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Escalation & Calibrationcoconut_oll/r/seduction04/05/25 01:58 AM
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1

Hey man, I think my friend subtly sabotages my relationship by pushing me to act like I'm single still. Did your friends ever do anything like that?
/r/seduction17/07/25 10:11 AM
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Trust me, you don't need to demonstrate outwardly that you've got options, they can tell by observing and interacting with you if you're somebody who other women would like or pursue. Your logic here is putting the cart before the horse. The men with options don't attract women based off of having options itself, they're just high value men which leads them to having options as a side effect.
/r/seduction17/07/25 07:12 AM
12

Being rude and socially unaware isn't "tough". It's just bothersome.
/r/seduction07/07/25 01:43 AM
1

Best apps in your opinion?
/r/seduction09/05/25 03:51 PM
3

Any advice for striking up conversations or where to go to meet them when you're solo?
/r/seduction09/05/25 03:24 PM
3

So were the conversations pretty standard like about the venue, work, etc. and then once you picked up on some interest from women you escalated from there?
/r/seduction05/05/25 02:59 AM
1

Any advice for those wanting to go out solo?
/r/seduction04/05/25 06:28 PM
1

I know it shouldn't. Some people tie it to having hookups though and I had a friend that was with a girl whose attitude shifted after breaking the same news.
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:24 AM
32

Man, this is what I needed to hear. You're absolutely right.
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:22 AM
2

Yeah this is exactly what I was thinking could happen. So after that it was a pretty clear shift and she was unresponsive to flirting?
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:20 AM
17

I like this advice. I think the more developed your flirting skills are the less everything else matters. I'll just try to focus on that and see how it goes.
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:16 AM
1

If you have any book recommendations I'd love to check them out.
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:04 AM
0

Outside, sure, but this isn't good advice for one's workplace.
/r/seduction11/03/25 05:43 PM
4

How may a typical pull escalate from open to close when this happens for you? 5 minutes is impressive
/r/seduction21/02/25 11:09 PM
1

You approach her at the gym? How'd you pull that off?
/r/seduction04/02/25 01:59 PM
5

Well I can guarantee you those women aren't with those guys because they're bitter, jealous, and sorry for themselves. No matter how good looking you are, with this mindset anyone will be turned off.
/r/seduction17/01/25 06:31 AM
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Too much work for some blown out tire hole from a dating app.
/r/seduction19/12/24 04:57 PM
7

They know the nitrates in beets are sending blood straight to his cock
/r/seduction19/11/24 04:15 AM
12

Yes, you and a very niche group of people. And people who game care about gaming. See how pointless that step is?
/r/seduction12/10/24 02:56 AM
23

Gaming is a completely fine hobby. Nobody gives a fuck if you're building a resin table.
/r/seduction11/10/24 11:48 PM
3

Again being disingenuous. See the common theme with you? Everybody knows you're doing no more than encouraging lying. Yet you try to frame it as a positive. Not a good guy at all.
/r/seduction10/10/24 08:07 AM
9

He's probably talking about how spineless you are. You're already lying before even meeting a girl, you're clearly not a great person. People want genuine relationships and nobody wants to stick around a compulsive liar.
/r/seduction10/10/24 02:28 AM
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You're the same as the women who have their hoe phase then expect to settle down as if nothing ever happened.
/r/seduction17/09/24 03:51 PM
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Because 99% of them are sick of nanpa/cold approach in public and find it a nuisance. Especially from some guy who can barely speak their native language. Go to a gaijin bar or something like everyone else.
/r/seduction12/07/24 12:19 AM
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Yeah.. These other guys only think about sex without the repercussions of how it affects the woman. The juice isn't worth the squeeze if it means playing with her mentally.
/r/seduction06/07/24 02:36 AM
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You could always lower it as getting healthy is never a bad thing. But I've known plenty of overweight people who get along with others well. As long as you're not going out smelling bad with stained clothes and such then it's something else. Also a lot of people are weird due to consuming weird content and having strange hobbies as society has become technology dependent. You could assess your lifestyle as well to see if anything could possibly be influencing you badly and thus making your true…
/r/seduction29/06/24 02:24 AM
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Looks is a scapegoat for people who have other issues. Yes, bad hygiene and such is a factor, but if you keep yourself groomed and don't get out of shape then it's not your looks causing everyone to think you're either weird or boring. Think about it for a second. Have you ever met people who are unattractive who were also funny, charismatic, interesting, etc? Of course. We all have. Everyone wants to blame looks because it's easy as it's a visible marker, but it's not the case.
/r/seduction29/06/24 12:05 AM
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Come on. Use the context provided. I'm talking about after they make long eye contact or obviously try to get close to you. Not with random strangers walking by on the sidewalk. Also the type of smile matters and there's a difference between a friendly one and an I find you attractive one.
/r/seduction19/06/24 04:27 PM
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If I smile back they'll think I'm interested and I'm not here to inflate egos when that's all they want.
/r/seduction19/06/24 03:57 PM
1

