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Depends on your rarity and the context. 6’8 with model face … yes. Neighbourhood pretty boy- you’ll get stared at and maybe have ‘innocent’ convos started.
/r/seduction20/04/25 01:50 PM
0

I’m with OP. If you don’t treat going after the things you want seriously… one day you’ll realise you have nothing. Quiet life of desperation. I think it applies more to life than girls.
/r/seduction01/04/25 10:40 PM
1

Talk to 2, but have a catalog of women you’ve given such a good time that they be back in a flash.
/r/seduction23/03/25 04:12 PM
3

What are some high quality social situations?
/r/seduction07/02/25 08:00 PM
2

I think the safest bet is to induce sexuality through body language, just never verbally. Make them feel your lust, but never let it be overt till you’re at the tipping point
/r/seduction17/12/24 12:07 PM
1

I’ve actually found that it works best when I approach the girl in the club, if they respond well, I say come “Come say hi to my girl, she’s really friendly”. We all dance, I get touchy with the girl, she looks to my girl, my girl smiles, the other girl gets touchy too.
/r/seduction30/11/24 04:54 PM
2

They’ve been humbled by life. Ego disillusioned. It’s a compliment for them to feel seen. And a lot of what is weird today was normal back in their day- eg randomers approaching.
/r/seduction31/10/24 10:35 PM
25

So it’s status then?
/r/seduction30/10/24 10:04 PM
2

Earn it. Do the things you find hard.
/r/seduction17/07/23 05:32 PM
2

Do you do it before going out if just use it in general
/r/seduction17/07/23 01:06 PM
0

No
/r/seduction14/06/23 06:53 PM
1

Name a few
/r/RedPillBooks25/03/23 12:36 PM
1

Great vid
/r/seduction01/09/22 05:29 PM
6

Brazil might be better
/r/seduction01/09/22 02:30 PM
2

What did I miss?
/r/seduction01/09/22 08:40 AM
1

How did you meet her?
/r/seduction30/08/22 02:54 PM
3

I have one right now, she wants to take ME out, for HER birthday.
/r/seduction30/08/22 02:15 PM
20

🤣🤣🤣 What kind of bullshit is this???? OP, older women are the BEST FWB’s you can have. Girls your age will want something serious eventually.
/r/seduction30/08/22 01:38 PM
3

Personally not worth it for me, it feels like my manhood is leaving my body
/r/seduction28/08/22 10:17 AM
3

You can 100% be content without women… but women add a whole new dimension to your life. It just become better with the right ones involved.
/r/seduction25/08/22 09:34 AM
1

Then chase it till you die, or just give up and find happiness elsewhere
/r/seduction25/08/22 06:35 AM
1

Imagine you see yourself as a 7… if many 9’s reject you… you can still be a 7 But if many 7’s rejects you, are you still a 7? Maybe not.
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:35 PM
10

Don’t wait to the end, start escalating from the start… by the middle you should pretty much know that she’s ready to kiss. If you wait till the end, there’s way too much pressure on both of you.
/r/seduction24/08/22 11:37 AM
3

Could it be that you know if the 9/10’s don’t like you… you were just trying you luck anyway. And with the lower girls… it would mean you’re actually lower than you even thought?
/r/seduction24/08/22 10:48 AM
1

Progress things but don’t give everything. She must always be craving your next surprise.
/r/seduction23/08/22 08:22 PM
7

What was my question?
/r/seduction23/08/22 05:26 PM
12

🤣 Folding didn’t even cross my mind. Just reassured me I was on the right path.
/r/seduction23/08/22 05:25 PM
1

You need looks and game- and if you want something more stable/ serious, socioeconomic status.
/r/seduction22/08/22 09:40 AM
5

This is the ACTUAL answer.
/r/seduction21/08/22 04:52 PM
2

I don’t see the relevance to what you quoted. But I agree with your statement. I try and go deep with girls because I feel so empty fucking a woman I know nothing about. I guess I’m somewhat demisexual. I mean, I’ll do it… but I’ll regret it after
/r/seduction21/08/22 09:28 AM
3

Damn, I though the friend with bad game alley hoop was my trade secret🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction21/08/22 12:18 AM
12

I struggled from this too until recently. I used to actually put effort in, try and go deep into knowing them and learning about their life…and it just turned them off. It’s almost as if they expected to seduce the fuckboy into liking them. What I have found is that I’m attractive enough to focus only on girls with extremely high interest… and those girls it’s nearly impossible to turn them off. An example of filtering for this regarding online dating… I only speak to girls who message me first.…
/r/seduction21/08/22 12:14 AM
11

