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cmkinusn/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 01:40 PM
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If you want a cool job, go into either physics, chemistry or manufacturing engineering with a focus on process design/engineering. From third year on find every cool manufacturer you can think of and apply for internships during the summer. Think Siemens, Ford, Toyota (as in Japan, because that would be fucking awesome for you and your resume), CAT, Solar Turbines, General Dynamics, etc. Places that will put you in front of a good product and a quality product line and let you figure out how to …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 03:15 AM
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Remember, though, that you are supposed to be working in the field all through your college degree, so you should be building connections and setting up internships. I know 3 different engineers where I work that were hired recently and are applied physics majors. Just don't waste your time going toward theoretics, go straight for applied.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 11:51 AM
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Physics is a great degree, lol, just don't be a waste and focus on an applied arts degree in physics. Optics is one great field that pays amazingly if you get into applied physics. If you can't work towards that degree, then say fuck it and pay for welding classes. About 8000 dollars would get you a full certification in every kind of welding, probably cheaper. Maybe instead you get your associates and apply for various apprenticeships at manufacturing companies. And also, I'm not talking like a…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 11:23 AM
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To work for free where i work, you need to be a 3rd year student in college and apply for a competitive internship. There is no room for free work, and the cost of a worker's pay is not the biggest cost of having them work here. 10-20/hr saved by not paying you is literally meaningless to the company I work for. If you want opportunity, go to community college and apply for grants and scholarships or work part time or whatever and get an associates in something electronic or mechanical or whatev…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 03:06 AM
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I have two coworkers who have gotten 4-5 hours of sleep for over 45 years, ever since they were in the air force and all the way until today. They are both obviously in their mid 60s. Your body does manage to adapt over time.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 10:23 AM
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He is right that it is weak to even bring it up to her, just hard next. Bringing it up is basically just saying "lie to me, please?" The explanation is clear, and it will never come from her lips.
/r/askTRP13/02/16 03:24 AM
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sounds like he would get a quick return on that investment, too.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 03:06 AM
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Polygamy is a game of the rich to take from the poor, in this case to monopolize the good genes (women) in a society.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 03:40 AM
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Well, one thing to realize is that you probably won't get what you want from the relationship if you go monogamous. Unless she is the old-fashioned type of woman who puts up her weight in a relationship, you won't find anything matching what you really expect from her, no matter how much she says she loves you or how much you love her. You can't give in just because she feels hurt, you have to keep your mind thinking about the future consequences of what you do, because I guarantee that she isn'…
/r/askTRP27/12/15 02:48 AM
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You don't seem to understand. The effects of masturbation on the body are completely temporary. As in NOTHING accumulates. It is all transient, as if nothing happened after a short time. The only thing that lasts is the psychosomatic effects of not masturbating. If you aren't having sex on a normal basis, or flat out aren't trying to have sex, the frustration caused by not masturbating will not be helpful at all. Not masturbating doesn't help your focus, it doesn't change the chemical compositio…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 04:25 PM
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temporary, as in the process ends after a few hours? Not fapping on a day you will have sex with someone? Probably a good idea. Before you head to the club? Probably a good idea. For months and months to improve your confidence? It won't help in any direct fashion. The help it will give you is in frustration, the sort of frustration that might make you more likely to just go for it if you think you can close on a girl.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 01:54 PM
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I mean once you get back to your social circle, as you mentioned.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 04:23 AM
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After you make that change and get reacquainted, you need to start working on how to build a social circle no matter where you go, so that you never find yourself in this situation again. It can be quite the setback for anybody.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 04:12 AM
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It seems you have nothing going on in your life right now that you find worthwhile....which is a terrible time to break any habit, honestly. You need to fix the problem of feeling worthless before you will see anything from doing r/nofap .
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:51 AM
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You need to realize that commitment is meaningless. Sacrifice is meaningless. She doesn't owe you for those sacrifices and those commitments, she has no obligations. Realize this, and stop sacrificing and committing to anyone but yourself. Save the commitments to an older you who has a more realistic idea of what they actually are and who deserves them. (that's my plan)
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:47 AM
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Why would you go back to porn instead of trying to fix the sex situation? That is 200 days you were SUPPOSED to be fixing the sex situation in.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:40 AM
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If you are already around people in that way, perhaps your entire problem is you? There is no excuse for lacking friends, and a good amount of everybody you meet probably has the capacity to be your friend in an engaging way if you try, so you need to focus on what YOU are doing to make this not happen. edit: That takes real effort of thought, not just asking more people questions, by the way. Only you know what your deficiencies are, so you need to read the sidebar more, get your head back in r…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:35 AM
