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| 88 | Don't ask for permission, make suggestions insteadThis is fine when you're starting out because generally guys are too timid rather than too bold but as you develop your seduction skills you'll find that there's nothing wrong with asking a girl if she's free on a certain day. If she's into you and the rest of your game is on point, she won't refuse a date just because you asked instead of suggesting. | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 10:53 PM |
| 2 | What to do if you enthusiastically explain what you love doing and she says 'Do not take it as personal/offense but I don't care'Depending on how you talked about it, it could have put her off. Just because you find computer software interesting doesn't mean others will. If this happens consistently then there's a problem with how you're talking about it. Do you have any examples of a word by word conversation you've had that ended like this? | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 04:23 AM |
| 5 | I feel needy when pursuing womenThat's because you're putting her on a pedestal. Hoping she'll like you? Agree to give you her number? She's a person dude, you interact with people all the time every day. Shes not some special princess that you need to please. You gotta decide if YOU like THEM. You see someone you like, strike up a conversation, if they react well say you'd like to see them again and ask for a number. Get to know them a bit and see if they're someone you want to date. | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 09:04 PM |
| 2 | The simplest way to pass a shit test.Dude you are projecting hardcore. | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 05:58 PM |
| 30 | Had a fun conversation with a gorgeous girl at the gym unintentionallyMaking observations about things going on around you is something /u/recyclablebanthas talks about all the time, and he's got great ideas on game in general. Kudos to using the natural connection methods available to us, not a lot of guys get that into their heads. | /r/seduction | 28/03/19 06:30 AM |
| 2 | My dudes. Back me up here. Wtf is going on. I asked this girl to hang and this is what's currently happening :She's literally blacked out bro. | /r/seduction | 23/03/19 02:24 AM |
| 1 | She doesn’t kiss on a first date but...They don't contradict each other at all. She's interested in a serious relationship. | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 07:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you balance vulnerability and confidence?We'll have to agree to disagree I guess, but I do know what im talking about. | /r/seduction | 18/03/19 04:20 AM |
| 2 | How do you balance vulnerability and confidence?This is wrong. You can be vulnerable and strong simultaneously. | /r/seduction | 18/03/19 03:58 AM |
| 1 | I was too needy after sex, got LJBFDude, she flat out rejected you when she said ljbf. Move on. | /r/seduction | 17/03/19 06:37 PM |
| 3 | I was too needy after sex, got LJBFMove on, she already rejected you. You two have different dating goals. | /r/seduction | 17/03/19 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Was this betaish or good? Context — we went on a day one, she clearly likes me, we were gonna meet tonight and previous conversations suggested we would meet near my place, but she was crunched for time and half played dumb to meet me elsewhere an hour late so she wouldn’t have to go as far.You're over texting. Look how much green there is and how much white there is. You sent her more texts than she sent words, chill out. | /r/seduction | 14/03/19 07:11 PM |
| 7 | How to get into any strangers group in 12 StepsSocializing is different than playing video games. This is going to come off as tone deaf and uncalibrated 99% of the time. | /r/seduction | 13/03/19 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Virgins are demonised, yet apparently most men can't get laid?Cool it with the insults buddy. You take your anecdotal experiences and then imply that your assertions apply to the vast majority of women. | /r/seduction | 12/03/19 11:23 PM |
| 2 | How To Build Sexual Tension With WomenThat isn't what he's saying though. He's saying that manipulating people into being interested in you will end up in you screening out people who aren't interested in manipulative mind games. | /r/seduction | 11/03/19 07:10 PM |
| 5 | Virgins are demonised, yet apparently most men can't get laid?The idea that this describes all women is patently false. | /r/seduction | 11/03/19 06:48 PM |
| 11 | I become 'too nice' around girls I'm attracted to.You're overthinking this. You have a latent fear that who you really are isn't good enough for the people you're interested in and suppress parts of yourself to avoid rejection. Thing is, if you suppress parts of your personality you'll come across as boring and one dimensional. Do you really want to date someone you have to put on a constant performance for? | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 06:00 PM |
