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| 1 | The Other Red PillsI don’t agree with your premise, but Christianity is far more of a Greco-Roman religion than anything else. While Christianity likely originated from Jewish origins, by the 2nd or 3rd century CE it had been entirely coopted by Roman authorities, and was digested primarily by Greek philosophy. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/18 03:38 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread September 20Beijing, Shanghai and a few other cities. I'm white, short, in decent shape, and I was getting 20+ matches a day. That is not an exaggeration. I typically had 3 or 4 offer to straight up meet up with me a day. You need to look halfway decent and have decent text game though. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/17 05:31 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread September 20Have you tried Tinder? I'm not sure if it is around in India, but it worked fantastically for me in China. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/17 08:17 AM |
| 5 | askTRP Megathread September 20Start lifting weights. Start going and doing other activities that are exciting. There's a decent chance your marriage may implode if you start spinning plates in your current situation. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/17 07:57 AM |
| 3 | AskWomen on n-count and poor marriage: mods deleting comments that show correlationwidespread disapproval is perceived as equal to physical force. Exactly. It is a very, very powerful tool in any TRPer's arsenal. Want her to do something? Make sure she doesn't think social disapproval will follow from it. Don't want her to do something? Make sure she does think that social disapproval will follow from it. It's why slut shaming is extremely effective. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/16 07:05 AM |
| 1 | AskWomen on n-count and poor marriage: mods deleting comments that show correlationIf you're not a natural or learn early from a source like TRP, then yes that's pretty high, but if you know what you're doing I don't think it's particularly outlandish. If you slept with a new girl every month, you'd have slept with 18 new girls in a year and a half. Presuming he was a college student, attractive and looking to hook-up, I wouldn't be surprised if he had multiple new girls in a week. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/16 06:52 AM |
| 2 | "neomasculine" ? ProtestThere was, as far as I know, no actual meet up anywhere in the world (I haven't exhaustively checked so I might be wrong). And if anyone did meet up at one of the locations that was shared on social media, they are an idiot. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/16 01:59 AM |
| 5 | Equality Is a Bitch, Ain't It? - Army and Marine Corps Say It's Time Women Were Eligible for the DraftGod I wish we could restrict the vote. I like Heinlein's idea of a couple years of service - military or otherwise. You want to decide on the direction the state should go? You put your stakes in the game. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/16 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Equality Is a Bitch, Ain't It? - Army and Marine Corps Say It's Time Women Were Eligible for the DraftWhy didn't you run to another country? Your kid? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/16 02:01 AM |
| 7 | Yahoo sued over male discriminationYHOO is huge in the finance market. And if I recall, it's also what Bing is based on. Bing has something like 1/5 of Internet search traffic. YHOO is still very relevant in some circles, just not compared to the competitor that overtook them, because Google is, well, Google. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/16 03:00 PM |
| 2 | FR: Pretend to be a girl men buy you stuffNot a terrible idea. I suspect you could use this to game women as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/16 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Theory: What women want: Live in a K selected society while she personally defects and pursues r selectionThe vast majority of the radiation output by the sun that hits the Earth, hits the ground. That doesn't mean that heat doesn't rise from the ground, or that some tiny amount isn't taken in by parts of the atmosphere (tiny, in this context, can still mean a LOT considering how much power is output by the sun). There's no way to somehow "use up" this energy. Energy doesn't get "used up" (conservation of energy, anyone?) - that's not how physics works. Would building a huge, Sahara-sized bank of so… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/16 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Girl informed about her HPV after sexIf you have sex, you have HPV. The study was done in women, if I recall, but if a woman had 4 partners over the course of college (which is far below the average woman, I think we can agree), she had something like an 85-90% chance of having HPV at the end of her college education. This generation (probably stemming from the HIV crisis of the 80s and early 90s), has an almost irrational fear of STDs versus the actual risk accompanying them. If you have sex with more than 5-10 women, you are goin… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Guy is worried about going on a date with a ''trans woman''(MTF, no operation) and reddit encourages him to do so. Would you do it too?From my understanding, if you take a reasonable dose and take the drugs that prevent side effects, it's supposed to take most of the risk away. But at the end of the day, it's a tool, with risk. And it's up to each guy whether or not that risk is worth it. I haven't ever done them, but when my arm is healed, I'm open to it. Arnold Schwarzenegger used it to great effectiveness. Other men certainly have too. Poo pooing it out of some misguided notion that you're more of a man for not using it is a… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 04:57 AM |
| 7 | Guy is worried about going on a date with a ''trans woman''(MTF, no operation) and reddit encourages him to do so. Would you do it too?Denying yourself a potentially useful tool out of some sense of being "mr. real true alpha braaaaaah" is a far worse action. If a guy's goals are improved by injecting testosterone, then he should inject testosterone. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Theory: What women want: Live in a K selected society while she personally defects and pursues r selectionI don't see why the amount of radiation the Sahara reflects matters. Certainly it reflects some. What I do think is that it receives a lot of sunlight, which is fertile ground for solar panels - which would be black, in order to reflect less light out into the atmosphere, and instead capture more of it for human use. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/16 04:20 AM |
| 2 | "How often do you masturbate?"Mastering the, "Are you really that dumb?" look is a fantastic way to diffuse the aftermath of shit tests. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/16 02:18 AM |
| 2 | "How often do you masturbate?"He shouldn't really be following a script. The point is to internalize the attitude and get better. If you say this in an IDGAF way, it'll be fine. Besides, you're saying you masturbate, and then go on two dates. If you're going on two dates in a day, it's automatically implying you're abundant. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/16 02:15 AM |
| 1 | What does the perfect Red Piller look like?What do you want to do with your life? | /r/askTRP | 18/01/16 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Theory: What women want: Live in a K selected society while she personally defects and pursues r selectionAlmost all of the energy that falls on the earth from the sun is already spoken for powering the natural ecology No it isn't. Every single square inch of ground that we don't have covered in solar panels is energy we're not using, and can expand into. The Sahara? Basically a gigantic solar power plant if we want to use it that way. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/16 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Jan 16/17 - ONLY POST RED PILL THEORY - anything else it will be removed!Building your status is arguably the number one way to build your SMV. I certainly feel it's TRP adjacent, and would interest a lot of members who get the basic sexual strategy part down pretty strongly. There's not many places in the real world that will teach you how to become a more effective sociopath. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/16 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Can I still be viewed as alpha even if I don't lift?You can also buy an expandable kettlebell that accepts standard-sized plates. All told you'd probably be paying $50-60 for it. That being said, OP should probably learn about how to lift correctly with it, otherwise he'll fuck up his back. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/16 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Why is masculinity demonized by feminists?Translation: Alphas are cold and uncaring (read: won't commit to me). I want them to be more open to committing to me, and masculinity is keeping me from having that. This isn't talking about the unattractive non-masculine boys. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/16 08:54 PM |
| 26 | Gf calls up other guys when we fightYou are boring to her, because you don't party. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/16 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Woman flirts with and agrees to shower with man, sex happens, she accuses him of rape and documents the whole thing on Instagram whilst naked in the shower, gets publicity from the media and has the man arrested.I'm talking about how rape laws work. The point is consent. If she says "No", very explicitly, that's rape, regardless of whether she wanted it. If she says "Yes" (or allows it to happen in most states, without protesting, or trying to stop it), that's not rape, regardless of if she didn't want it. You can want something to happen, but not consent to it. If you're a 50 year old married man and your 20 year old intern comes on to you, you might have the self control to not consent, but you certai… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 01:29 PM |
| 2 | UVA Jackie lied about gang rape, terminal illness, and invented a dude, all to manipulate one guy into fucking herOh I know. I was asking rhetorically. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Woman flirts with and agrees to shower with man, sex happens, she accuses him of rape and documents the whole thing on Instagram whilst naked in the shower, gets publicity from the media and has the man arrested.This is extreme batshittery. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Woman flirts with and agrees to shower with man, sex happens, she accuses him of rape and documents the whole thing on Instagram whilst naked in the shower, gets publicity from the media and has the man arrested.Rape requires only consent. It doesn't matter if a girl says yes, and doesn't really want it (she has given consent, and nobody can know otherwise). Same here. If she did in fact say no, and he kept doing it, then she was raped, regardless if she actually wanted it to happen for publicity. That being said - the account says she performed oral sex. Part of me finds it pretty difficult to reconcile trying to struggle with performing oral sex. Possible, maybe, but that just seems unlikely to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 10:44 PM |
| 16 | UVA Jackie lied about gang rape, terminal illness, and invented a dude, all to manipulate one guy into fucking herThat was my first thought. "Why would a guy care that there's another guy interested in this girl? That isn't going to increase his interest or investment". | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Good bye Vasectomy.Hello Sperm switch: Turn a switch inside your scrotum to turn your sperm on or offNo meaning of that sentence is a good meaning. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 07:36 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill and interacting with other subredditsWhy waste the time and effort? You don't win by banning them. If they come here to post, maybe they'll learn something. If they're trolling and annoying, then they'll be banned. No need to waste the effort prematurely. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 07:19 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with 'close to wall' women looking to settle down?I mean, they're just leveraging what they know. They're not the same as men, and you can't hold them to the same standards you would men. You just have to acknowledge the reality that she's going to try to beta trap some guy, and make sure it isn't you. Besides, if you knew you were going to lose most of your fertility and your attractiveness to the opposite sex in the next 5-10 years, AND you wanted a baby, wouldn't you try to leverage the most palatable long term options too? | /r/askTRP | 08/01/16 12:27 AM |
| 5 | How do you deal with 'close to wall' women looking to settle down?I avoid them. I'll be pleasant and friendly, and they'll be like "oh we should hang out!" And I'll be like "Definitely!", and then I won't ever make plans. They quickly pick up on what I'm actually saying. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Another height questionI'm TRP endorsed (you're demanding an answer from one of us, though it doesn't matter because we're not special, and furthermore, we aren't required to answer your questions in the first place) I'm also short (about as short or shorter than you) so hopefully my words will actually make you listen. Height matters insofar as it is better to be tall than to be shorter (within reason, anything past 6'4" might be a small negative vs 6'2"). That being said, height alone isn't going to preclude you fro… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/16 09:47 PM |
| 5 | Instruction For A Polite Feministwho got the shaft I think the opposite was the problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Instruction For A Polite FeministI think the probability that it is some sort of cabal or conspiracy is pretty low. It's more likely just forces in the aggregate working in their individual benefit, that led to this. Women in the workforce/CC lowers wages for employers, makes the women themselves feel awesome in the short term, older women in similar straits encourage them, etc. Men wanted actual equals - the idea that every woman is actually a unicorn but oppressive society has held her down is an attractive belief for men to … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Guys straight the fuk up in in love and an ltr with a phenomenal girl... But god damn it I want to be a player and spin plates and fuk man God I'm a loserYou should be able to answer that question yourself. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Richard Fletcher: "Why the Pickup Community Has Messed You Up (and what to do about it)"Eh, there's certainly an efficacy component to it too. It isn't just about talking to more girls (though for many men, especially early on, that's what it is, and hell even for experienced men, lead generation is always going to be a component), but the probability of actually making the sale increases tremendously as well. It's a real time saver, when you're in the long tail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/16 10:08 PM |
| 2 | How would you rate your own attractiveness? How attractive are the people you've slept with? How about the ones you've dated?Pure attractiveness? I'm not overweight (relatively fit), but I am short. In American society I'd say probably a 6.5. Before PUA, I'd say I slept with between 1 to 6s. Post PUA, 5s to 8s, with the occasional 3 or 4, mostly early on. This is assuming an "objective" hotness scale. If we're going statistically (i.e. based on how rare these women are - girls that are in their late teens and 20s, and who are not overweight are relatively rare as compared to the population of all women), 6 to 10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/16 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to shame women for being promiscuous but okay to shame men for being virgins?I don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/16 02:29 AM |
| 2 | What would an instant extreme boost in SMV do to a man or a woman?No, you need to fix your attitude first and foremost. I'm like 5'7", 5'8" tops. I'm fit, but not overly muscular (working on changing that though...). I have absolutely zero problems, so there's another reason you're having problems, and my guess is attitude. If you don't see yourself as the prize, the girl won't either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 07:23 PM |
| 1 | What would an instant extreme boost in SMV do to a man or a woman?Well, they eat too much and don't move enough. It seems to be cultural, even across generations. My grandparents are fat, my mother is relatively fat (had pre-diabetes even), etc. I'm not, but that's a conscious choice of living a healthy lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 07:21 PM |
| 2 | What would an instant extreme boost in SMV do to a man or a woman?Yeah, weight in the states is frequently related to social class and the location a person lives at. A place like DC is going to tend to be wealthier and thinner. A place like most midwestern states or the south is going to be a bit poorer on average and also fatter. But on average, being in the top 20% of US society isn't a particularly difficult goal for most men who want to reach it, to reach. Don't be fat. Make over median income. If you're not horrifically deformed, you're probably there. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 05:39 PM |
| 7 | How does TRP account for the fact that making friends, forming a social circle, meeting single women, and getting a social life becomes a lot more difficult as you get older?Worked for me. Am 30. Have slept with multiple cute college-aged girls this year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 05:18 PM |
| 2 | What would an instant extreme boost in SMV do to a man or a woman?If you think you need to be tall, you don't. You can have plenty of sex with pretty girls even if you're short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 05:14 PM |
| 2 | What would an instant extreme boost in SMV do to a man or a woman?2/3 of our people are fat. It makes it easy to be in the top when you don't let yourself become fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to shame women for being promiscuous but okay to shame men for being virgins?but how does that imply that women would then be "free" to find less masculine men attractive? Because the idea given in those circles is that gender is entirely socially constructed and artificial. Ergo, female attraction to masculinity is artificial and enforced by society/the patriarchy, etc. Are women "restricted" currently from finding a less masculine man attractive? Essentially yes, according to current feminist theory. Or, a more correct interpretation would be that they are told they ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Sis compares men/women to white/black and thinks our activism is silly because it just nullifies theirsIf you don't mind, maybe you can articulate to me why her logic / simile is flawed. The main thing is that women are not an oppressed class. They are graduating college in much higher numbers (and with higher grades), account for most of the consumer spending, get the majority of the custody of the children, and make more money before they have kids and leave the workforce. She is arguing from the standpoint that women are oppressed in society - that they're treated like inferiors. That is simpl… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/16 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to shame women for being promiscuous but okay to shame men for being virgins?The implication is that the whole male burden of performance and lack of emotion is hurting men, and without a patriarchy, they wouldn't need to do it - not for societal respect, not for attraction to women, etc. C.f., toxic masculinity and search for information on "how the patriarchy hurts men too", and you should see a fairly wide body of information. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to shame women for being promiscuous but okay to shame men for being virgins?It would seem a bit odd, but I wouldn't care less. Ok, you're non-standard here. but if you look at the bullying that takes place on the Internet, I'd say this is a rather optimistic view. I'm not defending all bullying. Virgin shaming however, is pretty productive from a pure, "don't be that guy, guys" perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to shame women for being promiscuous but okay to shame men for being virgins?We need to set societal norms because it helps people to get along in broader society. You wouldn't want a male boss (or probably a female boss) to come up to you and start talking about how much dick they got last night, right? What about your parents? You'd probably (or most people, if not you) would act uncomfortable or even openly disapproving of such behavior. Setting norms allows people to essentially have certain guidelines of behavior and performance. You get to know what's socially acce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to shame women for being promiscuous but okay to shame men for being virgins?Typical language used is something along the lines of, "the patriarchy hurts men too, it doesn't let them cry", etc - with the heavy implication that without this nebulous patriarchy, women would be free to find less masculine men attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to shame women for being promiscuous but okay to shame men for being virgins?It's a group cohesion/setting norms behavior. It also might encourage the "wayward member", so to speak, to improve themselves/change their ways. Social sanction is an extremely effective tool to change behavior. We just don't like it in the 21st century because we have this attitude of "everyone a winner", and "you should be nice to everyone" - neither of which is an accurate depiction of reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 01:19 AM |
| 11 | Sis compares men/women to white/black and thinks our activism is silly because it just nullifies theirsThe short answer is that you don't. There's one of the main differences between TRP and MRAs. We both acknowledge that there are some shitty things going on for men, but TRP makes the additional insight that people in general don't care about the problems of men. That means that activism is unlikely to work. Your argument with your sister is a futile waste of time. You can do it if you want, but it won't lead to her changing her mind. Look at the Laws of Power - think as you want, but speak as o… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/16 01:00 AM |
| 4 | I took Molly (MDMA) yesterday for the first time and it was amazing! I genuinely did not give a fuck about anything for once in my life besides enjoying myself. You think there's any way to live like this sober?You won't have quite the same feeling you do on molly, but being successful in life and truly abundant and you won't really care as much about failures, because you'll know you can achieve success elsewhere. But molly is an artificial feeling. It's great, but it's not something you should do often, and you won't be able to replicate it via natural means. It's literally messing with your biochemistry to give you that sort of high. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/16 12:12 AM |
| 1 | How has TRP changed for you when you hit your 30's?You're supposed to reapply every few hours for maximum benefit. Also you really only need to use about SPF 30. Higher SPFs don't really offer much more protection. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 01:15 PM |
| 10 | Carrie Fisher complaining loudly and fatly about being judged and hitting the wall- "Youth and beauty are not accomplishments"If the pool of women I'm attracted to is small, I better be on my shit so that I get them. Don't ask for a lighter burden, ask for broader shoulders to carry it. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 11:37 PM |
| 1 | How has TRP changed for you when you hit your 30's?Usually every visible part. Sunscreen will probably make you have a few more zits than you otherwise would, but honestly that seems a minor trade off to potentially increase your shelf life. Even if you wait a few years, starting in your early 20s will do wonders. But the more often you do something and the earlier you start, the stronger a habit will be, so there's that. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 05:16 PM |
| 2 | How has TRP changed for you when you hit your 30's?It prevents sun damage from ultraviolet radiation. UV rays damage the DNA in your skin, aging it, decreasing elasticity, softness, increasing the amount of wrinkles you have, etc. Using sunscreen regularly will literally make you look years younger than you are. I've used it semi-religiously (I'm not perfect, and sometimes go months without using it, but then I'll have months where I wear it every day), and as far as I can tell, I look younger than my average peer. I get mistaken for 18-25 all t… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 05:30 AM |
| 2 | How has TRP changed for you when you hit your 30's?Just turned 30 this year. Haven't noticed much of a difference, but I look young. Girls still work the same, you can fuck girls 18+ with no problems as long as you take care of yourself. I was hanging out with a super cute 18 year old not even two weeks ago and she was asking me what I was up to for NYE. Zero problems dating girls in their early 20s. The big thing is - the earlier you start taking care of yourself and getting in shape, the longer you'll be able to do it. I started using sunscree… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 01:41 AM |
| 4 | 5 months since breakup still sleeping aroundCame here to say this. A woman won't fill the void in his life. It's a temporary balm to a problem of not having a direction in life. Get direction in your life, decide where you are going, and you'll notice that suddenly you aren't searching for a woman to complete you - rather you're looking for a woman that complements your life. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Are most girls not aware of how much they can slay on tinder?You've never crunched the numbers. It's incredibly easy, if you work on yourself, to become one of the top 10% of men. Lift for two years (consistently, while eating enough), pick a decent career (anything engineering or trades related would be good), maybe (if it works for you/your finances) get a degree, and you're in the top 10%. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 03:30 AM |
| 0 | Unprotected sex - noticing a trend alreadyThis is entirely consistent with my experience as well. I've very rarely had girls demand I use a condom. Oh you'll occasionally get a girl upset after you fuck them without a condom - even if they asked you to put it in, when they knew you didn't put one on. When a girl is sexually aroused by you, she's absolutely in your frame. So she'll almost never ask for it. That being said, it's generally a smarter idea to wear a condom vs not (I simply disagree with the reasoning that you MUST wear a con… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 03:22 AM |
| 5 | Post-wall Single Woman and IVF with ChadAs far as I can tell, you get pretty indistinguishable after a while. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/15 04:09 AM |
| 5 | Post-wall Single Woman and IVF with ChadSo if TRP makes us Chad, does that mean TRP makes us God? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 07:06 PM |
| 26 | Surprising discussion of shit testing on Advice AnimalsPUA has been getting more and more popular for a decade, and even socially palatable offshoots are coming around. Girls need providers less than ever - and almost every girl is waiting until at least her late 20s to settle down. This means a lot of guys down on their luck who planned on going the provider path to get a decent, young hot girl just aren't getting one. Loveless bored men with access to the internet and even a modicum of self-interest are going to find something TRP adjacent, if not… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Surprising discussion of shit testing on Advice AnimalsThey initially seemed hot looking to younger me (because they screamed, "this girl is EASY!", and I was desperate), but after having experienced them in real life, they're hard, don't feel good, and just don't really do anything for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 06:03 PM |
| 8 | Thoughts on watching "Chick Flicks" with LTRIn an LTR it's important to throw in beta gestures every now and again. This is a perfectly fine one. Just don't be her sappy cuddle muffin all the time. But if you're busting your ass working and lifting, spending time and watching a chick flick isn't going to kill you. They are dull as all hell most of the time though. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/15 02:17 AM |
| 3 | I bet that your idea of revenge is fantastical. It won't be like you thought it would. Just keep walking...This has been consistent with my view on my exes. That and you feel sorta sorry for them. When you're doing much better than they are, it feels almost petty to gloat or think "haha, revenge!" The girl who broke me (4 years ago, and the catalyst for me researching PUA), hit me back up on Facebook a couple weeks ago. I decided to accept, because hey, why not? I used to think she was incredibly hot, out of my leagues, etc. I lost her to a guy that worked in retail. Now I see her pictures and she is… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Was drunk and kissed girl. You tell to your GF?It'll just cause you drama. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/15 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend of two years says she only loves me as a friendBecause, and this is the harsh truth, she thinks you're less than she is. She thinks she's better than you, and she can do better than you. And according to the way she views men as valuable, she has found one more valuable than you to her. He turns her on more. He's less emotional/weak than you. Or he's richer than you. Or any other reason. Regardless, in her eyes, he is better than you. You can cry, and be upset she did this - I've been there plenty of times. I wish I had resources like this w… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/15 07:15 AM |
| 1 | If TRP tactics really worked, wouldn't there be basically no TRPers instead of thousands?Sure, and there are definitely ways to do that. One of the ways encouraged is to gain muscles. There are plenty of girls that are into a very muscled look. The Rock is a sex symbol for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/15 07:01 AM |
| 1 | If TRP tactics really worked, wouldn't there be basically no TRPers instead of thousands?Two years of power lifting (for probably about 1.5 to 3 hours a week) and you will be in better shape than 90% of the population of the first world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/15 06:57 AM |
| 1 | If TRP tactics really worked, wouldn't there be basically no TRPers instead of thousands?As long as he's not too short (like, 5'4"), he shouldn't have that much problem. I'm very short and I have what I consider above average sexual success. Height is a detriment, but it isn't an insurmountable one that many men make it out to be (I think because they don't want to face that they suck and need to improve). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/15 06:56 AM |
| 2 | If TRP tactics really worked, wouldn't there be basically no TRPers instead of thousands?As far as I can tell, the list of things that would be required to make him happy are: Confirming our identities (probably with pictures, social media, etc), bank account balances and professions, and images of attractive girls we've fucked - probably with an affidavit by the girl in question that we did indeed fuck her, and that she did indeed feel we were hot shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/15 06:49 AM |
| 1 | If TRP tactics really worked, wouldn't there be basically no TRPers instead of thousands?I literally had women tell me that they didn't like men with muscles. Who then proceeded to hook up with men with muscles. The concept of, "listen to what they do, not what they say", was an alien concept to me. Some of us were deep in the feminist well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/15 06:41 AM |
| 4 | AskWomen throws a massive bitch-fit after realizing that men have preferences.Which is where well-placed dread comes in. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Richard P. Feynman, Brilliant Nobel Prize Winning Physicist Demonstrates Red Pill Truth in his book "Surely You're Joking Mr. Feynman!"Oh yes, fake walk aways work great. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 03:17 AM |
| 1 | TRP Philosophy appears strong but TRP "leaders" appear to have no track record in being able to attract women. Why is this?He honestly seems like he's trying to bait people to doxx themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 09:07 PM |
| 1 | TRP Philosophy appears strong but TRP "leaders" appear to have no track record in being able to attract women. Why is this?Ok, then you don't find it likely. We can't help you there. You have a good life and good luck with your sexual endeavors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 05:45 PM |
| 2 | If TRP tactics really worked, wouldn't there be basically no TRPers instead of thousands?Aside from GLO, nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 05:44 PM |
| 2 | If TRP tactics really worked, wouldn't there be basically no TRPers instead of thousands?Neither of those men is TRP. This has been pointed out to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 05:11 PM |
| 2 | TRP Philosophy appears strong but TRP "leaders" appear to have no track record in being able to attract women. Why is this?"Do Y and Z and you'll get better at X" isn't a particularly big claim, but hey, if you don't feel we're compelling, then don't try TRP. We don't care. It's your life. We aren't demanding you hold our position, we're just listing what has worked for us. And even if we did offer personally identifying information, I suspect your goal posts would shift. We could post pictures of women we've slept with (which would be a terrible idea for us, personally), and you'd say something like "get her to con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 05:10 PM |
| 1 | If TRP tactics really worked, wouldn't there be basically no TRPers instead of thousands?TRP was originally formulated for men with a lower SMV to increase it. That's still a large part of its mission. That's great that you had confidence and abundance mentality before TRP. Before PUA and TRP, I didn't, and I'm sure plenty of our men didn't ether. If you've got those things you were already doing something right, so good on you. As for them being hard to achieve, this was not my observed experience. I remember a one year+ period of iteratively getting higher and higher SMV girls. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 03:29 PM |
| 3 | TRP Philosophy appears strong but TRP "leaders" appear to have no track record in being able to attract women. Why is this?Nor will they ever be. Why would they put themselves at risk just for your edification? And you can tell by testing, as I've said a dozen times before. If you're so lazy you don't want to test ideas on your own, then there's not really any point in further discussion, because that's quite literally the next step to skepticism. It's what I had to do. It's what other men have to do. You aren't special and you aren't going to get anything more than any other man - especially not something that puts… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 03:14 PM |
| 3 | Why does TBP shame the women who choose to sleep with TRP men by calling them "insecure, damaged, dumb, etc"?You do not sound like you fully understand that it is a communication mode that all people engage in at sometime or another. A doctor discussing his patients in a clinical way does it - does this somehow mean he is unable to go home and be sweet to his children, or discuss things non-clinically? Does it mean he can't be sweet to a wife or girlfriend, or that he is going to be spergy with everything he says? Of course not. It's not a character we're curating or a persona (which really tells me yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Getting involved in politics this time of the year is a good way to meet available women here in the USA.Personally it feels to me like being a successful black male at a Republican rally would be a fantastic peacock. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 08:03 AM |
| 8 | TRP Philosophy appears strong but TRP "leaders" appear to have no track record in being able to attract women. Why is this?People who call other human beings "plates" are losers in any case A descriptive term, like FWBs, bros, bffs, etc. People seem to think, for some weird reason that it's derogatory. I don't understand that whatsoever. It's supposed to introduce men to the impermanence of the romantic relationship type they're going for and how they'll have to be on their shit to keep it going. Why are you young folks so fucking lost anyway? I personally am not young or lost, but we have a good answer for why youn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Feminist women are cucking themselves for women who are actually attractiveI can't give you any signal that would let you be able to tell. I'm guessing here because he wasn't sure what you were talking about and seemed vaguely offended at this weird thing you called him (though we also give men advice to do exactly that, so take that for what it's worth). Most men don't know what TRP is, however, so most men you meet are not going to be TRPers. For a guy that does and has ingrained it into their personality? I don't think you'd be able to tell, because there's essentia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 07:27 AM |
| 3 | Feminist women are cucking themselves for women who are actually attractiveSounds like he was just being cocky and funny. That's pretty normal behavior for flirting, and has also been covered in a lot of non-TRP resources like PUA. There's no way to confirm if he was TRP or not, and based on how you're describing his behavior, it seems likely he wasn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 07:05 AM |
| 8 | TRP Philosophy appears strong but TRP "leaders" appear to have no track record in being able to attract women. Why is this?What is it with this weird fascination about our "leaders"? Test, or don't test. If it works, great, if it doesn't, oh well, not for you. You're a big boy now - lead yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 07:03 AM |
| 6 | TRP Philosophy appears strong but TRP "leaders" appear to have no track record in being able to attract women. Why is this?Much like I posted on your other thread you posted, about this exact same topic: Since when did TRP have leaders (and since when were those men counted among them? Last I checked most members were mildly disapproving of them). We have our vanguard members, our senior endorsed, and our endorsed (of which I am one) in order of "seniority" of contributing to the community in a positive way, but all that means is that we're somewhat legit. None of us is free from error. I certainly know I've done or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Feminist women are cucking themselves for women who are actually attractiveHe seemed very very natural but I had every reason to think he was trp. You would not be able to tell the difference between a seasoned TRPer and a "natural" so to speak. Mostly because a seasoned TRPer has become a natural. That's quite literally the point. Unconscious competence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 06:49 AM |
| 1 | If TRP tactics really worked, wouldn't there be basically no TRPers instead of thousands?Being abundant, gaining confidence, being assertive, you don't think these things can be tested? You don't think there are men that are actively trying to do sweet and nice things for girls, and all they're succeeding to do is turn the girls off? However, the vast majority of low SMV can't improve significantly You keep saying that word - can't. Low SMV men can of course improve themselves significantly - and honestly I'd say relatively easily at that. Start lifting weights, eat right. Work on y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 06:43 AM |
| 1 | If TRP tactics really worked, wouldn't there be basically no TRPers instead of thousands?Cool story bro but outside of anecdotal bullshit, we have no evidence for any of these assertions. Which is why you test it. Or you don't. It's your life, and you get to make your own choices with it. I chose to test, and I was very pleased with the result. Again, believe me or don't, it's quite frankly irrelevant to me. Neither I, nor any of the other guys that have achieved success are going to post before and after pictures of the attractiveness of their girls, their personal information, etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 06:27 AM |
| 2 | If TRP tactics really worked, wouldn't there be basically no TRPers instead of thousands?What makes you a "leader" I quote myself: Since when did TRP have leaders I am not a leader of TRP and I've never claimed to be. I have no idea if any of the rest of the endorsed etc men on TRP have sexual success or not. Several of them have said things that are strongly consistent with my observed experience, and I have implemented things that I've read there in my own life with great success. So as far as I can tell, they're likely not lying. the ability to INCREASE SMV for the vast majority … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 06:11 AM |
| 2 | If TRP tactics really worked, wouldn't there be basically no TRPers instead of thousands?Well yes, I agree with you on that. It's not a place for debate (unless you have accepted the general principles - within reason - that TRP accepts). That's what PPD is for, theoretically. TRP presupposes you take certain things at face value. It'd be like a theological argument between a Catholic and a Protestant. There are some things that are on the table, but there's a lot that they already mutually agree on. The same thing between TRPers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 06:03 AM |
| 2 | If TRP tactics really worked, wouldn't there be basically no TRPers instead of thousands?Since when did TRP have leaders (and since when were those men counted among them? Last I checked most members were mildly disapproving of them). We have our vanguard members, our senior endorsed, and our endorsed (of which I am one) in order of "seniority" of contributing to the community in a positive way, but all that means is that we're somewhat legit. None of us is free from error. I certainly know I've done or said dumb things before. A Vanguard or EC recently even posted about how he made… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Why does TBP shame the women who choose to sleep with TRP men by calling them "insecure, damaged, dumb, etc"?An exception does not disprove a rule. Especially when the rule is about being the most attractive men for the majority of women. You aren't the majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 05:46 AM |
| 5 | Why does TBP shame the women who choose to sleep with TRP men by calling them "insecure, damaged, dumb, etc"?"Wow, he's not taking any of my shit, how strong and manly" if you tell her you're going for a walk and she needs to calm down if she's confronting you with something (an example used of "Holding Frame" in another discussion). She'll think "Why is he so afraid of confrontation? What a wuss." This has not been my observation at all. If she actually is comforted by your "amused mastery", she is very lacking in intellectual capacity. I've dated girls in difficult, intellectual jobs (surgeon residen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 05:36 AM |
| 14 | Why does TBP shame the women who choose to sleep with TRP men by calling them "insecure, damaged, dumb, etc"?This is one of the main points discussed on TRP - "Straight Talk" vs "Power Talk". We talk super clinical on there because: A) it's a relatively normal way for guys to discuss things from an engineering perspective (i.e., how do I do X, Y, Z - same thing you'd want from a tutorial online) B) We're trying to write for guys who don't understand the art of nuance. The art of how to be nuanced and understand nuanced/indirect communication better was one of the things I specifically remember getting … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 05:29 AM |
| 5 | If TRP tactics really worked, wouldn't there be basically no TRPers instead of thousands?The Redpill has been around for about 2-3ish years. I'd say it takes several years to completely change yourself into a more masculine version of yourself (at least, that was my experience), and that's if you're really dedicated to the process. Add that to the fact that it is essentially a male "safe space", and many of our more senior members like to give back and I think that accounts for all the members. It's one of the few places you can discuss gender politics as a man and be absolutely hon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 05:17 AM |
| 5 | Richard P. Feynman, Brilliant Nobel Prize Winning Physicist Demonstrates Red Pill Truth in his book "Surely You're Joking Mr. Feynman!"I agree that I would not typically go with this strategy, but when I was first experimenting with PUA, I tested wildly different things, and you would be shocked at what worked. (Again, not recommending any of this, but these were things I did that at minimum generated interest): Went up to the hottest girl in the club, asked her name all beta and weak, she responds in the most oh-my-god-why-do-I-deal-with-the-losers look, and then I say, "Fuck you, that's my name." (line from Glengarry Glen Ros… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 04:26 AM |
| 3 | Question for men: Have you ever had firsthand experience with hypergamy?Yes, as I've gotten better jobs/gotten better socially/gotten in better shape/became an amateur comedian who did a few shows, I've had more attention from girls - even ones who previously rejected me. This has been so consistent that in the rare situation a girl rejects me/dumps me, I just think to myself, "Ok, if I improve myself a bit, she'll hit me back up". And that is exactly what happens (and typically I'm not as interested in them by that time, though occasionally I still am). Particularl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/15 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Do I lie about my virginity? (m23)If you are 23 and she is attracted (and you don't act overly awkward), it will almost certainly not come up. She expects you to have lost it a long time ago. If she does ask/suspect, blow it off, giving her an amused what-a-crazy-idea look. "LaosMaosChaos... you're acting a little weird, are you a virgin?" "Ha, what? No." and then proceed to continue making out with her or whatever. It's extremely unlikely to come up though. And you absolutely shouldn't be bringing it up. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/15 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Politics: A difference I've noticed between men that go Democrat vs Republican this election cycle, could potentially have to do with more than just politics.Yep, I once had a plate that was the president of a pro-choice student org. I knew I was never going to have to pay child support with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/15 04:29 PM |
| 1 | PSA: you can now be found guilty of sexual assault for being GIVEN a blowjob while YOU are blacked out outA good idea is usually to be sweet or cuddle with her a bit after (to make her feel good about the encounter and not slutty), and then on your way home, text her something that will get her to respond positively. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/15 04:15 PM |
| 1 | The reason why it's a bad idea to marry a woman who's approaching the wall (or past it) is because they want to latch onto you out of fear, not because they're attracted to you.I don't know that it can be quantified. And you can definitely find some young looking 29 year olds. Asian and black girls typically look 5+ years younger than their actual white girl age in my experience. But saying that 29 isn't the wall for a woman who is into fitness seems like wishful thinking to me. I'm guessing my preferences are fairly similar to the average man, and I'm just simply less attracted to a 29 year old. Why would I (30, white collar job with room to grow in salary and above m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/15 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Don't be fooled by the marketing, getting more women into STEM is about wage pressures, not feminismI worked for a company that more or less did this. While there were some women in the technical work and some men in the "soft skill" work, it was by and large mostly men in technology, women on the "dealing with customers" side of things. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Don't be fooled by the marketing, getting more women into STEM is about wage pressures, not feminismAs far as I can tell, in tech, the demand is only going up for right now. As we begin to automate everything, I can't see that ending for a while. Add that to the fact that a lot of people are scared off by the field or find it boring and while you're going to see more people going into it, I don't think it's going to be enough to depress wages back much more towards the mean. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Question for women: growing up, did you think men had it easier when it came to dating?This is tedious. If your feelings are hurt because a TRPer is accurately describing reality, that is not our problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/15 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Taking Social Psychology Class and Professor Mentions The Red PillI (mistakenly) did a degree in psychology when I was much younger. And there is plenty of good science in the field - rigorous, data supported stuff with great testing and good methodology. We even discussed domestic abuse and how men weren't more likely to be domestic abusers in my social psych class (the male professor was relatively RP). He was big into using biology to predict social behavior. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Question for women: growing up, did you think men had it easier when it came to dating?She and they (women) are not being disparaged is the thing though. It'd be like me saying, "men in war tend to kill". That's not disparaging men, that's simple fucking reality. That's just how it works. Descriptive rather than prescriptive. Saying, "Women notice the top echelon of guys and not loser guys" isn't saying, "Women are pieces of shit". It literally just means, "Women notice the top echelon of guys and not loser guys". It has the added implication for any guy reading it, not that women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/15 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women should "limit" themselves?... I don't see how that's precisely relevant to the conversation, but sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/15 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Men peak in their 30's because they build themselves up VS beta bucksOf course, as I said, you should start in your 20s (or even teens) if at all possible. But you're going to need several years to really hit your peak on this. You'll see the majority of your gains in the first two years sure, but then the long tail of slow incremental gains comes in. If you are talking about really bulky body builders, maybe 30s is better That is inconsistent with my observed experience. As long as they don't look inhumanly grotesque, it has been my experience that men who lift … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/15 10:28 PM |
| 1 | TBP: How come you guys say that TRP methodology is advice you can get from anywhere, but yet say that it is ineffective on most women?Dread game, properly applied isn't playing at anything. It's applying your attention elsewhere, into activities you see as leading to a greater gain than how your relationship has been going. It doesn't mean you want the relationship to end, it just means that you're not seeing a good enough ROI from your investment into the relationship. If the ROI of the relationship were to change however... It's a cold, analytical way to think about it, but that's what TRP is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/15 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Men peak in their 30's because they build themselves up VS beta bucksProbably the fact that lifting weight and getting bulk takes time. If you're lifting throughout your 20s, you'll be ripped in your 30s. If you wait to 38 to pick up the weights, no, not so much (though even then, it's still possible to get in pretty good shape if you're on your shit). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/15 10:01 PM |
| 1 | What does "feeling entitled" mean to you? Can anyone name a single person who actually believes that sex or relationships are "entitlements"?I hate dating rich girls for precisely this reason. They act very entitled and like they should earn your commitment merely for the fact of existing. You can even tell them what you want out of a relationship if they want your commitment - but no, that's too hard, and they deserve your commitment. And then you dump them, and they keep contacting you because they think they're entitled to your time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/15 09:59 PM |
| 10 | Question for women: growing up, did you think men had it easier when it came to dating?You're misreading him. He's not looking for sympathy, and he's not upset. He's using this as an argument in favor of TRP and reading TRP for men. He's not attacking you, nor is he butthurt, on some level you two are agreeing - that attractive women don't see the plight, nor care about the plight, of unattractive men. This is yet another trait of women we talk about on TRP - solipsism - relating everything to be about you. It isn't about you. He isn't saying, "Atlas_B_Shruggin is a piece of shit … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/15 09:34 PM |
| 1 | If relationships are supposed to be equal, why are there so many Average Frustrated Chumps?But who would think that just based on a body? I'd say most extremely fit people bring more to the table on average. Why would you be crushing it in one aspect of life and ignore all others? I don't think many people do that. Almost all of the body builders I met were highly educated, or had lots of outside interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/15 06:52 PM |
| 1 | If relationships are supposed to be equal, why are there so many Average Frustrated Chumps?No, it was entirely off the cuff calculation based on tinder self reported number of subscribers and the % of subscribers that were women, combined with the demographics use of tinder (to establish these were women in the target age range for most men reading here - 18-30) It's somewhere buried in my posting history a few months ago. If I have time I might try to find it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/15 06:50 PM |
