coffeeaddict2300 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	Signs a guy is genuinely interested in you? Men are pretty simple - when they genuinely like you, it’s very obvious. They’ll be consistent with their behaviour (texting regularly, asking you on dates, etc). They will also prioritize you over other things and take every opportunity to spend time with you. If a guy is ever being inconsistent or says things like “I’m busy”, chances are he’s not interested. He’ll also be the first to bring up commitment if he’s seriously interested. If a man really wants you, he’ll want you off the dating mar…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/02/23 11:36 PM
2	How were you first introduced? Was introduced to TRP by a male friend… yes ik that’s against the rules but I’m glad he showed it to me. However, I was familiar with some of the ideas from before. My initial reaction was pretty bad, I really hated the way men of TRP were talking about women and I was super turned off. My friend also showed me RPW but I brushed it off as being the same type of stuff. A few months went by and I started reading RPW and found that the content really resonated with me as a conservative/trad woman. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/23 04:36 PM
1	Is it better to be hook-up material but not relationship material, or the other way around? I’m not speaking for most women, I’m speaking for conservative/trad women which are the minority now. RPW focuses on finding a man who can give you stability, commitment, shared values and security rather than a guy who’s just “sexually desirable”. I can’t picture chad being able to offer any of this. FDS is the group concerned with getting Chad’s commitment so maybe you got us mixed up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/23 01:45 PM
4	Is it better to be hook-up material but not relationship material, or the other way around? Not really. Personally I’ve encountered “chads” and I’ve never been into them. Sure they might be nice to look at and exciting at first. But their behaviour is unattractive, a serious girl doesn’t want a guy who sleeps around and parties all the time. A wifey material, conservative girl won’t give it up to chad - we’ll wait for a high value male who shares our values.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 07:17 PM
1	Im a woman who like traditional relationships with masculine and dominant men but there are simply not a lot of these types of men out there If there are no kids then that makes it even easier for the man to be a provider… less expenses 👍 And in regards to your second question, I’m sure a man can help out if he chooses to. Some household chores are more suitable for a man such as lawn care, shovelling, working on the car, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 05:04 PM
2	Im a woman who like traditional relationships with masculine and dominant men but there are simply not a lot of these types of men out there So what if a lady wants a provider type male? Women are naturally drawn to a man who can provide and protect them. In a traditional relationship a woman’s role is to take care of the kids and husband, clean, cook, chores, etc. That is in itself a full time job. I’ve met men who make less than me and are scared of gold diggers… like hun where’s the gold? Being a trad woman doesn’t make a woman lazy of a gold digger, it’s just the belief that traditional gender roles work well in a relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 04:32 PM
2	Is it better to be hook-up material but not relationship material, or the other way around? As a lady, I understand why being hookup material is more desirable for a man. You can get what you want from a woman with no effort. However, the ladies who are hooking up with you are easy and will do the same to any other guy deemed hook up worthy to them. A lot of men on here seem to value purity or low n count in a lady. Such women are looking for more than just a hookup material guy. In fact, hookups aren’t even a part of these women’s lives. But most guys on here seem to value quantity ov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/23 06:22 AM
2	How do you dress to the gym? My go-to gym fit is leggings, a sports bra with a BBL jacket on top. If it gets too hot, I usually unzip the jacket. I dress modestly on all other occasions but the gym is an exception… you’re sweating so it’s better to just wear something comfortable.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/23 11:33 PM
12	How are there enough high value men for all of the women who feel entitled to them? Every woman has her own definition of a "high-value" male, we are not all identical. We have different physical types, for example, my girlfriends and I would never fight over guy because we have different types, some of us like brown men, others like white men, some like Asian men and the list goes on. My friends even make fun of me for my "odd" taste sometimes. But it goes beyond the physical traits, most women want someone who shares their values, interests and views. IMO it's all about compa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/23 02:45 AM
3	A Red Pill Woman Would Probably Never Date a Red Pilled Man RPW actually actively recognizes the struggles of men and the red-pill “truths”. Besides, women have their own struggles too, it’s not like we’re living life on easy mode. If we were a bit more understanding of each other’s problems, relationships would be more successful. RP men are always scared of gold diggers or losing money to divorce and I’m sure there are women out there who want men for their money. Those women usually tend to live a luxurious lifestyle with high expectations financially…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 12:54 PM
6	A Red Pill Woman Would Probably Never Date a Red Pilled Man Well I’m very glad I got to read the locker room talk, it’s turned me into a much smarter lady 😉	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 03:48 AM
8	A Red Pill Woman Would Probably Never Date a Red Pilled Man A male friend of mine first introduced me to TRP and RPW a bit over a year ago and I was really turned off my TRP at first, seeing the way men talk about women on there made me never want to date again. For a minute, I almost started to believe that all men are trash 🥲 I didn’t even explore the RPW sub much because I assumed it was the same sort of stuff. A few months went by and I started browsing RPW and realized a lot of the ideas on there resonated with me and the women on there are supporti…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/23 12:06 AM
6	A Red Pill Woman Would Probably Never Date a Red Pilled Man I agree, couldn’t have said it better myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 11:15 PM
