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I think it's about expectations. I (and I believe the majority of men) don't actually expect anyone to do anything for them, good or bad. We can hope, we can wish, we can even fight for it. But saying something like "I expect the men who endanger me to not endanger me" is a thought that does not cross our minds. Honestly, I think this is where the majority of the disagreement here comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:32 PM
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Show one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:03 PM
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The "red pill" is a source of knowledge. If you use it to become bitter and hateful then its really just a skill issue. Ive been in the "red pill" space since I was a teenager. Im 28, I've had the same girlfriend/partner for 11 years. We've lived together for 5, bought a house together last year. I like to think that understanding female nature has been a big part of why our relationship has lasted so long. In many ways I think she is the one that benefits the most from it ironically enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 07:15 PM
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This has got to be rage bait lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:01 PM
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Do I? You might have some issues with reading comprehension.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 06:15 PM
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By internet/social media standards the "majority of men"=undesirable. Of course this does not reflect the real world. You are clearly bitter for some reason, hope you find happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 01:54 PM
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What a self report lmao. This just goes to show how much you dont understand men. The majority of men will dedicate themselves and give their whole life to anyone who shows them a crumb of attention or kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 04:44 PM
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Its the type of men you hang around, not men as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 02:07 AM
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He might be courageous but he is still a cuck xD.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 12:30 AM
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This man doesnt know what a cuck is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:43 PM
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Not really no, i mentioned that some people can learn to "fake it", meaning even though they do have innate differences in the way they for example (dont) interpret social queues, they can learn to make up for that, then I mentioned that there are worst cases, progressively worse to the point of unable to function independently. Do keep in mind that all this was to reply to someone whos saying that being autistic isnt an excuse to not be socially adjusted or whatever, so the one video example I …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:27 PM
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Your source is 1 tiktok from a gymbro lmao? Anyway like I said I edited my comment right after writing bacause i didnt feel as strongly about that point. Back to the first point. I dont see it as excuse, i see it as mental illness, it doesnt make people not want to learn social skills, it makes them literally incapable of it The best you might be able to do in the more mild cases is sort of learning to fake it. In other cases, autistic people are literally unable to look other people in the face…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:32 PM
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Yeah I removed that second part right after writing it. I accidentally clicked post before it was ready because after reconsidering, the examples you mentioned seemed like non-issues at all. Which sort of feels like a strawman, by the way. I don't see men using those examples as excuses.. Your first point is still utter trash. You are either ignorant as fuck or ragebaiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:20 PM
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Using autism as an excuse to not have social skills is like saying using depression as an excuse to be sad lmao. These takes are so bad it has to be ragebait.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 03:14 PM
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So many braindead takes man. The objective of any living organism is to procreate, pass on their genes, or at most, if for some reason they can't, to help the genes of those closest to them pass on. So for any male, there's a risk that their partner by cheating will make them not reproduce, which is basically the same as dying when it comes to passing on genes. For obvious reasons this isn't a concern for females. So, over time males developed mechanisms to make sure this doesn't happen to them,…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:14 PM
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I intentionally kept it vague; my comment applies to anyone, depending on what they consider bad taste to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:11 PM
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Abusive men are rare, if someone gets repeatedly into abusive relationships thats a statistical anomaly. Sure there might be someone getting "winning the lottery" levels of unlucky, but for a problem so commonly talked about theres no way all these women are "winning" the (negative) lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:09 PM
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It means that if every single one (or even just the majority) of someone's past relationships turned out negatively in some way then maybe this is because of a poor selection on the part of those choosing to be in said relationships. I.e. Bad taste in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 03:03 PM
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I dont like government so no. I dont really care about what people do in their private lives, I just wouldnt want to be with a slut, or even really be friends with one, we would just clearly have very different views on life and morality. Modesty is a virtue in all things, not just sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:25 AM
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80% is amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 09:14 PM
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I wouldn't say entirely. Just means you've never loved someone enough to give yourself entirely to them. Which is a shame really.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 09:49 AM
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As much as people like to deny it, without men's ambition we would still be living in straw huts, and the way you used to motivate men to build, develop and protect society was by giving them a wife, or at least with the prospect of one. Organized religion pleated a big role in this by establishing rules people had to follow. If men didn't have that, they would either do nothing for the society they were in, or they would seek to destroy it, or others, i.e. pillage and r*pe. And I actually think…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 07:05 AM
