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Edu./Occu.code_momode/r/MensRights22/03/23 09:45 PM
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I received a shirt that says, “yeah, I <code> like a girl.” I don’t wear it.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 11:13 PM
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I didn’t tell a lot of people when I was divorcing my ex husband, but the ones I did tell were all very pushy about me going after alimony. They said he owed me. I don’t believe that and I didn’t want alimony. It was really bizarre how their immediate responses were about financial benefit. My ex and I are NC, but the divorce was quick. I didn’t contest. We have no children or shared assets. I didn’t want his pension. I didn’t even show up for court. Took three months total.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 05:06 AM
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Lots of women want the wedding but not the marriage.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 06:25 PM
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Woman here I can see why you would be afraid, OP. I’m sorry that you’re struggling with this. There’s some good advice in the comments here to consider. If it’s any consolation, not all women are like this. There are good, kind women who value and respect men.
/r/MensRights01/04/23 02:33 AM
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Bisexual woman here. I think it’s still safe to assume that marriage implies a monogamous relationship with your spouse unless stated otherwise. In that light, an intimate and sexual relationship with someone who is NOT your spouse is cheating. The genders and sexualities don’t matter. OP isn’t homophobic.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 09:00 PM
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We all bleed red
/r/MensRights24/03/23 01:55 AM
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I feel like I lack empathy sometimes, or am just plain ignorant, because I truly do not understand what female representation in the workplace has to do with productivity. Why is being a woman something that needs to be celebrated? What does my gender have to do with whether or not my code works? I’m not here to celebrate being a woman; I’m here because I want to do the job I love with likeminded people.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 10:45 PM
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That is discrimination and I don’t want to feel special for having female anatomy
/r/MensRights23/03/23 04:43 AM
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🥹🥰
/r/MensRights23/03/23 04:25 AM
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I agree. I don’t have kids, so that’s something I hadn’t considered. I want to believe that the ones who make those decisions will be more compassionate
/r/MensRights23/03/23 04:25 AM
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(L) TLDR: you do you, boo; leave me be. I work with some wonderful people who are all men. I feel the same way; I don’t care what your gender, race, religion etc. can you do your job and work well with me? Fuck yeah! It’s kind of hard to identify as an MRA for me working in this field. I’ve been invited to speak at seminars and events about how I’m “helping to promote bridging the gender gap.” I hate public speaking. I’m not doing it for that reason alone. This is going to sound callous, but I s…
/r/MensRights23/03/23 04:12 AM
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You’re absolutely right. That’s why I posted it here. I’m proud to say that I’ve been an advocate of men’s rights for over a decade. It’s very important to me.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 03:26 AM
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Logically I know that, but I’ve been called a “pick me” for simple things like pointing out double standards.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 12:59 AM
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True. I’m not denying that there are instances, but they’re likely far less common than they’re rumored to be.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 11:06 PM
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Your personal life is none of their business and they have no right to judge. Also, them calling you a f*g is actually sexual harassment! Please take care of yourself, your workplace sounds very toxic.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 11:03 PM
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two female Romanian QA engineers It’s a shame that friend focused on twisting your words instead of seeing what a cool coincidence it was.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 10:58 PM
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Very recently a coworker apologized for manaplaining something technical. I was a bit shocked and assured him that he was okay. When I think of mansplaining I think of men saying stuff like, “well you’re a woman so you wouldn’t understand.”
/r/MensRights22/03/23 10:28 PM
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They also ban us because that’s how they tend to solve their problems - instead of trying to understand the problem and maybe reach a compromise, they dismiss it completely. Like others have said: emotional and reactive.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 09:13 PM
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It’s because these “feminists” have no valid argument to stand on. They instead have to put down men in order to make themselves feel superior.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 08:08 PM
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What if you’re a woman who wants female friends to acknowledge men’s rights? I’ve been called a “pick me” girl more times than I can count.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 06:32 PM
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I have a very close friend who’s in the process of divorcing his ex. The ex uses they/them pronouns and has tried to convince their 5yo biologically-male son that he is a girl. Currently my friend’s ex is homeless and jobless, so they don’t have custody. They do have very limited supervised visitation. The ex is seeking 50/50 custody and for my friend to provide child and spousal support, which makes no sense. The ex also wants control over their son’s education. The son is homeschooled and the …
/r/MensRights11/08/21 08:44 PM
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He may not be able to step up his communication in terms of work because of OpSec
/r/RedPillWives27/06/21 11:14 PM
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I was married to someone in SF. Lots of OpSec stuff. I don’t know if this is the reason for his silence, but I highly suggest that you think long and hard about about your relationship. There will be a lot of things you are simply not allowed to know.
