coldkodiak Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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9	Keeping it simple in the spirit of being manipulative rather than genuine apparently. I think op has a little more learning to do.	/r/seduction	24/12/12 03:30 AM
23	A new sort of rejection Good for you. Hang on to that idea, it can slip easily.	/r/seduction	16/12/12 05:42 AM
3	Alcohol and Opening: Is it a Game killer? Yeah. Has nothing to do with anything. It's about how much alcohol it takes before you become a repugnant asshole, which you've clearly already got down. I mean... NOONE drinks at a bar right? Really, everybody should be drinking cream soda... Alcohol has nothing to do with why people go to bars.	/r/seduction	29/04/12 12:47 AM
3	Alcohol and Opening: Is it a Game killer? I think of Alcohol as a psychological tool. Without a drink in your hand in a social situation it feels like you're missing something. You don't need it, but, there's a certain level of feeling relaxed with a drink in your hand; as such: it is a crutch if you let it be. I dunno how many times I've let myself get drunk before I approached anyone... in fact got drunk before we even went out to the bar (pregaming) just out of social anxiety to the whole situation. Keeping this is mind, you can allo…	/r/seduction	29/04/12 12:09 AM
1	I can't stop mental masturbation, but when it comes game time... Own the fear for AA. Ask yourself what you're really afraid of, and see if it's so bad... if it's not, then say to yourself 'I'm not afraid of that', and talk to her. Gotta psych yourself out a bit. If you come up with a reason you think is a 'good' reason not to talk to her... then you need to work on that till it's not a reason anymore. If you want, use it to your advantage, and literally walk up the girl and say 'I dunno what to say you, you're so gorgeous it makes me nervous'. (helps when th…	/r/seduction	19/01/12 08:29 AM
2	I can't stop mental masturbation, but when it comes game time... Yeah, only real solution to that is not to put anyone on a pedestal. Most men fail in this regard, it's not uncommon. When you actually like someone you tend to act in a way that is needy and weak in a girls perspective, thus you kinda fuck it up right away, especially if you're just getting to know them. You get over that when you meet enough women though, you don't build these fantasies in your head... you realize everyone is just sort of a person, and tend to be just as fucked up and stupid a…	/r/seduction	19/01/12 08:23 AM
2	I can't stop mental masturbation, but when it comes game time... someone you are kinda interested in but don't care either way. Game works best on girls that you find easy to approach.	/r/seduction	19/01/12 04:31 AM
7	[FR] Girl asks me out for a coffee, then she talks a lot more than me A talky girl is usually a sign of her being somewhat anxious herself. It might mean she likes you and doesn't want to fuck it up by being super up front (but of course, in her lack of perspective, fails to realize can be overwhelming). It's also a little bit of gender role reversal, but honestly, just own up to it if you enjoy it, and you enjoy her. If you don't like it: tell her to slow down, relax or whatever. Being the man is about being comfortable, and taking initiative and being yourself, …	/r/seduction	31/03/11 08:39 PM
3	Mystery and Tyler Durden on Shit Tests [Video] That shouldn't stop you from being yourself, or limiting yourself. This isn't science class, and we don't really need to dig into the issue at some fundamental level, but it's obvious that looking interesting, and standing out, and having the personality to back it up is a good thing. If you're limiting who you can be because you're worried about other people's perceptions, you're fucked. Hypothetically it's true you're probably also a fucking retard if you wear a nazi outfit... but if you're tr…	/r/seduction	11/03/11 01:45 AM
7	Mystery and Tyler Durden on Shit Tests [Video] who gives a flying fuck what other people think; it makes you more interesting than other people around, which is what this is all about. Not to mention if that ghettup is him it'll attract the type of girls he likes.	/r/seduction	10/03/11 05:01 AM
2	Greeting Girls with a Kiss on the Cheek or you look like a douche if you're with the wrong people. Doing cultural things can brand you pariah, or endear you to people. This isn't a sure fire tactic by any means. You better have a social circle and some social proof cred before you go around kissing every girl on the cheek (and end up skipping dudes of course not knowing culturally this is done with everyone, not just girls). someone is going to call you out on it at some point, and if you're lone-cheek-kisser among your peers, you're …	/r/seduction	04/03/11 10:50 PM
4	[fR] Girl on the bus getting over that AA hump isn't a bad thing at all.	/r/seduction	05/02/11 02:14 AM
7	[FR] Solo Sarging in NYC "So which one of my friends do you want to fuck?" Not an expert at this, but you could just suggest all of them in a jokey sort of fashion, if you want to escalate the discourse. If you need an easy answer; neg her for her 'sexual advances'. On suggesting all of them, but having a target in mind, you might do a run down and pick out what you like about all the girls around her, and leave out the target, hopefully making her try for more attention.	/r/seduction	31/01/11 08:14 AM