| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 748 | Men are unhinged | MALE DEPRAVITY | cnemidophorus | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 02:34 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 27 | Tried to convince myself he was a HVMThat was actually my first thought and it could mean he is potentially very dangerous. Be careful OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/22 01:00 PM |
| 21 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.Same guess here 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 09:04 PM |
| 65 | I bailed on a date and I’ve never been more proud of myselfYou can definitely still leave a dinner date. It just takes a little more directness than you may be accustomed to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 01:05 AM |
| 376 | I don’t really have words for this one.Had an ex that got into this disgusting perverted crap and started secretly posing as me using my photos online to catfish other men. 🤮🤮🤮 This woman needs to run, not walk, out of this relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:10 AM |
| 49 | As angry as I am about this situation, it's important to advocate for ALL women.I adore this page for not only being able to discuss the horror of gabby’s case, but also point out the gaps in the discussion for WOC without derailing the other topic. I’ve heard about these murders before and have been so disgusted by the lack of attention they get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:04 PM |
| 70 | Arches Park Ranger Warned Gabby the Relationship Seemed ToxicFrankly, given what happened it would have been hard for Gabby to have broken up with this guy without him killing her. I think the only way out would have been to literally wait until he was out of the van for something else and driven off without him which would have taken foresight into how violent he was and a degree of self-preserving callousness not many women could likely muster given this was a man she once loved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 12:01 PM |
| 40 | Avoid the YT comment sections on the Gabby Petito dashcam footageThank goodness for FDS. Sometimes it is like a breath of fresh air coming on here. I cannot believe how many people are making speculations of this being an “accident” that he killed her. Like saying he probably pushed her away and she hit her head on a rock. Or he was trying to defend himself. Or that he wasn’t doing a good job coping with her anxiety in some way but he probably snapped because of how she was treating him. Would the doubt be there at all if this was reversed??? Because I doubt … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 05:26 PM |
| 11 | Just got told off by a woman for being mean to a guy who idolises/sees himself in Joaquin Phoenix's JokerNot a huge fan of guns, but honestly they can definitely level the playing field in size discrepancies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 07:36 AM |
| 40 | TW: rape - OP doesn't KNOW WHAT TO DO and feels KINDA uncomfortable when her bf openly talks about her being his slave!! RUN!!!! THAT'S WHAT YOU SHOULD DO!!!! I can't believe my eyes reading this post!!!This made me feel at least a small bit better. Bless you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 11:23 AM |
| 53 | The Devil’s Advocate! I wish we could delete and block these men in real life situations…I also was just confused when I got one and figured it was a mistake and deleted it. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 05:01 PM |
| 24 | Part of vetting is seeing if he can grocery shop and cook without being spoon fed like a toddler.I love this. The fact he was saying this was probably because he was fishing for approval of his awful behavior to go home and further gaslight his wife with. So glad you called him out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 05:35 PM |
| 12 | Part of vetting is seeing if he can grocery shop and cook without being spoon fed like a toddler.I have literally never, not once, not even a little, ever seen a man do something like this for his wife or girlfriend. For gods sake, why is it so common for women to do it for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | 💩Exactly!!! Where is the anger from this woman?!?! We are in a time when women can support themselves and have more resources to leave. She needs to protect her daughter and not doing anything but second guessing herself online is a failure to her daughter and shameful to the core. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 10:24 PM |
| 2 | 💩Exactly, under no circumstance can I think of a single reason for this photo to have a reasonable explanation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 10:21 PM |
| 40 | Why the silver bullet “Parental Alienation” is a lie created by pedophiles to protect pedophiles. Remember ladies, these males walk among us. Be very wary of single dads. This poor mother and children.This | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 05:35 PM |
| 25 | “Build with him”I almost downvoted this was so angering to read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 05:20 PM |
| 1 | The bar can’t be this damn lowI had a single UTI over a year ago and my boyfriend has obsessively showered beforehand now every single time. I have had some when not sexually actively as well and may just be predisposed but he doesn’t want to risk it ever being due to him. I wouldn’t stay with a man who didn’t care about me like this ever again. This story just makes me so sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 07:32 PM |
