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| 2 | My boyfriend was making iced coffee and asked me if I wanted some. I said “No, thank you”, then he sat on the couch with his glass, I was like “Damn that looks good shoulda said yes” so he got up, went back to the kitchen and brought me the second iced coffee he had made for me.Adorbs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 01:53 PM |
| 21 | Ladies NEVER ignore your instincts or dealbreakers. Here’s yet another scrote having broken a woman’s heart after stringing her along for a year.Facts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 04:40 PM |
| 78 | Ladies NEVER ignore your instincts or dealbreakers. Here’s yet another scrote having broken a woman’s heart after stringing her along for a year.BINGO. Being a Pickmeisha is just as detrimental as being with a NVM. She saw these low value signs for a whole year and stayed. HE was making his intentions clear as day. Ladies; this is why WE level up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 04:38 PM |
| 8 | The High Costs of Moving in with a LVM“I don’t think we should make “all men” arguments.” This isn’t an all men argument. This is an all women need to protect their best interests argument. Read the handbook. “… but to say “never” unless engaged is impractical and unrealistic. Men have their own vetting process too and most of them, especially the high-value ones, will not ask a woman’s hand in marriage unless they have taken the time to truly know them aka, live with them.” Not living with a boyfriend is one of the MOST practical t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 05:22 PM |
| 42 | The High Costs of Moving in with a LVMDon’t move in with a boyfriend period. Even if he’s vetted. Even if he’s a HVM. Even if he signs a contract. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 05:53 PM |
| 4 | A man can get 3 women pregnant within a year! Don't accept shaming or cultural misogyny!Most definitely: Nick Cannon and men like him are depraved. Point blank period. But your last quote is exactly what I’m emphasizing here “at some point we need to start taking note of the behavior and refusing the projections and the blame.” Any women out there dating need to be taking note of how men like this behave and how society responds. Women then need to respond accordingly because to be picked by a man with half a dozen baby mother’s who openly admits he’s not interested in being with a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 04:24 PM |
| 13 | A man can get 3 women pregnant within a year! Don't accept shaming or cultural misogyny!This man publicly said in an interview: “I believe that relationships and marriage are designed to please women. Once I stepped away from my marriage with Mariah, I knew I would never get married again.” "I knew I’d never be in a relationship again and that I’d never want to be married again. I respect a polyamorous situation," "But for me, that’s too many rules. I don’t want to answer to anybody. I want to be by myself forever. I got ‘lonesome’ tattooed on my neck. I’m good.” "I got kids by dif… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 02:55 PM |
| 3 | This is very smartThat’s all well and good but FDS doesn’t recommend moving in with a boyfriend periodt. Even with a financial contract you’ll likely end up doing more physical and emotional labor or becoming a forever girlfriend. Read the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 05:44 PM |
| 18 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.YES to all of that! But investing in yourself and living your life well is not coming on Reddit just to shitpost. There has been little strategy at all of late be it dating strategy, life strategy, level up strategy, or what have you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 02:32 PM |
| 8 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.Your understanding of what this sub is, is exactly what it WAS pre covid. Sure there would be male depravity posts, roasts, LVM logic, etc but the emphasis was always on relationships and dating. These types of things would be posted to emphasize or reinforce our DATING STRATEGY not just for the sake of trolling the multitude of LVM, not to promote female supremacy, and not to encourage women to avoid all men at all costs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 02:29 PM |
| 15 | REMINDER: FDS is NOT WGTOW/OVARIT/FEMCEL etc, We're a Dating Strategy....So You Should, Ya'Know, DATE.This is the post I’d been waiting for!!!! Been on this sub for years and noticed a lot of anti-dating content over the pandemic period. If a woman wants to swear off dating, that’s totally her prerogative but at its core, this sub is about helping women navigate dating. Love the reminder 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 07:46 PM |
| 36 | 50/50Her song Upgrade U could be the pickme anthem 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 01:27 AM |
| 168 | Ready to commit and then they bail (AKA THE REASON TO DATE MULTIPLE MEN AT ONCE AND PROPERLY VET)You didn’t screw up girl, you did everything right. You multi dated. You made your desires clear and firm. You vetted to the best of your ability. Some women vet guys for years and they still turn out to be jerks. You found out quickly and relatively painlessly. This is a SUCCESS story! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 04:17 AM |
| 6 | Russell Wilson😍Right?!?? For real though, like I need to know EXACTLY what affirmations she was sending out into the universe 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 01:06 AM |
| 11 | Mother’s Day PSAIt was mostly meant to be tongue in cheek but, AMEN to that energy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 01:05 PM |
| 580 | High Value Dates OnlyOBSERVING TABLE MANNERS IS ESSENTIAL I dated this guy for a bit who claimed he’s OBSESSED with “authentic” sushi, is a “sushi snob,” and was going to open up my eyes to THE BEST sushi place in town. We meet up at the pier. He brings stuff for a romantic picnic and we walk over to the restaurant to get the sushi to go. I’m expecting something grandiose and he ends up ordering some of the most generic rolls. But that’s not all.... We get back to our picnic spot lay out the food and begin to eat. H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 01:59 AM |
| 6 | Man hides camera in woman's bedroom disguised as clock, takes 140 videos—police - a other reason to not bring men you barely know to your home.He gave the clock to her as a gift | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:04 PM |
| 3 | It’s never truly 50/50Nice!! Didn’t know that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 07:17 PM |
| 2 | It’s never truly 50/50By all means! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 03:31 PM |
| 47 | Do they even themselves believe it 😂😂 as a 18 year old in my 'prime' i DEFINITELY don't want greasy hairy old pathetic 50 year olds 🤢🤢🤮🤮This is the most bullshit paragraph I’ve ever read 😂 They really expect sane people to think that, bank account aside, a 50 year old man is more desirable than a 25 year old?!?!? This message is brought to you by audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:31 PM |
| 18 | It’s never truly 50/50Yup. The oppression runs deep. Add to that being a non-white woman and not fitting the conventional western beauty standards (fair skin, straight hair, light eyes, fine and light-colored body hair), and I’ve got a lifetime full of internalized inadequacies I struggle with every day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:16 PM |
| 10 | It’s never truly 50/50Yasss queen 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:09 PM |
| 10 | It’s never truly 50/50👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:08 PM |
| 12 | It’s never truly 50/50This is facts. I’m mid 30’s. One of the men I’m dating currently is a few years younger than me but no one would guess it. He’s still handsome but his hair is already salt and pepper gray and you can see that years of golf and hikes without sunscreen are starting to show their effects on his skin. He could also afford to moisturize. I swear these guys just splash their face with water and call it a day lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:06 PM |
| 4 | It’s never truly 50/50I’m decidedly child- free but thanks for sharing that info for ladies hoping to conceive 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:03 PM |
| 8 | It’s never truly 50/50Yes I I’ve done the research on latisse and definitely read up on potential adverse side effects. Discussed with my derm the risk factors and I decided that since I have a lot of orbital fat already (baby face with chipmunk cheeks) I’m willing to risk some loss in that area. But yes. It’s definitely a side effect that should be noted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:02 PM |
| 13 | It’s never truly 50/50There’s a product line on Amazon (at least in the states) called Glytone that has a whole line of products for correcting skin texture issues. Shaving has always irritated my legs so I use the Glytone Exfoliating Body Lotion nightly on areas where I’m prone to get razor bumps and the strawberry effect and I definitely notice it helps reduce the bumps, get a smoother shave, the exfoliation helps with the strawberry appearance. (don’t use right before or right after shaving though). I’ve been usin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 03:50 AM |
| 22 | Brother’s school has a bizarre prom ruleThis needs to go to the media | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 02:12 PM |
| 32 | Great take on Derrick Jaxn cheating scandalThis part. How deep into pickmedom must you be to fool around with a married/“separated” man knowing he’s married and then spill the tea only when he stops taking your calls and blocks you?!? There’s not a single person who respects themselves in this whole mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 12:33 AM |
| 11 | Don’t Dress Up for a Man on the First DateWait a minute, we’re going on dates with people we already think are poor contenders? We’re agreeing to meet guys at the last minute and are saying yes to grabbing coffee? Honey, no need to worry about dressing down to avoid making excessive effort, the solution is even easier: stay TF home. I prefer to look my best and be appropriately dressed for the venue whenever I go out anywhere in public with anyone- just like I expect a HVM to do the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 03:33 PM |
| 95 | Repeat after meThe twist at the end 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 07:53 PM |
