| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How to apologize to a long-term hook up partner that was looking for more? | cmo88 | /r/seduction | 02/12/13 04:47 AM |
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| 3 | I dont have an isea how to flirt ant be sexual on datesLooks like you have no idea how to proofread your typos before posting as well. | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Girl I went on a date with texts me this, what’s best way to respond? She’s early 20’s.Be kind, respectful, and thank her for a great evening. Then move on to the next one. | /r/seduction | 12/07/19 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Husband and wife like wife's best friend/r/polyamory or /r/polyadvice should help you better than this. | /r/seduction | 26/06/19 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Is this a SHIT TEST?Is english her second, or third language? This makes no sense. | /r/seduction | 22/04/19 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Low self esteemChange the way you think so that all women judge you positively, and think you're great. Negative thoughts begets negative results. Women are attracted to positivity and confidence, and can sense if you have negative low self-esteem about yourself. Try it out for a few weeks and see if anything changes. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 04:55 PM |
| 11 | Matched with a female friend on tinder. She sent me this. How do i play this"My place, or yours?" | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 08:49 PM |
| 0 | Seducing female cops?“You have the right to remain silent. Anything you say can and will be used in my attempt at flirting with you. You have the right to know more about me. If you cannot afford another drink, one will be provided for you." | /r/seduction | 17/01/19 06:17 PM |
| 12 | Should I ask out an older girl?I dated a 35 year old when I was 22. If you feel you have a connection with someone, just go for it and see what happens. Age doesn't matter to most people, and women just like confidence. | /r/seduction | 18/12/18 06:02 PM |
| 4 | how can you really tell if girls are checking you out?Look away for a moment and then look back at them. If they're still looking at you they're checking you out. If they say hi, that is an invitation to start a conversation. | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 10:00 PM |
| 47 | As a female, how do I encourage seduction?Don't say: "we should ___ sometime". Instead, pick a day of the week and say, "I'm going to _____ on Tuesday (or whatever day of the week), you should come with me." Make a suggestion rather than ask a question. It shows confidence in yourself and men find that attractive. | /r/seduction | 01/12/17 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Should I be ashamed of having sex with a chubby girlNothing wrong with that at all, your friends are just assholes. | /r/seduction | 01/11/17 05:14 PM |
| 0 | How do I initiate dancing with girls that show interest in me at clubs?Eye contact, smile, give them a little spin, dance in front of them for about a minute or two to build a connection, place your hands on their hips/waist, if they smile back or seem interested start breaking out those sweet dance moves (whatever they may be). Finally, don't forget to be respectful! Follow these steps and you should be golden. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 04:30 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck do I get laid at the age of 22? Newbie asking for adviceWatch what you say, and don't be arrogant. Arrogance is not the same as confidence. Too many people think they're being confident when in fact their being arrogant. | /r/seduction | 05/05/17 04:38 PM |
| 2 | My "best friend" keeps hitting on the girls I likeThis guy is a dick, he's not your friend. Move on. | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Heading out to a party soon - how do I actually approach girls at a party?Hi, my name is (insert name here) and you look like an interesting person to talk to. Who's your favorite Disney princess? (every girl has an answer to this) and then take the conversation from there. It's worked for me in the past. | /r/seduction | 20/01/17 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Finally caved in and deleted OkCupid. Where the hell to meet women?Pick something that you enjoy doing (i.e.- hiking, live music, volleyball etc...) and start going to meet-up groups. Hanging out with people that share your interests is a much easier platform to meet people. | /r/seduction | 15/07/16 08:11 PM |
| 2 | So I've got the girlfriend. What now? How do I keep it this way? How do I have an awesome relationship?We usually go out with friends on the weekends, but during the week we try to have a one-on-one date at least twice a month, and we also go see live music at least once a month. If you feel the sex is getting boring then get some toys for the bedroom, and don't be shy to tell them what you're in to. | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 11:57 PM |