37	A Red Pill Woman Would Probably Never Date a Red Pilled Man As a red pill woman, I do agree with this to an extent. For the most part, the objectives of an RPW and RPM are different. RPW want a traditional life, marriage, commitment, a man who makes us feel comfortable in our femininity and overall treats us well. RPM, on the other hand, don’t wanna give commitment, are hesitant to get married/will get married “unofficially” and will often wanna sleep around on the side which doesn’t really go with a traditional lifestyle. I’m not saying all RPM are like…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/23 09:23 PM
7	What are some Red Pill talking points you're skeptical of? As good as it to recognize reality, most RP guys take it too far and are unable to form a deep relationship with a woman because they’re always thinking of ways she might do them wrong. They’d miss a good woman if she was right under their nose. I just wish RP men would stop being cynical and recognize that there are many good women out there. But we all have our own biases, this is just my POV about the RP guys.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/01/23 05:22 PM
15	What are some Red Pill talking points you're skeptical of? Again, not applicable to all women. Some women never even go through a party phase. That’s another issue with the red pill - generalizing their ideas to be applicable to every woman. I’m sure a lot of the women on here agree.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/01/23 04:18 PM
34	What are some Red Pill talking points you're skeptical of? “All women want Chad” Imo there’s nothing attractive about Chads. Many women want stability and security and will choose a good, emotionally mature guy over a “hot” guy who takes them on emotional rollercoasters and withholds commitment.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/01/23 12:53 PM
1	Women in their twenties: Would you be okay with a 10-year age gap? I’m 22 (turning 23) and don’t see a problem with dating/marrying a guy in his early to mid-30s if he has young, fun vibes and can keep up with my youthful energy. If I was younger (late teens or 20-21), I’d feel more weird about the age gap and see the guy as a predator. The brain develops a lot more into the mid 20s so even though 18-19 year olds are “adults”, they are more vulnerable so an age gap relationship at that age can be risky. Older guys have the appeal of being more established and r…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/23 02:20 PM
1	How the actual heck do you walk in high heels I’m 5’7 so I’ve always felt hesitant to wear heels and become super tall. I do wear heels occasionally for special occasions, however, I stick to kitten heels or maximum 2.5 inch heels. The smaller the heel, the more manageable it is to walk in. I also recommend investing in higher quality heels, I find the Clark’s brand to be the most comfortable but I’m sure there are other comfy brands out there too.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/01/23 03:32 PM
2	The Value of Sex Women are the gatekeepers of sex and it’s our most important power in a relationship. As a woman, I see how hurtful it could be to a guy if we gave up easy to someone else in the past but made him wait. To a lot of guys this can feel like we’re not seeing him as hookup material and may not be as attracted to him. As a woman, the most logical thing to do is gatekeep sex for every man in the same way. Don’t give it up for chad for one night of fun. Wait for the most amazing guy who’s actually wort…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 03:43 AM
8	Being labeled as husband material is insult for most guys I think it’s still an L for a guy to not be husband material. Not all women are into casual sex and some of these casual sex material guys do want a good wife eventually. Wifey material women aren’t at the club hooking up with chad. Personally, I wouldn’t be with a guy who was a man whore, I prefer someone who values sex in the same way that I do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/23 03:57 PM
1	Women, why do you want to work? I’m a pretty traditional and conservative woman. I would want my future husband to be the main provider in the family, however, I’m not against the idea of women working. I currently have a job and I enjoy going to work, it gives me a purpose and I love interacting with people. These are my reasons for working. If I do get married to a provider man (the only type of man I would consider marrying) and I start my own family, then having a full-time job might be too much to handle. Think about it -…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 11:59 PM
1	Cheating by men can be done in a way to have zero PRACTICAL sacrifices with the relationship To some women, loyalty is the most important trait. Without loyalty, trust and mutual understanding, a relationship is worthless. If a man lacks this one basic quality, he is already not worthy of a relationship to some women. I understand there may be some women who can accept this in a relationship and those women may simply not love their man as much as they should. If you're not jealous of the idea of your man with another woman, then your feelings for him are questionable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/22 01:38 AM
2	You don’t have to kiss on the first date, have sex, or anything. Don’t force it As a woman, it’s nice not to be kissed right away on a first date. However, it is nice if a man establishes his attraction to you… that could be subtle touches, holding hands, etc. But if the chemistry is right and the girl is willing, there’s no problem with going in for a kiss. Just be cautious because if it’s done too soon, it shows the girl that you’re only interested in something temporary.	/r/seduction	24/10/22 08:41 PM
6	Cheating by men can be done in a way to have zero PRACTICAL sacrifices with the relationship Any woman who stays with a man after he cheats has low self-esteem and thinks she can’t do any better. Today’s women need to hold men to higher moral standards and not accept shitty behaviour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 04:44 PM
2	[Question4All] would you date someone who doesnt match your vaccine status? Since there are so many vaccinated people these days, you end up with a small dating pool if you only date unvaccinated people. So I wouldn't completely discount dating a vaccinated guy but I'd prefer for him to share my views. We wouldn't get along if I have strong opinions about the vax and he supports it. Just as with other political issues, it is preferable to have shared views.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/22 02:53 AM