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| 22 | PSA: Nice cars attract creepy guys, not womenHaha :) If you have a nice car, that means you are successful or famous; that's attractive to women. But if you have a nice car but no game (not congruent), they will run away like roadrunner from coyote. Peacocking is a valid strategy, but girls call some cars "penis extensions". | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 04:43 PM |
| 7 | [FR] How to hook up with one of those "Rachel Mcadams" good girl types that every guy falls in love withGuys who get in a loop of "reading books but not having the balls to approach" often break down and start living in a fantasy world. Their own reality. They start writing fiction like this, and due to Dunning-Kruger syndrome they don't realize that not even experienced pick up artists but even a guy who said "fuck it " and approached 10 girls, would know it's bullshit and real sexual communication is not literal, but non verbal and can not be explained like this. Nice story. But girls write bett… | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 01:03 PM |
| 1 | [FR] How to hook up with one of those "Rachel Mcadams" good girl types that every guy falls in love withI recite poems to girls I've met at the bus stop. ~Aren't~ Don't you?! "Do you know Edgar Allan Poe? Great poet. I could recite you something romantic.." "Go ahead.. " From childhood’s hour I have not been As others were—I have not seen A dork at the bus stop, who would buy A guy reading him a poem, and not ask why He was busting her balls, by pretending To be one of THOSE GUYS, she's used to dating | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 12:53 PM |
| 0 | 12 Reasons Why Working Out is the Single Best Thing You Can Do to Attract WomenIt's good to maximize and optimize. But it will have zero effect unless you are already adept at approaching, attracting, comforting and fucking girls. You have those settled? You want to increase your percentages? Go ahead and work out, get a FUE hair transplant, lose weight, get nice implants for your bad teeth, get expensive watches and clothes, get a nice car. But only after you figured out "the game", and not before. They won't help unless you are already good. | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 12:40 PM |
| 10 | I asked a girl out for the first time in my life. (Spoiler: Rejection)Her: Uhh, can we go out as friends maybe? Me: Nah, I don't think so.' Give this man a round of applause. You win, good job. | /r/seduction | 28/07/17 09:36 PM |
| -1 | Girl I've been talking to sent me this. Does this mean anything? Am I over thinking it?she isnt into you | /r/seduction | 27/07/17 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Advice: did I permanently FZ myself?Let go of your oneitis. In 11 years you could have approached 11.000 women, had sex with 400 different women, have children from 10 different girls, get married twice and get divorced thrice. You are stuck in an infinite loop within your illusory dreams. You're stuck in a loop inside your mind. You have to send a break signal. Get over it. The reality will hurt you, getting out of your loop and continuing your life as a healthy, non-needy, non-desperate man will be difficult: but at least you wi… | /r/seduction | 27/07/17 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Help to date on Snapchat.If you can't see it, you have to go out and develop your game. The game is played in the field, not on snapchat, telegraph, smoke signals or books at home. If you can't approach and talk to a girl at the grocery store, what makes you think you will suddenly be able to display what a woman wants in whatsapp texts? It is a MYTH that someone who is not good with women can magically start pulling them once he decides to stop being confident and creeps on her where there is no in-person rejection. "T… | /r/seduction | 27/07/17 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Help to date on Snapchat.You approach her at school, like a man. Not stalk and creep on her social media like someone who is a wuss afraid of rejection. That requires you to display high social status, and if you don't have it in your school there is no way she will want to be seen with you. | /r/seduction | 27/07/17 03:35 PM |
| 1 | “Pick-up is the art of conveying who you are in the shortest time possible." - Tyler DurdenAlso a very good analogy! | /r/seduction | 27/07/17 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Finally hooked up with a girl from the friend zone (bittersweet)She was cute but in the fast food uniform I wasn't super attracted physically but I liked the vibes so I figured hanging out would be fun and maybe easy lay cause I was older about 5 years and had experience. She ended up being really stunning outside of work, This is new information for me. Thank you. I will look carefully at fast food worker girls or make them take their apron off with a funny excuse so I can see their figure before deciding if I want to ask them out :) we became friends that … | /r/seduction | 26/07/17 08:21 PM |
| 1 | “Pick-up is the art of conveying who you are in the shortest time possible." - Tyler DurdenContext: pick up arts , source: Tyler Durden, a very famous pick up artist , and this forum is called "seduction", on the sidebar you will see pick up arts sources. It's his nickname, of course. Nobody uses his real name in PUA. The idea is apparent and common sense to anyone who has approached women and tried to demonstrate value and status, demonstrate who he is, in a congruent way, before she rejects him, and eventually fucked her. If you are not already experienced in this area, and just ski… | /r/seduction | 26/07/17 08:08 PM |
| 1 | How exactly does "status" help you get hot girls once you're out in the adult world?You have as much social status as you display. In the old times, every woman knew who had high status in the tribe. The strong soldier, the skilled butcher, the sneaky hunter, the talented carpenter.. Everyone knew who was alpha and who was beta. High school is a tribe pretty much like that. Everyone knows everyone. The social hierarchy is no different than a tribe one million years ago, or the prison. The roles and classes are set unless you return from summer holiday a new person. No such thin… | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 10:25 AM |
| 1 | No dates in 2 months.Oh wow! Good job! I appreciate and approve of people who can get out their comfort zone and change themselves. She did well. I too have lost 30kg (only) over 4 months to become skinny. It's not easy. | /r/seduction | 22/07/17 11:18 AM |
| 1 | List of books to beginDon't approach new girls who saw you approach others. But you're walking by, you see girls at a park, and you approach, befriend them, make them laugh, and perhaps isolate, or lead away your target. Rejected? Not receptive? Smile, thank, move on. Approach a girl at the grocery store where you have to buy a candybar and soda already. You should not have pussed out. You would have lost nothing, but gained experience even if rejected. Maybe the cutest girl would like you a lot. It's not very common… | /r/seduction | 22/07/17 11:15 AM |
