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Good post, thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction19/06/17 06:18 PM
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Good question. About being a virgin, women never really asked this. I don't think they cared that much. I was honest that I had never had a long term girlfriend, but I didn't consider this a big deal because I was confident in other aspects of my life and had developed self confidence. About being a late bloomer, yeah I told them I hadn't been with many girls if it came up. But again, I was ok with this and treated this fact with a "no big deal" attitude.
/r/seduction19/06/17 01:45 AM
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Yeah, I responded to the same question below
/r/seduction18/06/17 06:52 PM
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Yeah this is tricky but important One example, I was in a logical conversation with a date and it was getting bland. We were eating popcorn and I decided to start tossing it into her mouth. Soon we were feeding each other the popcorn. Totally random but we were both laughing and had sexual tension. Completely random stuff can work if there's positive emotion behind it. Maybe bring up something that you think is really funny or exciting(a story or something). If you truly are excited by the topic…
/r/seduction18/06/17 06:03 PM
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Yeah, it was a real mind-fuck when this first happened..
/r/seduction18/06/17 04:24 PM
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Like I wrote above, activities/groups are really good ways. You're often going to be more attractive when you're doing something you're good at or enjoy. When you're known in any group, you'll have social proof which can help. Also, dating apps can be good (hinge/bumble/tinder). This upside with these is that you're isolating the women who are looking to date people (as opposed to on the street, where not everyone is looking to find a person to date). I just had to get used to messaging as many …
/r/seduction18/06/17 04:22 PM
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I'd try to read whether she's actually attracted to you or not. For me, what often happens is that the girl is interested in me but just happens to socialize with lots of people just to be nice, get to know them, etc. She just likes to be social. In this case, just be cool and socialize with everyone and she'll reconnect with you shortly. Even if she doesn't come back to you, re-engage with her and judge whether she's interested in you. Often times she is still interested, just gets caught up in…
/r/seduction18/06/17 04:12 PM
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Yeah for me activities are super important. I do improv comedy, and after a while (it takes me a while) you feel somewhat a part of a community. Then you can bring girls into your community or find girls in the community. If you can show that you're respected by some group, this goes a long way. This is why it's been easier for me to meet people in my circles than in bars. But this can be anything: running, volunteering, sport teams, fitness classes. Even if none of your close friends are girls,…
/r/seduction18/06/17 03:59 PM
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Totally, looks are important for sure. For me personally, I just put to much emphasis on this ( I focused a lot of time on working out and very little on friend groups). I got to a point where working out was only improving my results minimally, and shifting to make friends would have led to greater gains (low hanging fruit). I've found that as an introvert, I can still build social proof effectively while not faking it. I'm more comfortable with deeper 1-1 conversations and this led a small num…
/r/seduction18/06/17 03:46 PM
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In the early stages (1-3 dates) this usually doesn't get asked. If she does ask this early on, I would be honest as I can and say "I've been meeting different people" or something along that line. However, you probably should let her know if you're sleeping with multiple people (this hasn't happened a lot for me because I rarely have sex after 1 or 2 dates). After 4 or 5 dates I might begin to peel back pursuing other people.
/r/seduction18/06/17 01:16 PM
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Right, this more applies after multiple dates
/r/seduction18/06/17 01:05 PM
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