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| 12 | Boyfriend "refuses" to provide, but still expects me to clean his apartment?bestie this is so spot on | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/25 09:03 PM |
| 9 | How do I show gratitude to my boyfriend when he’s giving a lot?Yes! start a note in your phone. I still have the one I started 8.5 years ago when I met my husband and felt the connection :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/25 05:09 PM |
| 31 | How do I show gratitude to my boyfriend when he’s giving a lot?I feel like the easiest way is making him dinner or doing small thoughtful things like that. I always, for example, warm a towel in the dryer for my husband. Costs $0. (Well probably costs a few cents on the electric bill lol.) I could (and do) treat him to gifts when appropriate, but I treat him daily with small things like that. Or washing out his water bottle and replacing the lid/straw. Or leaving a love note in the pocket of his work bag. Filling/programming his coffee maker for the morning… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/25 04:57 PM |
| 3 | My husband planned a family trip and now he's not comingI totally feel you. Honestly the trip I just mentioned (6 hr drive with FIL) was under somewhat similar circumstances (my husband met us via plane, it was due to him and his dad’s poor planning that we had to travel separately, totally an avoidable mistake — and between you & me, one I wouldn’t have made!) and it was a 27 hour trip altogether (the 6 hr drive was the last leg of travel, after 2 flights, where I had my 1 year old in my lap and my 2.5 year old next to me on Austrian Air — their sea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/25 01:06 AM |
| 8 | My husband planned a family trip and now he's not comingHonestly, you’re not wrong for being upset. I would also be upset. But assuming that you trust and know that him cancelling is legitimate, and also that your FIL will be reasonably helpful and it will be comfortable for you travel with him (for me, I would be fine traveling alone with my FIL and recently did on a 6 hour drive with 1 of my kids… but some other family I wouldn’t want to travel alone with, and if you’re uncomfortable with your FIL for whatever reasons, I think that changes things.)… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/25 12:42 AM |
| 1 | What is ONE thing you did in 2024 that improved your marriage? Can be anything, bi or small!wow, stealing this. brilliant. thank you for sharing. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/01/25 03:51 AM |
| 2 | What is ONE thing you did in 2024 that improved your marriage? Can be anything, bi or small!this would be mine as well! has similarly changed our dynamic a lot in a positive way | /r/RedPillWives | 05/01/25 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Sometimes guys post their financials, red flag or?That’s online dating for you. It has a low rate of return. It’s also pretty low effort on your end. So that’s the trade off. IMO, what you’ve just described isn’t too big of a burden for finding a life partner. In fact, apps are “the easy way” to do that, one could argue. 1 month of time for the opportunity to vet 100 guys down to 20 down to 5, and even having 1 connection go further before fizzling out, is really quite good success for what low effort online dating actually is… Your alternative… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/25 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes guys post their financials, red flag or?The difference is that you are giving them the direct and specific info the manipulate you before you even have a basic read on their personality or vibe. Someone typing “financial advisor” in their profile vs. saying that’s their job — if it is a lie, it requires a lot more selling in person. I’m not saying no one should EVER type out their job or whether they want kids etc… but laying it all out on your dating profile filters for two types: 1. the type of person you’re looking for, and 2. the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/25 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Sometimes guys post their financials, red flag or?Honestly, if you are messaging HUNDREDS daily, you have really poor vetting skills and you’re swiping yes waaaaay too much. Like WAY too much. Be more discerning on the first yes/no. And second of all, vetting for your LIFELONG PARTNER who you will potentially have children, a home, car, vacations, pets, retirement with… that’s a big deal. It SHOULD take effort and time. It should take dates, many dates, and sometimes it even takes years. Why would you cut corners or half-ass choosing a partner … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/25 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes guys post their financials, red flag or?It would be a risk for a woman to do that online because she’s openly stating she’s willing to put herself in a vulnerable position. She’s advertising that to literal strangers, where the viewers of her profile have no background vetting, and may have sinister intentions when they see a pretty woman essentially signaling, “My dream is to be dependent on a man.” It’s fine to hint at it, or even say you want something serious or kids are important etc. if you’re filtering for marriage. But outrigh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/25 04:36 PM |
| 59 | how to NOT be jealous of porn?you don’t have to be okay with that… i wouldn’t be okay with that. being RP doesn’t mean having no boundaries. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/24 01:16 AM |
| 1 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?i’m sorry but it’s so funny that you genuinely think women believe bears are somehow literally easier to fight than men, and that’s why they all said bear. 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 08:03 PM |
| 1 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?Oh okay. That settles it then. Thx. Everyone pack it up! Youcbah “grew up around a lot of women and dated a lot” so he’s got the answers. No more debating needed, everyone go home! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 03:08 PM |
