coacherman50 Archive

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2	Guys who had a lot successful first dates, could you give some tips? It takes a bit of time dating to know when to escalate. You have to just read the situation and her actions. Same with getting a kiss also. Gauge how she is. If the convo is going well, you feel like you have a good opportunity then go for it. The worst that can happen is she turns away. But you would already have that feeling if that’s what she’s gonna do	/r/seduction	09/06/22 08:37 PM
0	My favorite technique to check if the Date is still on Schedule You will most likely know whether she’s going to turn up or not because if you guys have been texting on the day, it’s very likely if she’s on the way she will say to you. This has been the case with every date I’ve been on. Don’t think I’ve ever been stood up bc I would never make date plans and just turn up to the place without some sort of idea about what’s going on	/r/seduction	28/05/22 03:42 PM
2	My favorite technique to check if the Date is still on Schedule This, I’ve always asked. But at the same time if they were keen on the date they would also ask as well	/r/seduction	28/05/22 03:39 PM
1	Guys who had a lot successful first dates, could you give some tips? Definitely. If your dates are going really well then normally either party wouldn’t want to end it. I spent a few hours with a girl and wanted to leave early and she was like “my company isn’t good enough that you’re tryna leave early” lol	/r/seduction	12/05/22 01:48 PM
10	Guys who had a lot successful first dates, could you give some tips? I’ve had a lot of first dates tbh. So for me I try to avoid the cinema, going for food or a walk/coffee date. A coffee date might be good if you don’t want to invest too much time but if your goal is to escalate it may not be the one. I go for a fun activity like bowling or mini golf and then some drinks. You can break the ice quicker with a fun activity. You have to gauge when to make a move from how they are around you. It’ll be different for every girl. I’ve kissed girls within 30 mins of the…	/r/seduction	10/05/22 06:24 PM
1	This Girl I’ve been talking to Posted about me on tik tok. Just ignore it. People post things for entertainment purposes on the app and it isn’t always about them. It probably is what does best for her followers…	/r/seduction	11/04/22 09:16 PM
2	[deleted by user] I think the best piece of advice I can give you is if you get them home, talk for a bit right and then when you feel the time is right then go in for the kiss. Once you go for the kiss, if they start to kiss back and reciprocate the energy then you can start to let your hands wander and see if she does the same also. Just try to read her energy when it comes to that and don’t be pushy. Generally when you do this, the girl tends to get touchy also. From that point, you can maybe go the extra mile…	/r/seduction	19/03/22 11:17 PM
1	[deleted by user] Personally I just ignore commenting or replying on the pic if it’s a story. I would just like if it’s a post. What you could do is maybe tease flirt if it’s a story tho and you feel the need to say something	/r/seduction	03/02/22 05:03 AM
1	How to approach a chick at the club for a one night stand Decent advice but don’t forget if a girl plan on a nightout is to go home with someone then it’ll happen regardless. Just look like you’re having a good time and not constantly trying to get laid and it’ll come to you. Also helps if your friends are a good laugh and interact with the group	/r/seduction	16/12/21 07:59 PM
4	Males who are great at texting and get a lot of results using text, what are your tips and advice ? You’re probably not that bad at texting. But the problem is you’re maybe talking to girls who aren’t as interested in you as you think. With that being said, their effort in their text replies will be low which means your responses will be crap also. If you’re texting a girl that is making an effort, asking you questions etc then it’s so much easier to keep the convo going and make it interesting/flirt. I’m talking from experience here. I’ve text multiple girls who were dry/boring and no matter …	/r/seduction	02/11/21 09:13 PM
4	[deleted by user] Normally it’s a shit test to see how you react. Most times I find that they say that so they don’t feel guilty if that happens as well. Most times you end up having sex when they say that if you’re on a date etc. Just my experience tho	/r/seduction	01/11/21 08:19 PM
10	If someone disrespects you early on in your dating "relationship", walk away! You just work on yourself and try to have more to offer. You need to give them a reason to chase you. Don’t seem overly interested initially. Keep the attraction there. Some will say it’s bad advice but I’ve always noticed whenever I become more invested than she is, this sort of thing happens.	/r/seduction	25/10/21 06:31 PM
3	Hooked up at the party but she left with her friends after she said yes when I told her I’m taking her home It’s very difficult convincing a girl to come home with you if she’s in a group and you don’t have a group yourself. If you had a few decent guys in your friendship group there it would’ve probably been easier as they would all end up going back / speaking to one of your friends. Just gotta get lucky anyway	/r/seduction	15/10/21 09:22 PM