| 28 | I'm Milo Yiannopoulos, AMAMilo, I'm wondering - do you read here regularly, or ever contribute? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 06:28 PM |
| 2 | If relationships are supposed to be equal, why are there so many Average Frustrated Chumps?How would you know that, based on his body alone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/15 08:14 AM |
| 1 | What would it take to change your mind?If you are arguing with TRP in order to convince them not to be TRPers (a reasonable assumption, since you seem quite clearly to be trying to do that), then the only point that is going to convince TRPers not to be TRPers is generally going to be one about efficacy. It works. That is why it has subscribers - for no other reason than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/15 06:20 AM |
| 5 | 30 year old alpha bachelor in the real world vs 20 year old alpha in college, who is going to have an easier time having sex with tons of attractive women and why?I don't go to a college, I just live near one. And I can't speak for how "hot", the girls here are. But they seem plenty cute as far as I can tell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/15 06:18 AM |
| 8 | 30 year old alpha bachelor in the real world vs 20 year old alpha in college, who is going to have an easier time having sex with tons of attractive women and why?I mean, neither is going to have a problem. I'd say the frat bro will clean up in the college, and the 30 year old will clean up outside of it. But you can certainly be the 30 year old and go out with sorority girls - I've literally done it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/15 05:51 AM |
| 4 | What would it take to change your mind?A fit 30-something is still a 30-something. As a man in his 30s who is decently fit and makes decent money, I avoid women in their 30s. Even child free, because I've seen first hand women getting baby rabies and I just don't trust it. Not to mention that I've always seen looks go downhill, even when diet is taken care of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/15 05:48 AM |
| 2 | What would it take to change your mind?When the point TRP is really making is "TRP is effacious at getting what you want out of dating", then you either have to demonstrate that's not true (good luck), or present a superior alternative. The first is demonstrably not true (why else would we have subscribers?), so you are left with only the second. If you provide a superior alternative, I'll test and if correct, switch over immediately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/15 05:39 AM |
| 1 | What would it take to change your mind?It was this, and this alone that led me to TRP. I had found PUA and used it quite effectively. It turned my dating life around - I went from orbiting an abusive crazy girl to regularly dating girls significantly more attractive than her. I was a huge feminist (like enough that I would post pro-feminism stuff on Facebook, donate to planned parenthood, etc), and this introduced cognitive dissonance to me. A couple years after I discovered PUA, I asked a feminist plate of mine for feminist dating a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/15 05:31 AM |
| 4 | If relationships are supposed to be equal, why are there so many Average Frustrated Chumps?And who are you to judge that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/15 05:22 AM |
| 2 | If relationships are supposed to be equal, why are there so many Average Frustrated Chumps?Why would someone with a great physique not be relationship material? That makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/15 05:17 AM |
| 2 | If relationships are supposed to be equal, why are there so many Average Frustrated Chumps?When I calculated it out it was between 30-40% of women (between the ages of 18 and 30 I think?) in the U.S. are on Tinder. I don't remember how long ago in my post history I calculated that out though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/15 01:32 AM |
| 2 | The reason why it's a bad idea to marry a woman who's approaching the wall (or past it) is because they want to latch onto you out of fear, not because they're attracted to you.For me it certainly is. The oldest girl I've ever dated dated was 29, and even that was a stretch. They really do all seem to age several years almost immediately after or right before 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/15 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Can't get rid of HB9. If you do things right, you will struggle to get rid of them.I don't necessarily know that feigning or even being homeless will do it. I decided to sleep in my car for a few weeks because there's one particular time of the year that rent prices are higher than average in the place I live, and I didn't want to pay an exorbitant fee. This didn't push away either girl I'm seeing. You also need to show you're not in control (even if you are) to get her to not be attracted. In fact, one of my plates even said to me, "I preferred when you were homeless, because… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 05:35 PM |
| 10 | Red Pill is the radical notion that women are people, and thats why people hate itWe talk about being slaves to our biological drives all the time. We talk about it in the context of change for men and not for women because we are speaking to men. That's our audience. That is who we're writing for, and to. We can't magically change women, so they're an external force to us. If we were writing for women, like RPW, we'd write in the context of change too. Hell, as an example, I literally made an upvoted comment just today about how you should kill your need for validation. We d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/15 06:16 AM |
| 2 | CMV: When Red Pillers show their true beta side some months into the relationship and get dumped the problem isn't that they are beta, the problem is that they got into the relationship under false premises.I'd really love to jump off the Grand Canyon to see what that would be like. Oh wait, I shouldn't wear a parachute because that'd be damage limitation? Alright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/15 03:49 AM |
| 3 | CMV: When Red Pillers show their true beta side some months into the relationship and get dumped the problem isn't that they are beta, the problem is that they got into the relationship under false premises.This comment should have more upvotes. It's very easy to think of yourself as independent of the processes that other people are affected by - but by doing that, you are essentially blinded by your own cognitive blind spots. It's important to remind yourself that you're an ape that has been through the same process of four billion years of evolution as every other ape on this planet, and the things you see other people do, you do them too. If you forget that, you're allowing yourself to be drive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/15 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Red Pill is the radical notion that women are people, and thats why people hate itWhat does inferior even mean in this context? It's just meaningless words. Are women going to be more inclined to follow than lead? Sure. Does that mean they're lesser human beings? Emphatically no, where would you get a ridiculous idea like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/15 03:36 AM |
| 5 | Red Pill is the radical notion that women are people, and thats why people hate itThere seems to be more individual variation between men (so you'll have more male winners, but more male losers, where women will gravitate towards the mean - and this seems consistent with the data I've seen), but you can still draw many general principles about how men operate. AMALT is certainly true to some degree. I'd say to a lesser degree than AWALT, but still true. The big thing is - TRP is a strategy subreddit, first and foremost. We simply don't care about bedding men. If we did, we'd … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/15 03:31 AM |
| 6 | Textbook example of blue-pill Facebook post, gets praised by hundreds of women.When I was delving into the cesspool that is PPD, there was a guy who mentioned that he spent $100 on a first date, $50 on a second date, and $20 on a third date with a girl. He then commented something like, "I wonder if it's possible to have sex cheaper than that". I mentioned to him that the last new girl I fucked (20 year old college student, amazing ass), I spent $7 on ice cream for. Men just don't understand that the price of sex is extremely low these days. You don't need to court a woman… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 02:36 AM |
| 26 | Dear Omega, stop trying to become Beta. Alpha is your only chance.You should ultimately kill your need for someone to love you. Not that you can't want it, but you should never need it. You want to be a whole, complete package in and of yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 12:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Partner counts should be measured in time frequency, not over a lifetimeTrickle truth is a term where people will volunteer something about themselves that has a kernel of truth but isn't as bad as the actual truth. And assuming 2x or 3x on a guy's part is just prudent. Remember, TRP is largely about risk mitigation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/15 05:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Partner counts should be measured in time frequency, not over a lifetimeI typically don't ask for exactly that reason. FWIW - It's a heuristic we've come up with to show men to not immediately take things they are told at face value. And that asking for partner count doesn't necessarily get the number you want - how does each woman define sex? For example, I once asked a partner her number - she said 9. I later found out that that was just her actual penis in vagina number, and she was actually at somewhere near 40 when it came to blow jobs etc. Usually a woman is g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/15 03:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Partner counts should be measured in time frequency, not over a lifetimeRisk mitigation. We expect trickle truth. It's far more likely to assume you're unreliable until you've proven to me that you are. What benefit do I get from trusting you immediately? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/15 10:35 AM |
| 6 | Red Pill has "won" the philosophy battle. PPD's own existence is proof of that.Because people frequently get offended by an aim towards efficiency. If I walked around saying things like, "I want to bed multiple women without commiting to them", I come off like an asshole. Even if there are plenty of women open to this arrangement, and virtually every man is down for NSA sex. Coming off like an asshole does not help me in any way, so I try not to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/15 10:26 AM |
| 3 | The age at when men peak.And me as well. The amount of decent quality men is so low, it's easy to compete, especially if you've got a high paying job like software dev and stay in shape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/15 10:10 AM |
| 6 | Pickup artists would be better off with prostitutesYou are WAY over-paying. I rarely pay for girls. The last new girl I fucked, I paid $7 for an ice cream for her, and whatever a beer from the grocery store is ($1-$2?) and that was because she was broke. And that was a 20 year old petite college student with the nicest butt I've ever seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/15 10:02 AM |
| 5 | Pickup artists would be better off with prostitutesHook-up culture. It's very easy to bed a new girl quickly. I live near a college campus (not as a college student) and you can generally find a hook-up pretty quickly. And of course, it is free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/15 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Pickup artists would be better off with prostitutesOne of my plates is helping me find someone that I can hire for my side business. Another plate and I took a trip to go on roller coasters. Plates cook me dinner, entertain me with fun texts. I have another former plate (who will probably end up reading this comment), that does excellent work for me (writes articles) that I pay her for. There's a lot more to a plate than a prostitute (I've never seen a prostitute, but my understanding is that the experience is very cold) Do I "love" any of them?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/15 09:55 AM |
| 1 | How much would pretending to be a millionaire raise a man's SMV?This seems like a particularly difficult ruse to pull off, but if someone did it successfully, assuming average attractiveness, he'd be able to bed most women, provided his other traits were in order. But, why? There are ways to increase your SMV where you don't need to lie. And this is only useful for ONS. If you want to keep a plate for a while, you're going to have trouble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/15 09:45 AM |
| 19 | Women undergo a robotic transformation when you start behaving betaYep. I have experienced exactly this in the past when discussing women with other women. The moment you show weakness, they just don't care. It's obvious to them why it happened. How can you not see it? Are you that stupid? Is sorta what goes through their head, as far as I can tell. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 12:58 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Women Highly Overrate their own Upper Body StrengthAh I get what you're saying now. Yes, it was mostly attacking for intimidation that I got as a middle schooler. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/15 08:39 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Women Highly Overrate their own Upper Body Strength... that was not my experience in middle school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/15 07:44 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Women Highly Overrate their own Upper Body StrengthPuberty is, IIRC, when the strength differential appears. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/15 06:58 AM |
| 4 | Do you think women should "limit" themselves?Because it can impact your life negatively. I don't give a shit that much of society would think I'm a misogynistic prick based on my views. Good on them, whatever. What I do do is NOT broadcast them publicly, but that might impact me negatively. Big difference there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/15 06:44 AM |
| 4 | I was identified as 'Red Pill', out of the blue by a friend at work.Alpha was used in a hit blockbuster like Jurassic World. It's a common term in broader society. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 06:18 AM |
| 3 | Do not fall in the "entitlement" argument that feminists make, despite what they say, you ARE entitled.If you're questioning whether you're the right guy, you're not the right guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 06:04 AM |
| 2 | How many people do you believe genuinely lead the ideal "TRP Lifestyle" in real life?Work out all the time, highly muscular I started lifting almost as soon as I started reading TRP. Before injuring myself I had gotten much stronger. I still lift, but as I'm recovering, I can't lift as much. Good job, work hard at it, achieve financial success I work harder at career success than I ever did before. Highly confident in all aspects of life Mostly. Nobody's perfect. Constantly self-improving, never wasting time Usually, but sometimes I waste time. I wasted this weekend. I'm tired. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/15 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Men of PPD do you ever have sex with girls you're not attracted to?I did before PUA/TRP. Nowadays I will occasionally decide to go home with a grunter, but it's much more the exception than the rule. I think the last time I slept with a girl I wasn't super attracted to was a year and a half ago, and that was because she had a push-up bra and it LIED. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/15 04:03 AM |
| 1 | I have seen a lot of engineers whom were virgins throughout college, now have wives how do you explain this?According to our friend here, you're still very poor! In reality the percentiles may be a bit higher, but you're still on a track to be in the top 10-15% by income. Possibly within the next 2-4 years, depending on what type of engineer you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/15 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Man v. plates?Don't get too emotional. I wasn't saying to lie and praise the things about the guy that are ordinary. I'm saying to build him. Give him challenges until he starts setting himself goals and achieving them. The negative aspects of his personality and outlook will get left behind. Ok, drop the "don't get too emotional" condescension right now, or I'm not going to continue this. I'm not showing you disrespect, and I'm not going to tolerate it in return. Telling a guy he sucks is part of challenging… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/15 01:47 AM |
| 1 | I have seen a lot of engineers whom were virgins throughout college, now have wives how do you explain this?Engineers are not in the 90%, not even close. Yes, they are. According to the site you found, perhaps the lower end of entry level isn't - I'll give you that. But again, that's entry level. That's less than 2 years experience. 2 years experience and above (easily obtainable for a kid who is 23 who completed a degree quickly, or at latest 25 for a "normal" kid). Are you trolling at this point? Put in Engineer II into the salary calculator - it was like $73,000. What's with the $68K? Software engi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/15 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Man v. plates?Instead of hearing what's wrong with him, he should hear what's right with him, and build him from there. Then he'll have a rock-solid base that nothing can shake his whole life. I don't know for sure but I'll take a guess that most guys that commit suicide feel like losers. I strongly, strongly disagree with this. This leads to men who think they're amazing without doing any work. Which leads to feelings of anguish when other people don't treat them that way. It's far better to take a man aside… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/15 05:24 PM |
| 2 | I have seen a lot of engineers whom were virgins throughout college, now have wives how do you explain this?Making so much money that women just forego all the other things they look for in a relationship That's not the idea behind BB. The idea is more that they're negotiating on the sexy part (though as time goes on, and women get older and more desperate, gradually more things get put on the table for negotiation - I've observed this personally with a good number of women). There are even articles and books that suggest women do exactly that. Ah, my data was from 2010, yours is from 2014 (I also thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/15 12:27 PM |
| 3 | I have seen a lot of engineers whom were virgins throughout college, now have wives how do you explain this?Ah, so the expression is not alpha fucks/beta bucks, it's "has sexual relations with someone prior to marriage, and then gets married to someone that makes more money than her?" The idea is that generally a woman will sleep with men they find much sexier in their youth, for less commitment, but as they get older will look for a more stable guy (who they find less sexy - possibly far less sexy) who has to commit to them/is willing to pay for things/can afford them the life that they want. It's ce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/15 11:49 AM |
| 6 | I have seen a lot of engineers whom were virgins throughout college, now have wives how do you explain this?Yes, 80K it is not. The median isn't (nor did I claim it was), but there are certainly entry level engineers that make that. $80,000 isn't very far from $68,000, which again was the median for that particular type of engineering. That means that 50% of engineers in that specialty made over $68,000. Which again, is more money than 91% of single tax payers made (and remember, $55,000 was only 87th percentile). And engineers that don't make that in their first year after graduation will more than l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/15 11:05 AM |
| 4 | I have seen a lot of engineers whom were virgins throughout college, now have wives how do you explain this?No, it's less than that. No, it isn't. A quick Google search shows... https://m.mtu.edu/engineering/outreach/welcome/salary/ Entry level for engineers is between ~55k and ~68k. http://www.whatsmypercent.com/ $55,000 is at 87th percentile and $68,000 is at 91st percentile I am assuming this is for single filers. The average student graduating in 2015 graduates with $35,000 in debt, which if they pay it back monthly over 10 years, should be around $300-400ish per month out of a salary of about $4,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/15 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Man v. plates?It sinks into the psyche. Somehow I've managed to get through the almost two years I've known of TRP without calling women plates in public. I really don't think this is a problem our members have. I can't refer to certain groups of men as losers, betas or plates and be ok with myself. I don't see why not. Loser, especially, is a very helpful term. I wish I had been told a decade ago that I was a loser, and had someone explain why (and preferably how to fix it). It would have saved me a lot of p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/15 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Man v. plates?If you're truly RP and following what RP recommends, you're never, ever, ever going to refer to women as plates in public. To do so would affect you adversely. Much better to speak glowingly about women, relationships and commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/15 04:58 AM |
| 1 | What, if any, redpill tactics would work as a lady to a man in a LTRI don't read MRP, so I wouldn't know. I know when I've made use of it it has worked very well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/15 04:51 AM |
| 2 | At the age when men have the highest value, they also have the lowest sex driveI don't see why I couldn't (or a 35 year old couldn't) have marriage and kids with a 21 year old, besides the fact that most 21 year olds aren't settling down yet. I'd think most of the fear about the age gap would stem from the idea that older men want nothing to do with younger women but bed them and drop them. If you're a fit guy who has his shit together career-wise and seems legitimately into the girl - is her family going to say no? I really don't think so. Let's take the example of a 35 y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/15 04:39 AM |
| 2 | What, if any, redpill tactics would work as a lady to a man in a LTRDoes it get the job done? Oh it does? Well then, sounds like an effective measure to take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/15 04:21 AM |
| 9 | I have seen a lot of engineers whom were virgins throughout college, now have wives how do you explain this?An entry level salary in engineering is probably between 50-80k depending on the field and the city/state they're in. At 60k, you're at about 90th percentile for single filers for taxes. So yes, a 23 year old engineer is most certainly beta bucks to the vast majority of the country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/15 04:18 AM |
| 2 | At the age when men have the highest value, they also have the lowest sex driveI agree that highest value probably isn't at 35. Whether you can still do better than most men depends on the 35 year old, I'd wager. If you give up, sure, you're not doing well at 35. But if you stay in shape and actually care about being sexually appealing you'll be fine. I turned down a relatively cute 21 year old tonight because I wanted to work on my side company. I'm 30. I haven't slept with a girl over 24 this year. I could pick any particular age from 18 to probably 40 and find ample dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/15 04:07 AM |
| 11 | Your SO or partner(s) gains 100 pounds of fat, what would you do?If a partner gained 100 lbs, I would end our involvement together. I had something like this happen once. The girl gained about 60 lbs over the course of a year together. I broke up with her. I saw her years later and she had gained another 50+ lbs. I have noticed a pattern where if someone ever let's themselves get fat, they very rarely reverse this pattern. If a SO can't keep themselves thin, then they can't keep me. I have stayed within a normal body weight my entire life - with one single ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/15 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Met a girl, asked her out, she gave me her answer but not sure if shit test or friend zoned.In your thinking about women - just assume they're trying to get as much as possible of everything and care nothing for the consequences, especially consequences to you. Then their actions will become clearer. This has to be the best, most succinct way to describe how you should deal with women I've seen. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Think I may have "OD'd" on the blue pill?You deleted your comment, but I wrote a huge reply so here it is - I'm not impugning your grades or saying that because of her you did poorly - just that it sounds like in the right situation, you'd sacrifice your future for her present, and that is a behavior you should kill in yourself immediately. No woman, no matter who she is, is worth your future. I find it hard to understand, Maybe in my naive view of relationships I thought that if you loved each other you have each others backs. I alway… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Is breaking up considered a failure? Is loosing a plate considered a failure? In RP whats considered failure and whats considered success? Whats success in a relationship?You need to stop thinking of TRP as all sorts of rules you follow. That's fine at first, but you really need to try, in the long-term, to transition to a sort of unconscious competence. You should have RP behaviors come out of you just normally because that's who you are. You are abundant. You are on your shit. You are stoic. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Think I may have "OD'd" on the blue pill?You have what we call oneitis. You want to view her as a magical amazing princess. She is not one. She sounds like a low value girl, and you can do quite a bit better if you improve yourself. It does sound like you'll need to improve at least your outlook on life. She has gone no contact because she doesn't view you as worthy of her. That's the simple truth of the matter - all the deeds you've done for her, all the sacrifices you've made? She takes those as examples that you are worth less than … | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Determining number of active competitors?I mean you can have a general idea based on her behavior what type of girl she is. With experience I've noticed that women typically fit into certain archetypes. Obviously there's individual variation. As for the exact number of guys she's seeing? I'm not sure you can get an exact number. Maybe pretend to be interested and attracted to hearing her stories of other guys? One thing I have done is I'd act entirely non-judgmental of a girl's past (while obviously actually being judgmental), and ask … | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Saying TRP only works on insecure women is a logical fallacy: Most attractive women are insecureThat has been consistent with my observations as well. Teasing and acting high status basically says to a woman who is insecure, "this guy is out of my league", as far as I can tell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/15 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Men, what are some male specific issues you'd like society to be aware of?I've seen a girl (crazy girl, friend of my cousin, I don't personally know her), post on Facebook several times that she was going to kill herself, and then pretend to be a friend posting that she had died. People definitely do do it - not people in the best mental state obviously, but it is definitely done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/15 04:22 PM |
| 1 | How would the dating market change if everyone was completely honest regarding their intentions/desires?Think of this thought experiment. You take a slightly more attractive than average girl, and a slightly more attractive than average guy. Based on data from OkCupid, women are likely to perceive the slightly more attractive than average guy as well below average (women rate 80% of guys as not attractive). http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/ You ask a random single woman on the street, will you have sex with this man? And you ask a random single man on the street, will… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/15 04:15 PM |
| 2 | How would the dating market change if everyone was completely honest regarding their intentions/desires?Yeah, I didn't get it. I thought it wasn't important at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/15 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill and Purple Pill men: Were any of you objectively good looking/attractive, and STILL failing in the SMP/RMP because of using bluepill advice/upholding BP beliefs?Well, I don't know how attractive I am (I'm not tall. I'm relatively fit, but not visibly "muscular"), but I certainly noticed a massive, massive difference going from being non-Redpill, to being Redpill. I went from long dry spells, and very ugly girls (including one year long dry spell that was ended by me hooking up with a 300 lb 35 year old when I was 24ish), to dating relatively fit, younger women (anywhere between 2-10 years older than me so far). I would say it has had an unparalleled pos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/15 03:57 PM |
| 2 | The Suffering of the Lost BoysSelf discipline takes practice to build up. Start working on a project you want to see completed. I really find that realizing that with sufficient effort, you can make something really helps men get in the mindset of self discipline and creating things. I wrote a children's book on evolution, made several programs in my spare time for work to make my time and others more efficient, and went out a lot to hit on girls - to the point it was boring. When going out and flirting with girls gets borin… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 12:48 PM |
| 2 | The Suffering of the Lost BoysI feel particularly bad for your generation. In between the last generation raised by strong nuclear families, and before the internet started to make an impact. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 03:40 AM |
| 2 | The Suffering of the Lost BoysYeah, I had massive cognitive dissonance here too, which only accelerated after I discovered PUA. If you're strongly feminist, and you have a strong experimental mindset when it comes to dating, you're going to quickly realize that 2 and 2 don't add up. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 03:38 AM |
| 5 | The Suffering of the Lost BoysI was raised without a father at all. Never met him. My mother was narcissistic, crazy and irresponsible. The closest male figure in my life was an extremely beta uncle. The man orbited a post wall redneck single mother for 15 years and never slept with her. That was my training in masculinity. I remember thinking that I was worthless next to the girls I wanted to date, that I would do anything for them, and if they wanted to discard me, well, that was fine, because I wanted to do anything I cou… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Women are getting paid to sign up for TinderI hear popcorn day game is the new hot thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/15 01:19 AM |
| 1 | I only want to have sex in LTR or marriage, is there something wrong with that? Is that against RP values?I have never seen high partner count actually cause issues for a guy. Typically girls say, "are you clean?" And that's the end of it. If that. Girls will take the risk of STDs for a high value man. They know men sleep around when they have the opportunity. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 12:07 AM |
| 5 | How do you respond to "When was the last time you had sex?"And her vagina dries up. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/15 12:03 AM |
| 1 | What role does sending death threats to blue pillers have in self improvement.I'm sad that being put on the big list of evil redditors didn't lead to a death threat for me :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/15 11:43 PM |
| 1 | If men should not have to pay child support (for their biological offspring)Well it clearly isn't. So now that we're out of the realm of fantasy, what's the practical solution? The only one I've seen demands 2 decades of wage slavery from someone, which is a major problem in its own right. And knowing you "helped to create a child", I.e, provided some DNA, and so your life is completely changed forever - regardless of what you had planned for it. Yes, let's be super excited for the baby you don't want or have any desire to have. And as for arguments like "well if you di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/15 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Curious on what red pillers think about this post. Does this accurately represent your community?I'll be quite frank. I was an out of wedlock birth with a crazy mother and a father I never met. 25% of my probable life (20 years, out of 80, presuming I don't get some fatal disease from the black mold, cockroaches and animal feces she left lying around), spent in an utter hell hole. And from what we've learned about consciousness and how the feeling of time passes - those 20 years will, cognitively, feel longer than the rest of my life altogether. Based on that - I should have probably been a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/15 12:17 PM |
| 3 | And She Won't Get an Abortion: A DT GuideThis is one of the best posts I've seen on this sub, and it's absolutely true. If she is pregnant, your life, as you know it, is on the line. There's a good chance that relationship won't work and you'll literally be forced to pay for a child for 20 years with the threat of jail time behind it. If she's pregnant, you are quite literally playing for keeps, and the cards are all stacked in her deck. If you want to win, you must be vicious. I also find its good to prep a girl beforehand so she does… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/15 12:06 PM |
| 2 | And She Won't Get an Abortion: A DT GuidePretty sure that's what my birth situation was. My mother claims she was "raped" by my biological father (who I've never met), who was a good friend of hers, but not someone she saw "that way". When she found out I had told a friend that he was a rapist, many years ago, she was like "don't call him that! It wasn't like, a normal rape! It was a rape but not really." She also tried to pin it on her ex-husband, who marched her straight down for a paternity test. He was, from her description, pretty… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/15 11:55 AM |
| 1 | I made a survey for this subredditDoubtful that they're lying. With typical behavior promoted on TRP, and with the very common existence of hook up apps, a guy that has sex with a new girl even every month will reach the highest number within two years. Even with a modest partner count of a new partner averaging every 6 months (so maybe a few LTRs, and possibly a few drunken college hook-ups here or there), an average guy would be past 20 partners before 30, if they started in their late teens. I can't speak for the others that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/15 11:23 AM |
| 2 | I made a survey for this subredditI think you're being naive on this. I was actually quite surprised that the number only went to 20. If a man sleeps with a new girl a month (not at all hard to do if you've worked on improving yourself - honestly if you really wanted to, you could easily get with more), then after only two years of plate spinning, he's over your highest number. I also feel you're not taking into the metric of current age. Even a guy who has sex with a new girl on an average of 6 months will, if he started at 18,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/15 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Porn stars: would you LTR one? Why or why not?I ran into a former porn star when out with a girl I was seeing. She was doing infomercial style sales at a small adult store in the area. I assume that porn stars that aren't able to earn enough/don't plan well enough have to do similar stuff. Or hide their former career and get a new one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/15 10:59 AM |
| 3 | If men should not have to pay child support (for their biological offspring)Incentivize men to be fathers, then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/15 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Study claims women get fatter after marriage: Does this finding go against BP philosophy that marriage is positive for men?You're saying playing with a child for several hours is harder than farming? Now I know you're just trolling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/15 01:29 PM |
| 1 | TRP is unlikely to be true.Please, provide these studies. Preferably ones specifically about men in TRP, but I understand that that's going to be difficult to find. And yes. They are. That's the point - it works. That's why it has well over 100,000 subscribers, and PUA before it. Believe it or don't, but your outright dismissal of my lived experience is certainly going to do nothing to convince me, though maybe it will convince someone who hasn't experienced it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/15 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Study claims women get fatter after marriage: Does this finding go against BP philosophy that marriage is positive for men?I lived with my niece for the first year she was alive. I'm pretty sure that's good enough to make a judgment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/15 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Study claims women get fatter after marriage: Does this finding go against BP philosophy that marriage is positive for men?She wasn't working nearly as hard, for nearly as long. That's my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/15 02:22 AM |
| 1 | TRP is unlikely to be true.female morality is discussed on red pill Female morality in the context of strategy is discussed on TRP. The same with male morality. We're more than happy to tell men when other men will fuck them over too. What we don't do is judge a man's particular strategy. We're descriptive, not prescriptive. If you don't know what that means, Google it. Another term would be "logical positivists". So no, this claim is wrong. i do, do you? What have you done for them lately? non sociopaths do. What have yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/15 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Study claims women get fatter after marriage: Does this finding go against BP philosophy that marriage is positive for men?I just seriously can't understand how anyone can claim housework takes a long time. I could clean my entire house spotless in less than an hour. I basically did on Sunday, one of my days off, because it needed to be done. I was done in about a half hour. If it's THAT much of a struggle, hire a maid every two weeks for $100. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/15 02:17 AM |
| 1 | TRP is unlikely to be true.That is about setting boundaries. There are far better sources that the red pill to learn about setting boundaries. Having lived for several decades, I really only started to set boundaries after reading PUA and TRP stuff, so I'm not liable to be convinced by this one. Please though, post your sources. I'm more talking about men who have built themselves up to think of themselves as king shit and women as dirt (as the red pill advises) Arguably I'm one of these men, depending on what you mean by… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/15 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Study claims women get fatter after marriage: Does this finding go against BP philosophy that marriage is positive for men?Babies between the ages of birth and 1 year sleep between 14 to 18 hours, according to a cursory Google search. This is consistent with my experience with my niece. By 6 months (maybe 8 or 9 months - it's been a few years, so I don't remember exactly), they're crawling around and playing with things. While you do have to pay attention to them to some extent, it isn't like you have to be laser locked on them at all points. Especially if you baby proof where they're going to be. I'm not disagreein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/15 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Study claims women get fatter after marriage: Does this finding go against BP philosophy that marriage is positive for men?Yeah, my niece loves me pretty hard. She's a cool kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/15 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Study claims women get fatter after marriage: Does this finding go against BP philosophy that marriage is positive for men?Watching a child is in no way comparable to a 9-5 job. I've done both. For the first 6 months or a year I can understand this argument, but past that, the kid will frequently entertain itself. It's certainly not 8 hours worth of work. You want to pay me the same to watch a kid as do my job as an engineer I'd be happy to make that trade. Not to mention that watching a kid has no commute, is work from home and is a relatively social activity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/15 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Study claims women get fatter after marriage: Does this finding go against BP philosophy that marriage is positive for men?Of course it is. I've also lived in a house with multiple people before. The extra level of cleaning isn't exactly exponential. It's maybe an additional 5-10 more minutes. Oh no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/15 06:17 PM |
| 5 | TRP is unlikely to be true.Worthless isn't the precise word I'd use, fungible is. And technically we don't do moral discussions on TRP. You can be Redpill and be the equivalent of Ghenghis Khan for all we care in terms of discussing strategy. But for the average guy, it's just not smart to randomly go around beating people up - it's a good way to end up in prison, and unless prison yard sex is the sexual strategy you are trying to implement, it's simply a bad idea. As for caring if they get hurt - who really does? Do you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/15 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Study claims women get fatter after marriage: Does this finding go against BP philosophy that marriage is positive for men?Because he was working the rest of the day? I have no idea how long "get the kids to bed" takes. I would suspect it's a fairly labor intensive activity at first, but goes down in effort over time. But that's not really a "chore" I was talking about. The rest of the items on that list don't take more than 20-30 minutes at absolute maximum. I've had a sink of dirty dishes and a dirty table before and it really does not take that long to clean them all. And if it really does take hours, Jesus, inve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/15 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Study claims women get fatter after marriage: Does this finding go against BP philosophy that marriage is positive for men?I have my own two bedroom apartment and have lived on my own for nearly ten years. Cleaning the dishes and table doesn't take very long. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/15 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Study claims women get fatter after marriage: Does this finding go against BP philosophy that marriage is positive for men?... There's really not. You're talking 2 minutes vs 5 minutes type stuff. How long does it take you to clean up after dinner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/15 08:10 AM |
| 12 | TRP is unlikely to be true.I think you're writing quite a fantasy novel here to come up with a plausible scenario in which case a man who reads the Redpill might hit a woman. And sure, if you throw in enough qualifying variables, you'll eventually get to a scenario like that. Why don't we throw in that the guy has anger management issues and he finds out that the girl slept with his dad earlier and she tells him his dad's penis is much larger too and he's just a little boy? And then his high school football coach walks in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/15 07:59 AM |
| 11 | TRP is unlikely to be true.How would he possibly feel like less of a man? Her sucking or not sucking his dick is quite irrelevant to a man's masculinity. If she doesn't want to suck his dick, he can go find another girl who does. That's the whole point of "abundance mentality" - a core TRP concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/15 06:40 AM |
| 15 | TRP is unlikely to be true.Usually I find when people do experiments like these and have negative results, it's due to a lack of calibration. How much "game" experience do you have generally? Were you actually being cocky/funny or just coming off as mean and offending the girl in question? When you left the social gathering, did you come off as butthurt? As for doing what you want - like leaving a social gathering you don't want to be at - sometimes you'll piss people off. That's just how the sausage is made. Your goals a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/15 06:38 AM |
| 5 | Ex Highshcool GF got invitro insemination, get treated like a champion on FacebookStatistics don't agree with you (they show that children raised by single mothers do much poorer than their two-parented, or even father-raised counterparts), and there are certainly horror stories like mine, where children are raised by a mini-tyrant who has no control over her own shit, and the children grow up in filth and poverty. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 06:08 AM |
| 4 | Ex Highshcool GF got invitro insemination, get treated like a champion on FacebookHaving never had a father, I absolutely agree that this is a huge loss to the child. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 05:58 AM |
| 10 | AF/BB Codified into State Law: New York Moves to Cap Alimony But Only for the Top %5 of MalesThat's the only thing I can think of when I see this. It's basically a, "Oh hey guys, you're high value and can fuck lots and lots of women, but heeeeeeeeey, if you want a legacy, and want to take the risk of divorce rape, it won't be AS bad!" | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 03:45 AM |
| 5 | Overcame a situation with my LTR that bluepill me would have been terrified to confrontI mean, if you keep enough plates, it's really not that hard either. During this "relationship", I had a side plate who would fuck me whenever I wanted, and still will, and she's not pushy for any sort of commitment. So I just don't see the benefit of having guaranteed regular sex - it can easily be had without a relationship. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 02:23 PM |
| 2 | How Blue Pill thinking turned me into a misogynistThe stages are more of a guideline. Not everyone goes through all of them, or for the same length of time. I had almost no anger stage (though I did have an anger stage with an ex, years before TRP, that sorta put me on the path to going red, so there's that...) | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 02:13 PM |
| 5 | Overcame a situation with my LTR that bluepill me would have been terrified to confrontYep, talking straight and laying down your rules is a great example to show how solid your frame is. It will be questioned. Have abundance, and stay strong. She'll back down, or she'll leave you. Probably the former. If it's the latter, who cares? Find another one. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 05:31 AM |
| 7 | Overcame a situation with my LTR that bluepill me would have been terrified to confrontI decided to perform an experiment for a few months and try a quasi-one. All I can say is - so much drama, so little reward, takes up so much time. What's the benefit? Sex is just a swipe away, and you've got the added bonus of variety. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 05:28 AM |
| 6 | Overcame a situation with my LTR that bluepill me would have been terrified to confrontEvery time I've told a woman that if she gets fat, I'm dropping her, I see them pointedly making sure that I see them working out, and eating right. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 05:27 AM |
| 11 | Man's wife's been urging him to reverse his vasectomy. Why? She cheated, got pregnant, and wants an alibi.Because she wanted a baby, and felt she could manipulate husband into raising her alpha spawn. Remember, when a girl decides you're just a provider to her and nothing more, she also feels you're easy to manipulate and under her control. They don't understand the concept of men wanting to self-sacrifice for a "worthy" woman (a common trope in the world - though a stupid one when you look at it through redpill eyes). It isn't, "he is willing to do this because he feels my virtue is so high and fee… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 01:14 PM |
| 6 | Man's wife's been urging him to reverse his vasectomy. Why? She cheated, got pregnant, and wants an alibi.This has been consistent with my experience as well. Just about every woman I know, at about 27, starts to get baby rabies, at ever increasing levels. At least in America, something like 90% (I think it was 87%) of women have a baby by age 45. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 01:07 PM |
| 4 | Man's wife's been urging him to reverse his vasectomy. Why? She cheated, got pregnant, and wants an alibi.Yeah, it took me months to get over my disillusioning experience. I was well and truly broken. Sometimes it just takes time to process these things. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/15 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Even Female siblings can/will try and ruin youI brought a plate over to Thanksgiving this past week. At one point she hands out her wine glass to me for me to get another glass of wine for her. I say to her, "I'm not your servant", in a CF way. My uncle responds with, "Yes you are." (totally serious, in a lecturing type tone) That sort of stuff does not help me. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 01:38 AM |
| 6 | AMA - Milo Yiannopoulos - Thursday, Dec 10th, 5pm London time, (12pm EST) on TRPI suspected as much. Does he ever contribute? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 01:31 AM |
| 19 | AMA - Milo Yiannopoulos - Thursday, Dec 10th, 5pm London time, (12pm EST) on TRPHe's trying to build an empire AND defending men? How is that not to admire? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 01:30 AM |
| 1 | AMA - Milo Yiannopoulos - Thursday, Dec 10th, 5pm London time, (12pm EST) on TRPSad I have to miss it. I'll try to pop in and ask a question. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 01:28 AM |
| 2 | CorporateLand: How to Handle Salary Negotiations.Software development. I taught myself, and worked for smaller companies that paid very little compared to the industry standard. With several years experience under my belt, and a few projects I've made myself under my belt and possibly making the jump to financial tech (if I can...), I'm looking at potentially a lot more money. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 01:26 AM |
| 10 | CorporateLand: How to Handle Salary Negotiations.Yep. I leave a company every 2 years. Every time I do I get a pay bump. I'm expecting a very large jump with my next job, because growing up in poverty and graduating during a recession make your salary reqs tame. Now I know my value, and the offers coming in are double to triple what I'm making now. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Today was the day that Reddit almost swallowed the pill. On the front page today: Guy finds out soon-to-be fiancee is cheating and sets up an elaborate proposal to dump her.Eh, if you can fake an ADHD condition you can get a cheaper, weaker (and much safer) version of those drugs like Adderall and Ritalin. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/15 11:49 PM |
| 5 | Playing the game in your 30s being the AF and not spending a dime on a woman. Too good to be true?I mean I try to aim for my house or hers. Sometimes you will have to take a girl out to a bar first - pick one near your house. I'm within walking distance of several which is logistically very convenient. Logistics is almost as important as game at the end of the day. But yeah it's totally possible to invite a girl back to your house. I find making tentative plans with them and canceling makes them more likely to come over (not sure why this is - maybe because they feel if they don't come over … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Playing the game in your 30s being the AF and not spending a dime on a woman. Too good to be true?I've been using tinder a lot so I don't do dates as often. Usually if I'm on one, first I'm usually sitting at the bar with the girl (better for KINO), and second when the bartender asks, I'm always going to be like "separate". Or I'll be like "first round on me, second round on you". There's a lot you can do. What you don't have to do is pay for a girl's company. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 01:22 PM |
| 13 | Playing the game in your 30s being the AF and not spending a dime on a woman. Too good to be true?If she wants me to pay, the door is over there. She can see herself out (exceptions for young, broke plates only). You frame it like that, and most women are suddenly very willing to pay their own way. If they're not, who cares? There's a younger hotter one down at Starbucks anyway. It's not a 100% strict policy - sometimes spending money works to your advantage in situations, but it works well enough for me 9/10 times. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 06:06 AM |
| 5 | Girl on OKCupid subreddit keeps telling herself that she's attracted to betas - and then learns that her "perfect, amazing" boyfriend is a RedPiller.Yep, I did a similar experiment with PUA about a year after discovering it (for context, this was about 3 or 4 years ago). For about 1-2 months, I did exactly the opposite of what I should (according to PUA and TRP). What did it get me? Absolutely no girls, no sex. Go back, and within 2 weeks I had fucked three girls. It was pretty much the last time I ever seriously questioned the literature. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 07:47 PM |