| 3 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?i’m not diagnosing you. but you should look more into it. what you’re describing is pretty neurotic thinking. here’s is how what you’ve said sounds to me: “i just found out some sea turtles die from litter in the ocean, and i realized im actually capable of littering. i don’t try to litter, and in fact, i actively sort my home recycling. but i don’t ALWAYS read every label when im in public, so some recyclables may go in the trash… and im worried i may have even littered without realizing it in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?“women aren’t capable of even feeling love unless they submit to a man who is submitting to God” is crazy. I also wondered about nuns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 02:56 PM |
| 2 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?Lmao, what is your damage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 02:50 PM |
| 1 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?No, I’m saying it’s a hypothetical that represents something more than the face value of the question. It’s not this difficult, dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 02:48 PM |
| 1 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?Honestly what you’re not getting is that women behave differently with women, while men behave differently with men. Of course men are more willing to hear other men out. Women absolutely do not get as emotional as you’re describing with other women. It’s because sex/gender socialization informs such a heavy amount of our POVs, and most people do not take the time to understand the opposite sex’s framework. To YOU, a man (and a potential partner), of course heterosexual women (your primary partn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 11:30 PM |
| 3 | I Don’t Consider A Spouse As A Member of My Family.Period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 08:59 PM |
| 7 | I Don’t Consider A Spouse As A Member of My Family.You compared marriage to friendship and said friendship is closer to family right off the bat….. No blood between friends. Can you clarify your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 08:49 PM |
| 64 | Princess TreatmentPrincess treatment isn’t really about money—though money helps, sure. My husband always opens my car door, for example, which costs exactly $0. “Princess treatment” is just a way women are phrasing a humblebrag about being treated. It feels good to be thought of and treated and taken care of by your man. How that looks will differ from couple to couple. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/24 08:46 PM |
| 7 | I Don’t Consider A Spouse As A Member of My Family.Agree re: GF/BF, but I do not know many who view marriage as this disposable…! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 08:43 PM |
| 2 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?De-centering ideas have been around for ages. I have strong doubts it will ever catch on meaningfully in society. There’s a lot of pull back towards traditional relationship dynamics and femininity as well happening on a much more noticeable level among women imo. Frankly, I don’t think most men or women have the intrinsic motivation and discipline to deny themselves love, sex, commitment, children etc. indefinitely, for a broader political cause. There are only so many so committed to the cause… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 08:31 PM |
| 1 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?Sure! I’m numbering this just to separate the paragraphs more clearly, but the numbers aren’t important. I believe wholeheartedly that males and females are innately different in some irrefutable biological ways. Physical traits exist on a spectrum, of course, but we see clearly that men tend to be taller and women tend to be shorter. Short men and tall women exist. But naturally, most men will be taller than most women. (Etc. with other traits.) Right? We agree? With behavioral traits, we somet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 08:17 PM |
| 2 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?What is it that distresses you so much? You do know it’s a fringe movement, right? Even the vast majority of self ID’d “feminists” are not 4B, and furthermore, most self ID’d “feminists” aren’t even feminists in their personal lives, let alone feminist activists actually working towards tangible change IRL. It’s interesting you find that so upsetting despite reality. Do you worry the movement may catch on more…? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:51 PM |
| 1 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?Everyone has the propensity to be solipsistic. Everyone will feel opposed to views that, you know, oppose their own. You think “my way, or the highway” is unique to women? Interesting. I’ve met men and women alike who were overly preoccupied with themselves and felt their way was the only way… and I have met women and men alike who were open-minded and flexible with their worldviews, curious, willing to listen, learn, share, and connect together. I am bisexual, and I have done a lot of psychedel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:48 PM |
| 6 | Sex in a relationship is important, and the views of both people in a couple on sex are extremely importantSure, which is why you should filter for sexual compatibility before making serious commitments. It works best if you have similar outlooks and goals sexually. That is literally the most effective way to have a good, satisfying sex life. Obviously random life circumstances can impact it. But generally speaking, if you fail to properly filter for sexual compatibility and views, then later run into issues… who is really to blame? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:16 PM |
| 1 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?Is that the stated goal of feminism? According to what feminist officials? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:14 PM |
| 3 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?Because a small subset of women don’t want to get married or have kids bc of their own personal beliefs? Those women clearly weren’t remotely eligible partners for you anyway, even before they got into the 4B radicalization... If it’s “extremely offensive” to you that there’s some women who outright don’t want to be with men, you should log off and do some inner-work on your self-esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:11 PM |