Big Fax. Grind and get it. Realise it’s not that special. Maintain it and divert you attention to other things you love.
/r/seduction17/08/22 02:14 AM
6

Call it an investment
/r/seduction16/08/22 08:00 PM
-4

Disagree. That’s not him chasing.. that’s called wait for it…. Game. All of those things would raise his perceived value and result in her seeing him in a different light.
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:41 PM
1

Slide in, I won’t tell you again
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:37 PM
1

Damn baby… commented, and came back for round 2. Slide in the DM’s let’s see if we get on.
/r/seduction16/08/22 07:30 PM
1

There’s a book called “What do women really want?” It will prove you’re actually wrong about what women want. At its core, women want to be desired by many men. Because it links to security. Desired=Attention=Provision+Protection= Security. Why do you think these women want all these options around them? Security. But that’s besides the point. Women are NOT selective about who they sleep with. Before contraception, yes. As I mentioned, in a hook up culture, that’s absolutely not the case. And yo…
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:54 PM
9

The guys who aren’t pushing for Sex because they don’t want to blow their chance with you… that’s your level. If they are pushing for Sex, they’ve had types like you before. They don’t feel the need to play the long game.
/r/seduction16/08/22 01:52 PM
1

That’s a smart assumption, I respect your due diligence. I used to see it with myself alone, so I assumed it was just the girls I’m with. But when social media became big and people started telling their stories.. I saw it was black, white, rich, poor, high class, low class… The only demographic I saw it less in was religious people with nuclear families. But religion is seen as a joke in the west and nuclear families are the lowest they’ve been in history. Now remember… I didn’t say men weren’t…
/r/seduction16/08/22 12:41 PM
1

🤣 I’d love for you to come, so that you could see for yourself. Narcissism is basically standard procedure. Nearly Every girl main character syndrome, because whether in person or online hundreds of men are calling queens and being subservient to them. There’s a hook up culture, so cheating is pretty common place. It gives you the best of both worlds. Don’t get me wrong, I’m sure there’s a rare few girls who don’t cheat… but that’s likely due to the consequences being way too severe. But that do…
/r/seduction16/08/22 12:13 PM
1

It’s all soulless. And the western women in monogamous relationships… are cheating. It used to be a thing they hid, but with social media clout, they announce it while on a drunken night out. Check out an account on ig called societylied2u.
/r/seduction16/08/22 10:22 AM
11

If you want a genuine, deep, transparent relationship. This is the book for you. Fuck all the game shit. I’m toxic, so I had to love it from a distance.
/r/seduction16/08/22 10:06 AM
24

This is so funny. Women just refuse to settle with the men on their level. They must have the guy that every woman wants… but are you the woman that every man wants? Ie are you model tier, great personality, great home making skills, adventurous, peace inducing, nurturing? Are you all of these things? If not, get to the back in the line, respectfully. Or alternatively, go for the men on your level who are willing to love you deeply for who you are.
/r/seduction16/08/22 09:34 AM
1

You can find those qualities in older women around 50, but you have to understand that pop culture brainwashes the masses. If women are seeing their friends dating 5 men and have 2 sugar daddies… there’s only so long they can hold out. I’ve seen women from 3rd world countries come to the west and be shocked at how the women treat the men. But 3 years in they’re doing the same. I don’t blame them at this point because it’s become the norm. It’s what happens when there’s too much security and too …
/r/seduction16/08/22 09:29 AM
8

They’ll literally do anything for you, they’ll introduce you to people of influence, they’ll cook, clean, work through your trauma with you, they’ll teach you about the female anatomy, they’ll remind you who you are in this world, they’ll write resumes for you, they’ll do coursework for you, they’ll revamp your wardrobe, they’ll spend their last dime to create memories for you. I really feel sorry for young men, because social media has tarnished women. Back in the day women were soooo valuable.…
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:31 PM
2

Elaborate
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:07 PM
13

Good Lad, this is what we should be classing as advanced game. I have a friend who’s girl pays for everything, she’s eager to pay and she’s feminine… he’s currently in Brazil courtesy of her. The thing is, it’s an investment on her part he is better looking that her and she definitely wants him to marry her. I hope more guys post about how they’re getting treated like Kings and not just settling for Sex. Why? Because Sex in my opinion is the cheapest thing a woman can give you. They have soooo m…
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:46 AM
4

