col_carillo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Do Not Rescue A Damsel In Distress		col_carillo	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/18 10:43 AM

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1	Daughter won't stop going to criminal Depends on your relationship with the girl. If you've always been the "cool uncle" that she grew up with and respects and trusts, then you might be able to convince her this guy is bad news. OTOH, if you're just a friend of her mom's and she doesn't really think of you as anything other than that, then following her around and giving her dating advice is going to come off creepy and pervy. IMHO, if you're just doing it for the money, don't do it. If you fail and the daughter keeps dating this gu…	/r/askTRP	08/09/18 08:54 AM
1	She knows how to dance, I don't, stuck with her for a few days, FUCK. Find something more interesting for both of you to do. When you plan dates with girls, you don't take them places where you suck and come off poorly. You take them places where you can show how amazing you are. If you're really good at dancing, you take them dancing. If you're really good at horseback riding, you take them horseback riding. You just have to think of activities where you can shine, and which are also interesting enough to the girl that she'll choose them over dancing. Don't let h…	/r/askTRP	01/09/18 06:48 AM
12	I supposedly hit on my girlfriends sister on her brothers wedding First, recognize this: you didn't supposedly hit on your GF's sister. You actually hit on her. IMHO, there was nothing wrong in agreeing to watch your GF's sister, after she did something nice for you like a BJ before the reception. Your problem is you were probably drunk yourself and wanted to fuck the sister and couldn't keep your hands off her. It comes loud and clear despite your attempts to be coy about it in your post. You don't grab a girl by the hips and ass if it's not part of escal…	/r/askTRP	30/08/18 02:57 PM
1	Why do girls love drama so much? We all love drama. The question is, in which realm? Guys love drama in action. That's why we watch sports, action films, etc. All of that is "fake" and immaterial to real life too, but we lap it up anyway. OTOH, girls love drama in emotions. It's what excites them in life. So just like we can spend hours debating which QB to put on our fantasy football team, and cry into a beer when our team loses a key game, women occupy their time and experience their highs / lows based on the rollercoaster ri…	/r/askTRP	26/08/18 04:43 AM
1	How did my chad friend pull this off ? I'm don't get it The reason it hurts is because you have oneitis for this chick, which means anything this chick does besides gobble your knob will be painful to you. If you catch her half-smiling at a random guy, your mind will instantly turn that into "She so wants to fuck him. Why him and not me!!" If she mentions a co-worker helped her with a memo she was writing, you'll instantly think "That guy wants to fuck her. Why'd she let him help her? How can she not see he just wants to get in her pants?" IOW, nor…	/r/askTRP	14/08/18 09:14 PM
1	Can you make rape jokes during pickup? Some of them yes, some of them no. For that specific example, yes. But it also wasn't the first date. I don't want to make it sound like it's my goto pickup line or something. But if I feel like joking about it, I have. The point is, it's all in the context. A generic "don't worry, I won't rape you" is a problem. A specific mention that comes about naturally as a part of your conversation can work. It's sort of like pickup lines. A generic pickup line ("hey baby, your place or mine?") makes you …	/r/askTRP	12/08/18 12:12 AM
2	How did my chad friend pull this off ? I'm don't get it Here's what I think happened. Your friend is attractive, naturally confident, etc. and can easily game girls naturally, even if he's never studied technique. He gets the feelings for this girl and gets all nervous. You say you want to go for her, and he says, "sure". Ironically, this frees him from being nervous because in his mind, he's no longer trying to get the girl. She's yours. Paradoxically, this lets his natural alpha nature through, and she ends up being attracted to him over you. It su…	/r/askTRP	11/08/18 11:16 PM