1	[deleted by user] He pretty much just wanted one thing and got what he wanted. That tends to be the reason why guys act dry after sex	/r/seduction	30/08/21 06:38 PM
18	When new girl is at your place what you usually do to have sex with her? Depends on a lot of things but if she just agrees to come around to yours to hangout then I’d say take her to your bedroom, put on Netflix and just pick a film, talk and get comfortable. When you feel the time is right, try to get her to cuddle you and build some intimacy and eventually go for the kiss and escalate from there. Make sure you gauge whether she wants you to continue escalating or not correctly	/r/seduction	22/08/21 05:32 PM
3	How do I hookup with a girl I meet at a bar/dance club? How do I escalate from dancing to kissing to sex? Exactly this. But don’t forget that you shouldn’t go with the main goal of hooking up. Go to have a good time with your friends etc and let your energy reflect this. Girls tend to come and dance near you or on you if they’re liking your energy. If your main focus is just pulling and hooking up it’s gonna show.	/r/seduction	06/07/21 09:50 AM
1	I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on dates Personally, I’ve always thought voice messages are so much better to send when you’re talking to a girl. There’s only so much you can say in text before it turns to paragraph so voice notes are nice and quick!	/r/seduction	10/05/21 02:28 PM
9	A Different Approach to Better Conversations Great post. Another thing I’d say is focus on genuinely trying to get to know her instead of just talking to try and get in her pants. You’ll do much better	/r/seduction	15/04/21 06:24 PM
1	A kind reminder to not focus on one girl Point 7 is very important. I always end up deleting them from my contacts if we’ve had convos etc and it’s suddenly died and you think it won’t go anywhere. Most times they’ll message you when they realise asking why did you do that haha	/r/seduction	12/04/21 05:43 PM
6	How to be good at sex What everyone is saying but here’s my 2 cents: 1) a lot of foreplay and kissing prior to sex. Make sure to kiss all down her body and make her beg for you. 2) eat her out if you’re into that. Spend some time on the clit. Then some time also fingering her and then do both. Pay attention how she reacts to each one and whatever gets her going off the most, then spend more time on that. 3) move on to penetration, take it easy and don’t focus on finishing first. Do a few positions and then some that …	/r/seduction	06/04/21 01:11 PM
9	Conversation Tips to Become a More Interesting Person Really good advice but you can’t forget that it’s hard to implement all this if that person doesn’t want a convo with you. So much easier to have interesting convos when both parties are interested	/r/seduction	22/03/21 06:27 PM
2	Never be too aggressive sexually with women when you’re texting them to meet up. Honestly I don’t think it’s about attraction. Personally I’ve had a bit better success with doing it this way because if you go try snd go back forth with them they might think you’re too free. But I guess it depends how much they like you? Like I said, give it a few hours or so and then when you’re both free, spend a night or so doing a back and forth. I hate texting personally but nowadays people feel like if you don’t text them, you’ve lost interest	/r/seduction	20/02/21 09:42 AM
1	I feel it's cringe worthy to wait for sometime before replying to a girl's text. Anybody else feels the same? The reason behind doing that is because you don’t want to seem overly invested in her. I think this is a good way to go about it before you meet her and maybe for the first 2 dates. That way you make her want you more. Once you’ve gotten a few dates out of the way then just text her more freely without thinking about it. I must say this works perfect if you’re trying to drag a convo out without letting it go dry before you meet her! This method seems to work for me. But don’t forget to maybe hav…	/r/seduction	19/02/21 09:46 AM
2	Message left unopened but story was viewed. From experience, what I would say to you is to just move on and don’t worry about her. You’ve already given her multiple chances to reply to you and she could’ve replied to your story. Find new flames and if this old flame comes back then it’s fine, if not it doesn’t matter. But don’t simp over her cause it’ll affect your confidence	/r/seduction	19/02/21 09:44 AM
9	Never be too aggressive sexually with women when you’re texting them to meet up. I realised before the pandemic it was easier to keep it stupid simple over text and get them on a date. Whereas now you have to just try and ask them some basics, find out how they feel about meeting people during Covid and then try to plan a date. I think it’s best to try and plan a date within the next couple days. Once you have a date, then just try and keep it light-hearted and leave your reply times to 3-24 hours between messages. (This works if you want to carry a convo out over days). Try…	/r/seduction	19/02/21 09:41 AM