ll text me next week - is this usually a soft no, or am I overthinking?IMHO, coffee = boring date for someone I talked to on a hike. Hence have other priorities, hence flake. | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Wife has feelings for co-worker. How do I avoid fucking this up further?doesn’t change the fact that prospects come with confidence, and a good part of confidence comes from lifting (and reading). He weighs like me: 5’9 (185lbs) at 14-15% bf. | /r/askMRP | 16/01/26 11:47 AM |
| 8 | Wife has feelings for co-worker. How do I avoid fucking this up further?That requires having options, which op clearly doesn’t and to me that’s the main problem. That is the main concern I would have. If you split tomorrow, she’s a fuck lined up already. What would you do? Spoiler: stfu, lift and read. Now take that vision and start doing it already, it may happen or it may not it doesn’t matter. This is the best thing you can do today. As for what to say when she inquires, I really don’t think you should tell her anything if you’re not able to enforce the boundarie… | /r/askMRP | 15/01/26 11:07 AM |
| 2 | 6-Year LTR: I Let Myself Go, She Became an Athlete Who Travels. How Screwed Am I?he’s 28 but this doesn’t change the substance still a lot of time. | /r/askMRP | 15/10/25 12:22 PM |
| 10 | 6-Year LTR: I Let Myself Go, She Became an Athlete Who Travels. How Screwed Am I?agree on lift, read, stfu, but dread in this case could backfire badly if she perceives him as lower smv. | /r/askMRP | 15/10/25 12:15 PM |
| 1 | This Exercise Makes You Irresistible To WomenTLDR Thanks AI: Women are attracted to confidence because it signals strength and security. • We’re born confident, but childhood criticism erodes it. • Exercise: Visualize your younger self, show them your life now, and give them the praise and protection you lacked. • Do it daily with real feeling — your brain treats it as real, rebuilding self-worth. • Result: You naturally act more confident, which makes you more attractive. (Edit: formatting) | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 09:19 AM |
| 2 | I lost her, right?Delete this post. This message was meant to you, posting it equates to breaking a layer of privacy and trust in your relationship. If you post this, which would be a dishonor for most men, why should she tell you her naughtiest desires on how she wants to be fucked (by you?)! Throw your phone away for a few days, you’ve been overly emotional and your pressing her with other men will bring her there. Use this time to hit the gym, and clear your head. You need to regroup now, ground, stop masturba… | /r/askMRP | 26/09/25 08:53 PM |
| 5 | I lost her, right?He means that your emotions here are running the show and control you. | /r/askMRP | 26/09/25 08:38 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys start conversations at the gym with pretty women?https://youtube.com/shorts/OnN92dKy0GQ?feature=shared do this. | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Getting over the fact that she found someone better than you. Advice?you’re sooo outcome oriented that you evaluate your value based on a random chick on an online dating app this is the real lesson here. If you want it to work learn to become outcome independent and be aware of the value you bring on the table, if she doesn’t appreciate it her loss. | /r/seduction | 09/01/25 04:40 PM |
| 5 | How do you deal with this type of manipulative communication.man she wants to be heard. “it’s all your fault” - hysterically “maybe you’re right, why do you feel it’s all my fault?” - calm negative assertion and inquiry “you’re a piece of shit because I do your laundry and you go running with your female friend” - hysterical and annoyed Then again, if it’s disrespectful in her tone: broken record “I will not speak with someone that offends me” calm tone; at the third time… withdraw and go to the gym to fucking “disperse how you feel”. Else, at your open l… | /r/askMRP | 29/11/24 02:43 AM |
| 8 | How do you deal with this type of manipulative communication.man you said you read wisnifg. Negative assertion, negative inquiry and broken record. Do you know what it means? | /r/askMRP | 29/11/24 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Roses on Hinge NEVER hit?they definitely have the opposite effect on my attraction level when I receive them, so I rarely send them, and if I do there’s a reason (e.g. someone I have already crossed paths with but couldn’t approach) | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Banned from dating apps forced to approach IRLfyi 70-80% is enough to presume monopoly power or close to that. | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 06:10 PM |
| 2 | How to answer the "what are we question"?This. Always be the playful kid in the sandbox, then get back to what you were doing before she asked. | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 08:10 PM |
| 1 | I'm gonna go flirt at the gymexactly, I would straight up ignore it. Gym is my sacred place and don’t want to mess that up. Also, I would be pissed if you keep me in a conversation for longer than my rest time. Asking stupid stuff because you’re horny. Trying to time your pre-gym or post-gym with someone and casually hit them up for a post workout meal/coffee would work perfectly though. | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 04:41 PM |
| 1 | How to be a F*ckboy in 2024, an Official Guideyour rule 11 conflicts with rule 1, if you live somewhere such as manhattan, singapore or zurich having 3 dates for a fuck can be more expensive than getting a prostitute. Also clubs in these places are rather expensive. So money doesn’t matter if you have enough to make it not matter. I usually aim at cheap and quick first date: 30 mins coffee to see if you didn’t hallucinate on swiping, I would cut it short and go away at the 30mins mark. Then second date, something tailored for her, activity … | /r/seduction | 07/08/24 08:35 PM |
| 1 | How can I seduce older women when I’m 19it’s funny how the question reverses as you get older. enjoy the -teen a bit more ;) | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Help with dread in the context of WHMsome people use particular hardware, and it may not be viable to do this. Personally, I was in the same situation as OP, both working from home 8hrs/day. I could not just take my laptop and work from anywhere as I work with three monitors and a powerful desktop. To me lacking hobbies/friends is the issue here, much easier to implement and much higher value added. | /r/askMRP | 11/06/24 10:57 AM |