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That isn't really what he meants by sports. He means doing the sport, getting into the environment of that sport, improving yourself for it, enjoying it. Watching a sport is a low-value hobby if you have no physical experience with that sport.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:21 AM
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You need real friends, that is something you need to learn about and really pursue if you want to get past the loneliness you are feeling right now. It is something many people have a problem with getting past, including me, and the only solution is to discover what a true friend is and put the effort into building those kinds of relationships.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:19 AM
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um, that's what sex is for?
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:17 AM
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the actual science shows those changes to be entirely temporary, gone after a short amount of time. I really think that it is porn and addictive behavior that r/nofap really helps with, not masturbating at all is not beneficial.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 03:15 AM
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They feel intense resentment for their hot "friend", and all it takes is a minor amount of perceived social leverage to burn that "friend" to the fucking ground if they are able to.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 01:44 AM
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There are men flocking to this field, they just fail out of the programs because they have no work ethic. The ones that do have the work ethic almost exclusively choose STEM jobs. Remember that STEM is a pretty damn inclusive field. Hell, even technicians and electromechanical technicians are STEM, not just degreed workers.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 04:32 PM
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Morals don't cause that sort of response, trauma does....unless people with morals are batshit crazy.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 03:05 AM
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Is it normal for a virgin to freak the fuck out, though? I agree it was pathetic of him, but for the reason that she sounds obviously traumatized. If I were him I would have probed a bit, confirmed it was a trauma of some sort, and explain that I can't start a relationship with sone one who clearly isn't ready. I can't help her trauma, so I would prefer not to be a part of it at all.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 11:40 PM
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That doesn't sound like morals and integrity. That sounds like trauma.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 11:38 PM
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Lol mysogynistic to him means not to the advantage of women's sexual goals and strategy. Women gain nothing, in their eyes, from being one of many other girls for a guy they want. So, anyone encouraging such behavior must be an enemy to women, hence mysogynistic.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 10:38 PM
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I'm going with what this guy says. Money buys so fucking much, everything you do in life can be made easier with it. Women are, to me, a secondary objective in life anyways, so I care more about what money CAN get me than what it can't. Making money your mission is liberation if you truly learn how to earn it, because it requires a liberated man. Obviously it isn't the long term goal, but it is a damn good checkpoint in life.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 02:41 PM
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You need to find much better before/after pictures, in my opinion. Those ones you use are definitely not the most effective (the clothes ones are fine, it is the before and after for fitness and fashion)
/r/askTRP16/12/15 05:16 AM
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Doesn't mean they are expensive to lay, just that you wont be laying them if you think spending money will get you in their pants.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 03:44 AM
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Why go the route of being petty in an argument? I can understand maybe saying "You make no fucking sense, i'm done listening to this shit" and leaving or something, but something as stupid as "you're not that hot"? If you are going to have a flash of anger, anyways, I would recommend not accompanying it with insults and possibly not even words. Let it flash, calm yourself down quickly (get back in frame), make your exit. They can't hold anger against you like they can insults and petty shit. edi…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 03:32 AM
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This sub is absolutely about being a better man. It is one facet of that goal, which is to understand the real behaviors and mindset of women and the real behaviors and mindset of a man. The sexual marketplace requires you to be worth something, and frankly you wont find the sex you want if you aren't also becoming a much better man than you started off as. Not to mention that the minute you start reading into the great authors (as in the Great Books, hence "THE" great authors) who fuel the Red …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 12:27 AM
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Oh and it sounds like if you pushed it she would have sex with you, which is truly disturbing since imagine what she does with others who pressure her.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 05:53 PM
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It's scary the lengths women will go to keep someone in orbit, even as far as this girl took it with you. If you or I did something similar we would feel dirty as fuck and ashamed.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 05:47 PM
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Lol trying is a funny word. This is like a guy who needs work so he grabs a shovel or something and just stands all day, every week, near a construction site, sure that soon the foreman will walk over and offer him a job without him ever having to approach and ask for it. (Couple that with ridiculous fantasies of him swooping in and somehow saving the day and the foreman calling him the best worker he ever had, and that describes a white knight lol)
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 01:29 PM
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Honestly, he would be foolish to be mad at her either. Women try their absolute damnedest not to lose even a single orbiter unless that orbiter might cost them an alpha or even just a better beta, and even then he will usually get invited back in once the coast is clear. So it's not really that she is leading him on at all, she just can't eject him from her orbit.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 01:23 PM
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not sure where your message went mentioning what he said. Yeah, I missed that last part of the first sentence. Still a really bad idea to move out, though. Finish school then move out after you have a job, I say.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 04:24 AM