| 33 | Is always skipping foreplay a red flag?Men research things they’re interested in learning more about all the time: Finding out the specs of the new ps5 or iPhone they want, figuring out which grad program they should apply to, or what speaker system to get for their foreign car. A HVM will want to learn how to get a woman off because pleasing her turns him on. He’ll ask you or he’ll Google it. Rule #1: don’t fake enjoyment during sex. If you’re not feeling good, tell him. You can explicitly tell him what you’d like him to do and if h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 08:22 PM |
| 17 | Had a comment removed from a different sub because telling someone to wait longer than 2 dates to have sex is apparently “dehumanizing” to men?I know for a fact the mods on this sub in question go through post history to find, delete, and “out” FDS members. It even happened to me once when the comment I made had zero to do with FDS. I had just asked someone a question and the mod went full Sherlock Holmes to call me a misandrist 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 02:09 AM |
| 27 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.My ex fiancé was a highly functioning alcoholic and habitual marijuana user (multiple times daily). He hid these qualities from me until after we’d moved in together. I was 21 , he was 15 years older, and my first everything so I stayed even though substance abuse is a deal breaker for me and he deliberately withheld from telling me earlier because he didn’t want me to leave him. He later cheated on me with likely sex trafficked massage parlor prostitutes saying he did it because I withdrew from… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Don’t provide him with the blueprint of your “dream man.” You’re giving someone the roadmap to hurt you or another unsuspecting woman. Notice how he instantly backpedaled trying to shape his answer to mirror what I might be looking for? Nope. Not telling you lol. Blocked.Smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 07:26 PM |
| 24 | Don’t provide him with the blueprint of your “dream man.” You’re giving someone the roadmap to hurt you or another unsuspecting woman. Notice how he instantly backpedaled trying to shape his answer to mirror what I might be looking for? Nope. Not telling you lol. Blocked.It’s totally your prerogative. It’s not bad for men or women to choose to date like that. The problems are: The deceptive vibes: The way he went from “I’m not looking to get into a relationship” to “I’m down to build something special with you...” when he perceived that his original answer was not going to get him anywhere. Then 2: The way he’s asking a woman who has -looking for a relationship- on her profile to “have some fun” with him and see where it goes. Just say “hey I want to waste your … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 02:33 AM |
| 33 | Don’t provide him with the blueprint of your “dream man.” You’re giving someone the roadmap to hurt you or another unsuspecting woman. Notice how he instantly backpedaled trying to shape his answer to mirror what I might be looking for? Nope. Not telling you lol. Blocked.I also think a lot of ZVM know deep down that they don’t have their resources, intelligence, maturity, or personality game strong enough to offer much to a high value woman other than dick. They choose be casual because they know that all they can provide is casual. But instead of being honest about their inability to embark on a high value relationship, they want to bring you down to their level hoping you’re enough of a pick me to accept the ✨opportunity ✨ to audition for a relationship with h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 12:04 AM |
| 33 | Don’t provide him with the blueprint of your “dream man.” You’re giving someone the roadmap to hurt you or another unsuspecting woman. Notice how he instantly backpedaled trying to shape his answer to mirror what I might be looking for? Nope. Not telling you lol. Blocked.Holy shit. Just when I think I’ve discovered the depths of ZVM depravity, they never fail to show me that the bar does indeed get even lower | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 11:29 PM |
| 82 | Don’t provide him with the blueprint of your “dream man.” You’re giving someone the roadmap to hurt you or another unsuspecting woman. Notice how he instantly backpedaled trying to shape his answer to mirror what I might be looking for? Nope. Not telling you lol. Blocked.😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 07:56 PM |
| 55 | Don’t provide him with the blueprint of your “dream man.” You’re giving someone the roadmap to hurt you or another unsuspecting woman. Notice how he instantly backpedaled trying to shape his answer to mirror what I might be looking for? Nope. Not telling you lol. Blocked.Facts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 07:19 PM |
| 68 | Don’t provide him with the blueprint of your “dream man.” You’re giving someone the roadmap to hurt you or another unsuspecting woman. Notice how he instantly backpedaled trying to shape his answer to mirror what I might be looking for? Nope. Not telling you lol. Blocked.Yes this is me on a dating app. I already had an idea what he’d likely say when I asked him about casual so I decided to make it an FDS field report. The “chance” was never given and I instantly unmatched him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 07:12 PM |
| 186 | Don’t provide him with the blueprint of your “dream man.” You’re giving someone the roadmap to hurt you or another unsuspecting woman. Notice how he instantly backpedaled trying to shape his answer to mirror what I might be looking for? Nope. Not telling you lol. Blocked.Totally. He updated his profile after I swiped 😒 ...I also sometimes just like to watch them squirm 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 06:50 PM |
| 58 | Men seem unable to differentiate between criticism and hate.SO many times when I comment on another dating sub, some guy will say “well I see your post history and can tell you hate men.” I have never posted a single comment or topic “hating men”. Apparently... - Telling women to have high standards for themselves and those they interact with is hating men - Pointing out and drawing attention to harmful male behaviors is hating men - Refusing to date males who don’t meet your personal standards is hating men - Finding humor in sheer male audacity is hati… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 06:46 PM |
| 7 | Not only is it totally not listening to her but he’s also a complete Neanderthal and the women in the comments saying “he’s just being comfortable/My BF does that too lolz” make me sad that so many women settle for this. 🤮The sad thing is I don’t think it’s staged. Her account has several other videos of this barbarian in his natural state. Seems to be the typical ZVM couch creature. This definitely made me consider becoming a lesbian 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:03 AM |
| 6 | Not only is it totally not listening to her but he’s also a complete Neanderthal and the women in the comments saying “he’s just being comfortable/My BF does that too lolz” make me sad that so many women settle for this. 🤮I was stunned to see people saying that. Ewwww. So not normal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:00 AM |
| 12 | Not only is it totally not listening to her but he’s also a complete Neanderthal and the women in the comments saying “he’s just being comfortable/My BF does that too lolz” make me sad that so many women settle for this. 🤮🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 06:38 PM |
| 18 | Not only is it totally not listening to her but he’s also a complete Neanderthal and the women in the comments saying “he’s just being comfortable/My BF does that too lolz” make me sad that so many women settle for this. 🤮I’m sure it’s both 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 06:37 PM |
| 91 | Not only is it totally not listening to her but he’s also a complete Neanderthal and the women in the comments saying “he’s just being comfortable/My BF does that too lolz” make me sad that so many women settle for this. 🤮Omg YES. So many men and women were commenting about how this is so normal fur guys and a healthy and “funny” part of relationships. Hell. No. CLEAN YOUR ASS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 04:57 PM |
| 204 | Not only is it totally not listening to her but he’s also a complete Neanderthal and the women in the comments saying “he’s just being comfortable/My BF does that too lolz” make me sad that so many women settle for this. 🤮Textbook case of hearing vs listening. Sis has placed the bar in Satan’s basement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Learning to Allow Yourself Be Treated WellGirl, SAME. I honestly still have the drive to be the nice girl. It’s more than likely part of my wiring now since I did it for so long, but there were two books that gave me some helpful quotes to incorporate into my self talk while dating. They’re not totally FDS but, again, I got some useful nuggets which made them worth the read : Mars and Venus on a Date - - “Being open and responsive to a man’s offer to provide is in itself giving back to a man. A woman’s receptivity is a gift to him. “ “W… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:48 AM |
| 3 | Learning to Allow Yourself Be Treated WellI just keep engaging in the conversation as if I don’t even notice the bill came. Get comfortable with just letting it sit there for a while and let him address it first | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:14 AM |
| 61 | Learning to Allow Yourself Be Treated WellYep! I totally used to think “let me make it easier on him” until I realized I was shooting my self in the foot with every single relationship. Why on earth was I cheapening myself and making it EASIER TO ACCESS ME? And the moment the LVM realized I was easy pickings was the very same moment when they started taking me for granted. Forget that bs . Make it hard. The only men who complain about high maintenance women are the ones who can’t afford to maintain one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 07:24 AM |
| 11 | If most men can't help being attracted to teen girls "because of their biology", then most men should not get to be fathers.My ex NVM fiancé (porn addicted, prostitution using) were talking one about the word “nubile” and he literally said all nonchalantly “that’s why teenage girls can’t snuggle or sit on their dads laps after a certain point. Because they’ll get aroused” Um excuse me?!?! What tha what?!?! I told him he was absolutely disgusting if he though like that and he had the audacity to get mad at me for being grossed out and calling out his depravity. At that point I knew I could never reproduce with such a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:03 AM |
