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Yes. Gender roles as a whole are cultural cancer and we need to get rid of them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:25 PM
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no, you're wrong because.... You just are, okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 07:06 PM
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It's not about sex only, it's about intimacy as a whole It’s harder for women to get commitment because so many men aren’t inherently interested in it and many women are No it's fucking not. The only men who aren't interested in commitment are Chads, who women flock over because they're the most attractive. Women have trouble getting commitment only if the man they're trying to get with is more attractive than her, which is usually the case because women date up. But you can easily fix that by a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 06:36 PM
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I can't meet new people because I'm in my freshman year of university and ALL OF THE CLASSES ARE ONLINE
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 05:19 PM
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WHY DO I GOTTA DO ALL THIS SHIT TO HAVE SOMETHING THAT WOMEN HAVE BY DEFAULT????
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 08:09 AM
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I love how you compare starvation to obesity. You're basically admitting that women's problems in dating aren't valid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:19 PM
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Orbiters aren't actual relationship prospects though The reason orbiters are orbiters is because they got rejected in the first place. If a girl has 50 orbiters it means that she has rejected 50 men Besides which, this literally only applies to that kind of hot young e-girl type No, those have thousands of orbiters. Literally any woman in male centred hobbies can get 50 simps, cause if you mention or even imply that you're female on any of these spaces, you're guaranteed to get flooded with atte…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 09:32 AM
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Oh yeah, cause it's the nerdy guys who reject the nerdy girls. It's totally not the other way around because every single woman in a male centred hobby has 50 orbiters at all times
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 09:09 AM
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Seriously though, answer the question. What do women bring to the table that men don't? I'm curious
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 09:03 AM
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Cause every man who's nice and struggles romantically HAS to be insincere right? There's no other possible reason as to why that's the case
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:43 PM
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What are women brining to the table other than sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:41 PM
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But men don't have high standards like women do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:34 PM
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You can have meaningful connections without sex but you need to have a meaningful connection with sex to live a fulfilling life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:11 PM
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Yes unless you're asexual
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:46 PM
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So are all the genuinely bad guys
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 04:33 PM
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It's not like having meaningful connections is essential for a fulfilling life or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 04:31 PM
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No but it produces funny
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 06:03 PM
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The thing is, men are way more eager to consent to both these things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:21 AM
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You unintentionally condensed everything wrong with women into one comment. Amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:20 AM
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Everything is a transaction. Everything. Women are so naïve I swear to god
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:12 AM
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I'm funny and good looking. Also I don't pump and dump unless I hook up with her drunk and next morning I realize she's fat
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:09 AM
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Listening to tradcon guys complain about betabucks is the funniest shit ever
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:07 PM
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muh secret club
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 11:24 AM
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62% of women admitted to having rape fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 12:31 PM
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There is no such thing as a nontransactional relationship. You're just unaware of what's being traded
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:19 AM
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It's not. But it's not helping either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:18 AM
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It's not "some women". It's most of them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:18 AM
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*chads do it too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:17 AM
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If male: a lot If female: not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:16 AM
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Yes, that would be ideal. But that takes a long time to do properly and attacking men for being men only makes things worse. Pressuring men to be masculine is equally bad as attacking them for being masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:53 PM
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Realistic? Are you kidding me? They look uncanny as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 07:59 PM
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Ideally the abolition of gender roles, but not attacking masculinity and not viewing men as asexual worker drones would help too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 07:58 PM
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Obviously, when people say "women like x", they mean that women like x on average, not that all women like x
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 07:56 PM
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Posting pictures of yourself on the internet is easy. There's no arguing over it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 09:22 AM
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It can be traumatic but it's also very easy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 08:49 AM
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Rich famous man attractive?????? That changes everything!!11!1!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:05 PM
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Keyword: few
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:04 PM
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Because it's easy money. And no we can't
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:03 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:01 PM
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Anybody who says this shit unironically is mentally ill and should be avoided. Regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:32 PM
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Money is only one variable in a very complex equation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:26 PM
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Eeeehhhh.... I wouldn't go that far. Women definitely have it easier on average though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:24 PM
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The sheer amount of cope in this post is unreal
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:21 PM
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Unless you're completely insufferable, if you can get sex easier, you can get love easier
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 03:16 PM
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I mean, it's definitely healthy to think this way, but that's not entirely true. There are many variables that dictate how a person behaves and most of them aren't really under their control. So when we examine societal problems it's important to know what causes them so we can trace the root of the problem. Therefore, blaming only men for toxic masculinity isn't gonna fix toxic masculinity because it's not exclusively caused by men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:11 AM
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They are. But women aren't innocent angels either
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:47 AM
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And of course it's that one specific trait that's the reason why women are attracted to them, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:23 PM
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I'm cherrypicking? You're the one who claims that all psychopaths are specifically pretending to be nice to rule women in. Don't you see how far fetched that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:21 PM
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My point: psychopaths/narcissists pretend to be kind and sensitive so women like them Yeah, sure buddy. When women masturbate to serial killer documentaries they do so because these serial killers are such nice guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:19 PM
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Why are you moving the goalpost? I never argued that women want to get raped by a stranger. That's obviously untrue lol. Fantasy isn't the same as reality. What I DID argue was that women are attracted to aggressive and assertive men. In other words, women enable toxic masculinity at best and create it at worst
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:17 PM
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What do you think women fantasize about when they ask you to slap them and chase them around the bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:13 PM
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Sometimes. Most of the time it's just because women like aggressive men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:11 PM
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What? 62% I doubt that 62% of men watch trans porn lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:10 PM
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That doesn't mean it's a general trend. But it is. Look at all the erotica that's popular with women. It's filled with aggressive, rapey psychopaths. 62% of women admitted to having rape fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:09 PM
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Yeah, I'm sure ALL psychopaths and narcissists also happen to be masters of deception and manipulation. It's totally not because women are attracted to aggressive violent men, which is why women DON'T masturbate to serial killer documentaries at all, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:04 PM
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Women don't like "toxic masculinity." Then why are psychopaths and narcissists way more sexually successful than the average male?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:00 PM
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Toxic masculinity is a product of female sexuality. Men are forced to act masculine cause if they don't, they won't reproduce. If women were actually attracted to men who were sensitive and expressed themselves then toxic masculinity would end in like a month. For most men, masculinity is performative. And it sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:57 PM
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Sex is the most inimate act that you can possibly do with another person. It's seen as an expression of love in literally every culture. Unfortunately, you can have sex without love, hence the existence of hookup culture, but you can't have love without sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 10:54 PM
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I value sex because I value people. If you don't want to have sex with your partner, you don't value them as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 01:34 PM
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"Meaningful relationship is when you're living ATM and no sex"- car marks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 07:46 AM
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You don't need a relationship to be happy. Sure You also don't need a car to get to places but it fucking helps
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 02:15 PM
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Loveless relationships are stil better than solitude
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 02:01 PM
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What do you have to offer? Seek a man who's in the same level as you. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 01:37 PM
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The interesting thing about women's "problems" is that less attractive women wish had those "problems". For example, while attractive women complain about being catcalled, ugly women wish they would get catcalled. Really makes you think
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 01:05 PM
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When the concept of gender gets completely removed from our society and people stop piling up in big cities and all the dating apps get removed simultaneously
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 10:52 PM
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Because most women don't age mentally past 15
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 10:37 PM
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In the dating scene, yes we are
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:44 AM
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Because of hypergamy, most men have few to no romantic options
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:43 AM
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90% of women are attracted to the exact opposite of what you described
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:41 AM
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Why is it that your first instinct when someone criticizes women is to erase history?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:35 AM
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sometimes Not nearly as much as they should be
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:33 AM
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Why do we have to do all this shit while you just lay there?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:32 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:29 AM
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Then why are you arguing with me? You're mean. Embrace it. No I'm not. Sometimes I guess. But I'm not an asshole or anything No. She'll be very good at getting pumped and dumped. Ask literally any man if they'd marry a woman who gives amazing head and for most the answer will be yes Who cares? What do you mean who cares? Women are conditioning men to act in toxic ways via sexual selection. Can you not see how that is a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 09:03 PM
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But being nice is not attractive to women, whereas blowjobs are very attractive to men. If a woman gives good head, she'll be way more romantically successful. That's not true for nice guys. In fact, studies have shown that psychopaths are significantly more attractive than the average male
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:45 PM
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Studies have shown that males who display dark triad traits are significantly more attractive to women than men who don't display those traits. Therefore, being an asshole gets you laid. And since sex is our second evolutionary goal, people are willing to prioritize sexual success over morals. And that's how we get toxic masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:41 PM
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It was done by men AND women to men and I explained why
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:25 PM
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Are you suggesting that being kind to a woman is equally attractive as giving a blowjob is to a man? That's not the case at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 07:23 PM
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The sheer amount of mental gymnastics is astounding
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 06:14 PM
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Right. Men just came up with it one day and now it's a thing. One day, for no reason, men just decided to suppress their own emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 11:41 AM
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What's more valuable evidence? The experiences of one person or the collective data analysis of thousands of interactions between men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 11:14 AM
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And why do you think they teach them that? Did men just decide one day "from now on, we should tell our sons not to cry!" , or does that happen for a reason? What if that reason is women losing attraction to men when they display vulnerability?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 11:13 AM
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I'm not saying it's entirely women's fault. But they're definitely enabling this behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 11:11 AM
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Yeah they do. You think the whole "men don't cry" thing came out of thin air?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 10:05 AM
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Sex isn’t a reward. No it just fills your brain with shit loads of dopamine. Totally not a reward women didn’t even have a choice is who to marry But they do now, and they choose criminals and psychopaths I can’t tell you what men want, but I can show you that most men would have sex with any woman. Isn’t that why you guys are so adamant about “women only need to show up”. That's true, but we prefer women who are nice TO WHAT EXTENT does women’s behaviour affect the ACTUAL choices that men make?…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 10:04 AM
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One look at online dating statistics proves that hypergamy is an exclusively female trait
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 09:46 AM
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I'm not talking about abusive relationships, I'm talking about men who are psychopaths and criminals. If men didn't reward aggressive, violent male behaviour with sex, there wouldn't be as many aggressive, violent men Many of the women who date or stay with shitty men are themselves shitty people because like attracts like. But women who are bar people are actually less attractive to men than nice women. For men, it's the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 09:44 AM
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No but a Russian accent will
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 09:39 AM
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Trust me, it wasn't the blowjob that made them leave. Unless they were very toothy or something
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 09:37 AM
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I guess the vast majority of women are not worth being with then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 09:34 AM
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So every psychopath and/or criminal also happens to be a master of deception and manipulation? That's quite a convenient coincidence lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:44 AM
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If women are so good at detecting predatory and manipulative behaviour then why do psychopaths and criminals get so much pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 08:45 PM
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There is no shift. "Nice guy" is just a form of gaslighting that women use to discredit the experiences of men. It couldn't possibly be true that women are attracted to bad men. Noooo. YOU are just not actually nice and you fake niceness to get laid. In order to avoid responsibility, women go so far as to make these insane accusations on men they barely know. It's absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 08:44 PM
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Or maybe you're too sensitive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 08:18 PM
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There are people like that but they're not many lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 08:15 PM
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But the relationship area is like 80% of life. If you don't have any meaningful connections in your life, what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 11:50 AM
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Never women's fault
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 11:46 AM
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Putting effort in your appearance isn't necessary to get sex as a woman. Nowdays, even fat, ugly women get flooded with matches. Women's intrinsic value is too high
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 09:45 PM
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My success with women actually increased when I started becoming a little misogynistic. But that has to do more with the fact that I'm a funnier guy than I was when I didn't dislike women. It doesn't really matter if you like or hate women, as long as you're charismatic you'll be successful, although I did read a study once about how men with dark triad traits were more successful than average
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 06:58 PM
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Yes but I'm also right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 05:41 PM
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I wouldn’t take dating advice from other women You don't need dating advice. You're a woman. But yes asking men is probably beneficial to you because we actually know what we want, unlike women I would rather find out what people actually want and what the right thing to do is The way to do this is not by asking women for the reason above
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 05:35 PM
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Every single guy on the planet can find a woman willing to sleep with them Yes but it takes years of self improvement. Women can do it effortlessly but when presented with a female POV on this sub, everyone tells you to shut up and that you’re wrong Because you are. If everyone else tells you you're wrong, you're probably just wrong. Women giving men dating advice is like white people giving black people advice on how to deal with cops. There's way too many variables on our side that you have no…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 05:30 PM
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Women get turned down too but they don’t cry about it Because for every guy who rejects them there are 10 guys willing to date them. Guys don't have that. Our only way to cope is by complaining about it in a funny way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 05:21 PM
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Yes. It's called life experience. If you interact with people enough times you start to recognise patterns
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 05:18 PM
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Isn't that a legitimate thing to be upset about?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 05:17 PM
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Yeah because we don't live on tutorial mode
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:09 PM
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Men complain about the wage gap? What the fuck are you smoking?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:05 PM
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More like 3 or 4 percent. And that's me being generous
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:04 PM
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Women are incapable of insulting a man on something other than his penis size or his success with women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:02 PM
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I'm too bored to get into details but basically you have yo strike a balance between being interesting and not looking like a psycho. If you wanna pick up a chick just compliment her shoes or any clothes that are not associated with sexual body parts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:23 PM
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They do, just not consiously
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:57 AM
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You do but for every one guy that rejects you there's 10 guys asking you out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:52 AM
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I never said nor implied that you should have sex whenever you want
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 05:32 PM
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Yes they would. If all the men you meet only want you for sex that's cause sex is all you can offer
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 04:28 PM
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Engineering universities are sausage fests lmao. There are like 5 women and each one has 30 orbiters
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 08:04 AM
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No point in arguing with people like you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 05:20 PM
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People like you exist but you're an EXCEPTION. When people say "women want men who make more than them" they don't literally mean "ALL women want someone who makes more than them". There are exceptions to every rule but that doesn't mean the rule doesn't apply
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 05:17 PM
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If you think that women only have intrinsic value in the field of dating you're a fucking idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 05:15 PM
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Sex in a romantic relationship is, for the most part, an act of affection
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 05:13 PM
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Its not something that affect only me. It affects all men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 05:13 PM
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Eh, I'm a mixed bag. Sure, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 03:29 PM
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No they don't lol. Women are seen as valuable, men are seen as disposable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 03:28 PM
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Is it though?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 03:26 PM
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How the fuck am I supposed to not be jaded? LOOK AT THE WORLD WE LIVE IN
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 10:50 AM
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Sex doesn’t always feel good, especially when you don’t want to, are tired, are annoyed, are angry, are sad, are really intoxicated, are really full, are in pain, are sick, and are stressed out. Neither does cuddling. Or any form of affection if you don't want to be affectionate atm
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 08:30 AM
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They're both acts of affection. They're very much comperable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 08:28 AM
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What if I want to show I care about them via sex? Also what's with this whole feeling special thing? Nobody's special. Life is not a Disney movie. Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 08:26 AM
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It's not about entitlement. It's about having a healthy relationship. If your partner doesn't wanna have sex with you then it's not a partner, it's a roommate. Stop painting men as predatory monsters because we have needs. How would you feel if your partner refused to cuddle with you because they were tired? Or refused to go out with you? Or talk to you about their day? Would it feel good if a bunch of men on the internet said shit like "YoUre NOt EnTiTlEd To AfFeCtIon" whenever you tried to exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 08:23 AM
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Women still want a man who makes more than them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 08:16 AM
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Yeah they do. If they didn't, they'd just get a prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:11 PM
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You don't need to be married to hang out with your partner m8
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:20 PM
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Nothing changes ever
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:17 PM
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This is not something that happens on an individual level. It's something that happens culturally mostly. You see it with terms like "rape culture", which imply that most men tolerate or even encourage rape or sexual assault, when that's not the case. Every time someone draws a hot woman on the internet you hear all these Tumblr people telling about the objectification of women in media simply because men want to fuck hot women. But if you want real life examples I've got one of these two. If a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 02:10 PM
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Yes, but you still had to approach them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:45 AM
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And how do you meet those initial friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:41 AM
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You still have to introduce yourself to meet new people though. It's not that different from cold approaching
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:26 AM
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Good luck dealing with the sexual frustration
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:24 AM
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Now only thing left to do is to put your money where your mouth is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:21 AM
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You say all this and yet you still choose to have sex with violent men because they're "exciting" lol. The memes write themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:19 AM
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How are you supposed to have good mental health without people to be around and/or have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:11 AM
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You say it like it's some horrible thing that men want sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 07:39 AM
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I'm not talking about catcalling only. Sure, it's bad, you can have it. I don't care. I’ve never heard any feminist say that men finding a woman attractive means he doesn’t appreciate her other qualities either Well I have, all the time. It feels nowdays that if your primary source of attraction from a woman isn't her personality or how stunning and brave she is you get labeled as insert buzzword here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 07:22 AM
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I'm not saying that they like it, but the fact that they don't show how privileged women are in the field of dating and interpersonal relationships in general
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 07:19 AM
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Biology my ass. You view penetration as inherently invasive and harmful because you associate it with men, whom you were socialised to view as either invisible or dangerous. There's been plenty of cultures throughout history with massively different gender roles where this was not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 08:49 AM
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Easier said than done, especially considering the fact that a woman can label you as creepy for whatever reason she wants, whenever she wants. It's kind of funny because it's almost always the men who don't respect women who end up being the most sexually successful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 08:46 AM
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The real reason why you're so disgusted of unwanted male attention isn't because they're stronger than you, it's because men are perceived as asexual worker drones with no intrinsic value, and when they express desire it makes everyone uncomfortable because they're not supposed to do that. But that's not a very good look on you so you gotta come up with all this "living in fear" nonsense, even though most interactions you have with men are in a public setting with lots of other people around
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 08:42 AM
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Most men don't stalk, insist, nag, harass, beg, assault, rape, or murder. Saying you implies that I or most men belong in this group. We don't
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 08:30 AM
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A good example would be when a guy compliments a woman's body. Lots of feminists argue that this is objectification because he's reducing her to a sex object but that's not true. Just because a guy finds a woman attractive doesn't mean that he can't appreciate other qualities of her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 08:28 AM
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I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 04:12 PM
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It's not the objectification that harms men. It's the mislabeling of casual flirting as objectification that does
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 04:12 PM
1

