coldbrew18 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How do i escape the fuckboy trap? Pick up at a library not a club.	/r/seduction	27/09/24 02:17 PM
1	Favorite responses when a girl says she had a dream about you? “I’m sorry”	/r/seduction	25/09/24 05:53 AM
12	My gf had a threesome in the past now I want to have one too This is the wrong sub. But honestly, work through it or dump her. She’s consenting but not enthusiastically.	/r/seduction	24/09/24 02:55 AM
47	Big city's are SO much easier than small towns. Why is this? In addition to the anonymity factor others have mentioned, you have math on your side. Let’s say 10% of women are really easy to seduce. Well, 10% in NYC is a lot bigger number than 10% of Borington Iowa. Then you’ve got more options for where to hangout. NYC offers a variety of places to meet like-minded people. So people who want to get laid are more likely to congregate in similar places. Borington has a bar and a church. You go to one or the other if you want to socialize.	/r/seduction	05/09/24 06:08 AM
0	I'm gonna go flirt at the gym Play the “I don’t know how this works” or the “could you spot me?” game. Do some small talk, give him your number. Don’t waste his time. He’s there to work out. Ngl, I’d be annoyed.	/r/seduction	17/08/24 02:30 AM
1	What to say after what’s your name? That’s nice, you get that for your birthday?	/r/seduction	20/07/24 08:18 PM
1	Kiss rejection follow up This. “I’m friends with your ex” could mean “give it time”.	/r/seduction	17/07/24 12:21 AM
5	What are ways a girl can play hard to get, whilst showing she is interested? Anything less than a billboard is too subtle for guys.	/r/seduction	16/07/24 09:49 PM
2	I failed a shit test and I'm worried it's a wrap... “Hey, sorry if I made things weird the other day. I’d like to take you out for coffee on Saturday. If you’re not feeling it, I won’t bother you about it. “	/r/seduction	06/07/24 02:37 AM
3	I failed a shit test and I'm worried it's a wrap... Yeah, she definitely deleted “all” of you.	/r/seduction	06/07/24 02:25 AM
3	Why do women always change their demeanor after i give them the plan b pill? Number 3 is going to depend a lot of the woman. Some women avoid feeling like a slut “I don’t usually do this, but…”. Testing might help ease her mind on her health, and on that “slutty feeling”. Again, it’s by no means all women. As for her being a CNA. they are the lowest level healthcare worker. It’s a 6-8 week course, iirc. It’s not like they have extensive medical training. Be careful with cream pies man. That’s how you end up with an accident.	/r/seduction	17/06/24 05:56 PM
8	Why do women always change their demeanor after i give them the plan b pill? Just ask if she needs money for plan b. Just giving her the pill shows that: 1) you planned to come inside her. 2) you’ve done this before with other girls. 3) make them feel some regret because of 1 and 2. I would imagine that some girls feel slutty afterwards, and most are going to run to get tested. 4) you can get pill equipment and packaging equipment online. Those pills could be anything. Offering to give her money, vs giving her the pill Is the difference between buying a girl a mixed drin…	/r/seduction	17/06/24 01:48 PM
12	Why do women always change their demeanor after i give them the plan b pill? You’re giving her a pill of unknown origin. That’s really weird Mr Cosby.	/r/seduction	17/06/24 03:42 AM
11	Why do women always change their demeanor after i give them the plan b pill? It’s weird af and comes off as rapey.	/r/seduction	17/06/24 03:26 AM
1	How to deal with bitchy/stuck up girls Next! <- that’s how.	/r/seduction	11/06/24 06:16 AM
1	So this girl I grew up with hit me up the other day... If you hang out with her, jerk off beforehand.	/r/seduction	17/05/24 04:27 PM
1	First time texting on tinder need advice How did you expect her to respond?	/r/seduction	24/04/24 03:24 AM
2	How to offer to go down on wemen First you buy her a drink, then you say “so m’lady, may I eat you out?”	/r/seduction	17/04/24 01:14 AM
1	I spent 5 days in Europe with a girl I am hooking up with If you have to ask the answer is yes.	/r/seduction	03/04/24 12:06 AM
16	How should I (24F) initiate sex after a date? Too subtle, go lower.	/r/seduction	18/03/24 04:38 PM