| 1 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?Becoming aware of your potential to cause harm doesn’t mean you’ve done anything wrong, though. You haven’t acted on the harm because someone enlightened you that the potential exists. Which is why it’s clearly not that OP (or all women, or even most women) simply are “evil and greedy.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:10 PM |
| 14 | Am I crazy?I do think influencer and celebrity idolization will start to wane… I don’t see it ever going away, though. Stardom and the obsession with it have been a thing forever. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/24 06:02 PM |
| 1 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?Sorry, I didn’t realize we could use made up things like the Bible as source material. The Bible is a collection of fables and opinions. I agree there’s merit in understanding why those are the stories collected and passed down, but I disagree they automatically mean any trust, especially about something innately biological. And btw, you should look deeper into the orthodox interpretation of Christianity because you’d find different perspectives the more ancient and original you go with the Bibl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Why does honesty never work when dating women?You don’t see how it is actually in your best interest to have sex with someone who has the same sexual goals as you? Are you like, really young or something? Or is the only way you can get laid by lying? I don’t get it. Option 1: Everyone is honest. Mutually desired sex ensues with honest communication that allows the sex to be good. Option 2: Everyone is honest. Desires aren’t mutual. No one has sex they don’t want. Option 3: You lie. Desires aren’t mutual but she doesn’t know that. You have s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Alison Armstrong is offering a free course!Girl i think the issue is your messaging because you’re asking me to give her clicks & views just to access the free stuff that will prove she’s good, when you could just… say what the summary is and why you liked it or what you got out of it. Like this: I liked the Empowered Wife by Laura Doyle because it gave me actionable ways to improve my relationship right away, and had lots of anecdotes from real women (and composite anecdotes) that demonstrated the many ways to use the advice in the book… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/24 05:29 PM |
| – | Why does honesty never work when dating women?Because if she wouldn’t have sex with you if you said “I know upfront I just want sex” then you are purposely misleading her into believing differently to avoid her choosing NOT to have sex with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Why does honesty never work when dating women?Point of clarification: is your example of men putting women’s self-interest first, “men being honest about wanting sex” ?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:02 PM |
| 4 | Alison Armstrong is offering a free course!Yeah, I’ve suddenly seen a few comments in RP and marriage spaces touting this woman’s books as miracles and must reads. So this feels a little off to me, especially because there’s no info about Alison Armstrong, the topic of the course, or what OP even specifically liked about it or got out of it, and the link is directly to Armstrong’s website. This feels like a campaign to sell books or gain clicks. She wrote the Queen’s Code which I’ve seen mentioned very sporadically but the comments/this … | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/24 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Why does honesty never work when dating women?If you insist. Are you sure you’re purple? Even over here on the red side, I see women & men as pretty equally capable of good & bad. You seem to have a lot of rage & hangups against women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:57 PM |
| – | Why does honesty never work when dating women?To be having mutually enthusiastic sex if she wants sex as well. It’s pretty simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:55 PM |
| – | Why does honesty never work when dating women?Are you always so grouchy? Hi grinch, bad Christmas? You realize saying “women’s solipsism” implies that it’s not a human issue, but one exclusive to women, right? Given that the main way solipsism is discussed it by claiming it’s a female only problem. You literally specifically notated this is “women’s” by highlighting that. In a convo about MEN lying in their own self-interest. Wild. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:45 PM |
| 2 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?Okay? And there are some extremist terrorist groups in every religion. If you’re shaken to your core by a tiny minority fringe extremist group saying their goals are to not date, marry, cohabitate, or procreate with me (i think are the 4? i’m not that well versed but that’s the gist) then you really need to log offline and go build your self-esteem. Idk, dude, it’s wild hearing this stuff while married to a survivor of a genocide. You know there are ACTUALLY people on this planet who hate someon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:39 PM |
| 1 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?I personally love men! In fact, I have male sons and a male husband, and my dad is even a man too. I am not stating I would choose bear or man. I’m summarizing the discourse around the hypothetical scenario because apparently it was difficult for some of us around here to pick up on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:37 PM |
| 1 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?Well, yes, because the dynamic between males as a class and females as a class is what is exactly what is being addressed… since it’s a movement for female liberation. Who do you think females need liberating from…? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:36 PM |
| – | Why does honesty never work when dating women?Are you being fr with this? Of course guys that lie get more sex. They’re just not having good sex, and they’re being morally corrupt and dehumanizing women to get that sex. Honest, compatible, enthusiastic, mutual sex is obviously more satisfying, but the men that lie to get laid do that because if they were honest, they would hav much less sex (because they aren’t ___ enough, or they want women who are seeking something serious). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:32 PM |