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Haha, just today I was in the shower after my workout and I feel sorta sick so I was a bit whiny about turning from hot to cold. Eventually (after trying to say I would just skip today since I feel sick), I just ignored all of my thoughts and focused on my hand turning the handle to the coldest without thinking about the cold water or anything else. If you start to rationalize and resist you have to just stop listening to your thoughts and focus on your body movements until you push past the res…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 01:10 AM
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Well the simple answer is to not worry how much money you invested and just drop the habit like a bad business. It is much easier than it seems to do, as long as you have other uses for your time to replace it. Honestly, I would recommend working out and learning to read the great books as a replacement, those two will add so much more to your life and your enjoyment of life.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 01:06 AM
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Just my opinion, but you sound needy just going that route with this. You should cut your losses and find more productive uses for your time and effort. Edit: you should cut your losses because even if you manage to get sex, you won't be getting the slutty, juices-flowing girl, you will be getting the bare minimum that she can manage to keep you in her orbit.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 12:55 AM
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He probably won't move out soon since he is going to a short trade school (18 months for the most extensive programs from what I saw). It would be a really bad idea to change his living situation when he should be focusing on learning a complex trade like welding.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 12:46 AM
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Yeah people on other subreddits fail to understand the difference between what red pill actually teaches, and the things "redpillers" say. Like another TRPer wrote about, all of us came to the red pill with our fucked up beliefs and wrecked self-worth. That comes from the feminist world, not from the red pill. These idiots outside of TRP think that you can judge the teacher by his students, even if most of those students haven't been around for more than a few months. Edit: they also seem to thi…
/r/askTRP14/12/15 07:48 PM
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If you are wondering why you got down voted, it is because apologies don't mean jack shit after an action like that. She just showed her true opinion of him and where he stands in her life, how will an apology, even ones like the type you mentioned, change that? Maybe she could apologize if he gave her the chance, but she would only do it for closure on her part and why exactly should he give her the opportunity?
/r/askTRP14/12/15 07:39 PM
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That's not nuclear, that's petty or possibly even "nice guy" territory.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 05:05 AM
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Put it aside to purchase your welding equipment when your school starts. Get some good quality, durable equipment that you plan to use for a long time. (Not the actual welding machine, obviously...I can provide a good list of what to buy if you want one)
/r/askTRP14/12/15 04:55 AM
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seems like his part of the party was rather small, about in line with any of the guests really. He definitely wasn't focused on the party as a whole.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 01:01 AM
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Well, I see nothing wrong with devoting a big portion of your young life to yourself. Doing so won't stop you from finding women when you are older, and will probably make your life that much easier when it finally comes time that you want relationships and plates. (As long as you don't wait too long, of course) I definitely wouldn't wait until your 30s or something, though, maybe 28 or 29 max.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 05:44 AM
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Okay, but women aren't yours, you are only getting your turn. That is what TRP teaches, and that bridges the two tenets you just mentioned. (You get what you want, sure, but don't ever kid yourself that just because you got it that means you get to keep it)
/r/askTRP09/12/15 05:41 AM
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I would definitely put my main focus on your workout, nutrition, and your quality and quantity of sleep. Get all of those in line until you have energy, THEN come back to the problem of self-development. Don't waste time thinking about something you don't have the energy for in the first place, just focus on the things that will give you more energy and return to adding things when you have more energy. (If you are working out, eating right, and getting good sleep....I would just wait it out, an…
/r/askTRP09/12/15 04:06 AM
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I would recommend the second choice honestly. I can't give any direct advice on how to do that, but I imagine selling your group as a whole to existing firms would probably be the best option, since you can quickly transition from a group where you are to a group in the new firm. Couldn't hurt to sit with the group and hash that possiblity out regardless, might be a very productive meeting no matter what you ultimately choose.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 04:02 AM
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It is also possible that since it takes years and years to really make the sort of changes that make you truly "alpha", he appears fake because he isn't done changing yet.
/r/askTRP09/12/15 02:54 AM
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when you join the military as an officer, it will be pretty awesome getting to network in such a new environment and basically create a whole new you. I wouldn't worry too much about networking until then, just create a comfortable network of friends that you would want to keep talking to from a distance.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 02:31 AM
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You are about to go officer, don't worry about where you are at now, focus on your future and follow the advice of TRP and of whichever branch you end up joining. Focus on improvements you KNOW will be powerful tools in your near future. You can REALLY make a killer living as an officer if you know how, and that means being as influential and alpha as possible.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 12:54 AM
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the best thing in the world is when someone has no idea how you did something. They think it is amazing, they think you did something impressive. Even if you didn't. They can't visualize the path to completion, so they completely overestimate the effort and willpower needed. That is a pretty damn good social benefit for those willing to work hard and save gratification for their golden years.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 02:51 AM
