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The faster you delete the faster you move on. The more experienced you get, the more you realize it’s not helpful to dwell, at all.
/r/seduction20/08/20 08:39 PM
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You’re being “picky” because you’re avoiding wanting to put yourself out there and risk rejection. It’s normal and fine, everyone does it. But the key is to take action despite of that and approach anyways. Also it depends on where you’re going, if you’re spending a lot of time in areas where there aren’t a lot of women that you want to date, then you’re going to have a harder time.
/r/seduction20/08/20 08:38 PM
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They should only be tough in the beginning. Eventually they open up but you have to be persistent!
/r/seduction11/04/20 06:45 PM
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You might be overthinking it a little my friend. You might want to relax a little more into letting go of thinking about how to provide value and focus on making the girl you are talking to feel great!
/r/seduction11/04/20 06:43 PM
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The profile picture says it all!
/r/seduction24/03/20 08:31 PM
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Your friends likely has a lot of experience approaching.
/r/seduction13/03/20 02:39 AM
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Great post! I agree that getting better with dating and women tends to influence other areas of your life.
/r/seduction13/03/20 12:04 AM
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What do you mean by close the distance my friend? She may want to kiss you, but she won't advertise it to you or make it very obvious! Does that make sense?
/r/seduction13/03/20 12:01 AM
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You are either a legitimate sociopath or full of crap. Approach anxiety is ingrained in our pre-modern brains to be afraid of approaching people we don't know. I'm not sure if you're referring to cold approach or simply being in a social in a group of people that you know. But any normal person is going to have approach anxiety or at-least some level of hesitation. I've cold-approached thousands of women by now, and I don't feel anxious but that's because I've done it plenty of times. Don't sham…
/r/seduction12/03/20 11:58 PM
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While I somewhat agree with the above answers, the truth is that is that getting a girlfriend is no different than a one-night stand, FWB,etc. You follow the same process of making her feel attracted to you, setting up a fun date, and moving things forward to a successful conclusion. Let me ask you, do you want to make this girl your girlfriend?
/r/seduction11/03/20 04:30 PM
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You're suffering from paralysis of analysis my friend. Too many theories and not enough action. Focus on taking action instead!
/r/seduction11/03/20 04:24 PM
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She definitely likes you and is showing you signs of interest, you're still in the game so don't mess it up!
/r/seduction11/03/20 04:22 PM
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She's probably telling you all of that sexual stuff and staring deep into your eyes because she just came off the rebound and her emotions are still raw. You can pursue her but honestly it's probably not worth it because she will be very hot and cold and you will be scratching your head left wondering what's going on.
/r/seduction11/03/20 04:20 PM
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This girl was very interested in you. I'm sorry my friend but getting handed a girl very interested in you in a silver platter just doesnt happen that often. She definitely wanted you to keep talking to her and was VERY receptive to you from the get go. She gave you every signal that she was interested in you, it's you job as the man to move things forward based off of that. If you dont show enough premise, she will think that either you are not interested or don't have the confidence to show in…
/r/seduction03/03/20 07:04 PM
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This is great! I remember my first rejection 😂 Rejection as a concept honestly shouldn't even exist! As Mark Manson said, you two were simply incompatible and that's it. You did your job of approaching because you were interested in her which is great. And now you realize that nothing bad will come out of it so its nore okay for you to believe that. Good on you for finally taking action. Now get out there and continue to take action and see where it can go 😉
/r/seduction03/03/20 06:56 PM
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It's great that you're approaching and talking to all of these new women. Keep in mind though thats it not all about the number of interactions you have as much as it is the quality of the interactions you are having. If you talk to ten different women, and they aren't showing you any signs of interest, you gotta focus on the quality of the interaction. Did she show signs that she liked you? As you continue to talk to her, is she liking you more or less? Could you have capitalized on a woman who…
/r/seduction03/03/20 06:43 PM
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