Just because you've never experienced something doesn't mean it doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 04:11 PM
1

Literally just look it up lol. It's one Google search away. Men are funnier than women because men NEED to be funny to get laid. You have to be ridiculously attractive as a man to get laid without impressing a woman. If you're unattractive as a woman then bettering your appearance is way more effective than becoming funny. A lot of humor comes out of trauma, which women definitely have a lot of. People who get traumatized tend to seek validation from others. For women, sleeping around is way mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 03:06 PM
1

So you use a study with comedians and comedy writers to prove that women are funnier than men? We're not talking about comedians here, we're talking about normal people. When it comes to normal people, the average man is funnier than the average woman. And it makes sense. If you're a guy and you want to ever get laid, you HAVE to impress women, and a good way to do that is via comedy. If you're a woman, you don't need to do shit. As long as you're not hideous, you'll have men wanting to be with …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 02:08 PM
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There's been studies on why men think women aren't funny, when they objectively are There's no such thing as objectively funny. If most people you interact with don't find you funny, then you're not funny If they hear jokes written by women but performed by men, men suddenly find them funny. Delivery is 50% of comedy Who were the women who wrote these jokes? Were they random, average women, or were they cherry-picked? Also when does a woman say I'm gonna get shit face drunk with my MALE friends …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 01:52 PM
1

Based on the fact that women have more romantic options than men and therefore can afford to be pickier
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 01:46 PM
1

Okay. And some women only crave companionship from women. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 12:42 PM
1

No they don't. Male on male friendships prove that men crave companionship and women are people who are capable of offering companionship. Therefore, men crave companionship from women as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 12:15 PM
2

There's one interesting difference though. Only female "safe spaces" ban members of the opposite sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 09:08 AM
3

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 09:05 AM
1

That's cause women always have romantic options, regardless of their emotional state. Most men would have no problem dating depressed women. Women, on the other hand, are disgusted by men who are not in a healthy state of mind
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 08:53 AM
-1

Because women can receive affection effortlessly. Men have to work for it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 08:49 AM
-1

Yeah but male friends are actually funny and/or interesting and female friends aren't. You never hear a man say "I'm gonna get shit face drunk with my FEMALE friends this Saturday". Wander why?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 08:48 AM
1

If you define good friends by how much emotional support they give then sure. But you're forgetting something critical: most women are not entertaining. And entertainment is more important to a friendship than emotional support is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:50 AM
1

If sex was all a lot of men wanted, then male on male friendships wouldn't exist. They'd just spend all of their time hitting on women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:19 AM
1

What? No I'm not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:17 AM
1

Nah, I'd say most women date men who are more attractive than them. They might not always be better looking. They can be more confident (almost always the case). Make more money than them. Be funnier than them etc. If you see a guy with a girl who's way hotter, chances are there's something fishy going on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:13 AM
1

That's like saying you can't drive a car because of the fear of a car crash
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:10 AM
2

Sounds good, doesn't work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:09 AM
-1

Well, luckily for me I'm not attracted to only the top 20% of women so chances are if a woman's hits on me I'll be attracted to her
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:08 AM
1

No. But calling it objectifying when a man expresses sexual desire towards a woman is
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 07:06 AM
6

If you have an easier time finding relationships, you're gonna have an easier time finding loving relationships. If you can roll the dice more times you have a higher chance of hitting a six
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 09:56 PM
2