1	Can you make rape jokes during pickup? Why the hell are you taking someone on a first date into the secluded woods??? Especially if it's a tinder date, you're literally meeting face-to-face for the first time. That's not really a comfortable thing for any girl on a first date, no matter how much you might have been texting. It doesn't mean you can't ever be alone with a girl on the first date, just that secluded woods is probably going a bit too far. Regarding what words to use, it's not about the words you say, it's about the emotio…	/r/askTRP	11/08/18 11:02 PM
4	Women don't want their partner to be more physically attractive then her I think it's because gaming a hot chick is different than gaming an average chick. If you use "hot chick" game on an "average chick" then they're not going to be as responsive. What's the difference? The main thing is that with super hot girls, they know you're attracted to them already (just like every guy they ever meet in their life). So you game them by not establishing comfort first. Indeed, you go the opposite, by demonstrating you couldn't care less about her, or her looks, etc. and that …	/r/askTRP	05/08/18 04:14 PM
1	CareerTRP: After I got fit and attractive, people are more likely to do what I say. I work in a field where if I am wrong people die. Need to balance the two. You're thinking about this all wrong. Whether people "like" you or find you attractive has very little to do with whether they'll speak up. I work in a high stakes field too, and what matters is that you create a culture of safety. I'm sure you know what that means, but here are the basic principles that you have to convince people of: 1) You will not punish anyone for bringing problems to your attention, no matter how trivial 2) You will not be ridicule anyone for proposing solutions even if th…	/r/askTRP	05/08/18 05:27 AM
1	Why did I wall at 26 [M/28]? Yeah, that's why The Rock and Jason Statham are basically incels, right? Balding doesn't have to be a deal killer. Does it put you at a slight disadvantage? Maybe. But one that can easily be overcome. If you're fit, have good game, etc. you can be completely bald and still score. Does that mean every balding guy gets 18-25 year olds? Of course not. You have to still work at the rest of your SMV. Dude, the choice is yours. You can decide at 28 that your life is over, these problems you have are…	/r/askTRP	25/07/18 07:17 AM
6	How to get better at talking to & approaching girls in the post-#metoo era? Don't shit where you eat? Seriously, 90% of #metoo is about trying to bang a coworker. Don't do that. Find women outside of work to flirt with. The 10% of #metoo accusations that aren't work related usually involve sex or some sort of intimate contact that the woman later says is non-consensual. I haven't heard of a single guy being completely ruined by "talking & approaching" girls. Yes, they may call you a creep, but no one has yet had their career ruined due to simple talking / flirting with …	/r/askTRP	24/07/18 01:33 AM
-1	Why did I wall at 26 [M/28]? You misunderstand the wall. The wall is the age when women become unattractive for LTRs / marriage no matter how much effort they put in. Because the natural process of a woman's aging that makes her unattractive (wrinkles, sagging) can't be reversed. Even when the physical decline isn't too bad, the loss of fertility is a deal-killer for a family-minded man. Halle Barry is still ass-slappingly hot. She's also single, because if you want a family, her looks won't compensate for her infertility…	/r/askTRP	24/07/18 01:12 AM
9	Interesting article about the endstate of the sexual marketplace I generally dislike Douthat's articles, but this one is interesting and thought provoking. Even more thought provoking were the comments. It seems that everyone automatically assumed Douthat was talking about a man's right to a woman's sex. And they all thought (rightly) that was an abhorrent idea. But what about a woman's right to a man's commitment? That seems to be totally fine. There are tons of articles shaming men for not committing to women, that they have a "duty" to commit, and that wom…	/r/TheRedPill	24/07/18 12:58 AM
4	Nothing more. Nothing less. HAHAHAHAHA. She misspelled Mastro's. If you're going to pretend to be a high class whore, you gotta at least get the name of the restaurant right. (I've eaten there lots of times. It's a pretty good steakhouse. Plus there are usually hot working girls at the bar waiting for rich guys to hit on them. So save your cash on this ho, and spend it on drinks with a professional instead. You won't need as much money to score).	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	21/07/18 10:23 PM