| 1 | No dates in 2 months.I am that ugly? You haven't tried enough if you still believe that your lack of success stems from your physical looks. First learn to be confident and secure about who you are. Stop hating yourself. You can't change what you look like beyond a good haircut, stylish clothes, cologne and a good tooth brushing. Only then you can practice and achieve success. Women are not attracted to your looks on a gut level. They are attracted to your character. What kind of woman do you think would be attracte… | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 11:48 PM |
| 1 | How would you perceive this interaction I just had?She was attracted at first, but talking about major plans after college might have bored her. Gotta keep it fun, light. And in an approach like this, it would have worked better to give her one compliment. (Not when she is working out or anything. But if you see her on your way out, and you each stop to talk. That's good for direct.) BUT GOOD JOB! WELL DONE! Not many guys can do that. I bet it was exciting, it always is when you make eye contact, smile and talk. You can work on your conversation… | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 11:43 PM |
| 1 | List of books to beginYou really need only one book to learn the basics. You won't develop the qualities described and anti-patterns (?) you should abandon just because you have read a book. You have to close the book, dress up and GO OUT. The game is learned in the field. Not at a library, not at this forum, not in your bedroom, not on a computer. Only going out and approaching women can give you the skills and the experience. That was a quote by Mystery, the god of seduction. The Game is about him. Rules of the Gam… | /r/seduction | 21/07/17 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Tuesday approaches [FR]You are never too old to approach attractive girls. And they stay the same age. Yes that sounds harsh, I guess Finnish girls are better behaved. Rejections become fun when you view them as a challenge to demonstrate that you are a man who is amused but not adversely affected by shit tests and bitch shields though. "How would I act like a KING who is undercover observing his people in this situation? She is one of my subjects and I have to look out for her and protect her, and I am the kind so I … | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 08:21 AM |
| 5 | I'm a 20M virgin and am depressed, what can I do?I tried going out last Friday, but a good majority of people were with friends and were hostile to any stranger. No they weren't. :) In your mind you imagined them to be, echoed the thought until it became reality. Your aura stems from your beliefs and thoughts. You made yourself look hostile. Are you ready to forget about everything you know about men, women, and relationships and learn the truth? Are you that desperate that you will swallow up any new information and work hard, and get out of … | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Tuesday approaches [FR]Haha good job! You did well. I remember first time I opened a sitting girl at a bar and asked "May I sit here?" , she said: "If you must.." You have more experience than you did before now. You'll do much better next time. But with experience from pumped up girls at bars, it is very easy to approach girls at coffee shops or the bus. My suggestion is that you go something between direct and indirect at bars and venues like that. Open with a compliment, but not her looks..Her style, her clothes, h… | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 11:20 PM |
| 2 | How important is it when you're a virgin to keep that fact hidden when it comes to casual relationships?A pickup coach named 26 got his name because was a virgin until 26 years old. I've had an experience where I was utterly rejected because of my lack of sexual experience How do you know that? You are speaking as if you have super game, you're confident, secure, understand female psychology and how attraction works; you can pull girls out of their boyfriend's arms and take them out, you can get 4 girls to go home with you: but they all leave after they find out you lack the sexual experience. Wha… | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 10:53 PM |
| 8 | Moving to California for girlsDo chinese guys kill it in China with 1 billion asian population? Why not move to Shanghai with 100 million asian girls? You'd kill it there by your logic, right? Your problem is that you live in a small town. No matter what kind of women you are attracted to; you will find more of them in a large city compared to a small one. Yes, many people move to large cities in order to improve their dating lives. It's a numbers game; if a small town has 5% of the population as available women, and it has … | /r/seduction | 19/07/17 01:43 PM |
| 2 | This Female PUA illustrates how 90% of men are like and teaches women to be more approachable. Real MVP or hurting the game?Can a guy choose to be attracted to ugly, fat, short, ill, genetically unfit women with no breasts and her body below the torso missing; just because she is a nice person? Your biologic programming is that. Your genes take over your mind and control you whenever you lay your eyes on a woman, just long enough to make sure you mate with the right human. That is attraction. Attraction isn't a choice. You can't alter it, you can't affect it, you can't change it. It's hardcoded. We are attracted to t… | /r/seduction | 18/07/17 07:58 PM |
| 3 | There is no cringe-free way to learn pickup, and there is no way to approach a lot of women without your ego being pulverised. Beginning to learn something you have no idea about is ALWAYS cringey: you would laugh at videos of yourself learning how to swim, how to ride a bike, or how to drive a car.This forum is not the place you should seek help. It's called "self-help" for a reason. We can not help you if you don't want to help yourself. We can only guide you. It's not an embarrassing thing to see a professional counsellor (although might be expensive) about self loathing and self worth issues. They are SERIOUS problems that could lead to self harm and an unhappy life. We are not licensed psychologists or therapists. Our advice is only has entertainment value, nothing more. Once you figu… | /r/seduction | 18/07/17 01:47 PM |
| 5 | Randomly approaching girls at (places like) a coffee shop?This is called a "static" approach. She isn't going anywhere and she can't naturally walk away if she were to feel uncomfortable with you talking to her. So, direct approach is a no no. Leave the "You know what, I thought you were cute and I'd be kicking myself in the butt if I didn't come and say hi" for girls who are walking past you or about to get on their bus. If she is alone, you could start talking to her about something in the environment, something bugging you -like who won last night's… | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 06:44 PM |
| 12 | This Female PUA illustrates how 90% of men are like and teaches women to be more approachable. Real MVP or hurting the game?Being female going to a "how to get laid class" must be like being a male and going to "how to look at porn, watch sports and scratch your balls" class :( He's right on. No complaints there. The girls won't be able to change their biologic programming to act another way though. | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 10:59 AM |
