TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

cmj87 Archive

View 1 post and 30 comments by cmj87 on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

cmj87/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 07:51 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Omg you’re so right. I just realized it’s a huge blessing. But how can I make him feel more comfortable? I worry about how sensitive he is to me at times🥲
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/22 10:23 AM
2

It’s not just sweet that he’s so worried & protective. It’s very hot. I feel the guy I’m seeing is afraid to make me his sub💀
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 02:22 AM
4

Recently an young man that I kept turning down, who is in the same friend circle as me, deleted me off of his Facebook. When I asked him why, bc actually in my head we had grown to become close friends, he told people I was “crazy” for asking. I only asked because I know he has a history of mental health issues & he seemed to be acting erratically. So because I led myself to believe we were “friends” I wanted to see if he was ok. So after a hour of that abuse, in a closed Facebook group with mut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 02:03 AM
6

Hot.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/19 07:59 PM
1

Yes, I'm sorry my love life tends to be confusing because I'm indecisive. Something to work on in therapy I suppose. I'm not worried about meeting him anymore, I'm a little more worried to begin a phone relationship for some reason. I think, just because I don't really talk on the phone that much I imagine it might be difficult for me to keep up with. But now, thinking of it, I think he would understand that. The reason I'm very into him is we are both very attracted to each other, have almost e…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/19 07:16 PM
2

Thank you so much for your long & thoughtful reply. I have been very busy with the holidays (my family is..a lot around this time of year). Also this situation that I posted about has intensified times 10 since I have been on. Which has been romantic but has left me in a dream like state. I am still processing a lot of what you said & integrating it into what my intuition is telling me to do. I am going to continue dating & maybe as you said have kids sooner rather than later to get it out of th…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 06:29 AM
1

Not to make it sound as if I see myself as a victim just as an African American woman I have had to be more realistic about what my perceived value is. I have to fight off low balling & also unconscious bias while dating. Even in relationships I have had to deal with my ex saying racist things to undermine my confidence. So these are some challenges that me & people who are like me deal with when dating. For a while, especially after living in a different country & being treated considerably bet…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/19 12:52 AM
1

I do not see myself as conventionally attractive because I'm African American so I don't believe we are seen as valuable in this country. Though the standards of beauty are changing & quickly but I still feel as if I'm forced to compete at times with women who less talented or even attractive I hate to say than me all bc they have lighter skin. Unless depending on if you are in a larger city where interracial dating is more common. But living in one of those metropolitan places, though fun can p…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/19 12:47 AM
1

Hi, & thank you for your inquiries to better assist me :) I will not tell my age because I'm actually a few years behind where I'd like to ideally be due to both family & major health emergencies. I would prefer not to go into why I'm behind in life at this time. I'm just thankful I'm finally reaching success somehow just by being passionate. My major family obligations at this time is a niece who was just diagnosed on the autism spectrum. I'm expected to help with her care & I happily do so. Bu…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 10:06 PM
1

<3 :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 04:30 PM
2

Bahahaha.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 04:12 PM
1

Thank you, I will google that now.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 04:09 PM
1

& people call him Chad, & I'm not listening because I barely even know what it means. I thought it was positive.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 03:26 PM
1

"People" ?
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 03:21 PM
1

This was a fair response but this isn't my professional page. This is my personal page which I happen to at times use to for better or worse (I hate this phrase) to create a "brand" so to speak. But it is highly likely I am too hung up on this. Bc yes them fighting on my page is ruining the quality of my content & does jeopardize my own reputation by me not moderating effectively.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 03:20 PM
2

Thank you again! I sincerely appreciate your kind, gracious words. Please ignore overly cynical people who are not only close-minded but don't know what they are talking about. I'm clearly very into esoteric things & I do not mind you mentioning my intuition as it is a huge part of how I navigate relationships & life :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 03:13 PM
2

This is actually so funny because your comment motivated me to reactivate my facebook account so that I could see if he messaged me. I messaged him maybe Saturday afternoon, & I thought out what I said but I didn't plan to do this. It was all on a whim. I just wanted to clarify that I wasn't putting him in the friend zone while he figured himself out. I was not exactly expecting a good reply. In these situations I know guys either to be very immature because it can be too much too fast but I ima…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 07:13 AM
-1

& the reason I'm weary of discussing my meeting men online is because my friends are older than me. In one case much older than me, & she is very confused as to why I'm meeting men online at all. So I don't feel as if I have anyone with an objective, unbiased view to discuss all of this with. I have actually received the most helpful feedback on reddit so I supposed I will continue to take advice here. It is very sad to me that I must take my friend's advice all with a grain of salt because they…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 09:45 PM
-1

OMG this is so true, which is probably the reason why when I got more vocal (well mostly honest) about my political views I had to drop many supposedly close women friends. I'm actually very intellectual & passionate but I hide this behind a playful, fun-loving facade. When I started to be honest about my beliefs I received a lot of resentment for not going along with these "friends". Which as someone with free-thinking, spontaneous, & experimental tendencies this not only disgusted me with it's…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 08:51 PM
-2

I was asking if there was a way to continue as I am but to not make the guy I'm interested in jealous or hurt his pride. I'm not trying to do that to him as I take his affection towards me seriously. When we communicate in our messages we are very tender with each other. But maybe the problem is as you say with him. Since he isn't exactly stable there isn't much I can do to calm him down. I'm not looking for a cookie cutter person so his darker emotions aren't a problem to me. But unfortunately …
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 08:44 PM
2

Tact is so important.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 07:29 PM
2

I love lists like this, though it is impossible for me to completely be this way. I have been wanting to read more books on modern etiquette. My Mom brought me up very strict in that way. & I would like to continue practicing/having those habits & social graces.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 07:29 PM
2

Ah. I see.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 07:24 PM
1

I'm really sorry you are experiencing this. & I don't have any advice, you could probably be a role model for me. I just started to let myself look sorta slovenly to blend in so that they would leave me the hell alone. It is a lot. I don't get people at all sometimes. But I definitely want to go back to being completely put together a majority of the time. Deep down inside I felt the most secure even if I was being negged to death.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 07:19 PM
–

I could add buying skincare products (because skincare is a necessity, so not an indulgence but the packaging is often so pretty. Eating dark chocolate, chocolate icecream, chocolate smoothies, chocolate frozen yogurt. The occasional mocha coffee or frap from starbucks. Cooking my favorite recipes (which are usually intricate & expensive). Getting my hair done DONE. Spending a lot of money on it. When I wake up early enough to watch the sunrise & the air is very fresh. When all of my technology …
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 07:10 PM
–

I love watching the sunrise/sunset. I feel it is one of life's most natural indulgences that most people either don't appreciate or don't see the beauty in...
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 07:05 PM
–

The Korean spa Thai massages eating out by myself I could probably go on & on but that is all I can think about for now. Masturbating to thinking of my love interest (is it ok to share that)
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 07:04 PM
–

I'm still learning what a redpill woman is, but I'm grateful at the very least for a community I can learn from & the genuine chance for self improvement. As well as the motivation to begin this journey to better myself again.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 07:01 PM
0

"Women are oriented towards consensus." Interesting idea, & I am inclined to believe it. Could you elaborate on that?
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 06:47 PM
3

Could someone so generously explain this to me as if I'm 5? Are they trying to lose the ability to pair bond so that they don't get attached? Isn't that more of a chemical thing, not a mental thing?
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 06:15 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter