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🤢 yuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:40 AM
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Wow. If it's safe absolutely call them out "I'm sure your mom would love to know how disgustingly and disrespectfully you treat women outside of the home. Or maybe have someone treat her like you treat us ?" Fuckwits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:39 AM
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I'm looking into conducting studies. Less controversial/personal studies are tough to find subjects for who answer truthfully ? Try porn addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 11:34 AM
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The avatars here are the most colorful, original and fun of entire Reddit. Also some usernames are sending me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 10:29 AM
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Can not recommend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:48 AM
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Fuck, similar here. His "gaming room", after months of LDR. And initially he still hid his wank lotion and cumrag 🤮🤮🤮 NOPED the fuck out of there once I finally went through his history and hard drive. Hello betrayal trauma and ptsd. In therapy now, sorting this out. The last nudge in a path of opening my eyes about men. Discovered fds around the same time. I am wide awake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:46 AM
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This is gold, I completely agree. I want to add that what other people think in these highly personal choices should never matter in life. Ever. You do you, those people do not know and can not judge how your relationship is going without a thorough introspection of both accounts. If you've done all your research, have asked and agreed on the uncomfortable questions about upbringing, values and compatability, and also if you are still ready to leave at the first signs of mistreatment/misalignmen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 09:41 AM
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While I do believe in the randomness of any attacking, ie. it could hit you or any of us any day, I must say that I got harassed less when I was absolutely jacked. Then again: that was pre-covid times. At the moment I'm still muscly, but not as beastmode as I used to be, for sure (had a crazy winter crushing 50hr uni weeks). I want my empty streets back but that ain't gonna happen -> time to get serious again with my sports and workouts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 03:01 PM
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Trained fighter here, with her finances and social circle in check. Same. That was an insane first-hand-experience. Hits different than reading about it. 😧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:32 PM
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Thank you for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:04 PM
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I always walk with confidence. Also I'm not petite. They are going crazy. I was almost waiting to get photographed against my consent. Shocking... wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:01 PM
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I was gonna point that out too, since FDS recently discussed how it gets worse when you dress baggy/casual/comfy because you seem "approachable": can confirm. I looked like a slob for my standards (had a massage before, plus again errands to run -> wanted to be comfy). No make up, hair not done, sneakers, baggy clothes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:53 PM
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Western Europe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:48 PM
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Terrifying. Ladies, prepare. Staying off OLD and keeping the bar high is not enough anymore. Scrotes are catching on on this, and they can't cope when women insist & demand. They are turning violent once again. Can't manipulate her ? -> Coerce. This will be the next throwback cycle. Be prepared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:38 PM
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He didn't. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:34 PM
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Came here to say this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:16 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:09 PM
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Penis enlargement surgeries are very in demand, as are surgeries to gain circumference/girth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:54 PM
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Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:53 PM
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I used to have a friend who had a roommate like this, then her husband pulled the exact same shit. She's ocd as hell and they both disrespected her and the appartment so much. It is pickme-ism, and women collectively need to break free from this. As for men leeching off domestic labor - lets not go there. I get in such a shitty mood just thinking about those low value fuckwits. Sorry you were modelled such a toxic relationship growing up. It fucks children up worse than any bad divorce already d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 12:39 PM
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ooof 🎯🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:52 AM
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Thank you so much for posting this ! This was one of the reasons I pulled away from my fiancé once he started opening up about how his mom was supposed ocd as hell, and an abuser during his childhood - and how he loves his dad, although he had several affairs. Yikes. Not saying his mom is a saint - I never got along with her. And I believe his accounts. But there was a reason this woman was going insane. And that reason was a negative value, unreliable, late-working husband who breadcrumbed her.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:38 AM
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You nailed it, sis. The handkiss was literally the predator thinking "Yesss. She's desperate." and kissing his prey's hand "gotcha." Sick piece of fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:30 AM
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This is also soooooo spot on. Softy-baby-smoothie-low-voice => 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:28 AM
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Y E S ! These women need to leave :( I had pretty severe ocd during teenagehood because we had rough patches as children of our parents (mom ended up booting the loser though, thank fuck). Ocd is so clearly a coping mechanism for and response to chaos, neglect, disrespect, unpredictability, unreliability, manipulation, disappointment and abuse happening in those wives' homes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:17 AM
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I'm only energized bc of anger period hormones. Sorry 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:02 AM
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OR ARE MEN FEELING SECURE AND SLACKING OFF ONCE HE GOTCHA. 👆👆👆👆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 10:56 AM
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Exactly this. Textbook behavior of abuser targeting their prey . FDS needs to talk more about those scripts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:49 AM
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Right ? Every word of this. "Hey" - how about "Hello", "Good x, my name is..." ? Hey is negging/casual low effort. Save that for your homebois. Rude, disrespectful. "pink hair MISS" ... because a woman is her family status (and her hair color). "kinda cute" ... wow. Every chance he had, he blew it. FuckJerry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:23 AM
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QUICK HE IS SUCH A CATCH CANT YOU SEE IT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:16 AM
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They always try to humble you. Remember Mark Twain? The number one thing idiots do, any why it's pointless to argue with them ? -> drag you down to their level, then beat you with experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:14 AM
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Can you clarify ? Reads as if children with no fathers will end up with permanent psychological issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:11 AM
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Men mistreating women is always a reflection of men mistreating each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:09 AM
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The playing shy/awkward/lost puppy is SUCH a dead give away for socios, narcs and other abusers. Within the first 5 lines when OP wrote "acted somewhat nervous/shy/afraid he was "boring" me" BUT THEY HIT IT OFF -> 🚩🚩 My alarm bells went off. Ladies, the real introverts are impossible to talk to. You don't hit it off with them. This is a huge contradiction. The really awkward ones - they don't approach women at bars. Women are not even on their mind, almost. I am SO glad you are safe OP. Not even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:04 AM
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No-one. Ever. So glad he's still around, too. I just know he would have had suicidal phases with the absolute devastation he's been through. The day this one leaves the planet will be a sad one, personally (weird bc idk him but this human being just stands out, always has and always will).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:08 PM
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This comment needs its own post on rotation every Monday of the week for the newbies coming in. If mods are reading this, I'm only half joking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:57 PM
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The things I didn't know I... wanted to know ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:51 PM
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Nature intended it 💁‍♀️💁💁🏻‍♂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:51 PM
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THIS SO MUCH. One of the easiest vetting tools: "How many rape accusations do you believe are false ?" (mental note for yourself: FALSE. NOT the same as "unfounded" which means it was ruled that there was not enough evidence/proof to go with) -> those same asshat neckbeard losers will brag and blurt "aT lEaSt 20-30 perCenT". -> block, delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:47 PM
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You are an amazing mom for teaching her to not do the vocal fry. It not only makes her sound unconfident but INCOMPETENT. THATs the problem. Someone who constantly asks ? Instead of... says ? Sounds like they are questioning their own... selves ? ❌❌❌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:36 PM
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I swear I love this sub so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:33 PM
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ding ding ding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:29 PM
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Red flag parade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:23 PM
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And enough white abusers waaannnntttt Latinas, if they're not obsessed with Asians. God the fetishized racism in porn is just disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:19 PM
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As close to Keanu Reeves as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:42 PM
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low key I want to slap GenZ for that one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:06 PM
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I was gonna say: sounds like Mexico. Went there for 6 weeks in 2019. Paedos everywhere, it stood out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:05 PM
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Also: be a good human being. NOT TO GET LAID AND THIS IS A SHOCKING MOTIVATOR, I KNOW. Simply for the principle of it. PS: pointed 5 new ladies the way this week. I'm content. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:35 PM
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bUt I cAnT cULtiVaTe bEinG tALLerRrR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:16 PM
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Yes. Together with his brain. Only one extremity & organ equipped with blood flow. And it's sadly too weak to even keep itself up, not even mentioning an extra weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:40 PM
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They are ignorant on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:38 PM
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Same. Also DAMN the accuracy of this comment! 🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:35 PM
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None of these aspects are "shocking".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:33 PM
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🎯🎯🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:00 PM
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It does not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:56 AM
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That meme sent me - but yes I loved it :D what a gentleman!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:14 AM
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Haters gonna hate. She is my absolute idol of a human being in every regard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:13 AM
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This to a T
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:10 AM
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True true and Taylor is such a queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 09:01 AM
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🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:10 PM
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Why are men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:08 PM
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He'd be about my favorite male person in Hollywood. Female is Angelina. I got my motorcycle's license because I fangirled them both so hard at 18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:56 PM
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I cannot believe there is a single parent out there that does not hammer into their teenage daughters brains to not talk to strange men. And certainly to not accept MASSAGES from them. 🤯 I am defeated. Is this real ? Mortifying read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:52 PM
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Why am I thinking it was Scooter Braun ? God that dude is a nutjob
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:28 PM
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Who the actual fuck calls a website Pornhamster? If aliens are watching us.... 🤯🤦‍♀️ And btw lmfao at your reply and your username. Bitta gold
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:24 PM
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To a mfing T sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:19 PM
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Men: rape, kill, abduct, beat, stalk, traffick, blackmail, underpay women (and other men btw). Women: are mEaN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:45 PM
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Hard disagree. It gave me ENDLESS satisfaction to find my nagging suspicions "What the actual fuck is going on here.....???", and a hit-me "Omfg, could it...... ?!" feeling confirmed. After weeks of the - back then - perfected gaslighting, manipulation, lying and acting. Into the year 3000, you wouldn't believe it. Pushing away, breadcrumbing, pushing away.... Weeks of feeling like shit, going crazy- and eventually my pure ratio kicked in, and I switched into detached investigator mode. BAM. My …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:14 PM
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Rapehub. Peddit. Fight me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:47 PM
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This. None of these dickheads would want anybody to do this to their mothers or sisters. Why ? Because they know how degrading and disgusting it is. Not so eMpoWeRinG anymore, hu scrote?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:04 PM
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One animal to its own ancestor of 99% genetic overlap: You are tHe duMb oNe hEre. This is why I don't like it when people say "Men are animals." First of all, yep. As are women. Homo sapiens = kingdom of animals (the others are plants, fungi, bacteriae, archae and protista). Secondly, no dog, orang utan or pig treats their own species as bad as human males treat human females. It's an insult to other animals. Stay humble. Your feminist biologist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 03:23 PM
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Translation: Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:40 PM
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The icon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:05 PM
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At least get yourself a second boyfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:48 AM
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Yusssss. I also grew up with a beast of a mother who booted our loser father of three young children. She finished her damn degree, worked full time and raised us. Not a penny of child or spouse support. My father died of cancer age 54. Mom's good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:26 AM
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If posts like these tell me anything, then that the coins are all the same around the globe. Some are flipped heads, others tails. But they are still the same coins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:44 AM
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And you're still with this dumbass ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:34 AM
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I'm getting awards and dm's :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:16 PM
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They are useless, lazy fucks. With the exception of two absolute badass bitches who ripped their husbands a whole new asshole when they tried to slack off shortly after birth (it was satisfying to watch) I feel nothing but sorry for my female friends and their absolute LOSERS for men they chose. Cheaters, liars, drug addicts, failed artists going absolutely nowhere in life... you name it, I know it. These are women in academia. Okay enough family backgrounds. Normal, everyday middle class people…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:47 PM
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A good portion of this would always be male lurkers. Then again: YUSS LADIES. PUSH INTO THE WORKFORCE. Stop giving the benefit of the doubt to men. Roasting and venting are one side of the coin. Flipside is walking the talk. Ditch the stupid app, ask for that salary, apply for that job. Take that fighting class, invest every minute and penny into your safety and security. Physically, financially, emotionally. Fds and its effects are here to stay, long after all of us have left. Feminism 4.0
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:28 PM
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Ah, yes. The classic narc triangulation-plus-blame-game. Their traps are set from the minute they select you as their prey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:40 PM
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18 followers left to reach 160k. Jussayin' Edit one hour later: 160.010 followers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:11 PM
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THE KIND OF CONTENT I COME HERE FOR One thing: liberal ≠ progressive. Those are not synonyms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:05 PM
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[Insert Kanye unimpressed GIF] Ok, now we talked about this. Anyways, onto the next topic. When is the next handbook piece gonna be released ? Edit: as if the two latest posts heard my call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:55 PM
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🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 06:28 PM
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I listened to a podcast recently (not in English, unfortunately) that critically questioned: "The new fathers?" precisely on whether anything's changed. Surprise: of course, barely anything. And of course there was no woman expert on the episode, only softboi men who paraphrased useless husbands who cHanGe tHeiR miNd about being a dad AFTER birth, once they were left with the domestic work by their wives who went back to work, obvs as how much these men struggle. Yes. How much the men struggle. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:28 PM
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Yup. Also keep staying childfree, and keep staying the fuck away from men. Enough would try to rape a generation of women on birth strike.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:54 PM
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Swap the legal and psychological hurdles for abortions with those how to get viagra and you have a solution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:44 PM
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He knows why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:41 PM
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I also said "I know you meant well" but fair call. I understand your feeling. You stand by what you said. I stand by what I said. I'll leave it at that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 03:12 PM
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Slow down with the shaming accusations there. I disagree with you, and challenged you. Shaming is another level from this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:15 PM
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Why are you wasting your precious energy getting enraged ? Why are you giving these idiots a platform here ? I know you meant well, but this is low quality content imo...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:09 PM
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No. 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:18 AM
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every word of this 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:13 AM
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That's even a rather flattering photo of him. He's about en par with Johnny Depp (they're about besties, so no surprise here).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:11 AM
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Fair fair. I find it Okay. Also he does have better groomed hair in other pics. We will probably agree to disagree here. Clint Eastwood, in my opinion, does not belong here next to the Leo DiCaprios, Jared Letos, Nicolas Cages and Anthony Kiedis's. But to each their own. I understand your point entirely tbh. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:09 AM
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I can not un-imagine this now 💀🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:06 AM
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Clint Eastwood aged well imo. Without being sexually attracted to him I can acknowledge that his facial features are still very handsome and symmetrical/balanced. Aged and wrinkly, yes. But very balanced. Plus he is a good actor, a better director and I find him rather genuine and friendly in interviews. Marlon Brando and his alc & drug use, meanwhile.... 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 10:02 AM
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Also when he tells you the restaurant, you call them and ask who will be on shift that night. 2 days in advance suffices entirely. You tell them that this is a date and since a previous one has gone very wrong for you (no further explanation needed) whether you can come up to the bar if something feels off and count on their discretion to lead you out a back door for staff entry should you wish to end the date. The right people will act professional and understand immediately. The dumbasses will…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:34 AM
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No discussion needed imo. I just read your title and the three ✅ and that was enough said for me. Amen sis. Damn, this is spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:54 PM
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You are aware that men think about fucking/porn/sex every SEVEN SECONDS EACH DAY, yes ? https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20140617-how-often-do-men-think-about-sex There is no reason. With the exception of HVM they are dumb degenerates who can't formulate a straight thought before thinking about fucking again. Nothing triggers it per se. It's more like a constant buzz popping up every 7 seconds. The fact he used one these "muH, diCk" moments to message you ? Like you already commented yourself:…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:50 PM
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Obviously you wanted to when we tAlKed Men and their cute delusions and entitlements in a nutshell. They really must all be wanting to have sex with their homebois, hu 💡🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:02 PM
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This one sent me Edit: gud damnit 😭🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:57 PM
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Why is this not the top comment ? STOP. CREEPING. AROUND. you fucking dipshits. PERIOD. Age appropriate dipship = still a dipshit. She was shaking with anger, she was so brave! And nailed it. He not only catcalled, he actually PULLED INTO A FUCKING PARKING LOT TO HARASS HER. If it was legal to fuck 14-year-olds these paedos would. Blast those losers when it's safe. Expose. I hope this video goes viral and his workplace and private social circle sees it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:56 PM
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Dat man is UGLY as sin. He was born with the wall. Plus shit actor and not hiding his inner creep anymore these days. Someone post Anthony Kiedis 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:49 PM
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🥰 this kind of comment. OP why didn't you heart that message ? ❤️ so lovely. Goes well with left on read/block&delete. Absence makes the heart go fonder. Also this 13-year-old boy is stuck in the body of of a 30-year-old man. There's so many of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:43 PM
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Happens to the best. You're brave for coming here and seeking help. I'm free later to dm if you want to vent ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:01 PM
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Seriously. OP you are neckdeep in trauma bond. Break it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:07 PM
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M O O D Check out on Wikipedia how many cities around the globe are 160k people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 02:45 PM
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I do call it out ✅ I don't dwell on it ✅ I protect myself ✅ But yep. If I think about this for too long I drive myself mad. Life's too short, sleep is too sacred for that, though. Don't like the cards you're being dealt with, shuffle the deck. FDS does exactly that. I don't enjoy being selectively ruthless but well. You know it sis. Nice for what ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:54 PM
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🎯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:11 PM
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We're understanding each other 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 01:03 PM
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I set my age low on dating apps once to test exactly this theory. You are correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:22 PM
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🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:20 PM
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3sum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:19 PM
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Can't make a husband out of a hoe. Can't make a father out of a fuckboy. Can't make a boyfriend out of a bigot. Can't make a protector out of a predator. Copied a memoriam from an Indian goddess who made a comeback video like this, if anyone can share the link again that would be awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:18 PM
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I understand the part about not wanting to be stuck in a car with the wrong person although for me personally it always worked so far. The solution here is obvs that he pays for your uber and you send it to a parallel street/meeting point. I know enough HV men who offered this to their dates upon their own initiation. The ladies they courted did not even have to ask for it. Then again: they don't date-rotate, trying desperately to get their dicks as wet as possible. 💁‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:12 PM
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Stuck sharing a meal with someone nasty ? Careful texting + videocalls + your bestie calling in ("important work call") to check whether you need to get out ("Omgosh, no I didn't send that email. Was I supposed to this week??") + agreed upon signals with restaurant staff, excusing yourself to use the bathroom... There is SO much you can do so that literally does not happen. I did not filter properly enough exactly once in my life and had this situation. Dude catfished me, was MUCH shorter, skinn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:08 PM
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Never was a black heart more fitting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 10:08 AM
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"It's always Ok for men [...] but God forbid a woman does it." ✍️ ✍️ In case anyone's missed that. Watch men do mental gymnastics on Olympic level: tHat iS noT wHat iTs aBouT 🤸‍♂️🤺🏋️‍♂️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:39 AM
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Imagine Naomi Campbell being your mother. Eternal slay by birthright. 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:11 AM
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THIS. 🎯🎯🎯 I liKe thE nO maKe uP lOoK Ew, dArk uNder eYe ciRcleS ? gRosS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:02 AM
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Christina Aguilera wore that shirt in 2002 and everyone was like "PAH! THAT SLUT is gonna talk about women's rights and equality ? She needs to cover up first. Also viCtiM mEntAlitY, muCh" I'm all for men speaking up for women. It speaks volumes how women literally say the same for years and get ignored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:00 AM
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A lot of words for "I have no life". Lewis wanks into his sock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:56 AM
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Your second and third paragraph needs to be its own post here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:48 AM
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Pro-control is really all it is. 🔁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:46 AM
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idk why but the sarcasm s plus that emoji is sending me way too hard rn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:40 PM
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💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 05:38 PM
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Friendship = normal, happens every day. fRienDzOne = see above. People who even use the term are inherently low value. Normal people report that someone offered them a friendship, and they either declined or accepted. Life goes on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:06 PM
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"If yoU sAy so. YoU aRe pRobAbLy riGht. FoR yOuR oWn wELLbEinGs sAke, mAybE a piEce oF aDviCe ..." bLaH, random bullshit of the coNcErNed man to lessen the blow and make himself feel a lil better. Here mate, your last straw to clutch onto | 😘🖕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:01 PM
257