Indeed unsolicited contact, kind of like when women give you the eye.. but they didn’t use telepathy to ask for your consent for the eye contact first. Creeps.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:41 AM
6

I don’t even know you and I’m proud of you.
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:11 AM
9

Legit 🤣
/r/seduction13/08/22 10:29 PM
1

The absence/ acceptance of insecurities and the presence of competence
/r/seduction13/08/22 04:06 PM
-2

One loyal lady with multiple sidechicks
/r/seduction12/08/22 01:05 PM
4

I don’t think he’s a muppet. But I do think he’s naive. Do you enter a chess match and complain about pawns not being able to move where they want? Learn the rules of the game, have fun playing it.
/r/seduction12/08/22 10:25 AM
1

I noticed the same. Online beautiful girls attention is hard to keep, in person it’s a breeze.
/r/seduction07/08/22 06:14 PM
1

Yh because there’s a direct correlation between linguistics and porn usage🤣 You should publish a study on it
/r/seduction06/08/22 09:26 AM
2

When you have no chemistry guy hitting it like never before, you’re legs are shaking, you’ve cum 5 times and he massages you to sleep… you will start to find reasons to fall in love
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:52 AM
5

Loool, you must never have been dickmatised. Great Sex will have a girl thinking you were made for her.
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:04 AM
2

Let’s change this, women are in survival mode… especially in 3rd world countries.
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:02 AM
2

Nah they have to lust you first. Then the romance seals the deal.
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:01 AM
1

Very true… the first part of the process is automated for them. The second part is when their battle begins.
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:58 PM
2

100000% which is shown by the fact that they go insane once they’re attached. It’s like they can finally take their mask of nonchalance off.
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:58 PM
5

I wanna blame you but bro… I empathise. Im a good looking guy, I’ve never struggled with women… but the women that would fall at my feet and pray for 1 night, now are blasé. The hot girls I still attract but keeping their attention is way harder than it was even 2 years ago. So it makes me think, how the fuck are average guys feeling. The only good thing is, it’s made me decide to 10x areas of my life I would otherwise not care about
/r/seduction05/08/22 11:55 PM
3

This is pretty accurate, especially the last point
/r/seduction04/08/22 07:32 AM
2

Status. End of.
/r/seduction01/08/22 11:59 AM
1

Just speak to random people, ask them about themselves, show genuine interest. Read how to win friends and influence people.
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:10 PM
3

Then the issue is that you need to learn social skills. Don’t focus on seduction. Just focus on holding good convo with men and women. In reality you don’t have to be smooth and seductive. She only needs to think you’re decent looking and enjoy the convo you have.
/r/seduction30/07/22 01:27 PM
3

He’s not joking. This is something most men have a desire for. He just had the courage to tell you because he was drunk. Quite frankly that desire will never go, he just thought he might aswell see if you’re down with it or if down the line he may have to do it behind your back.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/22 09:51 AM
5

A huge thing is this… imagine you ‘game’ you way into getting this girl. She’s always going to have her eye on the man she truly desires. Her actual type. The day he makes himself available, is the day you’ll hear “It’s not you it’s me”
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:19 AM
0

Learn to stand on your square as a man. If a random girl online can make you change without understanding why your changing… imagine a girl in real life.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:49 AM
-6

Id stay with her and cheat on the side.
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:24 AM
1

This is the best explanation I’ve heard
/r/seduction20/07/22 01:40 PM
1

Of course not hunny, this is Reddit.
/r/seduction20/07/22 12:15 PM
0

Ohh, I’m not struggling with women, but I have friends that do struggle so I think it’s unfair to equate their struggle with women’s in dating. But we can agree on the fact that men must focus on levelling up, not lamenting.
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:34 AM
0

Mm, and I suppose men don’t get used?
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:20 AM
1

Yup you’re right about perception being reality.
/r/seduction20/07/22 11:20 AM
0

Most men who actually date successfully experience those same things. Which proves my point, those are privileges. I wouldn’t have experienced those bad things if I couldn’t even get a girl to look at me, which is what most of these men are experiencing.
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:58 AM
1

Consensual Violence I hear👀 Ironically I’ve grown up all my life with multiple female friends, multiple. And not one has been raped, beaten or killed. I also have all sisters. The same clearly applies.
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:55 AM
4

Sooo, women are shooting way above their league and that’s supposed to compare the struggle of men who are seen as dirt by women in their league. Seems like first world problems to me.
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:53 AM
2

Has any of those things happened to you? Or are you extrapolating potential events and comparing it to real life events?
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:49 AM
3