If you can find sex easier, you can find a relationship easier too. After all, it's not women who pay men 5 dollars a month to pretend to be their bf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 09:53 PM
2

Express your sexuality to those you are dating Dating? You mean the thing that's initiated by expressing one's sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 09:51 PM
1

I don't want to normalise catcalling. But I also don't think the solution to it is to out male sexuality as predatory and sexually repress men in the process
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 09:49 PM
3

Buy a gun
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 09:41 PM
0

Sexual harassment is a form of objectification Yes. But objectification isn't always sexual harassment putting your own sexual desires over someone’s feelings and consent shouldn’t be justified I'd say it's justified as long as you don't act on those desires
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 09:18 PM
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Nah I kind of would like to be flirted with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 09:07 PM
0

Would you like for gay men who you don’t want to mess with getting boners looking at you, touching you, invading your space even though you’re clearly uncomfortable? Cause that’s what objectifying is. That's not what objectification is. That's sexual harassment. When feminists use the word "objectification", they're not referring to situations like these. They're referring to much milder cases, where if they used the word sexual harassment everyone would just look at them weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 09:03 PM
2

I'd say that my misogyny stems from a combination of not having romantic success in the past and noticing that a lot of the shit they do would be inexcusable if a man did it. But hey, that's just me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:23 PM
1

Most men don't want to pay a chick 100$ to pretend to be attracted to them for an hour so no
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:19 PM
1

I'd say around 5000$
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:19 PM
22

In that case the problem was not limited access to sex, the problem was porn addiction. Youre not one of the people op is addressing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 06:18 PM
1

I think it's bad too. But it's not always bad enough to be sexual harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 02:03 PM
2

Sexual harassment is considered a crime in most countries and is, at the very least, stigmatized
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:46 PM
0

Yeah. I'm sure that all men who flirt with women always do so in a disgusting and inappropriate way. It's totally not the case that women are simply too hypergamous to appreciate sexual attention from anyone but the top 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 01:41 PM
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99.9% of the time that’s what happens No it doesn't. I'm sorry if that's what your experience has been but please keep in mind that your experience does not reflect the experiences of all women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 12:04 PM
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I never said that the extreme cases don't happen. They happen to women all the time, and that's why we have laws to prevent them. However, this is not what women are referring to when they're talking about objectification.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 12:00 PM
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Catcalling isn’t a compliment. They try to follow you and get rude and aggressive if you don’t respond positively or ignore them. That’s harassment Thats not what always happens. Cat calling can result in harassment, but that doesn't mean that the act of cat calling is itself harassment. Like all forms of social interaction, there is a line that, when crossed, it turns into harassment. But not all cat calling crosses that line
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 11:53 AM
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Oh yes. The classic "listing all the extreme cases of this phenomenon to paint it as bad". I'm sure that this is what men say and do when they cat call you. The real reason why this is a negative experience to you is because you've never experienced not getting attention. The human brain is greedy. The more you have, the more you need. It's not enough that you're desired, you have to be desired the "right" way. And no, I'm not imagining being objectified by the "ideal sexual woman". If I was cat…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 11:39 AM
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Have you ever considered that the reason you don't want this attention is because you take it for granted and you've never been treated as invisible or disposable like most men have? What would you say is worse? Eating food that tastes bad to you or starving?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 11:19 AM
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A compliment is not objectification. You and I both know this. It’s when you strip away all the human aspects of someone and only want them for one thing But women always complain about this when they get catcalled or complimented for their body. And when you ask them why is it objectifying they always respond with this and never substantiate it. Also being desired for only your body is still magnitudes better than not being desired at all. Which is why most men would love to be objectified. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:49 AM
1

Just look at the consensus when men discuss women wanting them for their utility vs their humanity I have. The consensus is that men don't want gold-diggers, not women who want them for sex. Also complimenting someone on their body doesn't mean that you only want them for sex. Men understand that, which is why most of them love it when women compliment them, especially for their body Of course ASAP rocky won’t complain. It’d come off as him humble bragging. Men who it’s happened to only complain…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:23 AM
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Men who’ve actually experienced it though start espousing views similar to women because it’s dehumanizing and not a good feeling Name one I don't see asap rocky complaining about being objectified on interviews lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:06 AM
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They just don’t think anything is wrong with it until it’s done to them Oh really? You think men don't want to be objectified? Are you sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:55 AM
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Please explain how horrible it is to be desired by the opposite sex while most men have little to no romantic options. Go on
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:54 AM
-5

Yeah but why is it objectifying?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:52 AM
2

They would, if being yourself actually attracted people but in the case of most men it doesn't so we have to pretend to be Chad until we attract someone and then slowly start acting like ourselves as the relationship progresses
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 07:08 AM
1

Sorry but it happens. A lot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 08:54 PM
4

Never. Fuck sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:37 PM
0

You seem blissfully unaware of how many male employers hire women specifically to flirt with them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 03:36 PM
1

Have you ever considered that the reason why you think that the average woman is more attractive than the average man is because of hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:56 PM
3

Most people don't have the self awareness to realise that though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:11 PM
1

Everybody finds children unpleasant. That's why sex feels so good. Because having kids is that much of a pain
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:08 PM
3

Most women do yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:07 PM
1

What do you mean what I'm talking about? Any man who doesn't conform to the traditional standard of what a man should be gets immediately labeled as a lvm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 04:06 PM
3

Women on fds mostly lust after men who are traditionally masculine wtf are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 03:15 PM
-1

I actually made my argument purposefully bad so that you'd see the flaw in your logic but apparently that didn't work out. Oh well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 02:59 PM
1

Yeah but their number of romantic options is always higher than 0
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 02:58 PM
-1

You're missing the point pal
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:46 PM
3

Or maybe, women can change their behaviour and not dress provocatively in the office? Maybe women can control themselves instead of acting like sluts when they see a powerful, abusive man? Maybe women can take responsibility for THEIR own behaviour, without pinning that behaviour on men? It's not men's responsibility how THEY react and who they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:35 PM
5

Why would they? It mostly alligns with their views that women don't actually like men who are docile and open with their emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:31 PM
3

Then women should stop rewarding men who lack empathy and a cooperative mindset with sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:29 PM
1

Let's all wear our big boy and girl pants and do the hard work of living with minimal bitching and moaning Except that women can do all that and it won't affect their romantic success at all. Men who do that though die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 01:26 PM
1

Oh really? It's physically and emotionally dangerous to date someone of equal attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 06:30 AM
1

Don't you think it's a bit hypocritical to complain about "low value men" for not contributing to a relationship even though they contribute as much as you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 08:40 PM
1

Look, you can do all the mental gymnastics in the world but that won't change the fact that assholes are more romantically successful than non-assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 04:08 PM
2

Congratulations, you've completely missed the point
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 03:57 PM
1

So why do fds women want more than companionship when that's all they offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 09:47 PM
3

Idk what that means I was just trying to make a dunkey reference
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 06:22 PM
10

Polly, bring out the dating statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 03:39 PM
2

There's way more than libido that plays a part in all this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 02:19 PM
5

Oh right, it's April fool's lol. That's some pretty fucking good satire
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:21 PM
4

Pretty sure this is a copypasta
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:19 PM
40

Women ask for more than what they offer
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:17 PM
3

Any discussions about information that might paint women in a negative light That's not misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 01:14 PM
1

No, they usually don't Even if they do, what's wrong with dating someone who makes the same money you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 07:56 AM
1

If you have trouble getting a "high quality" man then you're not very "high quality" yourself. Of the two sexes one asks for more than they offer and the other takes what it can get. I'll let you guess which is which
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 10:17 AM
4

And they call incels entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 09:42 PM
4

Soulless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:41 PM
1

Companionship. In the era when it's needed the most
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:10 PM
7

if I’m doing these things and he’s not adding any value to my life Why does he need to do more than what you're doing? Why is him fucking you and spending time with you not enough? This is exactly what I mean when i say that women expect to be rewarded for existing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 11:59 AM
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That doesn't mean that you're doing your bf a favour when you have sex with him, or when you talk to him about stuff. These things aren't labor, they're just fun activities couples do. If you view them as labor then you're not in a romantic relationship, you're just a more advanced prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 11:39 AM
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It's funny how women view sex and talking about psychological issues as something that the woman is more valuable for, even though these are both good things for both parties. Really goes to show how much our society praises women for simply existing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 10:04 AM
3

No, they start off as acquaintances
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:53 PM
2

Yeah, men are so lucky that they get to work more in their shitty cube of depression amirite? There's literally nothing stopping you from asking for a raise. Only yourself. If you can't do that you're weak-willed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:18 PM
2

It's just the "vocal minority gives very large group a bad name" effect
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:04 PM
0

4%. And that's cause women are too weak-willed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:01 PM
1

I bet you believe in astrology unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:36 PM
2

Idk man, I see a lot of ugly women hook up with guys out of their league but not the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:35 PM
2

Everyone is striving for this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:31 PM
0

Well documented my ass. If you did actual research you'd know that the wage gap is bullshit. If you factor in work hours the difference is only 4% and that's because women are less eager to ask for a raise
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:29 PM
2

Gee I sure do love being male in the year 2021. What a time to be alive!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 04:23 PM
2

Considering how desperate most men are, they're willing to get with any woman that shows interest in them so yes. At the very least, female stalking is rarely considered harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 08:08 AM
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The very fact that the police got involved at all is absurd lol. He just touched her in the fucking arm
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 08:06 AM
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Most women who stalk men don't get murderered though. In fact, they don't even get sexual harassment charges. Most of the time they end up getting with the man they're harassing or at the very least nothing happens
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 08:04 AM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7557947/amp/Shy-awkward-student-19-faces-JAIL-sex-assault-conviction.html
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:55 AM
2

I don't know how it should be determined but this definition causes a lot of problems
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:51 AM
1

That it's not a good idea to define sexual harassment as anything that makes you uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:49 AM
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Really? You think white WOMEN made segregation laws?! No but they did a damn good job at enabling them And you do realise you are trying to defend sexual harassment, right? You think women shouldn’t feel uncomfortable with that? Sexual harassment nowdays is defined by "this thing makes me uncomfortable and therefore it is bad" which can be pretty problematic. But no I'm not a big fan of actual sexual harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:47 AM
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You can't solve all these problems by going back to when times were shitty in other ways, we need to abolish gender roles and capitalism you fucking retard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:44 AM
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Just because something makes you uncomfortable doesn't mean it's inherently harmful. Women 80 years ago were made uncomfortable by the presence of black people and used that as an excuse to maintain segregation laws
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:41 AM
1

Oh they obsess over pussy alright
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 09:45 PM
1

You've clearly never seen a woman in a shooting range
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 09:41 PM
4

Men are not manipulated by sex because of their sex drive. Their manipulated by sex because women's sexual attention is way more valuable than men's
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 09:39 PM
10