| 7 | Girl on OKCupid subreddit keeps telling herself that she's attracted to betas - and then learns that her "perfect, amazing" boyfriend is a RedPiller.Nothing has made me appreciate rap as much as TRP has. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 07:43 PM |
| 19 | Girl on OKCupid subreddit keeps telling herself that she's attracted to betas - and then learns that her "perfect, amazing" boyfriend is a RedPiller.You can have more and less serious plates I'd say. If you've been fucking a girl for a few months consistently, you're going to have to occasionally toss in beta traits to keep her around, unless you're absolutely so high value (rich, celebrity, or extremely ripped) that she knows she has no prospects even anywhere near your level. It fuels her, "I can lock him down!" dream. It'll also fuel shit tests and her trying to lock you down further, but I think of those as sorta how the sausage is made … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 07:29 PM |
| 1 | The Fallacy of Cultural RelativismI'm not so sure here. People tend to go more towards ignorance the poorer they are. The Mongols destroyed an extremely large, extremely wealthy city full of books, as well as the irrigation channels that had been in the middle east since the Sumerians. It made the area that was a warm, but cultivated land - similar to parts of California now, where they pump in water and grow a ton of crops, into literal desert. Imagine turning southern California into Phoenix, and you have a pretty good idea of… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 07:02 PM |
| 1 | The Fallacy of Cultural RelativismWell, back in the day, if you wanted to be a scholar, you were typically a religious scholar first, and an everything else scholar second. A thing most people don't know is that 9th-ish century Islam also formed the first proto-universities, which the Italians copied, becoming the first actual universities. Science got its first start in Islam (mostly because they were the direct inheritors of the Greek side of the Mediterranean and the wealth of knowledge the Greeks had developed for a millenni… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 06:59 PM |
| 18 | To All Men Everywhere: I salute youYou're lucky. I was 28, and while I had figured out a good chunk of it out on my own, I could have avoided a decade of pain and been much further along. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 01:45 AM |
| 3 | Charlie Sheen on TinderThere's a drug that makes it so that you can fuck someone with HIV and not get it, unprotected. So she takes one pill for baby, and one pill for HIV. The most difficult thing for her hamster is telling Charlie how she forgot to take only one of them that day... | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Charlie Sheen on TinderDepends on the laws of the state. California has very lax HIV laws. You have to knowingly infect someone and intend to do so to be liable for a criminal suit there. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Charlie Sheen on TinderThey are. Syphillis is basically non-existent in the western world, herpes is a mild skin infection that most people either already have (asymptomatically) or will get at some point in their lives and which your body basically gets rid of (it's still technically in your body but at a tiny, tiny viral load), chlamydia and gonorhea which are symptomless for most people and cured easily by antibiotics, HIV which is fantastically rare for just about everyone in the western world, etc. I've had sever… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 04:51 AM |
| 3 | Charlie Sheen on TinderYep, I remember at 8 years old, waking up in the middle of the night with a nightmare about AIDs, and praying (literally praying) asking God to not let me get it. The propaganda was intense. Grow up and I find out that if you're not a gay bottom, your chances are pretty nil. Also pro-tip - keep yourself limited to middle, upper middle and upper class girls (and non-black girls - the race with the highest percentage of people to have it) and you're fantastically unlikely to ever get exposed, let … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 04:42 AM |
| 12 | [x-post MGTOW] It appears some kind of flu is going around. Yesterday, Dilbert Comic author, Scott Adams, wrote a blog post espousing some highly concentrated Manosphere ideological analysis. Even brusquely brushes off the wage-gap and identifies the West as a gynocentric culture.Well, it's one of the main high earning jobs left, and you can do it with a reasonable turnaround of time, plus I feel if you're on a place like reddit, you're going to be more likely to be in tech in general. The world is going to software, so I'm not surprised to see that a large amount of our userbase and Reddits as well is in tech. Honestly, if you want a white collar job at this point (and you're under 45), I feel you should probably be able to program. You'll be far more valuable to any em… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 04:25 AM |
| 12 | [x-post MGTOW] It appears some kind of flu is going around. Yesterday, Dilbert Comic author, Scott Adams, wrote a blog post espousing some highly concentrated Manosphere ideological analysis. Even brusquely brushes off the wage-gap and identifies the West as a gynocentric culture.Truly one of the best lessons of TRP, and why publicly, you should never support TRP, unless you're powerful enough that it won't hurt you (and my guess is that we have maybe 5-10 readers, tops, who fit in that category. If.) | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Get rid of the idea that you will get your revenge when you are in your late 30s or 40s. You will be in for a disappointment.As an aside, I think many people here would benefit by making access to Reddit harder to use too. I didn't start using Reddit until I found TRP, and I gradually found it taking more and more of my time, so I deleted the app. Now I access it maybe once a day, if that. TRP is great for advice on getting your life in order, but don't let reading threads here or elsewhere waste all your time. And on that note, I have things to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/15 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Get rid of the idea that you will get your revenge when you are in your late 30s or 40s. You will be in for a disappointment.It's honestly not really that hard to be in the top 10-20%, if you work at it. You can be top 30% (or maybe even top 20%) just by not being fat and earning above the median income. Lift weights (learning basic powerlifting will keep you in better shape than probably 85% of the population, maybe more), eat right, pick a decent career (if you're college-minded, STEM will always earn you above the median income, and if not skilled trades like electrician or plumber will as well). I'm 30 - I wish I … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/15 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Women on the OKCupid sub share stories about sleeping with "douchebag/asshole" Alphas - and in the same thread, beg men to please not become douchebags.Every once in a while a girl in the epiphany phase will do this. An ex of mine (mostly I know this from pictures), was normal looking, got a bit heavy, and then got really into fitness and got into fantastic shape when she was near wall. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/15 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Women on the OKCupid sub share stories about sleeping with "douchebag/asshole" Alphas - and in the same thread, beg men to please not become douchebags.That is definitely your taste. I for one can't stand the 28+ face. I honestly love 18-19 year old faces the best. Just something fresh about them. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/15 06:12 AM |
| 5 | Women on the OKCupid sub share stories about sleeping with "douchebag/asshole" Alphas - and in the same thread, beg men to please not become douchebags.It's the style in some places/subcultures. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/15 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Women on the OKCupid sub share stories about sleeping with "douchebag/asshole" Alphas - and in the same thread, beg men to please not become douchebags.You can change your age settings. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/15 06:00 AM |
| 13 | In a thread about height, AskWomen faces an existential crisis - they can't admit to wanting tall alphas, but they can't help it!Short isn't an automatic loss. You can improve upon it. Build your frame, lift, eat right, be on your shit professionally, and believe in yourself and your mission. A lot of guys suck these days, so even if you're short you can do ok. It's even possible to outcompete tall guys. I've done it before. One of my funniest dating stories is from a time I outcompeted a tall guy. Just remember that at the end of the day, being a leader of men is more important than being tall. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/15 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Onneitis with a VERY passive girl.You sound very inexperienced here. This girl isn't special and it doesn't sound like she's too into you. She's probably doing something with her "crush" and if she isn't, she will be soon. Make a move or go after someone else. Chances are she's a lost cause though, and if so, move on. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/15 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Would there any time I will be perceived as high SMV guy?You're probably not gaining weight because you don't eat enough. When I was lifting and not much bigger than you, I had to start eating 3000-4000 calories to put on weight. That being said, at your size, you'll not be competing for what I would describe as 10s, but 8s are certainly available if you get everything else in line. But at your size, there's really no reason not to solve your lifting problem. Shorter guys get jacked way easier than taller guys. My guess is you're just not eating enoug… | /r/askTRP | 08/11/15 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Why are so many women bisexual or bi curious nowadays?I've done plenty of life experiments, but I've stopped short of doing things with men. Thank you for your contribution to science. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/15 03:04 AM |
| 3 | Friend the ECs to filter what you read.This is honestly one of my favorite comments I've read on here. It's a terse way to describe the whole point of the sub - "you want a better life - take it!" | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/15 12:08 AM |
| 0 | I have nothing to do except lift for 10 weeks, how do I fill my time?Well I'm partial to coding because I feel it complements pretty much any other white collar job set (and I'm assuming if you're in Uni you're going that route). Doing simple graphics and logos might be another one. Others would be reading about how to mix drinks to be a bartender, teaching yourself how to do handy work like woodworking or something, or learn how a car works. You won't be a mechanic but you might have friends throw you $20 to fix their lights or change their oil. Really anything … | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 09:36 PM |
| 3 | I have nothing to do except lift for 10 weeks, how do I fill my time?Pick up a money making skill. The earlier you start making money, the faster you're free. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/15 04:07 PM |
| 1 | I think I found a Unicorn, is keeping an LDR worth it?"I'll never find another one" is disgusting crap. Why do you estimate your value so low? If your value is so low, why should this supposed unicorn (who really isn't one) even associate with you? The first step in deciding on a girl is an abundance mentality. Until you realize that there are essentially an infinite amount of women like her, you shouldn't even consider dating a girl. Also, LDRs are terrible ideas. I did one back when I was 19 or so (so a little over 10 years ago). Worthless. Not e… | /r/askTRP | 06/11/15 09:54 PM |
| 5 | My Rant on "Standards" and how "getting lucky" are Blue Pill TermsThere is something to be said about increasing your SMV through better game and understanding of female psychology. Getting positive reception and just getting better at handling girls will frequently get a girl several SMV points above what a guy could get before. For example before PUA I'd say I was fucking 3s and 4s or just going with my hand for the most part. Post, I'd say 7s are not particularly difficult and I've gotten with 8s (this obviously being subjective and hard to measure). I reme… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Why was I banned from TRP?It's just simply not a quality post. It does nothing to address the main point that TRP makes - that a woman can nuke a relationship and essentially enslave you at any point she feels like. Kind of a big deal when you're dealing with people who use emotions as their primary way of interacting with the world, wouldn't you say? | /r/askTRP | 06/11/15 04:31 AM |
| 19 | Hooking Up When You’re an Anti-Rape Activist - Comedy GoldIt's a relatively common term among young 20-something women from what I can tell. If you're labeled with the term fuckboy, you should probably take it as a good sign, because you've managed to spike emotions in the girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 04:15 AM |
| 2 | I'm in fucking tears right now. A woman used the justice system to ruin my life.You also broke the law. That's on you. You knew the rules, and you broke them, putting yourself in the hands of someone you know to be capricious. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 01:01 PM |
| 1 | I'm in fucking tears right now. A woman used the justice system to ruin my life.Oh yes. I read the entire Facebook exchange between them. She's constantly telling him how into him she is, how she wants to hang out, etc, etc, even a couple days after the supposed rape. She just wanted attention. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 12:45 PM |
| 5 | What you say is NOT what she hearsMy impression was that she was stewing for a fight all day. She planned this fight. I don't feel that a simple A&A will do the trick. This is a time for setting boundaries/not rewarding her for her behavior. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 04:32 PM |
| 3 | What you say is NOT what she hearsAs I said, it needs to be delivered and then the subject changed or you have to go do something else. Her reactions to it are irrelevant - she will get upset over it in the moment (but if she's angry, that's true of virtually everything you could say, even A&A) You deliver the words, calmly and matter of fact, and you don't argue. She will try to argue. That's not your concern. If she tries, "I said what I had to say." Immediate subject change. If she keeps up on it, tell her you're going to lea… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 04:08 PM |
| 17 | What you say is NOT what she hearsYou are correct in that what you say is not what she hears. This is why it is important to read the essay on PowerTalk and Straight Talk, to understand the different communication styles. Girls deal more naturally in PowerTalk than they do Straight Talk (though everyone uses both to some extent - if you ask her where the remote is, she probably, and I want to emphasize probably won't think you're saying something else by it). The key point is to realize that her default mode is to communicate by… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 01:12 PM |
| 6 | Is "The Wall" a coping mechanism Red Pill Men use to come to grips with how unfair they see their dating game?I'm 30. The wall is very real. I have first hand seen the epiphany phase in girls. I've first hand seen the loss of beauty. I've seen girls settle for men they wouldn't have dare dated years earlier. On the other hand, I've had no trouble sleeping with girls 10+ years younger than me at times. I'm currently ducking a 23 year old, a 24 year old, and a 20 year old. So while men get less attractive as they age, it's certainly not as early or at the same rate as women. In fact, we have reports from … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/15 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Bill Maher delivers gem of TRP wisdom.She freaks out and goes "I need to get serious and get a boyfriend right away then! I may have to end things with you" (I assume that was a bid for commitment, but whatever). I tell her she's still got a few years before it's a huge deal, that calms her down, and then she's like "I'm just going to do what makes me happy". Just stay calm when they start to freak out. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/15 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Spun Plates. Got Herpes.This time it got plenty of upvotes, but usually when I post it, it gets downvoted pretty strongly. My guess is that many of the men who are down voting aren't very sexually experienced and think STD = SCARY BAD EVIL OH NO. And herpes has a lot of stigma - primarily as a slut shaming tactic between girls, but a lot of guys have internalized that fear too, as if it's a big deal. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/15 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Bill Maher delivers gem of TRP wisdom.Yep. This should be one of the first examples that should jump out to the newly unplugged non-religious that realize the difference between PowerTalk and straight talk. If you view it as a social control for the uneducated and weak rather than an actual system of belief, it makes a great deal of sense. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/15 12:58 PM |
| 22 | Bill Maher delivers gem of TRP wisdom.I explained this to a plate once. We met a former porn star randomly (long story), who was dressed to the nines, and for her age, had a decent figure I suppose. Later on, my plate and I were eating, and I say something along the lines of how women her age, even the "hot" ones are less attractive than my plates age (24) - not even thinking this would be a surprising sentence to her. Her hamster goes on overdrive. She starts freaking out about how she's aging, and how men won't want her. She seeme… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/15 12:49 PM |
| 6 | If you don't sleep, you might as well not lift.Have you ever done intense heavy exercise? I found my sleep requirements went up significantly with an increased exercise workload. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/15 05:09 AM |
| 30 | My Fiancee Wants to "Open" our Relationship. WTF.The question nobody is questioning you on, but I will is - why the fuck are you getting married? You know it's a bad strategy. You know it won't make a girl more likely to be loyal (as evidenced by your situation), you know she can take your money and your kids from you. Who cares if she hinted she wanted to get married? After only 2 years of vetting on your part? Why does she get this great gift from you? What has she done to deserve it? I once had a girl that had just bought a house with her f… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/15 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Funny article about women in Australia upset the top 0.1% of men won't commit to themWhy go on dates with trash? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/15 05:56 AM |
| 3 | Funny article about women in Australia upset the top 0.1% of men won't commit to themI had this happen. I started to get into software as a career on my own. At about 28, I mentioned to a girl what I was doing. I can't say for sure, but my impression is that she googled what developers were paid and what I was working on. I have never had a girl chase me that much or that hard. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/15 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Funny article about women in Australia upset the top 0.1% of men won't commit to themI've dated 19 year olds. I've dated 29 year olds. I've seen very little difference in maturity. Girls accept the vessel they're given. You want a mature girl, mold her that way. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/15 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Funny article about women in Australia upset the top 0.1% of men won't commit to themAm 30. Can confirm that I absolutely didn't sleep with several coeds this year, including a cute 20 year old with the best butt ever. Nope, didn't happen. All made up. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/15 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Obesity is an underrated driver of today's SMP dynamicsI just don't feel that describes a large portion of Americans though. I don't have time to look up numbers currently but I'll try to take a look into this later. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/15 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Obesity is an underrated driver of today's SMP dynamicsI simply don't feel that the amount of men that put on significant enough muscle to get pushed into being "overweight" BMI-wise is going to be a very large number. You can maybe shave off a few percent (off of the overweight/obese numbers), but I doubt you could shave more than 5-10% at the absolute max. Maybe it's our different between our two communities - but where is this high portion of ripped men? It's certainly not in my local geographic area - there are some, but very, very few. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/15 09:31 PM |
| 2 | The "half night stand" for the modern millennial woman: Just when you thought the CC wasn't enough!I'm 30, and honestly at this point of my life/career, balancing even 2 girls has gotten to be a headache. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/15 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Obesity is an underrated driver of today's SMP dynamicsLook at it this way, the greater number of overweight and obese men means that if you are not one of them, you're already in the running for near the top 20%-30% of men. Add a decently high status profession or a decent chunk of muscle and you're going to do pretty well overall. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/15 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Self-taught programmers; got any tips on how to get a good job through self-educating yourself in programming?I'm just not seeing how you feel Node is dying. At least as of last year, it had cannibalized large chunks of PHP, Python, Ruby and even .Net stuff. This link sorta shows what I mean: https://www.quora.com/Will-NodeJS-overtake-Ruby-on-Rails-and-other-web-development-options-in-future | /r/askTRP | 29/10/15 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Self-taught programmers; got any tips on how to get a good job through self-educating yourself in programming?This isn't possibly true. The demand for programmers at the moment is insanely high - it is currently the most in demand field, aside from highly highly specialized jobs (like neurosurgeon). I've been developing for about 4-5 years and I'm getting offers of at minimum 80k, and frequently much higher. And that's without a degree, in the Midwest. I'm also not sure why you feel Node is dead. JavaScript devs are in the highest demand right now (at least paywise), and a good portion of that is becaus… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/15 11:18 PM |
| 9 | You won't know when she cheats.I feel that it was probably more of a hygiene/don't use all the water cleaning up thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Kickstarter for a movie about men's rights that's called "The red pill"Well, to be fair, he probably did have something to do with it too. I'm damn certain he's a member here though. He knows the pulse of things here too well. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Kickstarter for a movie about men's rights that's called "The red pill"I put $10 in. She sent an email about how she went up from 25% ish to 90%ish funding in about 24 hours. My guess is that it was largely us. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Like LTR but desire other pussy - looking for suggestionsWhy use the term "polyamory"? It's strongly associated with neck beards and leg beards. Just say you fuck other girls and she fucks other guys. I typically am fine with my plates fucking other people, but I have a strict "don't talk about it to me" thing. For any LTR I'd typically demand monogamy on her end. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/15 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Longest you have voluntarily gone without sex?You want to have sex, but she'll only fuck you if you beg? Why are you in this relationship? Do you value your time and yourself that low? Drop her and find a better girl. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/15 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Getting What You Want: Career and MoneyBuild actual applications. From basically day 1. It's going to be painful. Understanding documentation is going to be painful at times. With Java you're going to immediately be thrust into OOP, which will be painful/ultimately useful. Any possible thing you might want to do, write code to do it. I'd also recommend considering switching to Python as a beginner language. But any language will ultimately suffice if you're willing to put the time in. Web, mobile and machine learning are hot right no… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Getting What You Want: Career and MoneyIf you want to get into PHP, look into Drupal. Much bigger, enterprise level projects. I've worked in both, and Wordpress is far more sloppier done. Alternatively go with an actual framework like Rails, Django or Node.js. There's more money in it and it'll make you a better developer. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Getting What You Want: Career and MoneyI typically spent 2-4 hours when I was starting. 2-3 months was enough to make programs at a semi-professional (good enough for a small company) level. Read up on a lot of ancillaries too, like using Git/version control, how to use and set up an IDE (stepping through a complex application in an IDE is a huuuuuuuuuge time saver), etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Getting What You Want: Career and Money6 months? I'm typically doing 2 years. Maybe I'll reduce that for my next couple jobs and see how that goes. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 04:22 PM |
| 36 | Kickstarter for a movie about men's rights that's called "The red pill"Black knighting. "Wow, these people are SO horrible. I need to check out this shit storm. Oh. Wait. They are actually making reasonable points. Wait a second. Shit. They're right!" I'd say a significant chunk of our members got here this way. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Short , bald and slim indian guy here. Just discovered trp. I am having hard time getting dates and sexFix the pain in your shoulder. Might be rotator cuff - a few months of physical therapy should help it, along with rest and light lifting. Trust me, the sooner you start lifting, the better. Practice your English pronunciation. But the fastest way for you would be to get very strong. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/15 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Polyamorous couple wants to have child. Wife thinks that his husband is too jealous because he cares about paternityThere were a few that said her husband was being unreasonable, and that condoms should be sufficient, but all agreed on the paternity thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 02:58 AM |
| 4 | How to avoid beta responses?Come over. Eat cookie dough. Have beer. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/15 10:16 PM |
| 42 | Polyamorous couple wants to have child. Wife thinks that his husband is too jealous because he cares about paternityI do want to point out that the comments that tell her she should put her foot down and not break up with her boyfriend (whatever her husband's demands are) are probably very real. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/15 02:58 PM |
| 83 | Polyamorous couple wants to have child. Wife thinks that his husband is too jealous because he cares about paternityPretty sure this is fake. She uses the term womyn non-ironically. While some people are known to do this, it's not particularly common, even among rabid SJWs. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/15 01:58 PM |
| 1 | What is the TRP view on masturbation?Masturbation is fine, as long as it doesn't prevent you from improving yourself. It's like any other thing you might want to do that aren't "productive" - watching tv, playing video games, even fucking, at a certain level. The problem is that a lot of guys use it to relieve themselves of any desire that they'd normally have, and make it so they don't want to improve. Don't be those guys. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/15 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Use hypergamous behaviours to reach the pinnacle of your career (an example)I mean what does it matter? You die either way, might as well die with the chance of being a winner. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Would it to hang out with a girl you cold approached as "friends" for the first time.Nowadays when people hang out, it's typically as "friends" with the implicit notion that there's a decent chance you'll escalate and do stuff. Go ahead and hang out with her as a new "friend" and just make sure you make a move/try to make a move at some point. Me and a girl got ice cream "as friends" the other day, and then I invite her back to my apartment for beer, and boom, an hour later I'm fucking her in my bed. Don't get hung up on titles - make things happen. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/15 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Stop lying to yourself and living in denial, you want that validation that comes from being a high SMV man.The secret is figuring out how to do things well that people hate doing. This is why knowing math frequently leads to high paying careers. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 01:14 PM |
| 20 | Dailymail article confirms the wall: Women over 40 who have become "celibate" because no man will commit to them: Of course its men's fault as the conclusion!The danger zone is assuredly earlier than the late 30s. The late 30s is on the Titanic, and there's only a couple of life boats left. Everyone with any sense got off the boat ages ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Ok seriously, how many of you guys actually live this stuffIn the four years since I discovered PUA and then TRP, I went from an orbiter to a girl that I had fucked a couple times that blew another guy in my face just to hurt me, working for a startup that was screwing me over at barely above minimum wage, to a guy that spins multiple plates, has been working on side businesses (and gotten my main career in order), saved up a bunch of money, and taught myself how to be an adept power lifter. I had no father, and no strong male roll models so all of my m… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 12:38 PM |
| 2 | The Men of Reddit(And America) are terrified to admit women have ruined their favorite activities.It was an interesting premise, but I really feel they could have done more with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/15 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Gaming a girl in an "open relationship"Logistics. Just invite her for drinks and to show her some cool thing. I invited a girl back to my house to show her my new squat rack the other day. Worked great. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/15 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Can anger phase be skipped?Sure. It's definitely possible. For example, I had done a lot of anger stage-ish stuff a couple years earlier when I discovered PUA, so when I discovered TRP, I was like "oh, my model needs to be updated", and it went pretty easily. It's just a heuristic to sorta show how a man unplugging might feel. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/15 01:02 AM |
| 1 | How far is it worth changing yourself?You're still faking it. It isn't about faking it. You naturally become the person that is attractive to women - you can be sweet to a girl, but you also need to have abundance and not take shit. Having an iron frame is about actually believing in yourself and your judgment over what random ideas other people might have. You have to want it enough - there's no one secret trick that will get you any woman you want with no effort. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 10:47 PM |
| 4 | Happy Accidents - how much does this actually happenAre you sure they're yours? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Mike Rowe Responds to the NYT Modern Man articleYou're being patronizing. I'm sure he knows what his own body feels like. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/15 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Can you commit violence ?Always look like you're prepared to act violently or have someone do it on your behalf. I have no intention of getting into a fight for a girl, but even I'll show off my ability to do violence on the off chance I ever had to. The other day, a plate accidentally left her door unlocked and got scared that someone had broken in (she lives in an insanely safe area). What do I do? I walk into her house with a god damned baseball bat, opening every closet, swinging it around. I checked the entire hous… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 04:42 PM |
| 7 | How fucked am I as an ugly dude?Ok, then just give up. You win, you're the ugliest human being that has ever lived, and you've got no chance to improve your SMV. Or you can work on self improvement, like he did, and become someone people want to fuck. Most people in the developed world don't make much money, and the vast majority (2/3) are fat. Fix that and you're already near the top. But this attitude you have? Where you're an absolute loser and have no chance to improve? You need to kill that first. That attitude will destr… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/15 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Groom calls off wedding last minute: Bride spends 35,000 wedding food on homeless people and takes honeymoon trip to Belize with motherSo you're saying if a guy has realized he's made a mistake he should just deal with it and walk into the fire? What utter bunk. What about his desires, his interests, his life? Is that not his? Is he not free to choose his own fate? He decided the marriage was a bad idea (which, all things being equal, it probably was), and decided to back out of it. Should he sacrifice his life so that his SO is happy? If so, why? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Erectile Dysfunction with platesTry to not be overthinking things when you have sex with them. But as I said, as you're working through it, sometimes it is going to happen, and laughing about it is honestly the best way I've seen to deal with it. Talking all night or being extra sweet makes it seem like something is wrong with you, and you never want to give off that impression. I'm not sure how to give you advice to deal with it - when it happens to me (and it happens often enough) I just laugh it off. I have never lost a pla… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/15 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Erectile Dysfunction with platesIt's usually just nerves/not being as into it. I've found that when you have sex often, it can get boring fast if you're less into the girl. When it happens, just laugh and be like "this is all you get today". If they're plates, does it really matter to you? I had great sex last week with a new girl, but found I just wasn't into it the next day with a plate I'd been seeing for two months. I fingered her for a bit, and we went out for something to eat. It's important to remember that while girls … | /r/askTRP | 18/10/15 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Attractive 45 yo female posts that she thinks men are feminized, shit storm ensuesWho is dead inside? Most of us are happier than ever. You're projecting what you think we all feel like. Why don't you join us and test for yourself? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/10/15 01:55 PM |
| 9 | “If he is not having sex with you, he is getting it from somewhere else” Tricks, Manipulations etc.. My weekend with 7 hot women.Starbucks is a fantastic place. Go to one near-ish a college campus, and you'll meet half a dozen cute girls in a few hours, all of them with their ASD turned off. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Attractive 45 yo female posts that she thinks men are feminized, shit storm ensuesIt's especially funny when they've drank the koolaid that they should try to lead too, but are clearly uncomfortable with it. They sit there sputtering, trying to make a decision for 10 minutes, and you're sitting there smirking, being like, "Are you ready to give up and let me decide?", and they don't want to, because it's a power play and you're demonstrating your power in comparison to theirs, if they give up. But ultimately they almost always have to give up. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 07:25 PM |
| 1 | There isn't many of them left, but if you get a chance speak to a WW2 vet.That warfare style reminds me of 1984. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 07:13 PM |
| 0 | Why do girls talk about nothing? This girl wants small talk all the time and I'm a deeper person than that.When I was still completely blue pilled, this was one of the first observations I made about women. Anything interesting they'd invariably tell me was something they'd heard from someone else, and it would come in a regurgitated form. No independent analysis or adding parts to their current philosophy. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 07:10 PM |
| 5 | Men don't take women on "dinner" dates because women don't want to go on them, and also unattractive people have different experiences than attractive ones... I'm honestly not into either of them. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Attractive 45 yo female posts that she thinks men are feminized, shit storm ensuesLet's be clear - when you know what you're doing, you do get laid. To a greater extent than normal men do as far as I can tell. It's why I feel pickup and TRP can be such a transformative experience for a man. I used to go months or years between sex and sex partners, and mostly ugly girls at that. Discover PUA. Four years later (and two years of TRP) I've got 3 girls, between 6-10 years younger than me fucking me. Who know and don't care about the others. That's fucking fantastic. It would have… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Man who found out his girlfriend gives happy ending massages decides to stay with her.You basically put the option of, "maybe I just suck" on the table. Not getting dates? Girls not texting you back? You ask questions like "How is that my fault and what can I do to fix it?" A guy that had an ego might be like "those fucking bitches, girls can't see what a great guy I am!" A guy without an ego might say "wow, if I can't get a date, I must suck in some important way. How can I figure that out and fix it?" Think of it as taking responsibility for your life and your situation. The th… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Man who found out his girlfriend gives happy ending massages decides to stay with her.I agree, you're never going to say "ok today is the day my ego is dead, I'm free from now on" (in fact that'd be the exact opposite of what you want to do). It's just knowing your weaknesses and killing the unwillingness to not view yourself as perfect - every day. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Man who found out his girlfriend gives happy ending massages decides to stay with her.He has to manage his own house. She's doing her job well, he's not doing his well. He's even been linked here and won't listen. That's on him. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Man who found out his girlfriend gives happy ending massages decides to stay with her.The thing is, they do want equality (or in some cases superiority). They'll even get angry when it is denied to them in a relationship (like a toddler not getting what it wants). The problem is that giving them equality will immediately turn them off. If you give her thinking the same credence you give yours, she will (rightly) look at you as less of a man. At the end of the day, you're the decider, you're the decision maker, and you're the one in charge of your time. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Man who found out his girlfriend gives happy ending massages decides to stay with her.Killing your ego really is the first and best step. Once you've killed that, self improvement is easy. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 02:05 PM |
| 2 | So, why don't we get some actual statistics?We already have vanguard, endorsed, etc to determine who isn't absolutely full of bullshit (and sometimes even we are - I'm not perfect and nobody else who has a title next to their name is either). Other than that, read and apply. If someone is giving you advice, self reported stats aren't going to tell you shit. You have to look at how the advice works for your life. If you don't know yet, you need to go out and get more experience. Experience is what sets masturbators apart from guys who know… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Am I Crazy, or Is there an Epidemic of limiting beliefs here?I know what I said. I'm 5'7 or 5'8 (in a socioeconomic wealthy area, so average height is well above the norm here - probably 5'10 to 6' average) and I have two pretty cute plates, and I've fucked hotter before. I've also out-competed taller men (sometimes significantly taller). As far as I can tell, attitude seems to be able to cancel out a lot of the difficulties that height gives you. Lifting certainly would. Height really is not nearly as much as a detriment as I've seen men make it out to b… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/15 07:37 PM |
| 18 | Woman sleeps with homeless man.I've fucked women while living in my car. Possessions don't matter as much as a DGAF attitude. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Feminist hypocrisy in action (in college class)A plate was reading some gender thing in one of her assigned readings for class. She wanted to talk to me about it because she feels I'm sexist and thought it would enlighten me. She's mildly feminist, but Chinese so she has a lot of feminine characteristics still. She proceeds to try to use logic on me to convince me that women are oppressed and men should do something about it, etc, etc. I keep disagreeing with her, as she keeps pestering me about it. Finally she says something along the lines… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Am I Crazy, or Is there an Epidemic of limiting beliefs here?I'd say you have to be in the top 30-50% to get a decent amount of attention. The thing is, if you're not fat, you're already in this number. Just exude the right attitude (confidence with your status in the top portion of men - I.e don't be thirsty), and everything flows fairly naturally. Earn a decent income or lift for a few (3-6) months and you're well above the curve. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/15 04:17 PM |
| 3 | How will things change once The Wall stops existing (or moves way into the 60-70s)?Won't be tens of thousands, at least not in the long term. Like every technology, the price will come down. The only difference is if it is extremely labor intensive, which it almost certainly won't be. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 01:12 PM |
| 105 | "If you want to get laid you will do this for me..."My main plate constantly tries to say things like, "I will be too busy to see you tomorrow, you should come see me tonight". I tell her no, and do whatever I want, and tell her I'm busy. Sure enough, the next night, she is miraculously free. One time she asked me to see her before she went to another city about five hours away by train. I told her I was busy that night. She then missed her train trip (with her friends), and bought another ticket for later that evening to catch up with them, just… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Community Support Program For Alpha Widows Wants Funding From Google.They have time to forget what a piece of shit boyfriend he was No, I don't think that's what is going on here at all. They admire their unbridled masculinity and don't give a fuck attitudes. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 03:53 AM |
| 9 | Reply [Fraternity]The way to do it is just to start a men's organization I think, with vaguely Redpill leanings. I don't know that a Redpill branded org is the best way to go about it - I think men are unplugging to a greater extent (hell, on my way to lunch, a guy randomly started talking to me about how marriage is a sham and nobody should get married), but it's still early. If we want to look at feminism as an analogy, we're still in the consciousness raising phase. We're not really in a, "take political actio… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 03:34 AM |
| 2 | I feel like vomiting.I remember the one time I was desperate enough to fuck a very, very fat girl. She was disgusting, her stomach popped up above her belt, she was older and I needed like four drinks to even think of fucking her. She made this weird sound and wiggled her fat as I fucked her - I imagine it's like what fucking a pig that decided to fuck an octopus would sound/look like. But you know what? After I got over the initial disgust, I said to myself, "Well, at least you can still get laid by SOMEONE", picke… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Questioning TRP anti-marriage philosophyThe simple question you have to ask yourself is - what does getting married do for you that not getting married doesn't already do for you? Can you have kids without marriage? Yes you can. Can you have a lifelong relationship with a woman without marriage? Yes you can. Can you have sex with a woman without marriage? Yes you can. What possible benefit does a marriage do for you? A slight benefit on taxes if she makes a lot less than you? A slightly more positive view on you if you're trying to jo… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Telling a girl about criminal past.This really won't be a big issue. When I was younger I was charged with a misdemeanor (drunk in public). I technically got it diverted and kept off my record, but had to do probation. The times I've mentioned it, girls have just been like "huh, interesting". It just adds character to you. As long as there are no permanent consequences and you act like it is no big deal (which it isn't), nobody will care - girls or otherwise. People do stupid shit when they're young. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/15 04:12 PM |
| 10 | 16-year-old grandson of a billionaire picks up women right in front of their boyfriends.Clooney probably married for political ambition. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Sluts are unattractive.If men are only interested in fucking you, either lower your standards or increase your value. You're not worth what you think you are if all you can get is sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 08:14 PM |
| 1 | 4chan have tricked feminists to #pissforequalityNot incorrect. Averaged over the entire country (not just a poor rural area and a poor urban area), blacks that have family structure and socioeconomic status controlled for do not commit crimes at a rate significantly higher than whites. You can't just say "look at these two regions - one is mostly white and the other is mostly black. That settles it!" That's not how statistics works. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 04:45 PM |
| 2 | How over-weight women, and baby-mamas artificial increase the SMV of "good-looking" womenI've found that the attitude that you are better than most men is easier to hold when you are, in fact, better than most men. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 12:08 PM |
| 5 | How over-weight women, and baby-mamas artificial increase the SMV of "good-looking" womenCorrect and I should have specified it was meant more as an "inner game" type thing to realize your own value - not something to brag to girls about or stop improving after. If you want casual sex, your attitude or your physique or preferably both have to improve too. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Ohio senator Nina Turner wants to put a bunch of hurdles in front of men who want ED meds so she can make a statement about women's reproductive healthWhen I lied to get Viagra they made me do a cardiac test, and I was in my mid 20s. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 11:41 PM |
| 23 | The "Big Lie" is love: a copy/paste of kryptokate's amazing post.I read about a third of the way in. This girl is trash. Don't pay her any heed. She's hamstering like crazy about how she dumps every guy, but stays with less attractive guys longer. Translation from hamster: I get dumped by better guys, but tend to stay with loser guys longer, because they would never dump me. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 11:13 PM |
| 1 | The Triggerpocolypse!People will monetize everything. You're going to have some people with experience here out of the goodness of their hearts, but at the end of the day, bills need to be paid, and experience is in demand. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 11:09 PM |
| 5 | How over-weight women, and baby-mamas artificial increase the SMV of "good-looking" womenWhich really makes being top 20% as a Redpill guy fairly easy. You just have to be better than other men in a couple of metrics and you're in the top 20-30%. Make more than medium income and you're not fat? Congratulations. You're in the top 20%. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Short guys, do you even go for tall girls?In my experience as a short guy, it's easier to date shorter girls (< 5'4") or very tall (> 5'8"). Some people will tell you height is an immediate disqualifier, but I haven't ever experienced that. The big thing you need to make up the difference with is an iron frame and a belief that you are higher status/not afraid of taller guys. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/15 10:51 PM |
| 4 | How do I stop regretting my first kiss?This is a great first kiss story. You sat down, sacked up, and asked a girl to kiss you. Romance is overrated. There's no magical "moment" that happens, where the stars align and trumpets play. Just the stories you make yourself. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/15 10:37 PM |
| 10 | Blue Pill Fallout: Mass MurderersCocaine is banned? Damn it. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 08:27 PM |
| 17 | Blue Pill Fallout: Mass MurderersHaving had to live in a tiny shithole (literally, there was dog and cat shit on the floor) with my incompetent single mom growing up makes me understand these sorts of situations. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 08:26 PM |
| 2 | 4chan have tricked feminists to #pissforequalityOh I agree entirely. Facts are facts. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 08:00 PM |
| 2 | 4chan have tricked feminists to #pissforequalityImprobable. We've had a high degree of genes spread around throughout the past several centuries, so the white and black populations of the U.S. are not identical genetically but very, very similar. Not to mention the fact that it seems that when you remove bad family and poor environment, you get rid of the higher crime rates. If it were genetic, you'd still see a much higher crime rate even in those populations. As for blacks elsewhere in the world, they're the most diverse group genetically, … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 07:53 PM |
| 1 | 4chan have tricked feminists to #pissforequalityMy point was that it's due to culture/economics, not biology. My point still stands. Why would blame even enter into this conversation? Who cares about "blame"? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 07:27 PM |
| 1 | 4chan have tricked feminists to #pissforequalityYes, and controlled for environment and income level, that disparity disappears. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 06:58 PM |
| 1 | 4chan have tricked feminists to #pissforequalityIf you want to ignore data, feel free to do so. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 06:38 PM |
| 0 | 4chan have tricked feminists to #pissforequality... You look at blacks that come from homes with fathers with average or above average incomes, and check their crime rates. It isn't like there are zero. Over the entire United States, there are millions of families that meet that criteria. Controlling for variables is a major part of statistics. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 05:02 PM |
| 19 | Bachelor Nation: 70% of Men Aged 20-34 Are Not MarriedEveryone, until the last generation or two. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 04:59 PM |
| 3 | 4chan have tricked feminists to #pissforequalityThat seems to be an environmental thing though. When family structure and income are taken into account, crime rates are virtually the same. It's a cultural/economic problem, not a biological one. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 04:43 PM |
| 4 | Women Have Dating/Sex Problems Too. They're Just Not YOUR Problems.I've done Starbucks, but this sounds like a great place to meet productivity-minded women too. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/15 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Effects of TRP and Game in China.My main plate is native Chinese. She asked several questions about me early on. Hookup was very efficient. You meet the criteria (and as a white guy, this is very easy), you get the girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/15 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Just observed a metric fuck ton of RP truths in the past 24 hours. There's no way I can ever turn back now. This is the way things areIt always annoys me how I get down voted when providing science-based information on STDs. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/15 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Just observed a metric fuck ton of RP truths in the past 24 hours. There's no way I can ever turn back now. This is the way things areNo, I don't think most girls (or guys) lie about herpes. Most STD tests don't test for it, and most people have it. We've all essentially agreed as a society to not care about it. It's just a word to slut shame other girls usually. As for lying, I'm not specifically advocating for it, but if you're going to do it, own it. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/15 04:53 AM |
| 11 | Can you guys help me understand what the robots on r9k want from society?These men are not given roles or ideals that will lead to happiness. Not getting laid is ultimately their fault, but they're not given instructive lessons, so there is some shared culpability. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/15 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Just observed a metric fuck ton of RP truths in the past 24 hours. There's no way I can ever turn back now. This is the way things areI never said you couldn't do that. But each man needs to determine his optimal strategy. Lying has certain drawbacks. Telling the truth in that situation has certain drawbacks. And a lot is dependent on age and the girl. If you're 35 and going after a 26 year old that you just want for casual sex, lying is probably better. If you are 19 and you're going after an 18 year old, telling the truth is probably better. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/15 04:27 PM |