| – | Why does honesty never work when dating women?Why do elderly people reward scammers by giving them their identifying bank information? Why do employees reward corporations by having wage theft happen? Why do shopkeepers reward counterfeiters by accepting their incredible convincing faux money? Gosh, I just can’t figure it out!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:30 PM |
| 1 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?You… do… know that there was an entire secondary layer of discourse ABOUT the interviews, right? Where people (men AND women!) gave their opinion on the bear v. man thing, right? And that the discussion focused on the METAPHOR of the question, right, and not the literal scenario of a bear or a man…? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:28 PM |
| 1 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?“I grew up around a lot of women and dated a lot” hahahaha. yeah i feel you dude, i have a female mom and she was crazy. but i have some women friends and they’re cool so i think some girls can be okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:25 PM |
| 3 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?How is this much different than what you have said? Lol. I said “Reality is reality” — which is what you are saying. “Generosity is determined by effort, not output” yes exactly. Reality is reality. So OP’s thoughts don’t make her evil…… her actions (or non-actions) create that reality (or don’t). As for ‘we all contain the source of all suffering and joy’ … Are you young? Have you never dabbled with psychedelics? I feel like it’s pretty clear if you have done any amount of spiritual reflection.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:24 PM |
| 3 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?Feminism is a movement for females. The goals aren’t for men, males, or equality— it is for the liberation of females. I’m not sure what is so confusing for you. The name is a really big helpful reminder: FEMINism. You know, like FEMININE, FEMALE, etc….? Because it’s a movement….. for female activism……??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:14 PM |
| – | Why does honesty never work when dating women?So women having sex is solipsism, but if men act only in their OWN self interest by literally openly, directly lie to get sex from a woman who would otherwise not sleep with him at that time— that’s not solipsism? hahahahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:13 PM |
| – | Why does honesty never work when dating women?Of course it’s beneficial to hold your cards until you need to. It’s different if you’re just exploring and not sure yet either. But it’s WRONG to know you are omitting information on purpose to mislead someone into being more sexually available to you than they would otherwise be if they knew the truth. Do you think heterosexual men are unable to tell that manipulating someone else is wrong? I don’t think that’s too much for the average het man to understand, personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:10 PM |
| 6 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?okay, soo… basically… what you’re saying is… you GENUINELY think that a bunch of women are weighing the safety of a bear vs. a man, and misjudging it that much??? that most women think a BEAR is ACTUALLY safer than a man?? it’s difficult to have a real conversation with you if your presupposition is that most women are so stupid (?) they can’t understand a figure of speech, and must literally believe a bear is safer than a human man……? or do you just not have the ability/interest/??? to analyze … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:58 AM |
| 1 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?oy vey. why would a movement centered around female liberation be orienting themselves around the goals of males…? of course the two can work in tandem, but it’s odd to expect a group literally called FEMINism to work specifically on male activism? is there any group you think is allowed to focus on female activism, or does all activism have to include both sexes? i guess im confused, can you clarify, why don’t men work on these male issues as their priority? i agree these things sound horrible … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:47 AM |
| 6 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?I don’t feel it’s much to strive not to be greedy or deceptive. It’s pretty natural to me actually — people that know me would say I’m notoriously generous and comically honest. I’m also not very neurotic, so I don’t ruminate on whether videos on TikTok mean much about me and my lived experience. Partially because I am generous and honest, I don’t have much need to ruminate on if I’m actually only doing so out of greed and deception. I keep my side of the street clean, literally. Thoughts ≠ real… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:43 AM |
| 5 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?hey, do you normally struggle with taking things too literally? again, the idea is that the bear or the man may be harmful, but the bear isn’t consciously choosing to harm you… so it’s just nature, not evil. you do realize that literally speaking, if everyone meant literally, and the scenario wasn’t metaphorical, then yes, statistically, your odds are better off with the human than the bear, and — in any case — it’s (probably) better to be raped in the woods by a random man than to be mauled by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 05:01 AM |
| 9 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?Most people would say that feeling anxiety on behalf of how you believe others must feel or perceive you is actually quite neurotic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:54 AM |
| 6 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?i’m not choosing the bear, i’m not choosing at all lmao. i’m explaining the point to someone that missed it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:52 AM |
| 4 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?I don’t think you understood the bear thing. It isn’t that women would literally feel safer with the bear. It’s that the bear’s potential harm isn’t EVER intentional or conscious; man’s actualized harm often is very much intentional and conscious (even if he does mental gymnastics to justify it under the guise of him being ‘a good guy’ (or whatever.)) Bears do not try to hide as sheep — sometimes men do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:09 AM |