Having options is always better than having nothing. Stop trying to make your privilege look like a disadvantage, it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 09:37 PM
0

Nobody's happy on their own. It's all cope
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 09:35 PM
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If I could control my sexuality I would just become asexual lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 09:32 PM
1

That's some high quality shitposting right there
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 09:30 PM
1

But you are desired. You're just not desired in your special little disney princess way
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 06:28 AM
1

I don't know about homeless shelters but women who work minimum wage don't struggle with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 06:47 PM
7

For the same reason people buy lottery tickets
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 06:45 PM
1

Men don't care about how much you make
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 06:41 PM
2

Both sex and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 08:11 AM
2

You haven't experienced life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 07:00 AM
1

Guess I'll install bumble then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 11:04 PM
3

That's just your experience m8
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 10:48 PM
-4

The obsession with what other people want in a relationship or sexually is just bizzare. Go date who you like and who likes you back. It's easy to have that mindset when you can get romantic options by simply existing. Men don't have that privilege though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 10:46 PM
1

Men's standards should be higher, women's should be lower. Simple
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 10:45 PM
-1

You have a very childish understanding of what love is
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 10:40 PM
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The point of a relationship is to be close with someone. You don't need to find them special for that, you just need to find them attractive. Life is not a Disney movie
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 10:26 PM
1

I have no idea how you manage to function in our society with that thought process
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 10:20 PM
2

Except for when you're creative in ways that make people uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:02 PM
1

This obsession with feeling special is proof that most women are mentally 10 years old
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 08:00 PM
1

Fucking capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 06:32 PM
2

Nah bro I know what I'm talking about I got stats, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 06:40 PM
2

Nah. Spending time with your partner feels different than spending time with friends
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 02:54 PM
1

You're mean
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 07:27 AM
2

No but when every 4 of one gender is dating all the 7s of the other on a massive scale, we have a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 06:23 PM
1

I'd say it's either gold digging or childhood trauma
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 06:21 PM
1

Actually liking you and wanting to sleep with you are not mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 06:20 PM
1

Fds is only ineffective in the sense that it doesn't matter what a woman acts like, If she looks good she can find a man. Trp is right about some things, but they mostly spew out retarded bullshit that, even if they work in finding a partner, won't help you get into an actually fullfilling relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 06:18 PM
1

The irony of this comment is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 06:14 PM
1

We unironically need more female sluts
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 06:05 PM
2

Opposite sex friendships can work but they mostly don't. Besides, why be friends with a woman? Men are both easier to befriend and provide better entertainment. No man has ever said "I wanna get shit face drunk with my FEMALE friends tonight". Wander why?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 01:38 PM
3

That doesn't happen 99.9% of the time. Especially in a public place. That's like saying that you shouldn't drive a car cause there's high risk of dying in a car crash
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:39 PM
2

Oh poor you, having to reject men who are not chad. You know what's worse than rejecting someone? Being rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 05:31 PM
1

No I'm not a schizo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:15 PM
1

Yeah I'm sure all assholes also happen to be hot. What a coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:32 PM
4

No
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/21 10:57 AM
2

muh bootstraps argument Ok boomer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 07:52 PM
1

No but they're different words for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 07:40 PM
3

All four of the things you mentioned are legitimate systemic issues. Just because you have the ability to better your life doesn't mean that the problems you're facing are caused by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 07:39 PM
2

How are any of these groups spoiled? Political activism usually derived from having your needs unfulfilled so I'd argue that most of the people in these groups are the opposite of spoiled
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:33 PM
1

Close familiarity
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:31 PM
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Some pyramids translated that to companionship Companionship is an incredibly broad term. It covers all positive human connections, including intimate ones Spoiled brats also complain. And? Last time I checked there's aren't any movements of spoiled brats on the internet or any spoiled brats who kill themselves because they can't get the new iPhone or something. I don't think your analogy is very good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:21 PM
2

Sex is a subset of intimacy, you realise that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:19 PM
2

Then men wouldn't want sex without committment, then. Right? I don't think you know what intimacy is It is, especially if the guy isn't attractive himself. More gaslighting, cool
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:07 PM
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In some version, sex is not on there at all. It's replace with procreation or sexual release. Procreation is just a synonym for sex. You also conveniently ignored the other need I mentioned. INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS, which no, are not the same as friendships. Why? Because he mentions friends separately. Maybe the fact that there's millions of men complaining about a lack of sex and intimacy proves that these things are a big deal, and not that all these men are entitled manbabies. Give this one so…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 04:06 PM
1

Sex drive disparities are not only biological. They're mostly products of gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:58 PM
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Prostitution shouldn't be legalized, it should be DECRIMINALISED. There's a big difference between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:57 PM
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The problem is that men don't have deep friendships, then. Men do have deep friendships, but friends cannot fulfill your desire for intimacy. That's called being a picky beggar. Also, that's precisely how rich men get so many hot women to fuck them. They paid gold diggers to be their personal hooker. It's not about being a choosy beggar. Prostitutes do not fulfill your need for validation, specifically the kind of validation you feel whenever someone is attracted to you. Stop gaslighting men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:55 PM
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I'm not gonna do homework for you but, in Maslow's hierarchy of needs, sex is at the bottom, and intimate relationships are just as important as friends
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:52 PM
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Yes they do Not if you're a guy So sex Not just sex, it's about the validation of someone being attracted to you. If it was just about sex then we'd be perfectly satisfied with prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:36 PM
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when in fact it’s women who are the most isolated group in the world HAHAHAHAHAHAH you know nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:33 PM
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Every psychologist ever begs to differ
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:30 PM
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Friends don't provide affection, you fucking idiot. Men don't lack someone to joke around with, they lack someone who IS ATTRACTED TO THEM
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:29 PM
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5-10% and that's me being generous
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:25 PM
1

Honestly I go there hoping to get laid but I also know that if I go there hoping to get laid I'll never get laid so I just try to get shit faced so that I don't have to worry about looking desperate and all that stuff. I kind of hate clubs tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 03:23 PM
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Even if that was true, having the ability to get sex whenever you want is WAY better than having no options whatsoever. Also if you think that the average woman does all this Patrick Bateman shit to attract a partner you're an idiot. Men have to go through an odyssey of self improvement to get something as basic as sex and you can get it effortlessly. And if you spend a little time on your appearance you can pull off men who are 2-3 points higher than you. It's not the same amount of effort. Not…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:54 PM
2

Yeah just out all men who aren't Chad as "bottom feeders" lol. Also just because guys wanna fuck you doesn't mean they only wanna fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:44 PM
2

Try my little tinder experiment and see for yourself how high men's standards are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:37 PM
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You don't need to do any of this to be desirable and you can try this too. Take a picture of yourself without makeup, on the worst possible angle, and make a tinder profile with that picture. I guarantee you'll be swarmed with matches despite your efforts to look unappealing. You have no idea how easy you have it. Also I doubt that putting make up on is 10 to 20 times more difficult than: Going to the gym, practicing your social skills, approaching women, making money etc. The only men who deman…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 01:24 PM
2

Unironically seek help
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 11:07 AM
2

Sorry to be the bearer of reality to you, but if ugly guys reject you, handsome men will too
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 11:05 AM
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Why do we have to put so much effort to be desirable while you are desirable by simply existing?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 11:00 AM
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Poor guy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 09:12 AM
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I think for women it was like 10% but I'm not sure. What I do know for sure is that that 10% are not involuntarily celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 08:00 PM
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No but there are studies which show that 30% of men haven't had sex for over a year
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:29 PM
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And they say women are the empathetic ones lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:27 PM
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Why don't men working on meeting the standards of women? Because most women have insanely high standards while offering nothing in return. And the reason why they can get away with being so picky is cause they're socialised into being the gatekeepers of sex, whereas men are socialised into being asexual worker drones who exist to provide to women simply because they're women in hopes of getting something as basic and essential as sex. This dichotomy is hurting society. How many fucking men need …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 07:08 PM
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Yeah because you benefit from it. Also that's a nice euphemism for being a spoiled brat who demands way more than what it offers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 06:16 PM
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Nice anecdote bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 06:09 PM
1

If women aren't socialized into thinking that they're this valuable trophy that needs to be conquered by the "right" guy then their standards will lower naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 06:07 PM
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Because the main reason why women are so picky in the first place is because they're socialised to be the gatekeepers of sex. If they stop being the gatekeepers of sex, then sex will be easier to obtain as a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:59 PM
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I've been through this before so here's the short version: abolish gender roles
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:54 PM
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It's possible to find a solution to the sexlessness problem without violating women's rights. You know that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:50 PM
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I never said it is bad to compensate. But, on average, men have to work way harder than women, whether it is for sex or relationships. And that's pretty fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 11:10 AM
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? How would that work if we’re talking about LTRs. There’s only so many 8/10 men that can go around. Which is why most men nowdays are single Most couples I see are looks matched or the girl is more attractive. women view men as less attractive than they actually are usually if the woman is more attractive than the man, he usually compensates with something else of value, be it charisma, money, etc. Also a lot of attractive, abusive women go for guys who are less attractive than them because the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 11:02 AM
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Most guys can have relationships with one woman at a time pretty easily. Just because it's easy for you doesn't mean it's easy for us. You have no idea how bad things really are
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 09:37 AM
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Imagine being upset when you're desired
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 08:51 AM
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Because it's now cool to be socially anxious because of the massive wave of "muh anxiety" comics that started in 2015
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 08:50 AM
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She's right though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 08:37 AM
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just overcome your carnal desires and ascend to a higher plane of existence bro
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 08:35 AM
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Most people cannot handle rejection lmao. The difference is that women rarely experience it, so you don't get to see their entitlement as often
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 08:32 AM
2

5-6/10s only want relationships with 8/10 men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 08:31 AM
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Responsibility, Sociable, Authenticity, Autonomy, Independence, and strong emotional regulators Doesn’t take a whole lot to get laid. DOES THAT SEEM EASY TO ACCOMPLISH TO YOU?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 08:30 AM
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I bet y'all 1000 bucks that men with criminal records will get more matches than average
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 06:58 PM
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Look, I might act smug and cocky, but I don't cross any lines. If you can't handle that, then you shouldn't be on the internet, because it only gets worse
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 09:52 PM
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I didn't know that bitching out of a debate and moving it to a different post was a valid strat lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 09:45 PM
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Imagine being so butthurt about losing an argument that you create an entire post as a response to that argument. That's sad man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 07:02 PM
1

