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If you believe that ''science'' makes women shitty people then I can tell you for a fact that any woman wouldn't be immoral for not wanting to be anywhere near you, but actually it would be very well justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:23 PM
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Yeah definitely leave this sub. As a woman who isn't even a feminist, 100% this sub is tailored to incels and misogynists. Comments trying to derail the radical echo chamber just get banned or removed. Don't trust anything on this sub for shit. If you want women to like you be the complete opposite of everyone on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 10:15 AM
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And married men only contribute 40% of childcare and house work at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 09:13 AM
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Every single man says they want a equal 50/50 share of chores and finances, until it actually comes down to it and it never happens. There is still an expectation from men that housework is for women whether they admit it to our faces or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:59 AM
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Iiving in a dirty home is neglect. It's not about dishes in the sink its about living in a messy, hazardous environment. If you think I've ever come into a room complaining about dust thats your own imagination. Im talking about serious, hazardous filth. Its bad for your head, its bad for your body. But if you'd rather stare at the corner and dissosciate instead of facing the truth well that's fine. But the consequence is that no one will want to live with you. Unless you earn enough to hire a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:46 AM
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Attracting men has nothing to do with it. Whether I was dating or not dating I was still effected by male laziness. My current partner I do the majority of the housework still but I don't care because he works many hours and I respect that. I don't respect men who work less than me and expect me to clean up after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:42 AM
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If only your ma could hear you now, she would be so proud /s. Its very easy to maintain house chores when you live by yourself. The problem is that soon as men get hitched they decide not to do it anymore, and women are left to do twice as much or even more if they have children, which impedes on their ability to be successful at work. Its not about difficulty, its about time, there are only so many hours in a day and if you have to spend 1-2 hours everyday doing housework instead of 30-60 minut…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:35 AM
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Anecdotal evidence aside, statistically men do a lot less house work maintenance than women. Doesn't mean that all women are clean and all men are messy. It means in a partnership regardless of cleanilness the vast majority of the house work is done by the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:26 AM
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If you saw children living in that filth, you would call it neglect. So if men want to be disgusting, lazy pigs and destroy the environment that everyone shares out of laziness, its my fault for being bothered by it? You truly are brain damaged and you should be isolated from the rest of society and not complain about it, because its not fair that anyone should share living space with somebody so inconsiderate. Good luck holding down a family with that attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:25 AM
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I've worked construction and still been expected to come home and do all the chores for my male flat mates and partners. 12 hour labour shifts while they pissed about in the council and IT for 7 hour shifts and still 'didnt have the energy' to clean up after themselves. Womens work hours are going up but men's contributions are barely moving. Men wanna talk big about their carreers but they wouldn't even be able to do them if their partner or mom wasn't doing everything else for them. Atleast me…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:18 AM
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This is true but it also means women are held back even today because they are expected to play mommy for the men in their life. Even when children aren't involved women still contribute the most to domestic chores and this affects their ability to persue carreers and dreams. Men on this thread always complain that women are leeches because men make more money than them rather than acknowledging the fact they are always held back by expectations of their gender. I used to live in a house with my…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:17 AM
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Not just childcare but domestic chores in general, despite all the 'feminist progression' men still refuse to equally participate in domestic responsibility, leaving women to be responsible for over 65% of housework, further hurting their ability to persue carreers when in relationships with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 08:06 AM
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No one in the history of ever has said that a man grooming himself is 'rape'. Get your ears out of your arse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:06 PM
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No one in the history of ever has said that a man grooming himself is 'rape'. Get your ears out of your arse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 04:06 PM
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For real.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:27 AM
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These are actually really impressive and if men weren't so insecure about grooming they could do amazing things. I wear make up so I would never judge a man for doing anything to himself to look good. If he looks how he wants then I'm happy for him. And I wouldn't even give a man who hates make up 5 minutes of my time because most men that hate make up hate women in general and women haters make shit boyfriends. You only see these idiots complain about normal women. Never complain about movie st…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 11:11 AM
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Aslong as men do it there's an excuse for it being ok, as is always with this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:00 AM
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So is a man lying when he hides his beta receding jaw with a beard or? What about tailored suits? Plucked unibrow? Covering your bad chest fur with a t-shirt? Would you prefer if women didnt shave their pits anymore? After all armpit hair is gross so we shouldn't remove it to look good. That would be pathetic, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 07:43 AM
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80% of men are avg looking. I don't think thats how averages work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 04:24 PM
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Its not an argument its just projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 03:49 PM
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Men complain about women on this thread all the time with 0 introspection. I'm not saying women don't do it too but its not a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 11:20 AM
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Ah yes because men have never told women to behave in a way that benefits men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:55 AM
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Are you like this all the time, or?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:24 AM
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If you get your interpretation of women from FDS you're gonna be really disappointed by how normal women in the real world are. Its like if women got their interpretation from men on redpill pua subs we'd all be single and would never touch another man again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 08:21 AM
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Because they are both athletic. If you don't want to work out then don't expect to get with a chick with a bmi of 18 and you can have all the normal relationships you want with women in your own league.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:59 AM
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Well its no surprise women aren't interested in construction. Its a highly unprofessional environment and 99% of the workers are men. I worked on site for my first job and I basically got sexually harassed on a regular basis. The whole infrastructure needs to change before we can ever expect women to be equal participants in those kind of jobs, and we need to lose the stigma that only dumb working class people work in these jobs when they are actually the opposite of dumb work. And men still exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 07:17 AM
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And you provided nothing to the conversation other than your imagination, congrats.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:48 AM
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Lol the percent of women in a relationship with a man more than a decade older than them is less than 7%, maybe you need to actually confirm your numbers before pulling them out of your ass, Mr. ''WrOnG AgAiN'''
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:43 AM
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Just because men want to fuck 20 year old women doesn't mean they're losing the opportunity because the 20 year old women have to want to fuck them too, which they probably don't want to because they're fucking men their own age like a normal person. Like I said the only thing men are losing from a relationship is the chore of trying to get the attention of women who are not interested. Look at all the men on this thread who cry about no pussy crumbs on a daily basis. What exactly are you missin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:37 AM
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No you got it backwards, women are paying the cost of not fucking any of the men that throw themselves at her constantly. Men are just losing the opportunity to be routinely ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:35 AM
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When women fuck no strings attached they're perma damaging their ''''pair bonding capabilities'''' but when a man does it hes ''''protecting his mental health'''. Mate there's literally 0 mental health benefit to ghosting the people who literally pump the love chemicals into your brain other than temporary repression.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:28 AM
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Its really funny how how men perceive the 'the bad boys' and talk about domestic abuse like it happens because women only date villain caricatures. Abusive men and women look and act like regular people on paper. If anything the behaviour of abusers mirrors that of the attitudes of men on this thread. The pretend victim full of resentment who treats people like shit because they think their bad luck makes them entitled to treat people like shit. Most abusers have some manipulative sob story abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:16 PM
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People hate FDS because they constantly shit on Men. They take one story of a guy acting like a jackass, apply it to 90% of men That is quite literally what TRP does with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:41 AM
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Are you really saying women can't be critical of men's behaviour because music exists? Get a fucking grip. Contrary to this dumb sub loads of women don't care about macho pricks who treat women like shit. Most of us hate them, with the exception of the mentally ill. And its not because we dont want men to "achieve anything" its because we don't enjoy being gaslighted by generalisations and treated like shit. There's nothing more unappealing to women than a loser with a shitty attitude about wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:32 AM
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For every guy that it 'works on' theres another 1000 basement dwellers who have a warped perception of women and reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:27 AM
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'Women should be polite and as well mannered as men' You should do stand up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 07:20 AM

