colmatterson Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	For Blue and Red: How do you define modern feminism?	Discussion	colmatterson	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/15 05:57 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Women are partly to blame I have fairly strong feelings about this kind of issue because I worked at a place where a woman was very unashamedly sleeping her way through promotions. An office position was even created for her when there was no other promotion left to give her, a completely unnecessary position that came with a pay increase with the only added responsibility of "you're now in charge of this other portion of office workers". It was terrible. She was already unqualified for the office position she had before…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/17 08:09 AM
2	The problems in the dating market today show that women have been taking on more negative masculine traits while abandoning positive feminine ones Hmm, as a man, I believe less men who say they want a strong woman who will etcetera, etcetera, actually mean it. Sure, lots of men actually do, myself included, but many more really don't. A lot of men think they want a woman who has traits much more similar to men -- it's why so many fictitious female characters are essentially just men with softer features -- but when they actually meet a woman like that, many dismiss them as "dike", "bitch", maybe even "stuck-up", so on. A lot of things. Mos…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/17 03:38 AM
1	The problems in the dating market today show that women have been taking on more negative masculine traits while abandoning positive feminine ones this thread smacks of some incel shit You see his flair? "Black licorice pill". That is incel. Before the sub was banned, that is what incel's used to identify their unique brand of "pill".	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/17 03:32 AM
1	Show outcome indifference, or take charge? Thirdly, learning to NGAF Don't you, though? You would have been a dad, how do you not give a fuck about that? Would you even want to NGAF about that?	/r/askMRP	31/08/17 05:06 PM
1	Naked Wife Power Grab? Sounds to me like she's trying to entice you to be aggressively Dominant and just take her. You say "hard no", but what is that? Like everyone else is saying, establish safe words with your wife. A good one is the "green, yellow, red" system. Red is obviously the hard stop: it ends as soon as either of you say red. Yellow is the slow down, I'm still enjoying things, but this is near the limit. And yeah, maybe she is fucking with you. Teasing can be fun, tease her back. That's a lot of fun when y…	/r/askMRP	31/08/17 04:00 PM
1	Cheated Sure, man. Do you feel like you got enough advice to know what to do or are you still wondering?	/r/askMRP	31/08/17 03:18 PM
1	Cheated Agreed. He isn't doing himself any favors by pretending his "side-girl" is anything but that - I don't understand why he would even want to - and this is almost guaranteed to explode very badly in his face at his current rate.	/r/askMRP	31/08/17 03:14 PM
2	Cheated Um, just tossing in my two cents, but I don't think he's trolling you at all. I think he's legitimately asking your advice. I also agree with your initial comment, I don't think OP would take responsibility for his actions if he were to get caught today. That said, if I was OP and I could also acknowledge my "oneitis" in this other girl - which I just chalk up to she's new and he's into the novelty of it rather than the girl herself - I'd probably also ask what you suggestion to "fixing" that wo…	/r/askMRP	31/08/17 12:47 PM
1	Show outcome indifference, or take charge? The miscarriage is definitely a huge emotionally traumatic event in a woman's life. It sounds like it happened shortly after you "red-pilled" (since you say you started last month and the miscarriage happened a few weeks ago). Look at things from her perspective. I don't know how dramatic your personal change has been, you do say that you overdid "the jerk". So to her, her husband of 4 years suddenly changes drastically and she has a miscarriage. She's probably finding it especially difficult to…	/r/askMRP	31/08/17 08:03 AM
1	[TINDER] Programmer Uses Artificial Intelligence To Swipe Automatically Based On Preferred Looks Yeah, man, don't you know? People use Tinder to find their soulmates, same as TRP. Yeesh, pack up your bag of pickup-lines and casual hook-ups and get outta here! ;D	/r/TheRedPill	16/06/17 03:46 AM
1	GLO’s Messenger app tells us more about the community than we’d like to know Oh! You think I mean I'm thinking of a condensed message of RP for me, don't you! Ah, well, thank you for your input, my dude, I appreciate that. Actually no, I'm in a good place with myself (I am actually not even red pill, either), I actually was thinking of the future of RP entirely. That's what I was saying about how I feel the RP itself has become unfocused.	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/17 05:03 PM
1	GLO’s Messenger app tells us more about the community than we’d like to know That's surprising, but, ah, I don't think people are going to go for it here. That was very admirable of you to do for your software engineer, though, good on you man.	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/17 04:58 PM
1	GLO’s Messenger app tells us more about the community than we’d like to know Oh, I see, that is your "red pill". Okay. I was thrown off by the end because I don't write field reports (I thought you might have accidentally replied to the wrong person, that your comment was meant for a specific person instead of a general statement to all of red pill). I'm actually in a very strong, and very LT-LTR. I found my unicorn! I've been trying to think of a way that RP could be condensed down to a simple message, with different branches of thought that would lead new people to oth…	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/17 03:30 PM
1	GLO’s Messenger app tells us more about the community than we’d like to know It's a conundrum, isn't it? Red pill isn't so new anymore that it can easily re-focus its message, but it also isn't so old that it's current.. "platform"(?) is totally concrete and established. But anyway, I think that's just ONE of the big reasons for the grumbling about bad content. Not the only. Of course it still needs to be accessible, I mean, that's the whole point, that ALL men should be able to ascribe to red pill. I don't think splintering is necessarily a bad thing, not at all. I even…	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/17 01:23 PM
1	The Great Banning of 2017 Well, it's been my experience that I think I've been treated fairly by the mods. For all the blue pills that bitch about being banned, and its censorship!, and what, that red pill is afraid of open discourse, it's like.. If you stay on topic and discuss things through the scope of red pill, there really isn't any reason to be banned. I enjoy my discussions here, even if I find a lot of the members to be morally reprehensible. But unlike the blue pills, I also recognize that red pill issss, lol, …	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/17 01:22 PM
1	The Great Banning of 2017 The Red Pill mods are one of the most understanding and patient moderators I ever saw in an online community -u / iLLprincipLeS I agree, the mod team here is incredibly active and from what I've seen, also very fair. I am so sure that I've been reported more than a few times by members here that accuse me of being a blue pill, and that I haven't been banned makes me think that the mod team is actually weighing what I say with genuine consideration. I try to only propagate pertinent conversation …	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/17 10:31 AM
1	The Great Banning of 2017 The Red Pill mods are one of the most understanding and patient moderators I ever saw in an online community u/iLLprincipLeS I agree, the mod team here is incredibly active and from what I've seen, also very fair. I am so sure that I've been reported more than a few times by members here that accuse me of being a blue pill, and that I haven't been banned makes me think that the mod team is actually weighing what I say with genuine consideration. I try to only propagate pertinent conversation thr…	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/17 10:28 AM
1	The Red Pill App It is inevitable that any "politicized" forum will have people of the opposing viewpoint infiltrate. That cannot be stopped. The issue, in my opinion, isn't about how to prevent that from happening, but should be how to confront them when it DOES happen. Because it will, 100% it will happen. And yes, I know that Red Pill isn't inherently political, I used the word "politicized" just to mean that, like politically-charged mediums, Red Pill is a strong stance on one side of a spectrum and a Red Pi…	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/17 10:01 AM
5	GLO’s Messenger app tells us more about the community than we’d like to know I think there is room for different styles, but surely TRP is about leading ALL men (who want to learn) to a better life, no matter where they start from? Yeah, definitely. Most members here all admit to a blue-pill past. I personally think that RP needs a more focusedddd, ah, ethos. RP has stood by it's distance from that, trying to be more "all-encompassing" of all politics, morals, creeds, etc., which worked out fine when RP was still new. But it's gotten so much bigger now that having SO MAN…	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/17 09:41 AM
5	The Red Pill App Interesting. I would have thought that the subreddit that began as the endorsement sub for the Republican candidate for the office of the POTUS that would eventually become the elected POTUS would have gotten big naturally, because, you know, he's the President of the United States. But to claim that it was all an ingenious strategy to build such a bad reputation that the sub would become notorious for it's toxicity, unintentionally sorry, i guess intentionally becoming so big BECAUSE of that fa…	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/17 06:03 AM
3	Aim for Progress, not Perfection That's awesome about Daredevil. I haven't seen either Star Wars 7 or more than just a couple episodes of DD, but that sounds like really good writing for DD. I am bothered by standard hero stories, where after the character has worked their way up from, like, gang members and ne'er-do-wells to super villains and meticulously orchestrated terrorist organizations, those low-level thugs never provide any threat at all to the character ever again. A desperate, scared, sick junkie with a gun can kill…	/r/TheRedPill	07/05/17 07:19 AM
0	You're not the one she wants. You're the one she's using. I'm not surprised. Do you want me to explain it to you? I don't particularly want to, but if you will really try to understand, I will.	/r/TheRedPill	06/05/17 10:41 PM
3	Aim for Progress, not Perfection I think a lot of it still comes from media. Every story on t.v. or movies or books shows near-perfect couples or flat-out dysfunctional relationships; perfect job, w/ good boss, friendly co-workers, versus Hell Inc., General Manager Beelzebub, and incompetent, dick-sucking demon lackey's. I get why, because in t.v. or movies, literally every second counts and it's difficult to portray accurate human relationships that involve disagreements and minor conflicts w/o the audience thinking it's indic…	/r/TheRedPill	06/05/17 08:28 AM
1	Aim for Progress, not Perfection Solid. I would say there's a limit to that, in the sense that the opposite extreme isn't any better than the first. Going for perfection to going for literally anything, that's obviously also bad. And in some circumstances, waiting to get what you know you are really looking for is good, too. So basically, just like anything else, incorporate OP's advice into your life, but don't live and die by it.	/r/TheRedPill	06/05/17 08:14 AM
1	You're not the one she wants. You're the one she's using. Good point. Useless thread doesn't require useful comments.	/r/TheRedPill	06/05/17 08:06 AM
-1	You're not the one she wants. You're the one she's using. Is she wrong? Are you really trying to say that men don't take advantage of women with money? Or that men don't sometimes do the things that OP listed as examples of terrible women's behaviour? You clearly have thoughts about this, so rather than just saying that she's so far off base, explain why and how, dude.	/r/TheRedPill	05/05/17 04:26 AM