Isn’t that breadcrumbing?
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:48 AM
-7

Oh babe, believe me, I don’t struggle for girls at all. I’m playing on a different league. But I still sympathise for the men I see around me struggling.
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:47 AM
3

Would they rather not be able to get Sex and Attention too? Nearly all women are starting at level 2 but complain about not being able to get to level 4. Many unfortunate guys are struggling to get level 1.
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:43 AM
4

Great answer, but what’s zombieing?
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:42 AM
1

Good answer
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:40 AM
-4

Leave the convo for the big boys dear
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:23 AM
4

Suddenly I’m convinced, good job 👍
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:21 AM
5

Just curious, how do women have it hard in dating?
/r/seduction20/07/22 10:12 AM
2

The only thing that makes sense is for you to keep paying for their stay.. but bring girls over. If I’m paying that’s a non negotiable.
/r/seduction18/07/22 11:01 PM
1

Do you go to their place?
/r/seduction18/07/22 10:52 PM
16

Facts… I don’t want a straight path to Sex. I want to build tension, go on that rollercoaster and explode when we finally get to the Sex.
/r/seduction16/07/22 09:39 PM
3

This is only going to work if she’s highly attracted to you, friends have loads of nice conversations… if you don’t polarise and make it man to women, fat chance she suddenly sees you as a sexual creature.
/r/seduction16/07/22 09:37 PM
1

Fail Fast… no attachment. Treat it like a game.
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:33 PM
6

Tbh I haven’t found a perfect one. Wine works. Just say anything interesting, that she’d acc wanna do.
/r/seduction09/07/22 01:10 AM
40

LOOOOOL this is the most ass advice I’ve ever seen. Fellas please don’t listen. Yes women get horny. But women also feel immense guilt about it. A sweet lie of plausible deniability is what they want to hear. Not about how you plan to ravish her😭😭🤣🤣
/r/seduction08/07/22 11:24 PM
-5

This example is shit… but the premise is fantastic. I have a Pimp friend who has a similar move but it’s so effective I just can’t share it. But you’re on the right track 👏🏾
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:08 PM
3

Don’t even take it personally… it’s a well known fact that what women say and do are completely different things. These games work very well with women because it engages their emotions heavily… that’s their favourite state. A man who in just purely a stable lover will bore her to death and ironically get the ghosting.
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:04 PM
2

So make her feel safe and let her guard down… then start fucking with her mind. Thanks for the wisdom
/r/seduction07/07/22 08:01 PM
2

Why did you delete the comment? Was it some trade secret? 👀
/r/seduction06/07/22 09:17 AM
3

You need to work on your articulation
/r/seduction05/07/22 01:20 PM
1

No it’s not woman’s intuition.. it’s a subconscious change in your behaviour due to going from scarcity to abundance
/r/seduction05/07/22 12:31 PM
1

Yeah I did at first … OP did a terrible job at explaining but the comments clarified.
/r/seduction04/07/22 07:47 AM
6

She doesn’t respect you
/r/seduction29/06/22 07:45 PM
-2

I call cap on this story😭 Don’t ask me why. Cos I’m gonna tell you. A gay guy saying I don’t think that’s appropriate in this area? Sounds similar to the post girl who reported a guy for approaching in the mall. And height shaming another man?
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:45 PM
2

No, infact I’d say that’s the rarest type of expression of desire from a man. Especially in a world where men are punished for being overt about their intentions. I people watch all the time. I once saw a girl giving a guy choosing signals in the gym and he would look at her and then do nothing. As a man I knew what was happening, he was surveying whether it was worth the risk. She assumed he wasn’t interested and walked away. If I was her friend I would’ve told her to work next to him so his le…
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:48 PM
1

Yeah, correct. There’s huge nuisance to it. As a girl how do you perceive a guy who doesn’t give you any acknowledgment when in the same vicinity. I started this behaviour because I didn’t want women to feel uncomfortable because my aura is quite intimidating. But I find it causes more preening, more stares, more obvious attention seeking.
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:30 PM
1

Well, you got to understand… most people in this sub don’t receive that treatment. You see the crossing arms one is a bit of a conundrum.. because can suggest nerves but it can also come off very defensive aka you’re not approving of him. Maybe change it to fidgeting.
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:19 PM
28

This is called subconscious choosing signals, she’s nervous around you so preening herself subconsciously. It happens a lot in the gym.
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:45 AM
5

False. Handsome is not subjective. Attractive is subjective.
/r/seduction25/06/22 11:45 AM
6

