colmmaxwell Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	5 years of seduction, and not yet "a man" (long) Nice find! That guy gets it.	/r/seduction	10/05/16 09:59 PM
1	5 years of seduction, and not yet "a man" (long) Read Models. It's really good and will answer all of your questions better than I can.	/r/seduction	09/05/16 01:52 PM
1	5 years of seduction, and not yet "a man" (long) Being a man is really just about handling your own shit and not expecting anyone else to take care of it for you (or congratulate you for doing whats expected of you). That's it. Men do stuff because it needs to be done. They don't complain, or bitch or blame someone else, or wish they didn't have to deal with it, they just get it done and move on to the next thing. I dont think men should unload their emotional problems on their girlfriends --thats what your friends are for. Your girlfriend has…	/r/seduction	08/05/16 02:50 AM
1	Any guys like me? 30, never had a GF, never been hit on in person, etc? Ive rarely had success going out alone. I get too self-conscious. Find a buddy or two and go out to a place where it's easy to mingle. You'll be more relaxed and it'll be easier for things to just 'happen'. having fun with it all is key; with the right attitude even getting blown out is fun or funny.	/r/seduction	03/04/16 01:32 AM
2	Met a "party girl," but I am not a "party guy." How do I move forward? She's already into you, so why change up your strategy now? Don't try to be something that you're not. The number one thing women are attracted to is self-confidence and self-confidence comes from knowing what you're all about and not deviating just to please someone else. In fact, Id be asking myself how badly I really want to be dating a party girl anyway especially if that's not your scene.	/r/seduction	03/04/16 01:26 AM
8	How to make a girl want to have sex with you, when you are already intimate with her She doesn't want you to seduce her in a physical sense. If you're hitting third base consistently, then you've already seduced her. She's probably as horny as she'll ever get. What she wants is to feel safe with you ...she wants you to demonstrate that you're not planning on ditching her as soon as she gives it all up. If you do this right, she'll be the one jumping your bones. Don't put ANY pressure about sex on her --women can sense that a mile away. Don't joke about having it with her, or cas…	/r/seduction	12/12/15 10:54 PM
1	Alpha male wealth vs. nice guy who always pays? Be a gentleman. if you ask a girl out, you should pick up the tab. Girls will almost always offer to help out or pay for themselves at which point you can say something like, "I'll get this, you can get the next one" or, depending on how its going, "I'll get this, you can buy breakfast ;)". If she actually likes and respects you, she'll be happy to buy the next meal. I'll often follow up with a "So where are you taking me for brunch?" in a cheeky way and then surprise her by paying anyway. Then …	/r/seduction	19/11/15 01:23 PM
2	Problem with my ex "gf" Well, we've all made that mistake. Go apologize. Tell her you didn't really mean to say that --it was a complete impulse, sorry if it made her uncomfortable... you were just trying to say that you liked her and that came out instead.. what can you say, attractive women make men do stupid things. laugh. Promise her you won't do anymore stupid things. And then back way the hell off --be prepared to cut your loses and accept that she'll never feel that way about you again. If she gets back in touch…	/r/seduction	30/10/15 02:52 AM
1	She is a keeper... So how do I actually keep her? No matter how secure you feel in the relationship, do not start gushing all your feelings out for her. She may love it at first but its likely going to bore her as she watches the cool guy she fell in love with turn into a needy chump. Keep making fun of her, keep her on her toes, keep putting effort into yourself and her, keep your social life strong, keep your interests a going concern... be the same guy she fell for.	/r/seduction	20/10/15 05:38 AM
3	How do you deal with an amog who becomes aggressive/physical straight away? Just because you'd like to talk a group doesn't necessarily mean they want to talk to you. PUAs aren't hard to spot if you know what to look for -- chances are, this guy knew what you were up to and he shut you down. Cut your losses and move on to the next set.	/r/seduction	07/09/15 04:46 PM
1	I am a total disaster with women Some quick fixes that will make you more attractive immediately: 1) stand up straight and look people in the eye with confidence. No hunching or slouching over... and keep your hands out of your pockets. 2) Stop apologizing for everything. Save your apologies for when you truly upset someone. Some people say it habitually. 3) Go to a fashionable barber and get a cool hair cut. Makes a big difference. 4) Don't act the clown. Don't be the butt of your own jokes and don't ever put yourself down. So…	/r/seduction	04/08/15 06:08 PM
1	I'm 37, divorced, 3 young kids, and just broke up with my girlfriend of 1.5 years. I don't know how to be alone. Help! It always takes some time to adjust to being completely single. You'll probably go through a desperation phase (where I suspect you are right now)... that only lasts a couple of weeks, then when you start to settle into it, you start enjoying yourself. You can do anything you want, go anywhere you want, buy anything you want, be anyone you want without having to worry about someone else influencing (or stopping) the path your life takes. Its pretty cool. Use this time to read, catch up on your h…	/r/seduction	03/08/15 01:00 PM
1	Is this a shit test? If so how should I have responded? What would James Bond do here? Get all bent out of shape? Nope, he'd continue gaming her and making her regret ever fucking the chance to be with him up. Definitely find someone else to focus your attentions on, but keep playing with this one. Have fun with her. In my experience, you usually get a second opportunity.	/r/seduction	03/08/15 05:06 AM
3	Girl wants to go camping with me, is this a sign? Yeah, she wants to go sleep in a tent with you. Thats a pretty big sign. Just keep doing what you're doing.	/r/seduction	02/08/15 05:48 AM
2	How much time before it's okay to get with a friend's ex? Only go forward with this if you're prepared to lose the friendship.	/r/seduction	01/08/15 01:30 PM
