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You are a 36yo dude married to a cheater with no kids. You have found this place. I think you underestimate how easy it is for you to get out of your marriage and find better woman than your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/23 08:26 AM
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Average man in America is 5'8" overweight(not obese) dude who earns $52,612 a year and if he is actually smart with money, he gonna earn more. Less than 10percent earn 6 figs. Now a man who earns 52k when he is single will have very less expenses given that he is not stupid enough to pay for onlyfans. Men dont even generate 1/3rd of trash women produce. Its women who benefit more financially by partnership with a man. Because when income is combined, generally men spend less than women so men sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:36 AM
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"Dread game" etc I was talking about game as in PUA game. is a step towards the end goal of not having to adjust your behavior consciously Isnt it the goal of learning anything. We learn alphabets so that we can write fluently without thinking about individual alphabet, we learn musical strings and notes, so that with enough practive we dont have to think about individual strings while playing guitar. Thats what game has always been, learn the steps, make mistake, calibrate your approach and pra…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 04:08 PM
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Okay if you want to have sex, you need to build up your attraction. That means lifting weights and being social. Tinder can be a go and miss. Best way to get women is in real life. I’m ugly physically and I’m obese Obese can be fixed, obviously and its better for your health. There are ways to enhance your looks like growing beard and stuff live with my mom and work a low paying job. I lived in my fathers basement and was unemployed, and still got laid, Women dont care, if they want to fuck you …
/r/MensRights07/12/23 01:25 PM
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the game is to act like a man who fucks Not wrong, but too simplistic for my taste. I see it more like a method of bringing a woman or any other person into my frame. At its core, most of game is to build rapport then cause enough "discomfort" through emotions to "deframe" other party so that they are more susceptible to enter the comfort of my frame and calibrate so as to not trigger defensive mechanism in other person. Good game does require strong frame to work. I think yareally said it best …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/23 06:36 AM
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Many women are single mothers by choice, women choose life of hardship by giving birth to baby of a man who bounced because feeling. On the other hand birth rate is declining in so-called socialist countries with very wide social security net, free daycare, healthcare etc. If women wants to give birth, they will give birth in slums. Women have a choice about the man they want to be impregnated with and they would rather it be alpha. But she wants resources of man too because she wants better lif…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:24 PM
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I think we should also not ignore the lack of men who are deemed worthy of reproduction. With feminism and women being independent, they are more likely to wait for mythical alpha bux. Problems is that most women are not worthy of commitment of alpha bux. Take marriedredpill for example, there people come as beta bux is low sex marriage. Some people do stupid shit and blow up their lives, those who have a functioning brain between their shoulders go through a process of debetafication(eliminatin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 04:08 PM
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No, most men cant teach their son game because they are themselves beta bux. Women cant ever teach their son game, they would rather him be a beta bux Throwing them in social situation without any sort of framework is gonna be bad. Unfortunately for men, redpill is the best way to go about dating. It gives a framework in which men can experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:54 PM
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Yes, of course who does not like free stuff. One who doesn't earn money but does the house work and the majority of the childcare I mean there are people like that but women who are SAHM feel that they dont have to do majority of housework because childcare is the toughest job or something. So from what women on internet thinks is fair, SAHD, should only do 50 percent of chores, 50 percent of parenting when wife comes home. Its a pretty sweet deal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 03:51 PM
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She can can be talking and hinting at sex all day and then recoil at my initiation Game sucks It's in my head "throw her on the bed and rip them panties off". I got scared, afraid she'll call me a fucking rapist or something. She wanted it Game sucks I'm a faggot No, you are not, gay men have very active sex life. I wish I had it in me. Are you seriously trying to get sympathy here? Do you want me to validate your feelings lol. Not even worthy of being called a faggot, get to work I could sense …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/23 03:00 PM
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There is bad dread and good dread. Good dread, my amazing husband is amazing and I should suck his dick before another woman does it and he leave me for her Bad dread, my beta hubby gives me comfort and security of commitment. I dont want it to end but I cant make myself fuck him because he is a pussy but I dont want to lose all the benefits. So I do what always work, throw tantrum, cry my eyes out so that he stop rebelling and get back into my frame. How could she be feeling dread if she percei…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/23 02:46 PM
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I came to understand instead that how much sex I get, and how good it is, is determined by how much game I'm running simple so simple.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/23 02:28 PM
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I notice her body language is very passive in general, almost protective when I come close to her. I dont think there is any other way to figure it out then to experiment with it. Generally when we are gaming strangers we build attraction first, then there is comfort. She does not feel attraction towards you but she is complying. From what I can see you are knee deep in her frame so its not a big leap to see why she does not feel attraction. Without attraction there is only compliance. Read up o…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/23 02:21 PM
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After going nuts, she collapsed in tears in my arms apologetically Ah! women. Turns out they need to feel the feels before fucking.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/23 02:14 PM
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I also realized I suck at fogging Fogging is cool, it pacify the situation while letting you do what you want without alienating others. But we should see shit tests in larger framework of game. They can be used to generate very strong feels in your woman. Without feels there are no tingles somewhat hold frame was because I genuinely believed it wasn't a big deal. It never is a big deal until you make it out to be. Its just shit test, women test you to see whether you are high value man. Trick i…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/23 02:12 PM
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Fiancee 28y Dont marry her until you figure it out
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/23 02:06 PM
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Wife is constantly shit testing me that I won't be able to take care of our son this week while she is away visiting family and that he should go with her You should reply with something like, "who told you that I was taking him to learn lion-taming". A&A is the king here, then when she get pissy, tease her like a little girl.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/23 02:04 PM