2	Confused looks and prying questions when I mention I don't have social media? According to this article https://mashable.com/2010/10/14/nielsen-texting-stats/#bmh7CF_.JSqi The average teenage girl sends >4 thousand texts a month. If each of those texts contains an average of 10 words, that's the equivalent of reading War and Peace every year. Except instead of gaining the knowledge of one of the greatest pieces of literature ever written, the average teenager is none the wiser and just as vapid after wasting that time and reading effort on stupid, inane texts from her f…	/r/askTRP	21/07/18 09:59 PM
4	Is it completely beta to take a girl back if it means going on a really cool trip to Rio De Janiero, Brazil? I don't know man. On paper, it sounds great, but in reality, it will probably be sheer misery. You're focusing on the fact that you're going to Brazil for free. You're not focusing on the fact that she will be with you for those entire 2 weeks. Even Brazil can be ruined my having an awful travel partner. You're assuming when she takes you to Brazil, it'll be all free blowjobs in the morning and sex with random Brazilian girls at night. True, that's a possibility. There's also a (IMHO larger) pos…	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 07:50 PM
11	Possibly the most fucked up frame control I've ever had in my life Agree that you should just hold frame, focus on your son, and don't even think about what's happening otherwise. Trust me, your sister will be in on everything and she'll tell you if there's anything worth telling you. I know this is painful, but IMHO, #3 is the most likely. Unless he's made sincere efforts to be in his grandson's life before, it's highly unlikely he moved all the way from another country just to see him now. For that matter, he could easily have tried reconciling with you and s…	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 07:33 PM
2	What is everyone’s funniest stories about any beta orbiters they’ve encountered or dealt with? she pops off with 'Do I know you?' Absolutely brutal. But the worst part is even after that, he didn't learn, and kept paying her bills. I lost all sympathy for him with your last line.	/r/askTRP	17/07/18 05:40 AM
3	How to cold approach a group of girls at a bar? FWIW, I don't pick up girls on the dance floor. Other guys do, and more power to them. But I run my best game at the bar, where I can talk to a girl. Of course, once you get to know a girl, taking them to the floor and dancing is a great way to escalate. But I've never really had much success just grinding with a random girl and having it lead anywhere besides getting your dick rubbed for a few minutes. So what do I do at the bar? Alright, Imma give you my super-secret, I-charge-a-thousand-bucks…	/r/askTRP	16/07/18 03:51 AM
2	I stopped taking shit from people: men now respect me and gossip from women raised... is this normal? You're going through the "bitter misogyny" equivalent at work. It's an overreaction to finally emerging from your bluepill phase. Your goal should be to hit the "amused mastery" phase. You'll know you hit that phase when the gossip texts center around wondering how good you are in bed or whether you have a girlfriend. Also, you'll get a lot more work out of them with less hassle when you hit that phase. I have to also add this warning: being a bitter misogynist at work is a lot riskier than be…	/r/askTRP	16/07/18 03:04 AM
5	Everything has come full circle: my all time oneitis is into the "new me". Looking for RP wisdom Lots of TRP guys will disagree with this advice but here goes: Take the risk and dive in dude. IMHO, TRP isn't about not taking risks, and avoiding getting hurt. It's about not taking stupid risks, and minimizing the hurt that might come from the reasonable risks you do take. We tell people in the friendzone to move on because sticking around as an orbiter is a stupid risk: the chances of her ever being attracted to you are so low, and the damage it's doing to you by staying friends is so high…	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 05:33 AM