| 13 | Why I left my Fiancé. - Woman shares inspiring story of how she trusted her intuition, decided to she deserved better, and left her fiance (a man she had dated for nine years).This was me in 2014 only his addiction was alcohol and weed. 8 year relationship and 2 year engagement. I walked away and my only regret is not doing it sooner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 10:36 PM |
| 6 | Disney Posts Job Ad Looking For Strong, Fierce Women Who Are Also Obedient, Submissive, And Docile [satire]Nah, this is some “redwoke” reductionist attempt to throw a pity party for Carano. She was not fired for being strong and fierce instead of submissive. She was fired because Disney let her know many times that her social media posting habits do not represent their goals for their brand and if she wanted to remain connected to their brand she would need to adjust. She chose to continue her usual posting habits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 07:19 AM |
| 2 | I think I just lost some brain cells... this is possibly one of the dumbest things I’ve seen on the internet in a while💯That’s why it’s always best to leave an LVM ASAP when you realize his value. Don’t build him. Don’t “ride or die.” Because He’ll be quick to try to do a trade in when he tires of being with a pickmeisha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:19 PM |
| 12 | Divorce lawyer, married for 15 years. Met love of her life and got marry within a monthGlad she’s happy This positive outcome is exception not the rule It’s always safer to vet. Not sure how you can do that in one month So again, glad she’s happy but this ain’t FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 01:50 AM |
| 80 | Why do men waste our damn time?I’ve said this for a while now. I know some women love them, but good morning and good night texts in the early stages of talking are not high effort imo. Guys heard from the internet that “women go crazy for it” and now it has become the generic breadcrumb tactic of low effort men to keep as many options open as possible. It’s quick, easy, and gets them “nice guy” points. Often they’re just “good morning” copy pasting down their list of options. In an established relationship they can be sweet … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:59 AM |
| 53 | Ah yes, my mission in life.Yes, I felt that part. Women are often conditioned to shrink in the presence of men and slouch their shoulders, almost in unconscious submission. Meanwhile, men totally manspread on any couch or chair they’re presented with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 05:30 PM |
| 67 | Decided to dump boyfriend because he didn't even pay for my coffee on valentine's!!!Why wait til May? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 11:30 PM |
| 56 | MEN ALWAYS KNOW, ALWAYS!Exactly this. There’s all the stuff about women earning less, and doing more, etc. That’s true and fine but my reasons for not going 50/50 on dates are 1) I’m attracted to generosity and 2) because I’m looking for a relationship. I tell him this openly and honestly from the beginning. Now, some men say that they’re looking for a relationship when they’re really just looking to hook up. I can cOmMuNiCaTe what I want but hook up artists have learned to lie and say whatever is most likely to get th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:30 PM |
| 95 | If a man tells you he won't put in effort, he won't.Commercial holidays are my love language 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 01:13 AM |
| 63 | This but unironically. Go chop some wood, fix a car, lift some weights. Hell start a business with all the energy you spend hating and lurking women's spaces - your testosterone is getting lower and lower by the minute. At least then you'd have a chance scrote.My brother was dating with a woman with a 9 year old son. Sitting alone together in the living room, boy asked my brother “so are you the kind of man who knows how to do things for yourself or the kind that hires other men to do things for you?” My brother was floored. This queen is raising an HVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 09:33 PM |
| 7 | Just say you’re a broke lvm and go.That’s the part that proved to me it was staged. Any woman that pissed off isn’t going to go and get in the car with this dude let alone expect him to open the door 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 08:04 PM |
| 81 | Do not prepare him for his ‘forever home’I’ll never forget I was watching The Bachelor with my mom (she loves it🙄) this one time, and one of the rejected girls was being interviewed in the limo in tears and she said “he’s so full of shit! All the lies he told me. He said I taught him so much about love; oh bullshit! I’m tired of being the one who makes it easier for the next girl!” That last part really resonated with me. How many women literally train men for the next woman?!? Fuck that entirely. I’m not training or teaching or “build… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:54 PM |
| 222 | This but unironically. Go chop some wood, fix a car, lift some weights. Hell start a business with all the energy you spend hating and lurking women's spaces - your testosterone is getting lower and lower by the minute. At least then you'd have a chance scrote.Whenever I’m on a date with a man and he asks “can you cook?” I always say “yes I love to cook! Can you build a house?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:39 PM |
| 22 | How many instagram "models" does he need to follow? And yes they're porn-y chicks and on his regular profile which I refuse the follow. Tell me to fucking run.Huge turn off and red flag. Cut your losses now and peace out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 07:11 PM |
| 5 | “The guy I’m interested in hasn’t made a move for a date yet...” OK WELL HE ISN’T INTERESTED IN YOU. If he wanted to, he would.You need to hide the info showing what subreddit this came from | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 01:56 PM |
| 6 | NEVER answer this question! Low effort = low value. If he can’t even exert the minimal effort it takes to think up a question to ask about you, he’s not it, sis. Instant unmatch.Oh, by this point he was already a FDS field study 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 07:22 AM |
| 17 | Best Business / Life Tip I've Got: If an average white guy isn't doing it for free, neither should you!Omg this is GOLD! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 08:46 PM |
| 113 | NEVER answer this question! Low effort = low value. If he can’t even exert the minimal effort it takes to think up a question to ask about you, he’s not it, sis. Instant unmatch.I’m a professional dancer and his first comment was asking for private lessons.🙄 I get that all the time. Men think they’re so creative so I always shut that question down saying they can pay for lessons like everyone else. Then the equally cringe inducing “tell me about yourself.” AND then still unable to ask a real question after I addressed the bs.... nope. We’re done here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 07:42 PM |
| 15 | NEVER answer this question! Low effort = low value. If he can’t even exert the minimal effort it takes to think up a question to ask about you, he’s not it, sis. Instant unmatch.👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 07:36 PM |
| 28 | NEVER answer this question! Low effort = low value. If he can’t even exert the minimal effort it takes to think up a question to ask about you, he’s not it, sis. Instant unmatch.🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 06:50 PM |
| 13 | A LVM Always Outs himself eventuallyYeah, I definitely wouldn’t do this today but I think what happened over the lurking period is that I began to feel an empathetic connection with the woman and I became more invested in HER than i was in my ex. It was almost like when you’re watching a scary movie and yelling at the screen telling the young sorority girl not to go into the basement but she keeps going and you want her to be the one who survives in the end. I felt like I should’ve told her how he was still calling and texting me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 01:27 PM |
| 6 | A LVM Always Outs himself eventuallyYES!! I want to give the woman a hug because I empathize with her so much. A Dozen times over the course of my social media lurking I wanted to reach out and contact her. I wanted to warn her that he’s trash, don’t marry him, and tell her that he was still calling and texting me. But women often don’t take that well, so I didn’t. I really wish I did :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 01:20 PM |
| 39 | A LVM Always Outs himself eventuallyOMG part of how I knew they were so off and on is how for a year and a half he’d periodically call or text me some “hey Stranger.” “I miss you” “what happened to us?” bullshit out of the blue. It was clockwork like :oh look, he must be fighting with his fiancé again. This was pre FDS so I hadn’t blocked him at the time but I knew even then not to answer or respond. I was SO over him at that point that it didn’t affect me. I mostly found his pathetic life humorous at that point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 12:11 AM |
| 38 | A LVM Always Outs himself eventuallyTotally agreed! This isn’t my most recent ex. This was all years ago. The Pickme days of yesteryear. I just was reminded of it based on some posts I’ve seen on here recently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 11:46 PM |
| 18 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bedShe typed all of that out and decided the question to ask Reddit was “how do I ask him to stop without coming off weird and condescending?” Ummmm nah, sis. The appropriate question would be: Does anyone know a good divorce lawyer? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 03:30 PM |
| 300 | The number of comments saying that the man acted this way “because he really likes her”. 🙄 this is not about affection - what you’re seeing here is the very early stages of controlling and abusive behaviour.Hell the fuck no 😂. This is the guy who will be checking your car mileage to make sure you just went to the mall and then came right home. Run | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 12:36 PM |
| 2 | From another thread. And the scrotes are butthurt 😂. I don’t support playing games but when SO many men flat out LIE about what there looking for on OLD, this is what women are resorting to... smhThe woman is the gray text box | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 12:12 AM |
| 8 | From another thread. And the scrotes are butthurt 😂. I don’t support playing games but when SO many men flat out LIE about what there looking for on OLD, this is what women are resorting to... smhPerhaps there’s a better phrase for it. What would you call it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 11:10 PM |