1	Got a girl comin over, she has a boyfriend If she’ll cheat with you she’ll cheat on you. If you’re just looking for tail then consider that if she’ll cheat with you she probably has herpies.	/r/seduction	14/02/24 05:49 PM
4	Besides porn, what job do you think would get you laid the most? So how was it?	/r/seduction	09/02/24 11:04 PM
2	Did I fuck up there? Dance with several girls on Thursday, not just her. Make her chase you.	/r/seduction	24/08/22 02:22 AM
1	How to not fumble the bag? Either tell her how you feel or ask her to wingman	/r/seduction	03/08/22 06:38 AM
20	Sex on first date? If you have to “push for the sex” you’re gonna have a bad time.	/r/seduction	01/08/22 03:52 PM
2	Gaining some confidence back. My local barista gave me her number and agreed a date, then stood me up... I just saw her again After reading your comments it sounds like she made the right choice. Bullet dodged.	/r/seduction	21/07/22 11:17 PM
1	Friend told me that I kissed her in her dream last night. I’ve had sex dreams about people I know. Usually I wake up disgusted with myself. If you go for it, know that she’ll do the same to you someday.	/r/seduction	28/06/22 03:58 PM
1	How do I initiate something with my boyfriend if I get nervous every time I try to? Maybe for you, but not everyone. Don’t be so judgmental.	/r/seduction	19/06/22 01:11 AM
6	How do I initiate something with my boyfriend if I get nervous every time I try to? Every couple has a first time. Some later than others.	/r/seduction	17/06/22 05:32 PM
53	She said she was on Birth Control? She might be trustworthy. I mean, she fucked OP, so we know that she does charity work.	/r/seduction	12/06/22 08:46 PM
1	Hooked up with a girl at a club, she ghosted me, now got severe oneitis Hook up with her friend.	/r/seduction	07/06/22 02:27 PM
34	7 Things Women Secretly Desire In The Bedroom (BUT Are Afraid To Say) I have a quiet wife and can confirm. She’s just so fucking quiet she’ll hardly tell me what she wants.	/r/seduction	23/05/22 04:31 AM
2	I'm not sure if I should get it on with this girl If you don’t you’ll regret it later.	/r/seduction	06/05/22 12:54 AM
2	FELLAS I NEED HELP! It is. Mungo Jerry's "In the summertime"	/r/seduction	04/05/22 07:01 PM
1	Proximity is one of the best signs that a girl likes you Proximity only means something when other options are available.	/r/seduction	03/05/22 08:28 PM
1	In your experience what are the things that you did that made girls chase you Steal their candy.	/r/seduction	03/05/22 05:19 AM
2	FELLAS I NEED HELP! Is her dad rich? Because if he is take her out for a meal. If her dad is poor just do what you feel.	/r/seduction	29/04/22 05:21 PM
10	I think asking women out on a "date" lowers your chances. Here's what I learned to do. This. The other problem is that there is no exclusivity to “hanging out”. So you could end up the awkward third wheel on a hike with her “ex”.	/r/seduction	29/04/22 02:53 PM
3	How to get a girl out of my league? Show an interest in her and her passions. Don’t worry about her money or her parents money. Chances are good that there are a lot of guys who fail to approach her because they don’t think they’re good enough for her. Show some ambition and she’ll respect you. Let’s say you get together and you find that she wants to go out to a nice dinner all the time, or she suggests a trip to Cabo or something. Just say “babe, I can’t afford that”. If she helps or changes her plans, she’s worth staying with. …	/r/seduction	15/04/22 05:42 PM
2	Most effective flirting tip for all (has never failed me!) Agreed. I automatically recoil at touch.	/r/seduction	11/04/22 03:32 PM
84	[FIELD REPORT] I pulled an actress/celebrity from a mom and daughter set. Mom knew what she was doing, she knew what you were doing too. Lol.	/r/seduction	11/04/22 03:12 PM
1	Girl is hinting at dick pic but I don’t have that big of a Dick? Never send face and dick in the same shot.	/r/seduction	01/04/22 06:58 PM
13	Girl is hinting at dick pic but I don’t have that big of a Dick? I’ve seen one Russian dick in the media all the time and it’s about 5’7”.	/r/seduction	01/04/22 06:57 PM