I’ll give you a perfect example. https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMN64k5uu/ watch his videos. That’s pretty much who I was.
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:03 AM
29

It’s all about emotions… girls love the Chase. I was looking back at my old texts and I’m shock, I was so toxic… extremely belittling, but the girls loved it. They were offering to pay for my tickets to see them again, begging for my time. It’s funny cos back then I wasn’t self aware, and when I developed self awareness I stopped that behaviour due to guilt. But the fantastic results also stopped. As such, I’m back on my bullshit🤣
/r/seduction25/06/22 02:15 AM
2

Strong Agree. They are passed on information early like our ancestors passed on wisdom.
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:05 AM
1

Strong agree
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:02 AM
1

Elaborate on the emotionally charged logical seducer, I’ve never hear such a term.
/r/seduction23/06/22 11:01 AM
1

Perhaps we refer back to your “Small Sample Size” and not take you seriously. Furthermore perhaps we just end this pointless discussion here.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:40 PM
2

Agreed. So it’s all learnt… nothing God Ordained.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:37 PM
1

Or perhaps… the ones still actively on this sub have failed their studies, whilst most have succeeded and are thriving in the real world.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:35 PM
1

I mean, you’re a man ain’t ya. You disagree, express yourself.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:34 PM
2

Yup. I mentioned that in the thread… they’re constantly exchanging information like it’s a right of passage. You must have info to offer up. You must know a girl of a girl who experienced something.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:33 PM
1

I mean you’re not wrong, a fellow Redditor just said “Women are either scanning for value or danger” and I believe Ted Focused his approaches on displaying value… even though in hindsight many of the people who interacted with him suggested his behaviour was sketchy.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:31 PM
1

“Women are either scanning for value or danger” wonderfully put.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:30 PM
2

You could be referring to subconscious… which is basically intelligence that have passed through your senses without you knowing… in that case, everyone has equal intuition.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:28 PM
1

My intuition says that men study women more than women study themselves… so this seemed like a swell place to start.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:25 PM
1

Ohh I get what you mean now.. as in fearless bad bitch who doesn’t need anyone and can take over the world. But are scared shitless walking through daily life.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:14 PM
5

You don’t behave differently.. To YOU. Haven’t you never been told “You’re acting strange” “You seem off” even though you feel like you’re the exact same guy?
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:12 PM
2

That’s deep routed anxiety bro, wired through generations.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:10 PM
8

Yes… because they’ve seen over and over again… men that are confident do X… non confident men do Y. They’re in the club every fucking week bro, you don’t think they’d notice patterns? It’s like a bouncer.. he can probably tell you someone’s carrying drugs just from the way they act when he taps them down. He hasn’t got super powers.. he’s just got thousands of reference points.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:07 PM
1

Well that was the focus, because it’s a seduction sub. But even things like motherly instinct… I believe it’s simply the fact that women care more about their child because they only have so many eggs. Ultimately my point is that anything women have isn’t due to their natural gift, it’s simply due to the conditions forced upon them. Ie, more fragile so they are more cautious, limited eggs.. so they test more, limited eggs so they nurture their child more fervently.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:06 PM
0

Well well… blame your sisterwives for perverting the word “Predators” because these days it means any man who doesn’t behave how you want. And I’m pretty sure rapists and abusers should show up on your radar more readily than a player… which solidifies my point, female intuition is bullshit. It’s simply a decent assessment of an accumulation of bad and good experiences they’ve experienced or heard of.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:02 PM
3

This is my exact point. Women see soooo many things from an early age.. they’d be stupid not to notice patterns. I also agree that women are more socially aware.. but again I think it’s simply anxiety. Have you ever tapped a woman from behind… she will jump out of her skin. They’re not more intuitive they’re just more scared… therefore put more effort into assessing their safety. Which is why they’re always exchanging information and stories amongst each other.
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:57 PM
1

So elaborate, what else does it extend to?
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:53 PM
0

Lol so essentially the guys who were blatant creeps you blocked out.. but the guys with tact got past your ‘intuition’. Not a convincing argument in my opinion.
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:45 PM
2

I’m asking and stating my current stance.
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:42 PM
1

I’m glad you disagree… I do believe women are 10x more cautious. But I think it simply manifests itself in them doing MORE to test. Not them actually having a natural instinct for knowing. Hence why women at an early age are played like a fiddle.. they don’t have enough reference points. An older woman will eat you up.. why? Because she’s seen so many men in her life time and thus can read men like a book
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:41 PM
1