| 2 | Are You On Your Mission? What Does This Even Mean?I understand what you mean, I think it’s related to the fact that I haven’t dissolved my karma at my job and will need to do that before moving to deeper purposes: “As you open yourself to living at your edge, your deepest purpose will slowly begin to make itself known. In the meantime, you will experience layer after layer of purposes, each one getting closer and closer to the fullness of your deepest purpose. It is as if your deepest purpose is at the center of your being, and it is surrounded… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/24 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Are You On Your Mission? What Does This Even Mean?A mission can be your job. Sometimes ago a friend asked “what would you do if you didn’t have to work?” my answer is exactly my job but I wouldn’t need to get paid. Maybe I’d scale it up a bit but it’s my contribution to the world. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/24 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Changing my bedtime has made seduction so much easierit’s just availability and the signal that his time (and attention to them) isn’t cheap. It’s not sleep itself, if he were ending the convo because he had to work on his side project to transition from bartending to something else he would notice the same effect. | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 10:13 PM |
| 6 | Disrespect at the dinner table.I was thinking about it while I read the post and your comment. I don’t know if it was also in the sidebar but my notes bring me to bop: https://bookofpook.com/15-lessons-for-young-men-charm-is-treating-women-like-little-girls-lesson-13/ EDIT: agree with mcnack the correct reading is amused mastery. Time to delve again into RM1 | /r/askMRP | 18/04/24 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Need Perspective From You Guysthanks for the translation. In that case misplaced sarcasm, seemed quite an autistic answer but is wise advice. I would have used read instead of bench though… | /r/askMRP | 11/04/24 10:25 PM |
| -1 | Need Perspective From You Guysyea you should bench more noob you’ll earn respect points from her proportional to the weight you can bench. Cmon man that can’t be your advice. Questions to OP: were you being nice to get head? was she disrespectful in any way? I also see you’ve covert contracts in your relationship? can you reflect and list some of them? I feel she may be using this thing a bit and you’re falling for it. I would restart nmmng. | /r/askMRP | 11/04/24 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Way of The Superior Man Questionalso “become a 3% man” suggests to never give advice if unsolicited. They want to be listened not a solution. | /r/askMRP | 20/03/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on shared locationat the moment don’t create stress in the relationship, I don’t think you’d gain something from dechipping yourself. I must say that at the beginning I never followed the advice given here, then I understood it was pure gold simply badly put.. and had I followed it I’d probably still be in that relationship (stfu, lift, sidebar). Don’t make my mistake. You are not in the position to make request and you shouldn’t care at the moment about the geotrack. Just stfu, lift and sidebar increase your smv… | /r/askMRP | 15/12/23 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on shared locationTAOS: without mistery there can’t be seduction. if at anytime I want to know where you are I can just check it on the phone, what happens to mistery? Your answer seems stupid at first but I think thay you got the point. Geo tracking could be used to create mistery as well: if you have an interesting life with a lot going on and you’re able to deflect and AA and never ever deer, then this becomes a strong weapon for making their hamster run. But if he had all of this he probably wouldn’t be in th… | /r/askMRP | 15/12/23 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 28, 2023———————————————————————— OYS 43 Stats: 177cm, 81kg, bf 12%, PRs: SQ:145kg, DL: 175kg, OP:55kg, BR:? (not really doing it), BP: 97.5kg Mission: same as 42 Read: same as 42 Plates: Been busier and focused on work. She again was pissed and started pushing me. I withdrew and wished good luck. She came back few days after with a “sorry I don’t know why I pushed..” Work: Had given this priority and worked more or less 10 hours per day to be on top on my shit, didn’t have time to post oys but now I hav… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/23 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 28, 2023OYS 42 Stats: 177cm, 80kg, bf 12%, PRs: SQ:145kg, DL: 175kg, OP:55kg, BR:? (not really doing it as I do advanced tuck lever raises), BP: 97.5kg Mission: last oys pushed me in reflecting on my mission (validation seeking vs. personal desire). During this week (that was disastrous in terms of shit owned) I pondered a new view: - reach financial independence (how: generate 1 passive income stream) I moved this first as I start to believe in my skills and does not seem to be too difficult (phd in ec… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/23 05:31 PM |
| 5 | I have accomplished 95% of the things I wanted and dreamed from life, yet I feel empty and in happier than everSeems like a good place to start. This seems the end of a circle of karma (read the way of the superior male if you didn’t). What is your mission? What is your vision? If you reached 95% of what you wanted to do set bigger goals, have a more fulfilling mission. Without that you’re drifting with no purpose in the world. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/23 08:29 AM |