I dunno man I've literally been sexually assaulted like 3 times, have complex ptsd, been violently abused by a partner and I still think 90% of fds is disgusting. Trauma isn't an excuse to be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:57 AM
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I don't think my 40 year old uncle has much problems with hormonal acne mate. Coconut oil is only bad for clogging on skin that is already damaged. Blocks the healing. As a moisturizer it works great. Its not for cleaning spots.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:45 AM
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Omnivores thrive on a varied diet, not one specific food group.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:23 AM
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Legit, thats exactly what I did. Face wash and moisturizer in my pocket and wacked it on after washing my hands. I hate the feeling of a dirty face even a quick wash is better than nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:13 AM
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It doesn't take 30 minutes to rub something on your face, lol. More like 30 secounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:05 AM
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To be fair women can be really messy too, I just think its a lower percentage compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:40 PM
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My point is that it is compensation. Thats why its a partnership, thats why it works. As to whether or not a man or a woman cleans faster due to physicality I don't really know. If men could clean more fast due to their physicality then they should do more chores, but they dont. The statistics are measured by chores done and responsibility covered, not time spent. I have no idea why but women seem to be more wired to pay attention to household neglect. Many, many men live in absolute stys and se…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:37 PM
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If you have to tell everyone its logical, its emotional. Calling something logical is a bargaining plea. Literal persuasive writing. Real logic just is, it doesn't have to name itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:26 AM
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My dad has never washed his face in his life. My mum wears very little make up but she has a good skin care routine. They both live in the UK. My mum is 61 and my dad is 52. They both eat the same diet. My dad is Mediterranean and my mum is irish. Shes 9 years older than my dad, has more frail skin than my dad, and she looks about 20 years younger than my dad. He doesn't look old because of hardwork either, because my mum is the one who has been working for 40 years while hes been unemployed. Pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:11 AM
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Also people with autism look a lot younger because of extra collagen and there are more autistic men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:03 AM
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Products schoducts. My uncles got skin like a 30 year old in his mid 40s and hes a roofer. He just uses coconut oil and sunscreen. If you let your skin dry out and die because you're scared of a bit of moisturizer you're playing yourself. Not everything is some chemical made in a Hedare beauty factory.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:58 AM
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Older women definitely wear less make up, im a woman and even I notice it. Make up tends to make you look more haggard anyway once the wrinkles start to come in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:54 AM
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They still do a much higher percentage of housework than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:48 AM
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Yep, and women are usually the ones who have to put the investment into domestic responsibility. Its not because women are lazy but because in most instances women are still responsible for over 65% of domestic responsibility and childcare even if they work the same hours. Women's carreers are much likely to stagnate if they are not single because they are always the presumed housekeeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:47 AM
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I'm a 5'2 woman who worked 14 hour labour shifts and yeah generally its the kind of work that would make 95% of women quit after day one. 1. Because of the bad conditions and health hazards (building sites have appalling hygiene) and 2. Because of the sexual harassment because there is 0 HR and 99% of the workers are men. Generally there's not a lot of protection for men or women on building sites, they just throw a bunch of people in a pit and let them go lord of flies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:40 AM
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Not really. When I did labouring I just quickly wacked some moisturizer on my face whenever I would use the toilet (so like once or twice a day) and thats generally enough. Never effected my ability to time keep. But granted most laborers are trying not to fall over from semi alcohol poisoning half the time so its no surprise most of them can't be arsed to wash their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:37 AM
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People want to believe its genetics because they want to believe change is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:28 AM

