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why?
/r/askTRP04/06/15 09:35 PM
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thank you. this is pretty much the only actual advice i got
/r/askTRP04/06/15 04:30 PM
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thank you. this is pretty much the only actual advice i got
/r/askTRP04/06/15 04:30 PM
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Lol it is not in the triple digits, you're just trying to upset me. It seems the only reason ppl care about tattoos and piercing is it makes them look like a slut. As u can see I know all about her past including very vivid details of her past lovers. 4 guys, 2 girls.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 03:11 PM
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Trust me I know all about her past can't you ducking tell?!
/r/askTRP04/06/15 01:39 AM
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I understand it seems like slut behavior but she's not a slut. It seems like everyone only has a problem with these things because they are slut indicators. Whereas my last gf seemed like the girl next door but had more than double the amount of part ers
/r/askTRP04/06/15 01:38 AM
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But she's not like that at all. Aside from drugs she's not a slut
/r/askTRP04/06/15 01:37 AM
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Can you please tell me how u almost ruined your life
/r/askTRP04/06/15 01:35 AM
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Is this because these traits are usually associated with sluttiness? She's only had 6 partners
/r/askTRP04/06/15 12:40 AM
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No she hasnt
/r/askTRP04/06/15 12:38 AM
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/r/askTRP04/06/15 12:27 AM
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To a large degree I agree with you. The thing is we have a great bond. Like if u seriously met her now you'd have no idea she was the way she used to be. She's completely different now.
/r/askTRP04/06/15 12:27 AM
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She got tested before we had sex and is clean
/r/askTRP04/06/15 12:25 AM
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Most of the responses refer to sluttiness. What if despite all the tattoos and piercings and drugs he's only been with 4 guys and 2 girls?
/r/askTRP04/06/15 12:25 AM
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/r/askTRP04/06/15 12:19 AM
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Because I love her and she's very hot
/r/askTRP04/06/15 12:06 AM
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i have an entire other account i had to delete i asked so many embarassing questions about her. it eats me alive and makes me want to kill myself. i love her so fucking much. but i hate her at the same time. does her saying she wont feel guilty for who she was come across as complete lack of remorse for being an utter degenerate?
/r/askTRP03/06/15 11:51 PM
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She says things like: " you don't know how to accept me. I won't feel guilty for who I was. I might have a certain look but I conducted myself pretty fucking well."
/r/askTRP03/06/15 11:35 PM
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despite all this shit, the one thing she's succeeded in is not being a slut
/r/askTRP03/06/15 11:28 PM
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she never had threesomes. why do you feel bad for her?
/r/askTRP03/06/15 11:22 PM
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ha!
/r/askTRP03/06/15 10:58 PM
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I've posted about this before on here I just need more advice. You mention you've done similar. I would appreciate beyond words if you could share your story with me. Let's see: Her father murdered her mother She started using heroin at 16 She then went on to use heroin, meth, coke, e, and more HEAVILY for 8 years She raved every weekend She was a gogo dancer where they were propositioned for sex for money and given free drugs She is covered in tattoos, one of which being near her breasts and on…
/r/askTRP03/06/15 10:45 PM
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no that's sincerely not what im doing
/r/askTRP01/06/15 05:51 PM
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I'm not exactly sure, but that's one thing she was sure of right away - was that I was definitely thicker than them.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 05:44 PM
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I too have been here and am currently going through something similar (bad past, just not a lot of partners) and it's killing me inside. Someone once told me, you have two options: You can accept her past and move on or You can't, and you let her go
/r/askTRP01/06/15 05:10 PM
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Up until a year ago I was like that. Sleeping a few hours a night and going days without eating, but I've made a lot of positive changes in that area.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 01:53 AM
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Thanks I'll do this. It's hard. But I'll find a way.