| 3 | Need some truth, is the gym a game-changer?start. You don’t say I want to build the habit of smoking, you just have your first cigarette that tastes like shit, but at your 30th day smoking you successfully built a habit. An unhealthy one but it doesn’t matter. The gym is going to be the same, and you will just have to start, join a place you like. For the first three weeks try to force yourself to workout no matter what. Soon enough the pain of going will be the pleasure of going. Yes it is a life changer. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/23 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 14, 2023My answer on the spot: my opinion is required as input in court, therefore my reputation is highly important to reach high impact cases. The more recognized you’re in your environment and the higher the level of cases, and fun you can have in solving them. But I am wondering if there is any other thing to consider. That’s an interesting point I’ll have to reflect upon this week. Thanks. Edit: /u/Tyred_Biggums I think you’re right (at least in part) and this is an amazing insight. The wording is … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/11/23 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - November 14, 2023OYS 41 (last posted oys 111d ago) Stats: 177cm, 81kg, bf 12% Read: wisnifg, mmslp, map, nmmng, bop, the game, RM#1, SGM, How to win friends and influence people, TWoSM, how to be a 3% man Studying (highlighting and taking notes): the art of seduction, the laws of human nature Mission: - have a large social circle where I am respected and desired - build a frame that command respect in any environment - reach a leadership position in job, being recognized worldwide as an expert in my field very l… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/11/23 08:12 PM |
| 0 | Victim Puke - I need helplol. hardcore calisthenics with a rotator cuff injury? I wonder what hardcore calisthenics is for you. OP seriously, start working now. It makes sense to get in the gym even if you can BP, OHP, BR or DL. Machines are your friends until you recover… and a lot a lot of bands work. Can you at least do squats? start with that, abs, plank holds, cardio work on your mobility with bands and set the foundations for what will come. It will come. Now stop writing and focus on life and not on talking. | /r/askMRP | 14/11/23 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Victim Puke - I need helpI was wondering that. You can easily start working on legs and squats. | /r/askMRP | 14/11/23 07:23 PM |
| 1 | My last 4 dates were basically identical.were you having fun in these dates? To them you probably were just another foreseeable coffee date. Where’s the excitement in that? Is there a difference in you of the positive streak against you of this streak? Did you have more enthusiasm, optimism, passion? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/23 07:32 AM |
| 40 | Is it Hypocritical to Sleep with Other Girls - But Want a Monogamous Girlfriend?lol I hope you’re joking, if you’re not then i’d suggest you a course in reading comprehension | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/23 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 25, 2023Yeah I guess you’re right and I could be considered lazy or weird. Could you please help me with the meaning of your bullet points? What is mfw? Why does the ton of student debt impact me? What does college over zoom mean? As I have 0 debt and significant not liquidable assets. My being broke is having low liquidity (no car, fancy things and lowish consumption etc.) because I am lazy ass and I don’t want to work 10+ hours per day for some shitty salary (south europe country), and I’d rather have… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/07/23 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 25, 2023I agree on all of it except your definition of a goal: if you are a player in a team that has the goal of winning an important trophy would you say that's not a goal? It still depends on others and according to what you say it's not. Furthermore, there may have been a language issue: one of my goals in this life is to experience fatherhood and given the plenitude of women that are in this world that ultimately depends on me. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/07/23 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 25, 2023I agree. My understanding is that I am still run by the endorphins I get from this kind of external validation. Hence, I am still needy and need more work on my mission to feel accomplished in my reality. However, another thing that draws me in ltr is the desire to have a family, that is a part of my goals for the next decade. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/07/23 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 25, 2023OYS 26 half a year of oys: I haven't posted OYS in a while as they where pretty much the same: STFU, lift, work. Overall, I have internalized most of the HBook concepts and I recognize them in the people around me that succeed in relationships, and life in general. I also see where people lack something. I've cut most of my DEERing, learned how to be assertive, lifted and improved my body, improved my communication style, social interaction and learnt the basis of game One thing is still missing… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/07/23 08:23 AM |
| 6 | If You’re Worried About Other People Seeing you Hit on Girls…I didn’t read all as it’s pretty standard concept. I just add a caveat: small centers. Although in a metropolis I’d approach and fuck a 6/7 if the vibe is right, in small towns that would not be optimal as you may lose some opportunities, or at least make your life more difficult. When I’m in a small town I am very reluctant to approach 6-7 HBs unless I want to pivot on some more interesting target. I wonder if I’m the only one that thinks that. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/23 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Does my girlfriend think I'm beta? Am I beta?with him being perceived so much lower svm this is a recipe to being left. Why not leave yourself then? Respect is not negotiated. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/23 12:22 PM |
| 1 | What does gaming your wife look like?read the way of the superior man before the mistery method | /r/askMRP | 14/07/23 08:42 AM |