3	Anyone have difficulty getting up again after they've been horny and then time has passed? I’m good for about two restarts, after that I’m done trying.	/r/seduction	24/03/22 07:38 PM
1	Today I lost my V-card to a super hot(9+) girl who mocked my inexperience. I dont know if I should be happy or sad about it “Yeah, me either. Lose my number.”	/r/seduction	15/03/22 04:37 AM
1	I'm 28 she's 19 is that too young? To have a relationship? Depends on the woman, but probably. To have a ONS? No.	/r/seduction	14/03/22 12:58 AM
1	My new GF (4 months in) is perfect in every way except 1….. Unfollow her? It’s her hobby and you don’t have to like her hobby.	/r/seduction	10/03/22 10:11 PM
3	Trying to flirt with a escort Her job is to arouse you enough that you push your wallet out of your pocket. She’ll probably ghost you if you ask for a freebie.	/r/seduction	08/03/22 09:25 PM
1	Learn to play an instrument or join a band and it is guaranteed you’ll get laid An old friend of my has regular flings with a porn actress because he’s in a band she likes. Actually she’s part of the reason the band got any attention at all.	/r/seduction	07/03/22 03:22 PM
22	Why guys don't approach during at the day, unless it's at a bar or something, when I am with my girl friend? Anything less than a billboard goes over my head.	/r/seduction	04/03/22 02:24 AM
21	Why guys don't approach during at the day, unless it's at a bar or something, when I am with my girl friend? When I lock eyes with a girl at the gym I assume that she assumes that I’m staring at her.	/r/seduction	04/03/22 02:22 AM
4	How to deal with close female friends who you find out are warning women against you There’s a big difference between “watch out for that one (wink)” and “he’s a creep”. Problem is you aren’t likely to get the truth from the girls because if they are creeped out by they won’t say it to your face. Ask your guy friends.	/r/seduction	07/02/22 12:56 AM
33	How to deal with close female friends who you find out are warning women against you Wait, your were the promiscuous one and she wanted you to join a poly circle? Ironic.	/r/seduction	07/02/22 12:16 AM
5	Should you let a girl know about the other girls you're dating? If she’s asking, it’s because she’s enjoying her time with him and wants to know his intentions. She has a right to know and if op keeps joking around with her then she’s going to leave.	/r/seduction	30/01/22 05:15 PM
1	[deleted by user] Send a pic of Richard Nixon.	/r/seduction	26/01/22 10:33 PM
0	Girl taking days to reply and now not responding She’s just not that into you, but she doesn’t want to lose the status quo friendship. Move on. If she’s a close friend, I’d shoot her a text to tell her you aren’t going to pursue her anymore.	/r/seduction	24/01/22 07:10 PM
1	I (20 M) never had sex... Need advice on having first time sex with a virgin girl? Start with foreplay, lots of foreplay. Listen to her. Her voice and her body will tell you what she likes. You will have to learn to understand her nonverbals. With that said, the first few times won’t be enjoyable. She will probably be in pain if she doesn’t have a toy your size. Oh yeah, have a sex towel. You probably will want to lay it under her.	/r/seduction	23/01/22 07:55 PM
1	Got rejected last time I approaches but she’s still staring Hmmm. Interesting. I think the old standard to see if someone is actually following you is to take a couple of turns in the same direction. Try that.	/r/seduction	21/01/22 09:16 PM
3	Got rejected last time I approaches but she’s still staring Is she staring, or does her machine position her that way?	/r/seduction	21/01/22 02:12 PM
15	Got rejected last time I approaches but she’s still staring She could be staring because she’s thinking about it. Could be because she’s seeing if you check her out again. Could be a defense mechanism to keep an eye on the creepy guy at the gym (no offense). Either way, she’s married. Dating a married woman can lead to lead poisoning.	/r/seduction	21/01/22 02:10 PM
36	How? Talk to her.	/r/seduction	18/01/22 04:31 AM
1	I went on date with this girl couple times, she suddenly said we better just to be friends? Tell her “I had fun, but thanks for letting me know” Then move on. No need to ghost her, but don’t hang out or text every day.	/r/seduction	16/01/22 08:26 PM
