coloneljackson Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	How to retain attraction through texting?		coloneljackson	/r/seduction	15/03/17 05:25 AM
1	Knowing if you're in the friend zone and how to get out?		coloneljackson	/r/seduction	21/03/17 03:03 AM

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1	Knowing if you're in the friend zone and how to get out? Maybe I should've clarified a little better. We're meeting at a brewery, where you can only get up to 36 oz of beer, so its not a normal bar (I didn't know this when we made the initial plan to go here, but I' kinda stuck wiht it now). Do you think theres a chance this is a shit test? And the other thing is that I don't have any guy friends that will be around at that time (maybe later like 11ish) because, like I said, I'm new. So I just feel like 2 girls and a guy would be awkward. And she keep…	/r/seduction	21/03/17 05:23 AM
1	Knowing if you're in the friend zone and how to get out? awesome, thanks for the perspective! How do you think I should respond to that text then? Because ideally, I would've liked to hang out thursday night or friday afternoon, go for the kiss, and then spring the "tell my friends to get with your friends" thing for that friday or saturday night. I was thinking this before she even sent that message. Also - it's kind of up in the air regarding her intentions for meeting friday night; the place we were planning on meeting is a bar that closes at 9 (i …	/r/seduction	21/03/17 04:23 AM
1	How to retain attraction through texting? THANK YOU! I can see how that dream line is cool and all, but idk if it's me. And I don't wanna come off as disingenuous. Will definitely consider it but idk what I'd say when the time comes to tell her what my dream was about lol. Outside of "attraction" what would you say the general point or points of your messages are? Do you have a general outline or format? Not trying to berate you with the questions but you're being super helpful and I think if I can understand more of what youre saying I…	/r/seduction	15/03/17 09:03 PM
1	How to retain attraction through texting? Thanks, this is super helpful. But I have a couple questions. In the few times that I've felt like texting her, the content has felt chit-chatty. For example, she used a slang phrase that I playfully made fun of for not making sense. But then a few days later I realized that the phrase did make sense and thought my misunderstanding was pretty funny. I thought about texting her, making fun of myself, but didn't send it because there didn't seem to be a point. I figured I'd just tell her the next …	/r/seduction	15/03/17 08:16 PM
2	How to retain attraction through texting? Exactly man! I know we're not alone here. There's gotta be something or someone out there to address this with a better understanding. I understand things vary from girl to girl, but there's gotta be some better general advice out there.	/r/seduction	15/03/17 07:16 PM
2	How to retain attraction through texting? Absolutely. But I'm not thinking necessarily about what to say (which i'm still not so sure about), but more so, when to say it and how often? At what point is someone being too needy or obsessive? Where's that line and how do you know when you're approaching it without going over? That may be my gripe here; it seems like seddit is almost preaching two conflicting things, without instructing how to find a balance. It's like, "Don't be needy, clingy, obsessive, make her chase you, etc, BUT ALSO, …	/r/seduction	15/03/17 07:07 PM
2	How to retain attraction through texting? Shit I haven't really considered other dudes like that. You're scaring me man! lol. Idk maybe we're both worrying too much. Based off this girl's social media, she doesn't seem to be the type to get that kind of attention. Like zero comments from dudes on her selfies. That could be why I'm thrown off; IMO this girl is absolutely gorgeous, but doesn't get that social media flattery other girls get. Who knows, maybe it's a red flag or maybe I'm in some type of Shallow Hal scenario lol.	/r/seduction	15/03/17 06:15 PM
1	How to retain attraction through texting? Those guides are more guided towards texting in between getting the number and first date. The only advice either of them give you, regarding text game after a date or two says exactly "Calibration, congruence, don't screw shit up." WTF is that supposed to mean? This is what I'm trying to understand with this post.	/r/seduction	15/03/17 06:00 PM
1	How to retain attraction through texting? In learning from your mistakes, would you recommend I keep the texting game strong then?	/r/seduction	15/03/17 05:43 PM
2	How to retain attraction through texting? Damn dude.. definitely feel you on that. I rarely text anyone just to chat, including my some of best friends who live across the country. I'd much rather call or meet in person. And the big issue with meeting up in person for me is that we both have 40-50 min commutes to work everyday. I'm also new to the city and this style of living, so I've been trying not to push too hard on meeting up during the week.	/r/seduction	15/03/17 05:41 PM
1	How to retain attraction through texting? Sheeit I've been going like 2-3 day stretches without saying anything...	/r/seduction	15/03/17 05:33 PM