| 1 | I'm a good looking loserYou don't have "game" and you don't "get it" about attraction and seual communication and dating. First you should read a book that will change everything you know about women, love, life, and dating. All 28 years of misinformation and false advice will have to be changed. After that you can start gaining the skills needed one by one. There are many books; "Attraction Code" by Vin DiCarlo, "Models" by Mark Manson, "The Mystery Method" by Mystery, "All About Women" by Giuseppe Notte, "Double Your… | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 10:42 AM |
| 3 | There is no cringe-free way to learn pickup, and there is no way to approach a lot of women without your ego being pulverised. Beginning to learn something you have no idea about is ALWAYS cringey: you would laugh at videos of yourself learning how to swim, how to ride a bike, or how to drive a car.If you aren't willing to work, and change yourself in order to attain your dreams and goals; then maybe leading an infertile but happy life -playing video games, watching anime, having as much pizza, tacos and mountain dew as you can have- is a better option for you. Don't feel pressured by society and your biology to find a woman, produce offspring and bring them up. Passions and hobbies are perfect ways to devote your time to. Sex, mating, and women aren't everything in life. You shouldn't be … | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 10:24 AM |
| 3 | There is no cringe-free way to learn pickup, and there is no way to approach a lot of women without your ego being pulverised. Beginning to learn something you have no idea about is ALWAYS cringey: you would laugh at videos of yourself learning how to swim, how to ride a bike, or how to drive a car.hotter girls do not stick around past one or two hangouts They were into you, that's why they met you up. The problem is that you are not congruent in real life with the personality they had the impression that you had online. The solution is to delete your online dating accounts and hit the streets. Gain real practice, congruence and the confidence to talk to anyone on the street, make them friends with each other, lead them and be the party. I'm afraid of finding out how unattractive I am I'm … | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 10:38 PM |
| 6 | One biggest thing that I've learnt in my first year is to never take the "I have a boyfriend" seriously.You should leave. | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 08:59 PM |
| 0 | One biggest thing that I've learnt in my first year is to never take the "I have a boyfriend" seriously.You are completely totally wrong, and just by that comment I believe you should not be out here giving false advice and misleading guys. It may do good for your ego, but it won't do good for them in the real world. | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 08:58 PM |
| 1 | One biggest thing that I've learnt in my first year is to never take the "I have a boyfriend" seriously.I don't even take it seriously when they say it while we're having sex for the first time :) Two instances when girls outright rejected me because they had a boyfriend. 1- She ran 100m under 5 seconds to catch the bus I was on. While getting off the bus at the center I told her she should try for the Olympics with that speed. Talked a bit, there was a coffee chop at the bus stops so I asked if she's like to have a coffee? She immediately said "I have a boyfriend". But asked my name. Later she st… | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 08:54 PM |
| 2 | There is no cringe-free way to learn pickup, and there is no way to approach a lot of women without your ego being pulverised. Beginning to learn something you have no idea about is ALWAYS cringey: you would laugh at videos of yourself learning how to swim, how to ride a bike, or how to drive a car.Here is my question: Why do you insist on meeting women at bars? What is your expectation? Why do you think you can pick up a woman and go home with her if you don't even believe that "women can be into you" in the first place? Ever seen the Matrix? You can't jump to the other side if you don't believe that you can in the first place. The difference between you and I is not that I know a lot of techniques, routines, skills and pick up lines: it's that I BELIEVE IT IS POSSIBLE: then I don't need … | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 08:24 PM |
| 2 | There is no cringe-free way to learn pickup, and there is no way to approach a lot of women without your ego being pulverised. Beginning to learn something you have no idea about is ALWAYS cringey: you would laugh at videos of yourself learning how to swim, how to ride a bike, or how to drive a car.If your teacher told you that "turning the wheel left makes the car goes right", and you followed, you would definitely not have improved. > Practice makes perfect. WRONG. Perfect practice makes perfect. False knowledge, wrong techniques, faulty teachings will only make you fall harder. Do not listen to Cosmopolitan dating advice. Do not listen to mainstream "be a nice guy, compliment them, buy them flowers, take them on dates, spoil them and they will love you in return" kind of bullshit. There… | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 05:55 PM |
| 5 | There is no cringe-free way to learn pickup, and there is no way to approach a lot of women without your ego being pulverised. Beginning to learn something you have no idea about is ALWAYS cringey: you would laugh at videos of yourself learning how to swim, how to ride a bike, or how to drive a car.Stop. This guy is a homeless pick up artist. He sleeps on park benches, he has game and the character. He picks up cute girls and sleeps at their places when he can. Bragging about your job would probably be the last thing you want when you are attracting women. You do not talk about yourself unless asked. Your character attracts a woman; not your money, job, stamp collection or expensive car. Those who buy expensive cars in order to attract women; attract many escorts and gold diggers, not high… | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 05:47 PM |
| 9 | There is no cringe-free way to learn pickup, and there is no way to approach a lot of women without your ego being pulverised. Beginning to learn something you have no idea about is ALWAYS cringey: you would laugh at videos of yourself learning how to swim, how to ride a bike, or how to drive a car.You will not make 50 people feel uncomfortable and awkward. You will bring spice to their monotonous boring lives, boost their self esteem, make them smile, make them laugh, make them happy. Anyone who suggest the opposite to you does not have your best interests in their minds. Do not take their advice, do not keep them around you. Guess how many friends I have lost once I began "getting it" and sleeping with 3-4 different girls every week. Guys who were around me just because I was making them… | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 05:39 PM |
