| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 85 | Hi ladies, my name is @codename_epic and I’m a recovering pickmeisha. This is my story. | LESSON LEARNED | codename_epic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 07:11 AM |
| 34 | UPDATE: My Ex keeps trying to reach me | SEEKING ADVICE | codename_epic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Hi, I’m @codename_epic and I’m a recovering pickmeisha. | LESSON LEARNED | codename_epic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 06:07 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 36 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏I think it's pretty civil the times I've looked through it but when it's underaged girls I feel so uncomfortable with the way that these men work so hard to justify why their attraction to children (even "grown-looking" teenagers) is okay and acceptable. Like... are you well? They know damn well if it was their child they would never be okay with it but because they're not it's fine to leer and date children? Nah. That's fucked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:16 AM |
| 62 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏Yeah. It's one thing to be in a 30f-40m age gap or even 25f- 39m relationship and you want to talk about the nuances of your relationships. It's a whole other thing to be 16/17 and trying to justify your relationship to a 24+ man. What's worse is the mods downvote any one on that forum who disagrees with it and thinks it's pedophilic. They even have that term banned as it's considered an accusatory and is inflammatory language to them. 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:09 AM |
| 62 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏@All the underage girls on r /agegap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:00 AM |
| 65 | Every day on relationship_advice...That one was so bad. They didn’t have one day off together in 18 months... she didn’t sound suspicious of him cheating at all the poor thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 06:36 AM |
| 70 | Here for it! Level UP sis 👏👏👏I love it. She looks phenomenal. I cannot deal with the extreme difference between her foundation shade and her hands though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 01:11 AM |
| 1 | UPDATE: My Ex keeps trying to reach meThank you. This shit is hard but I love myself enough to stay strong. I appreciate it! 🤍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 09:55 PM |
| 7 | UPDATE: My Ex keeps trying to reach meWow, I didn’t expect to cry. I’m so grateful to this group you’ve helped me realize so many things that I knew subconsciously but don’t even think I could ever acknowledge. I feel frightened to be honest. Especially with the hoovering behaviour of narcissists. Thank god we were long distance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:43 AM |
| 10 | UPDATE: My Ex keeps trying to reach meOh my gosh, I’ve never heard of that before and I did a bit of reading and I just got goosebumps. Did you know he always called me his “prized possession”?! I’m freaking out!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:39 AM |
| 13 | UPDATE: My Ex keeps trying to reach meWow, “men have no shame when it comes to their ego”. A word! Makes sense and that release of hearing from me would be so satisfying for him. Ya.. not gonna happen! And yeah the only thing that feels good about this is that fact that I was the first to stand up to this man and reject him. It really helps with the shame of having been a pick me. Ya he’s blocked everywhere but is now using our mutual networks to reach out and fish for information and control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:36 AM |
| 9 | UPDATE: My Ex keeps trying to reach meYou’re so right about out of character statements! I didn’t even notice. In his email he even wrote to me “if you ever need someone to talk to, you can always reach out”. He NEVER listened to me... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:31 AM |
| 17 | UPDATE: My Ex keeps trying to reach meIt’s so annoying. I wish he would leave me alone. Like it doesn’t even feel good because I know it’s not sincere you know? Should I just leave the relative on read or respond? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 07:28 AM |
| 82 | This is why LVM don’t get dates. Pathetic.Lmao. That’s my exact Hinge lineup. I just unmatch after 1 day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 12:01 AM |
| 7 | Stop explaining basic facts to stupid peopleYes!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 02:46 PM |
| 27 | Man spends 10 months with a woman while another woman is pregnant with his child.Even after he lied to her, she’s still wanted to give him priority and power in the situation by saying “it would be easier to leave if he didn’t have strong feelings.” What about your feelings hun? What about the fact that this “relationship” been a lie the whole time and the situation is built on a foundation of lies? Poor thing is so manipulated that she’s considering her future to include him and this child. Like?!?! The sad thing is, is that if the situation was reversed he wouldn’t even qu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:52 PM |
| 6 | Pick Me AnthemLmao I love this show. 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 04:15 AM |
| 2 | 90s PickMeishas: Dates emotionally unavailable man who strings her along for years. Watched him marry a much younger woman within six months of meeting her and then becomes his mistress. He Finally proposes to her but then leaves her at the altar. AND SIS STILL MARRIES HIM IN THE END. 🤡🤡Girl he did the same to me! Whew, throw them both away! 🤡 Each day that passes I feel more happy, free and the mind fog lifts more. I feel sad too in the sense that I betrayed my own self and sanity to make the situationship work and for what? A LVM masquerading as a HVM. But feel proud girl, you’re FREE now! You’ll take no prisoners in your next relationship. 😌Wishing you all the best and healing. 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 10:26 PM |
