cmj4120 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Girl I Like Wears Makeup At Home And When She's Going Out. You are jumping to conclusions. Tone down that insecurity.	/r/seduction	23/12/21 03:23 AM
1	How do i ask her to be my girlfriend? Exactly. When she can’t stand the thought she may one day lose you…	/r/seduction	08/12/21 12:49 PM
4	How do i ask her to be my girlfriend? You don’t. Make her ask you. Always.	/r/seduction	08/12/21 01:36 AM
1	What are some specific tips on how to make sure there is no "friend vibe" on a date for a guy taking out a woman? Eye contact. Sly smiles. Touching, especially elbows and thighs.	/r/seduction	12/11/21 05:37 PM
1	I have a date in one hour(7.30PM). She is going back to her city tomorrow, yet agreed to go for drinks with me. Is there a fool-proof(or at least most probable) way to convert this into a One-night stand? Yep. Just be playfully and physically escalate.	/r/seduction	27/10/21 01:59 AM
1	WOMEN ARE RUINING THIS SUB! Moron	/r/seduction	07/09/21 02:29 AM
0	WOMEN ARE RUINING THIS SUB! The man has a point about women saying they want one thing but going for another. But then again….women.	/r/seduction	25/08/21 04:17 PM
1	What are key songs in your sex playlist? Trilogy	/r/seduction	25/08/21 04:15 PM
1	Bit confused between whats happening between me and my crush Stop confessing dude. You seem like an emotional p****. No chick wants that. You’re best chance is to break her frame of you being that way.	/r/seduction	23/08/21 09:44 PM
1	Help needed asap! Keep doing what you were doing/going down the path you were on. It’s not a bad thing…	/r/seduction	21/08/21 07:26 PM
2	[deleted by user] Service industry dating is not for everyone as is (I’ve done it well), but 7/7 makes it damn near impossible. I’d walk and let her chase you.	/r/seduction	11/08/21 11:26 PM
2	What are your thoughts on persistence? She could be shittesting to see how easily (or not) you’d walk away. I’d give it another go or two.	/r/seduction	11/08/21 01:01 AM
2	How do I ask? Make her ask you. Always.	/r/seduction	09/08/21 11:00 PM
3	Girl I went to get drinks with told me she's not looking for relationship It doesn’t sound like she knows enough about you yet to know if she wants your world. Asking her about it at this point is not something any “catch” would do and would prob make things awkward. Sure continue to hit her up, but she needs to be the one to ask YOU to settle down.	/r/seduction	09/08/21 02:05 AM
7	Girl I went to get drinks with told me she's not looking for relationship You don’t. You do you and what you want and she’ll either follow to enter into your world, or she won’t. It’s not about what she wants.	/r/seduction	08/08/21 11:44 PM
3	Where do I even start? Lotta people have been there. Don’t beat yourself up. You have all these good things going because you obv bring value to the world. When it comes to convos, my biggest tip is stay loose and do less. Avoid interview questions. Talk about what you like and what you’re interested in. This will lead the convo forward. Be loose and have good posture. Playfully touch forearms / elbows while Laughing to initiate contact then escalate from there. You got this.	/r/seduction	07/08/21 02:27 AM
2	[deleted by user] Loosen up early by taking to strangers. Focus on smiling with your guys and being present. Don’t overthink it. Just make eye contact, approach, repeat. And always lead the interaction to the next step along the way (your bed).	/r/seduction	03/08/21 01:48 AM
3	Girls friend is hotter Step 0 - secure some IOIs from the hot friend. Step 1 - stop seeing your friend.	/r/seduction	02/08/21 09:46 PM
1	Girl who blocked me I met her at the club. Nailed it.	/r/seduction	02/08/21 09:43 PM
4	I have been told repeatedly that I look like a kid. What's wrong with that? Most women (except cougars and weirdos) rarely want a kid fucking them. They want a MAN.	/r/seduction	02/08/21 09:28 PM
8	Friday Date Night Gone Wrong People say something like this when they are annoyed, angry, or even feeling mean. It shows she’s bothered you somehow. If that’s what you want to come across as go for it. But just remember the game is bigger than her.	/r/seduction	02/08/21 09:18 PM
9	Friday Date Night Gone Wrong 1 For the love of all things holy don’t do #4	/r/seduction	02/08/21 09:01 PM
5	Girl became mean and blocked me after first date Not an attorney. However if this were me I would not say anything further to her, at all, and especially dont admit any potential fault that she can use to concoct something against you. Possible you already said too much. It’s time to move on and forget this for good.	/r/seduction	02/08/21 05:57 PM
2	Girl became mean and blocked me after first date If she’s as it into it as you say she was: She’s prob really upset with herself and projecting it onto you.	/r/seduction	02/08/21 05:42 PM