| 16 | There is no cringe-free way to learn pickup, and there is no way to approach a lot of women without your ego being pulverised. Beginning to learn something you have no idea about is ALWAYS cringey: you would laugh at videos of yourself learning how to swim, how to ride a bike, or how to drive a car.Firstly practice outside the school. When you gain some experience talking to women without messing up, you can talk to girls at school: don't be the guy who hits on everyone: be the guy who talks to everyone and is very social. School/Work isn't good for direct cold approaches. | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 04:09 AM |
| 5 | The Top 28 Mistakes the Fake Alpha Male MakesGood write up. I have to admit I have done some of these in my first year of learning pick up. I even alienated very nice and beautiful girls who were genuinely interested in me and wanted something with me, because I was playing hard to get / trying to answer everything with memorised lines. One girl asked my name, where I'm from and my number on the bus. I had to play hard to get and said "I'll tell you when you see me next time". She looked like some French movie star. Guess who never saw her… | /r/seduction | 15/07/17 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson on Nice/Bad Guys:"the insistence that the highest moral virtue for a modern man is harmlessness, which is absurd. Women don't even like harmless men, they HATE them. What women want are DANGEROUS MEN WHO ARE CIVILIZED, and they want to help civilize them.That's Beauty and the Beast"No need to read PUA books and approach women, guys. Just be a vampire werewolf billionaire who is the head of surgery on a pirate ship :) | /r/seduction | 11/07/17 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Your #1 mistake right now. You aren't approaching enoughThe more I rejected the more I will get laid. Every rejection is a brick in my palace. Every rejection gets me one step closer to my dream girl, I will go through them quickly and meet her sooner. He who hesitates masturbates. I have already been rejected, I will go and have a stress free chat. First you do the thing you're afraid of, and then the fear goes away, not the other way around. Put yourself in this mental state, and the approach anxiety won't be a problem anymore. | /r/seduction | 11/07/17 09:09 AM |
| 56 | Reformed PUA Neil Strauss admits finding his book cringeworthy...after he met and married a woman using what he's taught in his books and programs and the money he made off of teaching guys | /r/seduction | 10/07/17 11:08 AM |
| 2 | A Threesome That Turned into a Twosome - LRVery nice harem fiction, can't wait to read the rest of your short stories :') You thought you would post this on the only place on reddit where there are guys who actually "get it" and deal with delusional guys like you in order to help them, and not get called out? When you are ready to receive help, drop the fiction and ask for books and guides. We'll lead you in the right direction. | /r/seduction | 09/07/17 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Be careful nailing drunk chicksPlaying pong and running naked in the dorm is not exactly stored in the same area in the brain as: The night before we had a deep 3 hour talk isolated away from the party. We talked about our problems and passions, and we connected extremely deeply. Convinced her that her ex was a chode, she started laughing and crying and telling me she'd never felt free from the anger and sadness surrounding her ex until then. She hugged me and put her face into my chest. Soon she asked me if we could keep tal… | /r/seduction | 09/07/17 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Be careful nailing drunk chicksNo, don't tell her anything of the type. She hasn't been responding to your texts, that's it. If you push any more she will block you and tell everyone in the group that you have been harassing her. Let go, get over her, move on. There are 3.5 billion other women. | /r/seduction | 09/07/17 06:07 PM |
| 6 | Be careful nailing drunk chicksThat's what your ego speaking to you. Ego has been the end of many men, and it still hurts guys trying to get better at game at every point. It doesn't mean you're ugly or bad or anything. She's probably worried her friends will find out. she may be worried because one of the girls in the social circle has a crush on you and she would feel bad if she learned. She may be worried that the guy she's having a semi-serious thing with will find out. She may be worried her friends will think she's rebo… | /r/seduction | 09/07/17 04:49 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to grinding at EDM festivals ?Believe me: once you are in "that state of mind" of a confident alpha male who feels like the KING of the world and all women want him... Your only "move" is walking up to a woman directly and saying "hi" with a smile. | /r/seduction | 09/07/17 02:11 PM |
| 8 | Am I getting played?then a bit later she takes out her phone and starts to snap us making out to someone what the hell is with kids these days? | /r/seduction | 09/07/17 12:50 PM |
| -2 | Be careful nailing drunk chicksNobody "forgets" the night. Alcohol does not cause memory loss; it would be banned in all countries otherwise. Alcohol is not Nepenthe. What happens is: "I did some pretty stupid things that I can't face my friends and family after doing; so I will blame it on something else and relieve myself of the responsibility for doing those things." "oh I cheated on you? it must have been the alcohol because I don't remember" => blame alcohol "oh I shat on the dance floor? I don't even remember that!" => … | /r/seduction | 09/07/17 11:50 AM |
| 13 | Be careful nailing drunk chicksHunt for girls where crazy girls hang out, you will end up with crazy girls. At least your did not wake up and began screaming and crying. She remembers everything, dont believe that. She doesnt want to remember because she regrets it and wants to block it, and relieve herself of the "guilt" of sleeping with a stranger. Buyer's remorse happens if the girl hadnt had enough time between meeting and sex. Two types of girls in how they deal with doing things forbidden by the society ,and a cake on t… | /r/seduction | 09/07/17 11:44 AM |
| 1 | How Do I Know a Girl Likes Me?Read "The Attraction Code" by Vin DiCarlo. I'm pretty sure you can google that book. I remember it was a pdf book, like filetype:pdf Vin's website is hacked so it would be difficult to buy the original. There are lots of things you need to learn before "knowing when a girl likes you". Think of it this way; you are trying to solve a calculus problem before knowing algebra. | /r/seduction | 09/07/17 12:37 AM |
| 1 | How Do I Know a Girl Likes Me?How old are you? | /r/seduction | 09/07/17 12:34 AM |
| 2 | The difference between being a PUA and a Knight of Seduction.But did you like my marketing paragraph? :) "The Antonio Method" :D | /r/seduction | 09/07/17 12:29 AM |