/r/askTRP30/05/15 01:52 AM
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I see, that makes a lot of sense. I've been working for years at the career of my dreams. I'm constantly striving to improve. I work in the video game industry and love my job, it just doesn't pay as well as I'd like. That is something I told myself years ago that I was okay with. Because making video games is my passion in life. I'm working always on advancing up the ladder. I want an animator position. I currently do visual fx and testing.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 11:44 PM
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You're right. My only excuse is that I'm too fucking lazy to further my career. Why do you say it may not be for me? I've been thinking that lately as well. If it isn't, what is my alternative? I have been diagnosed with severe depression, anxiety, and ocd. But aspbergers i surmise based on my behavior and a test i took. it's possible im malnourished.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 10:50 PM
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No Im too broke to be BB. I agree. I'm too much of a pussy beta to remove her cuz i really like her lol this is so pathetic. i hate hurting peoples feelings. i may also have slight autism.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 10:42 PM
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Thanks for the encouragement.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 10:37 PM
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I see. She'd probably flip her lid if I did. I know what you mean though. This whole situation makes me so mad you have no idea. I'm so frustrated I feel like giving up. This has been an ongoing, never ending battle. Not even sure what to do anymore.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 10:32 PM
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what if it's a LTR? shouldn't i have onitis in that casE?
/r/askTRP29/05/15 10:21 PM
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I've been to one in my entire life and it was a horrible experience. It was like $.05 pitchers and we all got drunk as fuck. I watched my buddy get maced in the middle of the street, and this other guy I was with threatened to fight everyone on the bus ride home, for absolutely no reason. Then he was eating raw chicken in his underwear in the kitchen. What a stupid fucking experience.
/r/askTRP29/05/15 10:20 PM
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Okay, thank you. I understand a little better now. I will work on this.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 04:33 PM
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I've been going over this in my mind and I have to ask you, why is this blue pill exactly? What should I do to change that, specifically in relation to this post?
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 04:18 PM
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it's actually pretty blatant bragging, along with utter confusion
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 04:17 PM
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"never have a as a friend" Idk what that means. I see what you're saying, and that's a good point. A lot to think about. Though most girls know that there would be 50+ girls ahead of them in line at that club alone, let alone the world. Not many women have the chance at that. Plus by TRP standards, Brad Pitt is an utter fool for marrying Angelina Jolie. She's got tattoos, drug use history, eating disorder, etc. So is he beta?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 09:59 PM
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I think you left a word out of the first line. Im not sure what you mean. i see what you're getting at, but im not sure that's what im saying. I'm saying that if a girl was willing to sleep with practically any decent looking, non inept guy at the bar, that makes her very trashy and low class. Basically, i question the quality of these woman that the guys on this thread relentlessly brag about fucking. they're probably some mashed potato shlub of a woman that would fuck just about anybody. big w…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 09:22 PM
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I understand I probably sound pretty blue pill, but that's where all my confusion is coming from. I believe what you're saying, other than saying you're ugly. I've googled you and (no homo) i'd consider you quite handsome.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 08:07 PM
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You and I have actually talked about her before. I know you're joking around, but you're right on almost every point. She has like 7 tattoos Used to have a tongue ring She used to be a heavy, heavy raver and drug user Her dad murdered her mom She used to have multicolored hair
/r/askTRP22/05/15 08:12 PM
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Yeah, I know... it was dumb of me. I was beta, blue pill, and didn't care at the time. I've been a mess. I am new here. I gotta ask, how would you even screen for this?
/r/askTRP22/05/15 07:55 PM
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i see, thank you. i definitely think my gf is an alpha widow. bad news...