| 2 | Married sex amounts to her laying there after asking for a massage. She also complains that she knows when I want sex because I initiate that way.So I was checking your comment history and noticed there isn’t an oys at least in the last 6months. Then this post complaining about sex. The situation seems like mine before breakup. I cared so much about sex that I completely forgot about me. Sex became the validation I got in life and as a drug substituted everything else. AWALT and hypergamy work on your favor here. By running dread you are stimulating hypergamy by social proof, but it’s like the easy route that would give you immediate bene… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/06/23 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 13, 2023OYS 20 Stats: 177cm 79kg Read: wisnifg, mmslp, map, nmmng, bop, the game, RM#1, SGM, How to win friends and influence people, TWoSM Mission: - reach a leadership position in social context - build a frame that command respect in any environment - reach a leadership position in job - launch a startup as a social business venture that helps my world - reach financial independence H&F: Second deload of stronglifts SQ: 102.5 OHP: 38.5 BP: 72.5 DL:135 BR:60 My trusted Personal Trainer showed me that … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/06/23 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - June 06, 2023OYS 19 Age: 29; 177cm, 77kg, BF: 11.7(Navy)-14.5(strongur) Read: wisnifg, mmslp, map, nmmng, bop, the game, RM#1, SGM, How to win friends and influence people, TWoSM, sidebar handbook Reading: theAOS Theme: Keeping the following: -remove distractions from feeling the pain (loneliness). -Additional focus put on avoiding the need for external validation. Mindset & Addictions: I got back on Wim Hof Method daily, woke up at 5:55, and hit the gym by 6:30. More or less, I run on a schedule similar to … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/06/23 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 30, 2023😂 what can I say.. DM me and I invite you over to see here. In any case, true or not, I am still fine with being on my own. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/06/23 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 30, 2023You may be right on this and I agree in principle, but I still prefer to be conservative in this market (30k inhabitants town with large generational gap due to bad job opportunities). If you start having a reputation of a player, you’d really have to work double to get to the good ones. While if you socially show that you are not easy to reach, those get naturally interested. This weekend gave me the proof, I postponed closing that girl and another in her social circle got interested… much bett… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/06/23 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 30, 2023I have seen similar problems solved by this: https://www.amazon.com/Dare-Anxiety-Stop-Panic-Attacks/dp/0956596258 | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/06/23 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 30, 2023sleep if you don't sleep and you don't feel tired when you wake up what is the problem? If you feel groggy then what is your evening routine? do you have one? our body and mind responds to habits, there is something in your habits that explains why you aren't physical factors: technology use, food, coffee, drugs, reading time psychological factors: meditation, controlled breathing As u/bamf617 said Huberman's a lot of material on this. my sleep got way better as I introduced the deep-rest non-sl… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/06/23 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 30, 2023OYS 18 Age: 29; 177cm, 76kg, BF: 11.7(Navy)-13.5(strongur) H&F: Slow progresses after the stop, but I am super focused when I train and don't waste time. Squat 5x5 105kg, BP 5x5 67.5kg, Barbell Row 5x5 60kg, pull-ups 15kg 5x5, Deadlift 5x5 120kg, Dips 5x5 15kg, OHP 5x5 42.5kg 3 training sessions last week skipped pull-ups and dips gonna recover tomorrow with calisthenics in the park. Read: wisnifg, mmslp, map, nmmng, bop, the game, RM#1, SGM, How to win friends and influence people, TWoSM, sideb… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/06/23 06:20 PM |
| 12 | The sex patternEveryone gave already good points in typical RP sarcasm. When I was there, I’d like to have had something more than stfu, sidebar and lift. I think a crucial difference is made by the purpose you do these three things: “I have been in a low sex marriage for a while, which I am working on” -> you should work on you (for you, not for her and not for sex) and start not giving a fuck about low sex marriage. You should be ok with not fucking at all, when you reach that point you make the rules. From … | /r/askMRP | 01/06/23 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 23, 2023OYS 17 Age: 29; 177cm, 77kg, BF: 11.7(Navy)-13.5(strongur) Theme: remove distractions from feeling the pain (loneliness). Additional focus put on avoiding the need for external validation. Read: wisnifg, mmslp, map, nmmng, bop, the game, RM#1, SGM, How to win friends and influence people, TWoSM, sidebar handbook Reading: what should go next? (TAOS?) Mission: grow into a man and find my real mission. Generate enough passive income to get out of the wheel and to spend my real energies for creating… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/05/23 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 16, 2023What causes actions to align with intentions? I think it was in TWOSM: it's the self-discipline and motivation stimulated by a higher purpose. This pushes you not to follow short term desires if they are in conflict with the higher purpose. Contradictions Yet my contradictions follow from the fact that I didn't write everything. There are 9 days in between my OYSs, I've spent 4 of them in a group drinking a few beers and smoking 4-5 cigs per day (breaking the many weeks of austerity from drugs).… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/05/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 16, 2023My understanding is that the point is the misalignment of the stated words from the stated actions, and by reading the contradiction it seems that I am avoiding the pain because of loneliness. However, I was in a hurry and probably didn’t write the oys clearly enough, hence your misunderstanding, and my reaction. I am learning to be alone without feeling lonely, and the theme of the week was exactly understanding why I felt this way. I departed with a group of friends but after 5 days I left the… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/05/23 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 16, 2023I understand what you mean: you want to say that I am trying to convince myself? right? I see how it may seem so, yet I really feel like the criticism of not lifting when you are in a third world village is kind of sick. But you’re right, I shouldn’t care if people in this community give these types of criticism and explaining is not worth my time. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/05/23 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 16, 2023How can you convince someone in a debate about what is right or wrong without explaining your points? No this has nothing to do with feminism. I used it as an example to say that deering (in particular defend/explain) would be acceptable in a discussion with more people: if someone didn’t care to explain what’s wrong with feminism etc. we wouldn’t have this community. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/05/23 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 16, 2023I consciously deered: I think answering to this shit is useful when other people reads. I don’t accept doing retard mutism on this, and I believe that if someone didn’t stand their ground (defend) against feminism trp wouldn’t even be born at all. Fucking will come .. no worries ;) Enjoy the weekend. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/05/23 02:21 PM |