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Now imagine you didn't tell them, you didn't update them, you didn't even drop hints or ask advice. You simply did it and once it was accomplished they found out. Your value as a person to them would skyrocket if what you did was masterful or otherwise impressive and seemingly unattainable. What you did didn't even matter until your work was done, but the effort does not go unnoticed if the product is worthy of the immense effort.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 08:25 PM
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Actually, it means that emotions of men aren't expressed they are acted upon. Action over feeling. Personality is stronger in those who act than those who express themselves.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 08:11 PM
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False accusation of a questionable analogy....that's about as close as I can get, but it is also misrepresentation of the argument itself, which I'm sure is also a logical fallacy.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 03:48 PM
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He only said the men, not we men. He means the men in your life, the betas, the SJWs, the "nice guys", etc.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 02:22 PM
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I love that fallacy: because I'm analogizing I MUST be conflating as well. It's literally an automatic assumption for most people, because they lack the ability to listen. Worse in this case, since it's typed and permanent, he could have easily spent a minute thinking first before giving his response....and he still committed the fallacy.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 02:13 PM
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He means they are all beta, whiteknights, etc.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 01:26 PM
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Those people learned through living. It was a part of their life much the same as being alpha is part of a natural alpha's life.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 04:34 AM
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I am out all day personally, so between work, the gym, and the library I always have a public bathroom to use. Hence my toilet paper lasts forever.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 07:59 PM
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What does he owe them exactly? Most likely a woman that age knows when a man wants an LTR or to plate them, stop acting like they are helpless.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 01:29 PM
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I fully agree, but a lot of self-improvement is hurry up and wait. ex. I already did all the research for working out, and now I have a schedule I will be following for the next two years. Any further research will likely be at the same time I am working out. Otherwise...i'm done. What next? Same applies to a lot of things. I fill my day to the brim as much as I can afford to, and I still have about 2 hours left each day where I simply don't have the willpower to pack more in. It's at those time…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 05:07 AM
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so, looking to the source for proof of the red pill and to see how they hamster it away isn't valuable? I find it pretty interesting to see them constantly confirm what the red pill advocates while also proving the decline of humanity in their own attitudes and refusal to accept responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 03:47 AM
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You can't survive on just the meat, you gotta eat the whole plate even if it doesn't taste good. He reads jezebel so he can understand the state of mind of women. Red pill truths are positively abundant on feminist boards.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 01:10 AM
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A man who has actually experienced life a bit, who has actually questioned his own values and actions, is absolutely not like that...at least not in that form of extremity. You can't change a man like that by changing his surroundings, even if it changed for the rest of his life.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 04:38 AM
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Okay, isn't that the exact kind of behavioral adaption that dogs have? The one that lets them be a cute puppy-dog at home, a strong, dominant war/police-dog, or a begging mutt? Adapting to whichever behavior suits them best in their current situation, regardless of pride and self-respect?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 03:16 AM
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My ex-wife was definitely one of the behaving ones who doesn't cause much problems in the short term. Looking back, she makes a terrible LTR, but as a plate she is a great person for hanging out with and fucking after. I would say she is a HB7 (would be much higher if she was in better shape....okay, body hb6, face hb8). They do exist, you just need to set boundaries and MAKE them behave.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 02:59 AM
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You sound pretty bitter yourself. His point is not to fixate on it. You absolutely don't need to, working on yourself and really aiming to make yourself a better person will help you get laid far, far better than trying to play a game you are ill-equipped for.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 02:54 AM
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They don't want to accept young men who probably have orders from one of dozens of Islamic groups. It is possible for married men to have the same problem, but at the very least we have leverage because of their family.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 02:18 AM
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They certainly aren't overrated if you don't know the field at all, because no amount of effort short of the extreme will get you to the knowledge-level needed for even an entry-level job unless you want to be a 30 year old starting at 13-15 an hour with at least 5 years of hard work to be ready to climb the ladder. Me, personally, as someone who already has a second-level (5 years experience) job in a good field, I value a degree that can bring me into engineering far more than 4 equal years of…
/r/askTRP23/11/15 02:22 AM
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It is amazing how much they NEED attention, to the point they will destroy relationships that are exciting and have great potential for a fling on the side. Just because they see the opportunity for attention from another guy. I guess it goes to show how completely false relationships are from a behavioral standpoint, since women absolutely don't respect a relationship unless they have a shit ton to lose.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 02:15 AM
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You really need to get efficient with your learning if you want to stop feeling so intimidated by the material. I can't recommend good sources for learning software material specifically but: What Smart Students Know by Adam Robinson and How to Become a Straight-A Student by Cal Newport are my go-to for college learning at the moment. Reddit is full of great advice for what to read and what works to become as efficient as possible in school. Just Google like this "reddit [subject] best books" I …