/r/RedPillWives27/06/21 11:12 PM
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There needs to be more
/r/MensRights26/06/21 07:12 PM
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No need to thank me for understanding what equality actually means - I wish more people understood that. We don’t live in Animal Farm - no one should ever want to be more equal than others. I wish I could convince others to watch it, but they see “Red Pill” and immediately associate the film with the Red Pill community
/r/MensRights25/06/21 08:09 PM
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I own the Blu-ray (to support her). I love it, but I cry every time I watch it ETA: I’m a woman who is child-free, if it matters
/r/MensRights25/06/21 08:01 PM
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A men’s/fathers’ rights lawyer!
/r/MensRights25/06/21 06:05 PM
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I don’t understand this. It takes two to make a baby, and just because the woman has to carry it she’s entitled to make all the decisions for everyone? If she wants to keep it, fine, but the father should absolutely be able to opt out. In that case she should be solely responsible.
/r/MensRights25/06/21 05:51 PM
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I think that a good compromise could be dressing, if you’re comfortable with it, in attire your SO also likes if it’s something that you’d otherwise not wear out and about alone? Say you have a skirt that you wouldn’t feel comfortable wearing outside. If your partner likes it and you’d be comfortable wearing it out with him, would you, knowing that you’d be doing it for reasons other than trying to attract other men?
/r/RedPillWives18/05/21 11:33 PM
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I feel you. Unfortunately we can’t always tell at the get-go what the men attracted to us are wanting. And I can’t say whether or not showing more or less of certain parts of your body will ward off the men you’re not looking for and attract the men you are looking for. I don’t know that midriff on its own is flaunty. I think that it combined with lots of visible leg and cleavage could be, however. Maybe pair a crop top with some pants or a long skirt?
/r/RedPillWives18/05/21 11:07 PM
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I’m similar to you in how I dress, while also being shy. I don’t like drawing attention to myself in general. I don’t know what skin you wish to free, but I like wearing tank blouses. Not spaghetti straps, but the type that have the straps that go to the edge of your shoulders. I avoid clothes that show cleavage and midriff. Skirts are always at knee length or longer. I typically don’t wear shorts in public.
/r/RedPillWives18/05/21 10:43 PM
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I’m very fortunate to have my job, especially now. I think your son having a mother who builds him up instead of tearing him down is a great foundation!
/r/MensRights10/05/21 04:03 AM
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Me, too, OP. I’m a female engineer who happens to check off a bunch of diversity boxes (Asian woman with a disability). I actually talked to my boss about this (very small company) and my views on men’s rights and he assured me that he hired me based on my merit. I don’t have any kids, but I do worry about boys growing up hearing that they’re inherently oppressors, rapists, unnecessary, and all that bs. I admire you for speaking out, and there are other women who feel this way.
/r/MensRights08/05/21 10:11 PM
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Same, sis. We’re labeled internal misogynists, gender traitors, uneducated... Apparently if you have a vagina you’d better ID as a feminist. Not egalitarian, just feminist.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 11:23 PM
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It’s a sad truth. I never told my therapist that I’m an advocate of men’s and fathers’ rights.
/r/MensRights26/04/21 10:31 PM
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But gender gap!! Use your vajayjay to do your part!!!
/r/MensRights28/05/19 02:55 PM
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I am a woman and a software engineer. I have had people call me while I’m at work to ask me if I want to interview them or come in and talk to some group of people about my experience as a woman in technology. The first time it happened it was funny. Now it’s just annoying. I do what I do because I genuinely enjoy it, not to further your agenda. I don’t give a fuck about what other people choose to do for work. Dismissing guys who are really passionate and talented does the tech industry an inju…
/r/MensRights28/05/19 04:02 AM
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