| 49 | From another thread. And the scrotes are butthurt 😂. I don’t support playing games but when SO many men flat out LIE about what there looking for on OLD, this is what women are resorting to... smhI had a man create an ENTIRE FAKE LIFE and I didn’t find out the extreme depths of the deception until after having dating him for 8 months. Vetting isn’t fool proof, but it does cut the risk. Even so, some LVM are so experienced in their fuckboyery that the lies come effortlessly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 10:47 PM |
| 77 | From another thread. And the scrotes are butthurt 😂. I don’t support playing games but when SO many men flat out LIE about what there looking for on OLD, this is what women are resorting to... smhExactly. Lying males of OLD have driven this woman to become the very thing she doesn’t want. What she needs to learn is how to vet properly. Sigh. It’s crazy to think about how much women of the world need FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 10:11 PM |
| 134 | From another thread. And the scrotes are butthurt 😂. I don’t support playing games but when SO many men flat out LIE about what there looking for on OLD, this is what women are resorting to... smhBINGO. Talk less. Listen. Take mental note | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 10:08 PM |
| 102 | Imagine playing the cool girl for a guy who talks about you like this. This is not an appropriate Valentine's date and I hope she leaves before they get marriedAnd they say FDS is a “hate group” and put it in the same category as RedPill and MGTOW. Um no, we love HVM and seek to be high value women. We don’t come on this sub bragging about our zero value fiancée who isn’t a catch but he takes us to expensive dinners and we tolerate his company so why not marry him. That’s the opposite of FDS goals. WE ARE NOT THE SAME. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 02:35 AM |
| 29 | BF pretends to be happily married family man at work, then yells at his GF when she accidentally lets it slip to co-worker that they're not marriedThis is more than a 🚩 it’s a whole fucking red marching band 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 09:38 PM |
| 9 | Can we talk about Karen?No, That’s not exactly what the name was invented for. It was designed to fit a certain racist, bigoted, elitist, classist, entitled person who wields their privilege as a weapon. It has been hijacked by mainstream and has become muddled | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:01 PM |
| 3 | What do you think? Sounds nice to me.I needed this in my life two years ago | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 01:38 AM |
| 10 | Men are delusional. It’s SO rare to see a single man past 30 who has kept himself up physically.Trust, I don’t date them. I get what you’re trying to say and in a perfect world, people wouldn’t need to express distaste with someone’s appearance. We’d all just look the other way and keep it moving. But turn on the TV. Women are held to an entirely different physical standard than men. This is PATRIARCHY at its core. Men are accepted and almost expected to just not care about presenting themselves well. And they’re trained to believe that a man can be an entire slob and still bag a “10”. Unt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 07:15 PM |
| 7 | Men are delusional. It’s SO rare to see a single man past 30 who has kept himself up physically.Agreed. But I think most of what she wrote was meant to be sardonic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 05:54 PM |
| 9 | Men are delusional. It’s SO rare to see a single man past 30 who has kept himself up physically.Yes. I really can’t bring myself to try to look past body/fitness anymore. It’s just a different lifestyle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:43 PM |
| 17 | Men are delusional. It’s SO rare to see a single man past 30 who has kept himself up physically.Totally. Looks aren’t everything. But when the guys profile says “no catfish filters please”, “I don’t respond unless you have full body pics” or “first date we’re going swimming so I can see you without makeup” all while he’s got a receding hairline, paunchy jowls, and sun spots at the age of 32.... I can’t 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:39 PM |
| 30 | Men are delusional. It’s SO rare to see a single man past 30 who has kept himself up physically.Ugh. I hate that somehow this became a trend that guys actually try to flex. I do not find it cute. At. All. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Proceeded to unmatch him immediately 😂Oh ok. Gotcha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Proceeded to unmatch him immediately 😂Oops. My bad. I’ve read the handbook multiple times but obviously didn’t memorize it and don’t recall reading about posts like this. Are these posts not allowed? I see them often and find humor in them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 08:27 PM |
| 3 | “NoT lOokiNg fOr AnYtHiNg SeRiOuS” but leaves breadcrumbs to hook and manipulate hopeful pick me’s. Your pussy isn’t going to “evolve” a situationship into a commitment.Yup. He can totally select “something casual” but he knows that will limit his options. Scum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 10:38 PM |
| 3 | In the words of Amy Schumer “ I’m a 160 pounds and can catch a D whenever I want” Seriously though- it’s ok to have preferences but men can be so shallowThat’s not what you wrote though so the clarification is needed. Demoting a woman “unreal,” “childlike” or some freak of nature for something she don’t have total control over (bone structure) isn’t cool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, misogyny at its finest. When can we stop blaming women for everything? If you defend women and fight against slut shaming, you risk being silenced and called names.Yup. Even the religious ones can be trash, so I hear. And location/ culture I think plays a role too. 5 years ago, my brother met his wife on Plenty of Fish in LA so I tried it out thinking it was an app for serious dating. Welp...Not where I’m at apparently. It’s the bottom of the barrel 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 06:53 PM |
| 80 | Ladies, I present exhibit A - the Friendswithbenefitsasaurus. Abundant in urban areas, he is a common sub-species of the Loserasaurus. Complete disengagement is the only way to stay safe from this species.Right! He added the “do activities” part knowing that would make the offer more appealing to some desperate Pickmeisha 😂. Take notes ladies: Men will lie through their teeth to fuck you. Their audacity knows no bounds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 01:53 AM |
| 9 | How to be the HVW on a vacation with a boyfriend?I agree that erring on the side of cynicism is the best way to approach situations with men but I think this also might be a case of “doing” FDS vs. “being” FDS. She’s maybe a newbie or recovering Pickmeisha who still doesn’t have the principles ingrained yet so she is worried about messing up in unfamiliar territory where she has less control of the dates, interactions, etc. OP, I think you’re right to be careful about giving the wife experience at the girlfriend rate. One of the FDS approved b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 12:34 AM |
| 3 | I'm not for everybody, and I'm not trying to be. LVM's lazy ways get them none from me.I need this hat. Who here is an Etsy vendor? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 03:20 PM |
| 55 | HVMI hope they harvested some of the cells to clone him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 02:47 PM |
| 2 | I Did Everything Wrong. LITERALLY. Everything.Agreed. Honestly, my first thoughts when I found out were concern for her. “I hope she’s following The Rules and wont take any weak shit like I did,” I said to myself. I don’t necessarily think every LVM will always act low value. Just like women, I think a truly humble man can be made to see his mistakes and work to level up emotionally and become higher value. So hopefully his gestures of effort towards her are genuine and will last. I will say that she’s pretty young too though, 9 years young… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 02:39 PM |
| 9 | I Did Everything Wrong. LITERALLY. Everything.100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 10:09 PM |
| 37 | I Did Everything Wrong. LITERALLY. Everything.Absolutely. It’s the “in the meantime girl” LVM suck the life out of while they wait for the “dream girl” to pop up eyeroll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 09:03 PM |
| 10 | How to assess HVM vs LVM effort in communication?This is key. A man who is genuinely interested in you wants you to know it. He won’t be ambiguous. He won’t be hot and cold. He will declare his interest from the rooftops because he wants to be the one to secure you. His ego does not want you to pick another man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 08:04 PM |
| 1 | On why he asked for her instagran instead of her phone numberEww. I hate they guys who push for you to add them on socials. I never give them my social media unless I feel like it could go somewhere and I usually don’t even like to entertain that feeling for at least 2+ months. It’s kind of creepy having random dudes you matched with on an app suddenly having access to your whole life indefinitely. I just say “I don’t really use social media like that” and give them my number. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes I think to myself “It would be nice to be married” but then I see stuff like this and say to myself: “nah.”This 👆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 04:40 PM |
| 63 | Sometimes I think to myself “It would be nice to be married” but then I see stuff like this and say to myself: “nah.”They’re actually roasting the guy and telling her to leave him. Lol. The reaction was so negative that she felt the need to post a follow up video basically saying “he’s a good man and he does help me sometimes...” but no one was convinced 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 12:52 AM |
| 34 | Sometimes I think to myself “It would be nice to be married” but then I see stuff like this and say to myself: “nah.”It’s real. There’s a prank going around on tiktok where you say to your partner “I just think you could’ve be nicer to me” and record how they react. Is to see if your partners reaction is concerned, defensive, or dismissive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 12:49 AM |
| 29 | Sometimes I think to myself “It would be nice to be married” but then I see stuff like this and say to myself: “nah.”Right!!! Hell to the naw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 10:48 PM |