Not even a joke. This boy and his pee pee are genuinely confused. Bear hugs from porno sick gamers and high school pickmes are sending me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:56 PM
187

I was looking for a tl;dr, thanks. Cancel men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 02:53 PM
615

THEY KNOW YOU ARE GOODLOOKING. THEY JUST HATE THAT YOU KNOW IT. Pure slay, inside and out. Look at and listen to that goddess 🤩🙀🙌✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 12:54 PM
2

They're not blind. Just entitled. They know what they are doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 11:55 AM
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I was almost waiting for it. Low value asshat men will ALWAYS attempt to outsmart us, and get their dicks wet with the least effort possible. They want to fuck, the cheapest way possible. Nothing more. They are not interested in anything else from a woman. Nothing. Once FDS spreads the std test results movement -> men will fake them Like previously when feminism banned marital rape -> men rape outside of marriage, or cheat. Adultery illegalized -> men try for the "forever girlfriend", multiple d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:17 AM
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We're gonna agree to disagree here. I work in Cognition science. Misogyny is 100% nurture and sociology, not nature and biology. Can you link the studies you mentioned ? Your brother picked up the idea in kindergarten or school, from friends or their parents... it is entirely normal. Your husband, like my ltr so far, managed to critically reflect their own upbringing. That is good, but rather rare. I also want to point out that I said "often enough", ie. not always. My mother did nothing to rais…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:09 AM
13

