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True, they will have to endure the burden. If mother was not so selfish, she could have given him money to pay for child support to her. In that way she wouldnt have lost any money and father of her kids would be alive. Well she would rather let a man die.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:35 AM
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Hmm why do tibetians burn themselves to protest China? Turns out when people face injustice they tend to take drastic measures to bring attention to their plight.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:03 PM
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If I am in unsurmountable CS debt I take as many credit cards as I can, max them on child support and then file for bankruptcy but I have a great credit score and I am prepared. Other men are not He was making a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:38 PM
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I assume you want to make a point here right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:12 PM
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That was not your original question, your original question was When has a man last died from impregnating a woman of or sustained bodily harm from getting her pregnant or her giving birth? I did not say they died giving birth I said they died because... hmmm... lets me check my note "from impregnating a woman of or sustained bodily harm from getting her pregnant or her giving birth'
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:12 PM
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When has a man last died from impregnating a woman of or sustained bodily harm from getting her pregnant or her giving birth? You asked it, I answered it. Just because a man does not go through pregnancy and childbirth does not mean he can not die from " from impregnating a woman of or sustained bodily harm from getting her pregnant or her giving birth" These men died because they impregnated a woman, these men sustained bodily harm from getting her pregnant or her giving birth, because they got…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:47 PM
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There was a news about a guy who lit himself on fire in front of a courthouse because he could not pay child support, there was another one who hung himself in jail cell because he could not pay 20k per month CS.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:34 PM
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Because their men are not capable of cheating or are not willing to cheat so pre-selection is out of the window. Jealously and loss aversion are great at igniting strong feelz which translates to tingles. Unfortunately most men are told that they need to make women safe in relationship. While comfort is required its needs to be bare minimum. Because comfort leads to boredom and boredom leads to dry pussy. not that a man needs to cheat and there are other ways to ignite feelz in her but dread is …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:31 PM
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It doesnt really matter that its sad. People make their choices every single day. You live your life the way you see fit. There are women out there who instead of losing weight are marching towards stupid body positivity and eating themselves to death. Its sad, but it doesnt really matter. Take what's yours,
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/24 03:33 PM
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You dont make arguments against alimony. You tell any man you can find about dangers of marriage and alimony. If men dont marry there would be no alimony
/r/MensRights27/01/24 07:03 AM
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Dude you care too much. Care too much about your wife not fucking you. Care too much about others wives not fucking them. The rules of the game does not change if you are mad. The game is what it is, either play it or dont. You talk too much shit about blue pill or redpill but one thing you dont understand is, it doesnt really matter. What matters is what works and what doesnot. So my friend if I am wrong, then I am wrong. It doesnt really matter,, truth doenst matter, lies doesnt matter, what m…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/24 06:03 AM
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to pass shit tests (aka negotiate desire) Passing shit tests is NOT negotiating desire, its to demonstrate value. I didnt make the rules of the game they are what they are. Women when horny, shit test. Thats because if you fail the shit tests, her buying temperature goes down and cavewoman in her lives another day without getting pregnant. It’s a negotiation. Its not a negotiation, its more like a staredown. Where she is accessing your value and you are accessing hers. It’s annoying. Its annoyin…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/24 05:03 AM
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Thing is bud, as much as I want to help you I cant give you a cheezy pickup like to fix it. You gonna have to start reading the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/24 05:02 PM
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I really see value in being true to my word Thats true, there is value in being true to your word FOR people who add value to your life. Because being true to your word creates trust and people are more likely to add value to your life in future. Redpill is amoral, its just knowledge. Your morals are yours, you have every right to be true to your morals. Redpill does not care what your morals are, its the knowledge of what works and what does not. We are not pressing you to explore your morals b…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/24 05:00 AM
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Your wifey took blowjobs off the table permanently, so I dont think you get to choose not post OYS lol Let me give you prerequisites for OYS posting. Join the gym Stop Drinking. Start Reading. Worst thing that will happen if you post a bad oys is you gonna get banned for 2 weeks. But then again nice guy in you want our praises lol. You are not gonna get validation, you are at best gonna get a good analysis because others find u interesting and want to see what happens. People do not do OYS for o…
/r/askMRP25/01/24 05:35 PM
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Mystery Method- I know nothing about and have never used game so need to start somewhere. People shit on mystery method, its outdated blah blah. But nothing gives better foundation on game than mystery method. Yes the tricks and tips may be outdated but the core framework is the best of the best. So dont read this book superficially, really absorb and internalize the concepts.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 02:59 PM
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Full balls are just for motivation. Motivation for exactly what?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 02:54 PM
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You know they say if you only have a hammer all things look like nail. But in your case you hate the nail so much that you only see nail and wants to hammer it down.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 02:51 PM
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Thing about incongruency is that it will rear its ugly head, you can push it down the line but you gonna have to face it someday. Prepare yourself
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 02:48 PM
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I dont think its good idea for me to share something here that will have me doxxed so you are out of luck BUT I will tell you how I realized what I had was obsession. I recently got into Harry Potter, after I read somewhere that Jim Dale was given award for using like hundred voices in the audio book for Harry Potter, and I started listening to audio book. In 3rd book, Serious Black was asked how did dementors did not affect him in Azkaban. Dementors suck all the happy feeling out of people and …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 02:44 PM