7	You're not the one she wants. You're the one she's using. So dumb when the only counter-arguments are, "well, you're obviously just an ugly women." No thought whatsoever. When I was deep in my drug habit, I stole from and took advantage of my girlfriend.. I feel like there's been a dramatic shift in the Red Pill in the last, oh, probably two years, where the member base is much more jaded than it used to be. Men here forget that love can actually exist between a man and woman. Like the argument from an above comment that all men will choose a hot chick…	/r/TheRedPill	05/05/17 04:22 AM
2	You're not the one she wants. You're the one she's using. I agree with you, it doesn't make sense. Turning him away instead of inviting him is totally counter-intuitive to "nailing him down", if that is what she wanted... Honestly, I'm skeptical, because it seems too much like he's writing specific examples of being treated like a friend-zoned beta... while at the same time she's trying to bag him as her own. But those two concepts are mutually-exclusive.	/r/TheRedPill	05/05/17 04:05 AM
1	You're not the one she wants. You're the one she's using. Why did she not invite you inside? If she's trying to nail you down, she isn't going to "friend-zone" you. I'd think that she'd want to invite you in and do all she could to keep you, since at that point playing hard-to-get while having a fuck-buddy relationship is just going to push you away.	/r/TheRedPill	05/05/17 04:00 AM
2	You're not the one she wants. You're the one she's using. Those are definite red flags, but it doesn't really prove anything. I think anyone would agree that a girlfriend doing all or most of those things is not good. Even doing just a few of those examples, any of them, you'd be hard-pressed to find someone that'd say it's nothing to worry about.	/r/TheRedPill	05/05/17 03:56 AM
2	American Psychological Association confirms AF/BB and a host of other RP truths See, I read your first comment like you were saying that the attempt to "...intellectualize, moralize, and virtue signal[?]..." is a bad thing. Not that you were necessarily saying that people should totally, 100%, embrace their lower, primal instincts, but that we shouldn't try to objectively rationalize those instincts at all in the first place. Which I also thought was ironic, considering the thread that we're in, lol.. But anyway! I do believe that the number of people that claim these insti…	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/17 12:23 AM
7	American Psychological Association confirms AF/BB and a host of other RP truths Well, yeah, of course people do.. We're not just mindless animals anymore, why should we try to continue to act like it? It doesn't mean we have to deny our basic instincts, but at the same time, it's like you're proposing denying our civility and higher ability for sentience.	/r/TheRedPill	01/05/17 11:06 AM
–	Cuckoldry. SJWs. Hamstering. Everything so wrong with modern sexuality, in this one comic. (Not Safe For Work) Less-attractive people have to work harder for better sex. That's what I think.	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/17 08:06 AM
–	Cuckoldry. SJWs. Hamstering. Everything so wrong with modern sexuality, in this one comic. (Not Safe For Work) Good post. Personally I don't have a problem with cuckoldry, I look at it like it's a couple's choice that doesn't affect me, so whatever. But I've never looked at it the way you described before. What do you think of the "hotwife" kink, which is similar to cuckolding, but puts dominance on the man instead (man order woman to expose herself, service others, etc.)? Just out of curiosity.	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/17 08:04 AM
2	My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year old It really weakens OP's position by calling her a slut with zero follow-up... How many more brain cells do you need to realize that you asked a question whose answer is already provided in the comment you're replying to? But we both know your comment isn't actually about wanting a real answer anyway.	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/17 01:47 AM
1	My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year old Good luck with yourself, you're going to need it.	/r/TheRedPill	10/02/17 12:21 AM
2	My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year old How does this not makes sense to you? Seriously, no one can be this dumb. I actually cannot believe it, there's no way. You don't even understand what you're arguing, do you? Look, I'm a nice guy. If you can ask nicely, I'll explain it to you, but I'm definitely not going to waste my time if you're content to live in a constant haze of stupidity. I'm going to explain it anyway. OP's comments about her pretending to be a virgin: Got on the CC in college, and acted like a virgin. I added extra inf…	/r/TheRedPill	10/02/17 12:07 AM
2	My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year old You said he "already" said that, which means he says it before. So the timeline is, according to you, that he wrote a comment in his thread explaining that she lied about being a virgin, AND THEN - afterwards -created the thread. And THEN you say that anyone else has the delusional self-righteousness. Solipsism, sky-rocketing.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/17 11:52 PM
5	My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year old ...nothing in the OP post instated she was a slut. He already said she pretended to be a virgin when she wasn't (she went under the knife) What the fuck, no he didn't. How are you going to make such a bald-faced lie when the truth is literally just above your comment for everyone to see and then follow it up with a condescending, "try to keep up" comment? Jesus Christ, this thread takes solipsism to completely new levels.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/17 11:42 PM
38	My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year old It's quite shocking to see the divide this thread has created. And God help you if you point out that OP provided literally zero information about the woman to the people saying she's lazy, that she doesn't deserve him, that she's a carousel-riding slut. ZERO. INFORMATION. But if you're not already immediately leaping to vastly far conclusions about her, then you're a blue pill. Of you point out how vague OP's edit about her "ugly past" is to those decrying her a slut, you're a white knight. It'…	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/17 11:24 PM
3	My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year old alleged that Ball had committed domestic violence against his 4 year old daughter at the time, Melissa ... He was found not guilty of simple assault in Cheshire Superior Court, despite slapping his daughter multiple times and causing bleeding. he refused to attend counseling as ordered by the court ... the location of the counseling was to be Monadnock Family Services, the very same agency that he believed was responsible for escalating the situation and intimidating Karen Ball into calling the …	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/17 03:38 PM
1	My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year old I think a better lesson is to not let yourself be pressured into an engagement until you know it's what YOU AND YOUR PARTNER want and you're both actually ready for it, buuut that wasn't touched upon at all, either in the post or in the comments. FOH with that blue pill BS!!!!! Really? You're going to say back to me what I already said after calling it blue pill bs? And to a comment that has nothing at all to do with any of that, no less. Oh-kay, dood.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/17 02:47 PM
3	My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year old I see you've read my comment history just as well as you've read my comments that you've responded to. Sober up and try again tomorrow.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/17 11:11 AM
1	My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year old What the hell are you talking about? I brought up what she did for a living because I was specifically responding to this quote right here: despite her not even remotely deserving a man that high in the SMP. Did you even read the comment that I was replying to?	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/17 10:35 AM
-6	My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year old He was engaged for four years, friend. I think at that point they can talk with each other. Seduction has nothing at all to do with this.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/17 09:55 AM
0	My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year old Right now it's definitely the latter.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/17 09:53 AM
16	My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year old It really weakens OP's position by calling her a slut with zero follow-up as to why, except for a very vague after-thought put into an edit that simply states "ugly stuff". It makes me think that it wasn't nearly that bad, and OP isn't saying what because he knows it.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/17 08:24 AM
-2	My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year old I agree with u/whiteknight49 about this. He broke it off to play the field. Pretty obvious. OP even said it was sudden. Of course marrying someone when you have doubts is a terrible thing. But so is suddenly calling off a wedding after five years of engagement. Instead of being so abrupt and harsh, he could have post-poned it, talked with her, even try counseling if they were inclined to go that far, to find out what they really want. But suddenly realizing that you're about to give up your abil…	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/17 08:15 AM
10	My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year old Social pressure? Orrr she was completely blind-sided by her fiance of multiple years suddenly calling off a wedding that was nearly 100% planned. We don't even know what she did for a living! Lol... OP hasn't given us nearly enough information about what happened for you to accurately makes your claims.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/17 08:08 AM
5	My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year old Yeah, I agree. It's like when kissless virgins finally get a gf and suddenly have confidence to talk to and date other girls. They dump the one they finally first kissed and fucked. The problem with reevaluating past events in a person's life is the same problem that people have when they first evaluate the event as it happens: the present situational bias. Reevaluating something through the lens of red pill, of COURSE you're going to find things that seem to confirm it. Because it's what you're…	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/17 08:05 AM
-1	[Part 1 of 2] 40 Classic Shit Tests, What They Mean, and How to Pass Them Most of these responses are embarrassingly bad, and I can't help but wonder if OP is just trying to troll guys into actually trying these lines.	/r/TheRedPill	12/01/17 06:54 AM
1	The Blue Piller's Future Yeah, it's not hard, just don't lie... sexual history isn't a big deal. Most men don't expect women over 20 to be virgins. I wonder how much this story would be different if the woman had just been honest about herself. Yeah, the man might have said, "you're not a virgin? Gtfo," but honestly a man that can't accept the fact that women have premarital sex is pretty fucking immature anyway.	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/16 08:09 AM
1	Princeton suspends men swim and diving team over interal team emails And yet they never ever get banned from anything for it. I know, it must be so easy for them. As a boy, we're told to always conduct ourselves accordingly, be polite, that stuff like picking our noses and farting in public is disgusting and "un-gentlemanly-like", and of course these rules don't apply to women and it never prevents them from getting what they want. Okay, enough of that. What's RP ultimately about? Accepting and embracing our human nature, right? Yes, women are just as vile as men…	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/16 07:21 AM