| 12 | 90DayFiance: Larissa- laughs at friend accusing her of taking advantage of Colt- she says- he lives with Mom, car has no ac, he’s not willing to give $200 a month allowance- what advantage? Yes Queen 😂❤️He’s LVM for sure but she ain’t a queen though 😬. They were both low value and she’s an entire mess. She’s leveled up her appearance now she needs to level up her behavior/personality/maturity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 03:05 PM |
| 39 | AKA, this man is forcing you to put up with his crappy LVM behavior before he can even consider you. Don’t do it.I just ghosted a guy like this. Wanted to do a series of “meet and greets” (jogging together) before going on an actual date because he “doesn’t want to invest in a date only for the woman to say she’s not interested afterwards because then it’s like that investment was for nothing.” Boy bye. If 50 bucks for a midrange dinner is too much of a financial loss for you, then you don’t need to be on the market right now. Next | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 03:02 AM |
| 5 | I feel proud that this kind of stuff is being spread more on tiktok and girls in the comments are saying they never want to talk to men again/have always felt uncomfy with this stuff but didn’t know whyTrue | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 02:09 AM |
| 22 | I feel proud that this kind of stuff is being spread more on tiktok and girls in the comments are saying they never want to talk to men again/have always felt uncomfy with this stuff but didn’t know whyFetishizing in that way can definitely be a symptom/manifestation of a pedo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 02:09 AM |
| 42 | I feel proud that this kind of stuff is being spread more on tiktok and girls in the comments are saying they never want to talk to men again/have always felt uncomfy with this stuff but didn’t know whyI agree with everything except the “thin” part. In an attempt to push back the body shamers, full figured women embraced the “real women have curves” adage and while it is coming from a place of good intentions, many women are naturally thin and don’t deserve to be made to feel like they aren’t a grown woman or their partner likes them because he is a pedophile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Tiana is my favorite Disney princess and forever a life mood! Get your coin, sis.I guess we can say she technically becomes a real one in the end but, yeah, I sooo feel ya. Smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 02:51 AM |
| 4 | Tiana is my favorite Disney princess and forever a life mood! Get your coin, sis.I knew someone was gonna throw Cinderella out there. Lol. Forced to stay home, wear rags, and clean the house by your jealous step family is forced labor, but it’s not technically a job. Cinderella was born wealthy but was downgraded to a kept maid/servant after her father died. She was still provided for. So, when Cinderella gets the prince, everyone is happy because she is returned to her proper station and doesn’t have to work anymore. That’s not really the same vibe as a poor woman, from a p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 02:46 AM |
| 20 | Don’t play hard to get. Actually be hard to getHere here. And yet, I consider it less “worrying about men’s opinions” and more so understanding how men think so women are equipped with enough knowledge to make decisions that benefit them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 07:47 PM |
| 62 | Tiana is my favorite Disney princess and forever a life mood! Get your coin, sis.I support Tiana as a matter of solidarity but why does the only Disney princess with a job have to be the black one? The “Strong black woman” archetype is so played out. The Princess and the Frog is the definition of micro aggression and a clear example of implicit racial bias. Edited for early morning typos 🤦🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/20 12:54 PM |
| 2 | “Why You Should Look for a Generous Man”Oops. Posted this response to the wrong comment. You’re absolutely right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 11:45 PM |
| 0 | “Why You Should Look for a Generous Man”That’s expressly mentioned in the article | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 03:35 PM |
| 13 | “Why You Should Look for a Generous Man”💯 I like how the article talks about all of the manifestations of generosity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Oh, so you thought you could hit me up last minute and try to make a “date” out of my errands? Enjoy being “free”cuz I’m not asking you out 😂At that point I already knew I was done and was going to roast him on FDS so I just wanted to see how much comedy he’d provide. And he didn’t disappoint 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:42 PM |
| 33 | Oh, so you thought you could hit me up last minute and try to make a “date” out of my errands? Enjoy being “free”cuz I’m not asking you out 😂Right!? 😂If this is what he regresses to after a pretty good first date, I’m actually glad though. I prefer men show their true low value sooner rather than later. Saves me time lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 01:48 AM |
| 16 | Oh, so you thought you could hit me up last minute and try to make a “date” out of my errands? Enjoy being “free”cuz I’m not asking you out 😂Ughhhhhhhhhgg. Why, Pick Me’s? Why?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 12:38 AM |
| 16 | Oh, so you thought you could hit me up last minute and try to make a “date” out of my errands? Enjoy being “free”cuz I’m not asking you out 😂We’ve only had one date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 12:36 AM |
| 15 | Oh, so you thought you could hit me up last minute and try to make a “date” out of my errands? Enjoy being “free”cuz I’m not asking you out 😂Oh not at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 11:30 PM |
| 44 | Oh, so you thought you could hit me up last minute and try to make a “date” out of my errands? Enjoy being “free”cuz I’m not asking you out 😂Exactly. And the former Pickmeisha me would’ve thought “maybe he’s just shy and needs a push. I’ll suggest something.” bull shit. Men know how to get what they want when they want something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 11:29 PM |
| 95 | Oh, so you thought you could hit me up last minute and try to make a “date” out of my errands? Enjoy being “free”cuz I’m not asking you out 😂Never will I ever again set up or initiate plans with a guy who isn’t my boyfriend. I’d rather be single forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 10:56 PM |
| 58 | Oh, so you thought you could hit me up last minute and try to make a “date” out of my errands? Enjoy being “free”cuz I’m not asking you out 😂I don’t accept last minute offers for low effort dates and it’s pretty standard FDS. If he knew he would be free all day Saturday why is he only now trying to see me? If he REALLY cared he would’ve secured my time before hand. And accepting such a low effort “date” is not setting your self up as a woman of high value. When men want to impress you they start off with the bar high. Placing the bar so low early on is a bad sign | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 10:43 PM |
| 31 | His lives with his parents and has for years.So the internet is making direct roasts on me now? Well done FBI | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | When ever a guy age 30+ says “Ive never been in love” it is a huge red flag (for me). Usually he has commitment issues or has created a fantasy relationship in his mind that reality will never match up to. NEXT🤮 How sick and depraved | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 07:59 PM |
| 3 | When ever a guy age 30+ says “Ive never been in love” it is a huge red flag (for me). Usually he has commitment issues or has created a fantasy relationship in his mind that reality will never match up to. NEXTI think the idea of understanding your partner’s love language is legit. The problem is most men never even read the actual book, saw some thing on the internet, and equate physical touch with “drop everything and do me.” They’re also often only concerned about their own love languages and not their partner’s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 03:48 PM |
| 14 | When ever a guy age 30+ says “Ive never been in love” it is a huge red flag (for me). Usually he has commitment issues or has created a fantasy relationship in his mind that reality will never match up to. NEXTThat’s my addition 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 04:02 AM |
| 1 | This dude I just started talking to seemed promising til I saw this posted on his Instagram. Gross and false 😂 Yeah...I declined a second dateYup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 11:45 PM |
| 4 | This dude I just started talking to seemed promising til I saw this posted on his Instagram. Gross and false 😂 Yeah...I declined a second dateOh honey I didn’t even consider a second date. I gave him nothing and dropped off the face of the earth. Im such a hoe lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 01:49 PM |
| 36 | This dude I just started talking to seemed promising til I saw this posted on his Instagram. Gross and false 😂 Yeah...I declined a second dateExactly. I am a giver in relationships. I love to shower my partner with affection, warmth, and care and honestly giving that out for “free” has been the single biggest contributing factor to the trust issues I now have. Being the “nice” girl who gives and gives with nothing given in return left me miserable in every relationship I ever had. In fact I found FDS after one of those failed pickmeisha relationships. He has to cherish you first, ladies. You cant love him into loving you. NEVER will I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 01:48 PM |
| 2 | 4chan scrote creates a rating scale for women... of beautiful women who someone are not up to this man's standards...So, so white | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 06:12 PM |
| 11 | 4chan scrote creates a rating scale for women... of beautiful women who someone are not up to this man's standards...And also biased by whiteness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 06:09 PM |
| 8 | How would you react if your boyfriend wouldn't go down on you unless you shaved? Would you break up with him? Or would you consider shaving a small courtesy you're willing to grant?Yeah I thinks it’s less to to with pedophilia and more so the fact that it’s the current western porn trend. Sadly, most boys and I’d wager girls too first explore other bodies through porn. People who uses porn heavily get attached to that aesthetic (this includes male circumcision). Au naturale was the thing in the porn of the 60’s/70’s, then the Dorito triangle, then the air strip, now bare. As with all trends it will likely cycle back in a few decades | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 05:00 AM |