| 7 | So I've got the girlfriend. What now? How do I keep it this way? How do I have an awesome relationship?Compliment them daily, and don't stop dating her! Treat her as you would before getting into the relationship. Don't settle down and get boring. I've been with my gf for 2-years now and it's because we go out on dates a lot. | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 09:40 PM |
| 2 | If a girl wants to bring another girl after I ask her to go to the movies.. does that mean more of a friend vibeTell her something just came up and you have to reschedule. Try to get her on her own next time. If she tries to bring one of her friend's again, you are in the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 07:56 PM |
| 1 | 18, College Student. I'm tired of being scared. I'm going out this weekend and talking to every beautiful girl I see.It's Halloween this weekend, and probably your best shot to approach a beautiful girl w/o feeling anxious. Just compliment them on their costume and take it from there. | /r/seduction | 30/10/15 03:08 PM |
| 3 | What do you do if your best friends want to have sex with youIt could honestly go either way depending on how you handle it. I have a few female friends I've had sex with and we're still friends, but they weren't best-friends. I did have sex with my best female friend and that did not end well. We threw away a 5-year friendship b/c things got complicated afterwards. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 04:42 PM |
| 1 | How can I kill my ego?I found a good way to take your ego down a few pegs happens when you can laugh at yourself when you do something stupid. I never take myself too seriously. | /r/seduction | 03/06/15 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Girl asked for my number and then rejected me?Yes, but don't start any communication between the two of you until then. If she texts you before then, play it off that you're busy too. | /r/seduction | 17/04/15 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Girl asked for my number and then rejected me?Wait 2-weeks then hit her up after finals. Something along the lines of...."Hey hope you're finals went well. I'm in town visiting a friend, lets grab a drink tonight. | /r/seduction | 17/04/15 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Asked for Girl's number. Is this shit test, or is this hardcore friendzone ?My policy is 3 strikes and you're out. If I make plans with you on 3 separate occasions and you cancel, then I'm done and leave it up to her to contact me. It's way easier that way. | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 06:26 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with your gf's nice guy friendThis guy has the right idea, just be nice and act as a wing man for him when you guys go out. It will both show your girl that your being a good friend to him, and will sway his attention elsewhere if there is anything there now. | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you know when to move in for a kiss?Typically 3/4 of the way through the night is a good time to go for it. | /r/seduction | 28/08/14 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Okay so besides clubs and bars, where do you find the best place to meet women is?I met my current GF at a music festival. She and I have mutual friends, and after a few hours out listening to music and dancing the chemistry was undeniable. | /r/seduction | 07/08/14 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Random "hey" texts messages girls you're pursuing. What do they mean and how do you approach them?Just reply "What's good?", that opens the conversation up to see if they want to hang out, or just want to talk. It also keep the conversation on the positive/upbeat side. | /r/seduction | 24/07/14 03:50 PM |
| 3 | What is one important thing you wish you could have taught your younger self about being better with women?Women's body language often says much more than what they are actually saying to you. Learn to notice the subtleties in what they are doing while talking to them. | /r/seduction | 29/05/14 03:53 PM |
| 2 | I've had terrible luck with women for most of my life and just yesterday, found out why. What now?You should really read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by: Dr. Robert A. Glover. I started reading it a while back while dealing with the same issues you're going through. Since then I have learned to put myself first and not be reliant on what other people think of me. Best of luck to you, things will get better! Heres a link to where you can buy the book: http://www.amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339 | /r/seduction | 09/10/13 09:04 PM |
| 2 | What's your favourite post or comment on Seddit that completely changed your game/success for the better?I saw a post a while back re: K-closing and some things to say i.e.- "If I kiss you right now, will you slap me?" If she says no, or doesn't answer, then just go for it. Of course you need to build the attraction first, but it shows a great amount of confidence on your behalf to say that. I have used this line a few times since, and it works every time! | /r/seduction | 28/08/13 06:36 PM |
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