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Honestly i feel like your answer was perfect!
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/25 03:07 AM
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This is a great parallel! And it lends itself well to understanding how that “softness” should progress as well. Just like how a man might feel off by a woman putting out on a first date (“does she do this with everyone? It doesn’t feel special”), a woman has a similar reaction with a man who is too emotional or soft with her too quickly - it doesn’t feel special, genuine, or earned. But a little hint of it (a tease) might be appropriate!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:36 PM
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You clearly don’t know much about history if you don’t understand where the “fairer” sex idea came from. And it definitely is promoted by both genders today.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 12:16 AM
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I think it’s because women are socialized and shamed if they come across as shallow at all. We are supposed to be selfless in our choosing of men - see beauty & the beast myth. But despite all that women (like men) are mere animals that do value physical attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:54 PM
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As a woman completely agree. “Shallow” attraction comes first and then you can look for other good qualities in someone (that are sometimes more gender neutral or ‘feminine’). I’m also the type that wants my bf to give me special softness that he doesn’t show to most others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:51 PM
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He is not high value if he’s not monogamous imo
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/25 09:45 PM
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Thank you… i needed this reminder
/r/RedPillWives17/07/25 03:04 AM
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Yes It’s true, he probably would’ve ran either way. But it still stands true that you shouldn’t have given him full wife treatment until you get that legal binding. Because you end up in this situation, not only emotionally hurt, but also financially damaged. Why double the stress on yourself? What he did is horrible, but next time, you know how to mitigate getting too dependent too early, both emotionally & financially. I’m sorry this happened to you! I know it’s painful. He wasn’t the right ma…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/25 05:02 PM
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Hmm, I’m biased from my own past experiences on that part. I think a bit of both. My theory on why it happens is I think a lot of media & culture prep women to be heavily focused on themselves as a prize, & the man striving to get them. Women sometimes end up seeing themselves through the “male gaze.” Like the classic knight saves a princess. What can a woman control in that situation if she’s trapped in a tower? Not much, but to make herself as beautiful & appealing as possible while she waits.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 12:38 AM
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I think there’s some truth to this but not in the way you think. Women are very psychological in this way, that’s why they say foreplay starts outside of the bedroom. A lot of what turns a woman on is not just the appearance of her man (altho that is obviously an aspect), but also the way she sees him & their relationship. She needs to have respect for him & feel valued in the relationship for her to really get “there” as you say. I also think a lot of woman don’t really realize until its too la…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 11:38 AM
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I also recommend this book. It’s really good!
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/25 03:31 AM
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Marital status definitely does matter. There are studies that prove that children have a much better outcome with two married co-habitating parents. It’s not “just a ring” or “just a piece of paper.” It’s a legally binding commitment, and like it or not, that changes the way people act and think about the relationship. I would never, ever accept children without marriage. I also recommend to every girl I can to do the same. I absolutely love children, that’s why I would never doom them with a si…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:43 PM
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It’d not wrong to want him to regret it at all. But someone like that? It’s doubtful they ever truly will. He might lie about it at some point to try and get back in your good graces. But someone who would do something like that in the first place is incredibly selfish and doesn’t care at all about you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/25 09:24 PM
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This is just my suggestions. When you get home or finish with messy chores take a bubble bath every day. Light a candle, take care of yourself, lotion up and put perfume or body mist on after, adjust your hair. Change into something comfy but cute and girly. I love house dresses personally, they can be casual. I think something like this (personalize it to you) really helps decompress and get into the right headspace, switching from work mode to wife mode.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/25 04:37 AM
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Lol you really aren’t arguing in good faith! Good luck buddy 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:52 PM
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BTW, the opposite of this happens often too. Look up “hobosexual” on any relationship advice type subreddit to see hundreds of examples of women being completely financially leeched on by a man who provides absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:14 PM
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Because women have a lot more to lose when going on dates with men. I’m not saying it’s okay to be a “gold digger” as you describe, of course no good relationship can actually be founded on purely financial reasons. But let’s take the example of paying on the first date. In my opinion it is expected for a man to do so. A woman spends much, much more money & time than a man getting ready for a date. (Clothes, makeup, hair, waxing/shaving full body, etc.) But women also have much, much more to los…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:10 PM
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Idk thats kind of a strange take. Im a 5’11 woman and i have never ever had a problem with finding a bf. My standards were the same, same height or taller. What do you want her to do, shrink? Lol. Not super helpful. Idk about the similar income thing but OP I definitely just recommend putting yourself out there in real life, going out more etc. Not many people have much luck in online dating spheres.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/24 02:30 PM
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Exactly. If they are weird about you using their phone for a second to search something up or take a pic or something thats a huge red flag. They are definitely hiding something
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/24 03:42 PM
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Yes I agree with the other comments. The tone of the book made it a hard listen. I did feel she was too harsh. Plus, I had just read Laura Doyle’s the Surrendered Wife (and the Empowered Wife) & I didn’t feel like it really added anything new. Everything is worth a read for people to make up their own minds though! Might be good for someone who needs some tough love.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/24 10:36 AM
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Pick a different guy that is interested enough in you to put in effort. Only way
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/24 11:59 AM
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