| 12 | And that is on spotting red flags and not ignoring themIt’s affectionately called the “stank walk” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 05:42 AM |
| 1 | “Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly but a woman is. After sex, a man IS thinking clearly but a woman isn’t” : Post-Nut Clarity😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 08:46 PM |
| 1 | “Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly but a woman is. After sex, a man IS thinking clearly but a woman isn’t” : Post-Nut ClarityYeah, I still think we’re mostly talking about two different things. I’m not talking about any male justification or a magical moment; merely about how men THINK about sex before it and after. Just because someone thinks a certain way doesn’t make it true thought it does become their reality and women in the dating world need to know what men THINK. Knowing and understanding how men tend to think about early sex is in no way justifying LVM behavior, it’s arming women against it. And knowing and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 08:04 PM |
| 1 | “Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly but a woman is. After sex, a man IS thinking clearly but a woman isn’t” : Post-Nut ClarityOkay. Now I’m curious. So what you’re saying is: you think that when a weak minded/low value man sleeps with a woman and then immediately afterwards decides that he was kind of just in it for the sex and got all that he really wanted from her and is no longer interested in pursuing a relationship with her when he originally WAS interested in one is sexist and misogynistic? Or is it : you think that telling women to be aware that some weak/low value men out will immediately realize that they are … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 04:57 PM |
| 6 | “Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly but a woman is. After sex, a man IS thinking clearly but a woman isn’t” : Post-Nut ClarityDid you read the post I linked? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 01:02 AM |
| 1 | “Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly but a woman is. After sex, a man IS thinking clearly but a woman isn’t” : Post-Nut ClarityThat’s a reduction to absurdity. No one ever said that lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 01:01 AM |
| 7 | “Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly but a woman is. After sex, a man IS thinking clearly but a woman isn’t” : Post-Nut ClarityFirst: I never said men don’t also release oxytocin Second, it’s funny that you ask me for sources while you cite mra/Incel websites Third, since you want me to do the research for you here are a few articles you can look at: studies on PCD in males Here’s another interesting read Fourth: what part of “women should wait as longer than the first few dates to sleep with a man so she can vet his intentions ” is problematic for you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 12:59 AM |
| 11 | “Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly but a woman is. After sex, a man IS thinking clearly but a woman isn’t” : Post-Nut Clarity😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 10:43 PM |
| 3 | “Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly but a woman is. After sex, a man IS thinking clearly but a woman isn’t” : Post-Nut ClarityAhhh ok there’s the disconnect. Yeah that’s not what I meant at all. Maybe I’m searching for another term | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 08:07 PM |
| 35 | “Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly but a woman is. After sex, a man IS thinking clearly but a woman isn’t” : Post-Nut ClarityThis is what I was getting at. Don’t give that power away to some dude who bought you a couple of dinners | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 08:06 PM |
| 103 | “Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly but a woman is. After sex, a man IS thinking clearly but a woman isn’t” : Post-Nut ClarityAre they really that good at it though? Or are women just conditioned to be pickmeisha about it. This was a huge revelation I had personally. I looked back and practically every guy I thought “played me” was showing me so much of who he was all along but I was actually playing myself going for it. Just thinking out loud | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 05:50 PM |
| 16 | “Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly but a woman is. After sex, a man IS thinking clearly but a woman isn’t” : Post-Nut ClarityTrue true. But I think we’re talking about two different things then. Or maybe the same phrase used differently. what I’m talking about when I write “post nut clarity” isn’t about being distracted or needing to have sex often. That’s why I wrote “what did you read.” Science says that men have a drop in testosterone after sex which causes them to think less about that chase they were so interested in before. Science also says women release hella oxytocin after sex which makes them tend to want hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 05:47 PM |
| 22 | “Before sex, a man isn’t thinking clearly but a woman is. After sex, a man IS thinking clearly but a woman isn’t” : Post-Nut ClarityHuh? I don’t know what you read. It’s not an excuse that justifies shitty behavior. I’m talking about hormones here not feelings. Simple point being that women need delay sex, vet potential partners, and take care of themselves and their own emotions and never expect a guy to care about them early on. Don’t sleep with a guy early is basic FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 05:00 PM |
| 38 | A lesson from Cassie, who majorly upgraded: Don't let your boyfriend keep you from your husband- when they know they knowI think a lot of people in the comments are not adjusting for age. Sure, a 22 year old might want to date someone for 5 years before getting engaged but a 30 something thinks and moves differently. By that age you are more likely to know yourself. I also think it’s funny how people arbitrarily set “X number of years is the time when you really know someone.” Lol. Who knows what deep experiences they might have shared in that short time of a year? And besides, you can be with a guy 30 years and h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 01:48 PM |
| 10 | What was the weirdest thing that led you to realize you were dating an LVM? Or amusing final straw caused you to dump an LVM?All the signs over the course of 3 months: He told me he was visiting his daughter for Valentine’s Day but a month later in causal conversation he mentioned he hasn’t seen his daughter since Christmas... - I stayed because I figured it was still early and I was seeing other people too I found Bobby pins and hair ties in his bathroom. When I asked about it he said his mom was in town visiting I saw what looked like a lipstick stain on his pillow. He said he’d had a nosebleed I saw a wrapper condo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 05:15 PM |
| 6 | What was the weirdest thing that led you to realize you were dating an LVM? Or amusing final straw caused you to dump an LVM?🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 04:40 PM |
| 2 | I was such a pickmeisha in my last relationship and i was BLINDThats kind of what I meant. There would have to be a new normal after this. One of carefully calculated and rationed affection. Perpetual vetting, in a sense. I myself wouldn’t want to do it either. Better to just have a guy who’s a natural at chasing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 04:30 PM |
| 8 | Men hate women who date interraciallyYes that’s how it’s supposed to be, and yet I only know because I lived through it honey. Families are often accepting of intermarrying Asians, whites, Arabs, etc but there’s tons of anti black sentiment. But that’s great that the communities you move through are open minded in that regard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 04:17 PM |
| 14 | I was such a pickmeisha in my last relationship and i was BLINDThe book “Fuck Him” has some good advice for this situation. In brief, a high value woman doesn’t nag because nagging is ineffective and bounces off guys like it’s nothing. So the HVW reinforces all good behavior and ignores all bad behavior, in this case; low effort. This does NOT mean you ignore it by pretending you’re ok with it. Instead, she ignores his bad behavior by: - A. Giving him less attention - B. Seeing him less - C. Not going out of her way to cater his needs - D. Spending more tim… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 04:04 PM |
| 21 | Men hate women who date interraciallyThis is a myth. Racism and colorism are HUGE in MANY Muslim communities. It’s even more problematic because people don’t like to acknowledge it exists | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 02:47 PM |
| 1 | She gets itShe’s on YouTube: School of Affluence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 12:42 AM |
| 2 | The Male Pick Me: Nice Guys Can Be Just As Low Value as ChadMic dropped | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 08:11 PM |
| 2 | The Male Pick Me: Nice Guys Can Be Just As Low Value as ChadOmg yes!! He’d say “you should watch xyz on Netflix, I really think it’s right up your alley” all the time. Dude. You. Don’t. Know. Me. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 08:09 PM |
| 6 | The Male Pick Me: Nice Guys Can Be Just As Low Value as ChadI get what you’re saying but I’m not really talking about demanding. Kind of like the women who always say “idk what do you wanna do?” It’s more so the confidence a man has to take initiative rather than seeming on the fence about something. There’s something about that that’s very masculine and attractive to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 03:58 PM |
| 24 | The goalPERIOD! I swear, those ho’s are the ones always the ones acting up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 01:14 PM |
| 19 | The Male Pick Me: Nice Guys Can Be Just As Low Value as ChadYes! I bet if I said to him today let’s be an official couple he’d say “yeah okay! ” knowing hardly anything about me or if we’re truly compatible at all. Major turn off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 11:49 AM |
| 34 | The Male Pick Me: Nice Guys Can Be Just As Low Value as ChadStage 5 clinger for sure. It definitely feels creepy to the point of potentially being scary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 11:39 AM |