Mmm, but my point is simply that they don’t have magical superpowers… it’s always judgment in reference to the thousands of men she’s encountered.
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:32 PM
2

Perfectly said. I read SOI and just switched off… but the core message from reading this comment makes perfect sense.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:23 PM
3

Were you always introspective and analytical?
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:27 AM
1

What happened?
/r/seduction21/06/22 01:25 AM
3

Hmmm… either the girls you’re fucking are super average or you are exaggerating your averageness. If you’re taking about average girls.. I agree, the bar is not high.. just be enough. But I’d you’re talking about girls that turn heads, just being average will make you an AFC.
/r/seduction19/06/22 11:49 PM
1

Side note, when you do make eye contact with someone you’re attracted to.. is it always that extended glare or sometimes you continue as if nothing. I have this debate with a friend. I personally believe that if a woman is attracted to you she will lock eyes with you for 2-3 seconds at least, instinctively. Otherwise she’s just indifferent. What are your thoughts?
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:22 PM
1

How quick is quick. I heard it takes 5 minutes for a woman to decide if she wants to fuck. Some say 5 seconds. Is it more like… I know I’m attracted to you, now i want to see if you can hold a quick convo?
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:13 AM
1

You found an answer to get around it in the comments?
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:48 AM
4

This is a very important one. I don’t like girls sleeping over unless it’s a meaningful one. But I find it hard to tell a girl to kick rocks… The easiest option is to order an Uber to soften the blow… but that’s ridiculously cost ineffective.
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:32 AM
3

Meaningful relationships are lit… Sex… fun if they’re equally as freaky… but if you get post nut clarity from her .. then not a great feeling.
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:34 PM
3

Number 2 is just false. Yes women are chaotic.. but it’s not just cos they’re disorganised.. it’s because they’re weighing up options. Hmmm I said yes to this guy last week, I’m not really feeling it.. but this guy just asked me and I told him we’ll see and he’s kinda hotter so I’m gonna see about it, but my friends are going out at the same time.. not sure if I wanna miss out… ahh there’s gonna be cute guys who might be even hotter… arghhh fuck it, I’ll just tell them both that something import…
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:26 PM
14

Damn. Just like that the word incel has been polluted. In which world does a man who is complaining about girls just fucking him… also manage to be an incel? Sound like those silly women who call men incels if they have a disagreement with a female. Let’s bring back the purity of that word ffs. We ruined Simp, let’s not ruin this.
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:20 PM
1

There’s a fat line between risk assessment and being scared of your own shadow. Which most normal men are.
/r/seduction16/06/22 05:09 PM
2

Yo. This is it. They’re scared and their boring. The mere concept of being scared of your boss dries any girls pussy up. So in a world full of men like this, why wouldn’t a reckless man who’s not even scared of police not turn her on?
/r/seduction16/06/22 12:32 PM
1

What are the better feminine traits in your opinion
/r/seduction15/06/22 06:36 AM
1

This made me smile. I think slow and steady works best. I tried being overt on tinder but only got whales. I changed my bio up and the prime 40’s are rolling in. On your first dates ect who paid?
/r/seduction14/06/22 12:58 AM
1

Bro, I’m coming to the same realisation.
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:57 PM
1

This is my dilema… because those things drastically raise your chances.. but literally open the floodgates for girls who simply want to use you.
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:51 AM
1

What kind of status would you recommend the average man attain?
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:46 AM
2

I mean… he can learn it. But you’re right, it’s complicated. There are a multitude of things that will sexualise him in woman’s eyes. These things can be specifically listed… but come with nuance. The problem is, unless he believes he is sexy, he will likely fumble along the way which will convert that Sex appeal into creepiness.
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:35 AM
8

Facts. I had a women come over to me today and say “I know it’s weird to say, but your really hot”… she came from far away and there was absolutely nothing to see besides the outline of my body.
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:28 AM
0

This is called being spoiled rotten. Think about it, imagine if men never had to face the consequences of their actions. We’d run around killing and raping. Fortunately reality humbles us very early. But women are princesses who can’t do wrong from the moment they’re born. It’s not their fault, it’s societies fault.
/r/seduction13/06/22 02:08 AM
2

You’re right… but game is deeper than just confidence. Having a good personality with a deeper than being confident.
/r/seduction12/06/22 08:54 PM
2

I believe it works but too much will regress your results. You need to use it to find what actually suits you and double down on that. Discard the things that don’t gel with your natural personality. And remove the parts of your personality that are antiseductive.
/r/seduction12/06/22 12:17 PM
2