| 14 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?No. It proves she has thoughts about this. Plenty of people have maladaptive thoughts rooted in anxiety and insecurity that keep them limited. Thoughts ≠ reality. Good thing there are ways to work on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:05 AM |
| 2 | "Things being done TO you by an assertive partner alleviates shame" vs "men want a bangmaid mommy fall into their laps".i’m saying they aren’t actually being submissive… they’re being passive (not acting in the sexual encounter) but neurotic (having rigid preferences in the encounter). then they identify themselves as v “being submissive” whilst not submitting at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:01 AM |
| 3 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?You should stay far from the manosphere. It literally is what it says on the tin: space for men. What are you doing there? If you for some reason feel aligned with some of what you’re hearing in red pill content, go to r/redpillwomen … RP content directed at women … you’re like, giving yourself things to be neurotic about rn bc you’re watching content not for you, aimed at men typically with different bg & goals than you… and then wondering why it’s making you confused and doubtful… like you’re … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 03:59 AM |
| 4 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?Feminist don’t believe men are inherently evil…… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 03:39 AM |
| 3 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?RP doesn’t say women are inherently evil….. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 03:38 AM |
| 13 | If women are inseparable from their nature and biological drives, is there a point in trying to be good and in trying to be more than that nature?What do you think — do you feel greedy & deceptive at your core? Would being greedy & deceptive fulfill your personal goals and align with your values? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 03:38 AM |
| – | Why does honesty never work when dating women?Yes… manipulative ppl can manipulate people by lying and manipulating them. What’s so crazy about that to you? Being honest is not about getting laid more…. it’s about not being a bad person misleading people so you can influence their willingness to be sexually open with you…… you know, so you can filter for someone compatible with you, and so can they… Why would you WANT to be manipulative to mislead someone into being sexual with you…..? Why would you be okay with that? Weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 03:32 AM |
| 0 | RP says men should have their shit together before they get married which I totally agree with. But shouldn’t women also have their shit together before marriage?I don’t take it as gospel at all. It seems like you think TRP is all literal. Like, you do realize TRP doesn’t actually LITERALLY think all women are the same, right? even “AWALT” isn’t literal and is only highlighting traits that any individual woman has more or less of. Are you sure you’ve read enough to be debating on this…? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 01:50 AM |
| 5 | RP says men should have their shit together before they get married which I totally agree with. But shouldn’t women also have their shit together before marriage?Idk anything specifically about anyone you’re talking about because I don’t hang out in single male TRP spaces. I hang out in the other RP spaces, for married RP & RPWomen… which is why I said, TRP doesn’t have a universal goal (only information to help you achieve your goals) and isn’t only for men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 01:21 AM |
| 11 | RP says men should have their shit together before they get married which I totally agree with. But shouldn’t women also have their shit together before marriage?not really. there’s literally a married red pill sub for men… some happily married, some unhappily married. but TRP is not mandating a goal you have to follow. and there’s RPWomen, RPWives… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 01:00 AM |
| 28 | Why does honesty never work when dating women?What do you mean? It does work out. The women you told your intentions to didn’t get lied to, and you didn’t get with someone you weren’t compatible with. The honest piece means everyone gets with someone they’re actually more compatible with… not that you get with more women. How is that not working out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 10:31 PM |
| 1 | "Things being done TO you by an assertive partner alleviates shame" vs "men want a bangmaid mommy fall into their laps".🫶 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 06:24 PM |
| 6 | "Things being done TO you by an assertive partner alleviates shame" vs "men want a bangmaid mommy fall into their laps".Are we talking about sex, or not? I’m speaking on consensual sex between a man and a woman. In sex, a woman cannot physically dominate a man. (Of course, I’m sure you can find some big bulky bodybuilder woman who is 6’5 with a tiny little wispy husband, but let’s be serious. The vast majority of men can overpower the vast majority of women.) The only way for the avg woman is able to even try to sexually dominate the avg man is by the man being willing to DECIDE NOT TO RESIST. It is an illusion. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 06:23 PM |
| – | Most couples meet from IRL, not onlinenot “meatspace”😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 05:51 PM |
| 3 | "Things being done TO you by an assertive partner alleviates shame" vs "men want a bangmaid mommy fall into their laps".I’m not sure why you’ve brought BDSM into the mix because most people aren’t remotely in a BDSM dynamic, even if they call themselves dominant or submissive. If you actually dig into BDSM, you’ll see the subs are typically leading the rules of an engagement, and gave the Dom permission to dominate them. but the SUB is the one choosing what happens. Submitting is giving permission to dominate. Often, in vanilla relationships, women may claim to want to be led, but they’re actually choosing the ru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 03:14 PM |
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