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Yep. Multiple times just this semester at university. I lived in 4 countries already and did not have much success in any of them, so I assume something about my exterior repels girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 12:35 PM
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I would want kids. But I don't trust my genetics that much. I am below average looking, still have acne at 24, non-masculine facial features, low energy and bad personality. While those are objective disadvantages, you need a woman to want to procreate with you. And that is not the case for me. I could not get laid at university, the easiest time it is supposed to be to get laid, and feel like my fears of bad genes are confirmed by women not showing interest in me. I grew up in a large and healt…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 08:26 AM
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Complaining is certainly annoying. It does not solve anything at all. However, some men complain about issues they can't solve such as being unattractive, not intelligent, etc. Not sure how to he can change any of those...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 04:03 PM
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There is truth to it but I don't see how perception of yourself is that influential. The only reason you perceive yourself like that is because you did not have success while others did. That leads you to examine why that is. If you are rational human being, you look for explanations that make sense, sometimes even based on science. You can think you are okay looking but if world tells you otherwise, shouldn't you examine your internal map? Same for being smart: you are either smart or not. You …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 04:18 PM
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Does his tips work if you're maybe average looking?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 04:04 PM
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No beard genetics. My father has great beard but my brother and I both have very sparse beards, only on the chin and moustache, that's it.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 09:18 AM
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I am not fat. I weigh 71kg at 175cm. I lift and my body fat is around 15-17% according to measurements I executed following military formula. I have slighly visible abs. Now, with regards to being lean, I am not lean, definitely. I need to go down to 10-12% bf and stay there. Not everyone who struggles with women is fat.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 09:17 AM
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I am going to take a couple of photos a bit later, if you are still up for advice.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 09:16 AM
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Well, I am a different person. While sex is all and good, it is really demoralising to know that you only fuck because you pay. It's like a cable service - if you stop paying, they stop the service. It is about validation that opposite sex finds you worth considering.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 06:25 AM
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I am nearing end of university with a good job. I am smart, lift and so on. I had no luck getting girls. I think it is because of not being good-looking in the face. I asked close female friend (cringe, but gave no fucks) to tell me what she thinks about my appearance. She was all flustered and uncomfortable but I pressed for truth. She told me to get rid of glasses, need to fix my bottom crooked teeth etc. But her uncomfortable standing was obviosuly because of obvious fact: my problem is a lot…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 04:25 PM
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But none of this made your face more attractive tbh. Seems to be a successful puberty you had there. :) External effort helps of course somewhat.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 04:10 PM
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Yes, humans are obviously not inclined to monogamy. In fact, bunch of animals, especially primates, seem to not be on the monogamy train. It is truly in the essence of every male to fuck a bunch of women but it also seems that higher IQ people can quell the need to fuck like rabbits and actually prioritise child well-being: economic, good parenting, etc. over fucking. It seems like the only way forward is to invent ways to make males more attractive or take away women rights. Have some kind of s…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 04:07 PM
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This. And also my experience with self improvement indicated that one can't cheat the "laws". I got more muscular, I have a career going but it is quite annoying to see women having disappointed look. They can feel I will go places but I am just not Chad looking. The only reason we evolved to technologically advanced species is because of monogomy - males had a partner in roughly even distribution at the expense of woman's desires of course. The question becomes though: what is more important - …
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 09:58 AM
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This guy gives very good advice, pay no attention to MGTOW thing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oktOQsM9uO8 His advice is incredible and I would go this route and get degree instead. I am almost done with degree and almost no employers gives a fuck about how well I did in it, they only care about expeirence and projects. Follow the advice of this guy and plan long-term.
/r/askTRP17/04/17 01:45 PM
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It's not always possible. TRP sometimes give false hope as well. What is a 5'2" guy who is not rich and handsome supposed to do? Apply TRP somehow? Normal people do not need any pill to get laid. They just coast through life, get rejected left and right but are cool with it having success mixed into the experience. Lots of TRPers have no success or very little and the reason for it is usuallly not being normal. Sometimes it is stuff you can fix with hard work such as crappy personality, health i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 11:08 AM
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The truth is somewhere in the middle as always. The problem is that I had very little success and hence automatically feel that over-the-top explanations seem to make sense because they align with my experiences and biases. Most men are aware that life is full of failure but they continue trudging along and get some successes. For me it was mostly lack of success and it makes me feel worthless tbh. I am like a stock on the market that no ones wants because it sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:11 AM
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Well, from this sub and other sources we kind of know that average is frequently not enough and is not remarkable. Also, males tend overrate their appearance and it is possible that I did this myself as well. I obtained Peterson's SA programs and will attempt to dig through past experiences because that shit really haunts me to this day. Especially, when I finally connected the dots on why I was treated in a particular way. I am aware that I can attract women once in a while though. I fucked up …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:59 AM
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Yeah, went to parties. Especially in my first year when I was optimistic. Then found TRP, surely did lots of stuff wrong, changed them. As expected, one needs better looks to make a girl interested, none of that confidence crap works. So, went to the gym and worked out. But then shit got real in 3rd and 4th year at uni (I don't study crap degree) and I also got depressed and sick, seeing others having normal lives without much issue. Went to therapy about it, male therapist was red pill and basi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:36 AM
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Didn't work for me. And many others I know. Although, much of this is our own fault, high inhibition, not good looking, not tall. It is embarassing because 60% of population of uni students is women...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 07:44 AM
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It's not that simple. How the f do you work out that you will be good at engineering? Or, like my friend said, he majored in physics but took half a year of playing with optics and lasers to finally determine that, yeah, I like this stuff. Also, want != ability. I met plenty of programming students at uni who are passionate but simply could not hack certain classes because of lack of aptitude, intelligence or whatever. So, a wiser advice is to figure out where you stand intelligence-wise and fig…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 07:41 AM
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I changed my opinion that humans are civilised. Animal Planet was right. I knew something about these documentaries were clicking with me at some fundamental level.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:12 PM
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Pretty much nailed it. I am acutely aware of how moaning does not help me at all, in fact fucks up my brain neurons and waste time. I also got back my T results at a sky-highish 970 ng/dl at age 24 lol. So, enough manliness in my veins. It's just that I am slightly below average looking and 5'9" and it is very hard to stand out. I also think that my expectations for life were too unrealistic, seeping into everything from career to relationships. Hence, happiness approaching 0 when stuff just is …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 03:08 PM
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Because trauma inflicted by other people over time accumulates. If you are not good looking, then you have less opportunities with both men and women on a social setting. Truth is, I did not give a fuck about looks in high school at all. I was busy studying, slaying MMORPG monsters and playing basketball. I was just treated worse than others and my parents never taught me anything about how world really works. It was obvious in high school that popular guys were good looking. And then you had ug…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 02:58 PM
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Developing sexually - definitely seeing and banging the shit out of hookers. You can even ask then to teach you secrets because you want to please her. Mutual benefits. Mentally, not so much. If you pay, you fuck, if you don't, then you are alone. Meanwhile, well over 80% of people out there get married and you can't even get someone to fuck you voluntarily. Most people succeed in this task but you don't. That is not good for mental health at all. Especially, when one wants to have a family and …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 07:55 AM
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Once I got money, I can see how people say "it is not a big deal". But you can always do something about getting money. In fact, getting money means you are valuable human being and someone voluntarily wants to share their resources with you for your expertise and help. Paying for a hooker is different. She is only there because you pay her, it is not voluntary. This means there is something inherently wrong with you as a human being, because no one wants to voluntarily fuck you. It's like a cab…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/17 06:33 AM
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