You said males will do this. If you are like that thats fine but its not everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:06 PM
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Women can't partner bond because Ryan Gosling exists /s This comment totally doesn't scream insecure or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 03:09 AM
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My dad was a useless bum who didn't work for 30 years and never even washed a dish and my mum financially supports him even years after I moved out. But no one ever called my dad 'hypergamous'. Hypergamous hasn't been relevant in decades. No one is married into royalty anymore. What people mean by hypergamy now is just basic domestic partnerships. People on this sub talk about hypergamy all the time because basic commitment threatens the expendable funko pop fund, and yet they have not a single …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 02:35 AM

Nah thats just insecure blokes. People who are well adjusted don't get paranoid about people's exes and 'body count'. Most people dont even ask because they aren't thinking about their girlfriend's exe's dick size on a regular basis. And its always the obsessive jealous ones who cheat anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 10:18 PM

I love when some guy pretends that the women who don't want them now are going to want them in 10 years time because they can't fathom an existence where women's lives don't revolve around them 24/7. The truth is none of them are even going to remember who you are bro because you're obviously very forgettable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 10:04 PM
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Women are happier than single men because of reduced quality of life in general. When men could provide free time for their partner via being a single income earner it meant that women could choose to invest time in domestic needs. Now it is basically impossible to support 2 adults on 1 income. The vast majority of households both the man and the woman work. And women still do over 65% of all domestic chores and most of the child care despite also working. This means that the value of relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:15 AM
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Women think men only want sex because we are constantly pestered since birth. More or less every woman will be harassed, have men make innappropriate comments about their body or even touch you with zero permission. I'm sorry but the idea that women make it all up for attention shows how very little you actually know about what its like to be a woman. Its not about 'friendzoning' or 'not giving a guy a chance'. Its about the fact as soon as you hit 13 some guy even if hes like 30 or 40 will try …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 06:14 AM
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Woah slow down there, Patrick Bateman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 09:33 PM
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You mean like all the married people in 16th century france where adultery was more or less the standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 01:50 PM
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Rape isn't the only thing that could get someone accused legally of a crime. Lying about injuries, lying about theft, lying about basically anything illegal. Set ups are as old as time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:37 PM
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Women are more likely to be believed about rape sure but it is a pretty drastic thing to lie about and is also sensitive to challenge. If a man however lied about for example, having cancer, and people believed it because it didnt look suspicious, people would equally find it detestable to call them a liar without proof. I'm not going to say women don't lie about things like rape for gain, but there are many types of lies that can be for gain. But people focus on women and rape because it is gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:44 PM
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Thats cool, I don't know how you speak for everyone, but cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:43 AM
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I mean I would say that some women can focus more on their carreer and be single but also not feel alienated. I think men are more likely to alienate themselves and deal with more extreme loneliness. But not in every case. Despite the generalisation about women some of them are also incredibly lonely. Hell I was always super alienated as a woman. I spent the entirety of my 16-20 years basically not talking to anyone or having any friends at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:39 AM
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Thats because of the trust. Women go to frat parties with people they 'know' get wasted and pass out. They might know a person there but that doesn't make it safe. But dating within a circle of known people makes the social stakes higher. Tinder etc is super objectifying and makes the perfect environment for people to treat others like trash for their benefit. So don't be surprised if all the men pump n dump when you only date on tinder. Or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:33 AM
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Plenty of 25 year old men don't even know how to do laundry or cook a meal, or still think instagram is the best place to meet women, or right out won't date a chick if their friends don't think she's hot. Usually when women say don't date someone its because they're crazy, desperate or rapey. When men say don't date someone its because her SVM is only a '6' or she's fat despite being 125 pounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:24 AM
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I've seen plenty of women date someone their friends and family dont like, even throw away whole friendships and family ties for a man. And sometimes the guy turns out to be an abusive asshole or a useless manchild and it was all for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:21 AM
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Probably because you did something super creepy or desperate. Women only get protective for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:18 AM
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Lmao some men think the best place to date is instagram and then be like 'why is every woman so narcissistic???' Only dating women on instagram is like only dating on a building site or a crack house. You're only going to get the worst of the worst and if any woman pays you a lip of attention its because she wants insta traction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:13 AM
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This is not a usual experience. There is a lot less social implications to being a rapist to a woman you barely know than to a woman who knows all your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:03 AM
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Lmao some men write shit like this and then wonder why they can't get a date. 'Spend 2 months forming friendships with people and it was a complete waste because some girl didnt fuck me' I wouldn't worry about it mate because your general thought process is messed up enough to end your dating life on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 10:58 AM
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My Greek relatives in London UK are all more or less under 5'7. It didn't really seem to effect their confidence much either. But there is kind of a standard that Greek women would rather date Greek men because of family pressure though so maybe that has something to do with it. Although my dad decided to partner up with my Irish mum. She is actually taller than him (5'8) which you don't see very often. But my dad and his relatives were always pretty confident I've never heard any of them compla…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:15 PM
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I have seen traction from certain brands who use 'dad bod' models but they have much smaller traction than the female counter parts, less people are doing it etc. It does exist but it needs more attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 03:09 PM
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Disrespectful? Are you going to prove to me that 30 year old men don't want to date college girls? Talk about women who are their own age as 'past their prime'? Are you going to deny that men don't do this when this sub has a post a day about women's smv? You lot are delusional. You say all this shit and then when women point it out its 'disrespectful'.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:12 PM
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And recent developments show that human evolution was more alturism based than previously assumed, and that the whole concept has changed drastically from 'eat kill fuck'. 1000s of years of evolution according to you and your perception of what that actually means. An anthropomorphisation of science and history still isn't real science and history.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:08 PM
