coffee999 Archive

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1	I'm successful with attractive women I don't actually "like". I'm unsuccessful with the ones I'd actually like a relationship with. Help? I am one who enjoys the theory and science of "game". But I'll be the first to admit that sometimes you just have to throw out everything you think you know and just be yourself as best as you can. If she can't see you for who you are, and that you have a genuine interest in her, then there isn't much you can do. That said, the core principles of attraction still apply, but hopefully on a more "meta level" you have internalized most of them and can operate without the theory. Ultimately, you nee…	/r/seduction	17/04/14 01:24 AM
4	I'm successful with attractive women I don't actually "like". I'm unsuccessful with the ones I'd actually like a relationship with. Help? Like Style did at the end of The Game. Kinda the "moral of the story" if you read the whole book.	/r/seduction	17/04/14 01:14 AM
3	I'm successful with attractive women I don't actually "like". I'm unsuccessful with the ones I'd actually like a relationship with. Help? The big girls want sex and companionship as much as we do, and since they are not being approached they need to be more aggressive.	/r/seduction	17/04/14 01:11 AM
3	How to Flirt — Backed by Scientific Research link since OP doesn't know how to Reddit http://time.com/59786/how-to-flirt-backed-by-scientific-research/	/r/seduction	15/04/14 02:31 AM
2	Was hitting it off well, not sure what happened? Taking the hat was her way of testing how submissive he is, testing him to see if he is an alpha or beta, etc. Truth is, she probably thought he was cute at first and that's why she tried testing him. A shit test can be a type of IOI depending on the situation, but you still need to pass them. It wasn't necessarily over in the moment she took his hat, but due to how early it came up, it really fucked up his chances to re-frame and take control of the interaction when he didn't pass the shit test…	/r/seduction	14/04/14 04:20 AM
3	Specifics Don't Matter Banging some drunk Adirondack snowpig sloot at a bar and then bragging about it the next day to your buddies. Congratulations, you slept with an unattractive drunk girl. That takes no effort at all. High fives all around? I don't think we should be judging people on this forum. Your opinions about sex and what a woman wants are just that, your opinion. I know many women who value sex and are picky with whom they share that experience, and then I've met many other women who simply see sex as some…	/r/seduction	14/04/14 04:13 AM
2	[FR] Solid approach, yet downhill from there. No problem sir. "The point is to keep the ball in your court" Good luck.	/r/seduction	14/04/14 02:34 AM
5	Imagine the awkward silence during a conversation. What topics or facts would bring the conversation right back up? Silence isn't always bad, you can use it to create tension as others here have said. That said, I have some canned material in the notebook on my phone, usually just some interesting shit that happened during the past month or week (it's impossible to remember all the cool shit you've done/seen in the moment) and will casually pull out my phone and take a glance for an idea and put it away. She has no idea what I'm looking at, could be a text from a friend or another girl.	/r/seduction	14/04/14 01:51 AM
7	Was hitting it off well, not sure what happened? She took your hat. She wants to see how submissive you are. At that point, you can either say something like "Are you the hat thief?" Or tease her about being grabby hands. Or you can say "You can wear my hat but I'll have to hang on to some collateral." Or even "You can wear my hat but you'll have to give me your number." Yeah, her taking your hat was a shit test. You failed. :/ We all have, don't feel bad brother. Just dust yourself off and don't fail the next one.	/r/seduction	14/04/14 01:41 AM
3	[FR] Solid approach, yet downhill from there. It's impossible to get into her head as to why she decided what she decided, despite your very detailed post about the situation. I'll try to give some thoughts: 1: Owning the conversation in the comfort phase (the first date is almost always comfort stage) is not what you want to do. You only want to own the conversation during the opening and the initial demonstration of value (like 90% you to 10% her). Once you move into comfort building you want 50% to 50%, she needs to feel that you care ab…	/r/seduction	14/04/14 01:35 AM
1	I don't have much to work with, should I start approaching now, or get my life taken care of first? First lose some weight, look great, feel great. And work from there to approach girls http://i.imgur.com/swU3P7h.jpg	/r/seduction	14/04/14 12:44 AM
1	How to move in for a first kiss? It all depends on how well he has built up comfort and sexual tension before going in for the kiss. If he has done his job well enough beforehand, the kiss is easy, no matter the location or position. I think you're over thinking the situation (not being rude/dismissive, we all over think shit sometimes) by being concerned about being in a car or standing by her window or her door step. Definitely do what you can to be in a comfortable position for yourself, if given the opportunity, but kissing…	/r/seduction	10/04/14 11:42 PM
1	How to move in for a first kiss? Sure it does, the awkward distance between them because of the car allows it to be even more useful to ask her directly. If she wants to kiss you, she will kiss you if given the chance.	/r/seduction	10/04/14 10:35 PM
2	How to move in for a first kiss? I like Mystery's tactic. You: "Do you want me to kiss you?" Her possible reactions: Her: "Yes" You: kiss her Her: "Maybe" (or some variant thereof) You: "well let's see if you do" move in and kiss her Her: "No" You: "I didn't say you could kiss me, you just looked like something was on your mind" smile Obviously, no method is perfect, but this is an extremely simple and honest way to bring it up, while still giving you an out if you misread her. You need to feel her out beforehand tho, and ensur…	/r/seduction	10/04/14 04:06 PM