What makes you think they don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 04:22 PM
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What makes you think that bullies don't get in monogamous relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 12:58 PM
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That doesn't mean "Most women love bullies". It means that women like bullies more than they like non-bullies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 12:36 PM
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No buts. What a compelling argument Hence why I know most women don't fuck "Bad Boys". But they do. And there's studies to back that up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 12:20 PM
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We are not trophies for men's good behavior. No but you have way more power in dating than men do. Since women are way more picky than men are, women choose who gets laid and who doesn't (for the most part). Also Implying that women reward good behaviour with sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 12:10 PM
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I mean it's not always women but it is mostly women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 12:04 PM
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It didn't. The studies say "assholes get more sex partners". None of them proved women prefer assholes Women are the gatekeepers of sex. If a group of men gets laid more than another group of men then they're more desirable to women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 09:29 AM
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Ever heard of a little novel called..... 50 shades of grey?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/21 09:28 AM
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Because there's nothing else that you can do. You can either lose more, or you can move on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 08:20 PM
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I'm an alpha and a beta at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 08:17 PM
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Nonono. Women can't give men dating advice, period. Our lives are way too different. There's way too much shit that you just don't understand. Leave it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 08:16 PM
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Like my Japanese animes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 12:33 PM
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Said every submissive woman ever
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 10:14 PM
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I already am interesting. Where's my gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 10:09 PM
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No. Fuck that. We need more female sluts now more than ever. Fuck slut shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 03:30 PM
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Noone has time for this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 03:29 PM
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I'm good looking and funny. I have good opinions. Sometimes I'm a little annoying and smug but it's not that big a deal. My standards are a woman that isn't fat and is a 5 or above
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 03:28 PM
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Even if that were true it's never a good idea to suck your own dick like that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 03:25 PM
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No but it is the truth. If you're a woman, you can be the most insecure, pathetic person and you will still be loved unconditionally
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 10:42 AM
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The easiest way to be confident and assertive is to be an asshole. Women would rather date assholes than docile nice guys for that reason. Whether you like it or not, it is good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 10:41 AM
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Nobody. There shouldn't be any "control" involved
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 10:37 AM
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Women don't need dating advice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:41 PM
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I agree. Women are responsible for rewarding shitty men with sex and creating the patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:07 AM
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I love it when women pretend that they don't have any power so that they can avoid responsibility for everything lmao. And when they admit that they have power, it's still somehow men's fault. Unbelievable
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 08:02 AM
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They're not? Men don't influence women the way women influence men though. Men's lives are validated by women's sexual attention so when women are sexually attracted to tyrants and reward tyrannical behaviour with sex for millennia, then men are gonna become more tyrranical.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 07:44 AM
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So do women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 07:35 AM
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They have failed because women reward the wrong leaders lmao. If women stopped being attracted to psychopaths patriarchy would end in like a year
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 07:26 AM
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Look, if you feel like women should become leaders, feel free to try. If you wanna be a leader, don't expect shit handed to you lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:05 PM
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Or maybe women should stop rewarding violent and tyrannical behaviour with sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:01 PM
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Yes. And women reward their tyranny with sex so their encouraged to be even bigger assholes. Repeat for thousands of years and you have a patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:50 PM
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Thanks for reminding me why I hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:37 PM
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Most of the time yes, unfortunately. A good leader is one that asserts himself without putting his people down but that's very hard to do so most men who want to assert themselves just become assholes and it works
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 03:20 PM
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When women say they love feminine men they're referring to men who look feminine but still act masculine and confident. Very few women like actually feminine men and these women get flooded with attention cause there's crazy high demand for them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 03:18 PM
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I think it would be like that one cult of people in mob psycho who delude themselves into thinking that they're happy just by laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 03:15 PM
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People who assert themselves and fuck over other people in the process
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 03:13 PM
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All of my relationships happened because I wanted to be with them, clearly expressed that I wanted to be with them, and they timidly and hesitantly decided to give it a try Congratulations. You're the exception. 99% of women approach dating in the exact opposite way and there's plenty of data and life experiences to back me up. Most women have at least one guy who's in love with them and wants to be with them but they still don't acknowledge him because he's not assertive enough for them. I wish…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:25 AM
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You've never experienced it because these men are invisible to you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:06 AM
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That's not an unpopular opinion. Literally all men and most women know that you do not ask dating advice from a woman as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:04 AM
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For the sake of my sanity I'm gonna assume that your post is bait and that story is made up. There's no way that women are this bad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 11:09 PM
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I won't let her get fat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 02:04 PM
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Once again if that were true then all men who could afford it would just go to prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 12:05 PM
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Yeah that's totally the same lol. Pretty sure I've talked about this with you before, or maybe it was someone else I can't remember. All women make the same arguments lol. I'll just say this. If you think these two things are even remotely comperable it shows how low women think of men and it's really fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:58 AM
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Good. Keep missing the point
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:54 AM
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Oh nooooooo. I can't imagine how horrifying it must feel to be desired
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 08:53 AM
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Idk weren't you the one complaining about getting pumped and dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 12:36 AM
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More like most women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 12:22 AM
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Of course they do. It's EASY MONEEYYY
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 12:21 AM
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Day of average woman: Wake up. Eat shitty processed food. Virtue signal on social media. Ignore texts from 30 different guys with 5 words or less. Respond to Chad. Invite Chad over for sex. Go on friend date with orbiter#589. Eat free food. Leave in the middle of the ""date"" because of ""family emergency"". Post tik toks about how hard women have it while performing retarded dances and wearing clothes that excentuate your curves as much as possible. Get paypaled 5000 dollars. Attempt suicide by…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 12:20 AM
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That's a realllly gooood question my friend ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:56 PM
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Of course it will. Online dating will completely destroy women's brains. They will receive so much validation that they won't even have sex. As a result, most men will be forced to go gay and male suicide rates will jump to like 30% and maybe then people will start to realise that maybe there is a problem with how picky women are. It might sound absurd but it can very easily happen in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:54 PM
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What the fuck does "attraction triggers nazi" even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:49 PM
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Same reason why getting a vasectomy hasn't gone mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:42 PM
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Every relationship is transactional. Every single one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:40 PM
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It's broader than that. Whether or not something deserved to live is not determined by whether it is sentient or not but by how much it can offer the collective. Pigs, cow and chickens are sentient and yet we kill billions of them every year. Why? Because they have nothing to offer human society if we let them coexist with us
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:37 PM
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Fetuses have no value and therefore their life doesn't matter. If a kid is raised by two parents who wish it wasn't alive and can't support it financially then that kid is probably gonna grow up to become some piece of shit gangbanger who worsens the lives of everyone around them. Thanks for coming to my ted talk
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:33 PM
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If they did then they wouldn't have dated you in the first place, idiot. Also stop pretending that you don't like sex lmao. Just like how men are not entitled to sex because they were nice or paid for stuff, you're not entitled to commitment because you offered your precious pussy. Keep in mind that if you were a man not only would you get no commitment but no sex either
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:23 PM
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Remember guys, this is what women think of you. Women look at men like racists look at black people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:17 PM
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If that were true women would be pursuing men Bullshit. Women have no reason to pursue men because they can just pick the most attractive out of the men who pursue them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:10 PM
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If every man who fucks you leaves you the next day there's something wrong with you. Most people are not promiscuous and want a romantic relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:07 PM
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They want to feel desired. Unfortunately feeling desired can be a lot different than actually being desired
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:03 PM
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Then explain to me how men are motivated by desire when they just pressure and steamroll women into sex? Because it gives them the illusion of being desired
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:00 PM
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Yeah there are some women I've met that aren't shallow either but 99% of women I meet aren't attracted to me so when I meet one who is I'm going in, regardless of whether they're shallow or not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:08 PM
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No but a good 50% is. Maybe more but definitely not less
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:45 PM
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Usually via a combination of celebrities and advertisement
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:43 PM
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Your male friend wants to fuck you and is in extreme emotional pain because he can't. There are exceptions but it is best not to associate with him unless you're attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 05:42 PM
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No but we don't have much of a choice so anything goes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 02:18 PM
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Seeing white women argue melts my brain faster than any drug
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 02:18 PM
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Turns out rape is bad. Who would've thought
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:08 AM
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Really goes to show you how fucked Reddit is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 11:07 AM
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Really convenient for you to ignore the second half of my post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 12:45 PM
1

We can find other ways to help men cope with loneliness without making women's standards a problem But women's standards are the direct cause of that problem
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 08:23 PM
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Then men should learn to take no for an answer They should. But not at the cost of suppressing masculinity You can't expect women to be sensitive to how a man deals with rejection if they aren't sensitive to how women deal with being bothered by men. But most people are sensitive about women's problems with men. It's talked about all the fucking time and there's been a lot of attempts to solve these problems. Not as many for men's problems though. Not nearly as much
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 07:57 PM
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Labeling them as creeps/groomers/predators over flirting is what comes to mind but there's certainly more things
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 07:52 PM
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Why is the burden on women to lower their standards, and not on men to learn to live without sex? Because women's insanely high standards are a product of society and therefore can be changed. Men's need for sex is almost entirely a product of nature so fighting it will make people more miserable. Isn't our epidemic of loneliness proof of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 07:50 PM
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What if a majority of women don't find traditionally masculine men attractive? I know I don't You're not the majority of women lol. And i didn't say we should encourage men to be masculine. I said we shouldn't suppress their masculinity by making them afraid to approach women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 07:47 PM
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No it's not lol. It can be solved through culture. Make men sexier in the media for example. Make an environment where men aren't afraid to act masculine and approach women. Abolish gender roles, etc. Basically we need to rid our society of the idea that women should be the gatekeepers of intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 07:43 PM
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"Intimacy" is pretty broad and is not limited to just to sexual partners Which is why I used that word instead of sex. It's not only sex that men don't get enough of. It's intimacy in general And no, it doesn't need to change Male suicide rates beg to differ If a man wants sex, he needs to find someone willing to give it to them. No woman is obligated to do so. If no one is willing, that's his problem to deal with. Telling people with a problem to solve it themselves has never solved any societa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 07:37 PM
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You seem to not get the point of what I'm trying to say. You see, people have a certain set of needs that need to be fulfilled in order for them to live a good life. There are exceptions but one of those needs is the need for intimacy. Men tend to yearn for intimacy with women and vice versa. So when most women think of themselves as some sort of valuable commodity that only the rich and powerful are entitled to, it creates a problem since most men are unable to attain intimacy and therefore liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 07:11 PM
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my pussy is not a charity organization It's not a fucking diamond either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 06:54 PM
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Men should try not being so addicted to sex I'm afraid that's not possible. Regular sex is essential for a healthy life according to every psychologist ever after all. So I'm afraid that you're gonna have to get off your high horse and you're gonna have to realise that you're mediocre and therefore you deserve to be with mediocre men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:58 PM
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No but men need to get laid and when women are withholding sex from 80% of us we'll find ways to get around that. Women don't really like that though so, for the sake of both genders, just spread your legs more. Yeah, most men are not that great but then again, neither are you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 04:54 PM
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Men wouldn't fake commitment for sex if women were not so fucking picky
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 02:06 PM
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If only you knew how bad things are...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 02:05 PM
1