/r/askTRP21/11/15 01:43 AM
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I wouldn't. She might want revenge and the law seems to love helping women get petty revenge.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 01:33 AM
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She absolutely is, my ex was fucking me every weekend while she was with her former boyfriend. She didn't even feel guilty about it, she acted like it was perfectly fucking normal. When she broke up with him, she told him she was using him and told him she was fucking me every weekend.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 01:32 AM
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I full on broke things off with my ex and she STILL left her boyfriend and told him she wasn't over me. Before I did that, we were having sex every weekend while she was with him. Don't date someone that still talks to their ex, they are only good for dates and low-priority plating.
/r/askTRP21/11/15 01:29 AM
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You seem really insecure to be asking that without being extremely incel or something.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 01:36 AM
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I think he was implying regular advice with friends, not these beta clowns. You know, giving lifting tips, inside information on industries (as in your experience, not insider trading), great bars or hangouts, etc.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/15 01:35 AM
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This isn't just prostitution, though, this is a normal woman turning to prostitution at the mere mention of money. This shows how morality is so completely removed from society that it seems as nothing for a normal woman to sell her body and then continue life as if she is a faithful innocent girlfriend. This is exactly the kind of shit (extreme perversions) that eventually made Hitler the only option for Germany to be great again.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 01:09 PM
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This is exactly what starts happening at the fall of an empire, or the collapse of a culture.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 12:54 AM
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Yeah, I have always seen redpill as a problem-solution mindset, where the worst bluepill attitude is tackled as a problem and a solution is found to fix it. Obsessed with former wife or partner? Study Oneitis and adapt an abundance mentality, defeat the bluepill tendency to put a woman on a pedestal. Anything but direct advice is noise....so at the very least state the facts and advice, then in a separate paragraph give your opinion.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 06:50 PM
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I think even the select few probably have good intentions, it's just that when they are attacking people or being negative, they don't really provide much actual, usable advice. It all gets lost in the noise, just as much as circlejerking.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 02:13 AM
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I find that most of the negative posts simply add noise to the message they are trying to convey. In my own post where I was obviously hamstering, I understood everyone's intentions and eventually got the message, but when someone insults or "degrades", it takes longer to actually get what they are trying to constructively tell me. Not that I care they are being negative or anything, just that I can't use the negativity at all. Just go straight to the actual information, skip the niceties and de…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 02:10 AM
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Do you feel it constitutes porn? I guess if you do it the way you said, keep it to the minimum and practice moderation it can't hurt. Not an easy thing to balance, though, in my experience. Also, you realize it will likely never lead to anything solid right? She will probably always just feed you those photos and videos and sext you. My ex-wife did that shit all through my marriage, and from what I can tell it was all about attention and perversion.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 01:13 AM
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Good point, marriage shouldn't be a "tool" to keep someone with you, and you should seriously evaluate if your wife is worth keeping once you start TRP.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 08:52 PM
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It seems like that is pretty much the same as a long-distance/online relationship? I guess if the effort is super minimal, getting nude photos might be worth it, but...is porn worth giving any time?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 08:47 PM
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Action. You don't ask anything, would you ask "is this okay?" Before kissing, or would you just kiss her? Just do it, and deal with the aftermath after it happens.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 08:29 PM
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Not to mention that his post would invalidate the married redpill.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 01:33 PM
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Everyone should click that link immediately and read the theory portion at the very least. It is amazing how thoroughly this distills the roles of each "actor" in an abusive relationship, politics, feminism, the female imperative, etc.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 01:23 AM
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Take up books that expand your vocabulary. Seriously, expanding your vocabulary and your understanding of the vocabulary you already posses are proven ways to increase your intelligence. Your mind literally expands its ability to think when it has more words, your conscious mind gains access to those points in your imagination that you could never reach with words or thoughts before. One way that I think about it is this: words are what encode your neurological processes into a format that your …
/r/becomeaman08/11/15 12:44 AM
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Earlier, I erroneously stated that 13% and below bodyfat puts you in the fit range (the range where your eye says they are a healthy weight)....looking at this example chart, I would venture as far to say that up to 30-35% is in the fit range actually. For men it looks to be around 20% body fat is the limit. http://cdn.builtlean.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/body-fat-percentage-women.jpg
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 10:38 PM
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Yeah, that is one of the biggest things to get rid of for men. Men are not competition, it is perfectly fine if alpha men become commonplace, because we are cooperative by nature. Unless you develop one-itis and decide you need THAT girl, you can easily move on if a guy gets her first. There is plenty enough to go around, especially since more women are fit (13% body fat or lower, not literally fit) and attractive than there are men that are fit and attractive.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 08:42 PM
10