-2	Princeton suspends men swim and diving team over interal team emails Abuse? Suspending the team for representing their elite school in even a way as you described, as "regular, normal guys" is abusing them? Damn, you must be privileged if you think that's abuse worthy of righteous indignation. You gave a perfect example. Trump spoke like a common man when he said "grab them by the pussy." The zeal was never about that men shouldn't talk like that, it was that the president of the United States of America shouldn't talk like that! Students of one of the most prest…	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/16 06:55 AM
1	The pre-fuck conversation is one big autism screening test Lol, I do like Pearl Jam, actually, but they are not exactly the "hot" thing anymore. It's probably not going to be the most relatable thing to mid-20 y.o. ladies at the club.	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/16 06:23 AM
2	The pre-fuck conversation is one big autism screening test That makes much more sense, that the "turn around" comment not be used as an opener. See, that's part of what I meant about my own biasness, that I originally thought it was a goofy pickup line, so I was still thinking of it to be used at or near the beginning of a conversation. So since you've totally clarified now, yeah, I think it's actually a pretty great line! Obviously someone shouldn't say it if the woman isn't sending any or the "right" signals, but like anything else in flirting you sti…	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/16 05:54 AM
2	Women who hate their dad love me. And I treat them bad Seeing that you posted a story that was pretty much unanimously called fake, and another post that was just... terrible, gives me hope that you're just straight up bullshitting. I'm glad to see other people here calling you out for the obvious appalling exploitation, but I won't lose sleep because I am very sure that this isn't true. But what's your goal for posting this crap, is it just revenge fantasy or trolling? If it's the latter, please reconsider because you could unknowingly be encouragi…	/r/TheRedPill	17/12/16 12:34 PM
5	The pre-fuck conversation is one big autism screening test I'll keep this short, because I don't have enough time right now to write out a full response addressing every point, but I still want to respond to you. First, I will admit that you clearly put more thought into your original response than I gave you credit for. I still don't agree with everything, but you did clarify some points that I misinterpreted. I still think the "turn around" line is awkward. As a cheesy pick-up line to make a girl smile or laugh, there are much better lines. As a comma…	/r/TheRedPill	17/12/16 04:30 AM
6	The pre-fuck conversation is one big autism screening test I can't decide if your username is just coincidence or not, because I wholly disagree with your advice. I agree with a lot of what OP said in his post. The conversation is the part where the man needs to demonstrate his "social muscles". Choosing the "lowest common denominator" topics, as you said - trashing other people's clothing, some kid of ambiguous statement about something being hot(???), and a cheesy pick-up line - is a guaranteed way to make YOU also look like the lowest common denomina…	/r/TheRedPill	16/12/16 10:11 AM
1	What does the friend zone mean to a woman? Friends "break-up", though. They still would lose you as a friend if they act shitty, or really for a lot of reasons that romantic/sexual partners would break up (obv excluding sexual reasons or reasons you have in your response). Get into fights, betrayals, idk, any number of reasons that cause friendships to end. I think this definition of control of the friendship only extends to the super "beta-orbiter", the kind of person that willingly lets themselves be trod upon. But since this is in RP,…	/r/TheRedPill	11/12/16 07:05 PM
1	What does the friend zone mean to a woman? Can you explain number 4 more? Just being a friend isn't surrendering control of yourself to your friend. Catering to their every whim would be, but the way you wrote looks more like you mean that being a friend just inherently means ceding control.	/r/TheRedPill	11/12/16 05:45 PM
1	How would TRP account for a woman like me? Ah, I see I've confused you. See, I thought it was obvious, but since you misunderstood me, I will clarify: "Everything that I've read on RP or by red pills that mentions AWALT has always been in the context that AWALT is 100% infallible/un-bendable. I think if there are red pills that believe it isn't meant literally, that number is a small minority. The comment above is the first time I've actually seen it said, however." Hopefully that helps. In context, it should have been obvious. Of course…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/16 02:11 PM
2	How would TRP account for a woman like me? This is actually the very first time I've seen anyone say that AWALT is not meant to be taken literally, and I've been subscribed here and TRP and TBP (mostly the whole circuit) for around three years now. I'm not always consistently active, usually I am for a few months and then I take one or two months off. I comment here and RP mostly, and BP probably the least. So I'm not a noob to this. And this is still the first time I've seen anyone say that. I have seen similar statements, where RP says…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/16 11:52 AM
1	How would TRP account for a woman like me? Everything that I've read on RP or by red pills that mentions AWALT has always been in the context that AWALT is 100% infallible/un-bendable. I think if there are red pills that believe it isn't meant literally, that number is a small minority. There are so many examples that prove RP tenets wrong. Some small, some large. As for your question, my experience reading RP would have me believe their answer to you is simply: "bullshit. You just haven't met a real man. A true alpha man would have you …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/16 11:41 AM
6	One more reason to go MGTOW Because they love each other, probably... they just have an open marriage. Have you really never heard of swinging?	/r/MGTOW	26/10/16 11:08 PM
39	Trumps latest "lewd" remarks about women have the talking heads abuzz and the wominnns are offended.... On one hand, Trump was only speaking the way regular guys talk to each other: vulgar, crude, also probably a bit exaggerated about how well he does with the women-folk. That's how regular guys talk to each other. And should we hold him accountable to what comes down to friendly guy-talk over ten years ago? On the other hand, however... there is a reason that "regular guys" don't become the President of the United States. Any candidate that is worth serious consideration to be the leader of the m…	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/16 06:26 AM
1	Men don't really love women "for who they are" Well, there's not much I can say to that except that I disagree. What you described are the most immature, bottom-shelf quality women, the kind that don't grow past high school. That's only a minority of adult women, but if you don't believe that there really isn't anything I can say to change that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/16 05:29 AM
1	Men don't really love women "for who they are" Okay, then do that. You can't make a statement like that and expect not to be asked to qualify it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/16 10:48 PM
2	Would like some RP opinion on this "rape" story What were the bad choices she made? Edit: in reference to "...she was completely ruining the reputation of two people based on the bad choices she has made."	/r/askTRP	18/09/16 03:32 PM
2	Men don't really love women "for who they are" What about female nature is unlovable?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/16 03:03 PM
1	With out appearing to give an ultimatum or going nuclear--How do I convey to my GF that if she goes off to this vacation with one of her Girlfriends then we are done. In Red Pill, "plate" basically means "fuck buddy", or to a lesser degree, "friends with benefits". I think the origin of the word itself comes from "spinning plates", the sideshow attraction of plates being spun atop long, thin poles. In RP, the idea is you fuck one girl and give her attention (spin her plate), then move to another, fuck her and give attention (spin), move to another, (spin), and back to the first girl (spin, spin, spin). Are you looking into Red Pill because you're thinking of …	/r/askTRP	01/08/16 06:12 AM
2	With out appearing to give an ultimatum or going nuclear--How do I convey to my GF that if she goes off to this vacation with one of her Girlfriends then we are done. Okay, I get that. I thought from your first reply, you were saying that the second type of girl I described was "innocent and naive". And then the other part of it is just about how long they've been together. 2 months isn't long enough that either person should be drastically changing themselves for the other person yet, you know? And vacationing with friends out of country is an uncommon opportunity, it would suck to miss out on that just because a person started a new relationship just 2 mont…	/r/askTRP	01/08/16 06:05 AM
2	With out appearing to give an ultimatum or going nuclear--How do I convey to my GF that if she goes off to this vacation with one of her Girlfriends then we are done. Faithful, commitment, integrity = innocent and naive? And I don't think anyone is going to consider a girl they've been dating for 2 months to be their "significant other"...	/r/askTRP	31/07/16 03:26 AM
1	With out appearing to give an ultimatum or going nuclear--How do I convey to my GF that if she goes off to this vacation with one of her Girlfriends then we are done. Yes, I will absolutely converse more with you, if you'd like. I am willing to say things and ask questions that I know won't be popular on RP subreddits, but let's have our own discussion through PM's. As I am not RP (not BP either), it would not be right for me to keep talking with you here on asktrp.	/r/askTRP	30/07/16 06:13 PM
3	With out appearing to give an ultimatum or going nuclear--How do I convey to my GF that if she goes off to this vacation with one of her Girlfriends then we are done. Excellent. Red Pill shouldn't be accepted as hard dogma. Tailoring your life to the sidebar and then calling yourself an alpha would be completely imbecilic, and that action would be a total oxymoron. Take what you want, what helps you, and disregard the rest.	/r/askTRP	30/07/16 08:48 AM
1	With out appearing to give an ultimatum or going nuclear--How do I convey to my GF that if she goes off to this vacation with one of her Girlfriends then we are done. Do you not know what that term means here, or are you questioning the worth of keeping this girl as a plate?	/r/askTRP	30/07/16 08:20 AM
3	With out appearing to give an ultimatum or going nuclear--How do I convey to my GF that if she goes off to this vacation with one of her Girlfriends then we are done. All of this, right here. OP's mistake was setting such a hard-line boundary so early in the attempt of seeming "big", even - especially - knowing it would come back later to test him. If he really likes this girl, he is going to have to take a lesson in humility by disregarding previous boundary. Which isn't likely. So he's obviously going to dump her, a girl that he had repeatedly said that he trusts even if she goes on this vacation, just because he can't handle it. Yeah, she's testing him, fo…	/r/askTRP	30/07/16 08:15 AM
1	With out appearing to give an ultimatum or going nuclear--How do I convey to my GF that if she goes off to this vacation with one of her Girlfriends then we are done. You say she told you she did cheat in the past with her first Ex, but I think from context that that was NOT the time she went on vacation before? Is that right? Or was that the time that she cheated on her first Ex, during her "fuck-fest party vacation"?	/r/askTRP	30/07/16 08:05 AM
2	With out appearing to give an ultimatum or going nuclear--How do I convey to my GF that if she goes off to this vacation with one of her Girlfriends then we are done. You've heard "the first step to recovery is admitting you have a problem", I'm sure... So, what are your specific hang-ups as far as "giving (too many) fucks"? There isn't a one-size-fits-all answer to becoming IDGAF, you won't be able to train your body and mind to stop caring about things until you can understand why you care about certain things that you'd like not to give as many shits about.	/r/askTRP	30/07/16 07:58 AM