| 7 | The difference between being a PUA and a Knight of Seduction.I've been with more then 200 women. I'm now in a committed relationship with a bi-sexual woman who loves pussy as much as I do. Not only do I have amazing sex at home, we have sex with other women whenever the desire arises. Additionally, if all your interested in is how much pussy you can get, this program probably isn't right for you anyway. Mystery: "It's no secret that I've been with some of the world's most beautiful women.." That was about 20 years ago, OP needs to find a new marketing lin… | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 09:51 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to grinding at EDM festivals ?I was mocking sarcastically if you haven't noticed :) Asking for permission to kiss is like asking if she would like to have your balls, because then she is leading and making decisions, you don't need your balls :D Man, sorry I made you write all that but not adding an /s at the end, but hopefully someone will read it and it will help them. | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Just threw a party and it SUCKED :(Could I do something like: "Hey there's this party I'm hosting tonight, you seem cool so you should come. It's going to be crazy fun whether you're there or not, so no pressure." She isn't cool. You are. It's your job to make her want to look "cool" to you and get validated by you. That's like saying "Our business is so good we are giving everything away for free", and handing free cars to people who pass by. What do they think? That your business is great? Or that.. you are a sinking ship and l… | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Is it common to have a slip of speech with a tiny stutter when nervous and approaching?Yes and it shows insecurity, nervousness and fear. What happens when an animal knows you fear it? It becomes aggressive, it pushes you back, it growls, yes? We are animals too. How can you protect her from scary men, if you are too afraid and nervous just to talk to her? Women have subconscious radars. They sense it. It is repulsive for them. Here is your cheat cheat; work on this before you work on pick up lines or sexual massage techniques 1- Walk slowly. Walk as if you are walking underwater,… | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 09:26 PM |
| 3 | FlatteryComplimenting. It’s easy to go the wrong way with compliments. A compliment here and there is fine, but avoid overdoing them. They get boring quickly. How you compliment her matters a lot: “Oh, you look soooo beautiful!” — This is lame. You are putting her on a pedestal. You praise her looks — she has heard this a thousand times already. Her looks are genetics. She can’t influence that. Another bad one: “Nice ass!” — Macho-style compliment. This is again a stupid way to do it. Compliment your bu… | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 09:14 PM |
| 6 | How to respond to grinding at EDM festivals ?Do you want to kiss me on my lips and touch our tongues together while I reach my hand to touch your coo coo? | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 08:47 PM |
| 3 | How to respond to grinding at EDM festivals ?You are focusing too much on superficial things and physical attributes in attraction and sexual tension. "My body is hot", "I look good", "I have good style" ; they say nothing to me about your ability to lead, confidence, non-neediness, security, and ability to create sexual tension by escalating via push and pulls. You need deep inner game before grinding tips; no offense but you sound like a Fruit Cake! :) Fruit Cakes are good, they are fun, and they get laid a lot; but on monday morning the… | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Just threw a party and it SUCKED :(Don't mention it; share your field reports after approaching nicer, sober girls at the mall etc. Some will be cringey, no escape from that, but if you're lucky like I was you can even score a 16 years old in the mall's restrooms within a month :) | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Just threw a party and it SUCKED :(Nobody but YOU invites people. Don't let your friends ACT LIKE THE HOST. What if they invite their thief gang member friend and he robs everyone? You are responsible for everyone's safety and security as THE LEADER. Don't let them do that shit, unless they ask you. They are using you for drinks, underage drinking venue, and snacks. You are literally holding other guys' cocks and putting them in girls (that you are not fucking) pussies. You are appeasing them in return for approval and status. (Y… | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 03:00 PM |
| 1 | (20 Male) never hung out with a girl, first time texting this girl I know, she wants to hang out but I'm basically a little bitch.This probably won't work with this girl as PUA is NOT MAGIC that can get you any girl, or a specific girl; rather a specific set of teachings to help increase your average success over time. But when you hang out with girls; 1- Lead. Always know the next step; where you will go, what you will do. 2- Act like you have options. Don't brag about them. Just act like it. Don't be needy (you have options, right?) 3- And since you're inexperienced; act like you're with a guy friend. Do you have any fri… | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Just threw a party and it SUCKED :(I would watch a movie adaptation of this post. Does it say "McLovin" on your fake ID? If not, please make it so. If you were thinking ogf convincing that girl to fuck you by showing her your house, giving free drinks and food to 50 people, and letting them LEAD the people IN YOUR HOUSE instead of you; you thought wrong. The way to fuck women is to get them to your house ALONE, not with 49 other people. Attract, don't try to impress. There is a way to throw parties; you invite girls you approache… | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 02:31 PM |
| 1 | "But can it be...a non-date?"I say "I never do it on the first date, sorry". Then arouse her like mad. By the middle of the day she's begging me "can we do it today? please?" to which I answer "no." I make out, take off her clothes, but don't go in. And the next day I release the tension, and believe me by then she's raining down there. I hear many girls say "I'm not one of those girls who jump in a guy's bed on the first date"; and they don't.. Instead they slowly lie down and open their legs, or bend over. "Do you have lu… | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 02:08 PM |
| 4 | First approach ever! (Cringe)Hhaha mom and daughter threesome approach. classic :) Keep going. You will level up at 100th rejection. For real. My first approach ever was telling a girl she was as beautiful as music, then running away in shame. You did much better. | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Male help needed - if a male date flakes due to feeling unwell, should I reach out.He's playing world of warcraft, or has another date. We are men. Even if we are in the middle of chemo while suffering from HIV and have four broken limbs, we have time for the possibility of sex. Make yourself scarce. We chase what runs away. He will wonder what happened; when this girl who was boosting his self esteem by "liking him" disappeared. He will feel insecure about himself, or his attractiveness, and in turn start chasing you. You don't win anyone by chasing them. | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 09:03 AM |