Exactly this. Hot but dumb is their absolute favorite. But then not too hot or too dumb, obvs, theres a huge small print of further specifications to make it just right. Their delusion haha. Unreal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:12 AM
1

Yep, and even if it's not newly built: an overwhelming majority of this planet lives in poverty, they can be glad to have a 20sqf clay shack to themselves. As long as that is not solved, I personally decide to not use up more space on this planet than a 2br space. 600sqf. It's enough for me, and still so much more than what the majority of humans have to themselves. To each their own, I stand by what I said. My comment was removed for "low quality" when I simply disagreed and offered an alternat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:10 AM
8

This. Then again, I simply don't have a TV. Best decision ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:02 AM
13

Especially because 2br is, like.... one bedroom and a guestroom ? Make the rooms whatever, but it's simply not splurging crazy. Pretty normal to have one extra room (gym, study, whatever).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:01 AM
16

My personal favorite: coNtRoLLinG
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 06:57 AM
12

Sorry. Wasn't my intention. On one aspect I wanted to share an alternative opinion to yours and report my lifestyle. Not understanding how this came off as judgemental or passive aggressive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:58 PM
33

The drama of the gifted child, Alice Miller. A luminary of the 20th century on psychology (not uncontroversial, though). Decades before Lundy Bancroft came around. Both their books are about narcissist men, and Miller in particular dives into problematic mother-son relationships. Spoiler alert: often enough it is rather simple, when it's all said and done. Misogynists had both a neglectful/absent plus an overly restrictive mother figure who shamed and molded instead of nurtured, directed, set he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:35 PM
9

Fair, you're right. Maybe we can clarify this separately. Btt, my bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:08 PM
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baha :) fucking clown. He could have pulled it with enough effort but was simply too fucking lazy to reach and level up. They seriously can't cope, I'm not joking at all. Men always need to date "down" in order to feel good about themselves. Oh well 😌💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:43 PM
16

Good good. Can we now ask some commenters here whether they are seriously anti-vaxxers .... ? As in, the cray-crays that believe either in conspiracy theory or that vaccinations are otherwise unsafe/damaging, or an infringement of their human rights ? I am praying it's a misunderstanding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:34 PM
-5

what ... ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 07:33 PM
128

yoU aRe a lOt oF wOrK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:17 PM
231

Proudly off the poison that is hormonal birth control for 6 years now. It shows. My body is healthy again. I will never go back. We date for months and at the very minimum I will see a recent all negative STD test plus he will wear a condom, and pay 50% of plan B should it break. All of those given, I still don't guarantee any sex. Once we have it, we are exclusive and in a relationship. Open phone policy, plus the usual fds principles. No porn, no crazy exes, no love bombing. Steady, moderate, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:18 PM
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This idea of becoming a smbc is on the table. As is fostering, adopting or being the cool childfree auntie. PS: the reason men hate goodlooking, attractive women 40+ who reject them the most above any other age group is because they can not dangle that stupid carrot of potential "I mAke U bAbY" in front of their faces anymore. No more leverage left for them = no more justifying shitty man behavior. Oh no. 😢 HVM love matured, slamming hot women in their 30s and 40s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:14 PM
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"For me it just tells me that I am on the right way" LOUDER FOR THOSE IN THE BACK HERE. If they get their little fee fees hurt, you are doing it right. 😌✨ If someone verbally abuses and threatens you with physical harm it says everything about that person. They are an abuser. It says nothing about you. 💁‍♀️ They try to make you believe you somehow "deserve" this. Shocker: you don't. Report these violent dm's. I get harassed daily and I report every one of them. Eventually, Reddit will cave. Or n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 04:22 PM
22

Same here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:30 PM
196

Should have ignored and bent down to the son instead: "Best of luck to you in life. Sincerely. Hopefully your mumma gave you some intelligent genes, can't count on your father, clearly."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:39 PM
6