Yeah it's a tough lesson to learn. Nowadays if I catch them making eye contact or purposefully trying to get near me I just look at them in a way that shows I'm not attracted or I'll move away from them. I've got no time for stupid games.
/r/seduction19/06/24 02:38 PM
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Wrong. They'll make deep prolonged eye contact and smile, but then when you actually approach (they don't expect you to really take action) they won't follow up. Happens all the time.
/r/seduction19/06/24 02:36 PM
2

I've got plenty of muscle, I just have trouble losing fat. Any tips on how to get lean?
/r/seduction04/06/24 02:52 PM
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Because you're focusing on skills and materialism. That only attracts a small portion of women who are generally gold diggers and aren't with you for the right reasons anyway. The guy who vaped and played fifa probably carried himself and interacted with her in a more attractive way.
/r/seduction02/06/24 12:17 AM
3

It's kind of like a coin flip that could go great or terrible..
/r/seduction21/05/24 02:53 PM
14

If they look down immediately isn't that a bad sign? If they're interested they'll hold eye contact.
/r/seduction21/05/24 11:51 AM
2

Maybe they're coping for being bad at it. Any advice on keeping interest and not losing it over text?
/r/seduction17/03/24 01:05 PM
12

I thought it was a good thing to only text to set up dates?
/r/seduction17/03/24 06:30 AM
1

Do you have any advice on making the initial conversation interesting for people? I feel like I'm stuck in a loop of just talking about superficial subjects that bore people easily.
/r/seduction10/03/24 03:09 PM
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I think it definitely is adding pressure on me to act like an idealized version of what I think women want rather than who I truly am. I've had three ~1 year relationships. All of them started with people that I was friends with at the start and we organically started dating. My dating life isn't a total failure, but I know that it could be way better and I could possibly be dating people I have better chemistry with if I wasn't so in my head all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:18 AM
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I think I'm just so afraid of rejection that I play it super safe, but ironically that makes me get rejected more. Like I've had plenty of girls like me, I was just never interested in them romantically. I'm able to be more of myself around them, flirt a bit for fun, etc. With a girl I like though? I'm a brick wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 08:59 AM
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I need to be more bold and fun, but those thoughts in my head of what could go wrong are always stronger. I wonder if I should just go on a bunch of dates and keep trying to escalate like that to see if I can't overcome that fear.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:32 AM
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Well, looks are by far my biggest selling point, no problem there. I'm also pretty intelligent and can be funny and charismatic, but the thing is around women I like I'm as dull as a rock. I think it's out of fear of coming off in a bad way if I let my personality show. As far as interests, I hardly have any as I'm addicted to doom scrolling (I've recently started avoiding social media like YouTube and TikTok.) So yeah aside from going to the gym and other vain activities I guess I lack passion.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 01:28 AM
1

What kind of topics do you like to talk about?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:48 PM
3

How can I get this stupid charm that hooks girls in? Like when you've been interested in a guy what are some of the qualities you think made him attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:43 PM
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Your take is retarded. Women's preferences don't care about your autistic statistical analysis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:50 AM
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When you claim that their precious youth has been wasted it sure does matter. Do you think younger guys of the same age are marrying them? Definitely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:47 PM
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