You’re right… but how many good looking guys have good personalities? You see, seduction/game is effort, and most men won’t use it unless they have to. But again, if a good looking guy with a great personality comes along… an average guy has zero chance. Which is how it should be.
/r/seduction12/06/22 12:15 PM
2

Brotherman… what on earth has this got to do with seduction?
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:38 AM
2

I don’t converse with women allergic to accountability. Convo done.
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:55 AM
2

🤣🤣🤣🤣 This ain’t charity girl. I’m down for all races. May the best girl win.
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:51 AM
5

I’m fond of Jack.. and Black girls. I just don’t sugarcoat. BW are screaming they’re underrepresented and protect black women.. then a popping white rapper starts shouting them out… and they flock to his feet. Would they flock if he wasn’t overtly down for them??? Do the maths. Or do the accountability. Your choice.
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:49 AM
1

I meannn he isn’t lying. He worded it wrong. But many black girls are excited that they’re finally being represented as desirable in the industry by him
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:41 AM
4

This is what I’m saying… if you can’t see that he’s smooth AF, then you’re deffo not smooth. Real recognise Real.
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:39 AM
11

Same as Pete.. deep self confidence, free spirit and big dick energy.
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:38 AM
1

He was ugly. No debate about it. Borderline deformed face.
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:34 PM
5

Don’t invite her for a drink… build rapport and learn personal things about her. Playfully Suggest you do one of those things, get her number. Go from there.
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:50 PM
5

He was the guy that made me believe game was real. Ugly AF… but managed to build deep connections from the most standoffish women. Impressive.
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:48 PM
1

Tom Torerro?
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:30 PM
1

Because, news flash… women do not SEE men below their perceived value. When I ask girls about regular good guys we know, they can’t even string a sentence about them.. because they never actually registered in their brains. They don’t hate regular guys… they just don’t even know they exist🤣 That’s why, even as a goodlooking guy… I’m 85% black pilled.
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:20 PM
6

This is the closest to an accurate answer. If your man is seeing red.. and on the verge of violence, as his woman, your touch is meant to be the only thing that can soften his heart. Not screeching, not tapping him, just holding his hand is enough to remind him that he has a woman he needs to protect. If you leave him, as many have suggested.. he is more likely to forget he’s with you and think he’s only putting his life at risk.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/22 10:02 PM
2

Negging and teasing is the same thing to me… there’s just good negging and bad negging. Good negging makes her respond with a pretend offended face and often respond “You’re so cheeky/rude”.. likely followed by a light punch. Bad negging often results in her going silent and genuinely offended.
/r/seduction29/05/22 01:04 PM
2

Lol maybe, I think I’ll live though, thank god!
/r/seduction29/05/22 12:21 PM
1

Yeah agreed
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:05 AM
22

Long story short, don’t be afraid to polarise/ upset them with your differing stance. It shocks me that this post is even remotely confusing to people.
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:39 AM
1

In general I agree
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:22 AM
2

Fair comment tbh
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:21 AM
1

You’re so smart👏
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:11 AM
1

An example could be when she tries to make a joke about you… “I’m hoping one of these days you become funny”
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:06 AM
1

You have to do little digs and see if she finds them funny or is slightly offended.
/r/seduction29/05/22 06:14 AM
2

See what they in general want… so the baddie type wants an equally image conscious man and wants a man that reflects the views that they baddie trope/ media portrays. Eg baddie- gets the bag, sassy, attitude, queen. So being rich, handling her sass, and the ability to be kinglike (a type personality) is what she wants. So she can brag to her friends that she has the type of man that their music idolises. An artsy girl will be less money focused and care about your free spirit and creativity and …
/r/seduction29/05/22 06:05 AM
2

Too soon for that.. the name one can run, but why risk it.. when she’s more comfortable around you and knows you don’t mean harm you can say that and much more.
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:55 AM
1

Mmm. Agreed.
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:27 AM
-2

Yes Wise Guru.
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:26 AM
3

Smart guy for asking instead of assuming. Neg 1: You look like you party party every weekend… when she clearly looks like a bookworm Neg 2: Your boobs look lopsided, Colombia does cheap surgery.. just saying.
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:26 AM
1

Well interestingly I’ve done it 2 times and girls giggled and punched my arm playfully.. why? Because it clearly wasn’t true.
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:20 AM
-3

She must like sleazy then. Thanks for your take wise sage.
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:17 AM
1

Tbh Im starting to think you can get away with all of them provided it’s not a soft spot for that person
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:09 AM
1