1	With out appearing to give an ultimatum or going nuclear--How do I convey to my GF that if she goes off to this vacation with one of her Girlfriends then we are done. Those two examples are on completely different levels. Murder is unquestionably wrong, and by your logic, so is visiting a foreign country with friends and partying: unquestionably wrong; so much so that it doesn't even need to be addressed how immoral it is. Because anyone should inherently know already that it is a wrong thing to do. The type of girl who is willing to cheat, or participate in one night stands while in an exclusive relationship, who believes that being drunk is a valid excuse f…	/r/askTRP	30/07/16 07:52 AM
1	With out appearing to give an ultimatum or going nuclear--How do I convey to my GF that if she goes off to this vacation with one of her Girlfriends then we are done. You say boundaries that were set "long ago", but that isn't really the case as it's only been months. That's really a trivial detail, though, what I question is boundaries set in the beginning vs boundaries and comfort zones as they exist after time as an exclusive couple. Obviously when two people date exclusively for longer and longer periods of time, their comfort zones change (usually expand), and so boundaries would/should also change, no? Edit: this is less about OP and his specific situat…	/r/askTRP	30/07/16 07:34 AM
1	Beyond passive and aggressive: ASSERTIVENESS for Men Guess what? I agree with that. Did you know that you can ask people questions from a pov not necessarily your own, in order to better understand their pov better? So, lecturing to someone whom you know nothing about? Just stop.	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/16 03:02 AM
1	Beyond passive and aggressive: ASSERTIVENESS for Men No, but I understand how you would think that based on my realization. Thank you.	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/16 07:29 PM
1	Beyond passive and aggressive: ASSERTIVENESS for Men It isn't a surprising question, though, is it? Your answer is plenty fair. Something I think RP's sometimes take too far is "frame". It doesn't mean having to lose your own frame necessarily just to help someone else out - " you " in the general meaning, not personal. That was why I asked.	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/16 06:01 PM
1	Beyond passive and aggressive: ASSERTIVENESS for Men Is this the prevalent view on RP, do you think?	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/16 05:30 PM
1	Beyond passive and aggressive: ASSERTIVENESS for Men This must be a troll comment.	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/16 03:32 PM
3	Beyond passive and aggressive: ASSERTIVENESS for Men Those statements are both borderline hostile - aggressive. "What, you forgot how to wash dishes" is clearly rude and recriminating, and the second statement carries the implication of a threat. "This NEEDS to be done," otherwise there will be consequences. How do you not see that? Assertiveness can be rude, if it needs to be, but an assertive person is not going to immediately be rude in a situation where he/she doesn't try other avenues of assertiveness first. Obviously for something like clean…	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/16 03:31 PM
1	Beyond passive and aggressive: ASSERTIVENESS for Men I agree with you that OP makes it sound like assertiveness is far less known that it actually is - I think many people understand assertiveness much more than he seems to claim - but for people only just learning to be assertive, there usually is a problem to over-compensate and become aggressive, trying too hard to not be passive. That said, though, is there any reason he shouldn't have posted this? Helping others learn how to assert themselves is a valuable skill. Probably most of the posts on…	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/16 03:22 PM
2	Beyond passive and aggressive: ASSERTIVENESS for Men Were you doing it just to say no, or did you actually have a valid reason for preferring where you were already sitting?	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/16 03:16 PM
0	Beyond passive and aggressive: ASSERTIVENESS for Men Out of curiosity, would you offer different examples of passive, aggressive, or assertive responses if the person cutting was a man? Since the example used a woman cutting in line, and RP is so much about gender, it seems like a pertinent question. Edit: I ask because this is directly related to how one would, or even SHOULD, communicate with men v women. That should be obvious, but to anyone that disagrees I ask Why.	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/16 03:12 PM
1	Do you guys really realize how easy it is to be a woman? ...we are attacked, beaten, and berated on a constant basis... Yikes. This happens to you constantly? Dude, maybe you just live somewhere bad.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/16 01:37 PM
1	Get Kinky - Turn Your Girl Into Your Personal Slut Everything that I've read/been told is that blood choking, on the sides of the neck, is far safer than air choking.	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/16 09:35 PM
3	If these women are so proud to show their nipples, why aren't they proud to show their faces? You don't need telepathic abilities to know RP is going to find something to bitch about no matter what women do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/16 07:22 AM
3	If these women are so proud to show their nipples, why aren't they proud to show their faces? It's probably both. Why should men get this right while we don't? + It would be nice to be allowed to take our shirts off on warm, breezy days. Why did men fight for this same right 75+ years ago?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/16 07:16 AM
2	If these women are so proud to show their nipples, why aren't they proud to show their faces? They want to be seen in a way that heterosexual men don't find them attractive. If men started making a big song and dance about properly clothed women being highly desirable, you will find these people walking naked the next day. Heterosexual men generally find topless women to be desirable. The big song and dance that men make is that men want to see titties. Aaand here are these women with their tits out. So, can you explain what you mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/16 07:14 AM
5	If these women are so proud to show their nipples, why aren't they proud to show their faces? THE FACTS Over 75 years ago it was illegal in all 50 states of America for men to be ‘Shirtless’ on a beach. A small dedicated group fought the puritanical status quo, the police and the courts. After several arrests and protests men finally won their basic human right to be ‘TOPLESS’ in public in 1936. Today there are 37 states in the USA that still arrest women for this same freedom, in some states that even includes breastfeeding. I haven't seen their movie. But reading the "about" section of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/16 07:08 AM
2	If these women are so proud to show their nipples, why aren't they proud to show their faces? It's ridiculous how contradictory they can be. What's contradictory about it? It's about context. They aren't using sex appeal to gain support for their movement, unlike companies that use sex appeal to gain interest in their product. If these women had a different goal like, for example, forcing companies to pay equal wages to men and women for the same position, and went around topless during those protest marches, then they would be using sex appeal to garner support for their cause. But sinc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/16 06:25 AM
2	If these women are so proud to show their nipples, why aren't they proud to show their faces? Indeed. They're covering their faces because things like "Red Pill" exist. I wouldn't feel comfortable/safe if I was a woman stirring up trouble, and I would not want people to know anything about me because I would be worried about retribution.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/16 06:09 AM
4	If these women are so proud to show their nipples, why aren't they proud to show their faces? "Ridiculous rant" isn't even a little bit aggressive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/16 06:02 AM
-2	"I was sure I was flirt-texting with The One. Until he saw me on Instagram." Good for you. This thread feels waaaay too high school girls locker room with the amount of talk about her looks. It's... unexpected, from RP.	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/16 06:01 AM
4	"I was sure I was flirt-texting with The One. Until he saw me on Instagram." I can't help but think everyone here is shaping their opinion about her looks based on how OP introduced her. She isn't unattractive for her age. She's even cute in a couple of her pictures on instagram. Not 18 year old nubile, spilled beer over her white tank top w/ nothing on underneath after failing to shotgun her first beer-cute, but what's the big deal? Her article feels more like she literally couldn't think of anything better to write about, so she chose something semi-humorous that happe…	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/16 05:56 AM
2	Amy Schumer incident reveals sad truth: most people want to be miserable "We are all one consciousness experiencing itself subjectively, there's no such thing as death, life is only a dream and we're just the imaginations of ourselves," that kind of thing? Hehe. I agree with what you said though, whatever it's all about, whatever is really going on within the universe, I do believe that everything is connected somehow. Us, the stars and planets, all form something greater.	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/16 10:45 PM
3	Amy Schumer incident reveals sad truth: most people want to be miserable Ah, we have a profound difference in philosophy in that case. I would say that to be true in the scope of our own world, Earth, but the universe? The universe is big beyond the scope of our imagining, I just can't believe that in all reality, humanity is even close to the top of the universal food chain. But, you know, I respect your right to believe what you want, etc. etc. EDIT: I chose to say that flippantly not to show disrespect, but to try and show that I really don't take philosophical di…	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/16 07:32 AM
3	Amy Schumer incident reveals sad truth: most people want to be miserable Good on you for recognizing that bullshit rationalization.	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/16 04:57 AM
4	Amy Schumer incident reveals sad truth: most people want to be miserable Let's not lie to ourselves. It isn't about them being healthy, it's about them being fat. Come on, man, you're commenting on the red pill, just be straight. B/c when they say they can be overweight and still be healthy, that much isn't a lie. Obviously, the woman that eats McDonald's for three meals a day, doesn't get any exercise, puts away a six pack of Bud or more each night, and smokes, yeah, THAT woman is unhealthy. But overweight =/= unhealthy, intrinsically. Like the one in a million woma…	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/16 04:54 AM
3	Amy Schumer incident reveals sad truth: most people want to be miserable Being a man means understanding that YOU are the most powerful thing in the universe In the sense that we, independently, are in control of our own lives, right? So "most powerful thing in your universe"? If not, can you elaborate on what you mean by that?	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/16 04:48 AM
1	The Reason Why I'm Skeptical About LTRs And Why Most Of You Disdain marriage. Okay, fair enough. Your crush gushes to you one day how head-over-heels in love she is with you and you think "jackpot!". It might take you a bit longer to realize the lesson, but you'd learn at some point or another that when she confessed those feelings to you? The correct response would been to have run screaming. I don't think that's what "gooey phase" means, though. A girl that confesses her feelings towards a guy that she's known only for a period countable in months instead of years isn't…	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/16 09:17 PM
3	BDSM is a Distorted Imitation of TRP Given that this was not meant to be an in-depth expose of the entire spectrum of BDSM... I wasn't trying to instigate a super in-depth discussion with my first comment. I take BDSM seriously, not in a 24/7 lifestyle serious-way, but I take discussions, experiences, interests, etc. seriously. A guy elsewhere in here said that his own experience with BDSM culture included, "...a lot of low-SMV people convincing themselves they are part of some secret club, joking about how all the people who read …	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/16 08:56 PM