1	[deleted by user] At least you’re aware that you’re toxic and would be bad for her.	/r/seduction	13/01/22 07:20 PM
1	i need to escalate but can't figure out how. Maybe make the next date a group thing. Less pressure on her for the end of the date.	/r/seduction	08/01/22 08:18 AM
20	i need to escalate but can't figure out how. Agreed. Arm over shoulder is possessive or cuddling. Holding hands is more equal.	/r/seduction	08/01/22 08:14 AM
2	Can’t get hard (28M> Are you taking any medication?	/r/seduction	02/01/22 10:28 PM
2	I want to approach girls but i couldn't coz of.. Nerd reference: your question reminded me of an episode of Star Trek Ds9 where a human and a ferengi go on a double date. The ferengi insults the girl. She gets mad and the ferengi says something like “I am being polite, I didn’t even have you pre-chew my food for me!”	/r/seduction	02/01/22 06:41 PM
1	How do I stop getting cucked? You aren’t a cuck in this situation, she was never yours.	/r/seduction	01/01/22 11:25 PM
19	Did anyone else actually have a great childhood with loving parents but still struggle with dating and relationships? I was sheltered and got teased for even looking at a girl.	/r/seduction	01/01/22 01:14 AM
4	Why all the games and shit tests? (M17) It sounds like he perceives a lot of pressure being put on him.	/r/seduction	30/12/21 10:18 PM
8	Groundbreaking Discovery To Do Your First Cold Approach Everyone has to start somewhere	/r/seduction	30/12/21 03:59 AM
2	[deleted by user] Hitting the gym. 5d/wk. 45mind.	/r/seduction	26/12/21 04:04 PM
2	Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings. She’s thinking of all the dick she got and is laughing at them all in comparison to yours.	/r/seduction	26/12/21 12:58 AM
2	This girl who I’ve wanted since I was in 8th grade ( she was a senior in high school at the time ) told me her friend wants to have a three some with me. Just go have drinks without expectations. Bring a condom. Eat a chicken the day before for protein.	/r/seduction	24/12/21 01:15 AM
3	The girl I like wrote me a letter, what should be my next move? Ask her to go to the library to study with you or something. Invite her to a movie. Ask her to take a walk in a park. Do something, and good luck!	/r/seduction	20/12/21 03:21 AM
2	My friend said I should treat women harsher…? Check out push/pull flirting.	/r/seduction	08/12/21 04:25 PM
66	What to do once I’m at a girl from tinders dorm Etc= condom and sex towel.	/r/seduction	07/12/21 03:22 AM
6	Increase this 1 thing to get laid more often 🍑👉👌 Except cou CAN make your voice deeper.	/r/seduction	05/12/21 10:08 PM
3	Need help with dirty talk That’s what my priest used to say during sex too.	/r/seduction	28/11/21 10:30 PM
14	What’s the fastest way to loose your virginity No standards.	/r/seduction	04/11/21 03:00 PM
1	Has a woman ever randomly said she doesn't want to have sex with you in the middle of a non-sexual conversation? Maybe something like “I don’t blame you, if I were as beautiful as you I wouldn’t fuck me either!” It’s a bit of a joke, she’ll either chuckle and let the conversation continue (no sex) or chuckle and playfully argue with you (maybe sex).	/r/seduction	01/11/21 04:29 PM
0	What are the best ways to capture and enter into a mans heart? Bear trap to capture and a knife to enter.	/r/seduction	10/08/20 02:51 AM
1	What is the general rule for women with boyfriends? Oooh. Never heard thee term “barge pole” before!	/r/seduction	23/02/19 06:55 PM
1	How can I get a Boyfriend? Anything not involving a billboard is too subtle.	/r/seduction	14/01/19 02:29 AM
380	When Hooking up with a woman, is it better to go to her place or take her to yours? I always go to her place. She’s more relaxed and my wife doesn’t find out.	/r/seduction	09/12/18 05:34 AM
15	How To Have A Magnetic Personality (Simple Mind Hack) This mindset is dishonest and lazy. Rather than avoid the negative situation, you should keep calm and carry on. Let me walk you through the scenarios. Flat tire: tell the boss you’ll be late and change the tire. Rejected: NBD, but hey, I had the guts to ask her out! Spilled my drink: don’t be an asshole, clean it up. Missed bus: why was I late this morning? How can I improve so I’m on time? Ran out of coffee: I need to invest in a strategic stockpile of coffee. (I don’t have a problem with coff…	/r/seduction	18/10/18 04:57 PM