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It's really funny because most loving couples say stuff like "I'm yours"/"I belong to you" or the like. True love is essentially to give yourself to another person. It is a little metaphorical for sure but still, it's sad how many people will never experience this kind of love because society tells them they should live in some kind of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:42 AM
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In my argument I don't really mean that people need to reproduce to be happy or fullfiled or whatever, many choose not to. I just mean it as a more general way to say that people need that kind of connection with someone else. All those feelings, those instincts are connected.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 10:48 PM
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I look at this like I look at obesity. Respect obese people, it's great if obese people are able to be happy and feel good about themselves and their appearance despite being obese. It's still a net negative on society and the individual and I will not lie to you and say you'd be just as happy and pretty if you weren't obese. As someone born in 98 who has been lucky enough to have had the same partner for 10 years, living together for 4 and buying a house at the end of this month - This dynamic …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:27 PM
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I once had the chance to work in one of those scammy sites where you talk to lonely dudes pretending to be a girl that likes them and wants to meet with them while constantly forcing them to pay for more credits to keep talking. It was really good money because I live in a country with a smaller economy and things are (more like used to be) cheaper in general and the company hiring was from a wealthier country. I signed up and I had training, got into the first chat, and immediately dropped it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/25 11:39 AM
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It's crazy how there's not one person here saying "yup, I don't have a solution but this is an issue" It's like there's an aversion from people, it's crazy, I gotta unsub from this sub, I've been around here too long, people suck ass here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/25 10:30 PM
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Drama baggage expenses to name a few. Also the notion of raising another man's kids is pretty close to being a cuckold.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 06:14 PM
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If this was happening the other way around people would be screaming to find some kind of solution, even if there wasn't one. Men, like it or not are the backbone of society, the way you keep men invested in society is by giving them a family, religious leaders figured this out many thousands of years ago. Technology is slowly changing things, men arent as needed as they used to be, but they still are. The question here is if technology is evolving fast enough to replace them before enough of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 08:19 PM
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Oh poor (adult) baby was using a rich dude to get a lifestyle her means and that of her peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:41 PM
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I don't know why some people struggle so much with this, even if larger sizes don't necessarily mean more contact with nerves because they're at the entrance or whatever. And even if being too big might make them sore. As much as we like to pretend that people have evolved behond instinct and more primal urges, women in general, prefer big strong men. Women in general like being submissive and having someone dominate them. Having a partner with a big dick tickles those instincts. Women also care…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 09:58 AM
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Yeah I'm portuguese, Donald trump's farts have more impact on the world than anything anyone in my country does (in present times) xD I get what you mean but I really don't think you're talking about the same things that most women who talk about "yes all men" or about toxic masculinity do. You're talking about things that are natural and will and have always happened, that everyone perpetrates to eachother. Regardless of gender race etc. Yes I might have at some point in my life have made a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:49 PM
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Like physically/emotionally hurting someone, I'm not including here like accidently kicking a a classmate in the leg while playing football or something. I mean I've legit never been in a fight or hit someone non consensually. Sexual harassment or something similar, I've suffered it (used to drive ambulances and old ladies can be surprisingly Inappropriate), never dealt it, I've had the same girlfriend since I was 16… I'm 28 now. Never approached another woman before or after this one, as a kid …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 09:49 AM
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Makes me feel pretty shit tbh. I've never harmed anyone in my life. Makes me feel in a way almost objectified and dehumanized. But I also think that women who make these claims don't give a single shit about how they make random average men feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:37 AM
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Did you really expect any man to say anything other than "yeah sure, why not?" Lmao. Personally I don't just "not mind it" I appreciate it when my girlfriend points out something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:01 PM
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Only if you ban all the freaky sex shows on Netflix aimed at women too. I often tell my girlfriend as a joke that she's always watching porn when I walk in. Theres just a shit load of real nudity and sex on netflix frankly on shows that it doesn't add much to other than fan service. Which I normally don't care about, but if we re banning soft core anime where nothing is actually shown and sex is pretty much treated like taboo, nudity is partially shown but never genital nudity, then those gotta …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:26 AM
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I've had many female friends, I've drifted apart from a lot of them with years, so now I don't have many or the ones I have are my partner's friends or the girlfriends/wives of my friends. I can be friends with them just fine and while I might notice their ass or cleavages every once in a while, I don't feel any desire to fuck them. I do remember when I was younger in school and Uni, while I was single, funnily enough even though I was a nerd I had a pretty small group of friends and a lot of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 08:29 AM
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"inconvenienced" is a crazy way to say have your life and reputation ruined, or possibly even harmed as revenge by the accused's family and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:38 PM
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This dude just sounds like a regard lmao. Any ideology has positive and negative points, you can learn from both and use logic to apply whatever in whatever situation. Blindly doing anything is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:06 PM