/r/askTRP22/05/15 07:26 PM
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Yeah in a way, isn't it sort of cuckolding? Like, you're fucking this girl - but so are a bunch of other guys. That idea never sat right with me.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 07:01 PM
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Sorry you had to go through that dude. You're better off now, trust me.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 05:35 PM
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First I want to thank you for your time and your patience in dealing with me. Could you please elaborate on why you think she's an alpha widow? From the sounds of it, all her exes were really bad to her and she's had nothing but bad relationships. This probably just adds fuel to the fire right? You mean because she's had so much fun in her past she can't ever relive that? I see what you're saying in that case. I know what you mean. She profusely swears though that this is the life she wants and …
/r/askTRP20/05/15 10:45 PM
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your advice comes across as overly malicious for no reason.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 10:28 PM
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I really don't think I do either. At this exact moment I'm not sure. I need more time to think about it. I think I need to internalize all this and will probabaly grow very distant from her and end up ending it. I think. I just can't get it out of my head that HOW despite ALL this bad shit, is she 10x better than any girl I've ever been with? It just boggles my mind and makes me rationalize it all I guess.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 10:08 PM
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I'm seriously not trolling lol. I guess I am delusional. You don't know her or the entire story.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 09:31 PM
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sigh... -_-
/r/askTRP20/05/15 09:30 PM
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I know it seems unlikely and against the norm, but I believe her that she's not a slut.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 09:28 PM
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Yeah I agree with pretty much everything you said. She wasn't an exotic dancer though, she was a gogo dancer at raves. She had a boyfriend at the time and swears to me (ive interrogated the fuck out of her over this) that she never did that. of all my questioning she doesnt come across as a slut at all. i could probabaly tell if she did. she wouldnt even go get her paycheck alone because of how scummy he was. and she didnt have clients.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 08:33 PM
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advice noted. may i ask why you say such a low chance?
/r/askTRP20/05/15 08:14 PM
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In a way that's what brings me to being so bothered by this. We both know I could do better. I could find a girl even hotter without this shitty past. I go to the gym and work on hobbies and my career often. I see girls every day I know I could end up fucking that are hotter and clean looking. Not tattood and pierced, ex junkies. The problem is, I've always liked this girl a lot. I've always had a "oneitis' for her i guess you could say, even from 7 years ago.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 06:44 PM
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She did once tell me that if her life completely fell apart she would go back to her ex for drugs. This fucking floored me. I have like thousands of things to worry about with her I feel like. I almost lost my job worrying about this shit. I'd almost rather be alone. Typing this out though makes me see how fucking stupid I sound though...
/r/askTRP20/05/15 06:22 PM
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im afraid of that too. finding some "innocent" girl that's a huge slut. whereas this girl has been very upfront and honest about her terrible past.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 06:14 PM
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I understand. And I agree. This fuckin kills me man. Some things I think are worth noting that probabaly dont matter is that she never raved with her boyfriends. She always went with her two gay best friends (guys). I know what drugs she's fucked which boyfriends on etc. She tells me that she's past that, doesn't like it anymore. Hell, she's getting pretty old for that anyway. She really has matured in a huge way I think. She tells me that hanging out with me is more fun because it's "true happi…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 06:09 PM
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Thank you for your time. I too wonder if she is an alpha widow because of this. I fear that very much. Is there a way to determine this for sure? We are very invested in eachother at this point. She wants to move in together soon. Idk what to do or how to cut her off. I loved this girl so much...
/r/askTRP20/05/15 06:02 PM
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what is your obsession?
/r/askTRP20/05/15 05:19 PM
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how so?