53	So my drink got spiked File a police report.	/r/seduction	12/10/18 08:42 PM
4	What do you say to a girl right before kissing them?? “Stop screaming” and “why are you kicking me?”	/r/seduction	31/08/18 02:35 PM
3	Study: Women peak at 18 on dating apps. Men peak at 50. Last study I saw had women peaking at 24, men at 50.	/r/seduction	16/08/18 06:10 AM
3	I was obsessed with learning ‘The Game’ years back when a friend of mine who was always scoring chicks left and right wrote this over to me on text. I saved it on notes exactly 3 years ago and thought I’d share it with you guys. Damnit, I just lost the game. The object of the game is to forget about the game. If you think about the game you lose. If you lose you have to announce to everyone that you have lost. Everyone who heard you is now playing the game. You have 30 mins to forget about the game, and the game starts over.	/r/seduction	11/08/18 06:51 AM
5	Seeing ex bf at a party next week, how to act? Go and have fun. Treat him like an old friend. I.e. be friendly and don’t hang on him.	/r/seduction	19/07/18 03:38 PM
2	What to do when other guys start trying to dance with the girl youre dancing with and shes open to it? I spun around and started dancing with him. He backed off.	/r/seduction	16/07/18 03:03 PM
1	I'm 22 never had sex yet met a girl, she asks if I'm a virgin what to do If she thinks less of you for being a virgin, she isn’t worth your time.	/r/seduction	09/07/18 04:08 PM
1	The sexual history of a girl In my observation, men tend to have a problem if his SO has a higher “score” than him.	/r/seduction	06/07/18 08:31 PM
7	First timers question A playful swat, or drift south during a kiss. Side note: my phone auto corrected kiss to kids. Proceed with caution!	/r/seduction	01/07/18 03:44 AM
3	The power of eye contact! Pupil dilation is a real thing, but it doesn’t work if you have a light source behind you, it’s bright out, etc	/r/seduction	10/06/18 02:14 PM
-3	How to deal with a guy who keeps poking fun at me in front of girls? 1) your mom doesn’t mind 2) not what your mom said last night 3)only thing fat on me is my dick and it smells like your mom.	/r/seduction	29/05/18 01:15 PM
34	The ONLY "instant fix" for attracting Women is your style... Here's how to dress to kill for dirt cheap See i prefer a disposable hazmat suit when I kill. That way I don’t get blood on my normal clothes.	/r/seduction	23/05/18 01:55 AM
-1	“Why don’t you have a girlfriend?” What I think she’s asking is if you’re available. If not say: “I’m just not ready to commit to one person yet”, or “I do, but I don’t let her leave the basement” If you are available, say: “I don’t know, (look away, half smile) I guess I’m just looking (bring eyes back) for the right person (full smile, eye contact).	/r/seduction	22/05/18 06:17 PM
4	Give me Actionable Advice! At the bar (or wherever you gamefield is) sit next to an attractive female.	/r/seduction	21/05/18 06:20 PM
1	How to keep a girl interested if you can only arrange the first date in a few weeks? Be around enough so she remembers you, but not so much that you’ve nothing to talk about in person.	/r/seduction	21/05/18 06:01 PM
4	How to deal with cock blocking mutual friend w/different cultural group? Sounds like this guy knows what he’s doing though, but I agree. Call him out on it, and if he still does it, say something like “no I don’t”, “we broke up a month ago dude”, or “and how’s your gf doing?”	/r/seduction	12/05/18 05:18 PM
2	Advice for first date ever! Don’t worry about a kiss. Go with the flow. If it flows to a kiss. Do it. If you start to fell awkward, be honest with her. She’ll probably think it’s endearing. Most importantly, listen to her.	/r/seduction	10/05/18 07:03 AM
7	Advice for first date ever! Kiss de girl....	/r/seduction	10/05/18 06:58 AM
3	What the fuck do I do now? New challenge: Try to get laid at a funeral.	/r/seduction	02/05/18 02:00 AM
3	How to have fun when cold approaching by yourself? “I don’t know what to say, no ones ever let me talk this long” -op	/r/seduction	23/04/18 07:32 PM
1	[FR] Friday pull The ring matters to her, otherwise she wouldn’t have shown it to him.	/r/seduction	22/04/18 06:09 PM