| 8 | Just observed a metric fuck ton of RP truths in the past 24 hours. There's no way I can ever turn back now. This is the way things areFirst off, why do you care if you get caught in a web of lies? You did lie. Own it. Shrug your shoulders, smirk, and walk off into the sunset. Not lying is usually better than lying, but if you're lying to get laid, and you get caught, own it, and laugh at yourself. After all, what do you care? There are always other girls. If you're sufficiently non-apologetic you might even keep the girl interested in you. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/15 12:37 PM |
| 76 | Just observed a metric fuck ton of RP truths in the past 24 hours. There's no way I can ever turn back now. This is the way things areThis. I literally walked out of an event and walked home when a plate did something I didn't like the other day. She immediately calls me twice and then came over and gave me a blowjob like her life depended on it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/15 12:32 PM |
| 2 | The Oregon shooting, beta males, and CNN.But historically, men who did so might pass on their genes to the next generation. So to men with a certain level of desperation, it seems reasonable. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/15 12:26 PM |
| 7 | Should i fuck a 5/10 to get rid of my virginity?First off, make your own damn decisions. Second off, yes, fuck her. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/15 01:01 AM |
| 2 | If you're about to post about "this one girl", you must answer this question in your post:That's the point. If you're working on fucking other girls, you aren't going to invest the time to care about one random one. It isn't some sort of punch coupon. "I got my fucked ten other girls card all filled out, now I can oneitis and orbit again, YAY!!!" | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with sadness: we have been being conditioned to long and suffer for her when we're sadI hated this movie. The only nice thing about it was it got the new girl I was watching it with in the mood to fuck. The climbing scene at the beginning was pretty ballsy. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/15 04:50 PM |
| 6 | Losing respect for accomplished actors and professionals when they echo feminist beliefs?I know someone who knows him personally, and this is absolutely accurate. He's in it for the money. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/15 10:47 PM |
| 33 | Losing respect for accomplished actors and professionals when they echo feminist beliefs?If anyone asks, I'm an ardent feminist, full supporter of equal rights and responsibilities. Why don't you know women have been oppressed for centuries? Thankfully we're moving past all that. /s Plenty of people say bullshit they don't believe because they know that if they don't, it's their ass on the line. I'm a white collar professional in a northern, liberal university town. If I'm not willing to speak up, why would a celebrity, who has much more to lose, say what they're thinking? You don't… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/15 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Two months ago I would have thought he was disrespectful...Again, he's probably joking (I say similar things to girls all the time - whenever a plate would be difficult with something I wanted to do, I'd tell her "good bye forever"). And even if it isn't, who cares? He wants the subscription paid for, it was paid for. If the relationship was worth gambling to get a subscription in his eyes, who am I to judge? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/15 02:52 PM |
| 1 | [Career] Tips from an Attorney about starting your own businessJust file your own LLC. Articles of Organization are piss easy to draw up. It's literally one sheet of paper. Look up best practices for it (I.e. Write "all lawful activity" when asked why you are incorporating). Anything else, get an actual lawyer for. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/15 06:53 AM |
| 2 | How to react to plate disrespect.Just get quieter, don't be angry. Soft next her. If she tries to recover it, its on her to do it. Both of my plates (1 month and 3 months respectively) annoyed me in the past two weeks. I got quieter with one, openly walked out on another one. They both tried their best to make it up to me. One bought me dinner and drinks, the other came over immediately after the incident and sucked my dick. You can't tolerate disrespect, but you can let a plate make it up to you for showing you disrespect. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/15 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Helen Mirren is "disgusted" by sculpted leading male bodies in Hollywood.I only was about intermediate experience before I injured myself, so I'm not sure how volume scales. That would surprise me a little though. Are you supposed to use more reps per set or more sets when you're more experienced? I wasn't aware of that. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/15 03:34 AM |
| 6 | Helen Mirren is "disgusted" by sculpted leading male bodies in Hollywood.Two hours even seems high to me. You can get two solid 5x5 sets (different exercises obviously) in in less than an hour. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/15 10:59 PM |
| 8 | Helen Mirren is "disgusted" by sculpted leading male bodies in Hollywood.Your gain(s), their loss? People won't use plenty of tools that are useful because they are afraid of risk or have some odd moral argument against them. I've literally met men who have a moral repugnance towards lifting. Ridiculous. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/15 10:58 PM |
| 4 | Two months ago I would have thought he was disrespectful...Telling a girl you're going to leave her if she doesn't do X isn't abusive. You're allowed to set the terms of your commitment at whatever price you want. She's allowed to decide to pay it or not. Plus he was probably joking with her anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/15 07:25 PM |
| 0 | Two months ago I would have thought he was disrespectful...Exactly. It makes her hamster spin. She knows you're probably joking, but remember, if she's attracted to you, you're probably at least somewhat unpredictable to her. That means this could be that 1/100 time you aren't kidding. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/15 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Two months ago I would have thought he was disrespectful...I put one of my plates on a backburner because she did something I strongly didn't approve of. She noticed and took me out to a nice dinner to try to get back in my good graces. I don't recommend abusing your girls (though your strategy is ultimately up to you), but there's no shame in getting resources from a woman, if anything, psychology indicates it'll make her more into you. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/15 06:08 PM |
| 0 | "Did you come here alone?" How to deal with this shit test?"Ok.", while staring flat at her. Maybe shrug your shoulders. Change subject (without appearing to be uncomfortable with her statement, just own whatever she said about you and give off a vibe that you just don't care). | /r/askTRP | 28/09/15 04:10 AM |
| 2 | [Career] Tips from an Attorney about starting your own businessIt takes long-term planning and failing a lot, as far as I can tell. It's like getting better at any skill. You want to get better at writing code, drawing art, talking to girls, or starting a business? Ok, go do those things! You're going to fuck up, a lot. That's how it works. If you're afraid of failure, you won't accomplish anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/15 04:28 PM |
| 1 | [Career] Tips from an Attorney about starting your own businessNo, I'm assuming costs in that, which is why I said over a couple years. Perhaps 3 or 4 would have been better. 3000 customers at $30/month is about a million a year. Even taking half out for taxes, if you can build and upgrade a product yourself, or use cheaper labor to do it, you're going to to still earn well, well above the average U.S. Income. Not to mention you can sell a business like that for a multiple of what it earns per year. I'm not saying getting 3,000 customers is easy, mind you, … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/15 04:23 PM |
| 17 | [Career] Tips from an Attorney about starting your own businessThe data on this is actually far more favorable than it is made out to be, from what I remember (it's been a while since I researched, so take it with a grain of salt). It's something like 30% exist after 5 years, and that doesn't account for all of the "positive" ways they might cease to exist - being purchased, ended because the person got bored with their hobby business, etc, etc. If your goal is billion dollar tech start-up, then sure, that's a very difficult to achieve goal, and you're unli… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/15 12:14 AM |
| 4 | UN report, This is how they will try to muzzle these type of forums.Does being on the list of evil people of Reddit count? Because in that case, I am a survivor. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/15 06:25 PM |
| 5 | Vitamin D/Zinc - It worksPiracetam is pretty useful. I used it for several years, and did quasi-experimental dosing on colleagues (with permission of course). Seemed to be more effective in older populations, and less effective with higher body weight. The powder (which tastes terrible, but you get used to the taste), seemed more effective than the gelcaps. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/15 01:10 PM |
| 6 | Entitled Girl: Being Pretty Makes Me a Victim!All I read here is, "I'm so sexy and interesting and amazing and did I mention sexy? Like really really sexy?" It's just a way for her to tell the world how amazing she is (in her own head). | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/15 10:16 AM |
| 4 | Agree & Amplify Theory: Applying True Confidence to GameGo out more. Flirt with girls. No book whatsoever will truly replace good field experience. You can read books on military tactics all day, but it doesn't make you a general. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/15 10:11 AM |
| 1 | "13 Men Reveal Their Thoughts About Marrying Their Long-term Girlfriends." Buckle up.I don't think you're entirely understanding. Promised commitment does not matter. Even if she was absolutely in love with you when she got married, all it takes is you getting weak or her seeming to have better options and she could destroy you. A marriage vow is more likely to make the relationship implode because she has direct power over you and your finances. The more power she has in relation to you, the less respect she has for you. If you want a stable relationship for children, do not ge… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/15 10:46 PM |
| 2 | "13 Men Reveal Their Thoughts About Marrying Their Long-term Girlfriends." Buckle up.How is giving up your ability to walk away and opening yourself up to financial ruin the best way to do something? This sounds like hamstering. Marriage does not turn a girl into a unicorn, it just gives her teeth to rip you apart. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/15 07:49 PM |
| 8 | "13 Men Reveal Their Thoughts About Marrying Their Long-term Girlfriends." Buckle up.Why does "not into casual relationships or sex" equal you must get married? That's a terrible jump to make. Girls want to fall into your frame. If you're sufficiently good with them, and you don't want to get married, you're going to find a "quality" (however you define that) girl to stay with you and even have kids. From my perspective of the SMP and your competition, it probably wouldn't even be that hard to find. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/15 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Retraining in Software Engineering at 30?I retrained myself as a software developer after I realized that automation was where the jobs were all going, started about 4-5 years ago. I'd say with this level of experience but no formal (comp sci, I do have a BA) education, I'm competent, but not a full-fledged expert. I'm currently paid $50,000 a year and can reasonably expect my next job to pay somewhere between 80k to 120k depending on region. If you bust your ass, you could probably get to this point in 3 years, I took it slow at point… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/15 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Enjoying hate phase top much and feel views are to extreme for trp. Any subs for someone like me?Well, realize they treated you like dirt because that's the value you had/exuded to them. You only get what you earn. Be angry all you want, lift weights, get in a fight if you want. You've been lied to - now live your life according to the truth. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/15 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Can you LTR a Tinder girl ever?Well first ask yourself why you want an LTR. It sounds like you feel the energy invested into an LTR will be lower than into a few plates. I'm not sure I agree with that. Sure, at first that's likely to be the case, but as time gets on she's going to try to increase your investment in her. Not to mention her investment will be less after she feels she has you locked down. What's your plan for the relationship? Temporary right? As for whether a Tinder girl is fine for it - depends on the girl and… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/15 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Aspiring writer? Content producer? Really clever twitterer?I have a small news site with several content writers. I've had them write TRP related content before. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/15 07:16 PM |
| 29 | Will and Jada-Pinkett Smith -- the one of the best examples of a redpill marriage in Hollywood.As far as I can tell, the more status you have in relation to the woman you're with, the more tolerant she is going to be of you sleeping around. This has been my experience at least. Once a girl knows you can fuck other women, and you like to do so, and any commitment from you is going to be contingent on that point, they're typically open to you fucking around. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/15 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Cut Video Games out of your Life. As Soon As Possible.I can't remember what game a friend of mine mentioned to me the other day, but he was very excited about something you could do in it. And I just responded with, "but I can do that in real life, why do I need to do it in a game?" | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy and cheating are awesome.The cold harsh truth of TRP. If you cannot get laid, you do not deserve to get laid. That doesn't mean that you are hopeless - the world isn't static and your own efforts can change that situation. But at the end of the day, you only deserve to get laid if you can make it happen, no more and no less. Blame yourself first. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 03:38 PM |
| 12 | Hypergamy in medical schoolWhen I dated a surgeon, she went on about how men all wanted to date nurses. She was very bitter and upset about it | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Dating/Relationship Closure and "The Vanishing" [The Private Man]It likely came off as butthurt. The medium is the message. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/15 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Rant: Why the fuck do women hate the redpill so much?They can't all be that insecure.Because men are angry. Look at the stages of the Redpill. You're not supposed to stay angry. I certainly am not angry and do not hate women, and I suspect most of the seasoned guys here don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/15 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Rant: Why the fuck do women hate the redpill so much?They can't all be that insecure.No, Elliott Rodgers was crazy and narcissistic, and the exact opposite of TRP. The main message of TRP is "there is hope. Get on your shit. Women aren't the perfect princesses you think they are, and you aren't guaranteed love, but hey at the end of the day, if you rock, you'll find plenty of girls like you." Elliott Rodgers believed he was being slighted by all women as part of some conspiracy against him, even though he was rich, and that he was damned forever by his genetics. TRP actively wan… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/15 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Buddy moves into house he built, invites me to spend the evening with his family.Oh I'm not giving this as general advice for men - I'm saying it is within my risk tolerance level. That being said I feel the risk of a non-BPD girl in her early 20s from a decent family in a decent college program is relatively low. But buyer beware of course. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/15 12:54 PM |
| 6 | Buddy moves into house he built, invites me to spend the evening with his family.I mean I generally positively reinforce when they take the pill in front of me, "awwwww, it's so cute when you take your pill. (In a more commmanding voice) keep doing that." And similar read-between-the-lines messages, but at the end of the day it's about vetting the girl to tell if pregnancy is in her best interests and whether she might ever get the crazy idea that it is. That's why I go for under 27 year old college girls from at least middle or upper middle class backgrounds. That demo has … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/15 12:51 PM |
| 6 | Buddy moves into house he built, invites me to spend the evening with his family.No, I vet girls for willingness to abort/dislike of having babies and more than just asking them about it, but also gauging their reaction to babies in general, etc. Plus I stick to pre-epiphany phase (under 27) aged girls. Only have unprotected sex with girls that are on some form of BC and who I believe have no interest in babies. It has worked out well so far. Is it a risk? Sure, but I feel the risk is fairly low given how strict I am. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/15 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Rant: Why the fuck do women hate the redpill so much?They can't all be that insecure.Why are you assuming these men are nice "as an act" - being nice and kindly to someone because you like them isn't some sort of evil subterfuge. And nobody here is necessarily advocating treating women here "like shit", we're advocating treating them as second class to whatever your mission in life is, and that's an incredibly healthy attitude. Women do not want to be your #1 priority, no matter what they say. You seem to think we're advocating for men to be fake caricatures of douchebros. We ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/15 06:24 AM |
| 12 | Buddy moves into house he built, invites me to spend the evening with his family.She's had one kid at least, that in my mind says she's at a high risk of pregnancy in the future. Plus time investment in a kid. Ick. Nope, I avoid it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/15 06:00 AM |
| 63 | As you hit 30, you really start to understand the true meaning of 'the wall'.As a 30 year old, I can confirm. While most girls are still somewhat attractive at my age, it's definitely fading year by year. It's smart both logistically (less chance of babies you don't want) and sexually to just date younger than 27. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/15 12:25 AM |
| 4 | Girl doesn't have many friends and has an aversion to friends that are girls? I read some where on rp that girls with alot of guys friends is a red flag, but refresh me on girls and their friends dynamic...I've actually been surprised at how humble some of the hotter girls I've come across have been (an NFL cheerleader, and a former Miss <state> respectively were some of the nicer people I've met) | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Beginning to hate womenJust be careful, girls between 27 and 34 are high risk of pregnancy. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Beginning to hate womenProvider traits aren't worried about as much anymore because no woman is going to starve to death. Especially when she's young and pretty. And they have pretty much complete control over when and where they get pregnant, and when they do, you are obligated (by threat of being locked in a cage) to pay for the child anyway, regardless of if the mother has any association with you at all. So dominance, respecting yourself, being physically good looking and being on your shit - some of the only real… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 09:43 PM |
| 69 | Serious question : end game of a trperYou're going to have to figure out what fulfills you at that age. Nobody can tell you what you're going to want to do. That's the real truth of TRP - there's no adult to guide you, nobody can tell you how to live your life better than you. You ARE the adult. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 02:44 PM |
| 54 | Serious question : end game of a trperWhat do you want to do? Do that. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 01:48 PM |
| 7 | Behold the mythical female compassion in actionIt's a weakness that makes them predictable. That predictableness gives you power. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 01:45 PM |
| 1 | What is the RP endorsed way to have a family?One of my plates is native Chinese. There are some ways she's more domestic than an American girl (she cooked for me on our first meeting, makes me tea, etc etc), but there's a lot of the "women are equal to men!" that I can see too. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/15 11:42 AM |
| 1 | What is the RP endorsed way to have a family?You're getting into the girl's frame here, suggesting you have to give up your ultimate commitment (a bad idea) to earn her loyalty/willingness to stay around for kids. Most women are not going to drop a relationship with a man they respect for a piece of paper. And if they are? If they essentially demand the right to divorce rape you? How is that in any way quality? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/15 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Beta loser encourages the collective cuckolding of responsible, productive Beta males by irresponsible, bad-boy Alphas and stupid women who can't stop having babies they can't supportYep, it's weird realizing you're one of the only adults. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/15 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Why your friends and family don't want you to learn gameThis has been precisely my experience. Very few friends like it as you improve yourself. You'll either get "you don't need to do that", or obvious jealousy. I have a friend who is constantly calling me selfish because I don't have a fat post wall girlfriend like he does (a major time sink supposedly) and instead use my time to improve myself and sleep with whomever I want. Haters gonna hate. Earn money, lift weights, fuck cute girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/15 06:38 PM |
| 1 | HTML/CSS Designers wanted- Apply withinMostly a backend developer but I have done a fair share of front end stuff too. Let me know what you need. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/15 06:32 PM |
| 6 | Woman accuses bar employee of raping her. Video shows them dancing and going to the bathroom together. Video also shows her smiling with friends after the 'attack'.If you've had more than 5-10 partners, you almost certainly have it, and the girls you're sleeping with do too. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/15 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Today I saved a life.Upvoting this. I learned this years ago, and have tested it and designating someone is definitely the best way to get something done, otherwise nobody wants to take responsibility. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/15 12:39 PM |
| 10 | Man wonders why his 'experienced', 32 year old wife, won't perform sexually like she did with previous boyfriends.Now why not dump her, and do better? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/15 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Single mothers are delinquent subhuman scum who you should avoid at all costs.I believe Islam allowed two women to act as a credible witness equivalent to one man. That seems like a reasonable ratio to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 01:49 PM |
| 1 | A Mother's Love Is Selfish [Man Without Father]I was raised fatherless. Not as in my parents were divorced and I didn't really get to see my father - as in I have never met the man who contributed to half my DNA, ever. As far as I know, that man is now dead. My mother was an absolute shitshow of a human being - couldn't keep a job (she once quit her job, our only source of money because I was sad she was going to miss my birthday for work), couldn't lock down a proper BB (a mostly jobless drug addict), kept getting evicted, quasi-homeless (l… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 01:39 PM |
| 1 | A Mother's Love Is Selfish [Man Without Father]This is pretty much what my grandmother did to my uncle. It's sad to see. He lives in a house he purchased next to her, can't date a woman to save his life (he's been orbiting some redneck hamplanet for 15 years) and has no children of his own (besides a small dog). But he assuredly takes care of mommy every moment she needs it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/15 12:59 PM |
| 7 | **The State of 20 Something Women**Except you're not even you at that point. No memories, nothing that makes you you. I'm not saying kill the children of unfit mothers who survive to adulthood, I'm saying why force them to live through suffering when you can end it before awareness? You're conflating adult me with fetus me. And I'm a rare exception - only about 4% of people born at my level of poverty succeed (make it to middle class or better) at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 10:02 PM |
| 0 | **The State of 20 Something Women**Starbucks in an area with a college is golden. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 08:19 PM |
| 9 | **The State of 20 Something Women**I had an unfit mother, and I will absolutely say I probably should have been aborted. The first twenty years of my life (so probably about a quarter of it), were basically torture - homelessness, poverty and hunger, abuse and beatings, and only with a great deal of effort and a great deal of ambition have I been able to get beyond that. Abortion is mercy killing. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 08:15 PM |
| 1 | The Daily Beast confirms what we've known would happen all along.Oh automation will probably be a net benefit. Traditional breadwinning will almost certainly not be a thing anymore. This is already happening with blue collar labor/factory jobs which have either become automated or offshored. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 06:50 PM |
| 1 | The Daily Beast confirms what we've known would happen all along.First off, we've only been automating for about 250 years, a tiny fraction of human existence, so it's not like you're going to be able to make any general rule from what is a very, very new process. Second, there were always things that humans could do that machines could not. That era is coming to a close. That's why it is different. Eventually we will be able to produce human-like (both in locomotion/spatial manipulation as well as intelligence) robots for cheaper than we can produce a human.… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 06:47 PM |
| 22 | The rage at TRP on the rest of redditThat hobby is called "lifting" | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Solipsism - Part 2I think I've had a nearly identical discussion with a plate in the last week. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 04:54 PM |
| 2 | A Note to all EC's, Senior EC's, Vanguards and Mods.It's not probable but it is possible. You piss off some SJW with a comment and suddenly they're searching for how to Doxx you. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 03:37 AM |
| 5 | The Daily Beast confirms what we've known would happen all along.Honestly I'd argue that after a few years of it, it becomes a natural ingrained part of your personality - arguably more natural than a push up bra. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 02:09 AM |
| 11 | The Daily Beast confirms what we've known would happen all along.Most work is done by machines and that is only going to massively increase in the next 50 years. There really isn't going to be nearly as much need for productive people. Our machines are starting to be able to think like us, and move like us. It's not like ever before. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 12:07 AM |
| 1 | The red pill works and I'm disgusted.I actually see it as useful on multiple levels as it is, but it does seem to lead to confusion. It's good as a literal warning to newbies, because they've probably spent a lot of their time being trained in how women can do no wrong. But if they're doing their homework and improving it'll quickly become clear they're supposed to read between the lines on it. I'm not sure if the confusion is worth the lesson though. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 09:08 PM |
| 1 | The red pill works and I'm disgusted.It's meant to be a mental heuristic, for men who have been raised in a culture which is very pro-woman. It's also an exercise in reading between the lines - an essential skill in a fully fledged man who wants to be successful. I feel the initial message is fine for anger stage men (erring on the side of distrusting women is probably better in the short term) and you should be able to parse the actual intended message if you're reading about PowerTalk and such, which is all sidebar stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 09:04 PM |
| 19 | The red pill works and I'm disgusted.AWALT is a risk mitigation term, not a literal statement of fact. The lesson to get from AWALT isn't that women will encourage you to suicide, but that they will throw you under a bus or manipulate you if they perceive that it is in their best interests. That being said they're still human, and most of them aren't going to be absolute monsters. A girl might want to see a guy she was dating hurt and emotionally destroyed, but she usually won't want him literally dead. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 04:16 AM |
| 15 | Skeptical About TRP Theory? Try it on Your Ex-GF. (Step-by-Step Guide to be her Chad)This is all gold. I have to say, I have seen this played out from my exes several times. Hell, pre-PUA (when I wasn't abundant), I made a script like this for myself to try to get an ex back. It's almost funny how predictable it all is. Also, I'm glad to see other people use the, "fill every surface" trick. I've done this for years and it works great. My only issue with this is - is it a good idea to encourage guys to go back and fuck their ex? I fear that without true abundance all it will be e… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/15 02:13 AM |
| 9 | If you don't think feminism is brainwashing young people, you're wrong.So your first marriage was a failure? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/15 01:57 AM |
| 5 | Pregnant woman demands her husband get her olives even though he worked all day and the store is a 40 minute drive. Guess who r/hamsters sides with?But, for the grace of God, go I. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/15 01:46 AM |
| 3 | Service men beware. Women will use the system against you.If you can't understand the difference of the law as written vs the application of that law in practice, well, that's not our problem. It's usually touched on in advanced civics or government classes. I recommend taking one. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/15 10:23 PM |
| 9 | Service men beware. Women will use the system against you.I think a large part of is that it's just damn infeasible to invade across gigantic oceans. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/15 10:15 PM |
| 2 | A reminder: Never lose sight of how lucky you areLook up the term "hedonistic treadmill". | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/15 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Expat business man is utterly destroyed and drained out of his entire life savings by a sweet feminine thai woman.32? 32? He gives up at 32? I'm 30 and the very idea offends me. There are girls everywhere. He could be fucking an 18 year old or a 22 year old without any problems. Especially if he has money. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/15 10:49 PM |
| 8 | "Hit It And Quit It On Tinder" [The Other McCain/Dalrock]This. I met up with a Chinese girl off Tinder last night, and made a joke that she would become a Sheng Nu (left over woman, basically a Chinese word for spinster). Her response? "I don't care if I become a sheng nu, I'm going to just do my life and have fun doing it". Even though during the evening she mentions she wants to get married "eventually". (I can't remember if that was before or after we had sex). Then of course she tries to put on the notebook, because when they say they want casual … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/15 04:37 PM |
| 16 | Woman gets engaged to 'perfect guy'. Then messages an 'old crush' to 'meet up for coffee'.My plate texted me today, and said "do I want pasta or Mediterranean". I told her Mediterranean (arguably lower calories, though I suspect maybe I should have been more specific because it looked like she had high calorie items) I literally told a legal adult what to eat, and without question, she just did it. I've known how this stuff works for years now and it'll never stop blowing my mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 10:53 PM |
| 8 | Woman gets engaged to 'perfect guy'. Then messages an 'old crush' to 'meet up for coffee'.One of my former plates told me (and it could be an example of a girl trying to save face, but she was pretty RP and didn't hamster too much unless upset) that in the moment, the girl says that and absolutely completely believes it in her heart of hearts. It's just that, you know, her heart of hearts can change in a split second. She then went on to say that typically after a while women recognize this and don't put themselves in compromising situations where they might accidentally lose control… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 10:46 PM |
| 48 | Single mothers are delinquent subhuman scum who you should avoid at all costs.I was raised without ever knowing my father, a perpetual toy held by a mentally ill single mother (Is there any other kind?), who continually got evicted from homes, remarried a massive drug addict, and always lived in constant filth. Almost the day I turned 18, I left and have spent the past ten years remaking myself into a man. Having lived in that sort of life, I can't see any positives for letting single mothers have children. It's damaging and they're frequently narcissistic alpha widows. T… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 10:32 PM |
| 1 | "A new book answers why it’s so hard for educated women to find dates" - Hidden RP GoldOttoman Empire, not Turkey. The ruling family was Turkish but it had massive Arab and previous many other nationalities (such as Greek). It was a wholly different animal to kemal's later creation. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 09:45 AM |
| 1 | "Enjoy the fuckboy life"Why not have her and others too? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Post Shaming Male Sexuality Makes It To The Front Page. Hamsters Go Wild!It honestly makes it difficult to effectively communicate with non-masculine men. Most of them seem to think my enjoyment of self improvement stems from some sort of insecurity, when in fact I'm quite happy generally. I'm just burning with ambition. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 06:20 AM |
| 6 | Woman convinces boyfriend to kill himself so she can become self-proclaimed advocate for mental health on Facebook.Stop blowing up over this man | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 05:16 AM |
| 1 | The Crisis of US Higher EducationAlgorithms and finance. Probably the quickest way to make money. And it is a field that thrives on competition. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 05:46 PM |
| 1 | "As soon as a guy asks me to pay, I lose attraction for him."I have slept with a decent amount of women - some that I'd consider high quality, some that I'd consider low quality. Virtually none of them - in either category - has asked about STD tests. This was in both hook ups and relationships. I had one girl in an open marriage demand one before sex, I had another say she wanted me to get one when she realized I likely had a high partner count. I did eventually get one but we slept together before that, so go figure. Other than that, I've never had a gi… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 06:33 PM |
| 0 | "As soon as a guy asks me to pay, I lose attraction for him."Hep C is largely curable (WHO says 90%+). So it's one of those "get a regular STD screening" things. As for Chlamydia, that's up to your risk tolerance. I've found my "diseased girl detection" sixth sense is pretty spot on, as I've got a high N count and no diseases. If yours is lower or you're more worried about an infection that is usually asymptomatic but can be painful to some people, feel free to use a condom more often. I'm not saying there's a one size fits all STD prevention strategy. If… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 05:02 PM |
| 0 | "As soon as a guy asks me to pay, I lose attraction for him."And as I posted in the other thread about the guy with herpes, you'd be being played for a fool. No one on the SMP actually cares. There's sort of a "don't ask, don't tell". At least, there would be if anyone actually knew they had it. You may, and don't know it. Doctors do not test for it. You have to specifically request the test and it is at least $100 more than a standard STD test. Almost everyone has some version of herpes - HSV-1 (which can be spread genitally, but is primarily oral) is In… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 01:54 PM |
| -1 | "As soon as a guy asks me to pay, I lose attraction for him."I'm just simply not worried about STD transmission. At least not very much. I wear condoms with most initial plates, I only fuck raw with girls I have a pretty good idea aren't fucking a ton of guys literally every week, and who are pretty strongly anti-baby. Herpes is made into a big deal when it simply isn't one, most of the other ones are treatable with a small round of antibiotics. HIV transmission from a heterosexual female to heterosexual male is extremely low. A lot of guys on here seem t… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 07:05 AM |
| 5 | "As soon as a guy asks me to pay, I lose attraction for him."Ha, right? I don't have a monogamy requirement for plates though. Makes them lower maintenance for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 03:58 AM |
| 21 | "As soon as a guy asks me to pay, I lose attraction for him."Yep, I always set the standard - "you're paying for yourself here", "I'll grab drinks, but you get the second round", "I've put a lot of money into you lately, you cover this one". My current main plate said something along the lines of "all guys pay for me except for you. You demand I pay for your time!" Guess who she's fucking? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Why would a man *pretend* that his wife is a tyrant?Because they're typically fearful. Someone always has to be in control. It's one of the main reasons behind shit testing and branch swinging. She loses her desire and branch swings when she thinks you don't have shit under control. If you can't control her, her hindbrain essentially goes "he can't control a little woman like me, if that's true, he certainly can't control a tiger if it gets near me and my offspring". The only issue with this dynamic is that men are told to do all the behaviors th… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 06:14 PM |
| 2 | So, feminists consider these things "creepy"The rare few times you get called creepy, I've found agree and amplify to work really well. "You're creepy" "Yes. You're welcome." And go from there. In PowerTalk it seems to be saying "I hear your claim that you are higher status than me, and I blow it off because it is so ridiculous" | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 03:04 PM |
| 2 | "A new book answers why it’s so hard for educated women to find dates" - Hidden RP GoldI actually had a guy who I consider to be very blue pill (he's on the cusp of understanding gender relations, but just keeps sticking his head in the sand), talking about how we as a society didn't seem to have "adults" anymore. And he's right. We got rid of them. He just isn't able to see the final step (or he's doing fantastic black knighting) - patriarchy = civilization. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Women get stupid little dogs and baby them because they should've had kids already.Baby talk is more effective than regular speech in getting an infant's attention. Studies have shown that infants actually prefer to listen to this type of speech rather than standard adult-directed speech.[7] Some researchers, including Rima Shore,[8] believe that baby talk is an important part of the emotional bonding process between the parents and their child that helps the infants learn the language. Other researchers from Carnegie Mellon University and the University of Wisconsin confirm t… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/15 12:02 AM |
| 4 | Women get stupid little dogs and baby them because they should've had kids already.Baby talk is actually initially useful for language acquisition. If you're doing it until your kid is 5 or so, well, no shit it's a terrible idea. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 04:39 PM |
| 0 | How common are indicators of interest? At what level of SMV would you start seeing them consistently?It happens all the time. Make eye contact, or pay attention to other people trying to make eye contact with you. Eventually you'll be able to tell when someone literally is looking you over and wants to fuck you - entirely based on eye contact. It's one of the more useful tools to have. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/15 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.It really isn't. Sometimes I want to go out to a place. A girl can't pay. I know she can't pay, it's not just a way of using my resources. I want her there anyway. Perhaps she's hot as fuck and will give me good social proof. Perhaps I've fucked her before. I'll offer to take them (on rare occasions) because it is my benefit. You have to play it by ear - recognize who is making a play to play you like a fool and extract resources from you for no benefit. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 12:59 AM |
| 5 | 40% of women’s “fantasy TV boyfriends” are cold blooded murderers!And historically, those were very successful groups, but financially as well as in sex. Viking warbands, gangs, warrior societies, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 03:24 AM |
| 3 | 40% of women’s “fantasy TV boyfriends” are cold blooded murderers!If GRRM has looked like GRRM his entire life, this makes sense to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 03:23 AM |
| 4 | Redpillage - A Gift To TRP communityI made one of these but never released it. It included a Reddit browser, dictionary of terms, reference to good Redpill writers, etc using PhoneGap (which allows for release on iPhone, Android and Windows Phone). It's about 95% done. All that needs doing is a little left-over styling and now OAUTH authentication (because Reddit now requires OAUTH for apps). I considered building in a way for TRPers to get in contact with others, but wasn't sure if people would want a feature like that. If we wan… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Ayn Rand: 'I Would Never Vote for a Woman President'Demonstrate, do not explicate | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 02:33 AM |
| 4 | I (beta male, 30) got told that I was subhuman trash from my 33 yo GF for not wanting to marry her after 8 months of datingDrop her. You can do better, especially after a year or two of self improvement. Her poor choices are not your responsibility. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/15 02:08 PM |
| 4 | Study: Mate Selection Is Biologically Driven And Not A Social ConstructSeeing a conversation like this, after I've been busting my butt half the night to get the prototype of a product produced, makes me feel invigorated. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/15 07:40 AM |
| 1 | When mi'lady asks me to buy her a drinkUsually I ask her to buy me a drink. It works about half the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/15 04:36 AM |
| 20 | Chad has cancer, replaced with Chadlier chadNo, it is said because it's a practical lifestyle choice to guide your lifestyle. Hate on her all you want, say she's a horrible person, whatever, but at the end of the day, others will not judge her as harshly as you are, she will more than likely get away with it, and literally nobody will care. She will probably successfully paint herself as a victim, and you'll only come off more like a loser if you rant about it. Structure your life in such a way that her acting as women act won't harm you.… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/15 03:09 AM |
| 11 | Ayn Rand: 'I Would Never Vote for a Woman President'Because the mods took a look at my name, and thought, "Wow, that's the coolest name of any TRP poster", and decided I needed to be endorsed. True story. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/15 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Guy asks for advice because he thinks his pregnant girlfriend cheated on him and the baby isn't his. Gets told he's being a paranoid asshole. This is the update.I'm slowly rebuilding from a lifting injury last year that fucked up my shoulder. As soon as I can lift heavy again, I intend to go back at it full force. I'm lifting light weights to rebuild strength. Thanks for the advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/15 01:37 AM |
| 24 | Ayn Rand: 'I Would Never Vote for a Woman President'On average this is true. Men, including probably men smarter than any of us here, who had an idea of how women work, intuitively understand that on average women are probably not fit to lead. Hell, most men are not fit to lead either. But throughout history, even when we weren't paying lip service to the, "women are equal" line, we'd frequently enough have female rulers - and sometimes very, very competent ones. Exceptional women certainly can exist. At the end of the day, humans are incredibly,… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Automation-based job loss will be concentrated in male centered sector of the economyAnd do you know what a Creative Director is..? If you're talking about someone who actually generates the images, then no I don't believe that exists yet. One that could select between images provided and decide between them for the most effective one - sure, we could probably do that. As for a 10-25 hour bot - it isn't a replacement for a Creative Director. It's more of a replacement for a lower rung social media employee. You'd need to dedicate a significant larger chunk of money to replace a … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Automation-based job loss will be concentrated in male centered sector of the economyFor a simpler bot (say, 10-25 hours), sure you'd need to architect out how the campaign will go, but if you create a bot that creates a campaign, learns from that campaign, and iteratively gets better at making campaigns (so, like a human, but cheaper in the long-run), then absolutely it could replace a person. how do you program a computer to choose the best color for a subjective, EMOTIONAL feeling? You have the computer know about color psychology. Is it trying to create a happy tweet/message… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 04:48 PM |
| 7 | Guy asks for advice because he thinks his pregnant girlfriend cheated on him and the baby isn't his. Gets told he's being a paranoid asshole. This is the update.She was actually not a mother herself, which sorta surprised me, because she was so vehement. The girl in question has known me for like 10 years, and has only seen me a few times since I found PUA, and then TRP (and improved drastically), so my only guess is that it was beta shaming. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.Can you find that post again? While I don't want to get divorced, I'd like to hear it. It seems like similar tactics could be useful for an unexpected pregnancy too. I'd always considered emotional manipulation/covert threats to be a good idea in such a case. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Value. You have it, chances are you don't understand it. Let's discuss it.That's typically been my experience/idea too. If a girl has a job and is earning money, then she pays around half. I'm probably making a bit more than her, so I'll occasionally cover something, if we're fucking. With girls who are pretty young and either don't have a job or are making maybe $100/week or something, I'll typically pay, because the cost isn't very great for me, and it's a good expression of power - as long as she understands you're doing it as an expression of power, and not becaus… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Guy asks for advice because he thinks his pregnant girlfriend cheated on him and the baby isn't his. Gets told he's being a paranoid asshole. This is the update.I am 30 and your posts give me hope for the future. I am worried about the idea of not being able to pull 18-25 year olds. I don't seem to have any problems yet, but it's always a worry in the back of my head. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 03:32 PM |
| 22 | Guy asks for advice because he thinks his pregnant girlfriend cheated on him and the baby isn't his. Gets told he's being a paranoid asshole. This is the update.Not quite the same situation, but similar happened to me yesterday. I was out with a long-time friend from college, and his 30+ year old girlfriend (who has put on some weight). I am 30. At dinner she makes some comment about how I'd be going after women in a lamaze class (implying I go after single mothers, or some other easy, low value demo). I respond (almost unconsciously) with, "Ew, gross." The girl immediately freaks out and goes, "Ew, gross? You think that's disgusting? You're no spring c… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 03:28 PM |
| 13 | Guy asks for advice because he thinks his pregnant girlfriend cheated on him and the baby isn't his. Gets told he's being a paranoid asshole. This is the update.Saying, "it's natural, that's what they do bro", isn't excusing their behavior. Who cares whether their behavior is "excused" or not? Society is always going to look kinder on their faults than yours. What it means is, "watch your back, don't trust a hoe. Risk mitigation/management". | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Automation-based job loss will be concentrated in male centered sector of the economyPresumably we'll keep the system we have now, but with a Basic Minimum Income attached. I don't really see any other way we can keep a society even remotely similar to what we have now, without one. It is in the best interests of everyone to support this - poor (less need to work), middle class (less need to work), and the rich (the social system won't totally collapse, and you can still maintain something of a class-based structure based on assets). That way we can still have capitalism, entrep… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Automation-based job loss will be concentrated in male centered sector of the economyJust to clarify, the below is me talking about the cost to produce human-level intelligence using machines, not about growing human brains for that purpose. I am using the human brain as a cost comparison in terms of resources needed It's called parallel processing. Your brain works on a similar system. Your brain has billions (trillions?) of tiny parallel processors. And producing them is pretty cheap too. Think about the closest analogy I can think of to produce brain-level intelligence - a pr… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Automation-based job loss will be concentrated in male centered sector of the economyBecause you don't build a robot that can "do anything a person can do". Initially you build the first ones that can do the task you want, better or cheaper (preferably both) than human employees. We're not talking full on intelligent robots that walk around like humans do. That's still a bit away. We're talking specific intelligences that can deal with specific, simple tasks. Like shop clerking. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Automation-based job loss will be concentrated in male centered sector of the economyThere have only been rapid technological innovations for the past two centuries really, give or take. In the past, these automations AIDED humans, but they didn't replace them entirely. Labor was still needed. Automation is a different animal entirely. We've got robots that can walk nearly as well as we do. We've got cars that can drive themselves. We have machines that can process data and get better at processing that type of data over time. This is an entirely different game. Before we could … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Automation-based job loss will be concentrated in male centered sector of the economyWe absolutely ever will. How would we not? We know human minds are a thing. How would we fail to eventually not engineer them? We don't have the manual (considering there isn't a manual) to the brain, but we can certainly reverse engineer it, and we've been doing that - at greater and greater levels of granularity - for decades now, with quite a bit progress. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Automation-based job loss will be concentrated in male centered sector of the economyConsidering you can basically tie together a few APIs together, and use various frameworks, it's already pretty much here - at least for anyone willing to put in the 2-4 years to "get" how it all works. If you can pass algebra, you can be a sufficient (not great, but sufficient) programmer. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Automation-based job loss will be concentrated in male centered sector of the economyWe don't know the specific timeline, but we do know what will happen. We can make a machine at least as smart as a human. We know this because humans exist. There's nothing magical about us. In fact, all evidence suggests we can make machines smarter than humans (computer processors run at higher "clock speeds" so to speak, than do human neurons. Imagine a computer with as many neurons as a human brain, but faster) So vehicle automation technology (being easier than creating a human-level intell… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Automation-based job loss will be concentrated in male centered sector of the economyThe economy is built on consumption. While we could just let everyone die, why would we possibly want to do that? It would crash the economy and reduce shareholder value (the reasoning I hope the rich are using) | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Automation-based job loss will be concentrated in male centered sector of the economyWrong. You can literally have basic automation setup in a few days (if that) that seems real enough for most people. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Automation-based job loss will be concentrated in male centered sector of the economyGive it time. We now have machines that are capable of learning how to do more complex tasks - and creating better results. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 02:06 PM |