| 79 | Be very cautious around men involved in youth ministry and other forms of faith based youth outreach. My story.I was reading this and didn’t realize I had been gritting my teeth the entire time until the end when I noticed my jaw was aching. I am so furious at those men who manipulated and abused both you and those other girls. Please don’t blame yourself for any part of this. I was in a group myself where a man who had positioned himself to be surrounded by vulnerable children was similarly predatory. I know how damaging that can be to carry around. Men are more often then not predatory when they seek t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Should I talk to my manager about a male coworker who I think is hitting on me covertedly and making me really uncomfortable?Women should ALWAYS listen to their instincts. Ignoring them gets us killed. It’s statements like yours that undermine us and create self-doubt making many women ignore these warnings. If she gets bad vibes I’d bet my paycheck there is a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 09:38 PM |
| 7 | Men are unhingedI love that your husband gave that man a dose of his own medicine. Your story makes me want to get tinted windows on my car too. Lol You mentioning the stereotype that women are bad drivers reminded me of the way insurance companies charge more for young men. Statistics don’t lie and insurance companies know whats up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 06:19 PM |
| 62 | Why you shouldn’t be friends with menI have one male friend I believe has gone above and beyond to support and care for me when I’ve been in some really bad places. However, the majority of them have turned out to be biding their time hoping one day I’ll f*** them (and it is genuinely amazing how long they will hold onto the friendship with that simmering on the back burner). Overall, I’d say the risks and disadvantages make new male friendships not worth it to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Men are unhingedIt is so infuriating that even from our cars women cannot avoid the violence and aggression of men. All we want to do is go about our business. I’ve seen a few guys exchange words with other men in traffic, but everything escalates 10 fold when they see it’s a woman. I personally had never had anything like this happen with driving before, but I am saddened and angered to see how many other women I this thread have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 05:00 PM |
| 50 | Jealous scrote tells his girlfriend that he hopes she gets raped - she asks ‘Should I end this relationship?’You are spot on. 1000% this man is a rapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:31 PM |
| 9 | Men are unhingedI am definitely for women arming themselves. This is amazing. You sound like a total bad-ass. I bet that Scrote still can’t comprehend that day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 04:09 PM |
| 11 | Men are unhingedI love hearing stories like this about women helping other women. Also, thank you for your kind words. I agree that when possible it’s important to speak up. It is so ingrained to be quite because you might make the men become angry and violent, but the problem is that they already ARE angry and violent. It’s a problem of putting the issue of controlling men’s rage directly onto the shoulders of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 01:56 PM |
| 15 | Men are unhingedYikes! Yeah no doubt if they had pulled up and you were alone that would have escalated way further. Men are often bullies and looking for vulnerable targets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 12:03 PM |
| 34 | Men are unhingedSadly, also men’s anger is frequently viewed as “justified” in our culture and people will bend over backwards to provide excuses for these guys. I think it just perpetuated their flagrance. It is incredible to me how stereotypes of emotional instability are aimed at women when men are out there having full on mantrums in the street. I used to work in a coffee shop at one point in my life and the worst customers were often men in suits. Like those business guys would go unhinged so quickly over … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 12:03 PM |
| 63 | Men are unhingedI definitely agree with this. Usually, my first choice is to avoid the situation if possible, but when it comes down to being cornered or pursued I turn loud, mean, and aggressive quickly and it seems to really take the wind out of the sails of most men because they just truly don’t expect it. It’s typically enough of a gap in their reaction for me to get away whatever has happened to get me to that point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:12 AM |
| 31 | Men are unhingedMy ability to not get angry at men who roll up to yell at me is probably lower than it should be for self preservation purposes. The best I could have done would have been to completely ignore them. Although, I’m not sure if I had pulled away without acknowledging them that they wouldn’t have also taken it as an insult and taken a similar route. Maybe meek apology would have satisfied them? I couldn’t muster that even on a good day though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 03:47 AM |
| 105 | Men are unhingedI genuinely do love this energy. I wish it was always safe to respond like that to unwanted attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 03:24 AM |
| 48 | Men are unhingedYes! I love that book. I have given it as a gift to a lot of other women in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 03:12 AM |
| 116 | Men are unhingedI already felt like it had turned dangerous, unfortunately, given the guy had decided to park and hunt for me. I don’t know what the disturbed mentality is behind parking and actively looking for someone like that. It kind of gives me chills to think about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 03:03 AM |
| 11 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 13 - Roastus Scrotus Deletus + How an Early Childhood Educator Motivates Boys to be HVMFellow past tomboy here and I totally agree with what you said. I would have been so unhappy to be relegated to the role of princess while the boys ran amuck getting to play cops and robbers. Discussing the episode with my boyfriend I thought he had a very good suggestion. He pointed out that instead of stopping rough housing with girls that instead the focus should be on boundaries. Play is all okay until the other kid says stop. If the boy doesn’t respect that then a discussion about boundarie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 12:48 PM |