| 0 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 16, 2023drunk and smoked socially, I didn’t get drunk but had a few beers and smoked some cigarettes. I’m on holiday man 😂 Do you work on holidays? And also have you ever tried surfing 4/5 hours per day per a week? Have you have ever seen morocco? they haven’t day pass and gyms here for your info, did some calisthenics but no possible to lift. I don’t want to fuck, but it doesn’t mean I’m gay and I don’t enjoy female presence in my life. I like to have opportunities lined up even if I dont exploit them.… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/05/23 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 16, 2023OYS 16 Theme: remove distractions from feeling the pain. Two quotes from my readings pushed me to pursue my edge “Unadorned suffering is the bedmate of masculine growth. Only by staying intimate with your personal suffering can you feel through it to its source. By putting all your attention into work, TV, sex, and reading, your suffering remains unpenetrated, and the source remains hidden.” and ““indulge in your pain and use your weakness, hatred and suffering to forge the mind of a philosopher… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/05/23 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 16, 2023OYS 16 Theme: remove distractions from feeling the pain. Two quotes from my readings pushed me to pursue my edge “Unadorned suffering is the bedmate of masculine growth. Only by staying intimate with your personal suffering can you feel through it to its source. By putting all your attention into work, TV, sex, and reading, your suffering remains unpenetrated, and the source remains hidden.” and ““indulge in your pain and use your weakness, hatred and suffering to forge the mind of a philosopher… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/05/23 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 09, 2023“The two ways to bring you right to your masculine edge of power are austerity and challenge. […] Unadorned suffering is the bedmate of masculine growth. Only by staying intimate with your personal suffering can you feel through it to its source. By putting all your attention into work, TV, sex, and reading, your suffering remains unpenetrated, and the source remains hidden. Your life becomes structured entirely by your favorite means of sidestepping the suffering you rarely allow yourself to fe… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/05/23 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 09, 2023MGTOW period, not yet in phase 5. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/05/23 06:43 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 09, 2023OYS 15 Theme: fight the need for private security Basics: 29 yo almost at phd discussion, LTR 6.5yr gone south since she became my purpose. I didn't realize how the resentment build up from nice guy syndrome destroyed the relationship. Read: wisnifg, mmslp, map, nmmng, bop, the game, RM#1, SGM, How to win friends and influence people Reading: sidebar, TWoSM - started reading again Mission: grow into a man and finding my real mission. Generate enough passive income to get out of the wheel and to … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/05/23 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 02, 2023Yes you’re right thanks. It reflects the state of mind I am at, and I focused more on noticing these points than taking action. On learning that language I must disagree. I have more motivation to invest on that than sidebar because in three months I can get fluent, and when I’ll reach the job seeking stage I can aim at Barcelona and Madrid areas. Although it is long term, it helps my employment perspectives and increases my smv as well, it seems to me a pretty good investment. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/05/23 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 02, 2023Relationship: I couldn't give up the idea of recovering this. Addiction mixed with a scarcity mentality made me melt as soon as I saw her. She told me she's involved emotionally with someone else already, and when she said that, I couldn't get angry since I saw hypergamy kicking in.. older guy, better financial stability, and he listened to her which I hadn’t for long. -Covert contracts: I was quiet, and with a weird inner happiness at that time: all of this did not affect me (or so I thought), … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/05/23 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - May 02, 2023OYS 14 Theme: "The attachment to comfort and security is what limits most men in their capacity to make a spiritual touchdown. The other team is your own need for private security. You're fighting a war with your own self-sense. To be free is to die to your need to be a separate self." still this will apply until internalized. Basics: 29yo waiting to discuss phd th., was in a LTR 6.5 yr, she broke up because she was my purpose and main mission in life. My nice guy syndrome destroyed the relation… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/05/23 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 25, 2023You’re right, I definitely suffer from oneitis when I see her. I don’t have socials so no problem there. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/04/23 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 25, 2023u/Alpha_Chupacabra9 your comments really know how to push someone into the gym, every time I read you I can't wait to go. LOL | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/04/23 07:48 AM |