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I was talking about the fact that men are more likely to date younger and women older? Is that wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:31 PM
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I'm saying that younger people are more likely to have impossibly high standards that drop as they grow older. Its just an observation but I don't think its that crazy. People's standards are continually shaped as they grow older and 'what they want vs how they want to be treated' is a sliding scale. People who care more about being acknowledged for their personality than dating someone hot are more often than not people who have gone through a learning process.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:27 PM
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I'm not outraged mate. I'm just telling you what people are going to think. If you think people's first impressions should be shaped around your perception of 'traps' then you go for it mate. Maybe after the 1000th time you might pull it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:22 PM
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Real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:20 PM
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Ah fair. Well perhaps I have something challenging to add. For starters I don't agree with the plastic surgery or some of the attitudes about SMV in the original post. Generally I think people should focus more on challenging societal expectations about looks in order to benefit society. People should focus more on healthy self love vs unhealthy improvements. Maybe plastic surgery is needed in some cases but most people who think they need it don't. Not everyone has to have a button nose or a pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:19 PM
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In general sure but there's more metrics to consider here, like age groups, the platform (instagram and tinder being flooded with male lurkers). If a higher percentage of women on online dating don't fit the categories that the men are looking for it lessons that dating pool. How many women aged 18-30 are actually on tinder vs men aged 18-30? All that stuff is relevant. Regardless any woman will tell you that they get lots of hits on online dating but navigating through all the hyper sexualizing…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:12 PM
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Yes. People feed into objectification all the time, overtly and covertly. And generally overtly objectifying others is not exactly a desirable trait, but objectifying yourself for the sake of others to be more desirable is more effective or because they feel like there is no other choice. People tailor themselves to be more desirable but focusing on it too much in places outside of weird reddit boards is just socially inept. That can go for objectifying others or yourself too. Whether you wanna …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:01 PM
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If traps wanna call themselves traps thats fine. But don't expect any woman to take you seriously when you say shit like 'I dont fuck traps' in public. If you use terminology like that it shows how objectifying you are to people in general and also to women. And women aren't interested in men that think like that. Look mate I don't care if you say it or not, but you asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:47 PM
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Because 'trap' is a derogatory male fantasy about sexualizing transvestites. Its distasteful in pretty much every circle that isn't 4chan.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:45 PM
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'I also love women who don't wear any make up and dress in non girly clothes (and no I don't mean traps or tomboys)' Traps that don't wear make up or girly clothes? Do you even know what a trap is? Also don't use terms like trap because it makes you look like a basement dweller. Tomboys are girls that don't wear make up and wear non girly clothes, so what the fuck do you mean? You've basically just proved the women that meet your standards don't even exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:43 PM
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This is true. This is why average women date age upward, because it takes a lot of men a few years of failed relationship attempts before they start to have more realistic expectations. Maybe if men did the same instead of trying to hook up with college girls indefinitely they might have more luck. It takes people a while before they fully grasp that models and boy band types aren't realistically obtainable partnerships for most average people. And unfortunately most men are 30 and upward before…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:26 PM
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A presumption of where we came from in order to fit current naratives, you mean. Or atleast a hyper focus on its current relevance when there are many things which are way more impactful.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:14 PM
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But what about all the butt hole sunning and patchouli armpit threading? That takes just as much time as make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:11 PM
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This comment right here, officer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:19 PM
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I always hate these kind of takes because they're just completely lacking indepth nuance but still come to a conclusion anyway. You see it all the time on this sub. 'I think men and women are like x because of x' sorry but there is just way too much variety within the human race. Circumstances, upbringing, culture, social and societal implications, behaviours developed by societal survival, mental health, neurosis, insecurities, media influence. All of these things can change and determine the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:05 PM
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I don't know why people are surprised by those numbers when there's 10 times as many men on dating sites than women. 100% if men had 10-100 women trying to fuck them all the time they'd pick from the top shelf as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:08 AM
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I've seen literal ham planet men be graced with a match only to start a convo with 'I'm an insecure nympho, medically you need to have sex with me immediately or this isn't going to work'. I feel like that probably didn't work on anyone but he really thought it would. If you were a woman you would know there is just as many uggos demanding immediate sex as chads. Many of us women have turned off requests from chad types and tried dating below average looking men thinking they're gonna be nicer, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:06 AM
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Its because older women are more experienced, less naive and know how to spot a bad relationship much earlier than younger, more naive women. If you think you've scored the lotto because some young girl doesn't know how to nagivate around the advances of someone much older then you've probably got about 2 years tops before she wises up. Most women will go through some relationships and advances that had some coercion, manipulation or abuse involved. And men will go through this a lot too. More e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:31 PM
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I remember giving tips to my best friend at college. She had no idea how a blowjob was supposed to work so I just explained that like a vagina a dick is sensitive in certain areas and different feelings work better on different parts. Oh and every dick is different. Always start gentle while you're getting used to it because the last thing you wanna do is hurt a guy in the dick. Its easy to go headfirst and think 'right whats the fastest way to make him cum' (men do this too) but really you wann…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 01:00 PM
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Too large is more common than you'd think. An ovarian tear is the fastest way to end an relationship. I guess thats what I get for being 5'2.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:50 PM
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The men on this thread talk about women as if they are all man hating, hypergamous, narcissists and when women say 'thats not true for most of us' you go off and say this horseshit. I'm sorry there's little 'constructive responses' to men strawmaning female behaviour constantly but you get what you give. Most of these 'observations' are mostly projections from bitter ass men who haven't talked to a woman in months, and most of us can see through that. If you wanna talk about actual poignant gend…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:50 AM
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Probably 80% of the posts on this sub are totally out of touch with reality, I wouldn't take it too seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:40 AM