| 11 | 90s PickMeishas: Dates emotionally unavailable man who strings her along for years. Watched him marry a much younger woman within six months of meeting her and then becomes his mistress. He Finally proposes to her but then leaves her at the altar. AND SIS STILL MARRIES HIM IN THE END. 🤡🤡SIS!! This is just confirmation that these men are out here in droves because the fact that your exact situation was what I went through is mind boggling. Right down to trying to end things early on but stuck it out because we had chemistry as well. These men are crazy and they are emotional vampires using us for what they need and then emotionally depraving is of what we need and require to function happily in a relationship. I’m done with their avoidant behaviours and whining. Bye! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 09:28 PM |
| 19 | 90s PickMeishas: Dates emotionally unavailable man who strings her along for years. Watched him marry a much younger woman within six months of meeting her and then becomes his mistress. He Finally proposes to her but then leaves her at the altar. AND SIS STILL MARRIES HIM IN THE END. 🤡🤡You’ve literally described my ex. The actual worst!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 07:09 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Sis, block and delete. Who cares about what HE'S DOING. Focus on you and what you're getting from the situation - which sounds like confusion. Don't even give him the chance to be a permanent lurker in your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)Ew, that's so messed up. Good for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 11:22 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)In my experience, it has never been worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 11:21 PM |
| 5 | How toOh my gosh, I just checked out Reductress and it is amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Share your LVM older man story here.This was a rollercoaster! They are so subhuman. It's vile and unbelievable what they're capable of. Sorry, you went through that girl but you've survived! It's only up from here. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 06:46 PM |
| 7 | Hi ladies, my name is @codename_epic and I’m a recovering pickmeisha. This is my story.Haha, I was like "WHAT WOULD FDS SAY ABOUT THIS SITUATION"? I just moved according afterwords. :) Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Hi ladies, my name is @codename_epic and I’m a recovering pickmeisha. This is my story.Haha YES WE DO!!! The block button is our friend! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Hi ladies, my name is @codename_epic and I’m a recovering pickmeisha. This is my story.Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Hi ladies, my name is @codename_epic and I’m a recovering pickmeisha. This is my story.Yes! Thanks girl! Appreciate it. Only up from here!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 06:40 PM |
| 5 | Hi ladies, my name is @codename_epic and I’m a recovering pickmeisha. This is my story.Thanks girl! It's crazy how the humour jumps out when I'm dealing with pain/hard stuff. I've never been a crier! haha. LEVELED UP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 06:40 PM |
| 5 | Hi ladies, my name is @codename_epic and I’m a recovering pickmeisha. This is my story.5 YEARS!! I CAN'T! God, that just scares me so much. Thankfully our lives weren't enmeshed due to the distance and I was able to have space to think outside of him but I can't imagine being around someone all the time. What the f is wrong with men!? Telling you you're mentally screwed up? Are they well? Really are they okay?! Good for you for getting yourself into therapy. I've always wanted to do that so I will look up some providers in my area and try it out. It's only up from here for us!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 06:38 PM |
| 11 | Share your LVM older man story here.My ex wasted 8 YEARS of his exes life. They were the same age. When they broke up she was 38 and had wanted marriage and a family. She had supported him while he achieved professional success. Guess what? Within one year after they broke up, she found a HVM. Like Cassie, she was married and had her miracle baby within 2 years! God, I see what you've done for others! haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 06:10 PM |
| 11 | Share your LVM older man story here.Right! I've never liked men more than 5 years my senior before the guy I just dated. He was like anyone over 30 is too old for me! No, sir, anyone over 30 would have expectations for their lives and would not tolerate someone wasting their precious child-bearing years on an LVM partying man-child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 06:04 PM |
| 9 | Share your LVM older man story here.Wow was this my situation? I ended things yesterday. We had a 13 year gap and he was in his 40s too. The yelling thing outside - is freaking me out because he did the same thing to me. Only I didn't cry. Woo girl we've dodged the bullet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 06:02 PM |
| 5 | Share your LVM older man story here.Lmao I just made a post about my LVM older man story. Check my post history. I can also repost it here if anyone wants me to. But the tl:dr? It's not worth it ladies. EVER. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 05:46 PM |
| 21 | How to get a smaller waistI do this and it’s worked! I work out 4-5 times a week (lifting + spin) and doing vacuums has really helped me lose literal inches off my waist! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/18 05:43 PM |
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