| 1 | I know it's cliché but I can only get girls when I treat them like shitI believe you are acting too needy around girls you "don't treat like shit" but are attracted to. You don't need to treat them bad in order to attract them and "get them". It's EASIER to get them if you don't treat them like shit. You just need to stop acting needy or desperate. Act like you have options, even if you don't. Don't mistake "caring about her" with "being needy". You became a wuss, and she couldn't see the non-needy cool guy she first met anymore in you. So she dumped you. I have a … | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Should I send another text or just leave it and go NC?I'm going to share a secret PUA tip with you that not many people know. This will prevent you from even thinking about these text, when to reply, what to do if she doesn't write in 4 hours. I've used this and it worked great and my mental health was in great shape, no worries whether one girl is going to work out or not. Are you ready? I'm going to delete this comment later because this is super top secret stuff. Number of Girls you Approach and Text With You 1 Anxiously waiting for a response f… | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 10:02 AM |
| 1 | You should be dating women who are EXCITED to be with you. If she's procrastinating, making excuses, or ignoring you, then you're wasting your time with her. It could be she's not interested in you, she's immature, or her pet/relative just died and she needs time to grieveI wish I could tattoo your post's title on EVERY MAN in the world. On their palms, sleeves, hands, chests, so they never forget or ignore it. I wish I could tattoo your post's title inside the corneas of every man in the world so they see it as background text when they are looking at anything. I'm sort of experienced in game and even I fell for this at times before waking myself up. | /r/seduction | 07/07/17 09:19 AM |
| 9 | SUPER AMAZING COOL MIND FUCK WAY TO IMPROVE YOUR PICKUP GAME BY 1000000% (RLLY NO WAY!)Oh I'm stayin' sexy, Max :) Big follow up tip: WHEN YOU LISTEN TO HER: DO NOT OFFER SOLUTIONS TO HER PROBLEMS. SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU TO SOLVE THEM. SHE JUST WANTS YOU TO LISTEN. YOU MAY RECITE A RECOLLECTION OF A SIMILAR THING HAPPENING TO YOU, BUT THAT'S ALL. DON'T OFFER SOLUTIONS. JUST MEMORIZE DETAILS, SO YOU MAY REPEAT THEM LATER. Only guys tell you their problems and expect you to offer a solution. Not girls. Girls expect you to listen and acknowledge them. Being acknowledged is very importa… | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl outIn my experience, Gym/Boxer/Fighter types are usually getting the feelings from the exercise. She doesn't have time to be a drama queen princess like some cutie sweetie daddy's party girl. I've met a girl like that, who was an MMA champion; god damn she doesn't even laugh at my jokes, when I kiss her it felt like it was her ten billionth time. No reaction at all. But when we were alone she rode me for at least five hours. And she was one of the most caring, and reliable people I've ever met. Sex… | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl outTalk, keep eye contact, smile, and turn away while shaking your head as if she did something naughty, you have a chance to increase tension until the date. 2 steps forward 1 step backward. But she is a boxer, chances are the adrenaline is making her immune to such flirtatious things. Be normal, be cool and you've got this. | /r/seduction | 06/07/17 12:50 AM |
| 7 | Introduce yourself to her twice. Instant opening.Next level: Introduce yourself to her EACH TIME you see her. Four times a day? 10 times a week? Pretend to not know her. I did it. Did it work? No. But it was DAMN funny :) Starting out I was approaching so many women, and not even remembering their faces, I approached some girls.. more than once, with the same line. And they called me out. One of those cringey rookie-pua memories that should be buried deep deep within one's memory | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 05:26 PM |
| 1 | I go into "friend mode" when I meet new girls and I think it's killing my chances - help?That is very low risk. Low risk decisions have low value rewards. YOU'RE A MAN. YOU'RE SEXUAL. YOU FUCK GIRLS. YOU PUT YOUR PENIS INSIDE GIRLS' VAGINAS. Repeat that to yourself. You can't fuck girls if you don't take risks, and if you don't leave your comfort zone. I understand that being polarizing, and being rejected would hurt your ego; but let go of your ego: it's for betas. Nobody who cares too much of his ego can be successful with women. Relax, be secure in your manliness. Who cares if a … | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Asked a girl outYeah she is into you. Don't sweat it, you've got this. Just don't do or say anything that can be taken as insecure/needy/angry/frustrated/horny/desperate etc. Chances are, you will sleep with her when you two are alone in a house. She "knows" why you asked her out. She probably has other options too, but wants to see what's with you. Be a man and you will probably do better than her other options. Then again, she's a boxer so there is a chance she beats you up if you do or say something that she… | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 03:09 PM |
| 1 | How do I get more of a personality?Lucky. It's mostly 40+ women who want an exotic boyfriend (usually latin migrant teachers) who is so much more exciting than their 50 something drunk Finnish husband. Scandinavian men are not very confident and assertive, so someone from a "hot" culture always has the upper hand in women. | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 03:06 PM |
| 3 | How do I get more of a personality?Do what every 19-25 years old boring guy does: get a hobby and pretend like it was your life. Buying a digital camera instantly makes you a photographer. Take some black and white pictures of kids playing at the park, old person sitting at a cafe, FLOWERS IN A VASE, derelict old buildings. Create an instagram profile and ask hot girls if they would like to model for you. Sign up for a dance class. It's the number one hobby for boring guys with no talent or skills. They teach you everything, and … | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Failed multiple times before a successful approachGood job :) What everybody is hiding is that we went through a lot of cringe while learning this. Nobody was like "ok I'm 100% cool and never made a mistake and fucked every girl I laid my eyes on" => does not happen. But we learn to "forget" those experiences quickly, so they don't bother our subconsciously and prevent us from approaching. There is a GREAT difference between not approaching and playing out how it would go in your mind over and over even weeks after wussing out on it, and actual… | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl outIs she a workmate - classmate or something? Or just a cute girl you saw-met and asked out? It's different when you ask your best friend to grab a bite and she says yes, and when you ask a stranger to grab a bite and she says yes. The first one would agree to it easier, but things might get weird if you "hit" on her sexually. The second one; if she said yes: she is interested, keep it light and keep leading her-physically and conversationally. | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Extreme Shit Testing Or Something Else ?What do you want from this woman? Sex? Then drop it and go out; it woudl be easier to find someone in a few days than all this effort. Relationship? She is around 30+ years of age, the time when women suddenly worry about not being able to bear children, and look for a reliable, easily manipulated, NICE guy to father their children. They suddenly become "good girls" with very high moral standards. She clearly says "I thought you were a nice guy". Do you want to marry her? What do you want from h… | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 02:15 AM |
