cocainetea Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	This is from the same dude who called me a “dirty ghetto bitch” and used me for sex for months. Right after I got into a relationship with my now-fiancé, this is what he sends. 😒	LIES MEN TELL	cocainetea	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/12/19 02:49 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Reminder: LVM say anything to get what they want. As soon as he said: “forget it, you’ll just say no” I KNEW WHERE THAT WAS GOING	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/20 09:18 PM
49	Reminder: Male sexual attention is not a compliment, and you should not make receiving it a priority. I remember a neckbeard/niceguy tried to tell me I'm sooooooo lucky that I'm a girl because I can get just about anyone to fuck me. Like, OKAY?! Did I ask for that? No, I'm not looking for some random fuck, I'm looking for someone to respect me. Getting a random thirsty dude to have sex is easy, everyone wants their dick wet. How is that a compliment????	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/20 01:27 AM
7	Just a friend reminder I get what you’re saying, but at the same time, it just seems like you care way too much about proving people wrong who don’t even think twice about you on a regular, people who don’t care and people who are irrelevant. If you really didn’t care about said people, you wouldn’t have to prove anything. I tried that with my ex, wanted him to see how great I was doing - but in the end it just proved I was still bitter about it and I still cared. Now that I’m in a happier place with a better man, I d…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/01/20 02:03 PM
89	“I’m Not Sure Yet” is one of the biggest lies men tell. If he’s not consistently pursuing you and trying to impress you, NEXT THE HELL OUT OF HIM UNAPOLOGETICALLY. Had a dude I was just seeing for a month tell me he didn’t want a relationship / he’s emotionally unavailable although at the time, we were just talking and nobody ever mentioned a relationship. He said that we were moving too fast???? My fiancé now was constantly pursuing asked me to be his girlfriend within the first month and asked me to marry him a year and a half later. When I asked what made him propose, he told me he just couldn’t wait. ♥️ You will know when a man wants you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/19 05:51 PM
122	Ladies, choose wisely and ruthlessly! My fiancé and I just had this (heated) conversation because I will N O T give birth if certain standards are not met. Don’t get me wrong, my fiancé is a great guy and takes care of me, but when raising a child, your standards have to be EXTREMELY HIGH. My Dad/Sperm donor was a LVM and I will not raise a child in those type of conditions.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/12/19 02:49 AM
4	When your mom is trying to set you up. It took me awhile to straight out say no. Bro, “modify your expectations” is what my mother needs to hear. She’s been in a shitty relationship with this narcissist who ruined her relationships (with her family and friendships) and is abusing her financially, mentally, all that. Very childish man who throws a fit when he doesn’t get his way. Thinks he’s superior because he has more money (really just credit) than you do. Has been on a rampage of talking shit about me because I refuse to talk to him. I refuse to continue the cycle with hi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/12/19 12:56 AM
13	Do not fall for it! Had this dude call me a dirty ghetto bitch once. Meanwhile, he was in his motherMs basement snorting coke & I was getting my college degree. I’m still lost to this day.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/12/19 12:47 AM
35	Why do men think this is an okay way to START a conversation? I had an ex recently contact me & “apologize” for his behavior years ago. I accepted and decided to catch up - letting him know that I was now engaged. The entire time, dude was mentioning wanting to be naked, hooking up with other women, and finally, mentioned that he was masturbating. Like.......... is this how you speak with everyone?????? Just mention your wiener at any given point? What do they expect out of this? (Yes, this person is now deleted and blocked.)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/19 02:42 PM
0	He ghosted for a week and popped up today - this was my response. LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Why are these men all the same, goddammit!!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/19 09:29 PM
7	Men who want to get married do so. A guy I wasn’t even dating drove 10-11 hours to come see me with my favorite sandwich, flowers and a cookie cake. Guess who I’m engaged to now (((: Don’t take shit ladies.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/11/19 09:02 PM
8	Take a break if you need one sis, because I do 🤬 My past self needed to be more like you. While in college, I paid for all of this guy’s Uber’s once bc he didn’t have a debit card, lived in his mommas basement and had a DUI soooo a suspended license I’m assuming. :/ Needed to be more confident in knowing that I NEED SOMEONE ON MY LEVEL.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/10/19 07:24 PM