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Let's take sex out of it. Let's say you have a partner that had a few serious relationships before. Let's say he was super romantic with all of them, buying flowers regularly, taking their partners out, going on fancy vacations even. Let's assume he still has the means to very comfortably do all of this. He just doesn't, he "grew as a person', decided he no longer should/wants to do those things. What would that make you, as his current partner think? One could be very cold and calculated and ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:18 AM
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You're seeing this through the wrong point of view. Men will check out of society if they have nothing to gain from it. Does society want to at best loose part of its men? At worst create a group of men that are antagonistic to it? I'd argue that men are the back bone of society so no, it can't loose them. Maybe it can loose a few, but if you keep removing pieces the whole thing is gonna collapse at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:43 PM
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You used to need men to hold up society. The way you used to get men to do that was by making sure each men had a family, thus marriage was created. It was the best way to get men invested in a society, a family or the promise of a family eventually. Today a small number of men get a large number of women thus, a lot of men have no reason to be invested in society. Technology has made this more possible than it was before, with its help women are able to do a lot of jobs that before could only b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:21 AM
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Jesus Christ man, there are ways to make arguments about traditionalism and there's definitely room to say that society's lost some virtue the past few decades. But the way you're doing it is just not it, you're focusing on all the wrong things for all the wrong reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:59 PM
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In nature "bigger" tends to mean stronger. Being big means that a man can protect her and her children better. Nowadays this isn't all that important, but our instincts are all still down there, no matter how much people like to pretend they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 11:48 AM
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Respect if that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 07:03 PM
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I get the argument that anyone should wear whatever makes workout easier and more comfortable and for a lot of women that's super tight clothes. But what would you guys say if a big overweight man with a bunch of belly rolls and a oversized ballsack that bulges through the tight shorts did the same? I know this is an extreme example and I don't mean for anyone to take it too seriously, but I'm just wondering, are your values really that "anyone can and should wear whatever they prefer?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 06:02 PM
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L take
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:03 PM
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This∆
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:28 PM
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Women don't need to go to the gym to become attractive. They have things they can do that take less effort. Also the looksmatch (in terms of sexual marketplace value) of a slim woman (non athletic) is not a slim non athletic man, the "neutral" man needs to have at least put some work into his body. Another way to put it is that a slim woman that doesn't workout is neutral (maybe even positive). A slim man that doesn't workout is seen as a negative. Somewhat baffling is the fact that some women e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:41 PM
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Women in general put way more effort into the way they look than men do. That's probably a big part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 08:29 PM
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I've never taken more than an hour to clean my house, you people either let it build up for way too long or you really have nothing better to argue about
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:13 PM
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Mentally a potato lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:31 PM
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Not knowing might feel better, but any self respecting man would rather know and face reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 08:52 PM
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Claiming mgtow caused violence is equivalent to saying rap music causes violence. They both have a tendency to attract groups that are already violent due to other circumstances. (allbeit in both cases an extremely tiny minority) I wouldn't ban either. But my principles put liberty above pretty much all else, including safety and security so, we're probably not going to agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:43 PM
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And you and the people you agree with are the ones who can see the truth from the lies and guide us other sheep? I'm sorry but that's just being authoritarian, that's a difference of values so we're not going to agree on that one. As for the studies, no I haven't made any research on that, I'm also not focusing on the same issue as you. I'm talking about the extremes especifically because those are the ones that usually cause real problems. I also don't agree with the way those studies reach the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:13 PM
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I agree that these groups don't grow as fast outside big platforms, what I'm saying is that the ones already in them will get even more extreme, and the few new eyes that find them will also be more likely to become extremist because no one from the outside will be arguing with them. Also your first point is precesily why no groups should be banned (except groups that are outright doing something illegal).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:34 PM
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Did you forget to add the /s at the end? I genuinely can not tell of you're being sarcastic or not. Deplatformimg and censoring most definitely does not work. People always find ways, be it these new social media platforms or private discord/WhatsApp/telegram groups. Without any criticism any new eyes that do find them will never hear the counter arguments, this slowly creats more extreme views.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 03:52 PM
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Reddittors didn't like the double standard, bringing back mgtow and redpill subs, and keeping FDS was the ideal outcome. Of course some people feel a sense of justice or vindication from this, but this isn't going to bring any good in the long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:30 AM
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which is really bad, ideally ideas should be openly availible for everyone to see and mock. In darkness extremist ideas will only fester and grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:51 AM
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Im 180cm, I had a friend who was 170, had a tiny ass girl tell me I was a bit below average height and that my friend was short. The male average height for my country is literally 170 lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:05 PM