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I think it was a better time to verbally nuke than STFU. Think outside the box, there are ways to deal with shit tests, lets see, teasing, negging, roleplaying, etc. If only arsenal you have is nuke and STFU, then its gonna be a very bad marriage. If you cant have fun with her shit tests, then you are gonna make it more miserable for yourself
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 11:48 AM
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Relationship & Sex Feelz, Feelz, Feelz. The key to success and failure
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 11:45 AM
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6'4" 304# (-4) , 35% BF The thing about obesity is that it masks everything else. Even when doctors differential on a patient its hard to figure out if there is underlying problem or it is just effects of obesity. Same with mrp. Its difficult to give importance to anything else when that body fat percentage is staring in your face. So you are in a unique position because your weight makes it difficult to fine tune any advice. Good luck on your weight, its the big elephant in the room that needs …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 11:33 AM
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I stood by my commitment not to cheat Why? Dont give me BS about honor or whatever fuck bluepillers tell themselves. Why didnt you cheat? My wife acts disdainful of direct advances and my gut feeling is that I need to steamroll them. Why hesitant in streamrolling them? What are you waiting for? It’s all a massive shit test. duhh Dread is emerging You know they say active dread is generally bad, thats true, but it not the whole picture. Yes, flirting with a waitress to incite some kind of jealous…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 11:23 AM
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jizzed muh pants there should be a nice story behind it Once I initiated in the evening after some banter over the day and got rejected, Big deal I did NOT take it well. I STFU towards her, but felt strong anger flaming up, seething at the fact that she could just lay there beside me. Took me a long time to fall asleep that night (uncommon for me), Outcome Independence does not exist without abundance. So get used to that feeling until you can cultivate abundance I broke my no-porn streak on the…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 09:19 AM
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d she brought it up during a "serious" conversation and asked me why I had started talking dirty all of a sudden (in a very clinical, aloof way designed to make me feel silly). Shit test I lied and said it was because it turned me on. Good enough She accepted this at face value, but it's bullshit and I'm angry at myself for bitching out. I'm doing it because I want her to act like my slut, THAT would turn me on. Nothing wrong with going for what you want. That said, I clearly can't stop now, so …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 09:14 AM
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I'm going to need to enforce this boundary like a hawk Call me lazy but this is exhausting as fuck. She's in my frame now, hmmm,
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 09:10 AM
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promptly tore my biceps insertion clean off the bone in a freak accident reaching for a ball ooh fuck me, I tore my bicep while deadlifting because I am a fucking idiot. Muscles are adaptable so yeah some silver lining my wife's immediate reaction to my injury was to yell at me for getting injured. Garden variety shit test. Still in bad taste This time i was direct and I told her it wasn't going to work if she was only there for me when life is going well. Nuke, is good well done
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 09:03 AM
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One thing that is bothering me recently is… I game, we have sex, and then I wonder if this is it?.. What am I missing? I am struggling to explain what I mean here. You are struggling with acceptance of the fact that your wife is not that big of a deal. Your oneitis is ending because yes, sex with wife is good than not having sex. But it is not that big of a deal. I suggest you read about Emotional side of sex in "Sex God Method" and then move on to "immersion"
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 08:57 AM
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it almost feels unnatural. anyone can go to gym here and there when they are feeling motivate or have seen "pumping iron" recently. It different to go to gym when you are at the lowest. Same with game. Game is not something you do, its who you are as a person. You are a playful chad or you are an imposter. You know which when you are put under pressure
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 08:52 AM
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I’ll initiate when I feel like it, but her acting like a rape victim turns me off the same way her being 400 lbs and unwashed would. Got scared and activated your defense mechanism of avoidance. Do yourself a favor and STOP lying to yourself. Let me give you a hint, if your wife is starfishing you, YOUR GAME SUCKS. It means that you were not able to get her aroused. So answer this, how are you gaming her. If answer is "i dont know" then you have your answer. Learn some game and stop being a cowa…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 08:47 AM
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AH! to be selfish and to not be selfish. the big dilemma, when the covert contracts end and we realize that we just not care that much it becomes difficult to not become a selfish cunt. But we always need to pretend to be "human". I have been accused of using people and I do but so do they. That's the reality of life. Funny how that has made me a kind of altruist, who gives "without" any string attached.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 08:36 AM
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I’m just going to continue going to church for now. Alongside that, I am praying each morning and reading scripture. As for going out, I am not sure what I want to do just yet. Comfort is hell of a drug. When you decide to embrace discomfort, then the overwhelming feeling of darkness you feel surrounded by, will go away, permanently There is no book for it, there are no scripture there is no support group you are alone in that dark pit clamoring to get out. I always thought it took courage to ge…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 08:24 AM
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("Do we need some attention?") Shit test Gently pushed through, made eye contact and Fair enough, need some calibration got angry venting about not respecting her boundaries, manhandling her daily, or her grief. Shit test I joke she's lucky to have it, Dont joke next time, this can be delivered in serious tone she doubles down on being disrespected. Shit test . I held frame saying while I support her feelings, I emotionally connect through physical intimacy. Duuuude, not great, you dont need to …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 08:13 AM
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You have very weak game it seems I went to couples therapy- except the first thing the shrink said was “I don’t do therapy. I do counseling and I only do short cycles.” they were setting the frame for your interaction, its a way to take control of a social situation. Your "therapist" seems like garden variety couple counselor who doesnt have good skills in terms of actual therapy but have good command on social interaction. So in a way she is telling the truth, she is not a therapy I could only …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 08:00 AM
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As much I would love to shit on you my friend, I think you need advice. I dont have high hopes though so yeah. STFU and DNGAF Time for communication is over, its time to talk with your action. Stop reading Rollo. Time for anger is over, its time to act Only thing that is gonna turn the tide on you is abundance. Not the fake stuff, the real DNGAF. That will only come when you can get a woman other than your wife to fuck you and you are willing to fuck them. You need to accept that your wife may n…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 07:44 AM
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