1	Everything has come full circle: my all time oneitis is into the "new me". Looking for RP wisdom Without knowing more about this woman, it's tough to say where this will lead. So I guess the real questions is: what do you want out of this? Do you want an LTR with her? Because, IMHO, that might not be a bad option. You haven't said anything that makes her seem like a crazy person, or a manipulating, evil bitch, etc. OTOH, if you have other plates and just want to add her to the collection, that's fine too. The real issue is, if you pursue this further, do you have the strength to cut things …	/r/askTRP	14/07/18 04:30 AM
21	I experienced the saddest, most potent example of Alpha-Widowhood today. Chris Rock has a great routine about how, when choosing a mate, women can never go backward financially, and men can never go back sexually. That is, once a woman dates a guy making $XXX, she can never date someone poorer, who can't provider for her in the same way. Similarly, once a guy has a freak in the bed, he can't go back to someone who just provides regular, boring sex. Obviously, in this case, it wasn't money per se, but the point is, both men and women can become "alpha widows". We just…	/r/TheRedPill	14/07/18 04:07 AM
30	Why do 9's and 10's seem nicer and more down to earth than 6's and 7's? Am I crazy or has anybody else noticed this? I've noticed this as well. I think it's because I've changed the way I interact with girls. Before TRP, I was the usual supplicating beta guy, showering compliments, being nice, etc. This actually does work to some extent on girls lower on the scale because it doesn't happen that often (or didn't before the start of social media). But hot girls get it so much that it's a turn off. Now though, I'm not intimidated by women, and I approach them like they're a dude. That is, I'll joke around with th…	/r/askTRP	10/07/18 06:14 PM
1	Competing with natural Alpha wings/friends? You're looking at it wrong. An alpha can either increase or decrease your SMV based on how you interact with him. If you act intimidated or jealous of your friend, then yeah, a girl sees that and thinks less of you. But if you truly are good buddies, and you're interacting well, joking around, busting each other's balls, pumping each other up, etc. then it increases your SMV because women see you're not intimidated by your friend and therefore assume you must be close to his SMV in some way (eve…	/r/askTRP	10/07/18 05:39 PM
1	Field Report: Fucking my former oneitis and what it made me realize This. To which I'd add that you remember these coincidences with your oneitis and forget them with other people. How many times do you open facebook and a random "It's XXX's birthday today!" message appears? Of course it's no big deal when it's anyone else, but when it's your oneitis, it's A SIGN FROM THE GODS. Umm, no it isn't. That's your mind playing tricks on you. Look at it this way: what's so special about seeing her car a few stalls away while you're at court? If you saw her car at the gr…	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/18 08:32 AM
5	Female roommate suddenly acting up. Dude, she likes you. This is going to be a problem because she's your roommate. There is no such thing as plating your roommate. If you start a relationship with her, that's the end of anything more. And if you don't, she'll cockblock you until you're a monk and finally ready to give in to her. Talking to her isn't going to change things. Ignoring her, and stopping hanging out with her, might. Or it might get her even more riled up. Bottomline, might be time to get a new roommate, unless you're …	/r/askTRP	29/06/18 03:47 AM
1	I am addicted to cuddling! Like all physical escalation, you have to be able to read the girl. Sometimes they want to go slow and enjoy the build-up, and sometimes they want you to put 'em up against a wall as fast as you can. It's up to you to be able to read her mood. If she really wants to fuck now, and you're still cuddling, there's a mismatch in energy and she'll think you're either not interested in her, or you're not man enough to take her. BTW, reading her mood is just the first step. Doesn't mean you have to fo…	/r/askTRP	27/06/18 04:19 AM
2	Is it AWALT or is it just your social circle? Hahaha this brillIant can I date you?! :) I thought you had a boyfriend. Does this mean I get to call AWALT? ;-) Here's a humorous take on young women and their "romances" while studying abroad in Europe: https://www.theonion.com/european-men-are-so-much-more-romantic-than-american-me-1819594261 PS I can't date someone who'd choose a 20 hour morose German opera about the death of the Gods and the end of civilization over an exhilarating tale of being young and in love in bohemian Paris. It doesn…	/r/askTRP	20/06/18 07:35 AM