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Well at the very least, the undebatable and uncontroversial part is that you're checking to see if you have similar values. A bit more controversial one, because people don't like it, though if you deny it you're just straight up denying science lol. You use it to know the likelyhood of her ability to pair bond beeing broken. Which doesn't work the same with everyone I know, but if I remember correctly, somewhere around 10 partners over 50% women loose the ability to maintain life long commitmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 09:44 AM
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There are experiments done on very young babies that test which gender prefers different types of toys. There was a very clear preference from young boys to play with cars and blocks, while girls preferred dolls. Showing that women are naturally people orientated and men are more thing oriented. It's an unrelated issue but I'm leaving this here that these things are possible to test.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:21 PM
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"Men are intimidated by women who make a lot of money" - bullshit. Just another way to shift blame for women's choices unto men. The vast majority of women won't even be with a man who makes less than them. And the men who make more than them don't give a shit about how much they make. To add to that most successful career women have manly traits, like assertiveness and beeing bossy and crass. They also usually put of building a family. Which imidiatelly eleminates a huge portion of dating optio…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 07:48 AM
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Camilla Plagia says it herself "if civilization had been left in female hands, we would still be living in grass huts". Women seek resources and safety, men advanced technology to be able to gatter more resources and attract more women, men also take a lot more risks, calling it "getting laid" minimises the importance of it a lot, the drive to reproduce is one of our strongest instincts. Especially when talking about primitive times. Also women didn't invent much back then, they didn't have the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:55 AM
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I'd guess we would be living in straw huts, humans advanced because of mines desire to garter more and more resources to attract women, so technology kept advancing, without that drive we would probably stagnate at the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 01:26 AM
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This comment should be a post
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:28 AM
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The real answer is that higher n counts affect peoples ability to pair bond. If a couple can't pair bond the likelyhood of their offspring making it to adulthood and reproducing greatly decreases. And the reason men care about this a bit more than women is because women don't need a faithfull man to pass on their genes, they always know their child is their own. Men on the other hand couldn't be certain about that. And blah blah past behaviour future behaviour something something. TL;Dr lower n …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:33 AM
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You're talking about diffrent kinds of peoplr
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 08:55 AM
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I don't get it, when I go to mcdonalds, order a m&m mcflurry and ask for extra caramel on top, I do it because it feels good, I know full well it's bad and why it is bad, my brain convinces me not to do it most of the time, but sometimes the temptation beats me. Don't get me wrong, I'm libertarian, no one has anything to do with what I eat with my mcflurries, just in the same way no one has anything to do with how many miles of dick these hoes ram into their cunts. But despite this, I still know…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/11/21 10:24 PM
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Ive been in a loving relationship for 7 years, my first girlfriend, i was her first boyfriwnd too, took eachothers virginity, both finished college last year and have moved in together. Things are going great, planning to get a dog. I have an habit of listening to everyones opinions, extreme or moderate, left or right, blue or red pill, I learn from all of them and use whatever I can to my advantage. "Red pill knowledge", understanding "female nature", has helped me improove our relationship, re…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 08:04 PM
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Ahah thanks man, cheers!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/21 11:05 AM
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Yeah i dont have a problem with people who sleep around, I'm a classical liberal type, I'll fight for your right to sniff coke from an hooker's ass but I just personally don't want to join in.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/21 09:31 AM
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I dont see myself having one night stands or friends with benefits, If I persue a relationship it has to be serious, it has to be somoene I actually have feelings for, I look for that in a partner aswell. Thats why Ive been together with my girlfriend for almost 7 years, none of us "slept around", we were both still virgins when we met. Though i dont consider that a requirement, i dont have anything aggaints anyone who has had other serious relationships in the past. I had girlfriends before, wh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/21 08:44 AM
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Just not my preference, doesnt allign with my morals.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/21 07:48 AM
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Those are rookie numbers
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/21 07:48 AM
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If your choices are: Bad and less bad. You will choose less bad. It will still be bad, but you know... less.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:42 PM
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I think the vast majority of women understand, but dont have a solution, but when they hear you bring up the problem they assume you want them to fuck ugly/low value men, and they really do not want that. Not that they should, now one should be forced or shamed into doing anything, but just the idea that you might be implying that abslutely repulses them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:20 PM
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Women will kick the men that make up the back bone of society in the gut and laugh while doing it, some men too, then complain that society is falling appart lol. I dont care burn it all down for all I care, I'll survive, protect my girlfriend and family for as long as I can, probably live with less stress until I die from a small infected cut from farming or something. Helping lonely men is a complex issue, no one is owed sex, but people should realize that a large enough number of unhappy men …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:28 AM
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Darn those pesky human needs of love and affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:16 AM
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Oh fuck this is either a troll comment or somoene with the selfawareness of a gold fish, either way it's hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:12 AM
