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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | God why did I get marriedFor what it’s worth- 20yrs ago going through a separation I got full custody of my daughter reading statutes and finding forms myself. Wrapped it all up in 60days. Judge signed it 3 mos later on my birthday | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/12/23 03:52 AM |
| 1 | God why did I get marriedDo you have a 401k from when you worked previously? Is your name on the loan for the home? | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/12/23 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Sex after divorceIf I mischaracterized your points by all means elaborate. I meant no offense - I grabbed onto the points you made that stood out to me as being false and misguided. Because I thought it would be helpful to op and perhaps even you if not someone else. Your comments read like you had a bad therapist - which is truly unfortunate and sounds like you had a hell of a time. So you created strategies to protect yourself. I get it. But you shouldn’t need strategies, just fire the therapist and get anothe… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/23 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Sex after divorceIf you’re ever in couples therapy and they’re taking sides outside of obvious abuse. That’s a bad therapist Also the point of therapy before problems is to have a routine in place so that when they arise you aren’t trying to scramble to do something about it - or waiting too long to resolve something. The way you’re suggesting how to ‘handle’ therapy is totally disingenuous and if that’s how you’re going to use therapy it’s prolly better if you avoid it all together save money and time. Lastly y… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/23 03:09 AM |
| 3 | If you were divorced with no kids in your 40s and could live/work in any city in the US, where would you want to live (good dating scene for older men, lots to do, not depressing weather, easy to meet people at an older age).I’ve looked into Portugal. With military retirement if you can prove 12k annual passive income. You can get a 5 year visa. After that you can apply for EU citizenship and live anywhere in the eu. Cost of living is pretty cheap there. You’re right about remote American jobs - but there’s contact work and plenty of English speaking opportunities. Good luck man | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/23 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Separated for a year and she still hasn't done anything to be financially independent.I’d be careful of putting anything in writing that doesn’t provide a full account of your financial support. And keep records of your contributions while separated. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/10/22 01:17 AM |
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