| 5 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 25, 2023OYS 13 Theme: "The attachment to comfort and security is what limits most men in their capacity to make a spiritual touchdown. The other team is your own need for private security. You're fighting a war with your own self-sense. To be free is to die to your need to be a separate self. Basics: 29yo waiting to discuss phd th., was in a LTR 6.5 yr, she brokeup because she was my purpose and main mission in life. Read: wisnifg, mmslp, map, nmmng, bop, the game, RM#1, SGM, 16CoP Reading: sidebar, TWo… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/04/23 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 18, 2023Do you have any concrete plans here? Yes, in two ways: I am going to a basketball pitch to play and meet new people, and also I've been invited by a friend to a night out at an exclusive club. I am not interested in clubbing per se, but who knows who you meet in these social situations. If I'm wrong, great. If it's congruent for you, great. I think its useful to just be aware of. I discovered it as you said, by meeting hippyish people that lived in a van. At the time, I was very career centered … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/04/23 11:04 AM |
| 7 | Interpreting strange signals from weird girlThought the same, the feeding as you describe didn't seem something to create intimate connection. The interview questions seems to have the same purpose, I'd deflect them in a funny way and let her qualify to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/23 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 18, 2023Please, don't praise: I prefer you roast me like you did in the past. First: yes the focus has been in becoming the man since I started my oys. I wasn't referring to the wording, I was referring to learning to listen what I want. Actions for this week: - Feel my hearth on what I want to do and when, and don't compromise on what I should socially do to get approvals (also practicing DAREing and Not DEERing) - Go on with detoxifying mind and body and with increasing the streaks of no drugs (psycho… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/04/23 07:41 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 18, 2023OYS 12 I don't even know if I am still entitled in posting here, but OYS have been a real tool to learn more about myself so I'll continue them in spite of the breakup. Ban me if you think I don't belong. Theme: Someone in the exes post: "The first heartbreak turns a boy into a man" - u\Blarg_Risen a few oys ago invited me to stop what I was writing, since it was a poorly written adolescent novel: it was, I feel like a 15yrs old after I discovered all these things and I got excited when I saw th… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/04/23 09:16 AM |
| 4 | Exes.Thanks for the post. Been left last week for exactly this reason after 7 yrs relationship. My case is even more obvious: she thought to be pregnant. She panicked and something in her biology told her: "no way". LOL. I thanked her for all the lessons this breakup brings and walked away. I'd like to meet her in a few years though, to see who got the best deal out of it... | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/23 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 11, 2023I expected this comment, agreed and will keep it for myself. Do you have any insight I’m missing from the diary entry above besides lifting? Can you suggest any specific reading within the sidebar? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/04/23 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 11, 2023nice, thx for taking this time. You start with the assumption that I don’t know anything about cars. What if I studied cars for the last 10yrs? three points: I understand what you say, lifting is the easiest route. It’s what brings the fastest results. That’s true, but have a look at what you suggest: . Bench Press -> weighted dips, archer weighted pushups . Squat -> weighted pistols, combined with weighted step up, and plyometrics . Shoulder Press -> handstand push-ups, want to make it harder? … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/04/23 05:23 AM |
| -4 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 11, 2023I continue to think you’re all scientifically incapable of understanding that muscle hypertrophy is the same regardless the method you use. With the only difference that compound movements such as those in thenics build more flexible and mobile bodies. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/04/23 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 11, 2023Note to self: why not to take her back? https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/12gupws/exes/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1 | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/04/23 01:17 PM |
| -4 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 11, 2023** OYS 11 - FR ** This OYS is a little different and although long, it helps me and it may help someone else to understand that RP's concepts are not made to save your relationship with women, but to fucking save your relationship with yourself. If you think it should be a field report let me know... **Main event**: breakup **Background/Basics**: I was a natural when I grew up, working bars and clubs and when we met I had no intention whatsoever of getting into a serious relationship, started ca… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/04/23 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 04, 2023oys 10 Background: 29 y/o, 7 yrs together, 177cm, 78 kg. Lost my frame after moving in together and accepting to move into academia, where I am underpaid. No house, no car, no money, good body still young and potentially attractive. Dread: level 3 main goals: - start a side project to increase revenues, - advanced calisthenics skills, - read TWoSM and Taos by Green Mission: At this stage financial freedom to enjoy the world a bit. Higher purpose: become high impact social entrepreneur and exploi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/04/23 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 21, 2023OYS 9 Basics: 29 y/o, 7 yrs together, 177cm, 78 kg. Lost my frame after moving in together and accepting to move into academia, where I am highly underpaid. No house, no car, no money, good body still young and potentially attractive (high earning potential, good education). Dread 3 Mission: At this stage financial freedom to enjoy the world. Higher purpose: become high impact social entrepreneur and improve public policy Read: wisnifg, mmslp, map, nmmng, bop, the game, RM1, SGM, 16COP Reading: … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 28/03/23 09:20 AM |