Not really comparable, gay men are trying to be overtly sexy all the time and there's 0 things women find attractive about that. But gay men aren't trying to attract women, so why would they care what gay men do to attract each other? You can't say the same for straight men trying to attract women and failing miserably. It just comes across as really out of touch, and women are often harassed constantly by overtly sexual straight men. It just comes across as desperate which is not really attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:30 AM

I like bi guys but the vast majority of women are not attracted to them. Hanging out with gay and bi and queer people gives women something to bond over, like femininity and fabulousness, fashion, make up. But they don't find it attractive. And most women think of bi men as submissive and desperate, and also not as validating to their appearance because bi men would fuck anything probably. They would never say they 'hate' bi men but many women are put off by what they imagine bi men are like in …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:18 AM
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Who would have thought one post would destroy this whole sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 11:57 AM
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Thats just not true, loads of men and women play the same games.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:42 AM
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But there is a reason why she is more successful than others, because she plays the fantasy better than most. The simps feel less challenged by a 'gamer girl'.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:41 AM
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I dunno I've seen some balding black guys with some weird as fuck head shapes, like I mean an entire family of folds. It used to be a common thing people would talk about at my school as most boys had to have their hair shaved short because of uniform regulations. If you had a weird shaped head you couldn't even hide it with hair as a kid, you were gonna get bullied. Only for the hair to stop growing a few decades later. I don't envy it thats for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:11 PM
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There are ups and downs to the accessibility of the internet for sure. But also people who would never function in hyper social settings have more options for interactions, but it still takes effort some people aren't willing to put in. But the accessibility is huge. I used to live somewhere that was so ghetto real life interactions were just not an option for me at all, if I didn't have the internet there was no chance for me. Before I used the internet I was still highly introverted and had ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:04 PM
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A hotel is an overnight thing, a love hotel is more like book an hour slot and go. It might be hard to make it work in places in the west but places with less stigma are already making bank on it. Culture is a big part of it as well. Spending 50-100 every time you wanna have sex and then fucking in a dreary cheap motel is less appealing and practical than you're making it out to be though. Lack of places to have sex is becoming more of an issue than it used to be and eventually someone is going …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:57 AM
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More and more people meet in video game communities. There are plenty of women who also feel like the 'elitism' of dating harms their potential for finding men and try to appeal as more fun having and approachable. Because of this women like Belle Delphine became really successful, because men are more interested in 'friendly gamer girls' than high life pariahs. I guess my point is that many people complain about video games hurting relationships but I don't necessarily think that counts for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:50 AM
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7 is definitely a legit reason. Because of poor / work life balance and the cost of living there is literally 0 benefit for women to be in a relationship these days. If both parents are forced to work to afford rent then women are still working everyday and yet doing the vast majority of child care and house work, and this also means that hypergamy is literally the only appeal to relationships women have now. If a man can't provide enough funds to give their woman free time for child care and ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:33 AM
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Weird innit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:21 AM

The roid rage is what gives it away not the physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:44 AM

I actually prefer feminine hips on a guy, I don't like that overt V thing more macho lookin guys get. Gives me plastic ken doll vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:37 AM

I don't really like big and muscular, my preference is short and lean. Less scary that way. If hes a lot bigger than me I'm not really going to be interested. Bald is also probably going to be off putting for me, or a shaved or overtly butch hair cut. I prefer longer more natural hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:27 AM
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Don't say that, this sub doesn't need anymore of a dry spell.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:18 AM

Yeah same here. One of my oldest friends seemed like a great catch til he dated one of my best friends and I got to see what he was really like and yeesh, there's no hope for the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:10 PM

Stop pretending like fucking rebound pussy for 10 years because you're still bitter about your ex is the only functional option. Loads of people over 25 are dating normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:07 PM

We got ourselves a real keeper over here /s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:02 PM

I feel like the problem comes from people who don't socialize properly with the opposite gender. I have guy 'friends' who complain about women all the time but constantly surround themselves with superficial model tier women from instagram despite looking very average. I ask them why don't they try socializing with other women and there's always an excuse about how that doesn't fit their 'ideal type of woman'. Like ok but I don't know what you expect from a woman who goes to the gym regularly, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:42 PM

