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| 1 | I haven't been single for more than 4 months in the last 7 years. Can anyone offer advice on how I can be single and enjoy it?Rock on dude. I fully support this effort. Something you should probably add in to your routine is to regularly get out and socialize with people you haven't met before. The whole purpose is to increase the likelihood of you hooking up with someone new before you have a chance to get bored. It's also just good exercise for your charisma in general. | /r/seduction | 08/05/12 04:25 PM |
| 1 | I haven't been single for more than 4 months in the last 7 years. Can anyone offer advice on how I can be single and enjoy it?The biggest thing is dealing with jealousy. If you've got a girl that's been in a poly relationship before or if they've got another guy, then it's not much of a problem. It gets really difficult when you have more than one of them together in the same room. Then you really have to have your charisma figured out. Once you get past about 3 girls the big difficulty is finding time to spend with all of them. Oh yeah, and you need to keep everyone very honest and keep up to date with STD screens. Go… | /r/seduction | 07/05/12 10:36 PM |
| 0 | I haven't been single for more than 4 months in the last 7 years. Can anyone offer advice on how I can be single and enjoy it?I had the same situation a little over a year ago. I decided to become polyamorous, and I've got to say, it was worth the effort. For one, you get to experience as many other people as you can handle reasonably. For two, it is SIGNIFICANTLY more challenging and growth inducing to try to manage relationships where you let people know for a fact that you're banging other women. There's another plus to it, but I'll let you figure that one out ;) edit: Forgot to mention that I went mono again 5 mont… | /r/seduction | 07/05/12 01:00 AM |
| 83 | Wtf, people keep trying to Alpha me..You were at a gay bar. | /r/seduction | 09/02/12 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Turning online dates into long term relationships.Answer to quick question is yes. It's good practice when you get into the long term relationships and want to make sure that you're not falling into comfort. It helps you remain the man that your girls fell in love with in the first place :) I'm not sure I know what you're talking about in the first paragraph. Are you saying that meatspace cold approach is low risk low gain, or are you referring to cyberspace? If they've got esteem issues and you still want them for whatever other qualities, the… | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 02:46 AM |
| 2 | Turning online dates into long term relationships.It's like google for potential sex partners. You type in what you want and it spits out a list of everyone meeting those criteria in a 50 mile radius. You ever tried to just randomly run into a female scientist in a bar? The online scene helps when you know what you want. | /r/seduction | 04/12/11 09:43 PM |
| -2 | I don't drink and I'm young. Where do I take the ladies for a good time?Your bed. | /r/seduction | 28/07/11 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Going on my first OKCupid date after 3 years of lurking. Advice?Talk about something you love, and forget that she's there for a moment. That'll get a good side of you across. Hopefully. | /r/seduction | 22/07/11 04:22 AM |
| 7 | Someone please differentiate the differences between "Oneitis" and "Actually have reasonable feelings and want to be a couple"Play hardcore mode. Multiple main girlfriends at once. I would say that the experience is worth it if you haven't had it already. It'll teach you as much about yourself as it does about women. Bonus objective: They have to know about each other. | /r/seduction | 20/07/11 05:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you apply seduction to your relationship? Also, How would you protect your girlfriend from getting seduced by other PUAs?Assume her to be gone, as if your interactions with her were those of a man living on borrowed time. Then they will be true. This will imbue your interactions with a power unknown to most men, and will prevent the pain of feeling slighted. | /r/seduction | 12/07/11 05:45 AM |
| 1 | New and 19I highly recommend the RSD blueprint. You can find it. It's a compendium of knowledge at any age. Keep in mind that the person delivering it may have some hang ups, like a ot of them. It's still good info. | /r/seduction | 06/07/11 06:40 AM |
| 0 | Interesting and well-written article arguing against the PUA industry (please don't downvote, would rather like to hear Seddit's rebuttal against this article.)We do what we do to get what we want. Is that immoral? Do you look at a shark eating smaller fish as immoral? Some points sound good, but when looked at in the context of men (and a smaller group of women) attempting to take what they want, I feel that these criticisms pale in the light of the good achieved. Decent writing though. I hope this person continues to have a job. | /r/seduction | 06/07/11 06:21 AM |
| -6 | Find out how to conquer jealousy...Have you loved other women? Are you loving other women? Has your dick been inside anything besides her? Ok, now shut the fuck up. All that aside, it takes about 2 or 3 rounds of just being exposed to jealousy to get over it. You'll fuck up during those first few tries though. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 29/06/11 04:23 AM |
| 3 | Why dating multiple women will help your game...I'll agree. It's great practice all the time and it pretty much makes you feel like the cat's pajamas compared to so many people that are either sexless or in crappy relationships. That being said, it does necessitate a lot of work to make sure that the girls are all cool with one another and helping them to get through their own jealousy issues. Also orgies :D | /r/seduction | 28/06/11 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Where do you pick up smart girls?Use a dating site and search for "nerd" and "geek". If a girl self identifies as one of those she will at least value her intelligence. Other good ones are "math", "science", and "engineer". I've had very good luck with this. | /r/seduction | 26/06/11 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Seduction and long term relationshipsWell there's a difference between supplication and being a gentleman. The trick is knowing the difference. | /r/seduction | 22/12/10 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Bitch shields? I'm *no fucking good* at them at all.Ok, so I was on a date once, fairly recently, where the girl was bitch testing HARD the entire time. Due to something, I have no idea what, my inner game is pretty tight and my reaction to all of it was stunned amusement. Given the situation, none of the other good countermeasures would have worked, the best countermeasure simply being to not notice the test. So yeah, I was like "(lolwut face) oh my god what? where did you learn those manners, little girl?" and then I would launch into a story o… | /r/seduction | 22/12/10 10:17 PM |
| 4 | Bitch shields? I'm *no fucking good* at them at all.This one will cure itself with practice and/or better inner game. Here's a VERY brief timeline of how I evolved in this regard. unconscious incompetence: didn't recognize tests and responded without thinking conscious incompetence: recognized that a test was present and then failed it while thinking of what to do conscious competence: responded to tests by ignoring or testing them back unconscious competence: Girl starts badmouthing at me and I involuntarily zone out and start looking at all the… | /r/seduction | 22/12/10 09:35 PM |
| 2 | How much is negging important? Can I get around without using it?I wouldn't say the techniques are invalid, bad, or useless. I'd more direct the blame to idiots using the techniques in the wrong situation, with the wrong intentions, and with the wrong reasoning. Don't hate the game, hate the losers. | /r/seduction | 15/11/10 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Group Date- Me, two wingmen and 10 single ladies- How to approach it?GET YOUR STATE ON BEFORE SHOWING UP. <sup>That</sup> shit will pay dividends.^ | /r/seduction | 15/11/10 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Having trouble finding gamer/nerdy girls.Get your normal game up from picking up randoms and then hit dating sites like okcupid and just search for gamer/whatever. You might run into the problem of most of them not being hot though. :/ | /r/seduction | 15/11/10 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Hmmm this might belong in Iama but I feel I can help more people out in this one......Look them up and down and find some feature on them and make a comment. It'll almost always lead into a conversation and then just pick some element of the conversation that you think you can work with and pull it out. | /r/seduction | 13/11/10 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Sedditor LocatorFair Lakes/Fair Oaks, close enough. PM me as well. | /r/seduction | 09/10/10 08:17 PM |
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