| -1 | women aren’t attracted to moneyNever said women couldn’t provide for themselves. Where did you read that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 01:13 PM |
| 0 | women aren’t attracted to moneyBiologically, the human child is designed to be reared by more than one parent. Why do you think a baby zebra can run within hours of birth and feed itself with months while a human child can’t really run for or barely feed itself for 5 years? lol. A woman has always looked for men who had BOTH the physical traits to produce strong offspring (attractive) AND to protect her and the child long enough for it to survive into maturation (provide). When a woman is attracted to a man’s resources it’s f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 07:20 AM |
| 13 | If he’s hits you with that “promise ring” nonsense...Exactly. So many men ask “can you cook?” Homie, can you??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 07:34 PM |
| 5 | If he’s hits you with that “promise ring” nonsense...Some guys give them to girls they aren’t ready to get engaged to yet but to promise a future commitment 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 07:33 PM |
| -1 | Left him at the cafeWhat’s shit posting? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 03:01 PM |
| 6 | Left him at the cafeI’m proud of myself for leaving. Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 10:23 PM |
| -23 | Left him at the cafeSocial distance was and is possible at this cafe, at the dentist’s office I go to which remains open , public parks, the press conferences on TV, and other places. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 09:58 PM |
| -1 | Left him at the cafeThanks sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 09:55 PM |
| -26 | Left him at the cafeThere are a lot of assumptions here. I trust that the leadership in the city where the cafe is located is doing their diligence in following CDC recommendations hence the the open air cafe being open in the first place. I’m sure you don’t know where this is and what other safe guards are in place but it’s okay sis. Do you. I guess we’re just throwing “low value” around for everything we disagree with now. Smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 09:52 PM |
| 88 | Left him at the cafeOmg this is gold 😂 Make him feel the full shame of his lame, sorry-excuse-for-a-man/self | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 09:25 PM |
| 121 | Left him at the cafeI thought about it but i had to pass him to exit and I wanted to buy myself some buffer time. Gotta stay safe. Don’t want a random guy to get aggressive and follow me to my car. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 09:14 PM |
| 20 | Didn’t expect this to hit so close to home.The audacity of these LVM never ceases to amaze me. this comment is so typical. Smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 01:07 PM |
| 8 | Ryan Reynolds: LVM?I’m not a fan of his but as far as the quote goes, I think that’s the way all parents feel. He said it in a comedic way, but I’m sure she’d save the children over him as well 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 07:52 PM |
| 10 | How long (in terms of dating) would you give someone to propose to you?I’m over 25 and have had a few relationships under my belt including an 8 year relationship where we got engaged at year 5 but I called off the engagement and the relationship. That having been said, I know for a fact that longer isn’t necessarily better. I wasted my time hoping he’d become the guy I wanted to be with. He never did. I’m smarter now and dating strategically. So, if we’re not talking future potential by 1 year, then we need to see other people. A proposal at 1 to 1.5 years is reas… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 09:33 PM |
| 9 | What to do if you slipped up and appeared too available , next steps to take to draw back/take back control? How to get him to chase you over text ?Getting him to chase you for a prolonged period via text is difficult if he’s never met you in person. He’s likely casually texting several other women and that gets time consuming so he focuses seriously on whichever seems most high value (or whoever’s easiest if he’s just looking to hit and quit). Things that inspire a man to chase: Scarcity: things that are rare and difficult to get are interesting. Things that are easy are boring. make yourself scarce. If he ever texts you again don’t respon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 05:34 PM |
| 13 | Remember, FDS is against BumbleThis is what I do. My “opening line” is a wave emoji. If he likes my profile he can proceed to start a conversation. In my area and age group bumble tends to have more young professionals and fewer fuckboys than the others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 02:49 AM |
| 4 | Sounds about right.L. O. L. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 02:24 AM |
| 10 | Midsommar -- A Leveling Up FableYes I read that. Movie hit me in all of my feels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 09:22 PM |
| 81 | Midsommar -- A Leveling Up Fable“Do you feel held by him? Does he feel like home to you?” That one line shook me. Like, literally, my jaw dropped wide open in the theatre from the truth of it. My bad breakups of the past flashed before my eyes in that brief moment and I knew they were doomed almost from the beginning. I don’t often take advice from horror movies, but I now know that ANY relationship is over when you can’t honestly answer yes to those two simple questions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 05:02 PM |
| 10 | Never going to date a broke man ever again.It’s too funny when they get so butt hurt they have to take the time dm you. Boy bye Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 10:17 PM |
| 13 | Never going to date a broke man ever again.Oh he does need it, just not with you because he didn’t care about you. The same way my ex didn’t really care about me. Let me clarify: men want to provide for the woman they really want. When he finds a woman he really wants to impress, he’ll pull out all the stops. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 06:02 PM |
| 28 | Never going to date a broke man ever again.A broke man will never be truly happy with you because the very fact that you need to support him financially emasculates him. He will be frustrated with the relationship and won’t know why. Then you’ll break up and he’ll find a woman he can support. A man NEEDS to provide. It’s biological. This is why a woman cannot give, give, give. My last BF was on the struggle bus. But he was hot and nice so I said let’s see what happens. The first time he asked me for gas money I should’ve said no but I fi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 04:28 PM |
| 121 | ......QUEEN SHIT!!! I bet that response shook his entire world! I can picture the gears and circuits in his brain exploding as he struggled to compute what just happened. “I gave her a really nice compliment but she ...refused.... me...She refused me? ME?!?!.... “ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 01:58 AM |
| 1 | What do you do about pubic hair? How does it affect your dating life?The feeling after a fresh wax is amazing. During; not so much lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 05:39 PM |
| 20 | FDS RESCUE MISSIONThat’s EXACTLY what I commented | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 05:33 PM |
| 8 | Mark is hardworking and straightforward ladies! He wants a woman who values all this effort and hard work he’s is putting into communication😂😂Right?!? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 04:42 PM |
| 27 | Mark is hardworking and straightforward ladies! He wants a woman who values all this effort and hard work he’s is putting into communication😂😂Oh it was already a pity swipe on my end anyway | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 04:41 PM |
| 58 | Mark is hardworking and straightforward ladies! He wants a woman who values all this effort and hard work he’s is putting into communication😂😂On bumble the girl has to message first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:01 PM |
| 58 | Mark is hardworking and straightforward ladies! He wants a woman who values all this effort and hard work he’s is putting into communication😂😂I don’t even know, sis lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:00 PM |
| 89 | Dating: when I was single amount of times a guy would 'schedule' a date but not follow up was incredible. Low effort and not worthy of a second chance.Better three months than three years. Good for you! Take out the trash early. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 10:51 AM |
| 25 | Lazy communication from OLD. Left on read.I loathe these words. The lowest of the low effort | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 09:45 PM |
| 21 | Dude Blocks and Ghosts Poor PickMe IMMEDIATELY After First Date Sex. She Has No Idea Why...smhExactly. I’ll admit it: I’m a hopeless romantic and would absolutely love it if tomorrow I could just give my heart openly fully to the guy I’m most into right now, invest myself in him 100%, move in with him so I can see him every day, blah blah blah... But this isn’t Disney and a lot of men are trash. So I keep my guard up and make him reveal his worth. You can’t trust any old guy to look after your heart so we have to be the ones to look out for OURSELVES | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 03:57 PM |
| 31 | Another night on OKCupid.....Is there no hope for the future?!?! Sigh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 11:59 AM |
| 15 | What’s Your Instant Red Flag/Trigger Word In OLD or Texting?Omg this! I always just send the same same exact ones I’ve posted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 01:03 PM |
| 14 | What’s Your Instant Red Flag/Trigger Word In OLD or Texting?Woman: mentions mundane, everyday topic LVM: YOu WaNt SeKkSss?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 01:02 PM |
| 14 | What’s Your Instant Red Flag/Trigger Word In OLD or Texting?My jaw is on the floor!!! I would’ve replied with a million laughing emojis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 06:39 AM |
| 42 | What’s Your Instant Red Flag/Trigger Word In OLD or Texting?It’s the cool new urban way to say “to chill” and is quickly becoming the euphemism for “ let’s hookup first and then after that I’ll decide if I’ll date you.. I most likely won’t though ” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 03:22 AM |
| 34 | What’s Your Instant Red Flag/Trigger Word In OLD or Texting?Omg there was this guy from bumble who started calling me “hun” the first day texting. Then for the next few days it was “hun” this, “hun” that every text....so weird. Lady boner was immediately gone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 02:23 AM |