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I have to disagree with this, there was some data a long time ago, this was done before tinder, some older dating site, 50% of men rated women as below average, which is what would be expected, while women rated, I'm not sure, 70 or 80% of men as below average, this shows a skewed perception, It's probably worse now because of the rise of social media (and this is undeniable, people are always complaining about girls getting self esteem problems from social media, if it skews their perception of…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:07 AM
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You're bunching mgtow with completly diffrent groups, mgtow literally dont give a shit about women. They use what they know to use women, to avoid having problems. Some stop getting with women alltogether, some just use them for sex, some will use them for other reasons. But always for their own benefit. Morally right or wrong, that doesnt matter, id argue that is the same aproach most modern women have regarding relationships. Use them as long as it benefits them, jump to a new branch once it d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 08:45 AM
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Willing is a lot diffrent from wanting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/21 09:36 PM
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"This isnt a youth support group" Yeah its a place for degens to discuss their opinions. Pftt imagine beeing a place of learning and knowledge that could benefit somoene or at least give them something to think about. Cringe amirite? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 12:33 PM
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Let's be honest here, their points aren't ridiculous, it's a legitimate issue, a lot of debating about it should be happening. I personally think there should be at the very least be a list of registered false acusers. And there should be as bad a social stigma aggaints false acusers as there is aggaints the accused. Prison time is reasonable but only if you could prove behond a reasonable doud that it was done intentionally. Doing this is hard though, if not borderline impossible, women could c…
/r/MGTOW12/07/21 02:54 PM
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I don't think either of you know what women think, not fully, even if you're a woman, you're 1 among billions. I don't either. I don't fully agree with either of you, there's some truth to what he said but from what little I do know, it's a lot more complex than that. But you know, on a sub that literally has the word "debate" on its name, it helps if you explain your points, what you did is the equivalent of 5th graders saying "no u" to eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 12:09 PM
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Thank your for your opinion followed by absolutely no explanation whatsoever u/Thegigolocrew very cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:22 PM
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I don't think that is genetic, it's just that sucessfull women tend to have kids later and have fewer of them so they can focus on their careers. Also IQ tends to be a mix of both parents, kind of like skin colour. Most of the time the child of a black and white person comes somewhere in between. Though sometimes they can be completely one side or the other, it doesn't happen often. But even if they do come out that way, they carry the genes and when they have kids, they might come out with an u…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:46 AM
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Man chill the fuck out you sound like a psychopath. There's plenty of unsucessfull high IQ men due to other reasons. Social anxiety, ADHD, autism, and just sheer "face hit by truck" syndrome. There's also plenty of sucessfull low IQ people in general. For example a lot of social media influencers. They have a pretty face or body but some then have complete dogshit personalities and a pea for a brain and they are still sucessfull. I'll give you my example, I'm a 23 yr old male, currently in unive…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:35 AM
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That'll just cause him more emotional pain and confusion, he should just cut of women, if you care about spiting her with a new girl then you're still letting her live rent free inside your head. No girls, just work to improve yourself.
/r/MGTOW08/06/21 06:41 PM
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!remind me 1 year
/r/MGTOW08/06/21 06:37 PM
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This is moronic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:34 AM
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Im surprised it's not worse
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:25 AM
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Not quite, when societies showed up, monogamy was basically enforced through relegion, for the most part, every man had a woman, and therefore a family, that's how they kept men invested in society, they gave them meaning and purpose to their lives, and also a reason to support society. Now strip away what kept a large portion of the male population invested in society... What happens? We'll probably see it in our lifetimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 09:03 AM
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Hurr Durr the backbone of society has lost all reasons to support it, hurr Durr das funny surely nothing can go wrong, the backbone isn't some sort of super important structure or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:58 AM
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I think you're overcomplicating things. Older men have options they didn't have when they were young, men don't value the same things in women that women value in men. Most established men don't want women for financial reasons, they want them despite their financial reasons. Why would men with the option to date younger more atrictive women, want to date older less attractive women? Now, I get this is a gross oversimplification, older women aren't necessarily less attractive, there's plenty of …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 03:31 PM
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You're so wrong. Most men want someone they connect with and whose company they enjoy, especially hvm, they can get whatever ass they want every week, that's worth nothing to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:23 AM
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What concerns me the most is that people have lists, love isn't about finding someone who meets some predetermined criteria. You don't look at a list and say " well this 100 guys don't meet my criteria, this 5 do, therefore they're elegible to be loved by me." You meet people, you feel a connection, you might find common interests and you go from there. Having lists makes it feel so... Robotic? It's almost like you're hiring someone for a job, that's not love, you don't pre-select people to love…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:31 PM
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You're right about correlation not being equal to causation, these studies themselves don't prove causation. I'd say that intuitively they're both reasonable, there's a bunch of things that mess with the way our brain works, is it a crazy notion that performing an act as intimate and that releases as many hormones and chemicals in your brain as sex with a lot of people could change the way your brain handles relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 07:49 PM
4

