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| 10 | How Old Were You When You Learned the Bad Men Weren't an Extreme Minority?Yep! 32 this year & also waking up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:10 AM |
| 21 | “Abundance mentality” doesn’t always have to mean dating multiple people at once. It can also mean having a single life that meets your needs.Well and I would like to see the gender results split. My hypothesis would be that in hetero couples, the men get more out of their relationship support psychologically than women, but I’d like to see that data and see if there is a difference between male and female results on that. My female friends are almost always better psychological support than male friends, so I definitely have always felt on a more even keel being single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:48 AM |
| 3 | Lol this guy’s funny, I want guys who are at least 6’2 and are very well-educated and between the ages of 24-28. I don’t care about quantity of matches lmaoThat’s great to hear! Yeah maybe I’m just in a more rural city :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 03:27 AM |
| 8 | Lol this guy’s funny, I want guys who are at least 6’2 and are very well-educated and between the ages of 24-28. I don’t care about quantity of matches lmaoNot a critique of your preferences, but I’m curious if you still find matches in your area at all - like do you live in the Netherlands? Average height for men in my area is like 5’9”. I’m nearly 5’10” and it is rare AF to find single men over 6’2” (and HVM I would want to date? Nada). Literally like 60% of men on dating apps are shorter than me as-is, so I kinda just stay strict on the “taller than me” and other criteria lol. I mean right now I’m off them entirely, but thinking maybe I should m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 02:07 AM |
| 7 | “Women who create things other than children are still considered dangerous by many.” — Literary Witches, Pam GrossmanI’ve come across some tips and advice on this but still struggle at that (having to completely deconstruct my identity as I was basically raised as the boy my dad didn’t have). Do you have any suggestions/pointers/resources on channelling the divine feminine energy within? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 06:37 PM |
| 12 | American dating style?I mean I can’t speak to everyone but I live for psychological discussions and better understanding of LVM/NVM psychology. If we don’t discuss this, does FDS not become superficial? I think it speaks to the quality of women/women-identifying individuals on here who are so lovely and intelligent but lack understanding of the way others of less intellect/empathy think, because it’s very common to conceive of other’s actions through our own lens “I would never do that unless I felt x way, so that mu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:10 PM |
| 3 | "This is the fifth and last time..."I’ll check that out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:42 PM |
| 3 | "This is the fifth and last time..."TY! 2nd one worked hahah :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:41 PM |
| 5 | "This is the fifth and last time..."Not available in Canada :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 04:33 AM |
| 8 | Can’t believe kids are going to grow thinking bruises like this are okay.And that’s on having self-esteem issues. Any other accidental bruise and you might be embarassed, but to display the bruises like a trophy? That’s a mental health issue - seeking validation of value in the form of sexual desirability presented through marks of sexual abuse. I hope she seeks help and recognizes that allowing a man to treat you like that does not make you a hot commodity. Edit: To be clear, not excusing the abuser on this one. But the mentality to sharing/endorsing this abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:22 AM |
| 25 | What’s with men and their “homie” talkIt’s the whole package. The absurdly casual dress, foul language, casual jargon, and lack of courtesy on a first date - when they should be pulling out all the stops! If I’m dressing up and conducting myself like Hedy Lamarr, I expect someone to bring the class of Jimmy Stewart to the table. Not saying people should never swear, but if men aren’t trying to impress you off the bat, what does that say about them and the effort they put into life? What does that say about their interest in you? If … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:11 PM |
| 10 | AOC represents the future of America: women who refuse to be silenced | Arwa MahdawiAlso terms like “fiery” and “rambunctious” as applied to a latinx person seem racist in origin in and of themselves, playing on the racist stereotype of latina women as hot-headed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 01:57 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else bad at reading off PDFsOh, you mean another woman’s trash, complete with a motorized imaginary penis extension? What’s not to love? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 10:48 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else bad at reading off PDFsDoing the Goddess’s work. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 10:05 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else bad at reading off PDFsWith a giant vulva pls? 😜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 10:03 PM |
| 8 | Anyone else bad at reading off PDFsOh yeah LVM are 100% everywhere. I just think I need to move abroad to find people who are less....country? And I live in a huge market for these kind of guys, but alas, not my market. My parents have been telling me this since I was little, they always saw me moving away. Like a ton of women fricken would die for a husky Canuck guy, but I moved to the Southern Hemisphere a few years ago for a couple of years and felt more at home outside of Canada than I’ve ever felt here. I’m itching to do tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 10:00 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else bad at reading off PDFsSometimes I think half of FDS is just women from our location, sick of the b/s from men here hahahah 😂😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 09:53 PM |
| 35 | Anyone else bad at reading off PDFsHaha some are pretty culturally specific, and specific to me, so I don’t know if it would be to the benefit of the group. I have shared a few insights from my other account though :) I guess the latest me-specific advice he gave is that in terms of dating is that because I’ve been single for years, I know myself really well, extremely independent, and now in my 30s wanting a companion, I really need to move where the men I’m interested in would live and get out more to places they would hang. I’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 06:40 PM |