Alpha will never be commonplace, even amongst TRP members. Alpha is a goal and most will never attain it, no matter how much they work out or fuck girls. And if every guy DID attain alpha status, it would be a big boon to humanity as a whole, because alphas are by definition the best leaders, followers and creators.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 06:58 PM
4

Yeah, if even other guys didn't at least show appreciation for our efforts and intentions, social interaction would fucking collapse.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 02:03 AM
3

Red pill is far more than just masculine, self improvement is the difference between a meaningless life and reaching your full potential as a human being. I imagine red pill flat out wouldn't click for most men if it was just game and being alpha. It is about being a creator and not just a consumer.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 01:56 AM
1

It couldn't possibly happen often enough for you to worry about can it? The oldest person ever smoked into her 90s and ate like 2kg (or similar amount) of chocolate a week by her admission.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 01:11 AM
9

Because the man offered hot pockets and you don't deny a gift without a true reason, and "because it is bad for you" is a terrible reason to say no to a single hot pocket. Edit: knowing the hot pocket is bad for you is good enough, you still accept it just like you would a few beers if you weren't driving that night.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 12:54 AM
1

So it sounds like No More Mr. Nice Guy is a great qualifier for TRP behavior. His advice keeps you from verging on passive aggressiveness and emotional retaliation, and following both TRP and NMMNG helps give perspective to the value of both men and women in your life.
/r/askTRP07/11/15 12:47 AM
1