| 5 | Automation-based job loss will be concentrated in male centered sector of the economyDo you mean will computers ever be able to produce programs based on natural language? Yes. That will eventually be a thing. We've already got systems that can (limitedly) parse natural language and come up with a solution to a problem. That being said, you'd lose a lot of granular control over what you wanted the computer to do, because English is open to interpretation, and math, which most programming logic is based on, isn't. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Automation-based job loss will be concentrated in male centered sector of the economyLook into niche B2B software as a service. There are only so many consumer products that can be produced, but there are plenty of medium-scale businesses that could certainly use automation to help them out, but don't know it. Or don't utilize it to the extent they should. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Automation-based job loss will be concentrated in male centered sector of the economyWe can make AIs that can deal with specific problems (and get better at learning how to solve those problems), but not general intelligence at this point. Source: My roommate was an AI researcher, and I'm a programmer who is getting pretty interested in the field (I'm working on an AI program today after my coffee, actually). As far as I can tell understanding how to do it isn't that hard, it's mostly about architecting the AI correctly, and then having it train itself. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/15 01:50 PM |
| 3 | After being asked whether it's easier for girls to get laid, AskWomen responds "Ugh, it doesn't count as sex if he's an unattractive beta!"She just came out of nowhere. I had no idea she could move that fast. Fire in the hole indeed. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Feminist journalist decides to lives as a man for 18 months, discovers that men’s lives are just as hard as women’sExcept that they objectively do, all things being equal. Your lack of social ability is hampering you, but compared to an ugly guy with bad social graces, you'll do better. And I absolutely agree with you - opportunities will not usually just fly into your hand. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 05:29 AM |
| 46 | After being asked whether it's easier for girls to get laid, AskWomen responds "Ugh, it doesn't count as sex if he's an unattractive beta!"I used to go to a night club, and regularly (fully clothed) strippers would come in to recruit new girls for a strip club down the street. My buddy and I always liked this - mostly because the girls were pretty and since they weren't stripping, they weren't really looking for men as marks for money - so you could actually flirt with them. One time, I yelled out to him, "The strippers are here!", as they walked in, which made one of them start laughing hysterically. She and I start to hit it off.… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Feminist journalist decides to lives as a man for 18 months, discovers that men’s lives are just as hard as women’sMaybe she switched up her strategy. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Feminist journalist decides to lives as a man for 18 months, discovers that men’s lives are just as hard as women’sNo, they do not, and no, it really doesn't. While any individual woman might have a particular interest or preference, in the aggregate, women converge on similar principles of attraction - height, muscularity, ability to communicate with them effectively (PowerTalk and being able to read between the lines, and communicate that way too), wealth/skills, pre-selection, confidence/cockiness, congruence and status. When you say you have never been afforded the same opportunities as your peers... why… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 04:21 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle the "That wasn't funny" shit test?Shrug your shoulders very visibly, and have an amused, cocky/goofy look on your face. And then immediately start talking about something entirely unrelated. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/15 01:02 AM |
| 2 | When do I start laying the redpill on a plate?You shouldn't be "laying it on" her. TRP principles should - at least ideally - be a built in part of your identity. It does take time for things to feel natural, but that should be the eventual goal. They're true and will lead you to success, so it shouldn't be too hard to internalize them. It isn't "one weird trick" to get a girl, it's a mindset and experience. If you're worried that "power dynamics will flip", they probably, objectively will. (S)he who cares less, wins. And you should general… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/15 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Woman thinks her guy friend is being an 'asshole' because he's no longer doing nice things for her after she rejected him.Why does it matter whether he's this nefarious "nice guy" or not. Whether he had an "ulterior" (more likely, poorly informed - many men are under the misimpression that covertly doing nice things IS how you generate attraction) motive from the start or not, he realized that spending as much time with her as he had was a waste of resources and acted accordingly. His way to generate attraction was wrong, but his decision to reduce investment in a losing prospect is absolutely correct. Regardless o… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 09:14 PM |
| 4 | Kill To Party: Casey Anthony as the Fully-Realized Post-Modern WomanHave you ever read a history book? Have you ever looked at areas which don't have some central authority? Men with weapons very quickly carve them out and claim them as their own. How do you think governments appeared in the first place? They haven't always existed, you know. Who enforces coinage laws? What happens if you have a contractual dispute? Do you pay for private courts too? Who determines that the compensation for the judge is fair and that the judge is impartial? If you think we have … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Kill To Party: Casey Anthony as the Fully-Realized Post-Modern WomanLocal strongmen take over and essentially create a new government. That'll be true no matter how you dismantle a state. Once you remove a monopoly on force, everyone can, and will use force, because force is more effective than non-force at getting what you want. Monopolies are absolutely sustainable in the free market. How could it not be? If you own all the diamond mines and can keep competitors from stealing them, you have a monopoly. You seem to feel that once the state goes away, every acto… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 06:43 PM |
| 5 | chop wood carry water - an enlightened perspectiveThis is essentially what building a strong frame or core was to me. You stop caring. You're... zen? You get the girl. Ok. You don't get the girl. Ok. You get the raise. Ok. You don't get the raise. Ok. It's just data points that you use to plan for further goals. Or none at all, if you prefer (I don't quite understand why you wouldn't, but I could understand maybe someone just wants simplicity until they die). | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 08:36 AM |
| 0 | Kill To Party: Casey Anthony as the Fully-Realized Post-Modern WomanIf you get rid of the state, another one will simply replace it, as happens throughout history. It's better to have a constitutionally controlled state (even if, at times, those constitutional controls are stretched pretty strongly) than getting rid of all monopoly on force and just letting whatever local strongman wants to take power, take power - which is the end result of abolishing the state. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Dating / Hooking Up in NYC vs LATech industry is huge in NYC. My guess would be the best after San Fran. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 08:02 AM |
| 1 | How to show a woman the importance of low partner count to SMV.That has not been my experience at all. Girls (at least that I hooked up with) don't seem to care at all, as long as they know you're capable of getting action. I've very, very rarely been asked or had it brought up. It's one of the questions nobody asks, because nobody wants to answer or to really know the answer - same thing with STD tests. In a standard hookup/plate situation, I can't say I've ever really been asked about either in at least > 80% of cases. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 01:46 AM |
| 0 | How to show a woman the importance of low partner count to SMV.Why would you possibly go around talking about your partner count? It comes off as weak and validation seeking. The girl doesn't care. Your attitude alone should be what shows her you're capable of having a high partner count - not you actually telling her. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/15 11:32 PM |
| 0 | Trump to Megyn Kelly: I Don't Have Time For Political Correctness and Neither Does This Country. Trump spills Redpills all over the place.Tanzania is doing pretty well. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/15 07:19 AM |
| 3 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.I am a software developer, self-taught. The first job (not my first job) was at a company that wasn't legit with the technology we were using. They tried to pay for the least amount they could for developers. I was making about $36,000 a year, which is ridiculously below average developer salaries. The current job I'm at is about 50,000, which isn't quite double, but is not crazy far from it. It's also far lower than most people make in software dev. I didn't really negotiate that much at this p… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/15 07:17 AM |
| 1 | How do I become more self-interested?Yeah, there was a replacement and then the boss lost all work for two weeks and the replacement quit. | /r/AlreadyRed | 08/08/15 07:14 AM |
| -1 | Trump to Megyn Kelly: I Don't Have Time For Political Correctness and Neither Does This Country. Trump spills Redpills all over the place.Yes, but the crime isn't coming from the single parent, it's coming from the child. That's sorta the point. I'm not arguing there aren't indirect effects, there are, but the kids actually committing the crimes aren't really given a chance. That doesn't mean society doesn't need to protect itself from them either. But understanding the reasons and the best ways how to fix them is important to end the cycle. I was born into poverty to a single parent (who I will absolutely agree was a single paren… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Vanity Fair's "Tinder and The Dawn of the Dating Apocalypse" is chock-full of RP truthsI remember being absolutely shocked when my buddy, an early reader of PUA back somewhere between 2005 and 2008 (which I initially dismissed at nonsense, stupid me) told me that it was possible to sleep with a girl within 13 "spending time with her" hours. 13 hours?! Insanity, to pre-PUA me. I thought you had to be dating a month or two for a girl to even consider "opening herself up" enough to sleep with. Seriously, all of the dating advice in our culture is aimed at beta men going after 35 year… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 08:40 PM |
| -4 | Trump to Megyn Kelly: I Don't Have Time For Political Correctness and Neither Does This Country. Trump spills Redpills all over the place.IIRC, it's mostly related to being in poverty though. When poverty is controlled for, they commit crimes at around the rate as whites, hispanics and Asians. They're not animals, they're poor, and their communities have been harder hit by single parenthood. For downvoters, who disagree with me, here's data: "While there is a correlation between blacks and Hispanics and crime, the data implies a stronger tie between poverty and crime than crime and any racial group, when gender is taken into consi… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 05:28 PM |
| 11 | Know your value. If your employer doesn't give you your worth then it's time to leave for someone who will.I did this at a company for two years, always getting promised a raise soon. In the end, they never offered me one, and I got a job nearly making double. With the job skills from this job, I'm getting offers nearly making double -that-. So my current offers are 3x-4x what I was making 2 years ago. From what I can tell, companies rarely offer a raise. It seems dumb, and I feel it has to be incredibly expensive to continually have to employ new workers rather than just giving raises. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Vanity Fair's "Tinder and The Dawn of the Dating Apocalypse" is chock-full of RP truthsIf you want to make a dating app/site, you need to understand the sexual marketplace well. I started a site the other day, based on three important components of the SMP - women like attention, game can win a girl over, and hot/attractive people should have more contacts than ugly people. We'll see if it gets traction. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 03:46 PM |
| 37 | Vanity Fair's "Tinder and The Dawn of the Dating Apocalypse" is chock-full of RP truthsOf course they do. That's the whole point. Taking agency away from powerful sexy men, and making them want her above all else. Find the sexiest man EVER, and turn him into the best provider EVER. That's the dream. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 05:22 AM |
| 21 | Vanity Fair's "Tinder and The Dawn of the Dating Apocalypse" is chock-full of RP truthsBecause to men who don't act like we do, the idea that women could be fantastically easy to bed is a fantasy. You might as well be talking about Santa Claus. Even when men literally see it in action from me I've only seen them rationalize it as me "going after a particular type of girl" (utter bunk). The idea is so strongly ingrained in society that women are perfectly innocent sex angels and everything bad they do is ultimately the fault of men. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 05:16 AM |
| 78 | Vanity Fair's "Tinder and The Dawn of the Dating Apocalypse" is chock-full of RP truthsBecause it destroys their good girl image. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 05:10 AM |
| 1 | A lesson in holding frame from Jon StewartI'm not quite seeing where the good example of holding frame is. He seems to back down a lot and make a few potshots. I didn't feel like he was in charge of the conversation at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 03:30 AM |
| 10 | "Yes, I cheated, No, I don't regret it"If you're not fat, make over $50,000 a year, and have a college degree (though I don't recommend getting that last one necessarily), you're much higher status than the average man (who, statistically, does not have a college degree, makes less than $50,000, and is at least overweight), and it's really not hard to achieve those things. Short (I am very short) doesn't mean shit. Are you going to do better with certain traits over others? Sure. But that doesn't mean you're utterly fucked because of… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 02:34 AM |
| 1 | What are TRP thoughts on "dying for a woman"? Think: men diving to cover women during shootouts...I can't be 100% sure of course. But she had broken up with me a week before (and I later found out, had cheated on me) claiming to be a lesbian (who went on to date only men...) and I don't think she expected me to replace her so quickly. I was young, we dated for 8 months and never had sex, so I was a total white knight and I'm sure she thought I was whipped, because I was. But once she ended things, I was single and acted accordingly. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/15 04:36 PM |
| 1 | What are TRP thoughts on "dying for a woman"? Think: men diving to cover women during shootouts...I didn't end up needing medical expenses. My face healed fine. I had no idea about the unequal laws at that time, so it is quite lucky I got in the fight with him, for him. Still, he later turned into a cunt himself to me and cut me off when she did (after going oneitis on the girl). We reconnected several years later after they broke up, but then he got butthurt again because I made a comment he misunderstood. It was actually during a Facebook conversation about a year and a half ago that I hea… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/15 12:36 PM |
| 13 | AskReddit: "What's the most arbitrary reason you've had sex with a guy?" is an absolute GOLDMINE of female hamstering.Just keep doing it. In my experience, once you can slip flawlessly from one mask to another, you're already fine. When I talk to girls I naturally slip to a bit more boisterous and rude. Also, as you reinforce the behavior, over time you get like... almost a sixth sense (I call it a feeling of cadence) when in conversation with a girl. Like, you automatically reject "gross" things to say, or more likely don't even think of saying them. When a guy friend will tell me he did X or Y unattractive th… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/15 12:33 PM |
| 30 | AskReddit: "What's the most arbitrary reason you've had sex with a guy?" is an absolute GOLDMINE of female hamstering.Which is why natural game and integrating game into your personality is such a thing. Once you've got game, and it is congruent, you won't have much trouble. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/15 05:50 AM |
| 3 | What are TRP thoughts on "dying for a woman"? Think: men diving to cover women during shootouts...Yeah, I was a little annoyed at the fact that she didn't help out at all. I understood, sorta - it was her boyfriend, and she was far smaller than either of us, but... still. Of course, at that point I was still relatively equalist when it came to gender. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/15 05:28 AM |
| 1 | What are TRP thoughts on "dying for a woman"? Think: men diving to cover women during shootouts...I certainly could have, if I had had much of any game whatsoever at that point. I had no self respect when it came to women (I would date ugly girls, and I would do anything for them - looking back it's why the ex - and other girls - dumped me). I had some limited boundaries (The ex would sometimes try to sabotage me hooking up with the girl I dated after her - at one point I physically had to pick her pretend sleeping body out of my bed and put it into the living room), but I was a total white … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/15 05:20 AM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on Cosmo catcalling video of men reacting to their girlfriends getting catcalled?No, it was, I hate getting catcalls. I hate not getting catcalls. I hate the patriarchy because they made me hate not getting catcalls. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/15 01:06 AM |
| 1 | I made my mom cry.So, I'm not understanding why you'd choose sociology over a useful skill for your business. I don't feel like arguing anymore, I feel I'm belaboring the point now. Also, here's a link to the thing I was talking about earlier: http://www.news.com.au/technology/the-3d-printer-that-can-build-a-house-in-24-hours/story-e6frfrnr-1226798960267 | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/15 01:04 AM |
| 35 | What are TRP thoughts on "dying for a woman"? Think: men diving to cover women during shootouts...About 7 or 8 years ago, I got into a fight to protect my ex-girlfriend from her boyfriend, my buddy (it was cool - he asked me if he could date her first). Him and I lived together, and had for a couple years. He had gotten incredibly, incredibly drunk for his 21st. I had to work, so I didn't go. He's slurring his words, talking about aliens are going to come and we have to do... something? for them? Who knows. It was barely understandable. Anyway, she keeps bugging him and worrying about him an… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/15 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Study clearly demonstrates alpha fucks and beta bucks.Oh I know. It's why I did it at the time. Especially when she said things like, "well if I got pregnant I'd definitely keep it!" And saying that having kids was "the highest purpose two people could have". Post PUA, pre TRP me knew something was up. But I was still women are wonderfuling & believing men were exact equals | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 10:00 PM |
| 1 | I made my mom cry.Why not ask your father to invest in a business for you instead of spending tens of thousands? If you find one that markets to your current student peers, you'd be able to keep your same social circle and life pretty much. Alternatively, if you want money, technology (programming), finance/banking and healthcare are the main ways to make money. I recommend programming because it's by far the most versatile. It's what I got into after I realized I was swindled by college and took only bullshit. H… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 07:35 PM |
| 1 | I made my mom cry.So you're just spending tens of thousands of dollars to party (when you could do that for far cheaper...), and wasting your time listening to bullshit. Smart. Hey you do you, but from what it sounds like, you're making a terrible decision. And law schools are a pretty terrible decision right now too. Sooooooo many underemployed lawyers. Even from good schools. Not ones who studied technology though. I'm just trying to help you out here. I did the same thing as you (minus the family run business … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 07:17 PM |
| 2 | I made my mom cry.That's my main point. Something can go wrong. You're not preparing yourself for that something at all, you're masturbating about sociology. And I'd really love to hear why you don't think we'll be using robots in construction in the next 30 years. Especially considering China is already using them to build houses. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Study clearly demonstrates alpha fucks and beta bucks.Because 20 year olds will typically only bring up marriage and babies when they are religious, because they intend on having them earlier. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 06:52 PM |
| 1 | I made my mom cry.How large is it? How many millions in revenue does it make per year? Could a sustained downturn kill the company? What about automation? We currently have robots that are able to walk around on legs and robots that are capable of being taught and performing certain easy construction tasks. In 30 years they'll both presumably be more advanced and able to do actual in field construction. Since your father may be dead by then - what's your plan to deal with that? See how many variables there are in… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Study clearly demonstrates alpha fucks and beta bucks.Was she religious? That's atypical behavior for a 20 year old. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 05:42 PM |
| 9 | Study clearly demonstrates alpha fucks and beta bucks.I was still in the process of transitioning from blue to red back then. This was some years ago. I remember idly mentioning my intended profession (which salary sites list as having an average salary at or above $100,000 - which I didn't know at the time), and what can best be called her aggressively pursuing me (as far as a woman does). Her plan was nearly perfect. She was trying to winnow down whether I was down to be BB, with the baby and marriage talk, but merely ended scaring me off. If she… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 02:05 PM |
| 11 | Study clearly demonstrates alpha fucks and beta bucks.It was a pity too, liked her and the sex was some of the best I'd had. I was pretty broken up about having to end things with her. Last major time I didn't feel totally abundant. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 07:03 AM |
| 10 | I made my mom cry.We put them almost exclusively in charge of young men and women for the first 20 years of life, and we did this for about two generations. People believe bullshit all the time. Sometimes for looooooooooong periods of time. The difference here is that it is so obviously untrue, that we're figuring it out again after only 40-50 years. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 05:08 AM |
| 6 | I made my mom cry.You're probably going to live another 60 years. Do you think your father's business might not be around in 60 years? Or technology might make it obsolete? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 05:00 AM |
| 72 | Study clearly demonstrates alpha fucks and beta bucks.I once had a 27 year old bring up marriage and babies within two months of dating. Next. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/15 03:37 AM |
| 9 | If you treat women like men they will think you are sexist.I don't believe for a second you didn't mean me. And good. We specifically want men who are angry. We teach them to channel that anger into becoming better men. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 09:26 PM |
| 5 | If you treat women like men they will think you are sexist.Who cares if you want to associate with them or not? Your attention or approval isn't a prize. You're not special either. As for allowing a man to disregard a woman's opinion based on this post - so? If he's smart/experienced he'll recognize it's not a literal 100% (maybe 75%?) and act accordingly. If he isn't, he'll shoot himself in the foot on rare occasions. Either way it's up to him to decide what he wants to do with the information. We don't care how he uses it, only that he has it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 09:19 PM |
| 7 | If you treat women like men they will think you are sexist.I am neither bitter nor angry, but please, keep trying. You may eventually hit on an insecurity of mine. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 09:13 PM |
| 6 | If you treat women like men they will think you are sexist.No, the post is directed at men. "If you treat women like men they will think of you as sexist". That's advice. For men. "women do not want to be treated like men. even if they say so". That's also advice. For men. read: all women; no distinctions our exceptions were made Again, you seem to have problems understanding generalization and how it is used in English. The way English is used, a native speaker should be able to easily parse that it doesn't literally apply to every single woman in the … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 08:26 PM |
| 12 | If you treat women like men they will think you are sexist.There'd be rational, reasonable conversation if she actually posted an important point. Generalizations/thinking probabilistically are part of life - especially when you're thinking strategically, as we are. She's not a special snowflake. If the rule doesn't apply to her, it doesn't apply to her. It probably does (considering her post here and taking offense with the OP's post), but if it doesn't, fine. But we don't care. We care about the typical use-case. There's a tacit understanding that "al… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Australian lawyer speaks out against "our family law system is very female-focused and, frankly, unbalanced."I thought that the marriage tax penalty mostly hit for high disparities in income? And I'm still not 100% convinced you should get married. To me it still seems like a dangerous financial risk, but if you're hedging your bets and going in with the understanding that there's a good chance you might be fucked in the future, well, have at I suppose. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Australian lawyer speaks out against "our family law system is very female-focused and, frankly, unbalanced."I've seen the latter happen a significant portion of the time - perhaps more than marriages. Almost everyone I know who is in LTRs (and I'm 30, so it's not an age thing) is cohabitating, sometimes with a kid, and no marriage plans in sight. There are a -few- exceptions. A medical doctor pakistani girl may stay with you for life if that's your goal. Seems like it would be tough to get doctor and virgin both though. Still, why get married? I mean I guess if she's religious you have to, but couldn'… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Australian lawyer speaks out against "our family law system is very female-focused and, frankly, unbalanced."Good luck finding a decent woman who will agree to cohabitation AND having kids. Not that hard, have you tried it? Remember, commitment - any commitment - from a high valued man is a limited resource. If the girl actually likes you/respects you, you can make her understand your reasoning. She may still want a marriage "party", just don't sign the contract. And if she doesn't understand you or respect your decision? Then drop her. You can do better. Any girl that will only stay with you if you wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Australian lawyer speaks out against "our family law system is very female-focused and, frankly, unbalanced."Not if he's trying to market towards the male demographic, which he almost certainly is doing. Everyone is at least somewhat self-interested. He certainly knew what the effects of this would be, regardless if he did it out of the "goodness of his heart" or not. Even if he is doing it for profit... so? Why would that possibly bother you? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 03:30 PM |
| 9 | I watched five minutes of "Trainwreck" so you don't have to.Wasn't Alec Baldwin on that show? He seems incredibly RP. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/15 12:50 AM |
| 47 | I watched five minutes of "Trainwreck" so you don't have to.A 5? You are being somewhat generous. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/15 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Embracing DifficultyWhat is your end goal? What will give you a feeling of accomplishment in life? You'll be at around equal happiness no matter what socioeconomic level you're at, because of the hedonistic treadmill. There will be local maximums and minimums, but your baseline isn't going to shift too far. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/15 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Embracing DifficultyI once had a friend say that women like Fifty Shades of Gray because, "women want to subvert their current (equalist) gender roles, because it is taboo". | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/15 03:47 PM |
| 2 | I'm getting married tomorrow, and I don't have a lot of friends to share that withYou almost always have to be skinny to be pretty. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/15 07:03 PM |
| 3 | [FR] "I was making bad life decisions" is not an admission, it is a prediction.I taught myself Python first - I was working at a start-up and I wanted to automate some of the stuff I did. I then moved to PHP and JavaScript. I work mostly with CMSes and PhoneGap. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/15 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Year and a half with TRPI don't know what the European market is like. I'm in quasi-flyover country part of the U.S. If I want a much higher paying job I'll eventually probably have to move to NYC or SF. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/15 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Year and a half with TRPI was never a big fan of C#, but I never did very much in it. It's a higher level of abstraction than C is - it's pretty close to Java, as far as I'm aware. It's very tied to Microsoft stuff, and that's not really a path I went. So my personal bias would be towards iOS development (which is particularly hot these days), but there's certainly a lot of development in C#, I just don't like it. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Year and a half with TRPDepends on what you want to do. If you want to do web development, Javascript is a natural choice - it was primarily for front end (client side - executed in the browser) development, but with nodejs and Phone Gap, it can be used for backend (server side) and mobile respectively. I've heard that architecting backend solutions in nodejs can be a pain though - never tried it, so take that with a grain of salt. There are a few other libraries you'll want to learn with Javascript too - jQuery being … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Year and a half with TRPStart making stuff. Once you have the basics, just pick a project and make it. It'll be a piece of shit. I assume most of my software still is a piece of shit. That's how I learned. It's how I still learn. Trust me, you will be banging your head for at least a year or two, but over time it gets easier to read and write code. Today I'm working on an application I tried to make 3-4 years ago, took me months, was terribly done, super spaghetti, and I'm doing it in only a couple days, and it's a lot… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 07:22 PM |
| 5 | [FR] "I was making bad life decisions" is not an admission, it is a prediction.I graduated with a useless degree from a useless college from a bunch of bad advice (not being a victim, but it is what it is). I was raised in poverty and had no social support. When I got into the working world, I immediately realized that everything that everyone was doing was inefficient and could be done by computers, so I took the time and taught myself to code - lost a girlfriend over it, lost months of free time, but since then I've been working for companies and building my skills and n… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 04:12 PM |
| 1 | If you are told to "check your privilege", reflect on history and shoot on site.The book was insanely popular in the U.S. From what I'm reading of it on Wikipedia, it was even read out of during a presidential inauguration about two decades prior. Distributing a popular work to soldiers to keep up morale is hardly the lynchpin of some conspiracy. The numbers from 1942 and 1943 are the ones that they theoretically got from the Nazis. Regardless, you're acting as if a couple of erroneous statistics in a book that is the equivalent of the Guinness Book of World Records in accu… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 02:40 PM |
| 1 | If you are told to "check your privilege", reflect on history and shoot on site.No, I didn't say the Nazis kept data after the war, I said the almanac used data from during/before the war. Which makes sense. Censuses take time, especially before computers. It is perfectly reasonable for a popular encyclopedia to not have updated numbers before 1949, for what arguably a relatively small factoid. There's no evidence whatsoever for a concerted conspiracy, and especially not based on a quote (a misquote, they had correct numbers by 1949, contrary to what people here are saying)… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 08:26 AM |
| 0 | If you are told to "check your privilege", reflect on history and shoot on site.Did you read the link I posted above? Yes, they used old data for several years, including from the Nazis, even after WWII. Data collection is a tad tough immediately after the largest war in humanity's history, strangely enough. This is a popular encyclopedia, not a demographics paper - while accuracy is a goal, the #1 goal is being accurate enough to earn a profit. Also, they had correct data by 1949, the numbers quoted above are not the numbers listed in the almanac at all. Prior to 1949 they… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 07:52 AM |
| 4 | Year and a half with TRPSoftware developers are in extremely high demand right now. If you can code, even at a very junior level, at least some company will take a risk on you and throw you into the meat grinder. That's how I got started. Coursera or Code Academy both seem pretty good (but I taught myself before the glut of online free programming). | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 06:31 AM |
| 0 | If you are told to "check your privilege", reflect on history and shoot on site.It does appear that they might have used Nazi data, yes. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 05:55 AM |
| 2 | If you are told to "check your privilege", reflect on history and shoot on site.http://www.nizkor.org/features/denial-of-science/worldalmanac.html The almanac did not have accurate data. This passes the sniff test, as it makes sense that even if almanac writers were aware of the Holocaust, they might not have known how large it was. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 05:54 AM |
| 1 | If you are told to "check your privilege", reflect on history and shoot on site.It all resolves itself when you understand that force is the fundamental underlying principle of all civilization and human hierarchies. The U.S. Founders were traitors to the laws that they were under - but they successfully resisted lawful authority that attempted to enforce those laws. In doing so, they made themselves the lawful authority. Look at the world around you - if you have sufficient force, you can literally change human civilization. Almost nobody in history ever has that much powe… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 05:49 AM |
| 3 | Forget about sisterhood; post-wall women despise prettier younger girls.By "individual level", I mean benefits your genes on an individual level, not you as a person. This is a major theme of the book - and why we shouldn't be slaves to our genes, in exactly the way you're saying. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Forget about sisterhood; post-wall women despise prettier younger girls.It is, but our genes are fully prepared (over multiple generations) to reward people that are dicks to the species if it helps propagate their genes. Basically, selection happens at the level of the individual, not the level of groups. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 03:00 AM |
| 5 | An open letter to GayLubeOil and anyone else who wants to monetize The Red PillI've made a few apps for you guys, but I'm trying to figure out a way to have a controlled beta test in case they're all pieces of shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 10:33 PM |
| 6 | Forget about sisterhood; post-wall women despise prettier younger girls.Being able to translate what women say is perhaps the #1 great thing about TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 09:23 PM |
| 7 | Forget about sisterhood; post-wall women despise prettier younger girls.If a girl is fucking you, she's usually preeeeeeeeetttttttttttttty receptive to committing to you. I can't think of a single girl I've fucked that hasn't expressed some measure of interest in commitment (without me even bringing it up). And yes, that includes girls far younger than me too. And they'll tease me for being an "old man", but I've never heard of a single one worry about my "dwindling vitality". I'm not 80, and neither is anyone on this sub, as far as I'm aware. I don't want kids Unde… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 09:21 PM |
| 6 | Forget about sisterhood; post-wall women despise prettier younger girls.Your children, not so much the species. Read Dawkins' the Selfish Gene. As a side note, one of the main points of the book is how we don't have to be slaves to our genes, which TRP is a pretty strong advocater of, I'd say. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 08:50 PM |
| 6 | Forget about sisterhood; post-wall women despise prettier younger girls.They go: "Nooooooo, the men did this to us!! We can't just be like this or else we'd be just like those beta male bitch fucks who give us no tingles! We're not like those betas. They're so icky!" This seems like a great summation of the thought process (or the closest approximation thereof) to a T. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 08:49 PM |
| 8 | Forget about sisterhood; post-wall women despise prettier younger girls.No, men with high contextual status are the first resort, period. Regardless of age, typically (unless they're 70+ and just look disgusting). If the coach is able to parlay his status in a way that gives him high contextual status in the cheerleader's circles, she'll want to bang him, all things being equal. My brother in law is a college football coach, and he has more than made this clear to me (he stays loyal, because he's a loyal guy and has a kid too, but you can tell he's tempted). Normall… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 08:39 PM |
| 1 | You should know: You're being watched, and branded, for taking part in this subreddit.A "piss-take" ? Please translate for us Americans. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 06:41 PM |
| 2 | You should know: You're being watched, and branded, for taking part in this subreddit.It's true, one of the first people I saw that mentioned TRP to me (IRL friend for years), described it as basically a Stormfront that hated women too. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 07:14 AM |
| 37 | You should know: You're being watched, and branded, for taking part in this subreddit.http://36.media.tumblr.com/73784a49e8922f69ea356038b6026447/tumblr_mhvi9bLk7p1rtcur5o1_1280.jpg Sometimes they're skinny, and just really, really liked being fucked in the ass by their girlfriends. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 07:11 AM |
| 48 | You should know: You're being watched, and branded, for taking part in this subreddit.My only fear is potential doxxing. Otherwise, wear it like a badge of pride. I will. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Lifting diet without a stoveProtein powder. Greek yogurt. Almond milk. Peanut butter if you want. Blend it and it makes a good shake, very high in protein. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 12:29 AM |
| 6 | Seeing Nice Guys Frustrates Me [Vent]C) Push yourself out of your comfort zone and start taking what you want more and more, until it becomes second nature, and that is the real you. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Seeing Nice Guys Frustrates Me [Vent]You have more free time than you will in a corporate job. Do it right now. Trying to grow a business on the side while you're also working 40+ hours a week is exhausting. Trust me. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Seeing Nice Guys Frustrates Me [Vent]This, I think, is one of the biggest differences between PUA and TRP. While I'll always argue that getting abundance with PUA is important, building yourself into a force of nature is ultimately where the real power (and the happiness, contentment, etc that come with it) lies. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/15 12:18 AM |
| 1 | You were never her friendYes, people talk like this, though I can see how it might be unclear for a non-native speaker. Basically, the poem talked about how closed off (emotionally distant) she was, and how he wanted her to open up to him (essentially show him affection/commitment). He sent it to me after he sent it to her, but this was years ago and I don't remember the specifics. It's a classic case of thinking provider behaviors are going to get the girl. No girl cares you wrote a poem to her. All that says is that y… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/15 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Had a date with a gorgeous, Redpill textbook, wall approaching ex party girl. Admits to a 50 partner count.This is why it is important to cultivate real, life long abundance by going out a lot and seducing a lot of women. And when you're rejected, moving on to a new one immediately. That takes time and it takes effort and it isn't easy. But when you've done the seduction process enough, when you know you can get with girls of at least moderate attractiveness without much effort anymore, even not fucking someone for months isn't really an issue (though arguably you'd only experience that in self-impos… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/15 10:26 PM |
| 15 | Had a date with a gorgeous, Redpill textbook, wall approaching ex party girl. Admits to a 50 partner count.The younger and sillier you act the more they eat it up. What do you think gaming a girl is? Having long drawn out discussions about historical trends? Act like an overgrown kindergartener that dgaf and you'll be golden. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/15 10:13 PM |
| 15 | Promiscuity and Why Men Are Repulsed by Women With High Partner CountsA Queen Nerd comes with her own host of other problems. She wants to attract Chads, but has trouble so she surrounds herself with orbiters. Easy lay, but nothing you'd want to stick around for. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/15 07:23 PM |
| 2 | what's a good text to initiate a hangout with a plateI've had good luck with, "come over", "bring me tacos", "cookies and wine", and other incredibly low investment texts. Or I'll ask her what she's doing, and then when she responds, I'll say, "that's boring, come do X instead" | /r/askTRP | 27/07/15 03:52 AM |
| 13 | In defense of "PUA": It is an inherently male approach - shaming it, is an inherently female defenseI've done PUA and Crossfit both, and both approaches are flawed. And yet, at the end of the day, Crossfit made me significantly physically stronger (and taught me how to lift) and PUA helped me fuck hotter girls than I'd ever fucked before, which led to real confidence. Getting to 75% of the goal is better than not getting anywhere at all. It's very easy to be an armchair general, but usually it seems like an excuse to not put the work in. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/15 03:16 AM |
| 25 | The Critical Importance of Approaching Attractive Women in Real LifeAnd then pee on it. Remember, girls like dominant men. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/15 02:19 AM |
| 3 | Woman in lesbian relationship realizes she needs masculinity, brings in man, Man cuck's other lesbian.In bonobos, lesbian sex promotes social bonding. Certainly if rates of homosexuality are around 10% as claimed, there is likely some reason for it - either it is evolutionarily advantageous to have some of the genes that cause it, or in the past it was not strongly selected against. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/15 10:57 PM |
| 9 | The Critical Importance of Approaching Attractive Women in Real LifeIf you're in CS/IT, don't use your career to get laid. Or start a company as a hobby and then you're an, "entrepreneur" which is far sexier to women. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/15 07:58 PM |
| 5 | The Critical Importance of Approaching Attractive Women in Real LifeYep, even a simple line like, "Can you watch my laptop while I go to the bathroom?" at Starbucks can usually be an opener from a girl, especially if you guys have been stealing glances between each other. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/15 07:57 PM |
| 13 | Woman in lesbian relationship realizes she needs masculinity, brings in man, Man cuck's other lesbian.Rofl! Pussy train. This, as a term, has to enter the TRP vernacular. I wish point awarding worked, I'd award you a point just for that alone. I'm not against the possibility of non-masculine lesbians that are solidly lesbian from birth (there are masculine gays that are solidly gay from birth) - I just haven't personally observed any myself. And girls temporarily riding the pussy train seems a lot more common. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/15 05:22 PM |
| 7 | Woman in lesbian relationship realizes she needs masculinity, brings in man, Man cuck's other lesbian.Well, if every woman wants needs to get married and there are fewer men that want to get married... | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/15 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Woman in lesbian relationship realizes she needs masculinity, brings in man, Man cuck's other lesbian.I made a post about the difference between male and female attraction, and how homosexuality seems to work in both genders elsewhere in this thread, with links to studies. tl; dr: Women seem to be status based for arousal. This is regardless of homosexual tendencies in most cases (there are some masculine lesbians though). A woman will go for other women if her highest status option is a woman. Men seem to be visual/physically based for arousal. Gay men seem to have the region of the brain relat… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/15 04:40 PM |
| 5 | In defense of "PUA": It is an inherently male approach - shaming it, is an inherently female defenseWhen you're just learning to figure out social cues and dating, you are going to invariably come off as "creepy" sometimes. There's really no way around that - that's how the sausage is made. "Creepiness" comes from a lack of social calibration/coming off as low status (the two are largely one and the same). And even a guy from TRP, who is all about improving himself, etc, is still going to come off as creepy if he has no social experience with women. As a newbie, you simply don't know what you … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/15 04:33 PM |
| 2 | In defense of "PUA": It is an inherently male approach - shaming it, is an inherently female defenseBecause you're thinking that women are operating under good faith here and have the same goals as you. They do not, they're operating under wanting to sniff out the highest value men (this is almost entirely unconscious). If a guy doesn't know how to talk to them, he is literally by definition not a high status man. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/15 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Woman in lesbian relationship realizes she needs masculinity, brings in man, Man cuck's other lesbian.That would be true if female attraction and male attraction seemed to work similarly (including homosexuality), but they do not. The sexes are not equal in this way. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/15 04:03 PM |
| 9 | Woman in lesbian relationship realizes she needs masculinity, brings in man, Man cuck's other lesbian.Sexuality is not really learned behavior. There's certainly a learned component of it (hence why some people have a preference towards one type of person or another), but men typically seem to be attracted to physical aesthetics and a positive demeanor, and women typically seem to be attracted by status and physical aesthetics. In arousal studies, men are most viscerally turned on by good bodies of the gender they're attracted to - gay men are exactly the same, except the gender they are attract… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/15 03:33 PM |
| 32 | Woman in lesbian relationship realizes she needs masculinity, brings in man, Man cuck's other lesbian.As far as I can tell, there seem to be two different types of "lesbians" (though I would guess you could have a mix of the two types): Lesbians who, probably due to a greater amount of testosterone or some other hormone, are a lot more masculine/dominant than normal women. I think you usually see a lot of women athletes (WNBA, UFC, etc) in these groups, though it is by no means limited to athletes. The other group is the situational lesbians. These are the girls that identify as bi a lot of the … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/15 10:00 AM |
| 4 | Meghan Trainor: Singer, songwriter, promoter of open hypergamyIt isn't a problem for me, and I don't see hypergamous women (i.e. women) as a problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/15 11:38 PM |
| 27 | Meghan Trainor: Singer, songwriter, promoter of open hypergamyI had an 18 year old girl - an 18 year old girl! Tell me that she intended to get married not before 27 or 28. They know precisely what they're doing from the youngest ages. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/15 05:35 AM |
| 0 | I'm 32 and a new doctor (PhD, not MD) and I'm trying to get plates that are 23-27 years old. Best place to meet them?You just have to add value and you should be fine. Make friends, even among the college folk (but don't be the guy who ONLY hangs out with college students). I'm 30, live in a major college town and in the past year I've dated a 20 year old sorority girl. I theoretically have a date with a 22 year old tonight. As far as I can tell, the age thing is a myth. You just have to understand the mindset of a college girl and offer value within that paradigm. Take a look here: https://www.reddit.com/r/Th… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/15 10:41 PM |
| 50 | Meghan Trainor: Singer, songwriter, promoter of open hypergamyBecause the thirsty among us essentially don't. It's one of the reason cultivating an abundance mentality is so powerful - you literally stop caring, they lose their power - and essentially regain your agency. A man with his agency intact is a powerful force, and this is precisely what they find attractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Number one nationally syndicated talk radio show in the U.S. spent a good amount of time today broadcasting TRP from sea to shining seaI thought Elvis did that so that he could legally carry drugs? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 02:16 PM |
| 11 | You were never her friendYou send a girl a picture of a cute dog. She usually responds with "doggie!" Or "he's so cute, I want him." Puts her in a good mood, and you can go from there. Also gives you a topic to talk about (dogs) that she enjoys. And most girls like dogs. If you've found one of the rare few that don't like cute puppies, send a cat picture? And then you do the logistical texts - "What are you up to" or the like, or "come over". Don't worry about coming off too bold. I will frequently ask girls to bring me… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Mother of 4 stands naked all day in the house, feminists love it. How would they react if a man did it?"I'm the real standard of beauty! All those hot FAKE girls should be ignored! I've still got it! My SMV is still super fucking high and I'm going to teach my children that my SMV always will be high! In fact, I'm actually more attractive than they are!" | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 08:23 PM |
| 11 | FR: The Wall is UnforgivingYou are far too ego-invested in this. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 08:19 PM |
| 22 | You were never her friendI once knew a guy that wrote a girl a poem about how she wouldn't open up, and how he wanted her to open up. She defriended him. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 08:01 PM |
