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cok9/r/askMRP19/07/24 03:12 PM
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Agreeed. Wish I knew that years ago
/r/askMRP20/07/24 03:13 PM
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your nose is broken
/r/askMRP19/07/24 10:40 PM
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Yes at the same time thinking marriage would fix the problems we have.
/r/askMRP19/07/24 10:30 PM
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Yeah. And at same time thinking being married will fix the issues we have….
/r/askMRP19/07/24 10:29 PM
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I was weak. Had zero frame or backbone. Couldn’t see the reality of the situation I was getting into. Had terrible past relationships this was “better”. Mainly I was weak as fuck beta who thought I couldn’t do better.
/r/askMRP19/07/24 10:26 PM
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She's on it already has been for a while. I really think this is more of a mental issue/blobk than what I'm doing but I also know I'm a part one way or another.
/r/askMRP19/07/24 08:36 PM
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This is the 2nd time I've posted in MRP or ASKMRP but I've been here a while working. Not as consistent as I should and that's on me and my failures. I'm by no means an expert and I struggle with defaulting to some beta shit. NMMNG x2, MMSLP, MAP, TRM, TWOTSM, currently reading Good & Angry (not a sidebar but a good book regardless) 33, 210lbs 15% BF, BP 285 SQ 315 DL 405 I know where I'm failing in some aspects. Keeping my frame, STFU, DEERing, failing shit tests, all of these occur much less t…
/r/askMRP19/07/24 08:33 PM
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Thanks for the advice. Much appreciated.
/r/askMRP19/07/24 05:41 PM
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If this was the answer then I wouldn't be writing this post. Been there done this and she shuts down. You're right though showing her I want her hasn't real high on my priority list at this, seeing as how it ends with the above outcome, she wants me, but doesn't want to satisfy me.
/r/askMRP19/07/24 05:38 PM
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To add some context, I've never had this issue with any other woman I've slept with. This has been a thing with her from the beginning. It's gotten slightly better over time, she's at least initiating now, but 8 years of patience and I'm at my limit with not being satisfied.
/r/askMRP19/07/24 04:38 PM
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I have taught her. That's the thing I've shown, taught, told, helped. Still get a selfish starfish.
/r/askMRP19/07/24 04:36 PM
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Thanks, I've tried a lot of this seems to shut her down more than open her up. She's got a lot of shame around sex. Didn't even masturbate until she was 29 yrs old. It's been a long arduous road that's gotten better but not even close to what I want/need.
/r/askMRP19/07/24 04:34 PM
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To answer your questions, Yes it has. I put her needs above mine, as a weak beta I was very apprehensive about marrying her. I've read it. Implemented some, not consistently, didn't make a difference. My fault, for not fully committing and implementing 100%. Time to refresh memory and get back on it to actually see if it will make a difference.
/r/askMRP19/07/24 04:31 PM
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Understood. I guess I don’t know what your goals are but I do know that in order to build your body you have to feed it. If you’re cutting now with a plan to build, then you’re on track with the little info I have.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/21 03:45 AM
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Not sure what diet method you are using but ensure that when upping your calories it is clean food not extra peanut butter etc. You're almost doubling and that's hard on your body, until your metabolism catches up to burn it. Try it for a week consistently and you'll see a bit of weight gain initially then the metabolism will catch up and start burning more. Not sure what diet method you are using but ensure that when upping your calories it is clean food not extra peanut butter etc. You're almo…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/21 09:15 PM
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We’re on vacation this week, so I’ll go over the obligatory discussion of the vacation-means-sex covert contract. I don’t expect anything. I’ll initiate when I feel like it, just like any other day. The belief that beta bucks tricks are a ticket to fucking has been broken. Sure, it still comes to mind frequently, but I’m catching it quickly. I have a vacation coming up and needed to read this. I've been expecting sex since booking it months ago. Reading this just reframed my mindset and is going…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/21 08:47 PM
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Fair analysis, not the sole intent I have but none the less I see your point. Thanks I'll get to reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/21 05:29 PM
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Literally brand new so I am sure I've missed a lot. It's a lot to digest, internalize and learn. Help me out and point out what main basics I've missed that you think I need to absolutely address immediately.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/21 03:53 PM
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NVM about the DEER found it in the sidebar
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/21 03:46 PM
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It’s centered on my wife because that’s been my life for years and I’m trying to break that from being my center and have yet to change my language and internalize everything I am learning. I’m working on it. Regardless of how my marriage ends up I do not want to continue living like a conditioned beta bitch. I admit fully I’m fucked up and still learning a lot. I can read all day and until I get real feedback and start understanding through blatant honesty from others I won’t know shit. I appre…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/21 02:58 PM
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Needed that. Thank you. I’m new at this shit and yeah I’m a fucking mess. Making NMMNG the priority read. Was introduced to the red pill by TRM didn't even know what I was specifically getting into just looking for help and have finished 90% of the book before even finding this sub. Haven't really started much into TWOTSM so easy enough to drop it until later. I haven't totally internalized it all, still working to change my mindset. Still learning. I might have posted to early for you but fuck …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/21 02:24 PM
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OYS 1 New here so tear me apart if I fuck this up. Stats: 30, Married 2 years, together for 5.5 5’10 - 195 BF 12% Lifts: BP - 225x8 DL - 315x8 Squat 225x12 OHP -135x10 I don’t lift super heavy due to multiple joint injuries. These numbers keep me healthy and without further injury but I will be pushing them up safely. Diet: Scripted meal plan from trainer- hitting 90% of my food goals 3000+ calories and not bullshit snacking or sweets. Reading: The Rational Male NMMNG The Way of the Superior Man…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/21 11:57 AM
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