With you there all the way sis. I don't want men to exclude women above age x, especially when that is those men's own age group (say they are 40, they should stay within 35-45 instead of demanding a 25-year-old). Likewise I don't exclude men who are 5'6. I gladly compromise here if their personality is cool and they have their shit together. Lie to my face on the first chance you get ? -> bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 01:40 PM
29

😆🤜🤛
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:12 PM
135

"lowkey" when the context is everything but "lowkey" is my pet peeve as the most meaningless filler word of 2020 and 2021. But yes. Hold up that mirror. Make that ew face. Frown, don't nervous laugh, don't look away. Look them directly into their leering eyes. Say loud "YUCK. You seriously think you can land with me over some hot stallion my own age group ? What drugs are you on ?". Say nothing at all. Just stare back. "Disgusting. I'm your daughter's age." Many options for those creeps. Name a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 11:35 AM
17

To everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:45 AM
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SAME. In fact: ALL FOUR short guys I dated in my life were: My height, 5'5". ALL said on their profiles: 5'9 I have enough short men in real life claim that. "I'm 5'9/5'10". Mate. I'm on eye level with you. I'm 5'5. You literally can't be 5'9. But the circus is over at Johnson St since you're looking for it. 🎠🥁🤹‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:44 AM
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Just the other day at another feminist sub the first comments were men trolling and offending OP. I thought about making a post about this here. I also thought: "That's why. That's exactly why men forcing their mAnLihOod and crass verbal aggression and assault into every corner of this planet are not allowed here." Upvoted 20 or so comments on fds that I liked right after to balance my chi. Peace was restored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 05:57 AM
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No other comment needed. The joke of Reddit are the hundreds of pathetic porn and porn-related subs. Only trumped by the cretins that actually comment "SouRcE pLeAse nEeD chOke dicK hArDer mUhH". Die mad 😌✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 10:09 PM
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Angry men, take notes: A 6'5 graduate degree 6 figure man was rejected because HE HAD A SHITTY PERSONALITY, and made no effort. Aka low value. She doesn't know him enough ? Jumped to conclusions ? Take your little gaslighting and shove it :) It only gets worse from there. Marriages over time get more difficult, not less. Even the great ones do not remain perfect, they get their bumps and hiccups and hurdles. That's why courtship phase is supposed to be your 300%. So you have enough buffer to nev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:01 PM
34

Simply this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:18 PM
24

I got into the habit of opening up my voice recording app while taking an unknown number, and slap stalker men with (everbody else's recording just gets deleted/stopped once I notice it's harmless): "This call is being recorded. How can I help you ?" Hear them stutter and stamble and nervous laugh into oblivion. Those calls are over fast. One tried the extra pathetic "I do not consent to the recording". I told him I do not consent to this call, and may he hang up now. Reported every single one o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:25 PM
17

Also: killers, rapists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:18 PM
0

Very broadly speaking: Politics, next to a coupla other (but not too many) things, is about the amount of influence of a certain group of people (politicians, the state, government) on other people's (the market you and I participate in) money. With this mindset we have: Left = socialist/communist. Their motto: let's pursue a high degree of the state regulating the private market, and a high degree of wealth distribution. Right = capitalist. Often close to but not synonymous with conservatism. T…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:56 PM
12

Big time thirding. Cannot stress this enough. OP that was a tough read. Was your rapist caught and trialled ? So sorry you were put through this. What a monster. I hope you receive(d) the support you deserve. Yes, I also put my feminine side on hold for similar reasons (although my situation was nowhere near as horrendous as yours).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:30 AM
42

Enough men of the right wing, and enough liberals claim that, too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:49 AM
24

This so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:45 AM
42

Politically liberal and politically left are two entirely different movements. I see those terms being confused so often, especially by people from the US (I blame it on the two-party-system).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:44 AM
27

I also do not think you will be ready to date, OP, for at least a whole year at a very minimum. Do not expect six years of domestic violence and all other sorts of abuse to be processed and done and dealt with in less than 12 months. Also yes, this specific date is a Red flag parade...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 06:30 AM
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I would also agree with this, I thought she was being very strategic and smart about it, and dumped as soon as C's true colors came out. I would not blame myself for having met a good actor who suddenly changes course 180 style once he gets what he said he wants - commitment and a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:22 AM
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I have dated one who was in fact not married. But still very abusive and a terrible person, one of the worst I've met so far. Traumatizing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:19 AM
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