colec Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Help with my voice? shit, learn how to sing. Start a band. Slay poon.	/r/becomeaman	09/04/15 01:18 AM
1	I feel worthless and it's really fucking frustrating. When you fail, how long is it after you began to believe you were going to fail? The fact that you get to this realization is your gift--it's you telling you to stop being a fuck up. If you're putting in work, but not getting returns, you're not putting in the work. You're a fuck up and you're the only one who doesn't know it. And that's a shitty place to be. You got yourself there, only you can get yourself out. Do the little things right. Bathe regularly. Give a shit about you appearance. Wear…	/r/becomeaman	22/01/15 12:25 PM
1	Hunter S. Thompson On Finding Your Purpose My motto is, what you do is not the end, but a means to an end. IOW, who gives a fuck what you "do"--how do you want to live? Brilliant post.	/r/becomeaman	02/01/15 05:07 AM
5	Getting back-lashed for saying no? That was my read. He parked next to a drive thru ATM and thought he left enough room for a car to pass. He parked next to a drive thru ATM. While waiting for his mom. I think we've seen enough here. Stop applauding this behavior, men.	/r/becomeaman	17/12/14 03:25 PM
3	How to handle bullying/harsh jokes? Damn dude. Figure it out. If chicks are scoring on you, it's because you're perceived as weak and demanding that they treat you "seriously" wants me to start scoring on you too. Here's a tip: There is one person responsible for how you feel. YOU. Not another soul. When another person makes you feel bad, it's because you gave them the power to do it. And they took it because you were weak enough to be taken. How you feel is your responsibility. Own it. Own that the source of all of the problems i…	/r/becomeaman	05/11/14 02:22 PM
2	How to handle bullying/harsh jokes? Being serious..I'd goof on you if you had a stick up your ass. Anybody normal would. Those kinds of comebacks are the result of being able to laugh at yourself--a sign of good emotional intelligence. The comedian Jim Norton describes himself as a pathetic human being, but because he can laugh at himself, he's amazing. I didn't read your post or comebacks as logical. It's all an emotional reaction to something that happened in middle school. Seriously--look on how to improve your emotional intell…	/r/becomeaman	05/11/14 01:24 PM
6	How to handle bullying/harsh jokes? sounds to me like normal banter between males...but you comebacks invite another round. Go back and look at the points I gave you originally. If you want someone to say, "yeah, they're meanies", you came to the wrong place. you're a fag--figures, I used to get beat up by girls. DONE. They can't top that. that would explain why you were looking so gay--well, you would know. DONE. Thicker skin. Laugh at yourself. Stop acting emotional. Be a man.	/r/becomeaman	05/11/14 12:55 PM
1	How to handle bullying/harsh jokes? give some examples...a scenario of how it typically goes.	/r/becomeaman	05/11/14 02:08 AM
5	How to handle bullying/harsh jokes? OK, do everything but #1. There's the fix for it. Trust me. Try some self decrecating humor. For example, if somebody says, "you're a fag", comeback with, "shit, it's worse than that--I used to get beat up by girls" and learn to laugh at yourself. If you act like a whiny dude, you'll be treated that way. This holds true for the rest of your life.	/r/becomeaman	05/11/14 01:49 AM
15	How to handle bullying/harsh jokes? The comeback isn't as important as fixing the root--why you are a target. High school is over. Let it go. If you think you look like an idiot, you do. Stop thinking you look like an idiot. Who gives a fuck what anybody thinks. Thicken your skin a bit. Reacting with poor self esteem makes you...you guessed it...a target. Learn how to laugh at yourself. When you can goof on yourself better than anyone else, no one else will even try. Self decrepating humor is a must. Learn the difference between b…	/r/becomeaman	05/11/14 01:34 AM