| 15 | You were never her friendI have found that cute dogs are girl crack. I used to use funny pictures generally, but I found cute dogs so much more effective that it's basically my entire text game now. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Github introduces "Code of Conduct" that "promotes equality", programmers reactDoesn't that increase storage requirements significantly? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 03:56 PM |
| 19 | Github introduces "Code of Conduct" that "promotes equality", programmers reactFree publicity too. The outrage machine of the internet will certainly attack it, which will cause subscription rates to soar. I've considered starting, "outrage" products before. Never sure whether I want to attach my name to them though. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 03:55 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is salvation. Unfortunately, extreme depression and chronic nihilism are major side effects.I know you're making a joke, but I'll respond to it seriously. Heavy drinking will drop your T-levels, so it's probably a bad idea. Go lift instead. You'll feel like God after a good squat workout. Raises your T, makes you stronger and makes you tougher. I also find you want to fuck everything that moves after a good one, but YMMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 02:53 PM |
| 4 | The Red Pill is salvation. Unfortunately, extreme depression and chronic nihilism are major side effects.I'll come out and say it - you're being a whiny bitch. I'm 30 years old - I've certainly been through the ringer. You're not some expert in life experience here. I saw a commenter who was 62 the other day. Google, "the five stages of the Redpill". You're currently in depression. Acceptance is the next stage. Women will never be what you want them to be. And that isn't a problem. They are what they are. You need to modify your beliefs. I was somewhat inoculated against part of the Redpill stages … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 01:53 PM |
| 24 | Github introduces "Code of Conduct" that "promotes equality", programmers reactThere's always bitbucket, it lets you have free private repos too. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/15 01:35 PM |
| 5 | Be Wary of the Epiphany Phase WomanThis is why I just consider it dangerous to date anyone over the age of 26 or 27, and mostly just don't do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 04:39 PM |
| 4 | German guy on 8chan/pol explains workplace efficiency "study"Yes, they don't tend to leadership on average, but there are certainly exceptions to the rule. Humans as a whole have a lot of variation. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 05:43 AM |
| 15 | "Men rarely catcall me anymore, I hate that our culture makes me miss it."Because you are wrong. Men are by far more likely to be a victim of violent crime - even when we're talking about unprovoked crimes. It is far more dangerous to be a male. This is overwhelmingly backed by statistics. "They feel more scared" isn't a sufficient reason to say women have it worse. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Men's Wrongs in the Media: Marvel's Ant-ManWhich, if we note history, merely leads to more personalized/local scale violence. A monopoly on violence doesn't mean, "the ones in charge are always good", which is demonstrably false. It means, "Having a monopoly on violence reduces most of it, which is on average better for everyone, even if sometimes the outcome is unjust". Partially because if there's a power vacuum, it is quickly filled, and individual humans are more prone to violence than a state that is theoretically regulated by rules… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/15 06:21 PM |
| 15 | Men's Wrongs in the Media: Marvel's Ant-ManI saw people openly discussing rape hysteria openly the other day on Facebook. From sources I wouldn't expect, either, with no shaming going on (basically the question was, "How do I protect my son from a false accusation?") The fact that three men were able to semi-publicly discuss false accusations was a shocker to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/15 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Men's Wrongs in the Media: Marvel's Ant-ManYeah, they're just conceptual tools to help better describe trends of behavior. A man can act "beta", but no man is immutably some sort of alternative homo beta species. And it's not even like "beta" behavior is necessarily bad - it's just bad in the current dating market in the west. A century ago, provider game was pretty solid, and there wasn't nearly as much dichotomy as now. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/15 08:45 PM |
| 15 | My 72 y.o. grandma attempted to leave her husband for Nigerian scammerI don't understand why more people don't do this. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/15 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Spun Plates. Got Herpes.HPV (or are you trying to talk about HSV? Though this would apply to both) are far less virulent when not active, at least in every piece of literature I've read. I'm not sure how symptomatic the two symptomatic strains of HPV are, but at least in the case of HSV, the vast majority of cases are asymptomatic. Like 70-90%. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/15 05:51 PM |
| 13 | A man presents only facts to dispute gender pay gap existence. Wins against feminist.I believe (I read it a while ago) in the article in question he specifically mentioned how being gay allowed him the freedom to link here. He knows how the SJW system and the greater FI both work and how to exploit his status in them for the betterment of men. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/15 02:35 PM |
| 3 | A man presents only facts to dispute gender pay gap existence. Wins against feminist.That doesn't sound crazy - equals about 55k in USD, which is probably about standard for a recent graduate dev in the US. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/15 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Don't Talk to Me Like a Bitch.This is completely consistent with my experience, as a relatively tiny short dude. I was a bit socially isolated as a kid (and terrible with women, as most of us here were), and didn't really realize that height was a thing for women until my early 20s. Because of that I never grew up thinking I was short or having any sort of short-related anxiety. Guys that are short, and know it, and are bothered by that fact are immediately visible to women. If you really, really don't give a fuck, it matter… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/15 09:34 AM |
| 16 | First post syndromeYou do what you can within the constraints that you have. If you're disabled, you will not do as well as someone, all things being equal, who isn't physically disabled. Likewise with tall and short (this is all things being equal - things are never entirely equal and TRP is all about how to maximize yourself). A tall ripped billionaire will have more options than a short ripped billionaire. The disparity in options is fantastically minor though (and probably only limited to one woman - the LTR o… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/15 02:52 AM |
| 17 | First post syndromeMaybe a post about masculine language and how we communicate here? Possibly with a special emphasis on how victimhood is not a successful path for men. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/15 11:56 PM |
| 0 | Husband does everything wife claims to want, Wife takes off one day saying "I'll be back" and never returns.I have the option to do far less than I do. And I choose not to do that. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/15 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Husband does everything wife claims to want, Wife takes off one day saying "I'll be back" and never returns.You have to do some comfort in an LTR. This is increasingly true as a woman gets older and her SMV drops. That being said, the first and foremost thing you must always maintain is your SMV, because if she feels hers is above yours at any point, she will try to leave. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/15 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Husband does everything wife claims to want, Wife takes off one day saying "I'll be back" and never returns.Part of the process of unplugging is understanding that the lie of, "work hard for someone and you'll get rewarded for it" is typically bunk. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/15 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Husband does everything wife claims to want, Wife takes off one day saying "I'll be back" and never returns.No, he has, "I want to build things/do something" Syndrome. You sound like you don't. Which is fine - have the life you want, which seems to be as much ease as possible. Some of us simply don't want that. The very idea disgusts me. I would view that as a wasted life if I did it. But your life is your own. Do with it what you will. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/15 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Husband does everything wife claims to want, Wife takes off one day saying "I'll be back" and never returns.Yep, I got promised a raise at my last job if I upgraded my wardrobe and got rid of my college junker and switched to something new for a car. Bought all new clothes, and nice car. Spent a good chunk of my savings to that time. And waited for almost a year. Never got a raise, even after saving the company's ass on a project (after a senior employee left abruptly in the middle of it) and working 14-16 hour days. I was later told by an HR person when she quit that they almost never gave raises out… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/15 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Husband does everything wife claims to want, Wife takes off one day saying "I'll be back" and never returns.On the off-chance you're not a troll - telling men to own their shit and understand that women are not going to bend over backwards to communicate effectively with them in the way men are used to communicating, and that because of that, if they want to become better leaders of women and have better relationships they need to learn the how's and why's of female communication is not even anything near supplication. It's understanding an underlying reality and using it to your advantage. Ignore it … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/15 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Husband does everything wife claims to want, Wife takes off one day saying "I'll be back" and never returns.Another wonderful example of how TRP is the ultimate supplication of women by men. Please, stay off the crack. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/15 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Lessons from an Academic Study of Female College Freshmen HookupsIt means you did something with the person that is beyond making out typically. It could be anywhere from groping mildly to full on vaginal or anal sex. It usually at least implies someone orgasmed. It is intentionally vague. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/15 05:44 AM |
| 4 | Husband does everything wife claims to want, Wife takes off one day saying "I'll be back" and never returns.In my experience, a lot of the time they have trouble understanding what direct communication is. If you were like, "talk to me directly", they'd be like, "What does that mean?" Their default method of communication is subtle, and sadly, it's on us to learn to read it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/15 05:38 AM |
| 7 | We Shall Prevail! A campaign of subtle anti-feminism propaganda.Won't do anything, comes off as men's rights-y. You want to black knight here, if anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/15 09:04 PM |
| 24 | We Shall Prevail! A campaign of subtle anti-feminism propaganda.I always thought a campaign that straight-faced advocated for women to work on oil rigs and in coal mines would be a pretty good win. "Are you going to let him tell you you can't work on an oil rig? Girl power!" My copy isn't great, but I think the idea is sound. Not sure how much use it would be though. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/15 06:27 PM |
| 4 | Casting Call: "Ugly People" - Situational SMVWhen you've got the rock solid confidence of, "I've been here before - I can do at least as well as this, if not better", it's very easy to talk to a girl at a certain level. It's one of the reasons why, when I started pickup several years ago, I'd go up to the hottest girls in the club and just say the most ridiculous things to them. Not only did it work a decent % of the time, it got me sufficiently acclimated so that I didn't have to do that eventually. Talking to a girl that you currently co… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/15 12:42 AM |
| 2 | A Skill That Maximizes Success for Both Lovers and Providers: Fixing ShitThe same thing works in reverse, if you're not dressed in a suit or flashing money around. Working class girls don't necessarily have as strong of a grasp on knowledge work. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/15 03:49 AM |
| 3 | What is the real endgame of Red Pill strategy?The idea that there are no rules was probably one of the most important lessons I learned from PUA and TRP. The fact that you can do anything - literally ANYTHING you're capable of doing. Want to become and are able to become the next Napoleon or Alexander the Great? Have fun conquering the world bro! Want to have 50 children by 20 different women? Have at! You obviously won't achieve everything or even most of what you might want, but you can certainly try, and try to have the most enjoyable ri… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/15 12:35 AM |
| 3 | The Advice of an Akkadian Father to His Son, c. 2200 BCENo, it was pretty much dead by 200 BCE. Isolated pockets may have survived until Islam came along, but nothing substantial. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/15 01:51 PM |
| 31 | The Advice of an Akkadian Father to His Son, c. 2200 BCEI highly doubt OP is a member of a 2000 year old extinct Mesopotamian religion. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/15 02:33 AM |
| 10 | Woman's Hamster Spins Into Overdrive As She Widens Her Preferences To Include Short Guys As She Crashes Into The WallI've had good success with responding to, "I'm taller than you" with, "I'll climb that mountain." | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/15 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Fat woman posts selfie after feeling "fat-shamed" goes viral on the net and is described "an inspiration"you're assuming 1:1 matching. The ugliest men don't date. The ugliest women are typically plates for less ugly men. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/15 01:19 AM |
| 6 | Being a douchebag for a day is the fastest way to overcome your social insecurities & paranoia.There was once an insanely crowded bar I went to. No tables in sight. I had a date with me, and I really wanted to go to this bar. I found an end table. I took the flowers off of it, put them on another table (where people were seated), and put two chairs around it. Not 5 minutes later, I was being served drinks and food with my date. Taking what you want is the hallmark of a man, and while it pisses people off to some extent, they also respect it as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/15 12:56 AM |
| 6 | Spun Plates. Got Herpes.Most STI tests don't cover herpes (and unless state-mandated, I doubt most hookers would opt for the more expensive tests, as it would directly reduce their market value). I would assume the customer base of the average prostitute isn't savvy enough to understand STI test != herpes test. The solution is don't give a fuck about herpes either way, because it isn't a big deal, and you've probably already got at least one form of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Spun Plates. Got Herpes.Because incurable doesn't really matter in this context. By "incurable", it means there are latent viral reservoirs that will almost never affect you (or anyone else) after a few months to a couple of years. Painful genital sores happens in a tiny fraction of the population. It's like saying the flu is a big deal. Sure, if you're immunocompromised or weak, it's a big deal. If you're a normal person? Not even really worth worrying about. If it happens, it happens. You'll get over it. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Spun Plates. Got Herpes.So people whose jobs depend on continued funding for STD prevention are saying STDs, including a minor skin rash that basically goes away on its own, are a serious threat. Alright. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Spun Plates. Got Herpes.I want a woman who lusts exclusively for me ,not someone who lusts after any chad who gives her attention. Women will always want a better man. If a better man than you (in her eyes) comes along, and wants her, you've lost her. That's the long and short of it. Clean girls don't knowingly become plates unless you are an incarnation of fucking Adonis himself That is inconsistent with my experiences. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Spun Plates. Got Herpes.You don't have to fuck a lot of women to get the confidence encouraged at TRP, but by god, is it a hell of a lot easier to get said confidence when you understand that women are essentially fungible, and the best, most visceral way to get that knowledge is to fuck a lot of them. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 11:02 PM |
| 5 | Spun Plates. Got Herpes.No, it's just not a big deal. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 11:49 AM |
| 55 | Spun Plates. Got Herpes.I'll probably get downvoted for this (and as far as I know, I don't have it myself, but it is certainly possible), but herpes is not a big deal. At all. In fact, you almost certainly had HSV-1 (which can be, but isn't as often genital - it usually infects the lips) before contractng HSV-2. You say 50%, but I've seen estimates of 80%-90% as well. Hell, if the rash on your junk is herpes, it easily could be HSV-1 from a girl that gave you a blowjob. The vast majority of people are asymptomatic, if… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 11:41 AM |
| 1 | CH maxim: The feminist goal is removing all constraints on female sexuality while maximally restricting male sexuality - UofM Enforcing Positive Consent, restricting male sexuality to guilty until proven innocent.You can still fuck them after. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 01:42 AM |
| 1 | This bitch. Cheats on college boyfriend and justifies itI looked up the number from here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Importance_of_religion_by_country I'd say that's a much more important metric than the number of actual religious. Sure, the average Russian might say, "Yeah, I'm an Orthodox Christian", but at this point it's more of a nationalistic thing, not an actual belief thing. It does not impact their lives. They're not going to church on Sunday. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/15 01:09 PM |
| 6 | This bitch. Cheats on college boyfriend and justifies itI'm not quite sure how you're claiming that religiousness causes lower GDP. You've got plenty of countries with very low religiosity (Russia, China, Albania, Vietnam, North Korea) that don't have a particularly high GDP. And several high countries with the converse - Italy, Portugal, Spain. If anything, the chain of causation would seem to be, lower money per capita -> lower education level -> greater religiousness. This is consistent with other data that shows education is pretty much the main … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/15 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Sugar Daddies Are Paying Their Share Of The $1.3 Trillion Student Loan BalanceReminds me of Peter Schiff and his constant parroting about gold. I remember back when gold was at 1900 and so many people were like, "it's going to go even higher!" Idiotic. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/15 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Reddit is shutting itself down due to controversial firingIs there a PHP library to access the Reddit API? The only languages I saw were Javascript, Python and Java. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/15 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Reddit is shutting itself down due to controversial firingYou can do it all at PhoneGap Build - which is run by Adobe and runs on Cordova, without having to setup Cordova at all. You'd have to purchase an Apple Developer account ($100) to make an iPhone app though. That being said, if he has content that is being updated and expecting local access to certain resources (such as a database - which if he has multiple users and a forum, I'm absolutely guessing he has), he'll have to rewrite that to take advantage of a restful service (and setup that restfu… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/15 12:07 AM |
| 5 | Women can't take feedbackI haven't found a way to do that in 30 years. I don't suppose a way exists. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/15 09:54 PM |
| 18 | SMV Graph from OKCupid (Rollo was right but maybe too optimistic according to OKC data)Quite. If age is the only thing a girl has to go on (say, walk up to a random 19 year old and say, "Would you date a 35 year old?"), she's going to say no, because in her mind she's imagining a pot-bellied guy with two kids who is boring and thinking about his mortgage all day. If you're in good physical shape, and on your shit and have a little game, she's going to be far more receptive. Remember, status rules over everything else when it comes to this. Increase your status, increase the qualit… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/15 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Guy won't commit to his plate, she gets upset and accuses him of being a misogynist. Guess who r/relationship sides with.You should probably remove your picture and identification from there. There's no point in being identified. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/15 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Gym girl giving mixed signalsI don't think we are entirely disagreeing here. I'm not saying the girl was ever EAGERLY awaiting OP's move, but I feel OP, at least at a certain point, could have probably made something happen. My guess is that his initial text didn't entice her, and the situation went down as you described. A girl's attraction isn't a binary yes/no. But regardless, I think we agree that the situation, overall is largely fucked. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/15 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Gym girl giving mixed signals99% of the time "I will let you know" means "No." You're giving too much agency to the girl here. She didn't want to make a decision either way. If it were a more solid no, she'd probably use something like, "I've been so busy lately." Or rebuffed the OP's request for her number entirely (not that a number, by itself, means anything of course). Her behavior (texting him back, being flirty previously) indicates her buying temperature, for a lack of a better term, is low, but not non-existent. My … | /r/askTRP | 30/06/15 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Gym girl giving mixed signals"I will let you know", doesn't actually mean anything. Unless a girl is VERY - like well above average - interested in you (and it sounds that while she may be interested, she's less interested than before), that is where potential dates go to die. If a girl ever tells you, "I'll let you know", don't expect a response. It's your responsibility to make the date happen. Honestly the "?" and the whole exchange came off as somewhat weak. You're sounding like you're waiting for her at her beck and ca… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/15 12:02 PM |
| 8 | iPhones save and map all location data by default.Again, it really depends why you're doing it. If I ever own my own home, I intend to pepper it with tiny hidden cameras. Why? Because it helps me cover my ass in case anything happens. Does it mean I'm a fearful control freak? No, I just see the value in information asymmetry. More data is always more valuable than less, as long as you're not getting drowned in it, or missing the bigger picture. If you're absolutely changing your behavior and expending a ton more energy to get data that isn't th… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/15 05:17 PM |
| 9 | iPhones save and map all location data by default.The way I read this was more for people who suspected something. Nothing wrong with availing yourself of useful information if you suspect something is amiss. If you're doing it out of some scarce, "I can't lose her!!!!!!!!!" mindset, sure, bad, but if you're just doing it from a pure, "I need to manage my life with the most information possible" perspective, it's fine. Think about it this way - if you were a business owner, and you had an employee considering another job, would you prefer to ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/15 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Employers and Shit Testing: A mirror of the transaction of traditional marriage?I mean I don't think you're ever going to entirely see a situation (maybe with all the automation we'll be doing, but not necessarily even then) where everyone has a ton of autonomy. Even as a contractor/business owner, there are almost always going to be bigger fish than you and at times you're going to essentially be part of a giant cog. For example, let's say you're an independent business owner, with a couple of employees and you suddenly get a contract from a major government, for a several… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/15 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Beta male allows his wife to be gangbanged by Chad Thundercock, wife leaves hubby for Chad but he won't commitIn the case that he wants to repair the relationship to prevent divorce rape, Athol Kay's stuff would probably help. But just, that's a terribly rocky start. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/15 12:58 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill is Not PUAYou are completely misunderstanding his point. "Having too much outcome dependency" is just another case of not empathizing enough with women. Women don't want men that care about the interaction, because a man who cares obviously (to the girl brain) has near or lower social status than the woman in question. BurgundyCapet is basically saying, "stop being a low-level tactician, and instead become a strategist". | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/15 07:25 AM |
| 3 | The Red Pill is Not PUAI mentioned DJ specifically because it takes fuck-all effort (6 months of intense study and effort perhaps - essentially nothing in terms of time investment - at least compared to what a lot of men put into women) to become a shit DJ, and it allows you to immediately have status in a club. No need to be famous by any means. Shitty DJ making $25k at local shithole gets more sex than your average white collar worker I'd wager. At least, that's what seems to be true in my area. The main point is th… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/15 06:30 AM |
| 3 | The Red Pill is Not PUAI'm 5'7", or maybe 5'8"ish. Vladimir Putin is 5'6". I have out-competed taller men (much taller, at times) for girls and I'm in shape, but not nearly as muscular as it sounds like you are - so I really don't think this is a height thing (which does matter, but is only one small aspect of the whole thing). You sound entirely defeatist - I can't be sure, but my guess would be that it's more your attitude than anything else. You're extremely muscular and have a baller career, but you make it sound … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/15 06:21 AM |
| 3 | Beta male allows his wife to be gangbanged by Chad Thundercock, wife leaves hubby for Chad but he won't commitNo circumstances really would make it worthwhile, outside of fantastically contrived circumstances (crazy things like, she is the heir to a multi million dollar fortune, with no pre-nup and you're 1 year away from lifetime alimony in your state). That's sorta the point. She doesn't respect you. She's going to leave you the moment she thinks she can branch swing again. This behavior pattern will be repeated, all things being equal. You can put in gargantuan effort with dread gaming her - lifting,… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/15 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Beta male allows his wife to be gangbanged by Chad Thundercock, wife leaves hubby for Chad but he won't commitI'd go so far as to say powertalk fluency/understanding the process of communication is the largest advantage TRP has over just plain PUA. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/15 05:40 AM |
| 3 | "It Didn't Mean Anything!"I never claimed that she was the average, in fact my guess is that her amount of sexual activity was significantly above average. It was just a statement that such girls do exist. They've certainly got easy sexual access if they do want to go that route. If we want to get into quantitative data, I got into a similar argument on PPD not too long ago. The long and short of it was that something like 40-50% of women in the developed world between the ages of 18-25 (or maybe it was 18-30) had signed… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 03:09 PM |
| 4 | "It Didn't Mean Anything!"While there are certainly a decent chunk of girls that stay in LTRs, there are certainly a great deal of girls that stay single and hook up a lot. One time, I hooked up with a relatively cute Asian girl. We met up literally a week later, and she told me she had fucked 3 other guys in the intervening week. Four guys. In a week. And she didn't seem to think anything of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 10:59 AM |
| 0 | Even the Catholic Church, once a stalwart bastion of the strong nuclear family, is now throwing in with the feminists and is encouraging divorce and man shamingWhat, pray-tell, is wrong with Yahoo News as a source? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Even the Catholic Church, once a stalwart bastion of the strong nuclear family, is now throwing in with the feminists and is encouraging divorce and man shamingMost smaller crimes (such as simple drug possession) are handled by the states. The President has no power over those sentences. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 10:45 AM |
| 5 | We're here for the unhappy losersWe get what every woman wants: the dedicated passionate service of a man who wants us to be happy and who's committed to our well being and happiness above all. What a fantastic summation of TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 09:46 AM |
| 7 | The Red Pill is Not PUAWhen I read this, I read the comment of someone who has read the piece above and said, "No, I don't want to change the territory." In the map/territory analogy, you've adopted TRP into your "map", but you seem to feel you're not capable of changing yourself/your situation (the two are almost, but not entirely interchangable when it comes to women). Engagement requires action, not just knowledge. Vladimir Putin is short, and he's not very pretty. But I bet he can still fuck just about any caliber… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 09:33 AM |
| 2 | There is no such thing as "go to South America and raise a family with a redpill woman". If you think that, you're wrong.There is a federal law that says the minimum age of consent abroad is 18, regardless of the country. The intention is to prevent sex trafficking and underage sex tourism. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 06:15 PM |
| 24 | There is no such thing as "go to South America and raise a family with a redpill woman". If you think that, you're wrong.FYI: Americans are not allowed to fuck anyone under 18 outside the US. Inside the US it is up to state law. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 04:07 AM |
| 7 | There is no such thing as "go to South America and raise a family with a redpill woman". If you think that, you're wrong.My one and only experience with dating a Latin American rich girl (she went to an Ivy League, and then went to a top tier law school and her family was well-connected in Latin America) was as follows: We meet up for drinks. 30 minutes later she is blowing and then fucking me in my car, after being very sexually suggestive in the bar ("Have you ever fucked someone you've just met?") During the blowing and the fucking, her hamster is exploding (or maybe this was the shit test to end all shit tests… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Employers and Shit Testing: A mirror of the transaction of traditional marriage?Not to mention how much more efficient you'll be on your own schedule (as long as you have self-discipline). No more lack of sleep hampering work-time. No more working at random hours when you don't feel efficient. Learn a skill, make enough to be able to stay comfortable for a few months (whatever that is for you), and make the leap. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/15 11:51 PM |
| 13 | Husband found Red Pill before Honeymoon when his hours old wife moaned her ex's nameYou're an English lawyer? Please tell me why the Wikipedia page and every other reference I'm reading for common law marriage in England says that there is no common law marriage in England, and this is a common misconception among lay people. Either you're a shitty lawyer, or a liar. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/15 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Husband found Red Pill before Honeymoon when his hours old wife moaned her ex's nameWell, to be fair, it's only been in the last few decades that we've been encouraging marriages at much later ages. There's simply less time for an 18 year old (or way way back in the day, even younger) to have slept around with dozens of guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/15 10:20 AM |
| 21 | Final Warning: Keep Your Damn Morals To YourselfTrying to use shaming arguments is all people who disagree with us have, because our philosophy is essentially, "We want to be the best Girl Science engineers around". If someone flipped a magic switch and suddenly "blue pill" behavior worked perfectly, we'd be discussing the best way to display provider behaviors and how many clingy texts per hour to send. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/15 01:11 AM |
| 1 | This may well be the best thing to happen for men.Similar plants to the one that went extinct exist and are fairly common, so it may be that they have similar properties, and the Romans just didn't recognize they were related because of their lack of understanding of evolution/botany. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/06/15 09:16 PM |
| 4 | Anti-Rape Program Teaching Women how to say "no" Halves Number of Campus AssaultsThis is why good bedside manner is important with hook-ups. I was out of college by the time I started getting laid by anything but ugly girls, but for men nowadays, either date or fuck outside your college (tribunals for sexual assault only apply to students at your school) or have good bedside manner. Good bedside manner gives a woman good "feels" and makes her unlikely to report a consensual sexual assault as a rape. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/15 11:08 AM |
| 3 | Lifting is not enough. Don't BETA PROVIDE for your BOSS.I'm about at that level now. I've been saving up for about a year and a half with minimal spending. I'm looking at freelancer rates in my industry, and the pay is significantly higher if you're willing to go out and get the work yourself - and there is a lot of work. Not to mention that being on my own schedule will, I estimate, make me about 2-3x more productive. Would you be willing to make a post outlining your steps in greater detail and initial experiences? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/15 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Jurassic World Surprisingly NeomasculineTo me it felt like it was trying to straddle the line between a more traditional/redpill approach and a more feminist style approach. That makes sense to get the largest target demographic. It gives the jerkboy alpha male archetype you expect in a movie like that but it also turns the post wall career woman into a badass as well - but then again also it's made quite clear in the movie that even if she's a badass, she's not as much of a badass as he is. She gets scared and hides behind him, at on… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/15 10:42 PM |
| 1 | 'The Fear of Being Alone Has Ruined Modern Dating' huffingtonpost is attacking MGTOW and SandmanI started lifting shortly after discovering TRP until I got injured and did it religiously. Going to pick it up again within the next month or two as soon as I'm able. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/15 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Suicidal lonely guy is frustrated by women, reaches out for help. R/AskMen decides the REAL problem is that he's a shitlord misogynist!Rollo publishes books. Dalrock almost certainly believes he is earning his reward in Heaven. Whether that counts as, "not free", I can't say. There is something to be said about the pride of knowing you're helping people out, too. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/15 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Suicidal lonely guy is frustrated by women, reaches out for help. R/AskMen decides the REAL problem is that he's a shitlord misogynist!The only person who really wants you to be happy, beyond a very small, cursory level, is yourself. You are on your own. Don't wish for a lighter burden, wish for broader shoulders and all that. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/15 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Suicidal lonely guy is frustrated by women, reaches out for help. R/AskMen decides the REAL problem is that he's a shitlord misogynist!I came from a broken home too - I never met my father and still am not certain to this day who he is. As far as I'm aware, the only name I have, is dead. I won't lie and sugar coat to you and tell you you'll get where you want to be immediately - hell, I started to have the wool removed from my eyes four years ago (when I first started discovering PUA and the like) and I'm still not where I want to be (a position of power with significant accumulated wealth). The thing is, right now it is being,… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/15 11:37 PM |
| 10 | "If organized girl scientists or any other similar group can't survive innocent comments like Tim Hunt's without a career or another assassination, they are a problem not just for the labs. They are a problem for the pillars of the Western civilization"Sounds like he wanted to retire, make a point, and show that women would freak the fuck out from simple criticism. The medium is the message, here. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/15 10:24 PM |
| 1 | 'The Fear of Being Alone Has Ruined Modern Dating' huffingtonpost is attacking MGTOW and SandmanHow old are you? Have you not noticed any dip in the amount of 20ish year olds? I'm almost 30 and haven't noticed any dip, but I'm curious about how reasonable that trend will be going forward. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/15 06:22 PM |
| 1 | College Girls Aren't Impossible, You Just Suck: A PrimerQuite. There's a major difference between someone who lets himself go after his 20s, an aging frat brother who has had a dadbod for 15 years, and a guy who has stayed on his shit, and is excelling. As I've gotten older it gets more and more obvious when people start to give up. People you've known for ten years and who have been thin the entire time suddenly get fat. Their girlfriends, if they have them, get fat. They don't have an active bone in their body and their career goals are mediocre. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 03:50 AM |
| 3 | Divorce is no longer about the individuals involved, it is now an industry.A pre-nup only covers earnings from before the marriage, so chances are it wouldn't have de-incentivized her that much. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 08:28 PM |
| 3 | I'm slowly swallowing the pill, yesterday i told my crush we can't be friends anymore, help me learn how to live without women.IIRC there's a mental effect when someone is really attracted to another person that short circuits their ability to see negatives about that person. Add that with the ability to see only hits and not really see misses (a form of confirmation bias I think), and it could very well be that you two aren't very much alike, your brain has just said, "YOU MUST FUCK HER, THEREFORE YOU MUST LIKE HER". | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 12:43 PM |
| 1 | I'm slowly swallowing the pill, yesterday i told my crush we can't be friends anymore, help me learn how to live without women.Everyone else in his life has probably told him, "Just keep trying, things will work out! If it is meant to be, it'll happen!" We're the rational kick in the pants he needs, not necessarily the one he'll like. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 12:39 PM |
| 8 | I'm slowly swallowing the pill, yesterday i told my crush we can't be friends anymore, help me learn how to live without women.Why? She's not special. Nor is she in anyway beneficial to you now, or in the future. Drop her. She's mental pollution. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 05:42 AM |
| 2 | I'm slowly swallowing the pill, yesterday i told my crush we can't be friends anymore, help me learn how to live without women.You need to work on becoming stoic and valuing yourself higher than the women you're interacting with. If you work hard and make yourself into a baller - fit, wealthy, socially charismatic, you'd certainly be able to do better than your crush, right? Of course you would. It's not like she's magical in some way. If you think she is, you're wrong. There's better out there than her. Start lifting weights, start planning a career and how to not be someone's slave for the rest of your life. Make some… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 05:40 AM |
| 4 | It's All Men's Fault! AKA "the Red Pill Feminists"I am aware of the difference in variance between male and female IQs. I don't disagree with that data. I don't think philosophically we're disagreeing here. I would hope that the selection criteria for competence in a given role isn't chosen based on gender, but competence. And your scenario will never happen. Nobody wants society to crumble. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 03:24 PM |
| 2 | It's All Men's Fault! AKA "the Red Pill Feminists"I don't know that I necessarily agree with that (with obvious exceptions such as sports, where the gender dimorphism between men and women is so high, and so plainly obvious that we need to have separate gendered divisions). There are certainly more men in the % of the 1% of any given field, but there can certainly be exceptions. Look at Oprah, Margaret Thatcher, Martha Stewart. Look at that young woman who won the Fields medal in Iran recently. These are all examples of extremely competent, top… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 02:31 PM |
| 4 | It's All Men's Fault! AKA "the Red Pill Feminists"I'll be glad the day a woman president comes to office. Because the world will start to really see what happens when you shove them up against men in that environment. You're conflating the average woman who gets into power with the average woman. They are not the same. While I will absolutely agree that the average woman is generally more illogical, there are something like 3 and a half billion women, and some of them are going to be on either edge of the bell curve. This is why mandating quota… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 01:36 PM |
| 16 | Why Do People Have Children?This was my experience during my youth, but at around 27 I started to see that girls my age were having a sharp uptick in the amount of babies they want to have. So much so that at near 30, I won't date a girl over 27. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 01:09 PM |
| 4 | "Being offended its the new American past time"When I was in media, we noticed that if you added the word, "Apple" to any article, it immediately spiked interest and increased the hit count by at least 2x. There were a few other key companies/products that would do this. So we just went out of our way to talk about those things. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 01:07 PM |
| 5 | Why This Whole Bruce Jenner Thing Ticks Me OffNo man is so dedicated a troll that he is open to chopping his dick off for the art of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 04:04 AM |
| 3 | Why This Whole Bruce Jenner Thing Ticks Me OffMaybe he took a lot of steroids and it fucked with his hormones. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 03:34 AM |
| 5 | "Being offended its the new American past time"I used to work in online media. It was precisely this. It's entirely about how many clicks a given article could generate. We'd put together the most unrelated crap just because it had popular keywords. I literally wrote an article generator that could cover some of our more simple use-cases with a few variables. Absolute garbage. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 02:46 AM |
| 31 | If you lift and have an ltr I'm sure you heard this shit testAfter lifting for about 8 months straight, religiously, a plate said to me - "Your butt is just way too firm. I really like a guy with a flabbier butt" | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/15 12:11 AM |
| 1 | I'll repost in askTRP if necessary, but I'd rather ask this here: Are you guys happy?Read about the concept of the "hedonistic treadmill" | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/15 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill Men: Do you almost exclusively date age/2 + 7 for women?I am nearly 30. I have slept with only one girl over 25 in the past year and a half. I haven't ever slept with anyone under 18, though the option is available to me (it is legal where I live). That just generally seems like too young though. I would, and will continue to hook up with 18 and 19 year olds though. The last girl I slept with was 19. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/15 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Guy on r/okcupid takes a girl on a date - she leaves with another guy during the date. Hypergamy in action.I know what he's doing but I acquiesce. He didn't keep control of the situation, and he just passively watched as his girl was taken by another guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Married couple have baby - it's not hisNothing I wrote requires his IP. And they're not going to be able to get his IP from his FB, as far as I know. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Married couple have baby - it's not hisI'm not here to be popular. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Married couple have baby - it's not hisIf he wants to do it, he can do it. I'm telling him I feel it's a bad idea. It is, at the end of the day, entirely his decision. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/15 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Married couple have baby - it's not hisSo you're saying that Genghis Khan, mass murderer and rapist wasn't, "alpha" as you put it? The concept of "alpha" (powerful, high status, often violent, leader of men) does not necessarily contain, "good", or "just". There have been plenty of scumbag, "alphas". There are men with half a dozen illegitimate children, each by a different mother sitting in prisons right now (they were unable to curb the violent or impulsive side of "alpha"). There are plenty of ruthless executives who earned millio… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/15 05:34 PM |
| 0 | Married couple have baby - it's not hisSaying, "this is not your mess" is different than saying, "I really love it when men get cuckolded". Women are going to cuckold, as they have done throughout history. We now have more ability to detect this than at any time before. OP is essentially basing his views on the fact that some girl at his work was friendly with some dude at her work, and he doesn't see a work reason for them to interact, and the dude left the company, combined with the fact that people are gossiping about this. No evi… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/15 05:21 PM |
| 0 | Married couple have baby - it's not hisAgain, OP works at a company where both she and the other guy worked. We have no idea how big the company is, but could easily be less than 40 people. It will immediately make this woman think an employee did it. Not to mention that OP has no idea this is true. Literally none. And if he's wrong? Well he may have blown up a marriage with a new baby for nothing. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/15 04:27 PM |
| 0 | Married couple have baby - it's not hisExcept he has pretty much by definition narrowed down the list of people to people she knows at work, and people she's told (if it is in fact true, which we don't even know). I doubt she's told too many people. I have no idea how big his company is, but if it's anywhere less than 200 people she'll probably be able to narrow it down further just from personal disposition. Maybe specifically to him, maybe not. And if this is true, and the husband finds out, it has the potential to ruin her life. W… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/15 02:07 PM |
| 6 | Married couple have baby - it's not hisWhy potentially expose himself to unnecessary risk? He doesn't even know the guy. Hell, he doesn't even know the story is true. Based on the evidence I can definitely see why he believes it, but he'd be risking his skin for someone he doesn't know on pure conjecture. You can't always go around being captain save-a-bro. There are too many people in too many shitty situations. Should you white knight with a random girl you don't even know? Hell no! Should you white knight with a random guy you don… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/15 01:27 PM |
| 1 | What MRA's could (and Should) learn from Gamergate.I can't find any evidence for that. The closest claim I can find is a claim by Chateau Heartiste that they were the first to make the connection. https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/12/24/the-difference-between-game-and-the-red-pill/ To be fair, that also seems doubtful to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/15 07:48 AM |
| 1 | What MRA's could (and Should) learn from Gamergate.So you're saying you invented the Redpill terminology? I am more than moderately skeptical about that. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/15 12:25 AM |
| 3 | I am Karen Straughan [girlwriteswhat]; Ask Me Anything.That is quite interesting. I wasn't aware of this. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/15 11:40 PM |
| 6 | I am Karen Straughan [girlwriteswhat]; Ask Me Anything.Do they? That's the question I'm asking. I am certainly not convinced and it seems like most of the rest of us aren't either. Karen is hugely involved in the MRM, so obviously we're going to ask her about it. Now, quit trolling. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/15 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Women in Education: A Reflection from my Career as a TeacherOh absolutely agreed. It'd be tough on anyone. But I also generally feel men are more capable of dealing with stress. Ultimately she wanted to get into surgical education, which sounded like a smart career move. A lot less stress. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/15 05:13 PM |
| 2 | TRP: Who is more attractive to women: a physically attractive guy who acts beta or a physically unattractive guy who acts alpha?If the "weird vibe" is due to social awkwardness, I'd certainly say it'll help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Do women age worse than men?Honestly, men should be using sunscreen more. I've used it pretty consistently for about 5 years. I still pass for 21, and I'm near 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 05:08 PM |
| 8 | I am Karen Straughan [girlwriteswhat]; Ask Me Anything.I've seen what I consider to be the most important question in about five different forms here - namely this: Will the MRM adapt to the fact that arguing in good faith with feminists isn't working? Will we be seeing more of, "feminism-as-a-shit-test" type thinking or will we continue to see attempts to argue in good faith, despite every shred of evidence indicating it doesn't work, and it only causes the MRM to lose respect in the eyes of everyone? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/15 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Women in Education: A Reflection from my Career as a TeacherWhen I dated a surgeon, she seemed to absolutely be near the point of tears every night because the job was so stressful. A GP position that turns into part-time to take care of kids sounds like an ideal role though. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/15 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Women in Education: A Reflection from my Career as a TeacherI once had a teacher in my middle school get so pissed off, she started freaking out and yelling at a student, and banging her shoe on the desk. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/15 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Both Pills: Is requiring that a girl have a low partner count too much to ask for in today's hook up culture?My guess is that the number of people engaging in casual sex is pretty high. 130 million people between the age of 18-30 in the developed world. I got this by calculating the percentage of people between 18-30 in the US (about 13%) multiplied by the number of total people in the developed world, most likely the only large number of Tinder users. There are 1 billion people in the developed world. There were 50 million tinder users in late 2014, and the number of swipes has increased by 60ish% in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/15 12:12 AM |
| 3 | Can we discuss how tinder and similar applications may be creating a paradigm shift in dating?While not guaranteed, sex is generally a pretty common resolution to tinder dates. Some girls are down for an immediate hook-up. The % of girls down with this on the app seems to be increasing over time. No data on this other than what I've personally observed. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/15 05:04 PM |
| 1 | TRP says, women when they are younger sleep around with guys out of their league, and when they get older end up settling down with guys that are less attractive. What exactly do you disagree about this?That, to me, sounds like a more reasonable breakdown. Not inflammatory while still making a strong argument for improvement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 04:22 PM |
| 1 | What MRA's could (and Should) learn from Gamergate.No, I think you are misunderstanding me. I'm saying there is a bachelor tax to encourage men to marry. Think of it this way - young executive is making $150000 per year and has a LTR making $50000. Suddenly she's like, "let's get maaaaaaaaaarried, look how much we'll save!" In this case the tax rates are working very similarly to a bachelor tax. None of that, anywhere, implied men should get married. Saying "there already sorta is a bachelor tax" != "so you should get married to avoid it". | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/15 01:47 PM |