| 5 | How long do you spend with her?I go for 5 minutes, take her number, then go back to my friends after making her laugh and keep wondering more. Later I drop by again and make her laugh again, but don't give it again. When it's late I go near her and build comfort, make out, or take her home- lead her to another venue. IF she is alone: by all means, don't let her go! But if she is with friends; chances are she won't abandon them go to home with you at 10PM. So you have to keep it alive until late at night, and THEN make out wit… | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 12:22 AM |
| 9 | How do I get the Killer Instinct?Firstly you are only 17, you shouldn't delve deep into "pick up" or seduction, but instead try to enjoy your youth. That being said, youth is more enjoyable with sex, and at your age, in your situation, sex is no big deal and everyone wants to have it, like rabbits in heat. Don't try to learn any game, if you two are drunk at a party and she seems interested; dance with her, this lets you touch her and escalate physically, because you can't fuck a girl you haven't even touched. Then you have to … | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Planning Dates Leads To SexGood job. This is very helpful for any guy who is at a point where the phone numbers are becoming real, and she wants to meet up. The "teaming up" activities are great for when you have a date with a "tester/justifier" girl who is kind of a tomboy and wouldn't feel comfortable with romantic dates. My own plan doesn't fit anyone else but me, but girlfriends, or friends with benefits have often spoke of our first date as "the happiest day in her life", or asked me if we could do something like our… | /r/seduction | 05/07/17 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Online Game 101 - Openers, Self Disqualifying (3)If you believe it will work, you can make "May I pee in your butt?" work. But it has to be something that gets the cat out of the box. Something so outrageous that she has to write a reply. Something that will create strong emotions. Of course; no politics, religion, frugality based topics. | /r/seduction | 04/07/17 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Online Game 101 - Books and Foundation Skills (1)Correct. He sells marketing programs and books under his real name, and he sells "Seduction for Women" book under the name Christian Carter. Made hundreds of millions of dollars with the Double Your Dating company. "Catch him and keep him" for women is sort of the exact replica of Double Your Dating 2nd ED. Mystery, the genius of the pick-up community, is an average magician who goes on psychotic suicidal rants when he is dumped by a girl, and on facebook he posts crying videos where he says he … | /r/seduction | 04/07/17 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Online Game 101 - Books and Foundation Skills (1)You are entitled to your opinion. Cocky & Funny isn't for everyone. I worship the guy. Have seen his advice work 100% when I did not expect anything so ridiculous to work. It was as eye opening moment for me when a girl I was just insulting with jokes blurted out "God I hate you! You make me so horny!!" when I was just repeating memorized lines from his book 10 minutes into comfort. I take it you paid for the thousands of dollars for the video series package in order to comment on his entire 100… | /r/seduction | 04/07/17 07:42 PM |
| 1 | First time cold approach. Any feedback is welcome guysGood job. What you are doing is a "direct approach" There are times it works great, and there are times it is just out of place. Let's list what kind of approaches there are Dynamic: She is moving, and has to be somewhere, take the bus, walking by and you will never see her again: Do a direct approach.It's ok to make her feel like she blew your mind away and you think she is special, it's like a scene from a movie, a once in a lifetime experience for her. Static: She is sitting at a coffee shop,… | /r/seduction | 03/07/17 11:22 AM |
| 9 | Friend-zoning an HB8 or above?But "friendzoning" a girl just to meet other girls is cruel and manipulative. You should keep your social justice opinions out of dating and relationships. This is not /r/feminism_and_all_men_should_die , but r/seduction. Signaling disinterest is an established, 2 million years old technique that prevents women from outright rejecting men in the beginning, it gives men time to attract her and build comfort without worrying about her bitch-shield and automated AFC-prevention mechanisms. You don't… | /r/seduction | 03/07/17 11:10 AM |
| 1 | 6 Common Things Women Say To Show DisinterestYou missed out on about 50-100 women who wanted to fuck you like mad, but went home and screamed in frustration when you didn't get the clue. Men and women communicate on a very basic, instinctual level. Listen, we existed for 2 million years. Men were attracted to women, Women were attracted to men. They fucked, they made babies who made babies who amde us. We only developed spoken language 50.000 years ago. For 1.950.000 years we did NOT speak a language to let the other one how we feel, or to… | /r/seduction | 01/07/17 04:57 PM |
| 20 | 6 Common Things Women Say To Show DisinterestI Don’t Kiss On The First Date = I've kissed many girls who said "look I won't kiss you" and fucked many girls who said "I don't sleep on the first date, I'm not a slut". The fact that she is talking about sexual topics and the possibility of something happening between you two is a plus. "I'm busy" is a very popular line girls who want to reject you use. I approached women who said "But I have to go/ I'm busy" before I got out my first sentence. It is also a very popular line for girls to use o… | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 01:01 PM |
| 12 | what would you ask a chick with ~2000 matches, growing at ~70 a day?If I want a quick and safe fuck without having to socialize with her? Why not? If I need to hang out with her and talk to her: Oh god hell no, she sounds like one of the most emotionally immature, self-esteem starved, narcissistic people I've ever heard of with minus billion self worth and plus billion ego to match. "She hasn't slept with too many guys"? <- Why would that be an issue if you are using condoms? But I assure you, she has. That's how she validates herself as a human being worth some… | /r/seduction | 25/06/17 12:04 PM |
| 3 | What is /r/seduction? An open forum to understand what we are about today.I wish this was an actual PUA forum with strict moderation where techniques, experiences and ideas could be exchanged without social justice bullying from people not belonging to the community, but it is not. It's easy to tell whether someone is getting laid and "gets it" from reading a few of his comments, and most people here are AFCs daring to attack or lecture guys with game and a lot of experience. They read a few books, memorize them, and comment copy paste quotes from them over and over a… | /r/seduction | 25/06/17 10:33 AM |