We live in a society
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 09:09 AM
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I think you pay too much attention to the I-words and to the stud/player type guys. They're both a tiny minority of men. As usual, minorities can be very loud. But you should understand that 9/10 men you might find walking around on the streets don't even have opinions on those matters, much less having strong enough opinions to insult or shame women for it. Seriously people, most men just want to find someone who they can connect with on an emotional level, If they have similar hobbies and a bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:21 AM
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It's a bit more nuanced, than that, but there is some evidence pointing to it. https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability To each their own, everyone should be able to make their choices freely, but I mean, it's pretty intuitive that someone who has fewer partners is more likely to value them and want to make them work more than someone who has had many and thinks of them as just "1 more". I'd think that this is probably true for m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 08:12 AM
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Ah yes, let's ignore the backbone of society. These issues affect a small percentage of men, but that percentage is increasing every year and nothing is beeing done to stop it. What happens when no one fixes your plumbing, your electricity? Builds your roads, processes your trash and builds the sewage for your shit to go to? Women aren't doing these jobs, definitely not enough of them to support society. I'll tell you what happens, you go back to leaving in straw huts with a campfire for a light…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 09:52 AM
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Why would you support a system that doesn't support you. Also "getting your dick wet" is a nice way of saying "fulfilling the Instinctual drive that has drove life and evolution forward for millions of years" It is NOT a weak force. "Everything in the world is about sex, and sex is about power." I personally wouldn't do anything to speed up the fall of society, I'm a slightly above avarage guy in most regards so I tend to be able to navigate life without any crazy issues or limitations. But I de…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 09:11 AM
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The notion that women have more health issues than men is fkin detached ahah. Not only do men have more health problems, it's known that they're probably under reported, it's something I was thought in university by a sociology professor. When making a diagnosis you need to keep in mind that with most men you need to pry a lot to figure out everything that's wrong because they won't tell you about some of their problems because they might be used to them or think they're normal. "Yeah this cripp…
/r/MensRights20/05/21 07:15 AM
9