| 3 | A little story.I’m surprised no one answered citing cat string theory… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/23 07:05 AM |
| 0 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 14, 2023I understand. I am aiming at that irrational self confidence you cite in the comment. Thank you for the feedback. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/03/23 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 14, 2023let me add: during the discussion (the night) I stfu but I was angry as fuck and she could sense that, which made her continue the aggression. On the other hand, after going into the cold shower, I was relaxed and at her bitching I replied smiling and amplifying (AA) which totally changed her non-verbal behavior and led us to sex. I considered this a proof that her bitching was a shit test, and since I’ve never seen one in the past it meant one of the two options: option 1: she’s started testing… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/03/23 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 14, 2023Probably it was poorly written, I was referring to the first part of “on the nature of sexuality” from bop: “… women seem more like a touchstone…”. It’s like when you look at yourself in the mirror and you notice that you’re fat/unfit, and think “what did I eat?” or “how did I get here?”. I see my flaws after reasoning on how I behave in the environment, and how the environment reacts to my frame. It’s not the reaction I get, but because it pushes myself in asking “where does this arise?”. For e… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/03/23 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 14, 2023lol thanks for the feedback. You may be right, (need to read them again with an outer view) I am aware that’s nothing and I will definitely keep grinding. But if we’re running a marathon isn’t it nice to give ourselves a pat on the head, and say good boy when we reach a target? However, I disagree on one thing: it is natural that most of the things I write regards her, as she is only a reflection of myself I am finding out things about me by looking in the mirror. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/03/23 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 14, 2023OYS #8 Playing with dynamite: enjoying the fireworks. Basics: 29 yo 7 yrs together, 177cm, 78kg. lost frame after moving in together and accepting lower salary in academia. No house, no car, no money, still strong inner game based on habits and earning potential. Mission: At this stage financial independency to enjoy the world a bit. Higher purpose: become high impact social entrepreneur and exploit the service to improve public policy Read: wisnifg, mmslp, map, nmmng, bop, game, RM Reading: wis… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/03/23 07:58 AM |
| 0 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 07, 2023maybe you’re right, on which part I don’t say. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/03/23 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 07, 2023Say you’re a coach and during a training your lads are chitchatting and not giving enough, what do you do? scream at them…? or better, send them home and let them think about their behavior telling that the next training they either show a better attitude or don’t show at all. Better to sacrifice a mediocre training session for a month or more of really focused ones, and in my case it worked. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/03/23 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 07, 2023OYS #7 Playing with dynamite. Basics: 29 yo 7 yrs together, 177cm, 79kg (estimated bf 12%). lost frame after moving in together and accepting lower salary in academia. No house, no car, no money, still strong inner game based on habits and earning potential. Mission: At this stage financial independency to enjoy the world a bit. Higher purpose: become high impact social entrepreneur and exploit the service to improve public policy Read: wisnifg, mmslp, map, nmmng, bop, game, RM (yr1) Reading: wi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/03/23 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 28, 20231) I love gymnastics sequences with rings, and parallels. The mix of flexibility and strength required and the ability in compounded movements is what I am after and I want to become the man that is able to work these figures with good form, and then dynamically move to the next one. example: A squat is a calisthenics movement, if you add weight you’re just doing weighted calisthenics, is this better? Not necessarily, can you squat weightless deep enough and with straight upper body? and can you… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/23 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 28, 2023It is the part in bold because it’s the thing I have to notice in this week OYS: It doesn’t matter how much I did, only the present work counts, and I always need to improve or I revert back in 1sec. Thank you for your inputs that got me introspecting more. You can even avoid reading it, but in case you have comments I’m more than happy to hear it. Context I didn’t want to write the story of my life because no one gives a shit about it. But to give context, even before redpill I was a very activ… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/03/23 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 28, 2023The first comment: That’s exactly what happened and thanks for taking your time for writing it as it is. Anything else would be an excuse. Though the initial mistake comes much earlier: where I lost my independence and spaces. I want to regain my right to be sad and angry at my work, without it affecting my private life. But if we are both remote workers and stay together all time besides gym, how can I keep these moments for myself? What I’ll be doing will target this problem, everyone is sad o… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/03/23 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 28, 2023OYS 5-6 Basics: 29 yo 7 yrs together, 177cm, 78kg. lost frame after moving in together and accepting lower salary in academia. No house, no car, no money, still strong inner game based on habits and earning potential. Mission: At this stage financial independency to enjoy the world a bit. Higher purpose: become high impact social entrepreneur and exploit the service to improve public policy Read: Wisnifg, mmslp, map, nmmng, book of pook , the game Reading: wisnifg x2 (not progressing because of … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/03/23 08:37 PM |