5	BDSM is a Distorted Imitation of TRP I feel that way also. Especially since he missed the point of my comment in his response to me, but I don't have time to write out my next comment to him because I'm going to work right now (so OP if you see this, we will continue later).	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/16 04:44 AM
2	BDSM is a Distorted Imitation of TRP As a whole, the BDSM community follows the 80/20 rule just like the rest of society. 80% of Men getting cucked and pegged, while 20% of men (if even) actually get any real action. As a "community", its fucking cancer tho. I feel like that ratio might be like what the OP was saying about city-to-city basis's (bas-ese?). Most of the kink community in Phoenix is centered around maleDom, with femDom being the minority.	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/16 04:16 AM
6	AskWomen confirms red pill truths: episode #83,557 That's funny. No ambiguity there!	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/16 04:11 AM
7	BDSM is a Distorted Imitation of TRP ...there are some philosophies which characterize the scene which are incompatible with TRP. There are a lot of SJWs and white knights which help to propagate a belief that a woman's submission is a gift, not an expected part of the natural order... I absolutely agree that a healthy BDSM relationship is incompatible with TRP. A Dom-sub relationship is built on mutual trust and respect. The Dom and the sub are both gifts to each other; the Dom takes care of the sub, the sub has trust in the Dom t…	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/16 04:07 AM
1	Don't lie to yourself. Kill your hamster to become a man. This is what I would say RP needs more of. I'd also say the same advice would be good for women, too, but obv that isn't what this sub is about. I don't think anyone would deny that the world would be better if all humanity had more self-discipline, less procrastination.	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/16 03:55 AM
5	The Reason Why I'm Skeptical About LTRs And Why Most Of You Disdain marriage. I find that the easiest way to explain that to guys that have just recently made that mistake - the "confess fucking everything and send her running and wonder why" - to simply imagine the roles reversed. You're intrigued by a girl, still getting to know her, still in that "flirtationship" phase, and then suddenly she tells you how fucking in love with you she is. Yeah, you'd nope right the fuck out of that. Unfortunately, the best way to really learn that particular lesson is to just fucking do…	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/16 03:41 AM
1	The Reason Why I'm Skeptical About LTRs And Why Most Of You Disdain marriage. they're looking for fun. 1, Be fun! Yep. That's it. Long-term relationships take work. Keep having fun, always try new things, and you and her will be fine. I'm in a five year relationship and the sex we had two nights ago was wholly different than anything else we'd ever done. We even talked about that the day after, how amazing it is that even after five years together we can still have new sexual experiences. The road doesn't end, it just becomes harder to find the next step sometimes.	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/16 03:36 AM
27	AskWomen confirms red pill truths: episode #83,557 Notice what's missing here, and that's the fact she accepted the fucking drink. So what she's basically saying is, "I am such a princess that I'll accept free gifts but you low-status men had better not talk to me afterwards!" Nowhere does it register that maybe if you don't want men flirting with you, don't accept free drinks. Do these women all live under a rock or something that they don't understand the implication of buying a drink? What do you expect, that women that go to clubs don't want…	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/16 03:20 AM
2	Remember: A Woman Will Have Sex With A Man She Doesn't Love, But She'll Never Love A Man She's Not Having Sex With Oh! Lol, no, I'm very happy in a five year long-term relationship. If I was looking for personal advice, though, you gave an eloquent, well-thought response. Actually, I really was asking for knowledge. edit: I especially like that you say, If a girl is worth waiting for then she needs to demonstrate why she is worth more of your time. Give credit where credit is due. Some women are worth waiting for. If there's one thing I disagree with more than anything else on RP, it's the rigid application …	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/16 02:58 AM
-1	Are there potential benefits of choosing to be just a friend with a HB7 or higher? Is that a serious answer? Your only reason for not doing it is because of how other people are going to think of you? Dude. Beta.	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/16 01:10 AM
1	Remember: A Woman Will Have Sex With A Man She Doesn't Love, But She'll Never Love A Man She's Not Having Sex With I think I will ask this in asktrp soon, but for now, how long do you think is "too long" to wait for sex? Not with a girl from the club, because obviously that's supposed to happen in the same night, but with a girl that a guy meets and is genuinely interested in?	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/16 12:51 AM
-1	Remember: A Woman Will Have Sex With A Man She Doesn't Love, But She'll Never Love A Man She's Not Having Sex With Seriously, dude, it makes him sound so, in the nicest way possible, "non-alpha".	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/16 12:39 AM
1	Remember: A Woman Will Have Sex With A Man She Doesn't Love, But She'll Never Love A Man She's Not Having Sex With Is it really surprising that she starts going into how you're better looking, and more romantic, and so on than guys from her past? Think about how insecure it makes you sound by immediately responding like that, automatically comparing yourself to her ex's. Shit, man, she's probably so locked up and shocked from getting such a whiny response from a guy she thought was more alpha than that, had more confidence.	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/16 12:36 AM
4	Remember: A Woman Will Have Sex With A Man She Doesn't Love, But She'll Never Love A Man She's Not Having Sex With I'm curious, what, to you, defines a "human being"? I'm not trolling, it's obvious that a bold statement like that is going to attract attention. So I've got a soap-box all warmed up for you, and I'd like to hear what you have to say.	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/16 12:25 AM
8	Remember: A Woman Will Have Sex With A Man She Doesn't Love, But She'll Never Love A Man She's Not Having Sex With Well, duh, dude, that's kind of obvious. Women with higher standards for who they have sex with obv are going to be less-experienced in the sack. Women like this are likely looking for long-term relationships.	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/16 12:20 AM
-2	Remember: A Woman Will Have Sex With A Man She Doesn't Love, But She'll Never Love A Man She's Not Having Sex With I wouldn't consider this specific rp-theory, tbh. It's a question of sex before marriage. There was a recent thread here that addressed sexual compatibility (more-or-less, the OP didn't call it that). I maintain that sex before marriage is important to find out if a couple is sexually compatible. Sex is communication. If a couple is incompatible sexually, it's a communication that they likely are not right for each other. How far can anyone's love for another go without sex? Men and women can lo…	/r/TheRedPill	07/04/16 12:07 AM
1	1984: The RP Book You Should Read TL;DR: Read 1984. You'll take away some trp knowledge, and reinforce that once you go trp, you can never go back. Uh, you did get to the end of the book, right?	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/16 03:21 AM
8	Female Orgasms: Do they matter? I think sexual-compatibility is a real thing. If doing what it takes to get the woman to orgasm isn't pleasurable for the man, then both are probably better off finding different partners altogether. I'm only addressing the, "Sometimes making them cum can fuck sex up for you" point in this comment, so I'm not trying to say that you're wrong because of this one thing, of course.	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/16 02:56 AM
2	OP's girlfriend doesn't want to be sexy for him, even though he tries to "be understanding", "negotiate", etc. Relationship subreddit calls him a misogynist anyway. Geez, there's just no winning with these people... Really true. Especially "suzepie" who latched onto "She is quite a piece of work when it comes to sexuality." to criticize him for treating his gf like property. Obviously the usage of "piece of work" was done so awkwardly, combined with the OP's admission of being ESL, do you really think he's saying it like you're taking it? Like, fucking think.	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/16 02:00 AM
1	OP's girlfriend doesn't want to be sexy for him, even though he tries to "be understanding", "negotiate", etc. Relationship subreddit calls him a misogynist anyway. Geez, there's just no winning with these people... 21 years old too, that makes it especially hilarious. 21 is young, so... Would you really expect more from that age? Edit: obv yes, for this specific issue, what I meant is would you really expect a 21 year old to really know what he was doing in a relationship? Expect more just in general.	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/16 01:41 AM
3	OP's girlfriend doesn't want to be sexy for him, even though he tries to "be understanding", "negotiate", etc. Relationship subreddit calls him a misogynist anyway. Geez, there's just no winning with these people... That's actually good advice. Honestly, it's a sad state of affairs when your comment doesn't even have 20 points (at this time), while a lot of comments above are literally the exact thing that everyone on this sub hates so much about RA. RA according to RP: w/o understanding anything about the relationship, "Dump his ass!", "men are shit", etc. Comments in this thread: w/o knowing anything about the relationship, "I bet she wears all kinds of sexy stuff for the guy she's actually fucking. Becau…	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/16 01:38 AM
1	OP's girlfriend doesn't want to be sexy for him, even though he tries to "be understanding", "negotiate", etc. Relationship subreddit calls him a misogynist anyway. Geez, there's just no winning with these people... A lot of the responses to you have been about suits and ties, but there are also sexy underwear for men. In fact, I have a "man thong" that my gf loves seeing me in.	/r/TheRedPill	03/04/16 01:15 AM
8	A Little Mistake That Cost My Best Friend 5 Years of His Life. Not at all. A lot of people are shy even in online games.	/r/TheRedPill	25/03/16 11:38 PM
1	Trickle Down Media Whore How much more was said, either by you or the other guests, that wasn't shown in the broadcast? Was there anything that was particularly devastating that was edited out, like any strong counterpoints that Bee could not refute? In the segment, you were shown very little. I see in another comment that you said you spoke the least out of the other guests, but what other conversations did you partake in that weren't shown? I don't expect you to remember word-for-word, obviously, but I think everyone …	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/16 09:59 PM
0	Wife lies about being a virgin...the time when she got drunk and banged Chad in the back seat of a car...that does not count... That is not even what I, or the guy I was responding to, were talking about. Disregard the sex itself. Right now, it doesn't matter if it was consensual or if it was rape, I was addressing the specific lack of detail leading up to the sex. So you say that if she wanted to leave out the details, then she simply could. Which is exactly what she did. I see nothing wrong with that, because who cares how it happened (it = events between the restaurant and the car, the events leading up to the sex)? I…	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/16 07:57 AM