Disagree… the overt cheekiness of Negging was what made her laugh and get comfortable. She then said she’s cool with the jokes but that specific one was too soon. There’s playful negging and that you expect back.. and there’s vindictive negging to break her spirit
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:07 AM
2

Believe me.. I know how important looks are. I realised when a few girls said that I was hot but my game was shit, but still fucked (I couldn’t escalate smoothly). The advice I’d give you is to get your body on point… it does well to sexualise you. I used to hide my muscles cos I didn’t wanna be a try hard.. but it got really hot this summer so I wore less.. and the eagerness of women was off the charts. It went from a polite smile to looking me up and down. But Yh. I’m here to validate your fru…
/r/seduction28/05/22 06:28 PM
0

It’s called…. Masculine Frame.
/r/seduction27/05/22 06:54 PM
6

He needs basic social skills… not game.
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:32 PM
9

I agree to an extent. There is a science to good looks though. Things like jaw, cheekbones, hair texture, eye shape, eye lashes, eye brows, waist to hip ratio…. There are features that indicate healthy woman and healthy male. Attraction is subjective… but beauty is not. An art piece can be objectively beautiful, but you don’t want it in your house…
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:23 PM
5

Personally I love women but… I can imagine it’s the same way women talk about hating men but vie for their attention. Biological need that supersedes logic.
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:44 PM
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If you believe his character is flawed ie Gaslighting Narcissist…. Then leave him. If cheating is a dealbreaker for you… despite the endless value he brings to your life… Then leave him (although, cheating with an ex is much easier to fall for than some random chick because she knows all his weak spots and there’s history… that being said, there’s much less ex’s out there than random chicks making the likelihood of this happening again, much lower, but 100% possible) Other than that… if you were…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/22 11:14 PM
4

I agree. The original statement is what women say “Once I love a man he’s the most handsome man ever”. Men do not think like that.. we are objective. If we love a woman we may prioritise her… but we will always be aware of the fact that other women are more attractive. I think OP is holding herself rightfully accountable, she’s batting out of her league. I myself have had girls I adored and appreciated for being such genuine women. But I knew from the day I saw them I wouldn’t make it official, …
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/22 12:23 PM
5

Precisely. People who have validation without real life evidence are what we call deluded. They are often coping eg blame rejections on the girl being lesbian.. not the fact that their breath stank.
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:49 AM
8

Step back, assess the dating market.. are you high quality? If you’ve been out of it for 20 years I doubt it. Work on yourself and return to the market to drill all the techniques youve learnt. Unless you have high rejection tolerance.. then you can play the numbers game.
/r/seduction28/04/22 08:44 AM
1

What’s the best way to regroup? Rudeness can sour the mood heavily.
/r/seduction19/04/22 12:31 AM
5

It’s very simple… Show Vulnerability- but with a solution and never Weakness. Eg I’m bogged down from work but I’m gonna get it sorted I’m upset about how my boss spoke to me, but I’m gonna straighten it out with him tomorrow. I’m broke, but I’m working tirelessly to get a job.
/r/seduction13/04/22 04:26 PM
1

From what I gather she has low attraction to you but enough to go on a date. She likely spoke to a new guy or some old guy popped up, or whatever… while she was away… frankly who gives a fuck. This is why men need to only deal with women who are eager from the get go and show strong signs of lust, otherwise you’ll be fighting an uphill battle forever. The slightest change in circumstances and she’ll start playing games. Many brothers fall for that ‘It’s too soon’ fiasco. I truly feel for them be…
/r/seduction26/03/22 01:46 AM
1

Men are cheaters, Men are rapists, Men are toxic… sound familiar?
/r/seduction21/03/22 03:10 AM
13

Yeah bartender… easy work. If guys were smart they’d legit stop going out to night game and get a club job.
/r/seduction21/03/22 03:07 AM
18

Finally someone who gets it. I have a very short and handsome friend who works in a bar as of recent… he tells stories of how he fucks daily because of it. Yesterday I visited and saw in live in the flesh. It’s all about positioning. Be enough and be in the right place.
/r/seduction20/03/22 11:36 PM
1

How long from start till now have you been interacting with him (this matters)?
/r/seduction16/03/22 09:24 PM
20

I think he means Madonna-Whore complex.. but wants to make it visceral for the ‘outrage porn’ addicts
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/22 03:33 PM
1

Why would your story scare her off?
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:03 PM
3

Keep asking about them and making comments/assumptions/opinions on the things they tell you.
/r/seduction08/03/22 10:34 PM
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