| 15 | Haven’t even talked to this guy for a whole day and he constantly called me overbearing pet names. Asked him to tone it down but this “nice guy” couldn’t handle it. Tells me goodbye then gets mad when I don’t answer his spam calls or textsWhat a nice guy! 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 01:51 AM |
| 72 | Blocked!!His phone didn’t die sis. A”mental day” isn’t even a real excuse or reason. He simply got caught up doing something else that was more important to him or made other plans that were more fun and he didn’t want to lose face. #next | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 01:28 AM |
| 14 | A Word on "He's Just Not That Into You"I don’t find the two books to be similar at all. HJNTIY isn’t really about strategy while The Rules is literally “rules.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 05:07 PM |
| 38 | Daily Reminder that "High Status" Does Not Equal "High Value": 83-year-old right-wing billionaire Silvio Berlusconi (who once paid a 17-year-old prostitute for sex) replaces 34-year-old GF with even younger 30-year-old GF - and if he could get away with it, he would replace her with a 16-year-old...From the article: “It said a "deep friendship" remained between him and Ms Pascale - but their 12-year relationship was over. Ms Pascale, 34, who once said in an interview that she asked Mr Berlusconi to marry her every day, told La Repubblicca she was "astonished" by the announcement. "I will hold him dear forever. I wish him all the happiness in the world and hope he finds someone who will take care of him as I have," she said.” That’s a whole lot of pick me shit. No wonder he left. Forever gi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 01:16 PM |
| 41 | Gorgeous picture of a HVW and her HVM husband.Please. He’s a grown man not a toddler. If he separated from his family that was his own choice. Way to blame the woman. Typical “jezebel” stereotype. Maybe they’re a bunch of toxic assholes who need to be separated from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 01:15 AM |
| 3 | what do you do with a guy who keeps chatting but wont ask you out?This is one of the things I hate most about OLD: the forever pen pal dude. He is the definition of low value. Any man worth having knows that the ball os in his court to set up a date. Any man worth having will want to meet you face to face sooner rather than later. If he’s not making a date he doesn’t want to. Start taking 12-24 hours to reply. Divest I’m him and talk to other guys. He’ll either pursue and ask for a date or slow fade. Either way you win | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 12:34 AM |
| 38 | Getting engaged within a year of dating?I dated my ex fiancé for 7 years and he proved to be an asshole. I’ve come to learn that years knowing someone means absolutely nothing. Some couples are blissfully married after knowing each other 7 months. There is no way to predict the end game. The best you can do is vet early and never stop vetting. Vet him every. damn. day. Whether you’re dating a week or married 25 years he needs to know you’d walk in a heartbeat the minute he demonstrates low value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 08:11 PM |
| 29 | Cool girl shit on female dominated subsI spat out my drink 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 10:37 PM |
| 11 | He asked for a second date and apparently my sentence about planning it was filled with “pressure” 🙄Girl 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 06:16 PM |
| 7 | How do you women feel about uncircumcised penises?I wouldn’t call a natural biological adaptation “extra skin.” It’s the skin that was meant to be there but has become culturally unnecessary in some groups | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Why oh why do they do this dance? Just say a day 🤦🏽♀️ I hate having to tell a “man” when to take me out. It is much more confident and attractive for a man to name his dates and then let the woman choose from those... am I asking too muchExactly 😂!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 05:56 PM |
| 4 | Should Dates Be Kept Short After Exclusivity?That paragraph seems to be about first dates which is a somewhat different scenario | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 04:04 PM |
| 79 | Whyyy??? Whyyy would I read this type of book written by, I assume, a man??Some of my favorite dating “help” books are by men. There are male authors giving out insider information and ADMITTING that men are never truly fulfilled in a relationship unless they worked hard in pursuit of it and are allowed to provide. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 11:33 PM |
| 7 | Have anyone seen this? What do you think? The comments are full of FDS advice.Omg! She’s everything!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 04:40 PM |
| 20 | Have anyone seen this? What do you think? The comments are full of FDS advice.Not in so many words. Say something like “Hey, I’m a single girl and I’m enjoying all the freedom that comes with it... Until someone amazing makes an exclusive commitment worth my while” No need to go further than that. He’ll know exactly what you mean and he’s likely doing the same thing. If he gets angry; NEXT- you’re not married. Now, if he wants to take you off the market he’ll likely get quiet and make a mental note that there may be other contenders in the ring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 04:39 PM |
| 4 | The third time he’s come crawling back offering nothing more than the audacity. It’s the truth ladies: guys only want you when you don’t want them. The only guy who one tries harder than a true HVM is a LVM who’s been nexted; their egos simply can’t handle it 😂That’s great that it helps you! For me, personally I only block people when I feel like maintaining a connection with them is toxic or I’m worried I’ll reach out to them in a moment of weakness. Otherwise I can’t even be bothered with the process of going through my phone settings to block. Eventually they’ll realize I’m not responding or just trolling them and in the meantime I have fun enjoying the shit show | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 12:35 PM |
| 3 | The third time he’s come crawling back offering nothing more than the audacity. It’s the truth ladies: guys only want you when you don’t want them. The only guy who one tries harder than a true HVM is a LVM who’s been nexted; their egos simply can’t handle it 😂Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 04:23 AM |
| 41 | Before you get deeply invested, find out if you’re his ideal TYPE. What posters were on his wall as a teenager? Who does he admire? Stay WOKE ladies!Hell, so do I. I wouldn’t say I have a strict “type” but if he ain’t tall with an athletic build I’m hardly looking in his direction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 12:52 AM |
| 19 | The third time he’s come crawling back offering nothing more than the audacity. It’s the truth ladies: guys only want you when you don’t want them. The only guy who one tries harder than a true HVM is a LVM who’s been nexted; their egos simply can’t handle it 😂Blocking would indicate I’m bothered lol. I literally don’t care what I text him and what he texts me because it’s a non-starter. He’s pure comedy for me. I like a good laugh during the day and blocking is way less fun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 10:15 PM |
| 2 | How long do you date a perfectly good “plate” you know you’re not romantically interested in?Amen to that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 10:30 PM |
| 1 | How long do you date a perfectly good “plate” you know you’re not romantically interested in?I love that book! It’s is actually why I even gave this guy a chance. I’ve always been attracted to the nice looking guys but many turn out to be fuckboys. I realize that, but the problem is I’m a bit traumatized. Six years ago, I realized I did not find ex fiancé sexually attractive. He could tell and the feelings of dissatisfaction led to me calling it off and ending an 8 year relationship. I have zero regrets and learned that never want to be in that kind of relationship again :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 06:10 PM |
| 10 | How long do you date a perfectly good “plate” you know you’re not romantically interested in?Yeah I’m the opposite. I feel physical attraction from the start or not at all :/ Only have I had someone grow on me and it was my best guy friend I had known for 6 years. I’d hate to wait that long to feel it for someone I was dating... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 07:37 AM |
| 1 | If I’m sleeping over at his place, even without sex, do I seem low value?Noted. And totally a possibility. I can not control what any guy ever does; only what I do. Even if i know him fir 25 years at that. My 110% comment was in reference to the idea that I could “accidentally have sex” with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 12:30 PM |
| 3 | If I’m sleeping over at his place, even without sex, do I seem low value?Fair assessment based on what I posted. For brevity sake and because I was specifically worried about the sleepovers I did not include that he has took me on three very nice dinner dates our first few meetings. First one we met and after that he picked me up each time, paid everything, drove everywhere, etc. Im not making excuses for his additional low value actions. Just pointing it out. I love that script! Thanks for that. We’ll see. I have several other guys in dating rotation but this one wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 09:05 PM |
| 1 | If I’m sleeping over at his place, even without sex, do I seem low value?Any thoughts on how to proceed going forward? Is it even worth it after 1 week of high effort plus 2 weeks of low effort or should I just throw the whole man away and start fresh? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 07:53 PM |
| 2 | If I’m sleeping over at his place, even without sex, do I seem low value?Good point! Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 12:41 PM |
| 2 | If I’m sleeping over at his place, even without sex, do I seem low value?Thanks for your reply and confirming my gut reaction. I agree that it’s seeming like a lot and this fast track to familiarity can easily head towards boredom which is why my alarms were ringing in the first place. I’m definitely pulling back on the amount I see him moving forward. As far as sex though, I 110% know that it won’t happen until my timeline/objectives are met lol. I’m firm in that area and have been my whole life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 12:40 PM |
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