1	Wife lies about being a virgin...the time when she got drunk and banged Chad in the back seat of a car...that does not count... Will you tell us the story?	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/16 07:47 AM
3	Wife lies about being a virgin...the time when she got drunk and banged Chad in the back seat of a car...that does not count... I agree with a lot of what you're saying. . Except I think she just used the, "dunno how it happened," as figurative rather than literal. Meaning that she was just abridging the story rather than spending time explaining how she let herself become seduced into following the guy into the backseat of the car. Because that kind of thing has obviously never happened before, so wondering how it happened could very well be a legitimate question for her, even if they weren't drinking. Writing out their…	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/16 07:42 AM
1	Wife lies about being a virgin...the time when she got drunk and banged Chad in the back seat of a car...that does not count... Well, of course. First relationships have that learning curve. It's usually the first time a person becomes intimately familiar with the opposite sex and learning how different men and women operate. So, yeah, people in their first relationships will tend to either be or have plenty of moments of being a bad boy/girl-friend. Hell, a lot of people never get a handle on how specifically different the opposite sex works even after multiple relationships.	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/16 07:23 AM
1	Wife lies about being a virgin...the time when she got drunk and banged Chad in the back seat of a car...that does not count... Hmm, I actually think you might be right. Especially because of the complete omission of how she ended up from the bar to the back of the car.	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/16 07:14 AM
2	Wife lies about being a virgin...the time when she got drunk and banged Chad in the back seat of a car...that does not count... How much do you believe those stories when you hear them, though? They're high schoolers, yeah, a lot of them are fucking, and plenty of them are fucking a lot of many different people. But come on... they're high schoolers. If teenagers were actually having half the sex they claim to have, they would be breaking records. The college explosion is less because of the removal of the fear of shame and more about young people becoming comfortable with their bodies and their sexuality, as well as gai…	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/16 07:03 AM
1	Wife lies about being a virgin...the time when she got drunk and banged Chad in the back seat of a car...that does not count... She said that was 3 months before she met her husband. Edit: Never mind, you meant that was her rhetoric.	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/16 06:41 AM
-1	Wife lies about being a virgin...the time when she got drunk and banged Chad in the back seat of a car...that does not count... Wow. So, and meaning no offense whatsoever - because there is absolutely nothing wrong if you answer yes to this - are you homosexual?	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/16 06:05 AM
1	Wife lies about being a virgin...the time when she got drunk and banged Chad in the back seat of a car...that does not count... I agree with you, willingness to listen, learn, and the ability to apologize when wrong are traits of a real man. What it means in the context of the post, who knows? Honestly.	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/16 05:00 AM
0	Wife lies about being a virgin...the time when she got drunk and banged Chad in the back seat of a car...that does not count... She's just abbreviating the story rather than spend a paragraph describing, [skip to next paragraph] "I was getting drunk, so it's hazy, but he said something about me being a beautiful woman, and has his hand on my leg, we had another drink and talked about this and that, and another drink, and then I think I went to the bathroom to make sure my hair was still done right, and we went for a walk and ended up in the back of his car..." Details no one needs to know. So she just cut to the chase. I…	/r/TheRedPill	17/03/16 04:55 AM
1	You Deserve Nothing. That is all agreeable with me, for sure. Thanks for your response.	/r/TheRedPill	15/02/16 08:15 AM
3	You Deserve Nothing. Okay. So you think it's a problem of fantasy vs reality? Not necessarily what someone would choose to have given the option.	/r/TheRedPill	15/02/16 03:01 AM
-2	You Deserve Nothing. With the selfishness part, you're just arguing semantics. Call it whatever you like, but can you clarify what gender equality has affected in terms of men's expectations to what they deserve? Because I still think that's inherent, currently and past, to general human behavior. Minor, but would an RP man be willing to let his date pay for dinner? I've been subbed here, and PPD, for a long while now that I think most RP men would not want that. Women paying for dates, that's a gender equality/femi…	/r/TheRedPill	15/02/16 02:55 AM
1	You Deserve Nothing. If that pushed you away, why do you agree with his statement?	/r/TheRedPill	15/02/16 01:45 AM
-4	You Deserve Nothing. I disagree with a couple of your points. First, that what OP described is caused by increasing gender equality. People expecting grossly more than they deserved or earn, that's nothing new. Human history is almost entirely molded by mankind's selfishness. The second is that men, deep down or not, want a woman to treat them like a beta-male treats women. Some do, sure. Majority-wise? I dunno, but I sincerely doubt it. Personally, I like to be challenged by my girlfriend. She treats me well, but s…	/r/TheRedPill	15/02/16 01:43 AM
1	"Wife faces 6 years in prison for not cleaning or cooking for her husband" The only person in your sources that said she was going to jail for not cooking and cleaning is her husband, though... Where's the feminist outrage you described?	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/16 10:03 AM
2	Daughter lies about abuse, Son gets thrown in Jail If you want to specifically address that aspect, doesn't that call for a real discussion about slut-shaming?	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/16 12:47 AM
0	Daughter lies about abuse, Son gets thrown in Jail What the fuck does my opinion matter? Truthfully, though, and I've really thought about this, I don't know. I don't want to be someone that hides anything behind a throwaway, normally. If I have a TIFU to share, I'd like to think I can stand by my actions, even if in hindsight they turn out to be wrong. I would hope that the OP had reasons for incarcerating his own son, which is something I haven't seen anyone else do. No one gives him the benefit of doubt that he did anything more than immediat…	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/16 12:41 AM
2	Daughter lies about abuse, Son gets thrown in Jail I was actually thinking about it like the commentator was saying, "she's a damn 16 year old girl, you shouldn't have trusted her word because she's a fucking teenager." At the same time, though, I recognized that it could be interpreted different ways, which is why I asked for context.	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/16 08:12 PM
2	Daughter lies about abuse, Son gets thrown in Jail What's the context of that comment? Or is that the whole comment someone left? I can infer what I think it means, but before I commit to anything I'd like to know if there was any more to it.	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/16 03:58 PM
2	Daughter lies about abuse, Son gets thrown in Jail ? Source that, maybe? I definitely did not see any of that when I went through the comments... saw a lot of people praying that she spends the rest of her life suffering for what she did, though.	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/16 12:30 PM
3	Daughter lies about abuse, Son gets thrown in Jail Dude, seriously? So many comments are begging the OP to push to prosecute her, and that she and OP both are terrible people, totally vilifying her, on and on, etc etc. How can you even try to claim only 1% blame the step-daughter?	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/16 12:26 PM
4	Daughter lies about abuse, Son gets thrown in Jail It likely was a throwaway account, I actually saw the OP's user-page before he was suspended and he only had that one submission and two comments, also made in that submission.	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/16 12:22 PM
4	Daughter lies about abuse, Son gets thrown in Jail What would/should an RP father do in that situation? (Also, less an issue, but calling the OP of that blue pill? Come on guys, "blue pill" isn't just a catch-all for men that fuck up or that you just don't like.)	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/16 12:20 PM
0	Does Anyone Else Describe Themselves as No Pill? Calling yourself unique isn't the same as being unique. When I went to high school, the store Hot Topic sold a shirt that loudly proclaimed, "You laugh at me for being different. I laugh at you for being all the same." I feel I need to reiterate this. This shirt was sold in a store called Hot Topic. The store name specifically means, "this shit is what's popular!" It's not vogue to be different, it's just vogue to say you are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/16 11:37 AM
-1	Do women follow a "War Brides" philosophy? but we're supposed to believe that women have ZERO interest in those types of men. Yup. According to who? Feminists? When do feminists, or anyone else if that isn't your answer, say that women have zero interest in being dominated by men in a bdsm relationship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/16 09:11 AM
1	Do women follow a "War Brides" philosophy? And not just because most sexually successful males would not use "SMV" unironically in conversation!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/16 08:41 AM
2	Do women follow a "War Brides" philosophy? Coincidentally the same ratio as Asian males to nerdy, white women!	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/16 08:38 AM
2	Do women follow a "War Brides" philosophy? One thing to keep in mind is that books like 50 Shades, The Sheik, etc. is that they are fantasies. Analogously, men don't necessarily want the same type of sexual intercourse, or women, that they enjoy watching in porn. Who would want to read a book about a well-adjusted, newly-wed couple with no conflict? And yet, for anyone looking for a long-term relationship, who doesn't want a happy marriage with no instability? good sack of tits. O.O	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/16 08:35 AM
1	Oh, The Feminist Jimmies This Will Rustle I'm a feminist and this doesn't rustle my jimmies. It's his money, his time and his scholarship program, he can do whatever he wants with it. It doesn't detract from pre-established scholarships designated for women and minority groups, so... why should anyone care? I was promised rustled jimmies, and I demand satisfaction!	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/16 06:34 AM
1	CMV: Shaming older men dating younger women is no different than "slut shaming". What would you suggest? (Making a subreddit that condemns rapists and so on isn't what I would consider "doing something" either)	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/01/16 04:56 AM
8	CMV: Shaming older men dating younger women is no different than "slut shaming". Uh, why would feminists make a subreddit that condones the acts of rapists, pedophiles, and necrophiliacs? Okay, I'm a feminist. I hate rapists, pedophiles, and necrophiliacs more than I hate Nice Guys. Now what?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/16 12:31 PM
1	She’s Your Woman, Not Your Friend That doesn't really have much to do with being friends, though. Unless you only choose people that similar to yourself to be your friends, but I don't think that is true of most people at all.	/r/TheRedPill	29/12/15 10:25 AM
2	Don't expect people to be on your side when you improve yourself Improving yourself is all well and good, but if you're a nerd and you enjoy nerdy things like video games (WoW), then you should continue doing the things you enjoy doing! I don't know your reason(s) completely for taking the pill, and like I said, self-improvement is a grand thing! I also understand that games like WoW can be addictive. I don't know if you quit because you decided it was dominating your life too much (and if so, props to you for recognizing that and changing yourself for it!), …	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/15 05:21 PM