There's a difference between complaining about dating and 24/7 wallowing about the opposite gender. Me and my friends complain about the dating scene all the time, but I wont be friends with people who constantly complain about men/women as if they are some sort of hive mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:32 PM
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It must be really sad to never know what love is, I hope you get better one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 04:06 PM
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I wouldn't bother asking, you probably don't fit the description anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:04 AM
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Good luck paying whores all the way into your retirement. Us 'average women' will be too busy kissing our husbands good night and not waking once in the night as we peacefully rest under the assurance of a fulfilling relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:56 AM
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That person is being edge on purpose for views, they're playing a character and its getting attention. The whole point of a 'nice guy' is that they're not actually nice, its a farce and everyone can see through it. They try to get women via implication invocation which is just another manipulative tactic and it only works on the kind but naive girls. Most adult women prefer to have some kind of equal footing in the direction of the relationship, not being coerced by over bearing acts of 'kindnes…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:44 AM
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Happy basement dwelling!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:19 AM
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Speak for yourself, a lot of men have developed above ooga booga.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 04:23 PM
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Hahhahhaha speak for yourself kiddo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 04:22 PM
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Its been a while since I dated but imo a bio that helps open up a conversation is best. Anything that will give me something to talk about with someone is a big bonus because otherwise it can get awkward and boring fast. The hobbies and stuff don't necessarily have to line up with mine (like model making for example) but it will give me something to ask you about and getting to chat is the best way to find out if I like someone or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 01:42 PM
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Thanks, sometimes dating do be like that though. Even as a girl I never really enjoyed it, I hate the feeling of feeling judged all the time. I know it sucks for guys too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 01:38 PM
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He dumped me. Basically stood me up once and then ignored me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 01:22 PM
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Thats a generalisation. Thats like saying 'imagine counting on men to not think with their dick' or 'men only want to date women out of their league'. It maybe true in some instances but if you think it applies to everyone its probably a sign you've spent too much time in the basement and its time to go out and talk to people instead of about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:51 PM
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Sorry I can't give you 18 year old me's number anymore because she technically doesn't exist now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:47 PM
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Eat ice cream and share sad music sounds like a perfect first date tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:45 PM
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I fail to see how that changes anything about what I said. Its not even true. I've seen 10/10 women date a violent jobless loser. But you know, trash men are always out for an excuse to value women entirely on their looks and nothing else. Its a good warning sign to all the women out there to stay the fuck away from you, so keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:44 PM
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I dunno if someone's hobby is listed as 'crying in my room' I might just have to say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:38 PM
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This is the problem with men, they want to attract literally anyone instead of someone whos good for them. Tell people about yourself and let them take it or leave it, the people who are interested in you as a person will come forward. That is the most obtainable reality. The fantasy is lying or leaving out important details with the thought of making up for them later. Thats the shit that doesn't work. Loads of young women play video games these days, some people think its a waste of time. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:35 PM
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How do you know women don't read bios? Maybe they are reading bios, and when they read yours, they read 'loser'. Honestly in my experience you lot have it ass backwards. Almost every women I know thinks ALOT about the personality of their dates. Its only men I've seen who flick through profiles of women like choosing candy at the store.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:32 PM
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I'm 5'2 and I dated a guy who was 5'0. I thought he was cute. Plus I wear really tall shoes sometimes because I like to be as high up as my current bf (5'7). Its cute when a guy is short, or tall. Whatever. As long as hes smart and nice and has a cute enough face. I've seen a lot of men demand a lot more from a woman for sure. Its usually a young people thing. Everyones standards are super picky when people are young and think they're hot shit. But I always prefered the more awkward and shy type…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:28 PM
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Actually a lot of men are pleasant looking. I know theres lots of stats saying women judge men harshly. But honestly I can find something pleasant looking in the majority of people. I've met many men who said they thought they were ugly, I thought they were very cute though. Like women, men often judge themselves more than other people are actually judging them. No one is expecting you to be a super chad except the voices in your own head.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:07 PM