| 1 | What MRA's could (and Should) learn from Gamergate.As far as I can tell, TRP is a branch off from the natural game side of PUA. It has adopted some MRA information, because it is true, but I don't see any strong relationship between MRAs and TRP. The fundamental principles are different. MRAs believe that feminists are arguing in good faith. TRP takes a Game stance and says, essentially, "listen to what they do, not what they say." | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/15 05:31 AM |
| 1 | What MRA's could (and Should) learn from Gamergate.There already is a bachelor tax, at least in the US, de facto if not de jure for a large % of men. It's about the closest you can have to a bachelor tax without it being unconstitutional or falling on women too. If you earn enough, you are taxed at a higher rate. Having a lower earning spouse (almost always a woman), and filing jointly gets you a far lower tax rate, for the same amount of income you would earn as a single man. Admittedly, in cases where there isn't much discrepancy between the i… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/15 05:15 AM |
| 8 | TRP nearly saved my marriage. And then I realized I didn't want it to...The thing is, if he wants to divorce her, the important thing is NOT to give the impression that he is going to. So he should act at least somewhat interested. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/15 04:53 AM |
| 1 | TRP says, women when they are younger sleep around with guys out of their league, and when they get older end up settling down with guys that are less attractive. What exactly do you disagree about this?Yes, but TRPers don't aim to be average. That's part of the point. Considering, at least in my country (America), being an overweight or obese BMI is normal (with something like 70% of the population being one or the other), it's pretty easy to be in the top 30% of men out of the box. There does tend to be an upwards age skew with that (as in, older people are more likely to be fat than younger ones), but as far as I remember, it's not much of a difference (between 5-15 pounds). but there defini… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 04:28 AM |
| 0 | TRP says, women when they are younger sleep around with guys out of their league, and when they get older end up settling down with guys that are less attractive. What exactly do you disagree about this?I can't speak for if it is a common thing or not - there's clearly going to be selection bias. By definition, I'm only going to be dating the younger girls that are cooler with a larger age gap. When I was dating a sorority sister about 6 months back, she said about half her sisters were alright with the idea and about half were opposed. That seems like a relatively normal breakdown to me. But it's a sufficiently high number that I don't see it as a problem anytime soon. I'd say the typical reas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/15 01:45 PM |
| 1 | TRP says, women when they are younger sleep around with guys out of their league, and when they get older end up settling down with guys that are less attractive. What exactly do you disagree about this?I am even more skeptical of those numbers than the other ones, but I'll look into these too. 5% of men having 95% of the sex sounds fantastically high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/15 03:18 AM |
| 5 | TRP says, women when they are younger sleep around with guys out of their league, and when they get older end up settling down with guys that are less attractive. What exactly do you disagree about this?No, I said I was, "skeptical of self-reported data". That doesn't mean, "You're wrong.", that means, "I am skeptical of self-reported data". It means, "I will do further research, but my college education, including managing a (small) psych research lab for two semesters, makes me immediately suspicious of all self-reported data". The professor who was in charge of me managing the lab's biases also probably didn't help. He was notoriously anti-self reported data at my school. Am I likely to chan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/15 03:16 AM |
| 4 | TRP says, women when they are younger sleep around with guys out of their league, and when they get older end up settling down with guys that are less attractive. What exactly do you disagree about this?I actually don't agree with the 80/20 split, as it is commonly discussed. I do feel that there is a discrepancy, but I don't believe it's as high as 80/20. But the 80/20 rule doesn't say that the other 80% of men are virgins. I don't think anyone at TRP believes that. Is this all self-reported? How are they gathering this data? I, having been a psychology major in college, am somewhat skeptical of self-reported data. I'll take a look at those studies when I have time though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/15 02:16 AM |
| 6 | TRP says, women when they are younger sleep around with guys out of their league, and when they get older end up settling down with guys that are less attractive. What exactly do you disagree about this?That's the attitude you start off with? Data is data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/15 01:19 AM |
| 6 | RP men: What were you like before you became unplugged? Do you think all of the sensational terms are necessary?Before I discovered PUA, I couldn't even escalate. I barely had sex and when I did it was with ugly, crazy girls. I would continually get into a relationship or (usually) just orbit a girl that wouldn't even pass my minimum sex standards now. I understood women could be coldhearted and calculating, but I figured that behavior was rare. And I didn't recognize it when it was used against me. Finally, one girl used and abused me a bit too hard, and I snapped. I basically cut her out. I was hurt and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/15 01:06 AM |
| 1 | TRP says, women when they are younger sleep around with guys out of their league, and when they get older end up settling down with guys that are less attractive. What exactly do you disagree about this?How are you defining, "huge age gaps"? I haven't had a single problem dating ten years younger. Considering at least one girl (who is 19) has told me specifically she can't, "wait until I get gray hair" and this seems like a relatively common sentiment, I doubt I'll be in trouble anytime soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/15 12:58 AM |
| 2 | TRP says, women when they are younger sleep around with guys out of their league, and when they get older end up settling down with guys that are less attractive. What exactly do you disagree about this?not the vast majority or anything. Citation needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/15 12:54 AM |
| 7 | This sub has changed my life, literallyYep, a buddy of mine would always pick girls up and spin them. It always seemed incredibly effective for him. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 12:14 AM |
| 14 | "When the Rapist Doesn't See It as Rape"It may very well be that false rape accusations are not the majority of rape accusations - the problem is that it isn't politically feasible to do a non-bullshit study on this topic. RAINN says that less than 3% of men are rapists. Yet the dominant narrative is that something like 20% of women are raped. The claim that only 2% of false accusations was taken from a book decades ago if I recall, with no actual research on it. Yet it is taken as gospel. Many "rapes" are occurring in cases of consen… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/15 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Dr. Nash's Death and Red PillOf course those things happen. A lot of gaining social, political and economic status is taking and managing risk. The only test is whether you can do it - that's all anyone cares about. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/15 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Guy's girlfriend pushes him to open up the relationship. Guy decides he deserves better and dumps her. Girlfriend subsequently has a mental breakdown.I'm not claiming they don't have agency. I am claiming they don't have the same level that men do on average - or loyalty to random abstract ideals such as states. That's not to say that propaganda or an outlier might not happen. They certainly do. And there is a difference between, "we are currently fighting and the winner is in question", and, "the winner is determined." Men do the same thing, though I would argue in most cases less willingly. They feel more of a connection to the previous sta… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/15 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Dr. Nash's Death and Red PillThe ability to essentially switch "masks" depending on social context is part of being adept socially. You tease a girl, and fuck her silly, while still being respectful to coworkers. And as you mentioned, you do not shit where you eat. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/15 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Guy's girlfriend pushes him to open up the relationship. Guy decides he deserves better and dumps her. Girlfriend subsequently has a mental breakdown.You're assigning women equal agency here. Women go with whomever conquers them, and have always done this. That is just how it works. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/15 05:04 PM |
| 18 | My Uncle just got hammered.My guess would be that strong headship and her knowing you have a plan with a reasonable probability of success would make her more likely to stay. That being said, it seems like a poor idea to sign a contract, still. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/15 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Do the red pill tactics work on women who are aware of them ?If you're doing it right (i.e., you've had a lot of "field experience" in game parlance), you aren't really calculating the moves so much as they are arising naturally. There's a sort of cadence to it. It's like music. I am not a musician, so I'm not sure if this is how musicians play music - but my guess would be that they don't concentrate on the individual squiggle on the page, but read it more like a normal person would read a book. It's a broader sort of insight. I am a programmer, and that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/15 03:16 PM |
| 7 | Do you consider big Hollywood directors like Joss Whedon or James Cameron, known for their strong female characters, to be alpha or beta?There aren't, "alphas", or "betas". The words are conceptual tools to better understand women's, for lack of a better term, "mating preferences". Having insanely high status and preselection is an alpha behavior - it's important when it comes to short-term mating. Being a leader of men too. They demonstrate strong genes. On the other hand, being rich, having nice things, and their perception or outright statements of being feminists would be "beta" behaviors. They demonstrate a higher probabilit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/15 03:05 PM |
| 10 | Chapter 17: In which PPD wets the bed, then triumphantly declares itself a sailor.I believe it was HappySingleWoman who posted that she had low libido and was practically asexual. My first thought was, "And why is she involved in a discussion about relationships for men? From where does her competence come?" The fundamental problem, as Whisper points out in one of the linked posts is that they don't view male-female relations from an engineering standpoint, like we do. It's all about fitting a narrative for them. They want orthodoxy, not orthopraxy. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/15 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Why are a lot of RPillers against the MRM ?Exactly. Publicly, to anyone who asks, I am a feminist. I'll make jokes about radfems, because it's acceptable to make fun of them socially, and then drop nuggets of TRP when fertile ground is available every once in a rare while. But otherwise, I completely toe the party line when it comes to gender relations. And I certainly don't associate with MRAs - I personally find their solution of dealing with the problem of gender weak and unlikely to work. It assumes that feminists are arguing in good… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/15 04:39 AM |
| 7 | Chapter 17: In which PPD wets the bed, then triumphantly declares itself a sailor.I've also been playing around on PPD lately, and there is an extremely high portion of powertalk and shaming language. And when you do make a point, you'll have the people there constantly questioning your frame. "Are you sure?????", "I think TRP is great, but I really think it would be better if...", "Maybe you think that PUA and TRP helped you, but really it was probably just getting more confident..." The arguments are, as far as I can tell, mostly directed at keeping men who are questioning … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/15 04:17 AM |
| 1 | BP: If you overhear a muscular, bald, bearded man in a tank top say the following statement, what would be the first thought that comes to your head?Some people want to put the BDSM label on everything. Usually people that self-identify as, "kink" seem to try to expand it as much as possible. In my experience, some people even use it to describe good old-fashioned man as the leader sex. You're tying someone up, using safe words and beating them with a riding crop, sure that's BDSM. If you're just being dominant and in control? No. That's just sex. That's how sex works. There's no magical, "kinkness" to it. As far as I can tell, people who ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/15 09:37 PM |
| 9 | EntrepreneurshipI'm just shy of 30, and from what I've found, you can't really push people to become more ambitious. Some people are just naturally that way/raised that way, some people grow into it (or grow into knowing how to become ambitious), and some people just never find it. I have a buddy from high school, smart guy. Took AP classes in high school, including calculus and chemistry. He was vaguely interested in robotics engineering. Instead, he gave up, gained a lot of weight, and now he works at a gas s… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 09:11 PM |
| 3 | EntrepreneurshipI am not complaining about it, I'm explaining to guys who want to do it. After having worked for the past 7-8 years for other people, I have zero interest in doing it for much longer. A few years of pain for freedom for the rest of your life is well worth it in my opinion. Not sure how high the probability of a 67+ year old is of having a 20 year old, but maybe. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Red pill's thoughts on how childhood/adolescence shape you for the rest of your life.Of course you can have another girlfriend. What you're actually saying is that you don't like the risk, and would rather give up on the whole endeavor. Which is fine, but it's important to really analyze your motivations. Are you going to find a unicorn? Of course not. But that doesn't mean you can't find a relatively trust-worthy woman (who is still, mind you, a woman, so AWALT applies). There is no reward without risk. And anytime you actually emotionally invest in a person, there is risk. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 06:09 PM |
| 26 | EntrepreneurshipHaving been doing that since October, it does get tiring though, and you sacrifice your social life. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Putin, Eggs, Omelettes and Dicks.My only guess is that he assumed with the worst financial crisis since the depression, people would stop being cynical politicians and instead work at governing. Idealistic of him, but not at all realistic. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Putin, Eggs, Omelettes and Dicks.He was savvy when dealing with branding himself, but he seems to have absolutely failed at negotiations. Perhaps he thought they'd be coming at him in good faith. I don't know why he thought that though - that was a very stupid thing to think. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Are women capable of understanding or comprehending what sexual frustration feels like for a male?I mean, you do you. But I felt the same way at 20, and I'm more open to the idea at 30. All I'm saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/15 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Are women capable of understanding or comprehending what sexual frustration feels like for a male?I was under the impression that reversal was something that didn't work the majority of the time, and that while sometimes it was possible, you're supposed to go in assuming that it will never work again. And I feel a 30 year old knows far more what they're about than a 20 year old does. Again, the OP can do what he wants with his genitals - I'm not arguing otherwise. I'm just saying it seems like a relatively large gamble to make a lifetime decision when he can effectively hedge his risk for th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/15 01:16 AM |
| 5 | Are BPers mad at all that RP works?Being "masculine" (I assume by this you mean stoic) and good at gaming is a largely learned process. Once learned, it is a part of your personality. That being said, it can only truly be learned via experience. You cannot become a stoic, masculine man who is good at gaming girls simply by reading about it. It must be practiced. And you will come off as awkward sometimes at first. The only difference is whether you figure it out at age 12 (when everyone is awkward) or later in life (because you'v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/15 08:59 PM |
| 8 | Are women capable of understanding or comprehending what sexual frustration feels like for a male?I'm not saying it is impossible, I'm saying over the past ten years since I was 20 I've softened my position on it. It seems like a relatively high stakes gamble to assume that something that is true for 20 year old you will be equally as valid when you are 50. Especially when reversible procedures will become available in less than five years, and there are ways to strongly hedge your risk on the whole kids thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/15 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Putin, Eggs, Omelettes and Dicks.This really isn't a world leader pissing contest. Any of these men, including Barack Obama (who is, despite what many here feel about him, still an example of a success story - at least getting into the office) is still an example for achieving power and influence in life - which is directly applicable to sexual strategy, and to broader masculinity as a whole. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/15 08:42 PM |
| 0 | Putin, Eggs, Omelettes and Dicks.I was under the impression that Xi Jinping had less ability to do what he wanted to without having to answer to anyone. It's like Barack Obama - technically he is the captain of the most powerful country on the planet. But his slice of the power is smaller than Putin's. I am not saying that Russia is the most powerful country on Earth. I am saying that Putin has been able to keep power more effectively than just about any other world leader. But even if I'm wrong on which world leader is the mos… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/15 08:35 PM |
| 7 | Are women capable of understanding or comprehending what sexual frustration feels like for a male?You may want to put it off and wait a couple of years for the other completely reversible methods coming out (vasagel or something like that? I don't recall), on the off-chance you decide you want kids in the next 30 years. I've certainly softened on the idea as I've gotten older. Most girls won't try to spermjack you. And the ones who will will typically wait until they're 30-ish. Try dating girls in college who are anti-babies right now. When you don't want a pregnancy, the key point is to go … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/15 08:25 PM |
| 9 | Putin, Eggs, Omelettes and Dicks.He is the single most powerful man on the planet right now, and has managed to stay in power for over a decade in a brutal country where weakness will cause you to be eaten apart. He has even managed to pull an Augustus and keep power informally despite the constitution preventing formal power. He is associated with masculinity, power, and yes, he could have just about any woman he wishes. And that's while being what, 5'6"? 5'7"? If Putin isn't a Redpill example, I don't know who would be. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/15 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Are women capable of understanding or comprehending what sexual frustration feels like for a male?Voluntarily? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/15 06:55 PM |
| 1 | This is absolute Gold: Maggie Gyllenhaal gets introduced to the wall by Hollywood producer. Reddit SJWs and middle-aged women go ape shit in the comment sectionYeah, didn't think so, but I couldn't find anything else on the subject of age on her site. But I'm 90% sure it was her. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/15 06:47 PM |
| 6 | Roissy's maximsBang them in a car (benefit here is that if you're being discreet, cops will typically ignore you even if they do catch a whiff). Bang them in a park. Find a public bathroom. I was able to sleep with a girl while I was (intentionally to save money) living in a car. In the car. And she knew. Figuring out how to make sex happen is your job. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/15 04:39 PM |
| 21 | Are women capable of understanding or comprehending what sexual frustration feels like for a male?I knew a girl that was trying to get me to come over and fuck her, but I had moved about an hour away, and the drive was a bit too far for me to be interested. She tried to convince me by saying, "But this is my longest dry spell!! It's been six weeks" Considering in my BP days, I recall going for a year and a half without sex, and only breaking it with a girl over 300 pounds... (I am normal h/w).. it was hard to empathize, to say the least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/15 02:30 PM |
| 9 | I now understand Cypher's choice...This truly was the startling thing for me - so many of the girls I lusted after and wasted so much time for were only ONS girls. Hell, some of them weren't even that. I can think of at least three girls I orbited in my early 20s that if I had met today, I wouldn't even be interested in fucking them. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/15 02:22 PM |
| 8 | Karen Straughan (Girlwriteswhat) succinctly discusses that men don't hate women, and defends TRP. Good read!It's the fact that women aren't arguing in good faith that makes an individualized solution to the problems of gender necessary. Much like you can't reason your way into a woman's pants, you can't reason your way into being respected by women generally. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/15 07:26 AM |
| 1 | This is absolute Gold: Maggie Gyllenhaal gets introduced to the wall by Hollywood producer. Reddit SJWs and middle-aged women go ape shit in the comment sectionWas it this article? I think she had a few on similar topics. http://judgybitch.com/2015/03/14/in-defense-of-pedophilia/ | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Socialist BPers and other socialists: why is there a distinction between income inequality and sexual inequality in terms of government redress?Getting laid is a pretty important component of being loved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/15 08:24 PM |
| 5 | RooshV slams the Red PillHonestly, I recommend getting some basic concepts down here - read the sidebar, maybe study up on some PUA terminology and basic Game practices. If you've got a decent chunk of time, I'd read the entire Gervais principle too. But the real way you figure things out yourself is going out in person and getting experimental data. You can't just read a book and suddenly have abundance mentality. You only get that sort of thing from practice and experience. And /u/johnchapel, TRP is meant to be the th… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 08:02 PM |
| 3 | RooshV slams the Red PillI have no idea where this characterization of "alpha" and "beta" being these two types of people you are absolutely 100% in one category or another came from. And likewise the fact that people use alpha to == good. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 07:44 PM |
| 1 | This is absolute Gold: Maggie Gyllenhaal gets introduced to the wall by Hollywood producer. Reddit SJWs and middle-aged women go ape shit in the comment sectionYeah, that was Janet Bloomfield. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 02:56 AM |
| 3 | This is absolute Gold: Maggie Gyllenhaal gets introduced to the wall by Hollywood producer. Reddit SJWs and middle-aged women go ape shit in the comment sectionThey do understand. It's a strategic move. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 02:49 AM |
| 5 | Karen Straughan (Girlwriteswhat) succinctly discusses that men don't hate women, and defends TRP. Good read!The thing is, TRP is growing and it is growing rapidly. It's a different faction away from MRAs and while I don't support individual evangelism, I think "consciousness raising" (I hate that term) and legitimization are an important aspect. 100k+ people isn't a small number, and if the people here actually follow the guidelines to be high SMV and on their shit - our influence will be far higher than numbers alone would indicate. I don't feel outright endorsement would be a good idea (and I don't … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 02:26 AM |
| 4 | Karen Straughan (Girlwriteswhat) succinctly discusses that men don't hate women, and defends TRP. Good read!Wow, that's pretty legit. I'm actually somewhat excited to see this. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers, do you deny the male wall because you know you're destined to become beta bux?As I said, all things being equal, you'll probably see women going after their own age - online everyone is ~ around equal. If contextual status is super important - and it is, you'll see women generally going after men in their peer groups, but with a slight age gap. My experience is that OkCupid is more harsh on the age thing - I rarely get messages from younger than 23 year olds on there now, but I do on Tinder and certainly in person has been no issue. It'd be good to have a full study on ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/15 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers, do you deny the male wall because you know you're destined to become beta bux?Of course it is. And? Do we have data, either way, that gives an indication otherwise? We do see older men fucking younger girls, and I certainly have no problem with fucking girls ten years younger than me - I had one on tinder that just hit me up a few moments ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/15 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers, do you deny the male wall because you know you're destined to become beta bux?You're forgetting contextual status, and you're downright wrong about the age of 25 thing. Most of the lower death age is due to infant mortality. Once you reached the age of 5-10 or so, you had a much higher chance of living at least until your 50s. Most girls in their teens aren't interacting in an environment with a lot of 40 year old men. Only a few 25 year olds are. Would a fit, alpha 40-something male professor at a college have his pick of the litter if he were allowed to compete? Hell ye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/15 02:50 AM |
| -1 | The Red Pill, You & MoralityI agree. There has been a great deal of bro knighting lately. I still remember the whole GLO thing from a few months back where everybody collectively lost their shit about married women. No man can ever own a woman, any marital or relationship bond had doesn't matter when it comes to the cold hard truth of hypergamy. If she perceives another man as sufficiently better and her chances as reasonable, she will jump, or try to jump. The only defense against this is being better. And even then that'… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 02:38 AM |
| 8 | The Asexual Female?I want to reiterate this - when I was young I was in a sexless "relationship" for 8 months because I didn't know I could do better. Why waste your time NOT fucking this girl, when you can fuck a girl better than this girl? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/15 12:42 AM |
| 2 | now if a male tries to protect himself from false sexual harassment/assault claims from women by never being alone with female underlings, it is discriminationIf I had the information I have now, I'd probably have gone and gotten a CS degree. It's the degree you can pair with any field, and make it more powerful. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/15 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Its Not Their FaultBecause we are the adults, and simply put, nobody else will do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/15 03:13 PM |
| 3 | I feel like killing myself. I don't know what to do... Need some help. Some red pill help...The last girl that I ever loved invited me out on a date tonight. She broke my heart - she was the last girl to get to me during the process of changing my beliefs and my behaviors, first with PUA and then after her, with TRP. I cried over her and acted stupid and risky when we broke up - drinking and driving, and other stupid shitty things. And tonight, years later, she invited me on a date. And I turned her down. Why? Because, I've improved so much, that while part of me still cares about her … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/15 04:21 AM |
| 2 | What brought you to Purple Pill Debate?Debating is masturbation. I make arguments to hone rhetorical skills, and hoping that maybe a plugged in man or two might decide to look into TRP based on what I say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/15 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Bluepillers and Feminists: Why does anything related to the "manosphere" bother you so much?You're getting downvoted, but it's an important question - "extremist" is just shaming language like "creepy" or "loser" is. It means nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/15 04:20 PM |
| 6 | No one cares about low value males.No, she's relatively old. I Googled her and she started college in 1998. If she, like most people, started at 18, that means she's 35 this year. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/15 01:27 PM |
| 0 | Bluepillers and Feminists: Why does anything related to the "manosphere" bother you so much?No, he's angry. Not a word he said implies that women are "inferior" - again, whatever that means. He said that if a woman doesn't see value to having a man in her life, she will not have him in her life - which is very true. True of virtually all men too. My guess is that he was brought up with the, "women are amazing creatures who will love you for you" belief, and this has recently been shattered. He's wrong on not being able to set expectations & boundaries, but you can't expect a newbie to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/15 01:12 PM |
| 5 | Welcome to Our SJW Nightmare...The average argument with a woman is basically a social status competition. Once you understand they're not actually arguing in what we would consider, "good faith" (that is, towards mutual understanding and agreement), but rather for power, understanding what they're saying becomes a lot clearer. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/15 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Bluepillers and Feminists: Why does anything related to the "manosphere" bother you so much?Whatever "extremist" means. TRP is aiming to serve all men (that follow the rules), regardless of affiliations. If a guy has crazy views on gender, well, if he has a good argument, we'll listen to him. If not, we'll downvote him or ban him, if he is detrimental to the community. Hell, please, send more "extremists" over to us. Hopefully we can take their anger and put it to a more productive use! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/15 02:46 AM |
| 0 | Bluepillers and Feminists: Why does anything related to the "manosphere" bother you so much?It's exclusively about becoming a better man - mostly regarding dating, but in all parts of life as well. The goal is to become the sort of man that is attractive to women. If that's the goal, what more is there to that than being more physically fit, having a mission in life, and having a better personality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/15 02:38 AM |
| 5 | Women are forced to swallow the pill a lot earlier than menDon't use SPF 100, just because it's a bigger number doesn't make it better really. At that high concentration you'll irritate your skin (which could lead to faster aging) - SPF 100 is like 99.9% protection, and SPF 30 is 97% - while being far less irritating. I recommend going with SPF 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/15 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Bluepillers and Feminists: Why does anything related to the "manosphere" bother you so much?This is my understanding too - men tend to speak differently when alone among men - this is why we consider TRP a "male space" - while women are somewhat welcome, they're not really helpful and it'll just be an exercise in getting pissed off (because the way men talk to one another is offensive to the vast majority of women), so there isn't much point to visiting. A decent explanation is the Gervais principle - Straighttalk versus Powertalk. Men are far more blunt, typically, and blunt words see… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/15 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Bluepillers and Feminists: Why does anything related to the "manosphere" bother you so much?Nobody hates you, and nobody thinks you are an inferior being, whatever that means. Is working out, and becoming a better man manipulative? I suppose it could be thought of that way, but that's a really odd way to take it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/15 02:23 AM |
| 5 | now if a male tries to protect himself from false sexual harassment/assault claims from women by never being alone with female underlings, it is discriminationYep, I never got any information growing up. I came from poverty, I was the first out of my family to ever go to college. Majored in something stupid. Took me a couple years in a poor job market before I wised up and got a decent career. Still have a ton of debt though from underemployment for most of a decade. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 11:49 AM |
| 2 | A random orbiter is angry and messages me over facebook...Lol, every once in a while I consider going to those sorts of conventions, just because I know anyone with an ounce of masculinity could clean up. But ugh, seems like such a waste of time. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/15 11:47 PM |
| 3 | A random orbiter is angry and messages me over facebook...One time there was a girl on Tinder that was down to fuck and dressed like Harley Quinn (sp?). I almost asked her to dress up like a clown for sex, but I just couldn't imagine fucking a clown. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/15 11:06 PM |
| 1 | The TV reality show Geek Love perfectly demonstrates AWALT - even "nerdy girls". Especially nerdy girls.I wish I could take credit for it, but I'm pretty sure it's from Milton's "Paradise Lost" | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/15 01:56 PM |
| 1 | How has society been lying to men ?Ah, I should have specified, I meant 80%+ of heterosexual men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/15 09:54 AM |
| 1 | How has society been lying to men ?Red pill lifestyle is not going to work for everyone. Based on the dramatic changes to my sex life alone in the past 3-4 years, I am confident in saying that it will work for all men who are not edge cases (so 80%+ of men). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/15 08:33 AM |
| 2 | How has society been lying to men ?When you're literally told exactly the opposite for a decade, and shamed for expressing a contrary thought, and don't have male role models, it's pretty easy to be stupid about male-female interactions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/15 08:29 AM |
| 5 | How has society been lying to men ?Quite. If a man were to post, "This is what I find attractive in a woman, and most men will agree with me", and list a bunch of traits on Facebook, he would be shamed to high hell for it. Hell, I've seen this happen. "How dare you tell women how to act! She can act how she wants! She doesn't put make up on for you, you know. She does it for herself!" etc, etc, etc. In an environment where men are being attacked for offering practical, constructive advice and trying to be helpful, what savvy man … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/15 08:10 AM |
| 1 | The TV reality show Geek Love perfectly demonstrates AWALT - even "nerdy girls". Especially nerdy girls.I'm not saying it's impossible to not be damaged and hold "nerdy" interests, but if I run into a girl that has them, my first question is going to be, "Why is this girl not socialized properly?" If a girl gets geeked when Game of Thrones on every week, I don't see any problem with that. If she starts quoting the Simarillion immediately, then my go to assumption is that she has some problem. I don't really care about possible edge cases. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/15 07:52 AM |
| 45 | The TV reality show Geek Love perfectly demonstrates AWALT - even "nerdy girls". Especially nerdy girls.This has typically been my experience. Every girl that describes herself as, "nerdy" typically has something very wrong with her. It seems to mostly be a way of rapport building with higher status men among nerds, as well as attention-getting behavior. If she can't rule in heaven (actual masculine men), she'll rule in hell, essentially. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/15 11:43 PM |
| 1 | What is the ideal BP to RP ratio?Absolutely. I did my best to kill my masculinity as a child, teenager and early 20-something. Hell I remember deciding to NOT get involved in the military partially because of the fact that it would cause me to become more masculine, and thus possibly more old-fashioned/violent/evil (I was 17 at this time - it wasn't exactly a logical thought process). By the time I discovered PUA (late 2011), I was a spineless wimp in a barely above minimum wage job, chasing after a crazy girl who emotionally a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/15 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Would you lie to get laid?Sure, why not? I tell girls I'm 20 years older and have 15 kids all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/15 10:50 PM |
| 0 | So, why do you "hate" women ?I don't, and never have. Now I just understand how they work. It saves me a hell of a lot of time on heartbreak, and dating in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/15 10:48 PM |
| 8 | Learn how to repair/fix the stuff you own.I think he's talking about things like, "REAL LIFE SERIAL KILLERS" or similar-type shows. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/15 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Predominantly male majors and the Red PillPsychohistory already exists. The name humans have given it in real life is, "Big Data" | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/15 03:42 PM |
| 4 | Dating broke womenIn my experience, girls raised from blue collar, but not ghetto conditions seem to be pretty decent. As someone who came from poverty himself, it's very easy to deal with these girls, and the fact that I now earn a decent income makes me even more of a catch. Whereas girls raised in wealthier conditions consider my status de rigeur, a poor girl who knows you're raised poor immediately goes, "Oh, this dude is legit". So, especially if you came from poverty, this sort of girl is amazingly easy to … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/15 05:54 AM |
| 1 | How does feminism benefit ugly women?And as I said, ok, fine, but that just isn't a very helpful thing to discuss then. If there's a tiny gap, and the gap is due to any number of random factors, none of which is identifiable and may not even be a problem... why even discuss it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/15 10:20 PM |
| 7 | Women are not naturally unempathetic.People try to argue against that all the time. "Well, that might work, but only on a particular type of woman...", the implication being that this sort of woman is, in some way lower quality (but how is rarely defined and when it is it is defined as "low self esteem", which as far as I can tell only means, "Ew, she finds you attractive?"), or even outright denial entirely. If we aren't discussing the efficacy of TRP here, whatever do you think we are discussing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/15 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Is this "pushing through last minute resistance", or is this rape?Can confirm. I had a girl that I continued to date for months after, and who is still on great terms with me, on our second date as we were fooling around say, "We shouldn't be doing this." - in a flirty, not really serious voice. I then clamped my hand on her mouth, said, "Yes we should" and continued doing stuff. A few minutes later we went into the bedroom, and she's gushing about how fucking amazing I am. It's hugely context dependent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/15 09:29 PM |
| 8 | Women are not naturally unempathetic.Doesn't mean the reasoning is wrong either. We have a lot of data points that it does work (again, non-scientifically because there literally is no practical way to study it scientifically), so provisionally we accept the hypothesis until we get better data, at the risk of a greater chance of a Type I error. It's an engineering choice. The, "is it true??????????" is just masturbation and comes off like you've got an agenda. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/15 08:45 PM |
| 1 | How does feminism benefit ugly women?Yes, but calling less than 5% a pay gap isn't really helpful, especially if it might just be due to random chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/15 08:41 PM |
| 1 | How does feminism benefit ugly women?Er, no. When hours worked and career are taken into account, pay gap drops down to 5% or less, which could very easily be noise, or some other variable we didn't account for (possibly greater or less negotiation). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/15 08:32 PM |
| 9 | Women are not naturally unempathetic.He literally pointed out your behaviors that are showing a lack of empathy. The basic gist is: TRP works (more or less) for men who implement it. The response from women, if they were truly empathetic/sympathetic would be, "I'm so glad it works for you!", instead the reaction is typically, "How can you guys say so many mean things about women????? PROVE THEY'RE TRUE". Even though scientific data is impossible because it is impossible to get funding for such questions. In the absence of the abili… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/15 08:27 PM |
| 2 | A plate is an active subscriber on /r/thebluepill. If what TBP says about TRP is true then how is that even possible?That's the point I'm making. It's just flirting. Everybody (who is successfully flirting) does these behaviors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/15 06:42 PM |
| 5 | A plate is an active subscriber on /r/thebluepill. If what TBP says about TRP is true then how is that even possible?If by "beta", you mean he went after his goal with ruthless pragmatism and succeeded at it, well, that's not typically the way I've seen that word defined. If that's not what you mean, I have no idea what you're talking about. What does "beta" mean in this context? EDIT: Maybe you mean he was showing that he might be more open to provisioning behaviors, because of similar beliefs. In which case, yes, that would be a successful use of "beta game" or "provider game". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/15 02:47 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The tactics expressed by TRP in regards to interacting with people are considered 'normal' behaviors in real life, but seen as 'misogynist' by TBPThis made me laugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/15 02:24 AM |
| 7 | A plate is an active subscriber on /r/thebluepill. If what TBP says about TRP is true then how is that even possible?A pretty core part of TRP is that you don't share your TRP beliefs though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/15 01:48 AM |
| 5 | A plate is an active subscriber on /r/thebluepill. If what TBP says about TRP is true then how is that even possible?Tactics is such a strong word. Let's just call them flirting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/15 01:47 AM |
| 3 | A plate is an active subscriber on /r/thebluepill. If what TBP says about TRP is true then how is that even possible?I've fucked on multiple occasions, a woman who is actively involved (as in, a president) of a feminist student organization at one of the top universities in the country. She brought up feminism on multiple occasions, and even though she, "knew it was wrong" (a phrase I hear from women associated with feminism frequently, in regards to their dating preferences), she said that she ignored men that deviated from standard gender roles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/15 01:45 AM |
| 0 | Will men and women change their life strategy when ovarian transplants are common and women remain fertile until old age/until death?Ok, and? http://chem.tufts.edu/answersinscience/relativityofwrong.htm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/15 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Will men and women change their life strategy when ovarian transplants are common and women remain fertile until old age/until death?The OkCupid study showed that men typically prefer 21 year olds, and women typically prefer men who are between 2 to several years older than them, so you're right, and she's wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/15 05:58 PM |
| 3 | California Ballot Initiative to Outlaw ALL Alimony - This guy is going for the jugular.Ok, so this advice doesn't apply to those countries. That's not the vast majority of countries though, so this advice is helpful to most men living today. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 05:40 PM |
| 2 | California Ballot Initiative to Outlaw ALL Alimony - This guy is going for the jugular.You may not be able to do that. Or maybe you could talk with your health insurance (though they're incentivized in this situation to deny this. Maybe argue some bullshit religious reason? "My faith doesn't allow the government to be involved in my marriage. It must be between me, God, and my wife only.") I'm assuming you're American - maybe just save up and buy one of the Obamacare gold plans for those 9 months? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Are feminists (women) *really* trying to shame men into lowering their standards or do they just have an unrealistic view of what men’s standards actually are?Essentially the same thing. Again, you shouldn't do it. It will not convince anyone. If you continue to do it, well, your life, your choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/15 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Are feminists (women) *really* trying to shame men into lowering their standards or do they just have an unrealistic view of what men’s standards actually are?Good. Now in the future, never say, "Everyone else thinks this way", as an argument, because that will never convince anybody. Especially when it isn't true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/15 08:11 AM |
| 35 | California Ballot Initiative to Outlaw ALL Alimony - This guy is going for the jugular.Why sign a legal contract? Why not live with a woman without a contract? It's not like the contract is going to make her more likely to stay. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 02:00 AM |
| 2 | If you raise your SMV she will follow suitYeah, I only lifted for about a year, but all of my reading suggested 3 days for naturals was best (yes, if you're taking steroids, you can lift all the time to your heart's content) for muscle regrowth. My guess is that most downvoters haven't ever done any serious lifting. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Is TBP fundamentally opposed to sexual strategy in general? If so, why? If not, what are some alternatives to TRP?I just have never experienced that. Every time I fuck a girl, they want to make non-sex follow-up plans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/15 01:11 AM |
| 1 | If you raise your SMV she will follow suitYou're constantly using your arms with compounds. Compounds != just squats. If you're doing presses, you're definitely working out your arms and shoulders. I'm fine with like, bicep curls in addition to mostly compounds, but a specialized day for arms and shoulders? That doesn't sound like it would be effective. When will your muscle tissue regrow? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 01:09 AM |
| 4 | Are feminists (women) *really* trying to shame men into lowering their standards or do they just have an unrealistic view of what men’s standards actually are?And you know everyone else? No, you don't. This is just a way for you to restate, "I feel this is true". You have no evidence for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/15 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Is TBP fundamentally opposed to sexual strategy in general? If so, why? If not, what are some alternatives to TRP?Women are shallow. So are men. That's just how it works. They're shallow in slightly different, but overlapping ways. Who said women are useless? Women are plenty useful. Women are manipulative. So are men. I feel women are better manipulators on average, but I don't see that as being a negative at all. I wish I was a top notch manipulator. TRP's general impression is that women are smarter, on average, than men, but that the variance in men is higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/15 01:05 AM |
| 5 | Are feminists (women) *really* trying to shame men into lowering their standards or do they just have an unrealistic view of what men’s standards actually are?let me just say your supposed experiences greatly differ from almost everyone else's. According to...? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/15 09:53 PM |
| 4 | Is TBP fundamentally opposed to sexual strategy in general? If so, why? If not, what are some alternatives to TRP?In my tested experience, the faster you sleep with a woman, the more "into you" she'll be. That allows you to go on fun dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/15 09:30 PM |
| 4 | Is TBP fundamentally opposed to sexual strategy in general? If so, why? If not, what are some alternatives to TRP?Better? Whose sexual strategy is saying that one gender is better than the other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/15 09:28 PM |
| -6 | If you raise your SMV she will follow suitAs far as I'm aware (and it is possible my broscience is weak here), anything more than 3ish days a week with heavy lifting is counterproductive to new muscle growth. Compounds should be taking care of arms and shoulders as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 09:24 PM |
| -9 | If you raise your SMV she will follow suitNot sure that you should be heavy lifting 5 days a week. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 06:53 PM |
| 2 | [Mod] The Red Pill is not democratic. It cannot be in order to be a viably beneficial system for men.I think everyone who is questioning, "how right is TRP?" should read the essay, The Relatively of Wrongness. http://chem.tufts.edu/answersinscience/relativityofwrong.htm For a project like TRP, we shouldn't be analyzing p values. Testing the tenets and seeing if they work for you is the goal here. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Warning: Prepare for Subreddit ShutdownI have archiving software mostly done (honestly, the only reason it isn't is because I'm doing several other projects to go along with it). I'll be releasing the code, and it will be able to run in any browser, and pull articles and comments (extended comments may not be archived, but that too can be added eventually). | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 12:11 PM |
| 1 | "We are working on changes to make reddit a safer space for discourse."I'm not sure how many pages of results the Reddit API lets you archive. If it allows infinite, then we could theoretically pull all of it, as well as the comments on those pages of results. I've pretty much got a bespoke system that does this already, and I'll try to push to get it all done soon. I'll be releasing it as an app, as well as the source code. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 12:02 PM |
| 5 | Predominantly male majors and the Red PillNo, there's humanities hate because humanities doesn't get you shit. Trust me, as someone who majored in humanities and social sciences in college, and who works in technology today - I made many of the same arguments to myself. And they were all wrong. You're conflating, "majoring in humanities" and "being a prominent author". The two have, if anything, a very weak correlation. Fact of the matter is that really soft humanities (such as English Lit, Journalism, Sociology to an extent) don't buil… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/15 11:30 AM |
| 1 | On the value of quitting your jobYep, at an old job of mine, I wasn't a sales guy, but it was known that I didn't have problems dating. We had a company party and I start hitting it off with one of the bartender girls at the venue they took us to. We get called away before I can get her number to do company stuff. I go back to grab her number, but don't do the warm-up I did before. I realized it was stupid as I was doing it. I fail, and walk away. The main sales guy sees and in a knowing manner starts talking about sales and ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 01:03 PM |
| 2 | TRP suffers from "hot girl goggles" which completely explains their philosophy. Let me explain...The Asian is below my radar (possibly late at night, when drinking). The blonde is typically punching above my weight. When my arm is healed and I can get back into lifting all the time, possibly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/15 02:51 AM |
| 0 | Question for promiscuous Red Pill MenDo you regret your past casual sex experiences? God no. Except with the ugly girls I had sex with before PUA and TRP (and the fucking girl who tricked me with her push-up bra last year. Such a fucking disappointment.) Has your promiscuous sexual past made you unsuitable for a relationship? If not, why? In that I have high standards and don't really see a relationship as a big deal, possibly. But I was basically in a committed relationship with a girl last year, and I could see myself doing it ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/15 02:47 AM |