7	A girl flirted with me, but i found out she has a boyfriend. What the heck People in relationships flirt with others often. She wants to explore what you’re like. Don’t be out off by the boyfriend, it’s yours to win.	/r/seduction	02/08/21 02:33 AM
5	A watch, subtle use of cologne, and a few solid color t-shirts that fit well. Effortless items that increase outward attractiveness and convey status Men don’t wear watches because women love them	/r/seduction	01/08/21 08:37 PM
6	How are people are able to hookup with people they met the same night? Best way to do it through convo	/r/seduction	01/08/21 03:10 AM
2	I accidentally simped EXTREMELY hard. One that lets her know you’re serious about that statement	/r/seduction	24/07/21 04:06 PM
2	I accidentally simped EXTREMELY hard. I would go down the path of “no, we’re not friends. I don’t have girls I’m just ‘friends’ with” or “sounds like you mistook me for another nice guy.” Doing this second one somewhat playfully is key. In my experience, saying you’re not there to be their “friend” works well in a variety of contexts.	/r/seduction	24/07/21 02:36 PM
6	I accidentally simped EXTREMELY hard. If this is the path she goes down, there are so many congruent ways to keep the frame in response to this.	/r/seduction	24/07/21 02:23 PM
16	I accidentally simped EXTREMELY hard. Quite possible. Depends on the specific girl. If he still wants a shot I see this as the best bet.	/r/seduction	24/07/21 02:09 PM
64	I accidentally simped EXTREMELY hard. At this point, your best bet is to turn it into a date opportunity. Before you start the work, tell her something like: this part’s on me, dinner is on you. I like [restaurant / type of food]. If she doesn’t give you a positive response, then I’d pull away hard.	/r/seduction	24/07/21 01:41 PM
1	Would it be weird to send her a cold email? Don’t even need to read anything but the title. Yes.	/r/seduction	18/07/21 02:38 PM
1	Not sure whether to talk to this girl 1Shoot your shot man.	/r/seduction	14/07/21 12:56 PM
2	[deleted by user] This. Do it, but make sure do it through your frame of Playful and fun. That way even if she doesn’t respond, you can be certain it’s not because you didn’t speak with an attractive mindset. You’ll be secure one way or another this way.	/r/seduction	14/07/21 02:45 AM
1	I keep getting “maybe” replies when I ask if/when she wants to meet up. Next step? Never send more than 3 messages without making plans. And always move the interaction forward.	/r/seduction	14/07/21 02:39 AM
1	ADVICE You’re clear but don’t count on her to lead it forward. If she calls you that’s a great sign, but be prepared for the fact you’ll need to call her. Part of being a man.	/r/seduction	12/07/21 11:04 PM
1	Escalating when in a small group v. being more direct “Worried?” What are you worried about man? Just go for it! So what if it’s off putting to her. Life will go on.	/r/seduction	12/07/21 10:09 PM
1	The woman war field Only focus on what he can control, which are the right / attractive behaviors. The outcomes will be what they are.	/r/seduction	12/07/21 10:06 PM
2	I’m a seductive person but when it comes to my crush I loose all my skills I’ve been there. Slow down. Zoom out. Take time to process all of what’s going on. Then respond (not react) as you normally / more effectively would. You got this.	/r/seduction	04/07/21 01:37 AM
5	I have a short date tomorrow I would say no to a short date on her terms bro. You’re better than that. Tell her you guys will hang out when there’s more time.	/r/seduction	04/07/21 01:35 AM
2	Protective friend Shit test	/r/seduction	03/07/21 12:02 PM
3	Who was the OP of this comment? Using this analogy helped so much Yep. Guys. Are. The. Prize.	/r/seduction	19/06/21 10:27 PM
2	How to maintain interest if you can’t meet up for over a week? Build the anticipation then stay silent for awhile. She’ll be thinking about it, and making herself more excited to see when the day exactly does arrive, especially if you’ve made yourself scarce.	/r/seduction	19/06/21 10:25 PM
3	If you can, double book your dates in the beginning This is great advice. Highly recommend. I usually give myself 90 mins in between when I do it. The #6 benefit is that if you don’t like your first date, off you go with no skin off your back. I’ve even joked around to the first date that she better impress me quick bc I have another date scheduled after this one. They love that shit.	/r/seduction	15/06/21 12:55 AM
-5	How to stop pedestalizing women. Spot on. Guys are the prize.	/r/seduction	11/06/21 04:47 PM
9	Unable to approach women even if they're showing obvious signs of interest (help) Make the move before the feeling of fear sets in and you won’t regret it.	/r/seduction	08/06/21 11:57 PM
1	The number one trait you need to get laid. Generally yes but likely too extreme. Building some unique connection/rapport over text is good BUT ONLY when it leads the interaction forward.	/r/seduction	21/05/21 09:15 PM