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Conversationcolclaus/r/seduction24/01/22 09:38 PM
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Yeah it would be but he said that's not possible.
/r/seduction02/02/22 05:04 AM
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No problem brother. Happy to provide what insight I can. Have had my heart trampled on a time or two...one very recently and I have to see her on the regular as well. So I'm working with option two. But when she's talking to other guys and shit it can make you feel sick. I would encourage you to take the mindset that if it is meant to be it will be when the time is right. Like the red string of fate. If it isn't then you will find someone in time who will give you everything you are willing to g…
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:53 AM
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Ok so I missed that you are going to have to see her regularly so an addendum to the first option would be to pull back your contact with her as much as you can given the circumstance. Feel free to dm me if you want to talk more details anonymously.
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:47 AM
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Hey brother. Been in a similar situation. You can either try and stop all contact with her and move on and heal in time. Or you can maintain the friendship and maybe down the road things will change and she will come around. The former sounds cold but it's ultimately better for your psyche. Being in love with someone who doesn't feel the same way is absolute hell and you seem like a good enough dude so you deserve someone who wants you the same. The latter option is harder but if you want her in…
/r/seduction02/02/22 02:46 AM
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Been going hard for about a year at the gym
/r/seduction25/01/22 05:16 AM
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I agree it's the actions that tell the whole story. And when I tried to address it she just came back with somethings that made enough sense for me to believe. But I guess I just wanted to believe.
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:44 AM
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That's true. It was me being myself...and it took a lot of faith for me to do it. But everything I'm seeing is that the way I am is unattractive to women...which I get. It's just hard to reconcile that with the things I believe and the way I am.
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:42 AM
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Think you're right about this. The stupid thing is I thought about this before but painted it just my insecurities and took her at her word. And it just keeps permeating all my thoughts....just how bad it hurts.
/r/seduction25/01/22 04:25 AM
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Won't make that mistake again brother.
/r/seduction25/01/22 03:13 AM
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It was more than a chat. We've been working together for a while and getting closer and then it was over the course of talking for a while.
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:35 AM
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I did once. She wasn't feeling it at the time. Then said she wanted to go slow and told me about all the anxiety and shit. I mean there's always been a part of me that thought it was bullshit but when I looked in her eyes and she told me she loved me she wasn't lying then.
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:26 AM
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You're right it goes deeper. And I had been shut off for a while to protect myself but something about this girl opened me up and made me vulnerable.
/r/seduction25/01/22 02:17 AM
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Thank you
/r/seduction25/01/22 01:36 AM
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Living up to your name my wise companion
/r/seduction25/01/22 01:33 AM
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By reciprocating all of the emotions and making sure she didn't have to worry about other girls and shit like that...to many compliments ya know the routine.
/r/seduction25/01/22 01:01 AM
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It got abusive apparently I don't know the details.
/r/seduction24/01/22 11:17 PM
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Thank you. You're a good man.
/r/seduction24/01/22 10:10 PM
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That's what I've been afraid of. I feel like a fool
/r/seduction24/01/22 09:51 PM
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I am pulling back but it went way beyond flirting. She told me she loved me a lot and that she was worried someone would take her spot and I made her so happy etc. She tells me she still loves me too. It's just her anxiety that's making it impossible but that doesn't gel with what I'm hearing.
/r/seduction24/01/22 09:45 PM
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I know that empirically and rationally but I don't know how to stop the pain. Especially when I have to see her and hear these things right after she told me all this amazing stuff.
/r/seduction24/01/22 09:42 PM
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