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Lmao legit, not everyone wants to be a social media marketer. But at the same time, don't complain about not getting hits on tinder if you're not that kind of person. Why use a system thats designed against you? I stopped using online dating years ago and my life significantly improved. And less social media. Real life interactions are so much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:02 PM
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Imagine thinking a woman is either a virgin or a slut. I can't imagine being so out of touch with reality. I can only imagine what you're mother thinks of you. Nothing great probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:55 AM
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This is just in your head mate. People tell themselves this shit so they can take off the responsibility from themselves. Being clean, grooming, paying a little attention to how you look goes a long long way for virtually everybody. Nobody wakes up looking perfect. Everyone looks better with some TLC. Even if you don't look as great as everyone else, you can still feel and look better than you do right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:51 AM
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This is always such a one sinded opinion. Women can have really low standards as well. The problem is a lot deeper than 'men make better choices'. Its like saying to domestic violence victims 'just pick better men'. Men (and women) make poor choices due to problems linked to esteem, mental health and loneliness. The problem will only be fixed by fixing the root of it, and it can only be fixed one person at a time. Unfortunately most people will fall before they walk. It is just part of life and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:42 AM
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Good for you, you must have garnered so much wisdom in that safe little bubble of yours. It really shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 01:49 AM
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I've literally had men take their junk out infront of me at work, I've been assaulted on the street and I've been roofied. But tell me again how the fear is 'irrational'. Fuck off man child. Women are not more 'nuerotic' you just don't talk to any women and know absolutely nada about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 05:13 PM
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Nah you definitely side lined and you're still doing it now, you're making issues out of logic that doesnt even exist in the real world. Im out, peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 03:11 PM
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No, sorry. Thats just not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:35 PM
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I never said I wasn't. Go back to my original comment before all the bullshit sidelining and read that I'm talking about how feminism and incels can both host 'legitimate victim status'.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:34 PM
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Is there inflation from feminists on the stats? Ya. Do they intentionally hide stats representing male victims? Ya. Is there still an existing disparity in specific cases between the sexes? Yes. Im a woman who used to work on a building site mate, I've lived it. You can't tell me a position where 1 in every 400 staff is a woman doesn't have problems with sexism and a rampant fear of sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:32 PM
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Domination isn't illegal, there's loads of places where men out number women and hold a position of authority over them. Your understanding of rights and the law is a bit flawed bud. Not everything fits in the 'its a crime or not a crime' categories. Its not that black and white. If it is legal to imprison someone for being gay in another country, is it not a human rights issue? Human rights issues don't need to be backed by a law to be valid, they never have. No offense but you probably should …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:43 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:42 PM
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If women exist in a place where men can dominate them it is a human rights issue. Not sure why you think it isn't but it is and it always has been. I don't really understand why you think its not, I'm not really understanding your reasoning. Just because something is illegal doesn't mean that it can't cause human rights issues. Usually what makes it a human rights issue is that it is illegal but not regulated enough, therefore systematically people's rights are affected by a lack of regulation a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:27 PM
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Yes rape and sexual assault is a part of feminism. The fact that such a large percentage of women have been sexually assaulted in their life time makes it a gendered issue, so it is part of women's rights. A lot of feminists talk about issues with sexual assault and rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 01:07 PM
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If you think there is no link to rape and feminism you're probably being dense on purpose now. Plus it was an example of a reason why a woman would choose to be a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:41 PM
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A lot of people would say feminism has 'legit victims'. Infact, it does. Is an ex rape victim feminist not a genuine victim? Ofcourse she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:03 PM
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Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:57 AM
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There is no difference. Just two victim circle jerks standing on the opposite side of the playground. Both have pseudo-intellectuals who are actually just masking their bitterness with 'logic' and both have outright dumb hate mob types.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:43 AM

