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My comments have been nothing but supportive of women and how they should not settle for LVM. Ever. Whatevs. I still support and will go out of my way for the young women in my life to NOT be "pick me's!" We need to support each other, period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:23 PM
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Really. Ok, whatev's. Unjoined the sub, but still support the sentiment. Don't settle, ladies. Whether you are 100 or 15. Things haven't changed all that much. You are always gonna find guys who want "mommies" who won't do a g dam thing for you but expect you to paint a wonderful life for them at your expense. Dont' do it.Paint your OWN picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:21 PM
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I unsubbed. Guess I'll just have to try to help her whatever way I can on my own. But just really disappointed I supported this sub. You have a lot to offer and I really was amazed by the support and emotional intelligence here. I guess it's not what I thought it was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:18 PM
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Yup. Look at my previous posts. My intention is that younger women than me don't fall for this low value shit. My niece is college educated and employed, living with some loser who sits and plays video games all day and she SUPPORTS him. I'm like, girl, go to FDS. PLEASE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:13 PM
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He's got a Mom. He can go to her. I love it how this girl says, "That's not my problem." She's not going to let him live there and live off her for months while he does nothing about leaving. (Like a MILLION freaking woman are doing who write on Reddit about "But if I move/ask him to leave, he has no where to gooooooooooo so I will feel baaad.") No. He cheated on you. He can leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:35 PM
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I wouldn't do that to another woman I was out with in a group. Would you? Years back, we had a "girl's night out" once a month with a few women from work. We couldn't all stay as long as others, but if one woman was like, 'I gotta head out.' another woman would walk with her to her car and leave at the same time. If YOU wouldn't do this to another human being, how do you think this is acceptable on any front? Obviously, this person did not care about your safety, no matter who contacted him. I'm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 01:57 AM
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My 26 year old niece who is a college grad in STEM with a high paying job has one of these losers living with her. He's early 30's, dropped out of college, behind on student loans, has only worked 2 part time jobs in his entire life (that he was fired from) and spends 24/7 playing video games. My niece pays all of their bills and takes care of everything. This dude sits on her couch all day because "he's made commitments to his gaming community and cannot possibly get a job which would take him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 01:29 AM
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I am not a gamer. I have nothing against playing video games IF: (And this is part of the reason I joined FDS) if it's moderation. Example 1 (Good): A guy I work with LOVES games. He would play 24/7 if he could. But he is married with two young children. So he has worked out an agreement with his wife that one night a week, after 9pm and the kids are in bed, he can play all he wants of his online games. His wife will not tolerate him if he jeopardizes his job/their marriage/and fair share of res…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 05:52 PM
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NOPE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 09:54 PM
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I have told people, if my marriage ever ends and I'm dating someone new, the FIRST thing i'll look at is his family. If they are f ing insane????? NOPE. The first ten years of my marriage were a farce. And I'm not proud I stuck around. It worked out for me in the end, but does not for a lot of women. Toxic ass manipulative people who want to suck the life out of you.............I don't care who you are or what you think about your self worth, NO ONE deserves to have their life sucked out of them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 09:42 PM
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This is REALLY good advice. Something I wish someone had told me when I married my husband 26 years ago. Our marriage is now solid and good but OMG the drama his trash family put us through for YEARS until he decided to go NC with them. I'll admit I put up with a bunch of crap back then I NEVER would now "because I loved him!" My husband turned into a really awesome person whom I love, admire, and respect. But that was because of me and my parents in his life. HIS parents were toxic a holes who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 08:30 PM
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Interesting fact, the director of that movie encouraged everyone on the set to basically mentally abuse and ignore Shelley Duvall to the n-th degree to get her state of mind to the point of being an abused wife. Stanley Kubrick had everyone ignore her like she didn't exist, pretend she didn't exist, to get her in the mindset of a totally abused person. There were interviews after where she said she was so excluded and ignored, like she wasn't a human being, that she almost lost it. Which made he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 12:54 AM
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Please don't think about "The Wall". This is a stupid concept. Because people live way past 30 and there is meaning to life beyond that. You will still be beautiful. I will tell you from experience that between 30 an 40 were the best years of my life, physically. At 30, I was way better looking than when I was 18. At 18, you are actually still growing and maturing. I was in the BEST shape at 30. I was more established in my life which meant I had more money for clothes, makeup, getting my hair d…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 02:48 PM
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I'm with you on the doing dishes thing. Our dishwasher went out and I was like, "We can't afford a new one now. I'll hand wash everything." 3 weeks later I was like, "This is a WASTE of my life." Talked to my Mom who was a house wife in the 70's and she agreed. WASTE OF TIME. Spend the couple of hundred bucks on a cheap one. It's worth the collective 'x' amount of hours you spend in a week washing f'ing dishes by hand. We both work full time, 40+ hours a week, and take care of elderly relatives …
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/20 12:36 AM
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I would not cheat. I have always been of the ilk that if you want something else, you finish up what is on your plate. My husband of 25 years has not always been the greatest. But I love him to the core of my being and would not lose 25 years of a relationship to a flirtation or a hope of something new. I guess this answer relies on where you are in life. Im not happy, I'm not unhappy. But wouldn't want to cheat before I made the choice to clean up the mess Im in before moving on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 05:55 PM
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Oh sweetheart! I cannot say I feel what you feel. I can only say that in my lifetime I have felt similar things. When I was young and could not afford children and thought I was pregnant I would PRAY not to be pregnant. Then when I wanted children and had miscarriages or could not get pregnant I would be super sensitive to life overall. I KNOW you would have done anything to keep your precious, precious baby. I'm a stranger and I know this. I have also heard that "if it's not meant to be, it's n…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/19 12:24 AM
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I'm so sorry. You need time to grieve. YOU ARE NOT MAKING A BIG DEAL ABOUT THIS. I'm telling you this. You need to grieve your loss. Just because "nothing" has changed outwardly to anyone else's life does not mean there is not a loss. You lost a child. Please also consider this: you have physical changes in your body right now due to hormones. This ADDS to the horrible emotional loss you have experienced. Please give your grief what it needs to get through this. I know you still have to function…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/19 12:57 AM
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I'm so sorry for what you are going thru. As someone who has had several miscarriages and wanted children with every cell in my body, I can say I understand on my level to what you are going through. There are no words in the English language that I can give you to convey how badly I feel for you or to describe what you are going through. Know that there are people out here who know how absolutely devastating this is and how this is not a small thing. There will always be a part of you who think…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/19 12:01 AM
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