1	How many guy friends will/do you allow your girlfriend's to have? So why do guys get to be special snowflakes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/15 06:19 PM
1	How many guy friends will/do you allow your girlfriend's to have? Do you believe the same is true for men, that there are certain crappy behaviors that most if not all men will exhibit at some point in their lives, etc etc, that would make "amalt"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/15 01:43 PM
1	(FR) Went to a prospects house. Netflix no chill. ft. Fluffy Comedian, Sensual Country music & Cockblock little sister. I agree with a lot of what you said, especially how he set up the compliment about her eyes. Prefacing it with, "you're going to think this is [bad thing]" really shows a lack of confidence. If you've got a compliment for a girl and want to let her know, then just let her fucking know! If she's going to be snobby and make fun of you for telling her something nice, that just makes her a shitty person - not you. Especially to think giving a girl a compliment makes a man gay, that just doesn't make…	/r/TheRedPill	22/12/15 09:45 AM
2	AskWomen throws a massive bitch-fit after realizing that men have preferences. I was just about to comment saying very-nearly the same thing as you.	/r/TheRedPill	22/12/15 09:04 AM
1	If women "freeze up" in response to dangerous situations, it is unconscionable to allow them the freedom to go around unchaperoned Women are hardly taught that. Isn't that one of the big RP complaints, that women are constantly vilifying men, and young boys and girls are being raised to believe that men are horrible animals, and so on? Note that also isn't what I believe, but that's what I hear from RP consistently. "Male-shame", and all that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/15 09:47 PM
2	Why do feminists wear clothing? The post is still pretty fucking stupid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/15 09:41 PM
-1	If rape culture was real ... Lucky for you, right? Imagine if it was published anywhere else, you'd have to come up with a legitimate excuse to dismiss it then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/15 08:48 AM
3	If rape culture was real ... Unless you're trying to say rape never happens the way u/belletaco described, why even comment at all?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/15 07:45 AM
22	If rape culture was real ... Ever heard a Christian say that the reason they believe in God and don't commit crimes is because they don't want to go to Hell? That's what this post reminds me of.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/15 04:42 AM
7	Women, what are some female specific issues you'd like society to be aware of? Do MRA's care about third-world men? If so, what are they doing about it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/15 03:48 AM
3	(Both pills) Does anyone have any idea how to get over "approach anxiety"? I think that can go either way, though. On one hand, yes, everything you said. On the other, though, you can also get caught up in worrying about looking like a fool in front of your friend when you get denial after denial. So for the OP, I'd say to only try bringing your wingman if you know you've got a solid enough friendship that you won't worry about looking like an idiot and potentially giving them free stories at your expense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/15 03:31 AM
3	(Both pills) Does anyone have any idea how to get over "approach anxiety"? You hear about guys struggling to find girls when they're single, and then those same guys having to deny girls advances when they're in a relationship, right? The reason for that is because when a guy isn't trying to get sex from a girl, and he's just casually interacting with her without ulterior motives, he's relaxed, confident, secure... That makes women much more interested than with the man desperate to get laid. Because they can see the desperation on single men with ulterior motives. Eve…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/15 03:20 AM
1	What are your thoughts on polygamy? u/Whisper once said that she advocated polygamy for men only, which I found interesting. I wanted to know why but I never got an answer. Maybe summoning will get work! ... I think male monogamy is unnatural and a bad idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/15 02:55 AM
0	I think my LTR is pulling away... I will find it when I'm at a computer later - I'm on a mobile device right now and it's kind of a pain to search for stuff like that. Edit: rp is going to bitch about the "bp downvote brigade" and then downvote me for looking up your own source material? 'Kay.	/r/askTRP	11/12/15 05:12 AM
1	I think my LTR is pulling away... I think the phrases like "we need to talk", "can I ask you something", etc. are used to announce that it's meant to be a serious conversation. That the person who wants to talk/ask a question has been thinking of this specific thing long enough that they want an equally thought-out response to their thought-out question. Men and women both use those phrases. So I think it's more than to just make someone squirm (it can be, too, but you can't judge everything that follows "we need to talk" the sa…	/r/askTRP	11/12/15 05:09 AM
0	I think my LTR is pulling away... I was saying that just because I disagree with stickying the comment.	/r/askTRP	11/12/15 04:57 AM
1	I think my LTR is pulling away... I'm not a blue pill, but I don't even agree with his comment. A large portion of what he says is based on how she blows up over what equates to 0.6% of their relationship, but I really don't think that's fair. OP's gf asks him what's been going on (fair question, he made a pretty radical 180 turn in his behaviour) and he doesn't tell her the truth. Going no-contact is overly-dramatic, but OP agrees to go with it. What's she supposed to do though? She liked who he was for the 99.4% of their relat…	/r/askTRP	11/12/15 04:47 AM
3	I think my LTR is pulling away... You got secretive and lied about what was going on by telling her you've just been busy when she asked. She probably thinks you're the one no longer interested in her, and now she's trying to be the one to break it off with you to save herself from being hurt by being the one to get dumped, and convincing herself that this break up that she thinks is inevitable is something she actually wants. Edit: Dumbass.	/r/askTRP	10/12/15 06:24 AM
2	The Empress is Naked What does the title specifically mean? I assume at some point in the book he explains what he means by the empress is naked, can you tell us, OP?	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/15 06:06 AM
1	Hooked up with a girl, went nuclear ASD. Sure, I completely agree with you on that. I did want to specifically know what the other guy thought about it, though, just because of the way he talked about presenting "yourself" as pathetic when delivering (this specific?) apology. My own personal thoughts about humility and alpha-male status (red pill not-withstanding) are much in line with what you said.	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/15 11:43 PM
5	Light-speed hamstering: Gabe Dunn knows Stoya's rape accusation against James Deen is false, but won't say so in public because sisterhood Why wouldn't she share that additional info?	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/15 09:06 PM
6	Light-speed hamstering: Gabe Dunn knows Stoya's rape accusation against James Deen is false, but won't say so in public because sisterhood Maybe. I'm not trying to poke holes, but it does seem to be pertinent information to want to have, doesn't it?	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/15 08:50 PM
1	Why is RP so Afraid of Feminists? From the second article: I’m always being told that feminists don’t give a shit about issues like male rape or suicide. In fact, our detractors contend, feminists don’t give a shit about men. In case you missed the memo, feminists hate men. At least that’s the impression that we get from anti-feminist men and MRAs, mostly active on the web where they moan about men being oppressed because obviously, being a man is so hard these days. ...but surely it’s a no brainer that both men and women suffer…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/15 12:00 PM
6	Light-speed hamstering: Gabe Dunn knows Stoya's rape accusation against James Deen is false, but won't say so in public because sisterhood How does Gabe Dunn know that it is a false accusation?	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/15 10:20 AM
0	Hooked up with a girl, went nuclear ASD. Hello, I have a specific question for you. After reading what you said about, "put your ego aside. Stop trying to be alpha" and "...apologize to the brother in a text. Present yourself as pathetic...", specifically, I'd like to know if you think humility has a place in the Red Pill. Do you think that true alphas should ever show humility? (I think we can both agree this particular guy is a fairly long way from being alpha if he seriously needs to ask for advice about a situation he should have f…	/r/TheRedPill	01/12/15 09:53 AM
1	Middle.and high schoolers forced to stand up and pledge not to kill or hurt women ever while their female peers sit and watch. Just another day in a feminine-primary reality. How does PPD respond? All pills Pretty fucked up. I don't have much more to add that commenters here haven't already stated, like the parallel between this and the blacklivesmatter/alllivesmatter, and the general census that agrees with the comment made about "let's not hurt anyone". Extreme feminism, that is, feminism that advocates for reversing the patriarchal standard that's been in place for almost ever instead of truly equalizing genders, is no better than RP/MRA/whatever-you-want-to-call-it that advocates in favour of t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/15 05:25 PM
2	X-Post /r/TheBluePill: My story from normal person, to TRP fanatic, to Red Piller “victim”, and back again I see. If men were polygamous, we'd have a hell of a lot more people in our already-overpopulated world, but why do you think male monogamy is a bad idea? (It seems obvious from what you've already said that your view on that does not extend to include females as well, but correct me if I'm wrong)	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/15 08:10 AM
2	X-Post /r/TheBluePill: My story from normal person, to TRP fanatic, to Red Piller “victim”, and back again Don't know, don't care. Ask them I was. You answered, and I thought that meant you were a RPW.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/15 08:04 AM
2	X-Post /r/TheBluePill: My story from normal person, to TRP fanatic, to Red Piller “victim”, and back again Thank you for the in-depth response. Because getting pumped and dumped permanently reduces their SMV. Do you really believe that? What if a girl just wants a no-strings night of sex? Not enough times that she would be called a slut, maybe just a couple times. Does RPW believe AWALT, in regards to the same basic stuff RP says that about (so I'm not asking about anything specific that makes AWALT, just in general)? Or are there any RP concepts that RPW, or enough members of RPW to make it notable,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/15 02:15 PM
4	What Is Purple Pill Debate's Opinion on This Comment Thread from r/TheBluePill On An r/DeadBedrooms Thread About Lack of Sex In a Marriage? Since the OP of the original thread said himself that it was a joke and wasn't something he would do, It was only a joke, I wouldnt actually do it but it does put things into perspective. it does make the comments from BP less cruel. They're joking about a joke.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/11/15 12:16 PM
0	X-Post /r/TheBluePill: My story from normal person, to TRP fanatic, to Red Piller “victim”, and back again red pill critical thinking Why are you still responding? It must be fun to make things true just by saying them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/15 06:39 PM
0	X-Post /r/TheBluePill: My story from normal person, to TRP fanatic, to Red Piller “victim”, and back again "He said he would get into a relationship, but only if the right girl came along" read the damn shit critical thinking	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/15 06:28 PM