Because i'm an idiot with a lot to learn still. I won't be cold approaching or anything close to that for a long time, have way too much I need to figure out in my life first. Ie. Work, college, working out, eating right, etc. (all but work im only just starting on)
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 04:23 AM
1

I wonder if women realize that most men respect someone who defends their views? I don't mean violently or to the point of arguing, but when I debate with someone about anything it really doesn't matter what their viewpoint is, I respect them more for standing by their belief and being consistent. I find it downright pathetic when they flip because of one thing I said or someone else said.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 03:40 AM
1

Yeah no worries I've already flipped 180 on the idea, was stupid to fuck her again in the first place. Just me asking for more pain in the long run to do it.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 10:32 AM
3

I could not imagine disrupting my life for any group of people. Once you have worked and have actually made your life better by that work, you realize how petty most anything else is. If it gets in the way of improving your life and becoming a better person, it simply isn't worth it.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 03:10 AM
3

I think it is called "baaaah!"
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 03:08 AM
1

If you don't shit where you eat, none of this is an issue for dating. (for quality training it is an issue, though) Don't fuck someone at work, in your social group, in a small class, or in any other close social event that you value more than that woman. If things go bad you risk quite a bit for very little gained. If you have to fuck them, wait until you aren't part of that group anymore.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 03:02 AM
2

Yeah, there are weird people on Tinder, don't let them too close to your actual life. In the profile is plenty of warning.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 02:56 AM
4

His point is that it should be second nature to find information like that, but education nowadays REALLY dislikes any analysis of the textbooks it bases itself on, so knowing how to find more about the author, finding copyright/edition dates, proper reading techniques such as overviewing the entire book, reading through it, then actively questioning it are completely skipped. It wasn't second nature for me, either, until recently when I began reading books like How to Read a Book.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 11:36 PM
1

I'm sure my son would love the example set by me destroying the family bond over something so petty. I would rather not hold grudges and simply change my course and disconnect entirely from her romantically, as others have suggested instead of being so stupidly hardcore.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 07:11 PM
1

The problem is that women take advantage of the pull on society, because all of those systems are creating a female-advantaged society. So if you think about that, women are rewarded for being controlled by the system, and men are punished. Both are fools, but it is women who benefit. Hence the anger from those men who wake up and see it.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 06:44 PM
2

I am just going to fully cut it off and make it clear her and I are just friends and our son's parents. It's not healthy for me to be with her like that after we left each other.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 06:13 PM
3

I just realized I'm a beta orbiter right now.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 03:51 PM
2

You know, that is probably true. I denied her for a long time and I gave in recently because it's been a while and she is still very attractive, but I shouldnt give in any more.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 03:48 PM
1

You know, I can see how talking of using frame or anything similar is hamstering. It's a sign I'm entangled still, something I need to work on.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 03:32 PM
0

Damn right and I imagine she always will to any guy she is with.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 03:24 PM
1

It's only been a couple months, and I'm still working out my own logistics, a new diet and fitness plan and starting school soon.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 03:23 PM
1

I don't think it is, I don't think I'm alpha. That is an earned title, I've only just begun.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 03:17 PM
0

Maybe later experience will show me the wrong in being friends with her, but I have a pretty low bar for friends anyways. I don't really invest much in other people, her included now, so it just doesn't matter as much whether she is a friend or not. I understand that companionship is an important component of friendship in The Red Pill, and once I make true friends maybe I will view her differently. I hope so, honestly. And she never did reject me, I made her divorce me when I found out she chea…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 03:16 PM
2

See, what is wrong with that? Sex is completely neutral, if I fuck her because I enjoy it what is wrong with that?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 03:04 PM
-1

Yup, hence my statement I just barely started improving myself. I see her as low value for what she did, but obviously I'm no better at the moment. That takes time to change, something red pill makes clear over and over again.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 02:51 PM
1

Yeah oneitis is something that goes away with time, not the minute you discover its existence. I'm working on it but I've only barely started on Red Pill and the relationship only just barely ended months ago.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 02:50 PM
-3