1	Was crushing a date with HB9.5 Czech model, out of nowhere got a "you know we're just friends, right?" line. Was it some sort of test? Advice on how to proceed please! The hotter the babe, the harder the shit tests. She wants to see how you handle yourself. Just make fun of her. "Whoa, lady! SLOW IT DOWN! You're moving way too fast here... I don't become friends with just anyone, you know."	/r/seduction	29/07/15 12:32 PM
1	What do you guys want? Why am I angry... I want a healthy, steady relationship, however, I am prepared to fuck a lot of girls in my search to find the right one ;) ...Actually, I rarely have one night stands. If I like a girl enough to want to sleep with her once, it's likely i'll want to spend more time with her. Why are you angry? I'd bet it's because you feel like people should just like you for the way that you are, and you resent the idea that you might have to change. If that's the case, embrace the change. We can't help but chan…	/r/seduction	14/07/15 04:02 PM
3	Ever run into "nice girls"? in contrast to most answers here, I don't find those characteristics in anyone attractive. I hate being the only one in the relationship with a voice. I am looking for a strong life partner, not a servant. I need someone who stands up to both me and others. I need someone confident in who they are. I need someone who's blazing their own trail. I need someone who's going to inspire me and occasionally lead the way. That's me, though.	/r/seduction	13/07/15 04:15 AM
2	So if a girl being intoxicated means she cant give consent, why would anyone ever try to pick up chicks at a bar? I'm going to start getting video consent.	/r/seduction	12/07/15 02:39 PM
5	How do you handle the tension of being a man in your prime? Kill the hostile dudes with kindness. Don't fall over yourself trying to appease them but look them in the eye and start asking them real questions about themselves. Pretend like you didn't hear any veiled insults; you know they're just insecure. Build them up and give them value. They'll like you soon enough. I've managed to kill many an AMOG this way. They usually back down as soon as they see you're a good guy and as soon as they see you're not intimidated by them. This works especially well …	/r/seduction	06/07/15 11:10 PM
14	People over 30, what would you do different if you became 20 again ? Start putting money away now. Even $20/mon can add up to a nice nest egg. You don't need permission to be or do or act or look however you want. Just do it. You're never too old to start something new. So start it now. In 10 yrs you'll be amazing at it.	/r/seduction	06/07/15 02:29 PM
12	Got a date with a girl this Friday night. Any tips on how to be aloof? Yeah, don't try to be aloof. You'll just look like an dick. Try to have fun.	/r/seduction	03/07/15 07:30 AM
3	What is "fun"? Staring at barnacles for 5 minutes is fun... staring at barnacles for an hour while someone goes on and on about it sounds awful. I mean, even if I really liked barnacles I'd be ready to talk about something else after 10 mins tops. Listen for her cues --if she at all tries to change the subject that probably means she's had enough talk about barnacles. I'd go so far as to say that you shouldn't talk about any one thing for an hour unless you're giving a lecture on the subject. Personally, I thi…	/r/seduction	29/06/15 05:41 AM
6	If you think no one wants you No, you don't want to think otherwise. You're obviously very comfortable believing no one wants you. It's a limiting belief designed to take the onus of 'getting off your ass and going for what you want' off of you so you don't have to feel bad about it. Time to take a good hard look in the mirror, man. This is your defining moment. Do you lay down and die, or do you get up and fight? What do you want? Get up, make a plan, and start going after it.	/r/seduction	10/06/15 04:02 PM
20	If you think no one wants you Just wearing a blank smile on your face all day is definitely creepy and weird. Much better if you're, you know, actually smiling about something that makes you happy. You can start by feeling gratitude and appreciation for things all around you. Ex. "Wow, it's a beautiful day. The sun feels great." smile When you see a beautiful girl, take a minute and dream up a scenario where the two of you are happily dating and she thinks everything you say is hilarious. smile If you're genuinely happy, you…	/r/seduction	10/06/15 03:53 PM
0	Best way to avoid awkwardness after being rejected By not giving a fuck, I think. You didn't do anything wrong --she's making it weird, not you. Call her on it. Say, are you always so weird after someone asks you out? laugh	/r/seduction	28/05/15 01:53 AM
2	I legit can't hold eye contact You don't need to worry about eye contact, you need to worry about deep inner game. You are carrying around a lot of negative self-talk, man. Next time you feel the urge to put yourself down, stop and find something positive to say about yourself instead. Do this every time a negative thought enters your head. As you slowly start to build self-confidence you'll find that making eye contact with people is much, much easier.	/r/seduction	26/05/15 12:10 AM
2	IS late teens-mid 20s the best time to get with girls? I'm 42. I've been consistently sleeping with girls 10 yrs younger than me or more, for the last 12 yrs. I'm currently sleeping with a tight-bodied girl that is 19 yrs younger than me... which, is actually a little out of my comfort zone. Not every girl in their early 20s will be into the older man, but the ones that are are really into it... and there's no shortage of them. That's your 40s. I'm telling you it's never going to get better than when you're in your 30's. girls will easily date a guy…	/r/seduction	25/05/15 02:52 PM
3	Getting over the fear of rejection? Think twice about asking someone out in your peer group unless you are really, really into her. It's 'what happens when we break up' when the real problems begin.	/r/seduction	25/05/15 03:01 AM
5	I'm not who I want to be Consider that you might be using the "growing up without a dad" thing as a bit of an excuse. Lots of great players are great because they grew up with sisters and moms and understand women. If you're that handsome, then you are probably really intimidating to girls. Think about it: how well do you perform when talking to a 10? Do you get nervous? Do you want to eject before she has a chance to shoot you down? Do you assume that she's probably a bitch anyway so why bother talking to her? Maybe yo…	/r/seduction	24/05/15 05:08 PM