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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How do you even begin to flirt with a stranger and keep any kind of conversation? Dont put yourself in situations where you are forced to be someone you’re not. Always best to be outwardly honest about yourself and in an environment where you feel comfortable and have something to talk about. Example - i hate dance music so i don’t meet women at clubs. Instead i go to local rock shows and like approaching between bands when it’s quiet. Since she’s there too, we already have enough in common to get a genuine conversation going. Edit a few words	/r/seduction	05/05/20 05:56 PM
9	Seduction in the workplace It depends on the workplace - it’s a lot easier to flirt with coworkers and hook up if you’re in a bar/restaurant environment than a 9-5 office. I work a 9-5 (large company) and have dated two colleagues and hooked up with two others. Don’t ever approach someone when they’re at their desk. Break room is good, happy hour is best. Apart from that I’ve found that approaching and the added layer of breaking through the professional barrier works basically the same as anywhere else, but you have to b…	/r/seduction	01/05/20 12:15 PM
1	Are dating apps a good idea for someone who just sarted getting into the dating game? A tool in your toolkit.... be careful it doesn’t become a crutch or a consistent plan A. I relied on online dating for meeting women too long and it really impacted how I approached women IRL when I saw a girl who I wanted to talk to. Took some time to get confidence again making cold approaches and not saying something stupid. Still working on it tbh.	/r/seduction	10/03/20 12:10 AM
3	Just when I thought I got my first date on Tinder Maybe I’m missing something? Why not just go for the number? Edit: I guess I take your meaning about concerns over cat fishing, but if you get there and she’s clearly not the same person then you’re totally within your right to split before any money gets spent.	/r/seduction	09/03/20 12:29 AM
8	Just when I thought I got my first date on Tinder Maybe I’m old, but why do people go for insta nowadays? The only times I ever try to link up with a girl on social media is if it’s looking like things are getting real serious. A few back and forths on the app, then ask for her number. If you’re not comfortable doing that, then give her yours instead. Doing that, I’ve actually had a pretty high success rate moving to actual texting. Once you have each other’s number, go for the date. Try to avoid making small talk too much unless she keeps init…	/r/seduction	08/03/20 11:35 PM

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