| 185 | Anyone else bad at reading off PDFsI love how professional this looks! I really want to do this, but like also edit it with my own notes and dad’s pro-tips on men and then condense it into a pocket sized novel for my purse to take with me on dates and re-review in the bathroom while I hype myself up to be ruthless. 😂 Also I’d print with some unassuming cover so if it was ever discovered by a LVM, he would never open “101 fun ways to deal with menstrual cramps” (with a giant vulva on the front) or something like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Here is the follow up to my post from last nightI do know a “Maybe” Corey here, haha. Luckily it’s not the same guy - sounds like this one deserved it, 110%. I’m off dating apps these days due to these assholes. Amazing work!! 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Here is the follow up to my post from last nightWe need to do a virtual meetup or something sometime haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 10:58 AM |
| 3 | Here is the follow up to my post from last nightYep, it’s bad here. I have enough horror stories I’m working on a book of the funniest/worst ones! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 10:57 AM |
| 16 | He was 30 minutes late to a screening phone call. Tell me I'm not crazy?Oh gawd if I listened to my mom every time she gave me dating advice I’d probably be married to a man who refused to wear socks. Moms just want you to be married so you can provide grandkids. Mein gott - this guy didn’t even like shoes. Like indoors, in public, at a musical, barefooted. 😱And his dirty talk was neighing in my ear and calling me a little minx. 🤢🤮 In my defense, he WAS packing a lunchbox. There are a lot of things one temporarily overlooks with a tackle box like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Don't learn the hard way, ladies. 🤦🏻♀️I can really only go off profiles, as I don’t think I have enough of a sample size to make an accurate assessment from quality in chatting. But I will note that I also live in a honky city in Canada, so I feel like anyone that isn’t a white redneck stands out in stark contrast also, so this might be limited to my region. So yes you could be right on that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 11:38 PM |
| 16 | Don't learn the hard way, ladies. 🤦🏻♀️Googling him = important; Googling his behaviour = dump his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 01:10 PM |
| 11 | Don't learn the hard way, ladies. 🤦🏻♀️Your comment on white men - I’d love to hear more! I have a theory that I feel can be validated by every dating app in my area but they literally put in the least effort and I think most white men have some form of egoism from privilege because they seem to overestimate themselves on the dating market where I live. It manifests as shitty photos, no effort bios, ugly men demanding 10/10s, whereas the best bios are always the creation of non-white men. E.g. Asian men who have amazing clever bios, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 01:06 PM |
| 8 | He clearly thinks he can convince her to let him “hit it and quit it” 🙄This really gave me pause for thought. I used to use the term “making love” and would get scoffed at but I think I’m going to bring it back because really I want to normalize sex within a loving relationship only. I feel like the assholes will just filter themselves out based on how they react to that term. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 05:27 AM |
| 13 | My boyfriend just posted this on his instagram story, thoughts?Men are loveliest when sex is on the menu unfortunately, but the most honest/lucid right afterwards. Judge a man by how he acts after sex, not before. You will find love again and hopefully with a guy who does respect you. The longer you stay the more self-loathing you’re going to have to tally up and contend with at the end of this, in my humble experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 03:20 AM |
| 13 | My boyfriend just posted this on his instagram story, thoughts?You’re not being sensitive at. all. Imagine if the tables were turned, how do you think he would react if you had posted something similar about fondling men’s balls or something? His actions were disrespectful and not conducive to fostering a healthy relationship, plain and simple. Don’t gaslight or minimize yourself, plenty of men out there will do that for you, for free! Lol Also if he’s intentionally posting this so you wouldn’t see, this raises all sorts of alarm bells for me. Sounds like h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Apparently I'm "anti-feminist" now 🤧😒Holy crabcakes. Reminds me of the last time I reported a man on Hinge - he had the gall to tell me I was “mansplaining” to him suggesting that his profile sounded like he was going to commit suicide because it said “I won’t be around by this time next year”. I wasn’t interested, but thought I’d offer friendly advice. Mistake. I said “women can’t mansplain...” and he wrote - “you just did it now!”. These idiots don’t even know words, so don’t sweat the “anti-feminist” - jeez what a total amadán (… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Safety: how many of you own a gun?Canadian here - nope, they’re illegal here. But I have bear spray, a swiss army knife, and a cricket bat, if that counts? Going into the woods you should always have a solid bear spray for cougars and the grizz. I feel like if it’ll take down a bear, it’s good enough for an assailant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Another gem found on bumble.Omg the only thing worse than this selfie is the fact that he would be slightly above-average for both class and looks compared to guys in my area, based off this photo..... WHICH SAYS A LOT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 06:34 AM |
| 8 | What’s with the trend of very attractive women being single compared to average women?This is the most on-point answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/20 02:42 PM |
| 3 | I think FDS will hit 100k members before the year is overYep! True for me, and been sharing with my friends and friends of friends that have vented to me about men since I joined. The larger the club gets, the more we SHUT. IT. DOWN for LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 06:37 AM |
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