/r/askTRP20/05/15 05:18 PM
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Trust me, i think that all the time, and maybe you're right. But if she's had more partners than she's said she's literally the worlds best liar on the face of the planet. which she isnt, she's a horrible liar and tells me the truth about terrible shit like this.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 05:08 PM
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hahaha that picture cracks me up. see man, i agree with you 100% but i've literally interrogated this girl like im on fuckin csi and her story checks out. i know that type of life usually goes hand and hand with being a slut, but through my own way i have determined she's not a slut. i still think of her as one though.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 04:59 PM
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Thank you very much for your honest reply. I will probabaly take you up on your offer to PM you, I need someone to talk to about this. You're right about her making changes. She's a COMPLETELY different person now. She tells me she regrets going back to him and regrets not staying with me. She says she really liked me back then but didnt think i liked her which is part of the reason she did it. I can see that, i was pretty ice cold and aloof back then. as for bb now, i cant even support her, and…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 04:57 PM
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I'm not trolling. I've read a lot of the sidebar, which is partially what brings me to asking this.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 04:53 PM
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I'm not trolling.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 04:53 PM
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I hear ya man. I knew my current gf 7 years ago and she was the hottest fucking chick I had ever seen. She still is, but she aged herself pretty badly with drug use. It's hard not to wish I had that version of her. Her family tells her she looks a good 10 years older than me. I've noticed she also tended to date way older guys to compensate. Thing is though man, everybody ages. One day you're gonna look old as fuck too. Your cock and balls are gonna shrivel up, and you're gonna look like shit. I…
/r/askTRP15/05/15 10:43 PM
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I did this exact thing with my current girlfriend.
/r/askTRP08/05/15 08:11 PM
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I see what you're saying. I think it's well documented that too much porn is bad. I made it three weeks without fapping and seriously would have fucked just about any girl lol. It made me insanely horny, but I channeled that energy into other, productive shit. Also it made me go out and find a girl. When you're that "desperate" to get off, you'll fucking game chicks no problem. Another thing is that if you cum too much too often, you deplete your body's resources of nutrients, which makes you in…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 06:32 PM
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It was my pleasure. It takes being vigilant every single day about your thoughts. If you want to talk more about this, feel free to message me any time.
/r/askTRP08/05/15 04:41 PM
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You sound like me a few months ago, before I beat the exact thing you're going through. I didn't think it could be done. In my desperation, I went to see a therapist and she diagnosed me with severe depression, anxiety, and OCD. I was prescribed anti-depressants that took almost 2 months to work, but have really helped me turn my life around. I was probably a LOT worse than you, so I know exactly what you're going through. My gf actually had a very bad past that is worth worrying about, so I ask…
/r/askTRP07/05/15 08:07 PM
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this comment made me seriously lol
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 06:35 PM
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Here's what Mr. Rogers has to say about this topic: http://i.ytimg.com/vi/Xg782MyVnDU/hqdefault.jpg
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 11:22 PM
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Yeah they're never sorry they did it, they're only sorry they got caught.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 06:14 PM
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You know you're doing it right when most of the women in your life are starting to regularly refer to you as an "asshole" and your phone has several "fuck you" texts from women who adore you. This made me laugh out loud, as since I've been doing this my gf says that all the time. There is something smolderingly hot about a woman looking you in the eye and say "You're an ass.......<please fuck me..>" Is that part really true? Is that what that means? What should you do at that point just start ma…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 04:54 PM
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Wow hahaha. Those comments are great about "leaving that asshole" as if he didn't already dump her ass. I'd have kicked her ass out the door too.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 04:17 PM
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The only behavior I described in my post is: looking down on people, starting fights over petty drama, can dish it out but not take it, being a sociopath, having no game. This is true alpha behavior? Am I on the right site?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 04:13 PM
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Do what things? Do you have an older brother? I don't think typical older brother shit makes him alpha in any walk of his life other than being a dickhead older brother.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 04:19 AM
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I understand he's domineering over me, I get that. He doesn't necessarily "rule my life", I am my own person and it's not like he's my boss or Jesus. I don't have to listen to him and I'm not his slave. He's not a true alpha, he has no control of any aspect of his life other than his low self esteem gfs when he has one or me. he's just the typical, overbearing older brother. How does a younger brother break free from that?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 05:30 AM
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Yeah I do understand that, but really for the past couple years I don't care at the moment. I mean, I love him and all that but I could really do well with not seeing his face for a LONG time or talking to him for awhile. Interestingly enough, there was a situation between his gf and I that caused my brother and I not to talk for over a year. Not having him constantly belittling me and always talking shit did wonders for me. It was honestly one of the best, most productive, happiest years of my …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 04:05 AM
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