| 4 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂It’s going to suck when he realizes how many of us queens make our own money so we have no need for his (although I doubt he has any) on top of still finding him ugly af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 09:29 PM |
| 106 | Why is it that women get shamed for being "gold diggers" (even though they aren't) but men can get away with using women so much? Answer: Patriarchy.This rings so true to me. I am on an excellent career path and eventually will be more than comfortable. I had an ex who at the time made 6 figures spring on me in complete seriousness that once I begin to make money he wanted to be a stay at home cartoonist (note, man could not draw and this wasn’t even a pre-existing hobby). He legitimately just assumed he could stay home jerking off and drawing shitty stick figures while I slaved away to support his ugly as sin, lazy, limp dick self. He could… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 01:22 PM |
| 116 | Unfriendly ReminderAlso, If the woman was raped then she’d like still have to prove it and we all know how well that goes inside of the patriarchy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 12:13 PM |
| 13 | There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that.I’m currently watching my mom who is approaching 60 attempt to figure out how to financially sustain herself if she succeeds in divorcing her abusive husband and it is absolutely heart breaking. She was a SAHM only for a few years and has a decent job but even so she is finding it difficult to figure out how she will afford things like retirement. Part of the issue is that her employer nullifies the years worked in the count down to retirement if you take years off in the middle and it pushed ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:43 AM |
| 39 | Men are entering Academia with the express intent of preying on students. Like most LVM and Predators, they try and infiltrate the ranks of trusted institutions to find their victims and hide their intentions behind the authority of their title.Some of these stories are honestly so ridiculous. It is intentional blindness on the woman’s part to ever “believe them.” I refuse to accept they don’t know the truth deep down. I have a friend who dated a scrote while in college that told her he was a spy and that he couldn’t hang out with her or respond to her texts because he was “on missions.” She was a pick me at the time and wouldn’t hear any of my criticism of the guy and it caused a fight between us when I said he was almost definitely u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:35 AM |
| 7 | Men are entering Academia with the express intent of preying on students. Like most LVM and Predators, they try and infiltrate the ranks of trusted institutions to find their victims and hide their intentions behind the authority of their title.Ugh the phrase “plate them” 🤢 In response to that final question on his post: he shouldn’t just avoid students all together - the creep should avoid women all together! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:29 AM |
| 10 | Piers Morgan is the quintessential “nice guy” with a fragile wittle ego all because he can’t stand that Meghan Markle rejected himThis guy is pathologically misogynistic and his treatment of Meghan is just one in a long line of examples of that. He talks down to women constantly. If you want to see a rather wonderful video where him trying to talk down to a woman blew up in his face beautifully I definitely suggest you watch this: https://youtu.be/QZWS2g-fEAU I love the cohost calling him out on whether he knows Pythagorean theorem. Not to mention how many mistakes he was making just trying to ask this woman questions he t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Scrotes mad! How dare we value our time and peace. Have you been blocking and deleting people more since you've learned about FDS?My mom always said to be nice because it would hurt their feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 12:36 AM |
| 5 | Wow, I've never thought about emotional connection like this, but it's so true, especially in relationships I've been in.Ugh this hits home too hard. I have ended a lot of friendships because men couldn’t graciously accept a no. I only have 2 guy friends mature enough the friendship survived following rejection. A lot of the others tried to keep pushing boundaries and I cut them out or they would completely abandon the friendship once I said no because the chance I might fuck them was the only reason they were likely hanging around and the friendship was a facade. The later of those two genuinely hurt a lot when I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 01:16 PM |
| 48 | What, too many standards?I was downvoted on there for advising a woman to maintain her own income so she doesn’t have to be dependent on a man so I’m not surprised. Being banned for accurate criticism is ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 05:27 PM |
| 29 | “Law of consent” in Sweden forces men to describe how they verified consent rather than forcing women to prove the sex *wasn’t* consensual, resulting in more successful prosecutions of rapists.I absolutely love that I am banned from so many anti-women subs (especially those that purport to be feminist). Genuinely, how much more obvious could the misogyny be than silencing by blocking women who have concerns, perspectives or their own feminist philosophies? Congrats on irritating the sexist men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 01:55 PM |
| 23 | Whenever a man talks about “carrying on his family name” to promote sexism, homophobia and his own delusions of grandeur put that brokeass nobody in his place!Hahaha I love this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 01:10 PM |
| 5 | Female Dating Strategy Book & Resource ListI just saved this entire list! Thank you so much for sharing. I really loved a few of these books I had read already and can’t wait to discover some more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/19 01:26 PM |
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