You're fucked in the head
/r/AntiFeminists20/05/21 06:29 AM
1

How the fuck is Ed sheeran below avarage? He doesn't have like chiseled jaws hunter eyes or any other super manly feature but his face still looks good even if it isnt conventionally manly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 04:17 PM
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You're the reason people can't have nice things
/r/MGTOW213/05/21 05:25 PM
3

It's incredible how people struggle to understand this
/r/MGTOW213/05/21 06:54 AM
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Dude next you're going to start discussing the value of religion politics and sports, I know I simplified it a lot, of course the sample is influenced from where it's taken from. I'm not writing a thesis here, I'm just saying that the 70% from this article most likely isn't representative of the general population. I have no clue what the real numbers are, but they'are probably below 70%. And of course they'll vary depending on more variables than both of us could ever know. I'm not talking abou…
/r/MGTOW212/05/21 06:54 PM
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Yeah that's why I asked which group is more likely, talking about chances here man, I'm not denying that woman lie. It's awfull that they do, I'm just saying that the number of the general population probably isn't as high as the one in this post. Probably. It might be higher, because hey, that's how chances work, it's just ridiculously unlikely, especially considering that they probably have a huge sample size. I also said they were both made up of 100 people, the number doesn't matter though, …
/r/MGTOW212/05/21 06:41 PM
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Was that what I said? Cuz I'm pretty sure it wasn't. Picture this, 2 groups: Group 1 is made up 100 random men picked from the street. Group 2 is made up of 100 man who suspect their partner cheated on them and therefore are looking to do a paternity test. Which group do you think is more likely to have a higher percentage of man who have been cheated on?
/r/MGTOW212/05/21 05:48 PM
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Keep in mind, this might not represent the general population, a large portion of the people who seek out these tests probably have suspicions already.
/r/MGTOW212/05/21 04:55 PM
1

Yeah I've seen some of his stuff in the past, lately ive just distanced myself a bit from that whole scene, I'm happier that way, less negative.
/r/AntiFeminists06/05/21 01:29 PM
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Mah man, no hate, I know English is probably not your first lenguage, but besides the grammar itself, all that gloating and mocking was kinda cringe. Tone it down a bit, the way you spoke reminds me of a little kid mocking another one.
/r/AntiFeminists06/05/21 01:04 PM
1

On principle I don't tolerate cheating, I'd leave her not because I'd stop loving her, but out of self respect. Because of what I've seen happening to older men in my family, I absolutely refuse to go through the same, if she even thinks about cheating and I find out, I'll leave her on the spot no matter how much I love her. I probably wouldn't let it reach that point, I'd pressure her a lot to change her habits, I'd help her in anyway I could, so it would very likely not get to that point, if i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 07:20 AM
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Pretty sure the avarage man wants a stable happy loving family more than casual flings. Maybe not the 20 yr old fuckboys, but even them tend to calm down and want to settle down. The notion that men would fuck anything that moves and only care about sex is very wrong (at least for the vast majority of men older than 23+/-). And even the younger ones despite beeing crazy about sex, I'd say the vast majority would prefer a single long term partner than a quick fling. But hey, that's just my lived …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 06:35 AM
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Do you bother yourself with moving around little bugs on the floor? I'm guessing most of the time you don't even notice them. If somoene has a valid point I'll hear them out, I don't care what's between their legs. If they dont have a valid point, it's just harmless background noise. We're not special little snowflakes here, words aren't violence, and banning people's speech is wrong, regardless of who they are.
/r/MGTOW201/04/21 12:11 PM
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It would be dishonest to say that a lot of societies rejects and woman haters dont find themselves associating with mgtow people, they are not mgtow but thinking they are helps them feel better, if nothing else they find people to talk about their experiences with. It's not necessarily a bad thing for them, it can be a first step in improving themselves, to find independence and learn to live without the approval of others if they let go of their hate. But it can make mgtow look bad if someone s…
/r/MGTOW215/03/21 08:35 AM
1

Hey, can you dm me the original post? I'm curious to see what kind of replies he got
/r/MGTOW215/01/21 07:39 AM
1

I wonder what the folks over at fds would have to say about the whole situation
/r/PussyPassDenied27/12/20 03:41 PM
3