| 0 | Blue pills/feminists verify just how correct Red pill values areThe funniest thing is that when you act entitled to a woman, as a guy, she in my experience seems to be far more likely to be interested. Of course, there is a TRP explanation of why that happens... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/15 02:39 AM |
| 5 | Blue pills/feminists verify just how correct Red pill values areIt's just her way of getting more power. I wouldn't worry too much about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/15 02:31 AM |
| 4 | Let's say, hypothetically speaking, the "Dad Body" did actually become what women craved from a raw, visceral, and sexual standpoint. How, if at all, would this change the idea that /r/theredpill "just gives women what they truly want"?So you're saying that a woman would turn down a muscular (not freak-level, just very muscular) dude down if he was legitimately interested in her? I am skeptical of that. When looking at dating and relationships, always look at what trait has more options available to it, and which trait has less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/15 02:17 AM |
| 3 | On the value of quitting your jobThis is my main drive to start building a business - last night I was in the zone on my own project, didn't want to sleep, but knew I'd be dying today at the office if I did not. That's hours of wasted productivity - I'm still getting work done today, but not nearly as in the zone as last night. The ability to control my time is the number one reason for me to want to go off on my own. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 05:39 PM |
| 1 | The realization that women are more interested in looks than men?It's not, that's the point. Women tend to look only at the most attractive men - greater so than even men do. There was even a study where Women felt something like 80% of men were below average attractiveness. This skews their viewpoint so that they feel average attractiveness is higher than it actually is. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 04:57 AM |
| 1 | The realization that women are more interested in looks than men?Who said Ryan Gosling was considered normal? I said his physique is. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 03:59 AM |
| 4 | Game over without good looks?Looks is important. You won't get the top shelf of the top shelf without them, unless you're very rich. That being said, you can still do alright looking relatively average. Game makes a marked difference. I'm very short and I'm able to do fine. You can also achieve above average, if not top shelf looks yourself by lifting. I feel like most of the men who bitch about how they're never going to get the best women haven't really tried to lift weights. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 02:25 AM |
| 2 | The realization that women are more interested in looks than men?Well, what it essentially means for men is that they have more ways to succeed at getting hotter women than women do better men. It also means that they have to play at a higher standard if they want hotter women. If you get in shape, lifting and not fat, and you have a decent job/money, and you're not literally several standard deviations uglier than the regular population - you're not ever going to be hurting for cute girls. It's really not hard. You can buy a set of good quality dumbbells wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do androgynous pretty boys get so many women drooling over them if women want hyper-masculine alphas?Absolutely right. That's the exact reason why these sorts of trysts happen. These are schools where the adults are almost exclusively other women. There aren't really many men the female teachers interact with on a day-to-day basis. Johnny is getting preselection from other (12-18 year old) girls/women left and right. And unlike the few adult men in the school, with jobs and frequently families to support, Johnny can act like a confident jerkboy and really not give a fuck. All of that makes him … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/15 07:38 PM |
| 18 | The realization that women are more interested in looks than men?Most men are going to be near the average - that is, there isn't an equal distribution of 1s, 2s, 5s, 6s, and 10s. There are going to be very many 5s, very few 10s, and very few 1s. That's at least for facial structure and height. Body weight? Well, if you're fat, you'll skew much lower than otherwise, but body weight is literally one of the easiest things to change about yourself. I have been fat (well, overweight) once in my life. And you know what I did immediately after that happened? I went… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 05:01 PM |
| 10 | Why do androgynous pretty boys get so many women drooling over them if women want hyper-masculine alphas?Exposed (i.e. seeing in media) is far different from interacting with in a sexual manner. As I said, contextual status is extremely important for female attraction. Men like the Rock or professional athletes are not actively flirting with and fucking 12 year olds (we'll use this as shorthand for girl having gone through puberty). They are literally not on the sexual marketplace for 12-17 year olds. Let me give an example - take a high school. There are popular kids and unpopular kids. Where, in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/15 04:33 AM |
| 6 | I live with my oneitis. She is dating someone else. Here's my story.If she wanted to live with you, she almost certainly wanted to fuck you. May still want to - though if you've been acting super weak, possibly not at the moment. The option will probably open up again though, if you don't act weak. Her loving him will even dissipate if you become a sufficiently better option (start having multiple hotter girls over and fucking them well, get really ripped, or make a lot of money somehow would be the best options). I had a similar situation when I was super bluep… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 01:39 AM |
| 108 | "The Dad Bod" - Don't you fucking dare buy into itWhen I heard about the dadbod, my first thought was, "This is a girl saying she wants a guy to be a frat jerkboy type, but she doesn't want to have the competition anxiety of dating a man that really takes care of himself or is on his shit" | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/15 08:33 PM |
| 3 | How do you handle a woman who has her shit together?You assume we would want to handle a woman that, "has her shit together", as you put it. I am self-sufficient. I make 6 figures per year and want for nothing. The idea of having to rely on a man to be my meal ticket makes me physically sick. Who said we wanted to be your meal ticket? One of the bigger parts of TRP is not being a meal ticket for a woman. That doesn't necessarily mean we'd see a relationship with you as stable or productive. I don't play stupid mind games because I don't need to. … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/15 07:51 PM |
| 35 | Why do androgynous pretty boys get so many women drooling over them if women want hyper-masculine alphas?It seems like you are interpreting "alpha" as muscle-bound jock. A common misconception. While a muscle-bound jock is almost certainly "alpha" in behavior and status, it is certainly not a requirement. These musicians are typically picked young, and are chosen to look like pretty forms of boys that girls in the tween and early teen demo see every day. You don't see many 12 year old power-lifters. We intentionally restrict the full sexual marketplace from tweens and early teens, so virtually all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/15 05:46 PM |
| 7 | Suiting UpThis has pretty much been my experience as well. Kilts are basically a signal saying, "I'm a gigantic nerd and don't understand how to truly fit in" | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/15 02:26 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Someone who has regular contact with good, loving, normal women could not believe the dehumanizing things that red pill does about women.I can't say that I've seen frequent offensive jokes lobbed towards women very often when it comes to media, or even in daily life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/15 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Did feminism create the red pill mentality?Bravo, bravo, bravo. I wish I could award a point here. This (and the other writing you've done) is an absolutely spot on analysis of dating and how the average man is socialized to think about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/15 01:28 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Someone who has regular contact with good, loving, normal women could not believe the dehumanizing things that red pill does about women.So it's like every other offensive joke, which is funny based on its offensiveness, is what you're saying? You are completely right though. TRP doesn't do tone policing or censorship. Anyone is free to say what they will there, as long as it is meant as a good faith effort to improve the community/conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/15 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Did feminism create the red pill mentality?My impression has been that the actionable advice given by the manosphere, and its proto-forms (natural game PUA and before it canned PUA) slowly won over a small percentages of results-oriented men - typically in the primary dating demographics of 18-35, who were also the main consumers of the internet. As more men filed in, the ideas got more refined and the communities larger and it started snowballing a little bit, and I believe we're seeing it sorta go upwards in age as it becomes more main… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/15 12:38 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Someone who has regular contact with good, loving, normal women could not believe the dehumanizing things that red pill does about women.Yep, we at TRP have a hard time not eating women we're dating. There was a thread the other day entitled, "Your Woman Is Not Food" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/15 12:11 PM |
| 9 | State radio station report, great news! Birth rates are plummeting!Except for the fact that now we'll just automate things. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/15 02:40 AM |
| 9 | [Mod] May 2015 TRP Address 110,000: Surpassing mensrights - the men who saw the problem, then doubled down on their worldview.And the biggest thing is, he will genuinely strive to make you happy. Isn’t that what matters most? The answer to that question is no, no it isn't. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Are men hypergamous when it comes to commitment ?Well, then he'll just have to improve himself more, if he wants 20 year olds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/15 10:05 PM |
| 10 | [Mod] May 2015 TRP Address 110,000: Surpassing mensrights - the men who saw the problem, then doubled down on their worldview.If they brush PUA and TRP under the rug, they'd basically be the "Good Men Project" lite. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 08:19 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Nearly all anti-TRP thought stems from sexist mistrust of men and not TRP positions.The Redpill is sexual strategy for heterosexual men. Whether or not men act that way isn't particularly relevant. But yes, plenty men act like children too. It doesn't seem nearly as culturally accepted as women acting that way though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/15 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Question to TRP: What exactly do you think TBPillers believe ?Can you find anything about the methodology? All I can find were, "applying a consistent definition" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/15 01:17 AM |
| 6 | Do TRPillers think they have figured everything out while everyone else is ignorant ?Well, you'd have to operationalize (formalize) the definitions first if you wanted it to be empirically verified. TRP, and indeed most non-formal, non-technical systems use a, "you know it when you see it" measurement criteria. For example, you might ask for, "a lot of bacon", rather than asking for 10 slices of medium thickness and tenderness. Science uses p values and statistical significance, and for that you have to be somewhat more rigorous. So to put an article like that in Psychology Toda… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/15 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that it is only the man who is at fault when there is drunk consensual sex between a man and a woman? What happened to female agency?But God willing, she'll try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/15 11:27 PM |
| 9 | Do TRPillers think they have figured everything out while everyone else is ignorant ?As a practical guide? Absolutely. Research absolutely has its place, but TRP is more like engineering. Does X/Y work? Ok, do that. Not to mention many of the topics covered by TRP - such as how to efficiently and smoothly have sex with women - are not really covered in psych courses or experiments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/15 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Question to TRP: What exactly do you think TBPillers believe ?Are they rare? As far as I was aware, the 2% figure was entirely fabricated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/15 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Question to TRP: What exactly do you think TBPillers believe ?Quite, I described myself as a feminist for at least a decade. I use the label still, but now I'm just black knighting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/15 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Does TRP (or just men in general) over-exaggerate the prevalence of female promiscuity?Have you even read the Redpill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/15 11:06 PM |
| 14 | Do TRPillers think they have figured everything out while everyone else is ignorant ?I got a BA in Psychology back in the day, and even did some psych research. TRP does far more to understanding human sexual relationships than anything I ever saw covered - up to even graduate level psych courses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/15 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Do TRPillers think they have figured everything out while everyone else is ignorant ?Really ? I have seen many RPillers say that there are no unicorns or snowflakes. A good practical guide, wouldn't you say? Assuming someone has nothing but good intentions towards you is a great way to get bitten in the ass. But the poster above is just saying that there are certainly edge cases, because human behavior is a spectrum along a bell curve. TRP doesn't care about that spectrum, because the reality is most hot girls between 18-35 can be attracted in a fairly straight-forward, relative… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/15 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Accidental Red Pill on /r/AskReddit, got x4 Gold.Because you're one person out of 7 billion people and billions of years of evolutionary history. And because of both evolution and the social dynamics we were raised with, we enjoy success. Our body literally has reward systems built in to reward social, sexual and resource acquisition success. It's not about "proving yourself" - i.e. getting validation from other people. It's about achieving meaningful success as we, as individuals define it (which, as mentioned, DOES tie in to systems we were … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/15 12:09 PM |
| 4 | The source of your power stems from the ability to walk awayThat's the impression I've gotten over the past couple days of playing around in there. As far as I can tell, the audience is people from TBP and people who are having a hard time totally swallowing the pill. Most of the arguments from the blue pill side seem directed at men who do not yet have a strong frame. Basically, "Women are great, go back to sleep, it's ok!" No point in arguing in there unless you're doing it demonstratively for these latter men. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/15 10:07 AM |
| 1 | I wrote a letter to my wifeI am a bit skeptical of you being deeply aware of your friends' private sexual proclivities By this I meant how they typically get to sex - if they're not flirting, how do they decide to do it? They calmly sit down with each other and one says, "I think it is time to have sex", and the other says, "I concur". And then they have sex, completely sans flirting? I'm not saying it's impossible, as I said, your friends may also not be representative couples, but I don't find it likely. I don't think T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/15 11:13 PM |
| 1 | I wrote a letter to my wifeWhat's "standard"? Our friends are the same age, same income level, same education level, pretty much same family responsibilities, etc. and they aren't the way you describe, either. I am a bit skeptical of you being deeply aware of your friends' private sexual proclivities, but if you are in fact correct, then they're not normal either. Standard is what most of the human population or a given cultural group follows. I am assuming the OP is in a western culture and probably in the Anglosphere, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/15 08:36 PM |
| 1 | I wrote a letter to my wifeWell let's be fair here. If you don't flirt or do playful teasing with your husband and vice versa (and you are both happy with that), you aren't anything like a standard couple, and shouldn't probably be giving relationship advice to people who statistically are probably a standard couple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/15 06:43 PM |
| 1 | I wrote a letter to my wifeThe way he posted here makes it sound like he's not teasing her at all - certainly the letter doesn't show a teasing spirit. A key component of being a confident jerk boy is, well, confidence. And being mature and teasing aren't mutually exclusive. The moment you think they are, you become a joyless husk of a human. I know plenty of mature, adult people that love a good joke. Fathers, mothers, CEOs, doctors, etc. You're saying your husband doesn't ever make a joke? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/15 02:34 PM |
| 1 | I wrote a letter to my wifeI don't think you're really understanding what they're trying to do. Sure, his situation is serious, but that doesn't mean "tell a joke" (passing a shit test rather than generating more negative feelings) isn't the right answer. There's not going to be some magical, "go into a zen state, analyze your environment with all due seriousness and the solution will appear to you" type situation. If he wants to fuck his wife, he needs to generate more attraction. Serious contemplation doesn't do that. B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/15 02:15 PM |
| 1 | I wrote a letter to my wifeYou're right. I decided that rather than reading the thread, I was going to find the deepest, most hidden comment, and give it all my attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/15 11:49 AM |
| 1 | I wrote a letter to my wifeSo demonstrating the qualities of a happy relationship is a bad idea for a man looking to have a happy relationship? Please explain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/15 11:32 AM |
| 5 | What caused you to join your respective sub?Initially, I considered myself a feminist and donated money and time to feminist causes. I started checking out PUA when my heart got destroyed back in 2011. That led to sexual success and the first relationships in my life I was proud of. It also led to a lot of cognitive dissonance with my feminist beliefs. I started talking this over with a girl I was seeing who was a feminist. Whenever we'd start arguing, she'd tell me to, "educate myself". I started reading about gender and quickly found th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/15 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Question for RP Men who have/want lots of casual sexI'll be 30 in two months, and no I do not intend on settling down. If I did I'd probably ensure she has a lower count than I do (which would almost certainly be the case, because she would be far younger than I am). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/15 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Who do you think slut-shames the most: men or women?Typically it's viewed that they have a lowered ability to pair bond. Plus there's the fact that lower n-count girls are accorded higher status (by many men). Why not go for higher status? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/15 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Can Disabled Men Be Alpha?Alpha is a conceptual tool. There is no platonic ideal of alpha. Can you do better than many men as a disabled man? Sure. Will you do as good as non-disabled you could have theoretically done? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/15 12:12 AM |
| 5 | Zvan's Law (What cries of “Misogyny” say about feminism)So they're women, is what you're saying. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/15 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Why are young men so frustrated with women?It's important to point out that you won't convince anyone you're arguing with with how I'm arguing with her. She's trying to "win" here, not learn. The only benefit is for passive observers. That's who I'm actually writing for - men who are wondering if they should trust trying the Redpill. Her shaming me when I talk about how happy I am should be giving men reading pause. It shows she doesn't care about my, and by extension their interests. She cares about killing the Redpill. The way I school… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/15 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Why are young men so frustrated with women?Anyone who seeks sex only can handle as many partners as they wish Can they? You're making a claim - a pretty strong one too - that any person can handle any number of sex partners. Do you have evidence for that claim? I prefer guys who respect women and are capable of commitment And who said that men on TRP are incapable of commitment? Or don't respect women? Enjoying casual sex does not equal incapable of commitment. Hell, there's a sub called married redpill (though I, like many other RP men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/15 03:30 AM |
| 3 | Why are young men so frustrated with women?some guy said that he can have sex with a lot of women because it doesnt matter but a woman who gets fucked by too many guys is a whore and she has baggage Well, the first thing to ask yourself is - is that true? Are men more capable - on average - of handling a great deal of sex partners? TRP holds that position based on various data points. Second off, it's a page for male sexual strategy. A man could easily find one type of woman (a woman that sleeps around easily and with a large amount of m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/15 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Why are young men so frustrated with women?It's not even about whining. If you're acting like a dedicated and selfless provider, timid, offering to bend over backwards, and generally being what I can only call "spineless", as many men are taught to act, you will not have sex as a man, and if you do, it will be with far less attractive women. Who cares if it is insulting to anyone - is it true? Does it help men achieve their goals? It certainly has for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/15 01:21 AM |
| 7 | Why are young men so frustrated with women?The generalizing is to provide contrast to what most men have been taught and also prepare them for 99% of scenarios. Most women don't like weak men, period, and they'll have greater success not being weak. Our generalizations are a far better rule of thumb for the average man than the generalizations we're taught growing up. As for, "being who they really are" - most men want to be the type of person that brings them the most success in life - with the amount of effort they're comfortable with.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/15 12:51 AM |
| 7 | Why are young men so frustrated with women?There is a pretty strong linguistic component of TRP, and how to analyze language between men and women. Honestly I'd say it's one of the main parts of TRP. And it isn't just RP men, it's virtually all men. When men talk about being sensitive and caring, they are talking an amount that would make the average woman cringe. That's why we have posts like, "Never show weakness" - because for the average (non-sociopathic) man, trying to show as little weakness as possible is far closer to what the av… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/15 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Why are young men so frustrated with women?Get over yourself. I'm only slightly taller. Improve if you want better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/15 11:11 PM |
| 6 | Why are young men so frustrated with women?That was pretty much exactly what I saw in the romantic and corporate world, and what caused my eventual defection, "from the rules". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/15 11:10 PM |
| 6 | Why are young men so frustrated with women?The difference is that the way you would define, "sensitive and caring" is probably a lot more how we would define, "someone who is in charge of himself, and on his shit, but also can occasionally shows rare glimpses of vulnerability". The way we'd describe "sensitive and caring" would almost certainly come off as extremely weak, and without direction to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/15 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Columbia U. Rape Mattress Girl Story Comes Full Circle1/3 raped? Not a chance. Not even anywhere close to a chance. RAINN says that rapists are a tiny, tiny portion of the population. Is each rapist raping dozens upon dozens of women? That seems highly unlikely. It does not pass the smell test. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/15 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Columbia U. Rape Mattress Girl Story Comes Full CircleShe's an empowered woman, and he supports her, regardless of her past! /s | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/15 05:56 PM |
| 8 | [Rant/Vent]Found Redpill 4 months ago and I think it nuked my marriage...Do not, do not, do not buy that house. You will lose it. This woman is crazy and you are going to have to divorce eventually. Whether she pulls the trigger or you do is irrelevant. I would look into the cheapest way you can walk away - you'll still likely pay about 40% of your income on your kids. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/15 03:37 PM |
| 5 | There Is Another Way, And The 1% Have Practiced It For CenturiesTRP doesn't encourage either of those things necessarily. TRP encourages doing what you want to achieve your goals. And the majority of posters are fairly anti getting married in 99% of situations. I certainly am. Also in my experience, men and women typically use the term, "brutal honesty" far differently. For example, I would tell a male friend, "You are fat, you need to lose weight". In my experience, this goes over quite poorly with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/15 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Do men have natural urges to rape and kill people ?The idea I've seem argued around TRP is that men essentially have two modes - individual competitiveness - for intragroup competitiveness and cooperative - for intergroup competitiveness. Violence is used to establish your status in the group in both scenarios. Think of it like, "Nobody can beat up my little brother but me!" writ large. In the modern day, we frequently replace violent confrontation with established, ritualized behavior. Hence, civilization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/15 08:32 AM |
| 5 | Writing a paper on TRP and need some adviceDon't write about this place. That is a bad idea. Believe as you want, but speak as others do. Also, it sounds like you'd probably misrepresent the sub. Alpha and beta are conceptual terms (and I feel confident in saying most of the more advanced members here would agree) and there's not really a solid, "goal" of TRP, unless that goal is defined as, "helping men achieve their goals". But once again, I strongly, strongly advise you not to write on this topic. It will be a mistake for you, and you… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Redpillers, when you "fuck sluts" do you kiss and/or eat them out?But the risk is extremely minuscule, as I pointed out. Saying, "X is involved in 2/3 of cases of cancer Y!" doesn't really matter if cancer Y is still absurdly rare. Does HPV increase the incidence of certain cancers? Sure! So does flying! So does taking diagnostic meds for a CAT scan! I'm not arguing that it doesn't increase the risk - I'm arguing that regardless of whether you have HPV or not, the risk is negligible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/15 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers, when you "fuck sluts" do you kiss and/or eat them out?Yes, but again, it is all dependent on how frequent these cancers are. HPV may increase the probability you will get such a cancer, but if the probability goes from .0010 to .0011 - do you care? Are you willing to restrict your sex life on the very off-chance you may get a rare cancer that has a pretty decent survival rate? In all probability, you're going to die of cancer or heart disease (probably cancer, because we'll probably have organ cloning figured out before we have figured out a way to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/15 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men flock to TRP because the rest of society doesn't care about their struggles?Based on the growth rate it has been consistently experiencing for the past year, expect it to be in them by June or July. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/15 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you think men flock to TRP because the rest of society doesn't care about their struggles?I heard about TRP because I was arguing with a girl after I told her I was, "a feminist in every way except for dating", because feminist narratives on dating didn't have practical advice nor did they jive with my experience, and she told me to, "educate myself". So I started doing research, and wound up at TRP. When you shut down debate with cries of, "misogynist", and, "that's so hateful" when people are just trying to understand something in good faith, you naturally push them towards the out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/15 11:50 PM |
| 1 | "Fake it until you make it"In my experience, yes. I "faked it" until I made it (from about late 2011 until early 2012) and truly threw myself into it. I don't worry about getting dates anymore. I took up lifting weights and although I'm injured and can't pick it up again at the moment (so instead working on business stuff), I can't WAIT to go back. The additional strength, the progress. It's amazing. Plenty of people don't change fully, you have to want to change, and keep on yourself about it. And that's hard. But when y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/15 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Redpillers, when you "fuck sluts" do you kiss and/or eat them out?I don't believe you actually understand what "AWALT" means. Do I assume, on a Monday morning, that there is a high probability that a girl between the ages of 18 to 25 has had sexual relations over the past few days? Sure. Do I think that this means that women are literally sucking a new dick every hour? God no. That idea is ludicrous. Nobody on TRP is saying that. As for the brushing your teeth thing - stop trolling. Nobody is saying women are incapable of brushing their teeth. Jesus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/15 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Redpillers, when you "fuck sluts" do you kiss and/or eat them out?It's actually a pretty low increased risk with HPV (cervical cancer is much higher, and even then still very, very low). And you're highly likely to get that from anyone who has had more than 1 or 2 sexual partners. If you're that worried about it, get a Gardasil injection. It protects against the two strains that most commonly cause cancer as well as the two that typically cause warts. Otherwise, it's a risk vs reward trade-off - sex with more partners and a very minuscule increase in cancer ri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/15 11:18 PM |
| 1 | What types of people does bluepill and redpill consist of?Arguably a social-democrat politically, though I'm leaning a bit more right-ish on certain social issues nowadays. Almost 30, computer programmer and college graduate. I have a side business. Came from poverty. I used to consider myself a feminist, but found that this label wasn't workable once I discovered TRP, which jived with my dating experience and the experiments I tested regarding it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/15 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers, when you "fuck sluts" do you kiss and/or eat them out?Cool isn't the word I'd use. I'd say, "tolerant". I don't think she blew him, and I didn't eat her out that night so I doubt I actually tasted his semen. FWIW I've never noticeably tasted semen other than my own on a girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/15 11:09 PM |
| 5 | Redpillers, when you "fuck sluts" do you kiss and/or eat them out?Sure, why would I care? I'd prefer not to, all things being equal, but if it happens in the course of my life, I'm not going to freak out over it. I've fucked a girl, my buddy fucked her less than an hour later, and I fucked her again a few hours after that. NBD to me. And "alpha" is just a conceptual tool. If you're looking at your behavior with self doubt and going, "is that alpha?!?!?!?!!?!?", you're doing it wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/15 10:58 PM |
| 6 | For the guys of redpill, is there anything you miss from your bluepill days?Yes. It's more of an emotional rollercoaster. You feel much more passionate. That being said, all things being equal, being red is better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/15 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Redpillers, when you "fuck sluts" do you kiss and/or eat them out?I could care less that another man has fucked her. I've slept with something like 40ish women and only two have been virgins that I recall - so at this point it's just standard operating procedure. If I were going to marry a girl, I'd pick a girl that has a lower "n-count" because evidence seems to suggest it's more likely she'll stick out the marriage. But I'm not exactly jumping on the marriage bandwagon. I don't care about this side of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/15 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Player/Cabana boy lifestyle vs LTR/Monogamous lifestyle (question for redpill)This is pretty much a spot on analysis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/15 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Why are women banned from TRP but men get plenty of say on RPW?No, you are not. Best of luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/15 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Never show weakness. She is not on your side.The ultimate (distal) reason she's doing it is to ensure that you're strong and if shit goes down, you'll keep her and the kids alive. If you are not, she made a mistake and she has to get out NOW to increase her chances of survival/quality of future offspring (the instinct is still there even after fertility is gone, too). This isn't a conscious process. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 01:33 PM |
| 6 | Never show weakness. She is not on your side.Build yourself so that weakness is less and less frequent. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Why are women banned from TRP but men get plenty of say on RPW?If you want more information, go to the mod thread about this. Best of luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/15 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Why are women banned from TRP but men get plenty of say on RPW?Men and women both can't look past it. Read about the "women are wonderful" effect. And once again no. The "I am a woman" posts aren't helpful. Why would you want them clogging up useful information? Hence the rule. Now I've explained this multiple times and pointed you towards another source (which is more authoritative) if you have further questions. I don't want to repeat what I'm saying a 4th time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/15 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Why are women banned from TRP but men get plenty of say on RPW?It would absolutely be better without the, "As a woman" part. Because then it is judged on its merits and not the gender of the poster. Cool, then you could judge the ideas rather than her gender Yes, exactly the point of the policy, you've got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/15 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Why are women banned from TRP but men get plenty of say on RPW?There are actually a fairly high percentage of analytical statements based on gender. "As a woman X, Y, Z" type stuff. But regardless, neither that, nor the, "I am a woman and this is my perspective" are very valuable for male dating advice. Well, I guess I could ask you what her attitude matters if her ideas are valid? The ideas in, "I am a woman" posts are almost invariably not helpful, as I've explained repeatedly. I'm not a mod, and there was a specific policy post about this specific topic.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/15 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Why are women banned from TRP but men get plenty of say on RPW?Again, not a mod, but here's my take: Because it restricts the probability of the, "I AM A WOMAN" post, where a woman is trying to get additional credence for her ideas simply due to her gender. That's how the "attitude" aspect and the managing the sub aspect come together. Any ideas should stand independent of gender. There's no rule against women commenting - why should there be? If a woman makes a good point, great! But virtually all comments that start with, "I am a woman and..." are worthle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/15 09:06 PM |
| 1 | r/Thebluepill wants to build a redpill alternative rather than just mocking them all the time. They prove, right out of the gate, why their efforts are futile and will never work. In fact, their advice is harmful to lonely men who have been given bad advice all their life.I mean, I'd personally say pound for pound, redpill is a better investment. If you want to spend a lot more money, take a lot more time on each woman, and have a less satisfied woman, then sure, just throw down resource after resource and don't try to improve. But I would say the average man should try investing at least a year - the increase of attractiveness of girls and the ability to handle their behaviors is useful to any man that wants any sort of long-term relationship satisfaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/15 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Why are women banned from TRP but men get plenty of say on RPW?Because managing a 100k sub is difficult business, there's a lot of noise to the signal, and the vast majority of such things are noise. Female perspectives on dating, on the whole, aren't very helpful to men in my relatively extensive experience. And ones that seek to "teach" men something from a female perspective (when in fact they are just one woman's perspective) that they can learn in a neutral context are almost always useless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/15 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Why are women banned from TRP but men get plenty of say on RPW?I am not a mod either, but you're allowed to post a long story about your boyfriend and his actions and how they make you feel - you're just not allowed to mention your gender. People reading should be able to figure it out - hell, mention some gender-specific part of yourself, like, "my dress" or something. But we don't want, "I am a woman" posts, because they come off as a woman coming in and basically saying, "You! Men who do not understand the women. I am a woman, and I will teach you the ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/15 12:33 PM |
| 2 | r/Thebluepill wants to build a redpill alternative rather than just mocking them all the time. They prove, right out of the gate, why their efforts are futile and will never work. In fact, their advice is harmful to lonely men who have been given bad advice all their life.Depends on how you're defining, "alpha" as. I'm not as wealthy or influential as I want to be in the world, but I am capable of getting laid pretty easily with relatively attractive girls despite being no more than a 5 or 6 in physical appearance myself. The initial time investment is high (I put a year or so into going out extremely frequently and dating/flirting a lot), but after a while it becomes second nature and the time investment is very low. Like, really, really low in some cases. Tinde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/15 12:19 PM |
| 19 | Women admit they love being dominated in bed, hamster that it's only because they're so empowered.I had a male friend say the same thing not too long ago - when sales of 50 Shades were really ramping up and everyone was going crazy and I discussed it with him, he said something along the lines of, "Well with a more and more equal situation in the bedroom, it makes sense that women would want to subvert it. It's not that women actually like to be dominated, it's just that they want to try something new" | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/15 11:56 AM |
| 17 | Conversation I OverheardWhen I was a teenager, I pissed my mom off by trying to go outside - she had forbid me from leaving the house for my entire childhood and my teenage years - ostensibly because I'd get kidnapped (we were dirt poor and in one of the safer parts of the US - there was no way for this to happen) - in reality because either she was crazy or wanted control. I was 16 or 17, and I just wanted to go for a walk. She starts freaking out, and ultimately she pushes me. I was bigger than her by this time in my… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 11:34 PM |
| 27 | "The friendzone is a gift fools!"I once went to hang out with a girl who viewed me as low SMV, because we originally met when I was oneitising over the girl that pushed me to PUA and destroyed me. Well, by the time I hung out with her again (a year later?), I had entirely recovered and only become better. She invites me out to save her from some nerdy guy hitting on her at the bar (I didn't know that at the time). I show up, and she's there with her hotter BFF. Her BFF and I start getting along immediately, and she starts FREAK… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 11:15 PM |
| 0 | "Why aren't you married?" The women of my era aren't like the women of your eraWouldn't you probably be dead too? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/15 05:07 AM |
| 1 | It needs to be said. The cock carousel DOES NOT ruin a womanYou're unicorn hunting here. There are no unicorns. There's no "magical" - for lack of a better word - reason that women ride the CC. It's mostly about upbringing and lack of constraints. There is no innately, "quality" woman that you can suddenly find regardless of her past. Her past defines her. That's the point. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/15 02:49 AM |
| 10 | Vasalgel and the Sexual MarketplaceYou'll still have people in high-risk for unwanted pregnancy categories (mostly poor and young people) getting pregnant due to the fact that the amount for the treatment will be a lot of money to them. The smart plan would be to offer these injections free of charge, but a lot of people will cry, "SOCIALISM!!!!!", when in fact the cost of a newborn baby in poverty will cost them far, far more in the long-term. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 11:45 PM |
| 18 | Pussy pass example at my jobThis is exactly how I respond to anything of a similar nature. "Well, men and women are equal, so you're being sexist". Works great if someone is accusing you of "taking advantage" of women because you sleep with them without offering commitment as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Seems like if you're a male virgin who hasn't been successful with women after a certain age, you'll always be haunted even if you have success later on.I lost my virginity fairly young (17), but I had no game, and I was short, scrawny, and feminist. I didn't have sex for another 2 years, and then with a fat online girlfriend who lived a few states away. I had one normal relationship in college with an ugly girl who got progressively fatter as we dated. I didn't get better until I discovered PUA at 26. 26 is a very late age to start picking up on things other people did at 13. Would I say it has affected my view of relationships? Absolutely. I s… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 08:27 AM |
| 2 | FR: Lost frame, LTR, and almost my freedom in one night.He should insist. Staying in that situation would be a huge mistake. If you're ever in a similar situation, cut the woman off immediately. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 08:09 AM |
| 20 | FR: Lost frame, LTR, and almost my freedom in one night.You drop her. Walking away is your greatest power. That being said, if it's an argument you two are having and she's an otherwise good girl, I'd say something like, "I'm not going to talk to you about this until you calm down." Give her a chance to calm down. If she doesn't, leave for a while or go into another room depending on the situation. But really, when a woman is acting like the OP's, you don't want to be around her. Just walk away. She's nothing - you can do better. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 08:00 AM |
| 3 | How to explain the woman who claims to love her husband more than her children?As for the household chore aspect - I once had a plate over, and had some dishes in the sink. She was baking cookies for me, and I determined that that was the best time to wash my dishes (she was not sufficiently in my thrall at that point to wash my dishes and I recognized that and didn't try to get her to do so). I started washing them, and she was -shocked-. She's like, "I've never seen a man like you do the dishes". And all I said was something like, "They have to be done. This is the best … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/15 03:53 PM |
| 14 | Women's emotional volatility is an unconscious and evolved mechanism to secure men's commitment by wiring his ego into the role of the provider.That's why you can't argue with a woman. She's completely incapable of arguing back. Her volatility is out of her control and she doesn't care why or how. She doesn't even care about getting back into a normal state. Try helping a woman with logic when she's having an emotional outburst. She cannot even grasp the concept of "help" in this situation. She is entirely consumed by it and has no objective or conscious understanding that her outbursts are goal oriented. She is a slave to her emotional… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/15 10:33 AM |
| 0 | So... my Tinder date changed her profile description after her date with meIt really is quite easy. I've gotten laid on multiple occasions with girls less than 30 minutes after meeting them - and I'm not talking fat girls either. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 06:55 PM |
| 7 | If society fully admitted being nice doesn't get men laid, then people would realize that women are fucked up. If women are fucked up then feminism is indefensible.I think this is much of the problem - we're sending the message to boys and young men to become the sort of man that 35 year old women with children want, when in fact they're trying to date partying, childless 20-somethings. That leads to a large amount of pain and cognitive dissonance during adolescence and early adulthood for men. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 06:37 PM |
| 1 | IM's Hardest Hitting Reddit RantsThis has always been my reading of it. It's the same thing when a a girl or guy proactively rejects someone. "Dude, you should go talk to that hot girl." "No man, she looks REALLY stuck up. I don't need that sort of drama in my life." Same thing with men describing themselves as, "lone wolves" around here. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 04:44 PM |
| 2 | National hiring experiments reveal 2:1 faculty preference for women on STEM tenure trackI think what he means by, "female science" is actually about a specific term or idea. In many softer fields, there's the idea that women have some unique experience that allows them to do a job differently - and possibly better than, "white male science" (yes, that's a term used for just, you know, regular science). I once had a philosophy professor when I was in college argue that our whole method of doing science - including the scientific method - was white and male. Not DONE by white males, … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Married couple with 4 year old child have a poly relationship with a alpha 'bull'. Introduce him to child as 3rd parent. Aunt posts to /r/relationships about her being a little worried. Is torn apart, insulted, downvoted - its not of your business, you bigot.She says she googled, "PUA misogyny" a few months after (Juneish?) she and I had an argument and had stopped talking, and found a post I'd made on here (in September). I only found out because I made a couple of very highly upvoted comments about her a couple months back (like Januaryish), and within 4 hours of my posting them, my phone was BLOWING UP about how wrong I was. She, and two buddies who read here but never post are the only people who know who I am on here. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/15 10:16 PM |
| 9 | Married couple with 4 year old child have a poly relationship with a alpha 'bull'. Introduce him to child as 3rd parent. Aunt posts to /r/relationships about her being a little worried. Is torn apart, insulted, downvoted - its not of your business, you bigot.You really won't have much of a problem then. I moved into a high concentration Asian area (in the USA) about a year ago (for the first time in my life ever) and one of the things I immediately noticed was just how open very attractive Asian girls were to white guys. That being said, I had a white female friend (no, not you, stalker girl that knows I post on TRP) who went bonkers when I started dating an Asian girl. Told me she was ugly, they were all ugly, how could I possibly be dating an Asia… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/15 04:55 AM |
| 3 | Photos show how "Everday Sexism" feelsOk, what did YOU get out of this article? Is she not saying that all women are victims at the hands of all men? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/15 12:53 AM |
| 0 | Prenups - A Short GuideYeah, I really can't fathom how people advocate, "Here's the RP way to get married, do it this way!" - and act like marriage is something you have to do if you want a LTR. You don't. I know plenty of successful, long-term couples - many with children, that don't have a marriage contract. There is absolutely no reason, from a legal perspective, TO get married. None. Not any. It won't make your woman more loyal. It won't make her more likely to stay with you. She doesn't appreciate it. There is no… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Feminists and women have already won. Let them have their prize.Good way to get yourself crushed. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 11:47 AM |
| 4 | Going on arranged dates -- or when a lady you met at the bar wants to set you up on a date with her daughterDo you have any idea the amount of money that is in tech right now, or how people in tech have actual jobs still when much of the millennial generation is doing menial Starbucksing? Tech started to stop being a thing, "for nerds" about a decade ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 11:27 AM |
| 3 | "The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative viewBeat women with ships? I'm assuming you mean whips? And even so, those girls are a dime a dozen. I'd honestly say they're a majority - if you introduce it correctly. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/15 07:00 PM |
| 4 | "The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative viewIt's not about taking the easy way out versus the hard way. It's about making dumb decisions that are harder for no good reason. I can cut off my legs and my life will be harder. That doesn't mean it's a smart idea. For starters, I'm not tied down to a woman who can take half my stuff, and I don't date girls with mental problems. But this isn't about being in a pissing match about life decisions - you're getting defensive, and you don't need to. I'm not attacking you - I'm pointing out that you … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/15 04:26 PM |
| 2 | "The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative viewIs there a better explanation? Why do you spend time on a woman with crippling mental issues? Why do you not find a girl that doesn't have them? Why did you decide to get married? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/15 04:15 PM |
| 10 | "The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative viewYou're dating a woman with crippling mental issues and you've signed a contract that says a woman can take half your stuff at a moment's notice and you've got it covered? I mean, you do you, but none of that seems like a great situation to be in. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/15 04:00 PM |
| 6 | "The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative viewWhy would you date a girl like that? You can do better. You sound like you're essentially at her beck and call. Drop her. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/15 03:33 PM |
| 2 | The Friendzone is an InsultWhat women? What "blame"? There's one specific woman. He says, over and over and over again throughout comments that he's responsible. He fucked up. He sees the experience as a positive one on the way to personal growth. There is a cause to blame, and it's the OP. And he knows that. Should he have felt insulted? Who the fuck cares? Did it push him to get better? It did? Great! He should have gotten insulted and angry then. Saying "women aim for the best" doesn't mean, "women are superficial horr… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/15 03:47 AM |
| 3 | The Friendzone is an InsultI can confirm. When I was first discovering PUA and getting good with girls, girls that had rejected me or only been moderately interested before started showing a great deal more attention. It is -very- explicit. I even slept with one of them. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/15 02:08 AM |
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