| 2 | How often do you think girls get aprouched?Maybe not cold approached, but approached non stop by horny guys trying to get laid nevertheless. "Would you like me to BRING YOUR PURCHASE over to your house when ready? You don't have to pick them up." <- that's an approach. And 95% approaches are like that. Wusses hoping something will happen if they shout "NICE ASS!" or if they offer something free, some help etc. | /r/seduction | 24/06/17 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Just got asked by a girl I approached: "Do you have some kind of mental disorder?" :DDNaa, it happens. Can't always have the smiling "oh my glad you approached me, normally guys are too scared and just stare like creeps. are we going to have some coffee?" | /r/seduction | 24/06/17 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Just got asked by a girl I approached: "Do you have some kind of mental disorder?" :DDNooo, you should approach. It's the same for all cultures EVEN muslim countries where your target is in full body burqa. Just practice caution. This kind of stuff happens once out of 100 approaches, but if you can get past it with manliness and strength (mental strength), then that girl becomes your girlfriend/wife. Tension is always the best way to start an approach and a relationship. Excitement from the start. Things without excitement wane and disappear, becoming stale in a few weeks. | /r/seduction | 24/06/17 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Just got asked by a girl I approached: "Do you have some kind of mental disorder?" :DDIt was a shit test. I said "now that you've seen the usual comeback to turn away losers hitting on you doesn't work on this guy, can we speak normally?" , she became normal at that point, but I didn't like her personality at all after 5 minutes of chatting and playing the cube game. Not receptive. Probably not into my type (physically), happens. But this was the first time in 5-6 years of approaching that I've seen this line. The "I'm busy", "I have to go" , "I have a boyfriend", "My boyfriend w… | /r/seduction | 24/06/17 09:33 AM |
| 1 | One line description of how Ive come to understand game.It's true that it's not her job to keep things casual funny and most importantly sexual, and you should not make things serious and emotional :)) | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 12:19 PM |
| 1 | How old are you??Have you ever been in a job interview? Everything you say will be used against you. The more you speak the worse off you are. You should try to end the interview and have them hire you by doing and saying as little as possible. That's how picking up a girl from a bar and sleeping with her is like. Everything you say, making out, dancing, everything counts against you. You simply have to turn her on, convince her that she has had enough drinks (usually 1) that she can blame it on the alcohol-use … | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 02:49 PM |
| 3 | How old are you??How do you know that the problem is your age and not her trying to find a reason/justification to eject because she doesn't feel ready/safe? | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Help getting girls/lit in japanFind gaijin-hunter girls at Shibuya. They will be ogling you and smiling. Go approach them and offer to go somewhere, karaoke or something. (Why do I even know this?!!) | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Frustration about AMOGingVin DiCarlo "Attraction Code" first few chapters have eye-opening knowledge about how to deal with other guys at the club, especially aggressive ones. What's important is "What is the alpha thing to do"? Would James Bond fight every loser at the club who challenges him? Or would he graciously make them look creepy and insecure and point it out to the girls? | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 09:20 AM |
| 0 | Is this how women troll on Tinder?You don't have game. You have to learn (1%) and practice (99%). Not having game eliminates any advantages you might have from good physical looks. You will read a book or two, then you will go out to practice. It's full of cringe and you will feel as if joy of life is leaking out of you like a blow-up children's swimming pool with a hole on the bottom. But in a few days or weeks you will start gaining confidence and stop doing retarded things brainwashed into you on "dating and attraction" by so… | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 09:09 AM |
| 1 | [Advanced] You should never stop improving yourself, and when you have no problems with approaching, attracting, and seducing women, there are other things you should start improving..Being bald didn't affect my game, but having to shave clean every 2 days affected my life. BEcause if you go gaming with hair on the sides of your head and not top, like Mr Robertson the Gym Teacher, chances are you are reducing your approach successes. Neil Strauss is bald. HE shaves. Mystery told him to shave. | /r/seduction | 07/06/17 10:13 AM |
| 2 | [Advanced] You should never stop improving yourself, and when you have no problems with approaching, attracting, and seducing women, there are other things you should start improving..Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp look great with glasses. If your name is not Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp, you should not use glasses. Your eyes don't see well, that's what glasses "instinctively" tell a woman. Eliminate any sign of sickness or poor health. Any. | /r/seduction | 07/06/17 10:12 AM |
| 1 | [Advanced] You should never stop improving yourself, and when you have no problems with approaching, attracting, and seducing women, there are other things you should start improving..I follow my game, and have great success, you should follow your game, and get success. "Eww you use canned lines, that's so 1990! Women are not robots!" "Eww you tease and not follow Mark Manson's models word by word! You must be a psycho." Are excuses. | /r/seduction | 07/06/17 10:10 AM |
| -1 | [Advanced] You should never stop improving yourself, and when you have no problems with approaching, attracting, and seducing women, there are other things you should start improving.."I'm flatfooted, I have had to wear to wear shoes that feel like baby coffins since when I was a child, but thanks for making fun of my hereditary condition from birth, I hope you feel better about yourself." (long pause and focus on something else) => Who is trying to gain approval and trying to gain back the status she lost now? :) | /r/seduction | 06/06/17 02:56 PM |
| 4 | [Advanced] You should never stop improving yourself, and when you have no problems with approaching, attracting, and seducing women, there are other things you should start improving..Woman needs to feel that you can keep her safe. How can you keep her safe if you're 300lbs and start breathing heavily after walking 10 minutes? How can you protect her from aggressors? How can you protect her when she is vulnerable and raising children? This is not "taught" but "felt". Being skinny and weak, being fat and lazy sign the same thing; not that you are "ugly" but that you are physically unfit to keep her safe. You don't have to go fight people, and you probably won't have to, but he… | /r/seduction | 06/06/17 02:54 PM |
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