I never thought of it that way but it does make sense. My partner used to be a single dad. I know having a kid 50% of the time probably made dating difficult, especially with his busy job. I got the impression from him he wasn't expecting to properly date someone again due to his busy schedule but we worked around it. I don't have kids myself but my partner never expected me to 'step parent'. I'm generally not good with younger kids. (Good with older, though). My partner was also never married. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:36 AM

I guess this would mean divorced men are more likely to be dating or married again than divorced women? Can't say I expected that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 10:56 AM

Even though sex is supposed to be mutual, women still 'get used for sex' most women will tell you that. The reason incel logic is dumb though is because they like pretend women are only badly treated by 'chads'. Women will tell you literally any shape or size of man can treat you like shit if they turned out to be a shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 10:49 AM

I wouldn't put it past the fact that men start to get more attention around 40 while women start to get less attention. A lot of men spend 25-35 being ignored but as their life style and maturity improves they become more desirable. With women it doesn't really work like that because the majority of men think about looks before they think about anything else, older women get less and less attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 10:45 AM
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I'm sure you can buy both those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 10:38 AM
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Aslong as betas keep working to buy funko pops they'll keep the economy alive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 05:02 PM
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All of this applies to women as well. Outside of the 1% making bank on twitch most women still forget the whole american dream thing as well and just settle for small luxurious. Less and less women have families and children because good work life balance in the modern world is unobtainable. Most households require both parties to work however women are still the primary caretakers of the household. Unless they marry / cohabit for hypergamy there is little appeal to starting families with men in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 04:51 PM

Masturbating without porn is also a thing and the two may have different effects and levels of satiety or addictiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:51 AM

The two aren't mutually exclusive, men can be aware of the implications of society on people around them while being less aware of their own hidden behavioural changes, or less able to control them. Well anyone can.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:48 AM

Doesn't really take into the account the phenomenon of men that eventually prefer to watch pornography than sleep with their girlfriend. If men only watch porn because of lack of access to sex then this would never happen, but its actually pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:46 AM
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You will get a lot of chances to figure stuff out through your life. You'll have good ones and bad ones, and eventually strike gold when you find someone who actually gets you. But the world will pull you through the dirt first. Imo, the world makes us work to deserve happiness. We have to over come challenges about self worth and empathy before we can truly be content. Everyone was inexperienced at some point, and when reality finally hits, its about how people not only reacted to that, but how…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:00 PM
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Over time, definitely yes. This is why inexperienced people are the most vulnerable and easy to manipulate. They are also the most malleable, meaning that they often deal with their trauma in the same way as their abusive partners, thus continuing the cycle. To say it is specifically gendered is to ignore the very real perpetual, cyclical reality of abusive partners and abusive behaviours. People joke about people with 'baggage' but I'll take openly introspective with 'baggage' over anything els…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:53 PM
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You're not thinking of the bigger picture, but sure. Every girl is an airhead who takes pictures of her ass all day for no reason /s But its ok for men to look at porn all day and build their concepts of relationships around trafficked women in pornography because all women 'deserve it' because ass photographs exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:35 PM
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The behaviour is perpetuated by both genders. Women are just filling the demand set by men and society, and the men are getting the demand from the way society treats men and women. You can be a nice enough caring girl and men will still dump you in a trash if they think they have a chance with a hot chick, because society has raised them to believe a women's hotness effects their social status. Go through this enough times and women start to act like you describe because its the only thing men …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:26 PM
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I dunno I generally see it as a pretty bad sign if a guy struggles to pay attention to me, is constantly distracted/ wanting to be somewhere else or is constantly talking about other women. It happens more than you think. And then soon as you lose interest and pull away, they bring on the crocodile tears and then act like you're the centre of their world for 5 minutes. Then they're back to moping around because they're not on a date with an instagram model. I've seen other women do this as well,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:22 PM
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And homeless people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:09 PM
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I don't really agree that FDS happened solely because of the 'incel movement' sexism has existed in both genders for way longer than any of these terms existed. The only reason FDS and incels exist is because the internet facilitates a platform for the mentally ill to be idolized and applauded.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 02:05 PM
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