Why wouldn't I talk to and be friends with the mother of my son? Doesn't mean I respect her, because she did cheat on me and is now cheating on someone else with me, but I'm not breaking the familial bond my son has with us for my own selfish reasons.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 02:40 PM
-6

Still damn good sex, so im going to hamster the shit out of her. ;)
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 02:01 PM
1

Don't you think all of those steps are wasted when you could have put your effort into finding the right career path? Earning more is always better than saving the same amount, and most of your effort should be toward the long term goal of earning more and more until you don't need to anymore. Saving is important, but not reducing your quality of life to a ridiculous level.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 12:01 PM
1

So true. It seems women are so reactionary to life that they can completely change their active personality to the person they are with.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 11:06 AM
3

I think the biggest issue here is that you really didn't attempt to distill the information provided. Most of it is obviously conjecture, small observations that have to be taken with a grain of salt. The real information is obtained by tying it in with actual research and SMALL trial and error. You went overboard and applied something you had no idea how to use, and it burned you.
/r/ExRedPill27/10/15 05:35 AM
3

My ex-wife would laugh at your suggestion for her to take charge, she wanted nothing more than for me to take charge in just about everything. I wasn't up to the task for most of that because I didn't want to be "controlling", and she hated it. Not one of my strong-suits at the moment (taking charge), anyways, but definitely something I should work on. Hey, try reading the signals to see what your partner actually wants in the relationship? Some want equal responsibility, others want to be in ch…
/r/ExRedPill27/10/15 05:32 AM
2

That is simply the reactionary element of Red Pill. Most of that is in direct reaction to lies we have been fed. The natural response to eating something terrible? Well it sure as hell isn't to chew a couple more times and figure out what tastes good and what tastes bad, you spit the entire thing up. You throw the entire meal out. The Red Pill is a mix of revulsion to those lies and an attempt to create a new foundation to base your beliefs on. Thinking of women as shallow sluts is definitely re…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 05:11 AM
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This hypothesis of yours about being raised with a view that women suck is completely flawed when you consider that the red pill is REACTIONARY to popular culture. As in we were all, for the most part, taught that men and women think the same way, that people are in general faithful, that good women want love not security or wealth or the badboy...and then that house of cards is toppled by experience and pain, and many of us are still trying to pick up the cards and find what still works and why…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 10:40 PM
1

http://www.lehighvalleylive.com/nazareth/index.ssf/2015/09/mother_of_boy_left_at_mcdonald.html#incart_river so she gets ARD while he probably goes to jail. The kid even admitted that the mother drops him off for hours all the time.
/r/PussyPass17/10/15 02:19 AM
1

now, if he was drinking and literally vomitting on the floor and leaving bottles everywhere, and she NEVER cleaned any of that up and never left him to his own bullshit....I wouldn't charge her with anything, but I sure as hell would force her to be mentally evaluated, and set up councilling to keep an eye on her.
/r/PussyPass17/10/15 01:56 AM
1

Okay, they should at least look into his sanity for staying there despite the extreme odors and the grotesque site of her daily stuck to that couch. He obviously didn't clean ANYTHING and never once thought to report what was happening to her, which was reason to suspect mental instability (I know quite the understatement, but I think insanity isn't the right way to describe what she had) on her own part. Of course the authorities would look into contributing factors to her death beyond just her…
/r/PussyPass17/10/15 01:55 AM
2

I don't see the pussypass....unless it is a really convenient pussypass for the betterment of humanity? "Killing a repeat pedophile/rapist is the best thing any person can do" -Jesus (pretty sure he said that somewhere)
/r/PussyPass17/10/15 01:23 AM
2

i'm pretty sure most realize an idiot when they see one. She was completely in her rights (if it was a stranger you would run them over too right?), fuck him for turning into an animal.
/r/PussyPass17/10/15 01:08 AM
1

Well, maybe that's what it is. Im sure others would know more about that, though.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 12:55 AM
2

Are you interacting and hanging out with others? I have read that without those things, you have no way to fill the void. That's what I have picked up from reading, at least.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 12:46 AM
2

Thats exactly how I see it!
/r/ExRedPill19/04/15 03:01 AM
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