coffeelivesmatter Archive

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5	Why it's rarely a good idea to approach men first...9 out of 10, if they didn't notice you first, your advances won't be welcome I’ve met some of my best guy friends through my girlfriends shooting their shot and only a friendship coming out of it. I’ve also met some guy friends through them shooting their shot. Ive met a lot of nice guys by just talking to them at bars. Shoot your shot and talk to people. Never know what types of interesting people you might meet and you never know what type of relationship might blossom. If you don’t want to shoot your shot, that’s fine. Just gotta do what feels right to YOU though.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/19 02:15 AM
1	Given That The Risks of Sex are WAY Higher and the Rewards WAY Lower for Women - a Man must bring something else to the table to level the playing field. I definitely joined the wrong sub then because I definitely thought this was a sub about taking charge of your dating life and sexuality so you could enjoy your encounters. I’m huge on equality between men and women, and I’m huge on treating people how you want to be treated. So if I want to be treated with respect, that’s what I’m giving out. I refuse to believe I’m greater than any man or woman. Because none of us are. No one exists on purpose and no is perfect. Enjoy life. Enjoy your bodies. …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/19 12:18 AM
1	Given That The Risks of Sex are WAY Higher and the Rewards WAY Lower for Women - a Man must bring something else to the table to level the playing field. Are we talking about actual men in real life situations or the rat dicks in office because fuck the men office. No one likes them, not even their own wives. But I’m not out there fucking with them and I doubt you are either. I’m talking about men that we all are more than likely fucking swiping right on Tinder and allowing them to buy us drinks at bars. The only reason why I’ve had a man oppress me is because I allowed him to be in my life and do so. That’s called being an adult and owning up to…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/19 12:05 AM
1	Given That The Risks of Sex are WAY Higher and the Rewards WAY Lower for Women - a Man must bring something else to the table to level the playing field. Nah. I’m just not bitter and understand that a lot men aren’t asshats and are, in fact, human fucking beings. You get burned by a few rat dicks and now all of a sudden all men suck. Maybe empower women to do what they want with their bodies. Educate people about safe sex. Encourage people to set healthy boundaries. Maybe share reading material that people could read that helps them realize red flags early on with bad guys. Encourage people to practice healthy and safe sex. I mean, sex is pretty …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/19 11:56 PM
5	Given That The Risks of Sex are WAY Higher and the Rewards WAY Lower for Women - a Man must bring something else to the table to level the playing field. I’m not low key shading anyone. If women are feeling that bad about themselves, that’s usually due to some insecurities that need to be addressed. As someone who used to not enjoy showing her natural skin, that was an insecurity I had to face and conquer myself. And, there are quite a few cases where women ignore some huge red flags and actually just pick awful men. I’m one of them. And then it’s an awful process just trying to leave the relationship. And guess what? That’s my fault. I chose wro…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/19 11:46 PM
7	Given That The Risks of Sex are WAY Higher and the Rewards WAY Lower for Women - a Man must bring something else to the table to level the playing field. Lol How is me saying I couldn’t imagine going into a situation thinking I’m better than another person beating myself up? I’m going into those situations thinking I’m equal to that person because I enjoy who I am and am confident in myself. Y’all sleeping with fuck boys because not all men think they are superior and there are men who want to please and focus on the women in these situations. I’ve come across men who think they are God’s gift to women and I’ve come across men who treat women lik…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/19 11:34 PM
3	Why it's rarely a good idea to approach men first...9 out of 10, if they didn't notice you first, your advances won't be welcome Yeah! You’re right.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/19 10:17 PM
31	Why it's rarely a good idea to approach men first...9 out of 10, if they didn't notice you first, your advances won't be welcome Shoot your shot. Not everyone is going to like you, and that’s okay. At least you had the courage to try and see. What if you end up with the love of your life? What if you end up having really awesome sex? What you end up meeting another amazing human being and becoming friends?! You never know unless you shoot your shot!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/19 09:08 PM
1	Given That The Risks of Sex are WAY Higher and the Rewards WAY Lower for Women - a Man must bring something else to the table to level the playing field. You have to do what feels right for yourself. I honestly am upset that I even went to the first appt. My state requires two visits. I should have just called my parents or my cousin to come to me that day. But I believe everything happens for a reason so I had to go through all of that to realize “fuck this shit” and what I really deserve in life and in a partner. I should have realized it a long time ago but being pregnant and losing the baby just completely changed my outlook on so much. I’m h…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/19 06:00 PM
4	Given That The Risks of Sex are WAY Higher and the Rewards WAY Lower for Women - a Man must bring something else to the table to level the playing field. Lol. Girl I’m doing the same! I’m having to start over, which is fine, but like lemme enjoy some men and get my crap together, lol. And it wasn’t good for either of us but it was mentally, emotionally, and a bit physically abusive. I was dealing a miscarriage and being told “what’s the point of being with you if you can’t have kids.” (This was also after he tried to force me into an abortion right after we found out about the pregnancy). And a week later there a was a fight, I got punched in the…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/19 05:32 PM
6	Given That The Risks of Sex are WAY Higher and the Rewards WAY Lower for Women - a Man must bring something else to the table to level the playing field. I will hype my girls the fuck up. Oh you getting some?! You go, boo! Give me your location so I can keep track just in case you need me. Oh you wanna be in a relationship? Baby girl, you ride it until you don’t want to anymore or ride it forever! But I’ll also be a wing man for the guys that really are just friends. And you’re right. What happens behind closed doors (your life) is your business. As long as you aren’t out there murdering puppies and drop kicking babies, I don’t see how your sexua…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/19 05:11 PM
6	Given That The Risks of Sex are WAY Higher and the Rewards WAY Lower for Women - a Man must bring something else to the table to level the playing field. Of course!! Like before the relationship, I was fairly comfortable in my own skin. I’m just not very big on people touching me unless I really enjoy them. My mom even knows when to hug me and when not to hug me, it’s just me as a person. I just couldn’t imagine going into a date, casual hook up, relationship with the idea that I’m the greater sex. I, personally, think that when it comes to sex it’s a mutual thing. You’re both there for a common thing that’s enjoyable for the both of you. Yeah, s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/19 04:35 PM
20	Given That The Risks of Sex are WAY Higher and the Rewards WAY Lower for Women - a Man must bring something else to the table to level the playing field. My ex would privately shame women for having quite a few sexual partners and I hated it. I personally don’t see anything wrong with it, I’m just awkward as hell so I don’t have much a body count, which is also fine. I just believe it’s okay to treat your body how you want. Dress how you want, have sex as often as you want, decorate your temple how you want. I’m going to hell for worse things than having sex but I’m also bit more of a hedonist in my beliefs. Shouldn’t we encourage women to be com…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/19 04:07 PM
2	Given That The Risks of Sex are WAY Higher and the Rewards WAY Lower for Women - a Man must bring something else to the table to level the playing field. Side note, I LOVE YOUR USERNAME	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/19 03:04 PM
28	Given That The Risks of Sex are WAY Higher and the Rewards WAY Lower for Women - a Man must bring something else to the table to level the playing field. Same. I just got out of a 6 year relationship that wasn’t great for either party. Sex was amazing but I feel like me taking control of myself sexually is powerful in itself. If I want to have sex, freaking awesome. If not, cool, I definitely can take care of myself and then catch up on some Netflix. Is there a reason why we can’t feel empowered and be in control of our sex life? Every woman I know that enjoy sex are incredibly safe and smart about it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/19 03:03 PM
7	You really 100% truly cannot tell what a man’s character is until you’ve said ‘no’ to something he wants. This is so so so true.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/19 03:17 PM