Except that incels are more than willing to date 4s. Half of the posts on the femcel subreddit are chicks complaining about being approached by incels
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 02:04 PM
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This isn't really advice but I've been told many times that the reason I'm a virgin is because I'm a misogynist, implying that your views on women impact how attractive you are to them, which is obviously false
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 02:09 PM
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Everyone is entitled to their opinion, no matter how wrong it is
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 02:05 PM
1

What? No, it means that you can't have soup without water
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 07:31 PM
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Actually now when I think of it the validation does come from consent. For most men, at least. Some people are heartless assholes. Fuck em
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 07:30 PM
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Unfortunately the validation does not come from consent, it comes from the value we place on sex in our society
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 07:25 PM
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Of course I want a relationship, everyone does. So if you've already found a person who's willing to have sex with you, why leave them?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 07:24 PM
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Yeah I know, but since attraction is a key component to love, you can't really have sex with no love at all, you know? There's always a bit there, even if it's just a little spark
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 07:18 PM
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Maybe men need to learn other ways to get validation if this one is causing them to do so many stupid things that do not benefit their lives. Like what? Sex is the main means of being validated and nothing really comes close. It's one of the main ways we use to determine one's status. I guess you could focus on getting a shit load of money but other than that I can't think of anything
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 07:17 PM
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Idk, I can't do that. Maybe you're a sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 07:14 PM
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attraction isn’t love though . Attraction is the main component of love. Love=attraction + compatible personalities. You can't have love without attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 06:36 PM
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How is that not the same as a one night stand or a fuck buddy? Validation. That's the main reason why people have sex. If a person is attracted to you to a point that they want to have sex with you that's very validating
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 06:32 PM
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Yes because there's genuine attraction involved. It feels very validating when a person you barely know likes you enough to perform the most intimate physical experience with you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 06:30 PM
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If you see an ugly man with an attractive woman then either the man is exceptionally pleasant to be around or the woman is a very toxic person
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 06:10 PM
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Then none of you would want sex devoid of love either WE DON'T! THATS WHY MOST MEN DON'T FUCK PROSTITUTES
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 06:07 PM
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just pay a woman 100 dollars minimum so she can pretend to be attracted to you for an hour bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 06:04 PM
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Because if you're fuck buddies then she's most likely sleeping with other people too,which hurts. If there's emotional attachment, a relationship would be best for both parties
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 06:02 PM
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Burden of truth is on you. Exactly. We have different perceptions of reality, which is why all of this is pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 08:00 PM
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Never said all men only care about sex. The issue is that this subreddit is assuming that is the case. So fucking. They're desperate to fuck, which agrees with my point. Judging by how this subreddit acts and the problems we see men having, I'd argue male friendships aren't as common or deep as female friendships. Depends on how you define deep. Just because a friendship is not all touchy feely doesn't mean it isn't deep. Men show they care about their friends in other ways, like comradery, or j…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:59 PM
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Birth control being a human right is a feminist belief You have no proof that most women aren't feminists Even if that was true, that doesn't mean that they don't feel entitled to birth control. Just because you don't subscribe to an ideology doesn't mean that you disagree with everything about that ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:48 PM
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Okay. I'll put this another way. If men only cared about sex, then male friendships wouldn't exist. We would only interact with women cause we would only want sex. If you really think onlyfans is only about sex then I suggest you watch this video https://m.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=1&v=djMojvschs0&feature=emb_title
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:42 PM
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How do any of these things prove anything? Don't you see how pointless this is?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:35 PM
2

Oh okay. We're playing that game? Prove that they don't
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:30 PM
1

If men only wanted sex then onlyfans wouldn't exist. They'd just watch free porn. The premise of onlyfans is that you pay a girl 5 dollars a month so she can respond to your texts and send sexy pictures. She's basically pretending to be your gf for money. And if you think that all men who are friendzoned only want sex then you're a fucking idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:29 PM
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But most women do think they're entitled to birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 07:22 PM
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Idk about that. A lot of men nowdays are desperate for any intimacy at all. Hence the rise of onlyfans and the whole friendzone thing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 06:58 PM
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What I'm trying to say is that incels are not sjws. They sound like sjws because they use their talking points to expose their hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 04:09 PM
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If none of the men you hook up with talk to you again then you're dating outside of your league
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 08:15 AM
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Exposing the hypocrisy of feminism and sjw theory doesn't make you a feminist or an sjw
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 08:12 AM
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It's almost as if men are more interesting than women. Who would've thought
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 03:58 PM
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I didn't say 80% of men are incels. I said that 80% of men have no romantic options. That 80% might not be virgins, but they have sex once or twice a year, which is not a healthy amount at all. When people say that women only go for 20% of men, they mean that only 20% of men can have a healthy sex life and a healthy amount of romantic options
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 04:17 PM
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So you're telling me that women are attracted to a small percentage of men who are (almost) always more attractive/successful than them and they cannot do anything about it? That's bullshit. In the 70s, when men were sexy, when masculinity was something to be proud of and not something to be ashamed of, people were fucking. Attractive men fucked attractive women and unnatractive men fucked unattractive women and everything in between. It's not that women can't help themselves, it's that nowdays,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 04:14 PM
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I don't care about the epidemic of loneliness, it doesn't affect me. I just go on about my life. That's how things are now, there is no going back That's fair. But I care. And so do most people How do you define a picky person? To me, a picky person is one who has a physical or sexual attraction to that third group of people you mention but for some reason rejects them. Those people are fools. That's not what a picky person is. A picky person is someone who's attracted to a small number of peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:59 PM
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I don't believe women should be less picky So you're ok with this epidemic of loneliness we're facing? You thing this is how things should be? The men who complain about women being picky are the ones who are gladly willing to lower their standards and date that third group. That's 80% of men. 80% of men have practicality no romantic options so of they're gonna settle. And the reason why they have no romantic options is because women are extremely picky. You're the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:50 PM
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Why can't you be less picky? God fucking damnit, this is why I hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:45 PM
1

If you're alone for long enough they will become significantly more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:37 PM
1

If you're alone for long enough they will become significantly more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:37 PM
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No? I might be a coomer but I do have a soul
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 01:06 PM
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Not entirely but it does play a huge part in it which cannot be understated
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 01:05 PM
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It doesn't matter whether you agree with it or not. It's reality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 01:03 PM
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OH MY GOD WHY ARE YOU SO DAMN PICKY?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:44 AM
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Because y’all are acting like creeps All of dating for men is overcoming that creepiness barrier. The only men who can afford to be "upfront" are the ones who have already overcome the creepiness barrier. If men were immediately upfront about their intentions then all women would be creeped out and nobody would ever have sex. Women are way too picky for this to work
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 07:42 AM
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You know I'm right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:55 PM
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They do but not nearly as often and not with the same malice. Men are actually somewhat interesting so they're capable of more than one insult
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:51 PM
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If men were upfront with their intentions then nobody would get laid ever. You can't just ask a woman for sex, even if she's attracted to you. It doesn't work this way. And it never will
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:43 PM
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If men leave you after they have sex with you then you're probably just a boring person. If men only wanted sex then male friendships wouldn't exist. Men don't leave you after you friendzone them because they only want sex, they do because they can have better platonic relationships with other men, without the pain of being constantly reminded that the woman you like doesn't like you back
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:40 PM
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Sexual harassment risk being WAY higher
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:30 PM
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Attraction is not binary. It exists on a spectrum. On one end people that you're 100% attracted to, the ones who make your heart race when you look at them. On the other end there's people that, when you see them, you're immediately repulsed by them. But on the middle, there's people who are kinda meh, they don't really make your heart race but they don't disgust you either. Lowering your standards means dating that third group of people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:09 PM
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They are way harsher than men. If you ever disagree with a woman about anything, if you ever make her feel intellectually threatened, she's gonna shame either your dick size or your sexual history. Every woman I've been in an altercation with has done that, every single one. Even my fucking mom. It's the only thing they can threaten you with because they know that men are desperate for female sexual approval, so accusing them of being sexually undesirable always hurts. I hate women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 08:06 PM
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Oh my fucking god. You know what the worst part is? You'll probably leave this thinking that you've owned me or something
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:17 PM
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What's more obnoxious than any of this is using a phrase that's exclusively used by bitter people who don't want to admit they're shitty with the intent of manipulating people by half apologizing aka "I'm sorry you feel this way". No you're not. You're just a smug piece of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 06:10 PM
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I'm only violent to obnoxious/stupid people. You can report me all you want but that won't make you any less obnoxious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:57 PM
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Then look it up yourself. Also if you say you're sorry I feel this way again, I'll break into your house, break both your legs and then piss in your mouth. That phrase is fucking obnoxious and disengenuous so stop using it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:09 PM
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It's not about biology. It's mostly a cultural thing. There's been plenty of societies with vastly different gender norms (see: ancient Greece) so I don't think it's unreasonable to strive for a society where women's sexual attention is as valuable than men's
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:01 PM
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Study about bullies having more sex: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40806-017-0126-4 Study about dark triad men: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/273809664_The_Dark_Triad_personality_Attractiveness_to_women Are you gonna accept reality now or are you gonna keep your head in the ground?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:59 PM
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There's been plenty of studies that support my claims so it is So sorry that you feel this way Fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:46 PM
1

Why not both? Why not live the world as it is while trying to change it for the better?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 04:35 PM
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I know. But the idea is that justice is one of the main principles of our society, so we should try making as fair as possible. And I believe a crucial step of that process is recognising not only the privileges of men, but the privileges of women too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:59 PM
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Women are more attracted to men who display dark triad traits. Most erotic literature written by women involves an aggressive, primal man who gets "fixed" by the heroine. Studies have shown that bullies are more romantically successful than non bullies. In other words, men are toxic because women reward toxicity with sex. And it makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint. Women need an agressive, violent partner who's capable of protecting them. So don't act all innocent, pretending that this w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:57 PM
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Don't you think it's a little unfair that if a guy wants to get any affection whatsoever he has to put in work while a woman can just exist and have it handed to her on a silver platter? I personally find it very unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 03:09 PM
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There are exactly 5 podcasts worth listening, and your podcast isn't one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:36 PM
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And what makes you think that the women these men get are putting work?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 01:33 PM
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Who are these women and where can I find one?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:09 PM
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No we don't lol. We simply tolerate them because of desperation. Most men don't really have any options so if they get into a relationship they desperately cling onto it, no matter how shitty the relationship is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:05 PM
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Toxic masculinity wouldn't exist if women were not attracted to toxic men. You're in this too. Don't act all innocent
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:03 PM
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Dick Masterson. YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHH
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 09:16 PM
1