| 2 | How to game as a beginner with GOD AWFUL logistics?I would focus on getting a car. | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Alright /r/seduction, Fate has left me with three dates in three days this week. 2 months out of a LTR and tips or pointers would be appreciated.You say you don't have any expectations but you're tripping out over first dates with chicks from the internet. Also, nothing wrong with fantasy and sci-fi. | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Should I put any effort into a girl that I don't know well?Ask her on a date and you'll know instantly if she's into you or not. You can't build attraction through text. People don't develop emotional connections through pixels on a screen. | /r/seduction | 08/03/19 03:15 PM |
| 9 | Con fucking fused...It sounds like she likes the attention you give her but isn't interested in moving things further. I'd date other women. | /r/seduction | 06/03/19 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Advice for a freshman?Yeah well you're an adult, not a child. If you want to change something, change it. | /r/seduction | 05/03/19 08:22 PM |
| 4 | Advice for a freshman?This bro. You're a literal child. Focus on yourself and you'll find another chick soon | /r/seduction | 05/03/19 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Don't Take Dating Advice from WomenWoah a little heated? Psychology isn't a pseudo-science, it's a social science. | /r/seduction | 05/03/19 12:18 AM |
| 2 | I have a theory that the dating world is beyond fucked and it’s only getting exponentially worse."The second you slip up, she’s gone to the next guy who’s taller, has bigger muscles, and makes more money." This a toxic, limiting belief. If you believe this about women then you end up subconsciously screening out women who are not like this. Most relationships you'll ever have in your life don't last forever, and worrying about someone in your life leaving you because you don't measure up just screams insecurity. "I predict that because of this, monogamy will be dead in under 50 years and th… | /r/seduction | 05/03/19 12:08 AM |
| 2 | I want a girlfriend. Is this bad for seduction/building attraction?The process is the same, the screening is different. The girlfriend you want has certain traits, certain hobbies, it's your job to find a way to screen for girls with those traits. For example, if you're looking for someone who's an adventurous eater, suggest an unorthodox restaurant as a date to see if she's down. Other than that, the same stuff still applies i.e. physical escalation, eye contact, conversation threading etc | /r/seduction | 27/02/19 06:40 PM |
| 8 | "Boyfriend Material"Girl who asks you about your abs, your lifts, and your dick is a thot? Color me surprised | /r/seduction | 27/02/19 01:50 AM |
| 2 | What Do You Guys Think About This Method of Getting Girls to Buy You Drinks?Uh dude if you want to know whether or not it works the only way is to field test it. I can tell you right now that it won't work though. Your third "line" is basically a paragraph and it doesn't show her that you're worth it, you're just telling her "hey I'm trying really hard to stand out". Seriously man, field test before you speculate. | /r/seduction | 26/02/19 06:15 PM |
| 2 | How do you interpret mixed signals?You seem really insecure. You spent the majority of this post writing about how awesome you are and how she doesnt do stuff for other ppl that she does with you, trying to convince us that you're a special dude. How should she respond to "you're hard to read"? If anything it seems like you're the one who isn't interested (going on tinder during a date, approaching a girl you don't know on the same date). | /r/seduction | 26/02/19 04:53 PM |
| 12 | Girl called me bro?A girl opens you, talks to you, gets your contact, invites you to a party, and you're agonizing over whether or not she likes you because she used the word "bro"? Are you for real? | /r/seduction | 26/02/19 04:44 PM |
| 5 | I know I'm being a dick here, but we should not be posting and celebrating failed approaches just because it made you "get out of your comfort zone""Remember, it's better to not approach and not embarrass yourself than to force it." This is absolutely not true. When you're starting out, approaching and embarrassing yourself is infinitely better than taking no action at all. You talk about building yourself up socially, and embarrassing yourself once or twice is exactly how you do that. | /r/seduction | 26/02/19 12:28 AM |
| 9 | Bait and switch successThis is sleazy and manipulative. This isn't game, it's just a trick. | /r/seduction | 25/02/19 02:13 AM |
| 7 | Not ready for a relationship, and the girls move on. How do I not let it hurt my confidence?You're telling women you don't want something serious and you're wondering why your relationships with them aren't anything serious? | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 04:59 AM |
| 14 | Just found out my girl of over 5 years cheated on me a long time ago.Not worth the gory details. Remove unloyal people from your life. | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 10:00 AM |
| 3 | Develop your social skills before your seduction skills."Why do I have to be social to meet girls?" Wew lad | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 10:33 PM |
| 2 | I don't know what I want in a relationshipIf you're having trouble forming a connection, you're either closed off or haven't met enough people. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 07:40 PM |
| 7 | Two dates in a row blocked my number after the dates?Don't ask a girl if you can kiss her. Just kiss her. | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 07:38 PM |
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