1	What is wrong with me? Find yourself. Go on a hike in the woods and land at a campsite. Take minimal food and supplies with you. Leave your phone at home. If you run into someone, tell them that you are off to find yourself, and you can’t talk until you return. Light a fire, have some supper. Light a joint if you like. Then stare at the fire until you fall asleep under the stars. The goal of all this is to give you perspective and time to meditate alone. It’s a long journey, it isn’t easy. Good luck.	/r/seduction	22/04/18 12:30 PM
1	What is wrong with me? You don’t ‘find time’ you make time for your priorities.	/r/seduction	22/04/18 12:20 PM
6	Checking cougar signs Tbh, this sounds like the beginning of a shitty harlequin novel: woman married pilot, pilot ignores her. Woman finds hung stud to fulfill her womanly desires...	/r/seduction	22/04/18 12:06 PM
7	How are some guys able to have a social circle with hot girls in it? What are they doing? Start thinking of them as people rather than as a piece of ass will help.	/r/seduction	22/04/18 11:09 AM
5	How to know if a girl is OK to come home with you? Yep, and it always “...back to my place to do [something other than fuck]”. That’ll keep her from being creeped out	/r/seduction	20/04/18 08:11 PM
84	I did it. I approached 2 girls. Just gave compliments and walked away. Gotta crawl before you can walk before you can run Next try “nice shoes, wanna fuck?”	/r/seduction	20/04/18 07:59 PM
13	How to seduce the man I babysit for How many years have you been sitting for him? He might think of you as just a kid. Try engaging him in conversation about things other than babysitting his kid. You should also consider, a billboard.	/r/seduction	11/04/18 04:48 AM
1	She’s afraid to leave her boyfriend without more certainty about what might happen and I don’t want to escalate if her bf is still in the picture Be honest with her about your feelings, including your discomfort with her boyfriend still being in the picture, as slight as it may be. Then Let her know your intentions. Word it carefully as you aren’t laying out an ultimatum or anything. If she hasn’t broken if off in a month, give the ultimatum. ‘Me or him’. At that point you e communicated with her and given her ample opportunity, you have the right to lay down an ultimatum. You don’t want to be strung along for months. As for red flags, ma…	/r/seduction	05/04/18 07:24 PM
1	Why is it that girls are never overtly flirty with me (17M)? I went to a conference a couple weeks back and spotted an attractive woman across the room. I had no chance whatsoever with her as she couldn't even give me the time of day because I was across the room. When I finally had the opportunity to move to a different table, I chose hers. We had a wonderful conversation, and at the end of the night I found myself alone. Damn, she has a boyfriend. The, what I call, "don't bother me" rings should've been a dead give away. That's ok though, I wouldn't hav…	/r/seduction	05/04/18 01:48 AM
7	Why is it that girls are never overtly flirty with me (17M)? The little things like that girl that smiles a little more when she talks to you, or that one girl in that one class who always chats you up. Or the old “you going to the game tonight?” They’re small and casual, but really those can be leveraged into more. You say you aren’t getting signals from the girls you’re interested in. Are you putting yourself in a position to get them in the first place?	/r/seduction	04/04/18 02:32 AM
48	Did I do the right thing? Leave her alone, but don’t wait for her.	/r/seduction	04/04/18 12:59 AM
10	Why is it that girls are never overtly flirty with me (17M)? Someday, you’ll look back and realize that you could’ve banged half the girls in your class if you’d only noticed the neon signs they were putting up for you. Someday.	/r/seduction	04/04/18 12:46 AM
-1	I've been "virgin shamed" by 2 girls in the last week. I'm 18 years old and it hurts bad. What gives? Generally speaking “hey baby, I’m a virgin” isn’t used as a pickup line.	/r/seduction	03/04/18 04:56 AM
4	How to flirt with an older man that may like me? If you want him to get the message, try a billboard	/r/seduction	29/03/18 02:18 AM