How are you supposed to meet people then?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 09:15 PM
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Not really. The real reason is that it's hard to be sympathetic to someone who's lonely despite having what you want. Makes them seem spoiled and ungreatful, which they usually are
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 09:13 PM
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Lower your standards
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 09:10 PM
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Low value women should date low value men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 09:08 PM
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If you think that women put more effort into dating than men, then I suggest you move out of whatever rock you're living under
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 09:05 PM
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Idk man. I think at least 10% of women are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 08:41 PM
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I'm talking about dating. In the sense that women should be expected to offer more than just their genitals, like men. You don't see women being called losers nearly as much as men. Wander why?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:57 PM
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I don't have the patience to argue with someone who doesn't even acknowledge my arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:33 PM
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Give me an example of 'society' doing something about this that doesn't involve government guns Our culture? Culture changes all the time. And it's not the government that does it, it's people like you and me. The discussion we're having right now is actively changing the political narrative and, who knows, it might even change someone's mind. Even a little bit. That's how social progress mostly happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:27 PM
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I don't want to pay a woman to pretend that she's attracted to me.I don't care how good she is at pretending, she's still pretending. I want a woman who's attracted to me. That's how most men feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:23 PM
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Get validation through other means then if that is what you are really looking for. Start a band or a youtube channel. It's not a general lack of validation. I'm talking about a type of validation that you get exclusively through sex and intimacy. Starting a band does not fulfill that desire It sounds like you've been to some disappointing sex workers. With social value and education there would be a lot more satisfying sex workers out there. Of course they're disappointing. They're not even att…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:18 PM
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As a woman, all you have to do in a date is show up. As a man, there are many things that you have to be good at to get a successful date and most of those things are tought. Most, if not all, men have experienced romantic rejection for that reason
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:13 PM
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Seeing a sex worker could be as legitimate as seeing a therapist or a physical therapist The main reason why people have sex is not the sex itself. It's the validation. It's the idea that a person is attracted to you enough to get this intimate with you. Seeing a sex worker, you don't get that. It's a half-assed experience that leaves you empty inside And I have never said all sex workers should be women. No but the vast majority of sex workers are women. That's reality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:07 PM
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Yeah. And poor people should get angry at themselves and work harder. Telling an entire generation of men crippled with importance that they need to pick themselves up by the bootstraps doesn't fix anything
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 09:01 PM
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Most of us get a gd idea of dating & attraction from a young age. Most WOMEN get a good idea of dating from a young age. For men it's a different story. Very few men are naturally good at dating
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:58 PM
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The problem is not a lack of sex itself. Sex is just the outcome of the core issue. The core issue is that men are generally treated as disposable and they have to compensate for their disposability in order to have basic necessities fulfilled. When you elevate the status of sex workers you're reinforcing the idea that women's sexual attention is so much more valuable than men's. Sex is a necessity. It should not be commodified. Going to a prostitute is like admitting that you have no sexual val…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:56 PM
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If you're a guy and you're worrying about your date being "healthy" you're never gonna get laid. Besides, that's not the issue here. The issue is lack of dates. Not lack of quality in dates. But yeah, most dates suck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:42 PM
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Sexualise men more in media. Abolish gender roles. Stop slut shaming. Raise the social expectations for women. Commodity sex less(ideally stop commodifying it entirely but that's never gonna happen). Basically women need to stop being the gatekeepers of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:37 PM
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Society!= government
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 08:28 PM
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You just described all of reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 01:57 PM
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Babies have the exact opposite of balding issues
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 01:16 PM
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This, but unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 01:08 PM
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Stop treating us as invisible or dangerous. Be more interesting. Have more to offer than just your cloyster
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 01:02 PM
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Yeah, after the sex is over. But before that he consented. Did you think I was defending rape all this time?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 07:29 PM
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I think it's a pretty big deal to not notice the person you're having sex with doesn't want to be having sex with you. But you don't know that. They consented. That's the point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 07:27 PM
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I don't think in the situation I described in the OP that the men are rapists. I wouldn't use that word at least, I'd say "unwanted sex" or something similar That's the definition of rape I def think this is MY problem, like it is def not anyone elses responsibility. I'm asking if women relate and if men have had experience w postcoital blues or unwanted sex, mostly. I expect a guy to be open to talking about it and figuring out our sex life together or else I will leave. I am trying not to be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:53 PM
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I mean, if I slept w a guy and he told me he regretted consenting, I would never be like "that's your problem". But you wouldn't say you'd raped him right? I would want to understand how I could avoid that in the future just for my own integrity in addition to making sure he's okay and even talking about it and helping him figure out what he can do to avoid it happening again. Wanting to help someone solve their problems because they affect you is cool and all. But it's still his problem
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:46 PM
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Your pussy, your problem https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nxpXx7NhW3I
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:40 PM
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Oh my fucking god. These are the same women that demand to be viewed with respect when they can't even stand their own fucking ground on their own decisions. You consented. Your partner cannot read your mind. If you regret consenting, that's your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:33 PM
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I have browsed it and they talk about getting trolled once in a while but not about being seriously asked out. The younger ones have been asked out as a prank. Serious suitors though? None. Of course they don't talk about it. If they did, they would admit to their hypocrisy I’ve seen the FA woman sub too and no one is asking those women out either lol.That sub is still up and they don’t get flooded with male attention. I don’t understand why you’re so committed to lying about stuff that I can si…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 05:16 PM
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Do you think women still face discrimination and sexism in the West? Of course they do And how does this effect your view of women? Women are people. They face their own problems and they also cause other problems. I sympathize with them but I also resent them for the toxic aspects of their behaviour. Right now I have more resentment than sympathy for them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 09:50 AM
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The dating game has changed. The Femcel subreddit is still publicly open and no one is offering those women anything serious Bullshit. If you browse this place you constantly see them complaining about incels asking them out. Remember forever alone women? The sub which they were forced to make PRIVATE because it got flooded with dating requests from men? What about foreveralonedating? Where f4m posts get consistently dozens of replies while m4f posts get radio silence almost all the fucking time…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 09:45 AM
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Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 05:02 PM
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I'd become pansexual because I'd have more options or i'd become asexual because the pleasure of love (most of the time) doesn't make up for the pain caused by the pursuit of it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 05:02 PM
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Who cares about what some boomer has to say? His comics fucking suck
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 04:58 PM
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What gave you the impression that I'm angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 05:39 PM
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This plays a part in it. But what also plays a part in it is the fact that you don't wanna look bad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 05:01 PM
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I don't think you know what projection is lol. I think both men and women have plenty of problems. The main difference is that women's problems are addressed all the time. Men's aren't I think the bullying of those who disagree with you is kinda shitty Except for when their ideology is inherently harmful to certain people. But then again the left isn't very good at pointing out actual fascists so you're kind of right on that one. I still like her vids though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:50 PM
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Cool. My experiences with the club are the exact opposite. Anecdotes don't mean shit. The societal consensus is that the primary purpose of the club is to get laid. People don't talk about it openly (cause they're cowards) but they know it's true. And I'm sure some people go there for other reasons as well. But you're not the majority, friendo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:25 PM
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You have no idea how spoiled you are Friendo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:23 PM
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You started to dislike her because she started talking about men's issues and you think men don't have any problems so that change in her content made you experience cognitive dissonance. I might be wrong but I'm not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:14 PM
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Ok. Not every man who hits on women creeps on them. Most men are not creeps. Yes, creeps exist, but what I've been trying to say for three days now is that it's better to get attention from mostly normal people and sometimes creeps than never get any attention at all. Is it really that crazy to say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:10 PM
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So you're telling me that women are not attracted to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:07 PM
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I'm not gay. Idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 08:14 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 12:00 AM
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I'd still be flattered and my confidence would go up because at least I know one person finds me attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 11:44 PM
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It’s to meet people For the purpose of fucking them. You think people make platonic friendships in the fucking club? You can't even hear what the other person's saying
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 11:34 PM
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when something becomes illegal the culture also stop spreading BAAHAHAAHAHAHAAHAHAA that would imply that your government is competent. It isn't. It's not up to the government to solve societal issues. It's up to us. The government is supposed to simply follow suit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 11:17 PM
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Social setting, to talk and joke with their friends, dance All these things are just to fill the time where they're not hitting on people. It might be what people end up doing in these places most of the time but the main reason why people go there in the first place is to get drunk and then get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 11:15 PM
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Men's issues have nothing to do with the government. They're problems embedded within out culture
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 11:05 PM
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Well it's not the same cause I don't wanna put my pp in a car salesman but the average guy does want to stick his pp in most women so when a woman tells him how much she wants him to put his pp in her it feels good
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 11:02 PM
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Because people give a shit about women's problems but nobody gives a flying fuck about men's issues. Not even men themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 10:55 PM
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it's another "I'm the exception so the rule doesn't apply" episodr
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 10:54 PM
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I don't know but that's not the issue. The issue is that women can get in a relationship easier and therefore have higher standards so I guess men are more desperate yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 10:51 PM
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I mean, why do people go to clubs and bars? Why do people use tinder? All of these are extremely popular activities and they all have one thing in common. People do them to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 10:49 PM
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Yeah but if I were to get 10 times more attention with the catch that sometimes it's creepy comments that make me uncomfortable I'd still take this over being invisible
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 09:26 PM
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You're kidding right? Casual sex is the main way people get laid nowdays, men and women alike
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 09:24 PM
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Idk man. From what I'm seeing most women seem to enjoy the attention based on how much casual sex they're having
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 09:18 PM
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You don't know if a man is going to be violent or not He most likely isn't since MOST MEN ARE NOT RAPISTS Girls have to be careful because if they don't people will say, "Well what did you expect? Why were you alone with him? Why didn't you fight harder?" And? That has nothing to do with how high a woman's standards for men are. You can be careful while having low standards you know
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 09:03 PM
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Are you living under a rock? Do you really need to have that explained to you? Literally just go outside or think about it for more than 5 minutes and you'll reach the conclusion that women have more options in dating than men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:59 PM
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It's not "picky" to not want disgusting men INSIDE your body No, but it is picky to paint every man who hits on you as disgusting Getting creepy attention is not better if it comes with the IMPLIED THREAT OF SEXUAL VIOLENCE, which it does Oh yeah. I'm sure this happens EVERY TIME a man hits on a woman. ALL MEN are creepy rapists who want to absolve women of all their rights and use them as sex slaves. Totally dude
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:53 PM
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You're right. As a person who's been treated as invisible or dangerous his entire life, I can't really picture someone complaining about being desired. It kind of pisses me off because I would love to be in their situation
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:50 PM
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Okay. And you've used them as a living dildo if that's how you wanna look at it. So what? At least they're moving. You're just kind of laying there. Unless you are the only one who does oral or puts effort and your partner does not go down on you. In which case yeah, I can see it feeling unsatisfying and boring, but dehumanising? Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:48 PM
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Women are not attracted to random creepy men though, they're just as repulsed by them as you are by gay men Really goes to show how picky they are eh? Not the same thing because women can't overpower you and I'm pretty sure you don't live in mortal fear that strange women will force their vaginas on you Ok that's fair. But getting lots of "creepy" attention is still way better than being treated as invisible or dangerous your entire life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:39 PM
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It's not accurate because I'm a straight man. I'm not attracted to men. An accurate analogy would be if a bunch of women flirted with me aggressively what would I do? My answer to that is I would be flattered at worst, and at best I would be dating them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:33 PM
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I mean, even if I did, your analogy is not accurate You wouldn't feel flattered because male sexual attention means nothing Thanks for admitting I'm right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:27 PM
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Ok. But how does that make sex as a whole dehumanising?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:25 PM
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A lot. Too much to put in a single comment but this video by contrapoints should give you a pretty good idea https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=S1xxcKCGljY
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:24 PM
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Women have more options than men. Since women have more options than men, they can choose higher quality partners and therefore, women's standards are higher than men's, because they can still get a partner with these high standards. Obviously there are exceptions. Sex is different from long term relationships I agree but sex and relationships are rarely mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:22 PM
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Also this analogy is false
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:10 PM
31