| 0 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 21, 2023OYS #4 “get a plan get a life.” Basics: 29 yo 7 yrs together, 177cm, 78kg. lost frame after moving in together and accepting lower salary in academia. No house, no car, no money, still strong inner game based on habits and earning potential. Mission: At this stage financial independency to enjoy the world a bit. Higher purpose: become high impact social entrepreneur and exploit the service to improve public policy Read: Wisnifg, mmslp, map, nmmng, book of pook , the game Reading: wisnifg x2 Heal… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/02/23 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Stop Jacking Offor at least stop ejaculating. Kegel up and learn how to enjoy orgasms, maintaining that raw need and hunger for girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/23 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 14, 2023I agree on what you said. I used to smoke daily 8 years ago, and I was always scared someone would notice. Last year despite I had high supplies I smoked maybe 20 days, just because I realized that it has huge effects on my motivation of getting things done the day after. Where did you read about testosterone? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/02/23 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 14, 2023as wim hof method was broscience just until it became actual science. All large scientific turnarounds of our history were by definition pseudoscience before they were proven. I have been testing it since december and I can feel the difference. I’m into science, yet I understand that medical science are just a franchise of r&d of the pharma industry… ah I’ve seen now! noFap is no masturbation, semen retention is an old taoist practice that doesn’t involve ejaculation. Now I won’t explain the det… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/02/23 05:30 PM |
| 5 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 14, 2023OYS #3 Basics: 29 yo 7 yrs together, 177cm, 78kg lost frame after moving in together and accepting lower salary in academia. No house, no car, no money. Mission: At this stage financial independence, to enjoy the world freely. Higher purpose: become high impact social entrepreneur and exploit the service to improve public policy Read: Wisnifg, mmslp, map, nmmng, book of pook, the game Reading: wisnifg x2, H&F: I ring-tested my wrists with some dips/pullups, pain is tolerable and inferior to thos… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/02/23 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 07, 2023OYS #2 Enjoying this accountability so I’m driven towards my second oys Basics: 29 y/o, 7 yrs together, 177cm, 78 kg. Lost my frame after moving in together and accepting to move into academia, where I am highly underpaid. No house, no car, no money, good body, still young and high earning potential. Mission: At this stage I want to become a financially independent, to travel around and enjoy life for some years. Then, I will focus on my main life goals: entrepreneurship and later on public poli… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/02/23 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 31, 2023“The debate happened years ago and it was decided by people who know more…”. Sadly, I don’t reason this way and I don’t see this in line with wisnifg and the community mentality in general. I think most of us landed here after trying traditional “couple therapies” because recognized the “people who SHOULD know more about couple psychology” were in fact not so expert after all. So you put in doubt everything society teaches about relationships and how man shall behave, and now you use that senten… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/02/23 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 31, 2023Thanks for sharing. Legs are definitely harder to train but I’ve played 16yrs football, so I’m still benefiting from that. When I was 16 I was in the young division of a professional team, and we were going to the gym without much supervision and that stiffened my upper body a lot because of wrong training habits. So for now I’ll stick with the schedule that was working, but I’ll definitely reconsider when I’ll hit my calisthenics targets. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/02/23 01:39 PM |
| 0 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 31, 2023I understand it may seem an ego issue, but I want to remain functional to surfing and since I’m short I cannot gain too much mass. I found out that cali works for me, and she’s receptive. I also feel that my body is the last of my problems, and the marginal return of extra gym is way lower than the marginal return in earning 1$ more or being a better player. Thanks for the input anyway, on the cali issue I had tried to open a discussion some months ago (https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/co… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/02/23 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Hot guy summerWorked on me so I didn’t care about references. I don’t have time to overstudy why it works so cannot check the article but if you’re interested I had this one saved https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17101527/ | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/23 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 31, 2023OYS 1 Basics: 29 yrs/o, 7 yrs together Background: I realized I’ve been a pussy with a weak frame since I moved to her city and house 4yrs ago and picked a phd program there to stay with her. Her car, her house and little money, have been in comfort for too long. Mission: become a freelance and become able to travel around the world to surf and work remotely Read: wisnifg, mmslp, map, nmmng, book of pook Reading: re-reading wisnifg and practicing it daytoday Stats: 177, 78kg, calisthenics athlet… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/02/23 01:48 PM |
| 24 | Hot guy summerCardio - it’s not important how much you burn while doing it. The real difference is the effect on metabolism, when you do cardio in the morning you keep burning along the day... I noticed that 10 mins of skipping rope in the morning with interval training (45 slow 15 fast 1 min rest every mean) maximizes my muscle growth and I am able to stay lean even If I overeat slightly | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/23 09:44 PM |
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