Happens to me too, if she grabs at an angle where I can't get away fast enough and starts tickling me I try hold them in, but some really embarrassing giggles tend to come out, I always get my revenge though!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/20 06:15 PM
3

There's something about hearing the person you love laugh that really puts you at ease for some reason ahah, definitely can relate to that xD
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/20 08:39 AM
3

That kinda of relationship would not work for me at all xD, but good for you man!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/20 08:36 AM
3

Yea neither of us really fell the need to, so all good there
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/20 08:32 AM
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Well one thing that I guess is kinda of unusual is that she tries really hard not to seem jealous of other girls, but I can tell she is, like if I make a comment about what a friend of ours is wearing, or if I she hears a girl saying something nice about me, she doesn't like it AT ALL, but she tries not to mention it or make it seem obvious but I can tell, her face her mood, it's written all over her (I've called her out on it and she didn't deny it) and I find it really cute, it sort of reminds…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/20 02:07 AM
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Glad to hear it :D I wish I could go to the subs where the type of things portrayed in this post come from, just to give my honest opinion like I did here, but if I said this there, id probably get downvoted into oblivion or just outright banned, so yeah... That sucks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/20 11:38 PM
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Man I feel like people have ruined love for themselves because of they way they treat relationships. I've had the same girlfriend for 6 years, she's not perfect far from it, she's not crazy attractive, she's perfectly average in most things, but she's smart, hard working, she's a great dancer, makes up for my lead feet. She has her mood swings she sometimes nags and gets upset over really weird things, it's not to the point where I consider that a problem. Would I prefer if she didn't nag me som…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/09/20 09:08 PM
5

The first 80%
/r/MGTOW13/09/20 09:39 AM
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People in the comments saying things like "it's fake, who would break somoene's computer in an argument" and I'm here like: One time my mother literally threw and destroyed my dad's tablet and grabbed the hammer to destroy our computer, the only reason she didn't was because I literally blocked the door and didn't let her through, god knows my dad couldn't, she would have yelled domestic violence if he even slightly grazed her despite she beeing the one who was literally welding an hammer.
/r/MGTOW21/08/20 12:00 PM
3

Why do you talk with your ex?
/r/MGTOW01/05/20 01:45 PM
2

If a woman happens to read this, look, she makes some valid points, the things she says are perfectly understandable. The problem is, men can find younger more atractive women with more free time with less demands and without the need to care for another mans kids, if they cant, well they probably arent that great of men. You gotta understand your value and the value of the men you seek, if you arent great looking you cant have many demands and still expect to find a good man, you either have to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/03/20 07:15 PM
7

There isn't a diplome or degree in the world that will make a man's dick hard
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/20 06:40 PM
1

Keep us posted men, maybe edit the post with the link to the new post when you know more, just in case, that way people who commented here can come back more easely and find the update. Also, maybe show your friend this post and the comments, lots of opinions and points of view, doesn't hurt to give him more to think about.
/r/MGTOW23/01/20 09:41 PM
2

I don't know guys, misandry runs rampant on this sub, there's a lot of toxic people on there, i know this is a long image, it's just to show what kind of posts are on there, i didn't scroll any further than that though because i know i would eventually try to give somoene advice, get in arguments and get downvoted down to hell. Do as you please with this sub (or i guess i could say "go your own way"), my advice for you though, if you have the patience and time is: 1:Troll the shit out of the tox…
/r/MGTOW23/01/20 09:24 PM
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You're supposed to get to know them before you fuck them lmao
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/11/19 07:58 AM
3

Don't post your face on this sub dude...
/r/MGTOW20/09/19 07:59 AM
1

*most
/r/MGTOW16/09/19 08:35 AM
2

There's nothing I despise more than people who cheat on their partners.
/r/MGTOW24/07/19 09:49 AM
6

Fuck dude, if it were me I'd seriously consider ending the mother and then myself so that the kid had to go to an orphanage to avoid this.
/r/MGTOW13/07/19 07:23 AM
2

It's so sad what I see here, men's standards are so low that all most men want is loyalty, that should be a given. Women want tall strong rich big dick makes her laugh likes to travel has a nice car and a million other demands before they even consider a man.
/r/MGTOW05/07/19 10:03 AM
3

They don't want equal anything, they want more of everything
/r/MGTOW05/07/19 09:57 AM
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