2	X-Post /r/TheBluePill: My story from normal person, to TRP fanatic, to Red Piller “victim”, and back again And the members of RPW agree with the core concepts of red pill? Are there certain levels of tolerance that the RPW have, like some embrace it more than others, and that sort of thing, or is it like, come one come all, as long as you believe at least some certain rp principle? If you don't mind answering more questions. I'm sure it won't surprise you that it surprises me that there are enough rp-women to even have an rp-women subreddit. Reading your first response did clear up some of my questio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/15 12:24 PM
1	X-Post /r/TheBluePill: My story from normal person, to TRP fanatic, to Red Piller “victim”, and back again Fair enough. I do realize you said "pushy" and "nagging" in your previous post, but without qualification, that could be an entire range of things. I appreciate that you answered without getting shitty, it's hard to hold a level debate on this sub without at least one person becoming overly emotional and viewing any question as an attack.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/15 09:51 AM
9	TBP: Why do you disagree that Women act like Children? It's been my experience working in an office that the male co-workers make more excuses and are generally more lazy, half-assing their work than the female workers. At my current place of work, there is just about a perfect 50/50 balance of male and female workers, and it's been my impression that the women work harder because they know they have to do more to prove themselves as competent workers than the males do - especially since the GM, who was recently "let go" after 8 or 9+ years, was ver…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/15 08:14 AM
0	X-Post /r/TheBluePill: My story from normal person, to TRP fanatic, to Red Piller “victim”, and back again You're referring to her second edit where she says this is a cautionary tale for women that think they can try to "tame the alpha"? ...He was the only really strong and big guy I've been with, so that was very attractive and exciting... ...I wanted to prove it to myself that I could win, that I could get to know this guy who is clearly a player, resist his advances, and maybe actually have a explore a relationship. RP had me convinced that this type of guy was the attractive kind, so I should at…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/15 07:36 AM
0	X-Post /r/TheBluePill: My story from normal person, to TRP fanatic, to Red Piller “victim”, and back again I really really REALLY didn't want to have sex... I wouldn't exactly call that the standard for "completely consensual". I feel like the problem with a lot of these debates is that BP will demonize the slightest RP behaviour in grossly exaggerated ways, and that sort of ruins their... credibility isn't quite the right word, but it diminishes the legitimacy of their argument, and RP takes the complete opposite end of the spectrum and anything bad that happens to a woman is her fault, she got what…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/15 07:15 AM
1	X-Post /r/TheBluePill: My story from normal person, to TRP fanatic, to Red Piller “victim”, and back again From a male perspective, having the lines of raped so blurred no man can ever know for sure he has not committed a felony (short of dying a virgin) is some scary shit. I don't think that's how most men feel. If you don't mind answering a personal question for context, what have you done to get sex that you think the girl could feasibly call it rape, or even just question if it could be rape?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/15 07:00 AM
-4	X-Post /r/TheBluePill: My story from normal person, to TRP fanatic, to Red Piller “victim”, and back again How did she insinuate that she wanted to change him? Unless you think that women looking for a relationship just straight-up means that she's preying on men to try to change them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/15 06:44 AM
1	X-Post /r/TheBluePill: My story from normal person, to TRP fanatic, to Red Piller “victim”, and back again Why does RPW say to not go for hard-core alpha players? And was there anything else that the OP did that went against the general advice of RPW? Of the RP/BP-related subreddits, I know the least about RPW, so I am legitimately asking, just in case you think I'm trying to passively insinuate something by asking these questions - I'm not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/15 06:35 AM
3	Blue Pill: What are your thoughts on a woman's ability as shown below to fuck over a man's life so easily? and Red Pill: How would you avoid such a situation? My answer is really simple: both sexes have the power to ruin each other. Doesn't even matter if this particular story is real or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/15 08:59 AM
0	[FR] Dated a feminist. She just drove a knife through my heart. Lessons enforced. What understanding did you come to from this post? Your statement can mean a lot of different things.	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/15 04:59 AM
1	TRP Proves that All Men Need Female Validation To me, it just sounds like you're saying red pill men need female validation to feel masculine. Unless, I suppose, you don't consider it possible for a man to be masculine without being red pill. I'm also just about to go to bed right now, so maybe I'm just not getting it on account of being tired. I will read this again after I wake up and reply more in-depth this afternoon.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/15 04:41 PM
1	I animated some RedPill side-bar content. Hypergamy, Shit-Tests, AWALT. I have a couple questions. The first is whether or not it's an RP-wide accepted belief that there are only three ways to increase your social value (1. money, 2. physique, 3. social status), or is that just your own belief, or is it just the "top 3" ways, as in most basic, general ways? Because it seems to me like that would be very limiting to a man's mental state if he's trying to "up his game". Haven't we all seen some butt-ugly, or fat dude with a drop-dead gorgeous woman hanging on his arm,…	/r/TheRedPill	21/10/15 03:14 PM
1	No. Fucking. Way. The irony is that she probably doesn't have an idea of what she's doing either. It's not like she has some sort of sinister plan for the next five years. I'm surprised that you don't think women do consciously plan that type of thing. For example, my parents divorced when I was two. There aren't any pictures of my parents wedding because my mother showed up wearing sweatpants and sandals, as I've been told. It was evident within hours of their marriage that she was simply using my father. Fortun…	/r/TheRedPill	30/09/15 08:12 AM
1	Women are more likely to cheat on the eve of their marriage than men. Where's the feminist outrage? Interested to see how you can understand it as an argument, yet not empathise. I don't know if you'll understand, but my answer to that is that I'm an English major. That's basically all we do, argue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/15 10:58 PM
1	Women are more likely to cheat on the eve of their marriage than men. Where's the feminist outrage? No, I don't agree with it, but I can understand it as an argument. However, generalizing an entire genders reason for infidelity as overcoming a social injustice is both narrow-minded and unfair, especIally when it's contrasted with what is presented as purely selfish reasons for infidelity by the opposite gender. Buuuut... What else would you expect from someone who identifies themselves as radical in an already radical group? And as I'm sure you know anyway, whether anybody agrees with her or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/15 01:23 PM
1	Women are more likely to cheat on the eve of their marriage than men. Where's the feminist outrage? Why shouldn't she? I've been going through her comment history because I'm trying to decide if I think she's a troll or not, and I've gotta say, I don't think she is. But for a minute, I'll assume that she is. What commentary is she trying to make? Everything she says jives with the blue pill ideology, it's just taken to a further extreme. She isn't anything but what her username claims her to be: a radical feminist. So if this is someone's attempt at mockery of radical feminists... well, what i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/15 12:46 PM
1	TBP, how do you explain the multiple women on Reddit who admit to wanting a dominant Alpha male? Are they ALL damaged, and insecure, you think? While Regina does seem to be latching onto a point that this thread isn't actually about (short acceptance), it doesn't seem to be parody, or troll-y, for that matter... I think she is serious, and just very outspoken. Edit: if it is satire, it's done poorly, since satire should have at least some clue that it's a joke. Looking at her user history, though, it seems to be in earnest. If it is satire, then what is the commentary?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/15 12:07 PM
11	TBP, how do you explain the multiple women on Reddit who admit to wanting a dominant Alpha male? Are they ALL damaged, and insecure, you think? Okay. So, in your own terms means something written by someone else. Me, I would think an alpha male would not allow himself to be defined by anyone but himself. You... well, you're okay with that. Did you ever think there was a purpose for my question, or did you just assume I'm a simpleton that really had no idea the definition of alpha male? Actually, never mind. I don't care what you thought. Natural alphas. They don't know their alpha. But women love them. Imagine that? What does that have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/15 04:44 AM
3	TBP, how do you explain the multiple women on Reddit who admit to wanting a dominant Alpha male? Are they ALL damaged, and insecure, you think? For the OP, can you define for us, in your own terms, what an "alpha male" is (what does an alpha male do that makes them an "alpha", and so on), and how that connects to red pill?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/15 03:58 AM
1	Sex is the most important thing for men, period. I assume this is in context to a romantic, um, or "romantic" relationship (regards to the second option), but personally I wouldn't be keen to return to either girl. If this is just another way of wording what OP was saying, and I had to make a choice, I'd probably go with the first one. It's a short process of elimination, but I vetoed the second option because it's rather be with someone who could engage me, and be emotionally/mentally bonded than stay with a person just for sex. I'm not just …	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/15 04:07 PM
3	Sex is the most important thing for men, period. I, too, once asked a red-pill for further citation or source reference.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/15 12:41 PM
3	Sex is the most important thing for men, period. "Sex is the most important thing for men--in the context of any male-female heterosexual relationship." Do you really believe that? I'm actually a little confused by your post in general, what is the debate you're looking for? You present two options, but you don't actually seem interested in a debate over the two scenarios. I actually don't think it would be as much of a "no-brainer" as you claim, either. It may have been that easy for you, and that's fine, but I think most men would surprise y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/15 12:38 PM
1	Sex is the most important thing for men, period. So you disagree with what OP is saying? And to a red-pill, what is "emotional intimacy"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/15 12:34 PM
4	Sex is the most important thing for men, period. You know, you don't have to always respond.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/15 11:47 AM
-1	Redpillers: do you dislike overly confident women? like a child spouting off random thoughts. ha ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/15 11:39 AM
4	Redpillers: do you dislike overly confident women? It must have really bothered you, though, since you bring it up here even though it doesn't really answer the question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/08/15 11:23 AM
3	Woman Calls Me A Jerk! Then Proceeds To Fuck Me and Tell Me About Her Nice Guy Orbiter Who She Refused To Bang. And Alice Cooper said, "only women bleed."	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/15 12:13 PM