1	Is it AWALT or is it just your social circle? Let me qualify myself so that you don't dismiss my views as just some jealous guy on the outside looking into your privileged kingdom: I can not only distinguish Brahms from Beethoven, but I'll debate the merits of Karajan vs. Solti vs. Klemperer in their renditions of Beethoven's symphonies. Wagner's operas are not nearly as fun to see live as Puccini's (I'll take La Boheme over the Ring Cycle any day). Michelangelo's Sistine Chapel blew me away when I saw it in person: pictures don't convey ju…	/r/askTRP	19/06/18 01:34 PM
3	Is it AWALT or is it just your social circle? I gotta agree with this. Maybe some of this poster's replies you might be dismissing as just "angry", but this one is gold. What you want when you're 23 is not the same as what you want when you're 30. That's the basis of AF/BB: sure you like the "cultured" guy who makes no money right now. That's usually the "guy in a band", or some emo guy who writes poetry, or in some other way rejects the social expectations of his class that he'll do something useful with his life. No one makes money at 23,…	/r/askTRP	19/06/18 12:52 PM
1	Is it AWALT or is it just your social circle? Hi there. First of all, kudos for being a woman and braving the world of TRP :-) There's a lot of misogyny on these forums even though, IMHO, the fundamental points of TRP aren't misogynistic. Here's where I think your argument goes wrong: 1) You talk about one specific behavior, trapping a guy by getting pregnant, and use that to talk about AWALT in general. You're right that in your "class" i.e. women working towards advanced degrees or tough careers, no one wants to get pregnant at 23. It's h…	/r/askTRP	19/06/18 04:15 AM
1	Girl I've been talking to sends me a picture with another guy in it? Not if it's done in a joking, dismissive manner. It's all in the execution. But it's much harder to get the tone right via text vs. in person, which means there's a chance it will come off as insecure. For this reason and more, the best thing is to ignore it.	/r/askTRP	19/06/18 03:21 AM
1	Girl I've been talking to sends me a picture with another guy in it? Me and this girl aren't together but we've done a lot together, pretty much a relationship. WTH does this even mean? I "do a lot together" with my friends (both guys and girls): have dinner, hang out, talk, provide emotional support, pay for drinks, etc. etc. The only thing that distinguishes a "relationship" from a "friendship" is whether you two are physically getting it on. If not, you're her friend, firmly in her friendzone, to the point that she's comfortable enough sending you a picture of…	/r/askTRP	18/06/18 07:31 PM
2	Sick of being surrounded by losers. Advice? Yeah, IMHO, 99% of self-improvement advice is bullshit, designed to hoodwink you into believing you're "taking action" while actually doing nothing. The truth is, everyone knows how to do something. They just don't want to do the work. Look at dieting: the basics of eating healthy have been known for at least a hundred years: eat primarily plants, with some meat / animal products. Process the food as little as possible, and maintain as much variety as possible. That's it. Every fad diet since …	/r/askTRP	18/06/18 03:06 AM
1	Sick of being surrounded by losers. Advice? I know what I want and have to do. But I don't have the vision and the drive to achieve it. Here's your problem right here. The rest is just the hamster wheel spinning. No one can give you the vision or drive. It has to come from within yourself. If you know what you want, then you don't need a role model to figure out how to get there. Having a role model is nice, yes, and may make things easier, or prevent you from making beginner mistakes, but they're not required to achieve greatness. Do you…	/r/askTRP	17/06/18 08:14 AM
13	Girls you orbit will say they care about you, but really only care about your attention. You're about halfway there. It's great that you're determined not to try to fall back in her orbit, but here are a few tips: 1) To a girl, there is no such thing as bad drama. They live off emotion, period. It can be good or bad, doesn't matter. That's why girls go back to abusive boyfriends. It's the high of the rollercoaster from "he's so pissed he nearly killed me" to "he's so in love with me he bought me a teddy bear" (watch the music video for Eminem's _love the way you lie_: https://www.yo…	/r/TheRedPill	10/06/18 03:46 AM