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Shit tests have been flying at me She is horny, fuck her I don't want to have aex AS MUCH as I used to When women are horny they tend to shit test so that you fail them and they lose their tingles. Sex can lead to pregnancy so her cavewomen brain is not keen on fucking just anyone. Problem here is that you are not failing them which is making her more horny, thats why are are getting this level of shit tests. I'm catching that most of it was for validation. It's so gross. Shit man, you are actin…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/23 01:58 PM
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You are still in her frame thats why you get angry. Why not find another woman to spend time with since your wife is not spending time with you? You asked her to add value in your life, she is not adding value in your life. Find other woman to add value to your life. You dont have to hide it or anything. Tell her plainly what you are doing. Book of Ya’really (25%) Shit, that book is goldmine. Use it to game other women. Your wife just need some good dose of dread. Question is can you get out of …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/23 01:49 PM
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I’ve been getting a lot of shit tests lately regarding how much time I set aside for myself Shit tests are the shit, passing them let you demonstrate value, dread, give her tingles etc and she give them freely. Try to be a little vague while passing shit tests, it will create uneasy feels
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/23 01:45 PM
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She really hates my drinking habits. Me too. Drinking is something that does not add positive value to your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/23 01:40 PM
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You are just scared for initiating sex. If you are not getting fucked its likely not a comfort test. I was told she is not attracted to me, how I am fake because I used to be a yes man initially then became rude and cold and how much she despises being married to me now, and how I never followed up on finding a marriage counselor (something I said I’d do before starting my red pill journey) or address my ADHD, and went scorched earth “I feel like I settled” Its a shit test. She is feeling dread …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/23 01:37 PM
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Discussions happen in context you can't just change context over and over again and expect consistently. We were talking about redpill view on relationships. That's the truth. People in other kind of relationships like boss employee have different power and incentive structure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:30 AM
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But u are not happy about it. You curse that guy behind his back and are polishing your resume and looking for another job in the mean time. Sure some women defer to bad men but they are making their exit plan or they are cheating. That's not the deference redpill men talk about because relationships are voluntary. Leaders are not bosses. They don't actually hold any position of power.people just like following them. Gandhi never held any position of power but people were happy to listen to him …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 05:18 AM
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Not if you look it from perspective of men. Suppose a man wants 2 kids, pretty common suburban family. There should be atleast 2 year difference between kids, for woman's body and relationship to settle down to new normal. So here is how ideal dating and marriage scene for men. He needs to find a woman, then date her for half a year, then he needs to live with her for atleast 1.5 years. Thats 2 years right there. If she was bad choice, he needs to dump her, if not he needs to marry her. Now they…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:43 PM
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You only need one right person to get out of dating scene. Redpill makes men attractive and give them the best chance along with training them to avoid red flags, like making them wait for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:35 PM
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Pretending to be semi-broke fuck boi. If you seer my child, you wont see the dime kind of vibe. Of course I earn decent amount of money and if I start to flaunt it, most women will punish me by making me wait for sex. If I am just a bum to have good time with, then I get to have sex while beta waits. I used to be very clean and organized, until I realized that you have to keep your home a little messy so that women treat you like someone she can change and she fucks you and then clean for you. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:32 PM
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Respect is required for deference, deference is ultimate sign of respect and trust. You dont defer to just anyone. The person need to prove that he is effective leader, he is trustworthy, reliable, empathetic, caring and includes you in his vision of life. Just because we demand deference does not mean we will get it willy nilly. We have to prove that we provide enough value to deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:24 PM
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What do most men want exactly in their lives. Regular sex,.peace.of mind, a wife who look up to him and respect him, and is hot or atleast not obese. The woman feminism creates are body positive (obese), sexually liberated(will fuck randos but husband is not entitled to sex), strong minded(bitchy and argumentative), equal to man (do not respect husband). An uninteresting woman who is hot, co-operative, who understands the importance of sex and respect her husband is FAR more valuable to a man th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 08:08 AM
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If she is a better leader, why doesn't he give up control? Thats actually a very good question and you asked it as some kinda gotcha but you hit a gold mine. If she is a better leader then it makes logical sense for man to give up control to her. What men want is his woman to sexually desire him. Will a woman who need to take a mental load of all the decisions AND RESPONSIBILITY of those decisions will remain sexually attracted to the man. ​ Why would a woman feel good giving up control to a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:58 AM
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Oh there are ways for a man to negotiate very successfully with a hostile partner. They do it in marriedredpill all the time. Trick is to be very effective. It just takes time to learn, when a man knows what he wants and how to get it, he will find it easier to convince his partner. He just has to learn the skills to do it without alienating his partner which are not that complicated. But most of the time its just easier to find a better partner. Marriedredpill is so intricately detailed and com…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:36 AM
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Its not about being toddler its about value. A woman who require all the work or argument or whatever at every possible turn provide less value than the woman who is more obedient. If man has an obedient woman at home, mental load of all the negotiation, arguments etc is reduced significantly. So the so called Obedient women gains more value to a man then a bratty feminist who is a landmine a man need to navigate to decide the color of his toothbrush. But men are not entitled to it, they need to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:20 AM
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They are norm in relationships as the age of man increases Some 20% of men who are newly remarried have a wife who is at least 10 years their junior, and another 18% married a woman who is 6-9 years younger. (https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2014/12/04/tying-the-knot-again-chances-are-theres-a-bigger-age-gap-than-the-first-time-around/) Thats the thing, a woman's value is related to her age. Most men and women pair up in later half of their 20s, so age gap is generally low. Most 28 year o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:10 PM
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