That's the only problem you see pal?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:08 PM
13

I'm not gay but I would still be flattered
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 08:07 PM
13

Got any actual arguments instead of playing armchair psychologist and using buzzwords? Because if not then I'm gonna assume I'm right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:46 PM
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It fails in that women's standards of who's worthy of dating are WAY higher than men's. So what you're saying isn't really applicable. Also men have a higher sex drive than women. Which is why prostitution is a female dominated proffession
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:45 PM
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Yeah but men's problems are almost never addressed properly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:36 PM
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Thanks for admitting that male attention is less valuable than female attention and you're so spoiled with compliments and attention that you consider it creepy if it's not delivered in a very specific way to accommodate your expectations of what dating should be. You've been living with that privilege for so long that you've forgotten it even was a privilege in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:34 PM
1

How is sex dehumanising?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:30 PM
2

How does it imply that?????
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 07:30 PM
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that porn shrinks certain parts of the brain Nobody cares enough to quit porn makes it harder to get off with an actual partner Don't women like men who last longer in bed? If he lasts longer, he has a higher chance of pleasing you, right? causes ED, lowers self esteem, has been linked to mental health problems Those are symptoms of literally anything addicting when consumed irresponsibly Not to mention the funding of a sick industry rife with abuse and human trafficking If you cared about these…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:16 AM
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Yeah but why would a man not watch porn when he can.. watch it? Cooming with porn is way better and more efficient than cooming without porn. It's not a necessity but it is an upgrade
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 11:57 PM
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How the fuck are you gonna find a man who doesn't watch porn and still has sex with you? You're asking for a man with no sex drive but he magically gains one when he gets in a relationship with you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 11:51 PM
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None of them. But more than what an average person has to offer. People are not that great. You are not that great. If you're a woman at your 20s and you've never found a man who fits this criteria, then you probably aren't in this man's league. Lower your expectations. Like all of us did
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 11:42 PM
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These men are conventionally attractive. Not objectively attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 10:25 PM
1

The only way to spread rhetoric is to simplify it and exaggerate it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 10:22 PM
1

You're trying very hard to ignore the whole thing about wars, invasions, kidnapping, rapes, forced harems, forced marriages, and child brides, but it was so common (and still is in non-Western countries). Repeating the same thing doesn't make that fact go away. The main reason why these things happen is because human society is a dominance hierarchy. And one of the reasons why it is a dominance hierarchy is because women reward dominant and aggressive behaviour with sex They were the husbands th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 12:05 PM
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You're right. And the reason for that is because women are attracted to dominance. This dichotomy is so old that it exists in primates WAY before we invented the concept of society. It makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint. Females need a strong, dominant male that can provide resources and keep them safe. What could a submissive male do in the stone age? Fuck all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 11:22 AM
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Yeah, no shit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:28 AM
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Ok, but keep in mind that you're one person. Your preferences don't represent the entire female population. I think you recognize that there are tons of relationships where sex sucks but the two spouses still stay together, because they're attracted to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:20 AM
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Because a man can suck in bed and still be dominant and confident, which are the two main factors that determine attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:15 AM
1

Also it's really nice to see what women really think of us...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:10 AM
1

Not by males that a female is attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:09 AM
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The fact that someone is attracted enough to you to perform something as intimate as sex is validating enough for (mostly) everyone to seek it, even though pleasure might not be guarenteed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:01 AM
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People don't have sex because of pleasure. They have it because of the validation. I'm not saying that pleasure does not play a part in it but the main reason is validation. If it weren't then most if not all men would only go to prostitutes for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 07:57 AM
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But women's attraction to dominance predates patriarchal societies
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 07:48 AM
1

It means that I'll be the pussy eating Messiah this world needs
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 11:17 PM
1

I identify as a pussy eating enthusiast
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 11:13 PM
1

You won't have to worry about that for much longer cause when this quarantine is over I'm gonna eat all the pussy and compensate for all the pussy that hadn't been eaten up until this point. Expect me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 11:09 PM
1

Sure thing pal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 11:05 PM
1

Why are you bringing up desperate guys?? Yeah this is an issue that affects men and desperate men are men so desperate men are also affected. What's your point? That men simply are this way by nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:49 PM
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We're back to square one...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:43 PM
1

Well if women want this to end they better stop being picky. I don't know how but it needs to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:41 PM
2

Cool. So maybe if women weren't so choosy with who they have sex with sex wouldn't be viewed as a valuable commodity, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:40 PM
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The reason it gets depicted that way is because sex is perceived as a victory lap for the male, that's what I've been trying to tell you. Women are very picky with whom they wanna have sex with, so when a man does get to have sex with them, he's put a lot of effort into it more often than not, and since he views sex as a reward for his efforts, he's gonna be more selfish because, in his mind, his role is done. All that's left is to be pleased
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:38 PM
1

Yeah. And I gave my own explanation as to why that is the case
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:27 PM
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Sex is male centered because it's harder for men to get. When a man gets laid he treats it like a victory lap so he acts selfish. If you want to make sex equally pleasurable then a. Ask to get your pussy eaten or whatever you want him to do b. Sex needs to become more obtainable for men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 09:17 PM
2

Sex isn't a compromise fucking hell. Sex is for everyone and everyone should enjoy it Then why are so many women using it as a tool to get favours from men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 09:14 PM
2

Yes, obviously. Gender sucks and needs to be abolished
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 09:09 PM
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Since men are so relient on the attention of women is it really that unreasonable to say that the reason men form dominance hierarchies is because women are attracted to dominance?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 09:07 PM
2

Because these 5'3 women only go for guys over 6 feet. We could do this all day
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:55 AM
3

Oh my god dude
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 08:48 AM
1

You're one person. Your experiences with men do not reflect the standards of the average man
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 11:57 PM
3

Read the second half of my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 11:56 PM
3

Yeah. What about the other 60%? Notice how most make less than their husbands? ITS ALMOST AS THOUGH WOMEN HAVE A PREFERENCE FOR WEALTHIER MEN
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 11:37 PM
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No it's not lol. You're just projecting your own standards onto men. Just because you or your friend got rejected for their height once doesn't mean that shit is common. You don't find men ridiculing tall women on social media nearly as much as women ridicule short men. Wander why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 11:35 PM
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Nah what really happens irl or online but especially online is ugly girls date average guys and average girls date hot guys. Then again looks is not the only measure of attractiveness but the point is that women require way more than what they bring to the table, and that's a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 11:32 PM
5

Just fucking do it already so you can see how wrong you are for Christ's sake
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 11:24 PM
1

*wealthy attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 11:08 PM
1

Your "bare minimum" is not minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 09:55 PM
1

Why not just break up with your partner? Why hurt them because you're not sexually compatible? Fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 09:51 PM
1

This but replace the man and the woman with strawmen cause thats what this comic basically is
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 09:39 PM
2

Absolutely. Imagine how cool it must be to asexually reproduce. I can produce offspring whenever I want, on my own volition, with nothing external affecting me. Must be heaven
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 08:12 PM
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Of course it is, chompsky honk. You're just too spoiled with male attention to recognise the fact that you get any attention at all effortlessly is a privilege. And a very big one at it. It's like a six year old girl who doesn't want to eat her veggies complaining about being hungry to a bunch of starving homeless men. Also just because guys want to fuck you doesn't mean they only want to fuck you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 05:37 PM
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The patriarchy wouldn't exist if women didn't reward dominant and assertive male behaviour with sex : )
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 05:14 PM
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Yeah it must be horrible to have all these men express desire to you. I would hate it if dozens of women texted me about how much they want to suck my dick daily. I can't imagine the horror one must have of being desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 04:45 PM
0

You do realise that most men don't rape or sexually harass women right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 04:41 PM
0

Just because someone wants to fuck you doesn't mean they only want to fuck you. And if every man you interact with only wants you for sex, maybe you're just not that interesting of a person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 04:38 PM
1

No but chances are your self esteem would still be rock bottom if men didn't find you desirable. Incels do not have that privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 04:37 PM
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Because it's kind of true
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 04:22 PM
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So men have to go through an odyssey of self improvement to get a gf that is basically the female equivalent of them before they did all the self improvement stuff? Great
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 04:11 PM
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Install tinder, use the picture of a woman you think is ugly and see if what you're saying is true for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 04:09 PM
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Because women's standards are way higher than men's standards and as a result a large percentage of men are left with lackluster, or even nonexistent sex lives
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 04:05 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 04:01 PM
3

Some do but most of them either don't care, or don't have standards high enough for height to be a deal-breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 03:57 PM
4

They are, just way less than tall men. And that's IF they have some other attractive trait to make up for their short height
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 03:53 PM
4

You're joking right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 03:51 PM
3

One example is not enough to prove a point, how about a study instead? https://amp.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments/5i6m5y/women_have_unrealistic_views_of_how_men_look/ Inb4 it's from OkCupid, not tinder Yeah, I'm sure there's a huge difference between the two
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 03:48 PM
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Any woman, no matter how ugly, gets hundreds of tinder likes daily, whereas only a small percentage of highly attractive men get matches, let alone dates
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 03:36 PM
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Yeah it is a problem when they ONLY date hot men and everyone else sort of lives a very lonely life. Women's standards are getting higher and higher and more and more men are suffering as a result
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 03:31 PM
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Men's standards for attractiveness are WAY more forgiving than women's though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 03:29 PM
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Why do men have to improve themselves to get a partner while women are desired by simply existing? What's so great about women that men need to improve for? If men need to improve to date people then the same should be applied to women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 11:00 PM
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Yes.Raise the value of male sexual attention. Lower the value of female sexual attention. Stop commodifying sex so that women will pursue more personal growth instead of using sex to manipulate men. That way women's standards for men will be lower, so more men will be able to find a partner within their league
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 10:57 PM
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Men don't really have the ability to do that though. Most men have virtually no options, so they jump in the moment they see an opportunity. if these men raised their standards, they would just end up alone
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/20 10:48 PM
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Guy gives off resentment vibe that women smell from 2 miles away Yeah, which is why Ted Bundy died a virgin. Oh wait
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 07:03 AM
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